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It was narrated from Umm Qays bint Mihsan that she brought a small son of hers, who was not yet eating solid food, to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sat the child in his lap, and the child urinated on his garment. So he called for water and sprinkled it [on the urine], and he did not wash it..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pay attention to matters of purification and explain the rulings thereon, which included the method of purifying the urine of nursing infants.
In this hadith, the Sahabiyyah Umm Qays bint Mihsan (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she brought a small son of hers to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Her describing the child as not yet eating solid food indicates that the child was still breast-feeding. It was their custom to bring their children to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) so that he could pray for them and bless them. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) took the child from her and sat him in his lap, and the child urinated on his garment, but he did no more than sprinkle water on the garment, and he did not wash it. This is by way of making it easy to purify garments from the urine of breast-feeding infants who are not yet eating solid food. In other reports, it is proven that he sprinkled water over the urine of a boy, but washed the urine of a girl.
This hadith highlights the good attitude of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and how he comforted and uplifted adults by honouring their children and sitting them in his lap, and so on..

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It was narrated that Abu Wa’il said: Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari was very strict concerning urine, and he said: Among the Children of Israel, if urine got on the garments of one of them, he would cut it off. Then Hudhayfah said: I wish he would stop [being so strict]; the Messenger of Allah came to the garbage dump of some people and urinated standing..

Commentary : Islam is a religion of ease, and it made easier for the Muslims many of the rulings that had been imposed on previous nations. One example of that is how it made the matter of purification and removing impurities, if they contaminate someone, easy.
In this hadith, the Tabi‘i Abu Wa’il Shaqiq ibn Salamah narrates that Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with him) was very strict in taking precautions regarding urine, to the extent that it was said that he would urinate in a bottle, for fear of any of it contaminating him. He said that among the Children of Israel, if urine contaminated the garment of one of them, he would cut it off, meaning that he would cut off the part of his garment that had become contaminated with urine. Hudhayfah ibn al-Yaman (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I wish Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari would stop being so strict regarding this matter, because it is contrary to the Sunnah. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came to the garbage dump of some people, and urinated standing, and undoubtedly when one stands, there is bound to be some splashback, but he did not go to the trouble of urinating in a bottle and the like. This is by way of not causing too much hardship for people, because in principle whatever impurity (najasah) contaminates a person’s clothes or body may be purified with water, so if the Muslim pays attention to what he thinks was most likely contaminated with urine and the like, he should pour water over it where it can be seen, then it becomes pure. It was said that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) urinated standing in that place because it was not possible to sit in that garbage dump, or because the impurity that would contaminate him if he sat would be greater than if he stood.
This hadith indicates that it is allowed to urinate standing if you are certain that you will not be contaminated with urine..

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It was narrated that Asma’ said: A woman came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: What do you think if one of us menstruates and the blood gets onto her garment – what should she do? He said: “Scratch it, then rub it with water and sprinkle water on it, and pray wearing it.”.

Commentary : Being clean and free of impure substances (najasah) is one of the essential conditions of prayer, and menstrual blood is impure in and of itself.
In this hadith, Asma’ bint Abi Bakr al-Siddiq (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that a woman came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to ask him about a garment that becomes contaminated with menstrual blood. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed her to scratch it, meaning that she should rub it in order to remove the impurity. That applies if the blood has dried on the garment. Then she should rub it with water, meaning that she should rub it with her fingers whilst pouring water onto it, so that the stain that the garment had absorbed will be loosened and removed. Then she should sprinkle water on it, pouring water on it little by little, until the traces of blood are removed by washing it. After cleaning the garment in this manner, it will be permissible for her to pray in it.
This hadith indicates that no specific number of times is stipulated in order to remove impurity by washing; rather what is required is simply to clean the garment. Then if any trace is left on it that is too difficult to remove, it may be overlooked. This is how Islam makes things easy for people.   .

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It was narrated that ‘A’ishah said: Fatimah bint Abi Hubaysh came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, I am a woman who bleeds continually and never becomes pure. Should I stop praying? The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No; rather that is a vein and is not menses. When the usual time of your menses comes, then stop praying, and when that time ends, wash the blood from yourself, then pray.” – He [one of the narrators] said: My father said: Then you should do wudu’ for each prayer, until that time comes again..

Commentary : The women of the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them), despite their shyness and modesty, would ask the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about matters having to do with purification that concerned them exclusively, such as menses (hayd) and irregular bleeding (istihadah).
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah, the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her) tells us that Fatimah bint Abi Hubaysh (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: I am a woman who bleeds continually (istihadah) and I never become pure, meaning that the bleeding never stopped. Irregular bleeding (istihadah) is non-menstrual bleeding that occurs after a woman’s normal period ends. Then she asked whether that bleeding came under the same rulings as menses, meaning that she should stop praying until it ended. But the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained to her that that was irregular bleeding, and it was bleeding caused by illness, that came from the rupture of a vein in the uterus that is called al-‘adhil. It is not regarded as menstrual bleeding according to Islamic teachings, and it does not come under the same rulings as menses. So when the time of the usual monthly period comes, which is the time when a woman usually used to menstruate before she began to suffer from irregular bleeding, she should stop praying when that time begins, whether it occurs at the beginning of the month, or in the middle, or at the end. Then when the time of her normal menses ends she should wash the traces of blood from herself and start praying again. What is meant is that she should continue to refrain from prayer, fasting and other things that are forbidden whilst menstruating for what had been the duration of her regular menses before she began to suffer from irregular bleeding. Then when that time ends, and she has completed the number of days that her menses used to last, at that point she is no longer menstruating, so she should wash the site of the bleeding in order to clean it, then do a complete ghusl in order to remove impurity (hadath).
Hisham [one of the narrators] narrated from his father, ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr: Then she should do wudu’ for every prayer during the time of irregular bleeding, until the next menses comes.
This hadith indicates that the Sahabah used to refer to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) concerning any issues that they encountered, and ask him about rulings, seeking answers concerning these matters..

