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It was narrated that Jubayr ibn Mut‘im said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “As for me, I pour water over my head three times,” and he gestured with both hands..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained to his ummah in both words and deeds how to purify oneself from impurity, which includes doing ghusl to cleanse oneself from janabah. In this hadith, Jubayr ibn Mut‘im narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pour water over his head three times. Some of the Sahabah differed concerning the way in which the head is to be washed when doing ghusl to cleanse oneself from janabah, and that discussion took place in the presence of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as is mentioned in the report narrated by Muslim. Each of them demonstrated how he did it, and some of the people said: As for me, I wash my head like this, showing how much water they used and how many times they poured water over their heads, being extremely thorough in cleansing it. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to them: “As for me, I pour water over my head three times,” and he gestured with both hands. What that means is that he would take water in both hands, then pour it over his head, and he did that three times, to indicate the minimum amount of water that is sufficient to wash the head..

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It was narrated that Abu Ja‘far said: Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah said to me: Your cousin– meaning al-Hasan ibn Muhammad ibn al-Hanafiyyah – came to me and said: How is ghusl to be done to cleanse oneself from janabah? I said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to take three handfuls of water and pour them over his head, then he would pour water over the rest of his body. Al-Hasan said to me: I am a man who has a lot of hair. I said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had more hair than you..

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen to learn from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) all religious matters – especially those that are done repeatedly every day, such as wudu’, ghusl and prayer – so that they would know these things and convey them to those who came after them.
In this hadith, Abu Ja‘far Muhammad ibn ‘Ali al-Baqir said: Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) said to me: Your cousin came to me – meaning al-Hasan ibn Muhammad ibn al-Hanafiyyah; this Muhammad was the son of ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him). Al-Hasan asked Jabir how to do ghusl to cleanse oneself from janabah. The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) as the result of a wet dream or intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) told him that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to take three handfuls of water and pour it over his head, then he would pour water on the rest of his body. Al-Hasan said to Jabir: I am a man who has a lot of hair, indicating that this amount of water was too little to wash his head, and would not be enough for all of his hair, using that as an excuse to use more water. But Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had more hair than you, meaning that he used to do that with this amount of water, even though his hair was thick. This highlights that no one has any excuse for being extravagant in his use of water on the grounds that he wants to make it reach all of his hair [or body].
This hadith urges us to be economical in using water.
It highlights how long the hair of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was.
It also highlights the eagerness of the Tabi‘in to learn from the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them)..

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It was narrated that ‘A’ishah said: When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah, he would call for a vessel the size of a milking pail, then he would scoop up a handful of water from it, and begin with the right side of his head, then the left side, and he gestured with both hands on the middle of his head..

Commentary : The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught us in both word and deed how to do ghusl to cleanse ourselves from janabah, and the etiquette and Sunnahs of doing so.
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) tells us that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah, he would prepare to do that and he would ask that a vessel the size of a milking pail be brought. This refers to a vessel big enough to hold the milk of a she-camel. Then he would take a handful of water and start with the right side of his head, then the left side, then he did that with both hands on his head. In other words, he would take some water in his hand the first time and wash his head, starting on the right side, then he would take another handful of water and wash his head, starting on the left side. That was because he liked to start on the right in all things. Then he would take water in both hands for the last time, and pour it all over his head from his two hands. This is the Sunnah of ghusl as is proven from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
This hadith highlights how the wives of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) were keen to describe the tiniest details of his life, so as to teach the ummah..

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It was narrated that ‘A’ishah said: When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah, he would wash his hands first..

Commentary : The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught us in both word and deed how to do ghusl to cleanse ourselves from janabah, and the etiquette and Sunnahs of doing so.
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah, he would wash his hands; what is meant is that he would wash his hands before doing ghusl and before putting his hand into the vessel to take some water, as is proven in another report. This is an example of prophetic etiquette, and is done so as to ensure that the hand is pure and that nothing dirty is stuck to it, so as not to contaminate the water. Thus he could be certain that the water was completely pure..

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It was narrated that Maymunah bint al-Harith said: I brought some water for the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to do ghusl, and screened him. He poured water over his hand and washed it once or twice – Sulayman [one of the narrators] said: I do not know whether he mentioned a third time or not – then he poured water with his right hand onto his left hand and washed his private part. Then he rubbed his hand on the ground or on the wall. Then he rinsed his mouth and cleaned his nose, washed his face and hands, and washed his head. Then he poured water over his body. Then he stepped aside and washed his feet. Then I handed him a cloth, but he gestured like this with his hand, and did not want it..