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It was narrated that ‘Amr ibn Maymun said: I asked Sulayman ibn Yasar about a garment that gets contaminated with semen. He said: ‘A’ishah said: I would wash it from the garment of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), then he would go out to pray, with damp spots on the garment from its having been washed..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to take care of his body and garments by washing and cleaning them, whether that was in accordance with an Islamic ruling, or simply seeking to be clean.
In this report, ‘Amr ibn Maymun asked Sulayman ibn Yasaar about the ruling on a garment if it becomes contaminated with semen, which is the liquid that is emitted from a man’s penis when having intercourse or a wet dream; it is a thick, white substance. He replied by quoting what ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had narrated, that she used to wash the semen from the garment of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and she did not wash the entire garment. Then he would go out of her apartment to pray in the mosque, with damp spots on his garment, and he would pray wearing it. This indicates that a garment may be purified by washing away the semen. This washing applies if the semen is still wet. If it has dried, it may be scratched off the garment, as is mentioned in the report narrated by Muslim: I used to scratch it off the garment of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Every wound that a Muslim sustains in Allah’s cause will appear on the Day of Resurrection as it was at the time when he was stabbed; it will be flowing with blood, the colour of which will be the colour of blood, but its fragrance will be the fragrance of musk.”.

Commentary : Martyrdom in Allah’s cause is a great virtue, and the martyrs have a high status before Allah (may He be glorified). This hadith highlights some of the virtues of those who are martyred in Allah’s cause; in it the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) states that every wound that a Muslim sustains when fighting in Allah’s cause will appear on the Day of Resurrection as it was in this world when he was stabbed, flowing with blood. But even though its colour will be the colour of blood, its fragrance will be perfume, like the fragrance of musk. It was said that the wisdom behind the blood appearing on the Day of Resurrection as it was [when he was stabbed in this world] is that it will testify to the virtue of the individual and will testify against the one who killed him. The benefit of its fragrance is that this fragrance will spread in the place of standing, also to highlight the virtue of the person. Hence it is not prescribed to wash the bodies of martyrs who die in battle..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that he said: “No one of you should urinate into standing water that does not flow, then wash himself with it.”.

Commentary : Islam is a religion of purity and cleanliness, and it guides the Muslim to that which will preserve his cleanliness. One of the most important means of achieving cleanliness is water, so Islam instructs us to protect it and not let it be contaminated with impurities, or to throw filthy things into it.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) forbids urinating into standing water, which is stagnant water that does not flow and is not renewed, and then washing oneself with it. This prohibition is so that this action will not lead to the water becoming impure or being spoiled so that people find it off-putting. Moreover, such water is not fit to be used for washing oneself.
In a report narrated by Muslim, there is an explanation of how to wash oneself with standing water. In that report it says: he should scoop the water out from it, meaning that he should take water from that pond or pool, then wash himself away from it. This also comes under the heading of protecting clean and pure water that is fit to be used, because the Muslim is enjoined to protect and preserve all kinds of water, whether flowing or stagnant. The emphasis is on being careful to preserve stagnant water because it is not renewed, and it is more likely to change or become spoiled if something is thrown into it, let alone if what is thrown into it is something impure (najis), such as urine and the like. .

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spat into his garment..

Commentary : The lives of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and of his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were not lives of ease and luxury; rather hardship and roughness were the hallmarks of the lives of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and his companions. Hence there was no sign of luxury in his life, and instead of handkerchiefs, they would use the edge of their garments. In this hadith, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spat into his garment. Spitting refers to expelling saliva or mucus from the mouth by blowing it out. It may be understood that this happened during the prayer, because the Muslim is required to respect the qiblah and the mosque, and he is enjoined to bury his phlegm if he has no choice but to spit it out [whilst praying], as is proven in various reports.
This hadith indicates that spittle and phlegm are pure (tahir)..

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It was narrated from Abu Hazim that he heard Sahl ibn Sa‘d as-Sa‘idi when the people asked him, and there was no one between me and him: With what were the wounds of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) treated? He said: There is no one left who knows more about that than me. ‘Ali brought his shield, in which there was water, and Fatimah washed the blood from his face, then a small reed mat was taken and burned, and applied to his wounds..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was injured during the battle of Uhud; he received cuts to his head and face. In this hadith, the Tabi‘i Abu Hazim Salamah ibn Dinar al-Madini narrates that Sahl ibn Sa‘d as-Sa‘idi (may Allah be pleased with him) was asked how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was treated for the injuries that he had sustained on the day of Uhud. He replied: There is no one left who knows more about that than me. That was because he was the last of the Sahabah to die in Madinah; he died in 91 AH at the age of one hundred years. He narrated that ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) brought water in his shield, which is a piece of personal armour that is used to protect a fighter from being struck by arrows and swords. Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) washed the blood from the wounds, and when she saw that the bleeding would not stop, she burned a small reed mat, then took the ashes and put them on the wound in order to stop the bleeding.
This hadith indicates that trials and calamities befell the Prophets (blessings and peace of Allah be upon them) so that they might attain immense reward, so that their nations and others would know what befell them and thus follow their example, and so that they might know that they were human beings who experienced what other humans experience.
It indicates that a woman may interact with her father and mahrams, show kindness to them and treat them when they are sick or injured.
It indicates that it is valid to seek medical treatment.
It indicates that one who has no knowledge may ask one who does have knowledge about something that he does not know..

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It was narrated that Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari said: I came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and I found him cleaning his teeth with a siwak that he had in his hand, saying, “Agh, agh” with the siwak in his mouth, as if he was retching..

Commentary : The siwak is a stick cut from the arak tree. It is used to clean the mouth and teeth, to perfume the mouth and to remove bad smells. It is a confirmed Sunnah of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and he would enjoin people to use it. It is cleansing for the mouth and pleasing to the Lord, as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said.
This hadith highlights how extensively the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would clean his mouth with the siwak, as Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was cleaning his teeth with a siwak, reaching to the furthest part of the throat, to the extent that he made a sound as if he were going to vomit, saying “Agh, agh.” This is describing the sound made when he using the siwak, because of how extensively he was cleaning his teeth and mouth with it.
This hadith highlights the virtue and importance of the siwak..

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It was narrated that Hudhayfah said: When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) got up to pray at night, he would clean his mouth with a siwak..

Commentary : The siwak is a stick cut from the arak tree. It is used to clean the mouth and teeth, to perfume the mouth and to remove bad smells. It is one of the most emphatically confirmed Sunnahs of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as he often cleaned his teeth with a siwak and enjoined others to do likewise. It is more important to use it at some times than others, such as what is mentioned in this hadith, which speaks of offering voluntary prayers at night (qiyam al-layl). Hudhayfah ibn al-Yaman (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to get up to pray qiyam al-layl and tahajjud, he would clean his mouth with the siwak, meaning that he would pass it over his teeth and rub them with it. He did that to take away any bad smell, so that he could recite Qur’an and offer du‘a’ in his prayer.
This hadith highlights the virtue and importance of the siwak..

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It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “I saw myself [in a dream] cleaning my teeth with a siwak. Then two men came to me, one of whom was older than the other, and I gave the siwak to the younger one, but it was said to me: Give it to the older one, so I gave it to the older of the two.”.

Commentary : The dreams of the Prophets are true. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw in a dream that he was cleaning his teeth with a siwak, which is a stick cut from the arak tree. It is used to clean the mouth and teeth, to perfume the mouth and to remove bad smells. Then two men came to him, one of whom was older than the other, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave the siwak to the younger of them. Then it was said to him: Give it to the older one, meaning: give precedence to the older one. The one who told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to give it to the older one was Jibril (peace be upon him). So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave it to the older one.
This hadith indicates that proper etiquette is to give precedence in a gathering to one who is older over one who is younger. This is the Sunnah when saying salaam and greeting people, when offering drinks and perfume, and other matters.
It highlights the virtue and importance of the siwak..

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It was narrated that al-Bara’ ibn ‘Azib said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When you go to your bed, do wudoo’ as for prayer, then lie down on your right side and say: Allahumma aslamtu wajhi ilayka wa fawwadtu amri ilayka wa alja’tu zahri ilayka raghbatan wa rahbatan ilayka, la malja’a wa laa manjaa minka illa ilayka. Allahumma amantu bi kitabika alladhi anzalta wa bi nabiyyika alladhi arsalta (O Allah I submit my face to You, and I entrust my affairs to You, and I seek Your protection, in hope and in fear of You. Indeed there is no refuge nor safe haven from You except with You. O Allah, I believe in Your Book which You have revealed and in Your Prophet whom You have sent).
Then if you die during the night, you will have died in a state of fitrah (sound human nature). Make these the last words that you speak.”
He said: I repeated it back to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and when I reached the words. “Allahumma amantu bi kitabika allahi anzalta (O Allah, I believe in Your Book which You have revealed),” I said: “Wa rasulika (And Your Messenger).” He said: “No. Wa nabiyyika alladhi arsalta (and Your Prophet whom You sent).”
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Commentary : This hadith highlights the etiquette of going to sleep, and what is to be said when laying down in one’s bed, as al-Bara’ ibn ‘Azib (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “When you go to your bed”, meaning: when you want to go to sleep, then do wudu’ properly before you go to bed, as if you were doing wudu’ for prayer. Then lie down on your right side, because it is more effective in giving you energy and making you content with a little sleep, and it is more effective in helping you to wake up at the end of the night, and is more beneficial for the heart. Then say: “O Allah I submit my face to You” meaning: I submit my soul to You when going to sleep, and entrust it to You for safekeeping.
“and I entrust my affairs to You”, so I put my trust in You in all my affairs, hoping that You will suffice me in all things, and protect me from all ills.
“and I rely totally on You”, seeking Your protection and turning to You, so that You will keep me under Your watchful eye that never sleeps. Saying “and I seek Your protection” after “and I entrust my affairs to You” indicates that after entrusting to Allah his affairs that he needs to be in order and that are essential to his well-being, he turns to Allah for protection from that which could cause him harm and damage from various causes, both internal and external.
And I only do that “in hope” that is, hoping for Your mercy, “ and in fear of You” that is, fearing You and Your punishment, for there is no escape from You except to You, and no protection from Your punishment except by turning to Your pardon and forgiveness, O Most Merciful of those who show mercy.
“I believe in Your Book which You have revealed” namely the Qur’an, and I believe “in Your Prophet whom You have sent”, namely Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him of the reward for the one who does that, which is that the one who dies that night in that state, will have died adhering to the religion of Islam and to the Sunnah of the best of mankind.
Because al-Bara’ was so keen to memorize this du‘a’, he repeated it back to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), but he said “Rasulika (Your Messenger)” instead of “Nabiyyika (Your Prophet)”, so the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) corrected him. The reason why he corrected him was that he wanted it to refer to both positions, being a Prophet and being a Messenger, and to refer to both blessings. And it was said that that was so as to avoid any ambiguity, because the word rasul (messenger) could also include Jibril (peace be upon him) and others. And it was said that this is dhikr and du‘a’, so it should be limited to the exact wording that was narrated, because of the possibility that there might be something special about these exact words that is not applicable to other words.
This hadith highlights how greatly the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) cared for his ummah in this world and the hereafter, and how he wanted them to die in a state of obedience and closeness to Allah (may He be glorified and exalted).
It encourages us to do wudu’ and offer du‘a’ before going to sleep, so that the last thing the Muslim does is remembering Allah (may He be exalted). .

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It was narrated from ‘A’ishah, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah, he would start by washing his hands, then he would do wudu’ as for prayer, then he would put his fingers in the water [that he had poured on his head] to make the water to reach the roots of his hair. Then he would pour water over his head three times, using both hands, then pour water over his entire body..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) loved to be in a state of purity and to keep himself clean all the time. He often taught his companions how to purify themselves and what purification was.
In this hadith, the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) tells us that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to purify himself and do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah – the word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself – he would begin by washing his hands, before putting them into the water, by pouring water over them and washing them first. Then after that, he would do wudu’ as if for prayer, a complete wudu’. Then after that he would put his fingers in the water [that he had poured on his head] to make the water reach the scalp. Then he would pour a handful of water over his head three times. Then after that he would pour water over his entire body, making it reach all of his skin.
This hadith highlights the practice of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) with regard to doing ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah.
It highlights the fact that purification and cleanliness are characteristics of Islam and the Muslims.
It indicates that a little water is sufficient to do ghusl to cleanse oneself from janabah..

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It was narrated that Abu Salamah said: A’ishah’s brother and I went to visit ‘A’ishah, and her brother asked her about the ghusl of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). She called for a vessel that was approximately the size of a sa‘ and did ghusl, pouring water over her head. Between us and her there was a screen. Yazid ibn Harun, Bahz and al-Jadiy narrated from Shu‘bah that it was the size of a sa‘..