Commentary : The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught us how to do ghusl to cleanse ourselves from janabah, and the etiquette and Sunnahs of doing so.
This hadith includes a description of his ghusl; his wife Maymunah bint al-Harith (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she brought water for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) for him to do ghusl with it, then she concealed him with a curtain or screen. He poured water on his hand before putting his hand into the vessel, washing it once or twice to clean it before putting his hand into the water and scooping it up. The narrator was not sure whether the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) washed his hands a third time or not. Then he poured water with his right hand over his left hand, and washed his private part, then he rubbed his hand on the ground or on the wall so as to remove dirt from his hand. Then he rinsed his mouth by taking water into his mouth and moving it around, then spitting it out; and he cleaned his nose by sniffing water up into his nose, then expelling it, to clean the nose. Then he washed his face and hands, then he washed his head. Thus he did wudu’ before doing ghusl. Then he poured water over the rest of his body. Then he stepped aside from that place, and washed his feet outside of the place where he had done ghusl. Then – after he had finished his ghusl – Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) handed him a cloth with which to dry his body, but he gestured with his hand like this, indicating that he would not take it and did not want to take it; rather he left the water to fall from his body without him drying himself.
This hadith highlights how the wives of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) were keen to describe the tiniest details of his life, so as to teach the ummah..

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It was narrated that Muhammad ibn al-Muntashir said: I asked ‘A’ishah a question, and I told her what Ibn ‘Umar had said: I would not like to enter ihram in the morning with the smell of perfume still emanating from me. ‘A’ishah said: I put perfume on the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), then he went around to his wives, then he entered ihram in the morning..

Commentary : Wearing perfume is one of the things that are prohibited whilst in ihram; what is meant is putting on perfume after entering ihram.  ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) did not like to have any trace of perfume on him, even if he had put it on before entering ihram. Hence he said: I would not like to enter ihram in the morning with the smell of perfume still emanating from me. When Muhammad ibn al-Muntashir mentioned to ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) what Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) had said, she explained that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) put on perfume before entering ihram, and that she herself was the one who had put it on him, adorning him with beautiful fragrances before he formed the intention to perform the rituals, and before he entered ihram for that purpose. Then he went around to his wives and had intercourse with them, then he entered ihram on the morning of the following day, and undoubtedly the traces of that perfume were still present, as is mentioned in the report narrated in al-Sahihayn: It is as if I can still see the glistening of the perfume in the hair of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when he was in ihram.
This hadith indicates that it is prescribed to put on perfume before entering ihram.
It indicates that the Sahabah sometimes refuted one another’s views.
It highlights the fact that a woman may serve her husband and put perfume on him..

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It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The call immediately preceding the prayer (iqamah) was given, the rows had been straightened and the people were standing, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came out to us. But when he stood in his place, he remembered that he was junub, so he said to us: “Stay where you are,” then he went back and did ghusl. Then he came out to us with his head dripping with water, and said the takbir and led us in prayer..

Commentary : Purification from impurity is a condition of prayer being accepted; no prayer is valid without one being in a state of purity.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that one day the iqamah was given for one of the prayers in the mosque of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and the rows were organized and straightened as the people stood for prayer. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came out to lead the people in prayer, but when he stood in the imam’s place, he remembered that he was junub and had not done ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah. The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to remain where they were, then he went back to the apartments of his wives and did ghusl, then he came out to them with his head dripping with water as a result of having done ghusl. Then he led the people in prayer. This was by way of teaching his companions and his ummah that no one should be embarrassed about acts of purification and doing what Allah has prescribed when he remembers it, and he should not feel embarrassed before people.
The hadith indicates that the one who remembers that he is junub when he is in the mosque should leave the mosque and do ghusl; he does not have to do tayammum in order to walk out of the mosque, and the same applies to the one who wants to pass through the mosque when he is junub..

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It was narrated that ‘A’ishah said: When one of us became junub, she would scoop water over her head with her hands three times, then she would pour water with her hand over her right side and pour water with her other hand over her left side..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught us the etiquette of purifying ourselves and doing ghusl, part of which is to start on the right hand side.
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) tells us that when one of the Mothers of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with them) became junub – and the word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself, and this applies to both men and women – she would scoop water with her hand and pour it over her head three times, to make the water reach the roots of the hair. Then she would begin by taking water in her hand and pouring it over the right side of her body, then she would do the same on the left side of her body, using the other hand. This is the sequence of actions when doing ghusl, starting on the right to seek blessing thereby, after washing the hair and the head first, to ensure that water reaches everywhere under the hair, because water does not reach there easily. .