Commentary : In this hadith, the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) describes how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl. What is meant by ghusl is that which removes the janabah (state of impurity) that results from emitting maniy (semen) or having intercourse. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl with an amount of water that would fill a vessel that holds a sa‘. The sa‘ is a unit of measurement equivalent to four mudds or eight ratls. There is a difference of opinion regarding the equivalent to the ratl in terms of modern units of measurement. It is said that the ratl is equivalent to approximately 380 grams, or less than half a litre; or it is said that it is equivalent to 538 grams, or more than half a litre.
Then Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abdul Rahman ibn ‘Awf said that ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) explained to him and her brother, ‘Abdul Rahman ibn Abi Bakr al-Siddiq – or it was said that it was ‘Abdullah ibn Yazid, her foster-brother – in practical terms how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl with this amount of water. She called for a vessel the size of a sa‘, and did ghusl from it.
There was a screen between her and them, hence they did not see anything but the pouring of water on her head. Abu Salamah was the son of ‘A’ishah’s foster sister; he had been breast-fed by Umm Kalthum, the daughter of Abu Bakr. So the two men present were her mahrams. Hence they saw nothing of her ghusl except the pouring of water onto her head, for that is what is permissible for a man to see of the woman who is his mahram. Were it not that they saw that, there would have been no point in calling for water to be brought and purifying herself in their presence, because if she did all of that behind a screen, where they could not see her at all, it would have been sufficient for her to teach them in words only. She only put the screen to cover the lower part of her body, and what it is not permissible for a mahram to look at..

1405
Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh reported: We used to engage in Mut'ah in return for a handful of dates and flour during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and Abu Bakr until 'Umar forbade it in the case of 'Amr ibn Hurayth..

Commentary : The Shar'i marriage is a system that establishes a united family, preserves each party's rights, and highlights human dignity. Mut'ah marriage, on the other hand, damages society and causes loss for women. A man may like a woman and marry her for a specific period in return for a certain compensation. This is no more than fulfilling lust, and it leads to many evils; that's why it was more appropriate to forbid it.
In this Hadīth, Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that they used to marry women for enjoyment and fulfilling lust, and this was permissible and then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) declared it unlawful. This kind of relationship was so lowly that they would agree to "a handful of dates and flour" as a dowry or gift from the man to the woman, which is a small amount, equivalent to a meal. Jābir (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that they continued to do so while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was living among them. Then, when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away, they engaged in Mut'ah marriage during the caliphate of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) until 'Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) forbade it during his caliphate, in the case of the Companion' Amr ibn Hurayth. 'Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) married a woman by Mut'ah marriage during the reign of 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), and she got pregnant from him. The statement of Jābir and the action of 'Amr (may Allah be pleased with both of them) are taken to indicate that the Prophet's prohibition of such marriage did not reach them.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) permitted the Mut'ah marriage in the beginning and then forbade it later during the battle of Khyber until the Day of Judgment, and he declared it unlawful during the Farewell Hajj, as narrated by Al-Bukhāri, Muslim, and others.
The Hadīth indicates that Mut‘ah marriage is forbidden.
It warns against doing anything forbidden by the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
It also points out that the ruler can force specific rulings on the people to serve the interests of society..

1406
Sabrah al-Juhani reported: I married a woman from Banu' Āmir by Mut'ah marriage during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for two red Burds (cloaks). Then, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade us from Mut'ah..

Commentary : Islam has established the Shar‘i marriage system on the most just standard to preserve progeny and honor, and it has forbidden all means of enjoying women that were widespread in Jāhiliyyah and which do not protect their rights. It began to legislate that gradually so that people could adopt it rightly.
In this Hadīth, Sabrah ibn Ma‘bad al-Juhani (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that he married women by Mut‘ah marriage during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Mut‘ah is one of the kinds of marriage in which a man enjoys a woman in return for compensation agreed by them and for a specified period, and the marriage ends with the elapse of that period. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that he married a woman from Banu ‘Āmir by Mut‘ah marriage and gave her two red Burds, a reference to her dowry. Burd: a striped garment opened from the front and placed on the shoulders like a cloak, yet it is smaller than it. A person can wrap it around himself or let it hang down. Then, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade Muslims from Mut‘ah marriage. Another version by Muslim points out that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade it in the year of the Conquest of Makkah.
The Mut'ah marriage was known during the early stages of Islam, and the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not forbid them from it during their travels, given their need for it. However, he forbade them from it during their stay and residence in their countries. The ruling of the Mut'ah marriage passed through various phases, as the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade them from it more than once. Then, he ordered them to engage in it at various times until he made it permanently forbidden. Forbidding the Mut'ah marriage was reported in many narrations, which point out that the prohibition was during the Conquest of Makkah, and this is the most famous opinion, or during the battle of Awtās, or the battle of Khaybar, or during the Prophet's last days in the Farewell Hajj. It was a permanent prohibition, not a temporary one, thus leaving no room for any difference of opinion among the jurists and the leading scholars of the Ummah. Only some of the Shiites hold a different opinion, and their opinion does not count..

1406
Ar-Rabī‘ ibn Sabrah reported that his father joined battle along with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) during the Conquest of Makkah. He said: We stayed in it for fifteen; thirty including days and nights. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) permitted us to engage in Mut‘ah marriage to women. A man from my people and I went out. I surpassed him in beauty, and he was close to ugliness. Each of us had a Burd (cloak). My Burd was old, while the Burd of my cousin was new and fresh. When we reached the south of Makkah - or its north - we came across a girl like a young smart long-necked she-camel. We said: "Would you agree that one of us engage in Mut‘ah marriage with you?" She said: "What would you give?" Each of us spread out his Burd, and she began to look at the two men and my companion saw her looking on her side. He said: "The Burd of this is old, and my Burd is new and fresh." She said: "The Burd of this is not bad," three times or twice. Then, I engaged in Mut‘ah marriage with her, and I did not come out of it until the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) declared it unlawful. [In a version]: He added: She said: Is this valid? And he said: The Burd of this is old and worn-out..

Commentary : Islam has established the Shar‘i marriage system on the best methods for preserving progeny and honor, and it has forbidden the ways of enjoying women, which were prevalent during Jāhiliyyah and did not protect their rights. It was legislated gradually so people could adopt it rightly and not turn away all at once.
In this Hadīth, Sabrah ibn Ma‘bad (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that he joined the battle along with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in the Conquest of Makkah, in 8 A.H., and they stayed there for fifteen nights along with fifteen days. Thus, the total of nights and days was thirty. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave them permission to engage in Mut'ah marriage with women in return for compensation they would agree for a specific period, and it would come to an end with the elapse of this time. So, Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) went out along with a man from his people, who was his cousin, as will be mentioned in this narration. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) was more good-looking than him, and the other man was close to ugliness, i.e., unpleasant look and bad appearance. Each of them had a Burd he wanted to give to the woman he would marry by Mut‘ah. Burd: a striped garment opened from the front and placed on the shoulders like a cloak, yet it is smaller than it. A person can wrap it around himself or let it hang down. The garment of Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) was old and worn out, whereas the Burd of his cousin was new. They kept searching until they reached the south of Makkah or its north. There, they came across a girl like "a young smart long-necked she-camel", i.e., she had a long, straight neck and shapely figure. They presented themselves to her so that she could choose one of them to marry her by Mut'ah. In another version, she asked them: "Is this valid?" She meant the validity of this kind of marriage as to whether it is lawful and permissible to enjoy a woman for a certain period of time! He replied to her in the affirmative, as narrated in the Mustakhraj of Abu ‘Awānah. She asked them: What would you offer in return for this marriage? Thereupon, each of them spread out his Burd. She began to look at the two men and compare between them. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: And my companion was looking at her while she was looking on her side. When he saw her in this state, he said: The Burd of this is old, and my Burd is new and fresh, seeking to attract her to himself and keep her away from Sabrah. And in a version, he said: "The Burd of this is old and worn-out." She said: The Burd of this young man is not bad - three times or twice - as if she was reconsidering the matter and thinking of choosing the more youthful of the two men, regardless of how good the Burd was. She chose Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him), and he married her by Mut‘ah. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that he did not leave her until the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) declared the Mut‘ah marriage unlawful. In another version by Muslim: "I stayed with her for three. Then, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever has any of these women with whom he engaged in Mut‘ah marriage should let her go."
The Hadīth points out that Mut‘ah marriage was permanently prohibited after it had been permissible.
It affirms the existence of abrogation in the Sunnah..

1406
‘Urwah ibn az-Zubayr reported: 'Abdullāh ibn az-Zubayr stood up in Makkah and said: "Allah has made blind the hearts of some people as He has deprived them of eyesight that they give a Fatwa in favor of Mut'ah", alluding to a certain man. He called him and said: "You are uncouth and coarse. By my life, Mut'ah was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious", referring to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Thereupon, Ibn Az-Zubayr said to him: "Do it yourself, and by Allah, if you do that, I will stone you with your stones.".

Commentary : Islam came to preserve honor, as the preservation of honor is one of the five necessities that all divine legislations came to preserve, and these are: religion, life, honor, mind, and wealth.
This Hadīth points out that the issue of Mut‘ah marriage was subject to disagreement among some of the Companions. During the days of his caliphate in the Hejaz, ‘Abdullāh ibn az-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) stood up to deliver a speech in Makkah, and he said: "Allah has made the hearts of some people blind", i.e., to the truth "as He has deprived them of eyesight", making them unable to see that they give a Fatwa to the people permitting Mut'ah marriage, which is a contract entailing enjoyment of a woman for a specific period in return for a certain dowry. By this statement of his, Ibn az-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) was "alluding to a certain man", namely 'Abdullāh ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him), who lost his eyesight in the latter part of his life. Thereupon, Ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) - who was attending the sermon - called him and said: "You are uncouth and coarse", i.e., you are simple-minded, rude, and harsh. Then, he said: "By my life, Mut‘ah was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious", referring to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). This is an oath he took over this matter. Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) had his personal interpretation of the texts that prohibit Mut‘ah marriage, as he maintained that it is permissible in case of necessity or the like. So, Ibn az-Zubayr said to him: "Do it yourselves, and by Allah, if you do that, I will stone you with your stones" i.e., Mut‘ah marriage is unlawful. So, if you do it after that, you will become an adulterer and you will be punished by stoning to death.
Indeed, Ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) spoke the truth when he said that it was practiced during the lifetime of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). But Ibn Az-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) was in the right, for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while the prohibition of Mut'ah was the latter of the two relevant rulings.
The Hadīth shows that Mut‘ah marriage is prohibited.
It also indicates that the ruler can talk to the scholars regarding their Fatwas and choose for the people what serves the best interests of society..

1406
Sabrah al-Juhani reported: that he was with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he said: "O people, I had permitted you to engage in Mut‘ah with women, and indeed Allah has forbidden that until the Day of Judgment. So, he who has any of these women should let her go, and do not take back anything you have given them.".

Commentary : The Mut‘ah marriage is a fixed-term marriage, with the word 'tamattu‘' (enjoyment) verbally stated, in return for an amount of money. In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "O people, I had permitted you to engage in Mut‘ah with women" i.e., in the beginning, but the matter has finally been decided now. He clarified to the people that Allah, Exalted be He, forbade the Mut‘ah marriage altogether till the Day of Judgment.
The Mut'ah marriage was known during the early stages of Islam, and the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not forbid them from it during their travels, given their need for it. However, he forbade them from it during their stay and residence in their countries. The ruling of the Mut‘ah marriage passed through various phases; the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade them from it more than once; then, he ordered them to engage in it at various times until he made it permanently forbidden. Forbidding the Mut'ah marriage was reported in many narrations, which point out that the prohibition was during the Conquest of Makkah in the eighth Hijri year, and this is the most famous opinion, or during the battle of Awtās, also in the eighth Hijri year, or during the battle of Khaybar in the seventh Hijri year, or the Prophet's last days in the Farewell Hajj. It was a permanent prohibition, not a temporary one. So, the right thing is that Mut‘ah marriage was abrogated more than once. It was permitted during the battle of Khaybar and then forbidden therein, and then it was permitted in the year of the Conquest of Makkah, which is the year of the battle of Awtās, and then it was permanently forbidden. No difference of opinion remains among the jurists and the scholars of the Ummah over this issue, and none disagrees with that except some Shiites, whose view does not count.
Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded those engaged in Mut'ah marriage to separate from the women married to them, for they were not lawful to them. He also commanded that the man should not take anything of what he gave to the woman in return for enjoying her, even if the separation took place before the appointed period, as she deserved that by copulation with her..

1406
Khālid ibn al-Muhājir ibn Sayfullāh reported: that while he was sitting in the company of a man, a man came to him and asked for a Fatwa on Mut‘ah. He enjoined him to engage in it. Thereupon, Ibn Abi ‘Amrah al-Ansāri said to him: 'Wait.' He said: "What is it?! By Allah, it was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious." Ibn Abi ‘Amrah said: "It was a dispensation in the early days of Islam for one who was driven to it by necessity, just like carrion, blood, and pork. Then Allah finally established the religion and prohibited it altogether.".

Commentary : When Islam came, it was keen to preserve the five necessities that all divine legislations came to preserve, and these are: religion, life, honor, mind, and wealth. It began to be legislated for society gradually so that people could adopt it rightly and not forsake it all at once.
In this Hadīth, the noble Tābi‘i Khālid ibn al-Muhājir ibn Sayfullāh informs that while he was sitting with a man - who was ‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him), according to the Mustakhraj of Abu ‘Awānah - a man came to him and sought a Fatwa from him about the ruling on marrying women by Mut‘ah marriage for a specific period in return for compensation agreed between them; Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him), permitted him to marry women by Mut‘ah marriage. Thereupon, the Tābi‘i Ibn Abi ‘Amrah al-Ansāri - Muhammad ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān ibn Hārithah - said to Ibn ‘Abbās: 'Wait!' i.e., stop and do not rush. Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him: "What is it?!" i.e., what is the matter that could prevent me from giving this Fatwa?! It seems he was criticizing him. By this, Ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to reject Ibn Abi' Amrah's disapproval of his Fatwa. Then, he swore by Allah that it was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious, referring to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The meaning: How could you criticize me while the people practiced it during the lifetime of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), at his command?! In reply, Ibn Abi ‘Amrah said that Mut‘ah was a dispensation for Muslims in the early days of Islam for those driven to it by necessity, just like a person driven by necessity to eat carrion, blood, and pork, if he is on the verge of death due to severe hunger. Then Allah completed the religion, perfected His commands and prohibitions, and permanently forbade marrying women by Mut‘ah marriage. Indeed, Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) spoke the truth when he swore that it was practiced during the lifetime of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). But Ibn Abi ‘Amrah was right, for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while the prohibition of Mut‘ah was the latter of the two relevant rulings.
The Hadīth demonstrates that some of the Shar‘i rulings were superseded (abrogated).
It indicates that taking an oath for emphasis is legitimate.
It also shows that a great scholar may be unaware of some Shar‘i issues..

1409
‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The Muhrim (one in the state of Ihrām) must neither marry, nor give someone in marriage, nor get engaged.".

Commentary : Performing Hajj to Allah's Sacred House - for whoever finds a way thereto - is one of the pillars of Islam and one of its great rituals. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) taught us its pillars and how to make Ihrām (ritual state of consecration) for it. He clarified what the Muhrim is allowed to do and what he is not allowed to do.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "The Muhrim must neither marry," i.e., the Muhrim - who intends by his Ihrām Hajj, ‘Umrah, or both - must not contract marriage for himself and must not marry a woman. "Nor give someone in marriage," i.e., or give someone in marriage through guardianship or proxy. Since he himself is forbidden from getting married during the period of Ihrām; therefore, he is not to give someone in marriage during this period. Also, he should not "get engaged," as this involves hinting at a proposal of marriage. The secret behind such a prohibition is the fact that the Muhrim has engaged in an act of worship that takes up most of his time, so he must not be occupied with anything else that is not consistent with the state of such an act of worship. Allah has forbidden Rafath - which is sexual intercourse with women and what leads to it - while performing Hajj and its relevant acts, for marriage during the state of Ihrām calls one to commit Rafath. The purpose of this journey is to be devoted to Allah and to be occupied only with remembering Him, calling upon Allah loudly, declaring Allah's oneness, and making Dhikr and nothing else..

1409
Nubayh ibn Wahb reported: that ‘Umar ibn ‘Ubaydullāh ibn Ma‘mar intended to marry his son Talhah to the daughter of Shayba ibn Jubayr during Hajj. Abān ibn ‘Uthmān was the leader of pilgrims at that time. He sent someone to Abān saying: "I intend to marry Talhah ibn ‘Umar, and I like that you attend that." In reply, Abān said to him: "I find you to be a thickheaded Iraqi. I heard ‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān say: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: 'A Muhrim should not marry.'".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Nubayh ibn Wahb relates that the Tābi‘i ‘Umar ibn ‘Ubaydullāh wanted to marry his son Talhah to the daughter of Shaybah ibn Jubayr while they were in a state of Ihrām during Hajj. So, they wanted the Tābi‘i Abān ibn ‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān to attend the contract. Abān, who was the leader of the Hajj convoy at the time, said to him: "I find you to be a thickheaded Iraqi" i.e., ignorant of the Sunnah. In some versions: 'a Bedouin', and a Bedouin is someone who lives in the desert. It is said: 'Iraqi' here is erroneous, unless he knew that the doctrine of the people of Kufa at the time permitted a Muhrim to marry, in which case 'Iraqi' would be correct, and it would mean: You are adopting their doctrine. Thickheaded denotes roughness along with ignorance.
Then, ‘Abān told them that he heard ‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān (may Allah be pleased with him) say: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A Muhrim should not marry" i.e., a Muhrim should not get married. In a version in the Sahīh Muslim Collection: "And he should not marry others off," i.e., a man should not give a woman in marriage either as her guardian or representative. This is because a Muhrim is too busy to engage in marriage contracts, as this would necessarily distract his mind and make him unable to perform worship perfectly, for it involves proposing, asking, inviting, and meeting..

1411
Maymūnah bint al-Hārith reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married her when he was Halāl (outside the state of Ihrām). He said: She was my maternal aunt and the maternal aunt of Ibn ‘Abbās..

Commentary : Hajj is the fifth pillar of Islam. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified the rituals of Hajj in his words and deeds, which were reported by the noble Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) just as they had learned them from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). During Hajj, some of what is permissible becomes forbidden for the one who assumes Ihrām.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Yazīd ibn al-Asamm reports that his maternal aunt, Maymūnah bint al-Hārith (may Allah be pleased with her), wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married her when he was Halāl, i.e., was not a Muhrim (one in the state of Ihrām). In Abu Dāwūd's narration, Maymūnah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married me when we were both Halāl (outside the state of Ihrām) at Sarif." The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) contracted marriage with her on his way to Makkah to make ‘Umrah al-Qadā’ (deferred ‘Umrah) in 7 AH, before assuming Ihrām. Their marriage became known after he had assumed Ihrām. Then, he consummated marriage with her when he was outside the state of Ihrām on the way back to Madīnah in an area called Sarif, which is almost 10 kilometers away from Makkah, and it was said: 16 kilometers away, and there are other opinions as well.
Then, Yazīd reported that Maymūnah (may Allah be pleased with her) was his maternal aunt and the maternal aunt of Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) in reference to Ibn ‘Abbas's mistake in what he reported about the Prophet's marrying Maymūnah while being a Muhrim. However, Maymūnah (may Allah be pleased with her) certainly knew herself better than Ibn ‘Abbās. Moreover, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The Muhrim (one in the state of Ihrām) must neither marry, nor give someone in marriage, nor get engaged." [Narrated by Muslim].

1424
Abu Hurayrah reported: As I was in the company of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), a man came to him and told him that he married a woman from the Ansār. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Did you look at her?" He said: 'No.' He said: "Go and look at her, for indeed, there is something in the eyes of the Ansār.".

Commentary : Islam established the Shar‘i marriage system to preserve progeny and honor and it is keen on the continuity of cordiality and love between the two spouses and legislated means to this end from the beginning of engagement so that it would be more likely for them to continue their life together.
In this Hadīth, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that he was present with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) when a man came and informed him that he proposed marriage to a woman from the Ansār - the people of Madīnah - and wanted to marry her. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: "Did you look at her?" This is an instruction urging the man to look at the woman before proposing marriage, as this would encourage him to marry her or cause him to refrain from her. The man replied that he did not look at her. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) ordered him to go and look at her. In a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd and reported by Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh (may Allah be pleased with him): "When one of you asks a woman in marriage; if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, let him do so." This points out that a man should look at the woman by himself if he can, so as to see what encourages him to like and marry her.
Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified the reason behind his instruction to look at her, saying: "for indeed there is something in the eyes of the Ansār, " i.e., some disliked blueness, smallness, or the like. This signals that a man should usually look at the face and hands, as her beauty can be recognized from the face, and the tenderness of her body can be known through her hands. The looking should happen before betrothal, lest it will be hard for her if he decides to retract his proposal, in case he does not like her.
The Prophet's instruction serves a great interest. There may be something in the woman that would badly affect the continuity of their relationship after marriage, and he can identify it by looking at her, so he will leave her before the consummation of marriage; this would be lighter, simpler, and easier than consummating the marriage and divorcing her after that.
The Hadīth indicates that a man should look at his fiancée before marrying her.
It points out the excellence of the pure Shariah and its perfect guidelines, as it takes into consideration the interests of people by which their livelihood can be set in order in this world and the Hereafter without undergoing regret and sorrow over what was missed..

1426
Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: I asked ‘Ā’ishah: "How much was the Sadāq (dowry) paid by the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)?" She said: "His dowry for his wives was twelve ’Uqiyyahs and one Nashsh. Do you know what the Nashsh is?" I said: "No." She said: "It is a half ’Uqiyyah, so this equals five hundred dirhams, and it was the dowry that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) paid to his wives.".

Commentary : Sadāq is the dowry and the money paid to the woman when getting married. Allah Almighty has made it a right that is due to the woman. Allah Almighty says: {Give women their marriage dowries graciously.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 4]
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reports that he asked the Mother of the Believers, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): How much was the dowry paid by the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to his wives? She told him that it was twelve ’Uqiyyahs and one Nashsh. The ’Uqiyyah is forty dirhams, and the dirham refers to a coin made of pure silver, and one ’Uqiyyah is equal to 28.35 grams. The Nashsh is half a Uqiyyah. So, the dowry paid by the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to his wives was five hundred dirhams. It means that this is what the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) mostly paid to his wives, simply because Al-Bukhāri narrated that the dowry of Safiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) was emancipating her, and likewise the dowry of Juwayriyah bint al-Hārith was emancipating her. Moreover, An-Najāshi paid four thousand dirhams to Umm Habībah (may Allah be pleased with her) when he gave her in marriage to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). And no mention was made about the dowry of Zaynab bint Jahsh. So, the dowry does not have to be something specific; rather, it depends on everybody's ability and capability..

1428
Anas reported: When the waiting period of Zaynab was over, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to Zayd: "Make mention of me to her." He said: "Zayd went off until he came to her while she was fermenting her flour." He said: When I saw her, I felt her greatness in my chest, so much that I could not look at her; that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) made mention of her. So, I turned my back toward her and turned upon my heels. I said: "O Zaynab, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) has sent a message making mention of you." She said: "I will not do anything until I consult my Lord." So, she stood at her place of worship, and the Qur’an was revealed. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came and entered her place without permission. He said: I recall when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) served us bread and meat at midday. Then, the people went out, and some men remained talking in the house after the meal. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out, and I followed him. He began to go to his wives' rooms and greet them, and they would say: "O Messenger of Allah, how did you find your wife?" He said: I do not know whether I told him that the people had come out or he told me. He said: He moved on until he entered the house, and I went to enter with him. Thereupon, he placed the curtain between me and him, and the Hijab was sent down. He said: The people were preached by the preaching they received. He added in another version: {O you who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet unless you are given permission for a meal; not so early as to wait for the meal to be prepared... but Allah is not shy of [telling] the truth.} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 53].

Commentary : Zaynab bint Jahsh, the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her), was the daughter of Umaymah bint 'Abdul-Muttalib, the paternal aunt of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had married Zaynab off to his freed slave Zayd ibn Hārithah (may Allah be pleased with him), whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had adopted before Allah prohibited adoption. However, Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) saw herself as superior to Zayd, and they used to have such disputes between spouses until Zayd divorced her.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that when the divorce waiting period of Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came to an end, after Zayd ibn Hārithah (may Allah be pleased with him) divorced her; and the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advised Zayd regarding his wife before he divorced her, as revealed in the verse that reads: {And [remember, O Prophet] when you were saying to the one who was favored by Allah and favored by you: "Keep your wife and fear Allah."} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 37] And in the other part of the verse, Allah Almighty said to His Prophet: {and you were fearing people, while it was more fitting that you should fear Allah. When Zayd no longer desired her, We gave her to you in marriage.} Allah Almighty informed His Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) that Zayd would divorce Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that she would be his wife after Zayd divorced her. He, however, concealed that within himself, fearing that the hypocrites might defame him and spread rumors to the effect that he forbade that a man should marry the wife of his son, and he married the wife of Zayd, who used to be called Zayd ibn Muhammad before that was forbidden and adoption was abolished.
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him): "make mention of me to her" i.e., go and propose marriage to her on my behalf and mention me in her presence and say that I want to propose to her. Zayd left and reached her and saw her "fermenting her flour" i.e., preparing her dough for baking. Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that when his sight fell on her, he found it hard to look at her, as the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to propose to her. He treated her like the mothers of the believers and averted his gaze from her and turned his back toward her. He stepped backward and stood some distance away from her. This happened before Hijab was prescribed in the Qur’an.
Then Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) told her that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent him to propose marriage to her on his behalf. Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) told him that she would not give any response until she consulted her Lord and waited to see what Allah would do regarding her matter. So, she stood at her praying place in the house to offer the Istikhārah (consultation) prayer and "the Qur’an was revealed" i.e., the verses in Surat al-Ahzāb were revealed. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came to Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and entered her place without seeking permission, as she became his wife after Allah Almighty married her off to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) from above seven heavens.
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said that he remembered when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had served them bread and meat in the wedding banquet for his marriage to Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her). All this happened when it was midday and the heat of the sun became intense. Those who ate from the banquet went out and there remained some people who engaged in talking within the house of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came out and left them in the house, talking. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) came out after him because he was his servant and would always accompany him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went to the houses of his wives to check on them and learn about their conditions, and the Prophet's wives would ask him: "O Messenger of Allah, how did you find your wife?" In a version narrated by Al-Bukhāri, it was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) who asked the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), saying: "How did you find your wife? May Allah bless you." It is said: She said that by way of jesting. But it is more likely that she intended supplication for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to be blessed in his family and to be rest assured about them. In a version narrated by Muslim, the reply of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was: 'Fine.'
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that he could not remember: Was he the one who told the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) that the people, who had lingered and engaged in talking after the banquet, did leave, or it was the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) who told him about that? When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) became sure that they had come out of the house, he quickly went and entered the house of Zaynab. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) intended to enter with him, as usual, but the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) put a curtain between the two of them; this was because the verses on Hijab in Surat al-Ahzāb were revealed: {O you who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet unless you are given permission for a meal; not so early as to wait for the meal to be prepared. But if you are invited, then enter, and when you have eaten, then disperse, without lingering for conversation. Such [behavior] causes annoyance to the Prophet; he is too shy to express it to you, but Allah is not shy of [telling] the truth.} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 53]
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "The people were preached by the preaching they received", i.e., they complied with the command of Allah, the Glorified and Exalted, and the statement of His Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), and they came to know the error they committed as they stayed for long in the house of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and engaged in conversation.
The Hadīth points out the merit of Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her).
It indicates that a person should entrust his affairs to Allah Almighty in all his conditions.
It demonstrates the modesty of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
It urges performance of the Istikhārah prayer before undertaking any matter.
It also urges checking on one's family to rest assured about them..

1431
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If any of you is invited, let him accept the invitation. If he is fasting, let him pray (for the inviter); if he is not fasting, let him eat.".

Commentary : A manifestation of tolerance of Islam is taking into consideration solidarity and affection between people. Hence, it encourages responding to the inviter and deems it one of the rights that the Muslim owes to his brother, all for the sake of having a society where the spirit of love, brotherhood, solidarity, and coherence prevails.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs us that if one is invited for food - whether a banquet or something else - by his Muslim brother, he must accept the invitation and go. If one who received the food invitation happens to be fasting, whether it be a voluntary fast, a missed fast, or a vow; since the inviter would not have invited him if it had been an obligatory fast during Ramadān, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guides the fasting person to clarify his status in another version of Muslim, saying: "Let him say: I am fasting" as an apology to the inviter and a way of informing him that he is fasting and cannot eat his food. "Let him pray," i.e., let him pray for the house dwellers to be granted goodness and blessings and let him engage in supplicating for them. Let him also inform his Muslim brother, who invited him, that his abstention is only because of fasting and not because he does not want to eat his food. It was the Arabs' habit to abstain from eating the food of the one towards whom they held evil intentions. If the person invited is not fasting, then let him eat from the food.
The Hadīth signifies a command to accept the invitation for food.
It also encourages supplicating for the food providers (the host)..

1437
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Verily, one of the most important trusts in the sight of Allah on the Day of Judgment is a man who is intimate with his wife, and she is intimate with him, and then he divulges her secret." Ibn Numayr said: [Another version reads]: Verily, the most important..

Commentary : Having a healthy marital relationship and seeking love and mercy are among the means of protecting this bond and this pledge that Allah has made solemn and has described as being solemn given its strength and significance.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says that the most serious breach, betrayal, and violation of trust, and the gravest in terms of punishment in the sight of Allah on the Day of Judgment, the day of recompense, is the man's betrayal to his wife. "a man who is intimate with his wife, and she is intimate with him" is an indirect reference to sexual intercourse and physical contact between the spouses, i.e., everything related to marital secrets and what each spouse entrusts to the other. Then after this, the man divulges her secret, i.e., the hidden physical defects. It could also mean describing what occurs between the spouses regarding the enjoyment and what the woman says or does during the intercourse. In fact, this is a severe threat and a warning for one who reveals his spouse's secret. The advice is addressed to both spouses along with the warning against divulging each other's secrets. Thus, the man must not reveal her secret and vice versa. However, he mentioned one of them - the husband - to refer to the other, or he made no mention of the wife divulging her husband's secret because the woman, in principle, tends to conceal and hide whatever is indecent and she rarely does this because of her bashfulness, unlike the man who is expected to do this..

1439
Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh reported: A man asked the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), saying: "I have a slave-girl and I practice coitus interruptus with her." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, this would not prevent something willed by Allah." He said: The man came and said: "O Messenger of Allah, the slave-girl I mentioned to you has become pregnant." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I am the servant and Messenger of Allah.".

Commentary : All the destinies of created beings lie in the Hand of Allah alone. He is the Knower of the unseen things. A Muslim should rely upon Allah, pursue the proper means, and then entrust his affairs to Allah Almighty.
In this Hadīth, Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and asked him about coitus interruptus and informed that he had a slave-girl with whom he practiced coitus interruptus lest she would get pregnant; so, is it permissible for him to practice coitus interruptus with her or not? Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. Replying to him, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, this would not prevent something willed by Allah." The meaning: Indeed, if Allah Almighty predestined the creation of a soul, it would surely be created; and that the fluid and semen may outrun you, and you cannot stop it, and your keenness in this regard would not avail you. The semen could quickly come out without the man practicing coitus interruptus feeling it to execute what Allah predestined. There is no soul determined in the knowledge of Allah Almighty that it will be born except that it will exist in reality, whether coitus interruptus is practiced or not. Likewise, ejaculation may happen inside, and no pregnancy takes place. So, coitus interruptus and ejaculation inside are alike in terms of the fact that pregnancy can only happen by Allah's predestination.
Then, after some time, that man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and spoke to him about this slave-girl with whom he had practiced coitus interruptus and told him that she got pregnant. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I am the servant and Messenger of Allah" i.e., what I say to you is true; so, adopt it and be certain of it, for indeed it will surely come to pass.
The Hadīth shows the keenness of the Companions in learning the matters of their religion from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)..