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The Children of Israel used to bathing naked, looking at one another, but Musa used to bathe alone. They said: ‘By Allah, nothing is preventing Musa from bathing with us except that he has large testicles.’ He went to bathe one time, and placed his garment on a rock, then the rock fled with his garment, so Musa chased after it, saying ‘My garment, O rock!’ until the Children of Israel saw Musa and said: ‘By Allah, there is nothing wrong with Musa.’ Then Musa took his garment and struck the rock repeatedly.” Abu Hurayrah said: By Allah, he left marks on the rock, six or seven marks from striking it..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) praised modesty and shyness (haya’) and urged people to be modest, stating that it is one of the branches of faith. The Prophets were the most modest of people, and our Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was more modest and shy than a virgin in her chamber. Allah’s Prophet Musa (peace be upon him) was also very modest and shy.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us of the modesty and shyness of Musa (peace be upon him). Because of his shyness and modesty, he did not bathe naked, even though the Children of Israel used to bathe naked and did not see anything wrong with that. It may be that that was permissible in their law. It was said that this may have happened when they were wandering in the wilderness, because there were no buildings there; it was also said that nakedness was forbidden for them, but they were careless about the matter and did it deliberately, deliberately flouting religious teachings and going against Musa (blessings and peace be upon him). This is an example of their stubbornness and carelessness in following the teachings of Musa.
Musa (peace be upon him) never appeared naked in front of anyone when bathing. When the Children of Israel saw Musa refraining from bathing naked as they did, they began to speak ill of him, and said that he had large testicles; it was also said the word translated here as large testicles refers to a scrotal hernia. On one occasion he went to bathe, and he put his garment on a rock. It was Allah’s will to prove that what they were saying about Musa was false, so the rock fled by Allah’s leave, taking Musa’s garment with it, as he was chasing it and running behind it, saying, ‘My garment, O rock!’ Musa (peace be upon him) only spoke to the rock because he regarded it as something sentient after it had fled with his garment, so it had ceased to be inanimate and now came under the heading of animate things. This is why he called out to it. When Musa appeared naked, the Children of Israel saw him and realized that he was sound in body. It may be that he was wearing a thin waist wrapper which showed what was beneath it and it got wet, so they saw that he was the best of creation, and the vile notion that they had had in mind was dispelled. So they said: By Allah, there is nothing wrong with Musa and no defect in him. Then Musa caught up with the rock, took his garment and put it on. Then he struck the rock, leaving six or seven marks on it, and the traces of his blows, of which there were six or seven, were clearly visible to the onlooker.
This hadith speaks of a miracle of Musa (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), namely: the rock’s running away, carrying his garment, to a group of the Israelites; Musa’s calling out to the rock; and his blows leaving marks on it.
It also indicates that Allah (may He be exalted) made His Prophets perfect both physically and in their character, and He protected them from having defects and shortcomings..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whilst Ayyub was bathing naked, locusts of gold fell on him, so Ayyub started to collect them in his garment. His Lord called out to him: ‘O Ayyub, have I not made you independent of means so that you have no need of what you see?’ He said: ‘Yes indeed, by Your glory, but I cannot do without Your blessing.’”.

Commentary : Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) has promised His slaves good things as provision, and has enjoined them to give thanks for His blessings. If a person gives what is due on his wealth and give thanks to the Bestower of blessings, then he has done what is required of him. The Prophets are the most perfect of people, the most grateful and the most assiduous in giving what is due.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that Allah’s Prophet Ayyub (peace be upon him) was bathing naked one day, but he was far away from where people could see him. There came down upon him from heaven locusts of gold, as a miracle from Allah (may He be exalted), so Ayyub (peace be upon him) began to pick them up by the handful and throw them into his garment. Allah (may He be exalted) said to him: “O Ayyub, have I not made you independent of means so that you have no need of what you see?” This was not a rebuke from Allah (may He be exalted); rather it was more like speaking gently to him and testing him to see whether he would give thanks for what had been bestowed upon him, and thus become more grateful. Hence Ayyub (peace be upon him) swore by Allah’s glory that he recognized the blessing that Allah had bestowed upon him, then he said: But I cannot do without Your blessing. It is impossible to think that Ayyub (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) took this wealth out of love of worldly gain; rather he took it, as he himself explained, because it was a blessing from his Lord, for it was newly created by Allah (may He be glorified and exalted), or because it was an extraordinary new blessing, so he should accept it and express his need for whatever Allah sent down of good. That was an expression of gratitude and appreciation for the blessing, for ignoring it would have been a kind of ingratitude for it.
This hadith indicates that it is prescribed to be keen to acquire halal wealth.
It also highlights the virtue of being well off, for one who is grateful, because he called it a blessing..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) met him in one of the streets of Madinah when he was junub, so he turned back from him, then he went and did ghusl, then he came back. [The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)] said: “Where did you go, O Abu Hurayrah?” He said: I was junub, and I did not like to sit with you when I was not in a state of purity. He said: “Subhan Allah! The Muslim does not become impure (najis).”.

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) had the greatest respect for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Some of them viewed janabah as a very serious matter, and regarded it as a kind of physical impurity, so they would not like to sit with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) or touch him when they were in that state. But the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained to them the correct view concerning that matter, and that the believer never becomes impure (najis), even if he is junub, as referred to in this hadith. Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) met him in one of the streets of Madinah when he was junub. This word refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse with his wife; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. So Abu Hurayrah turned back after meeting the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), without speaking to him or greeting him; he went and did ghusl and purified himself, removing the state of janabah and major impurity, then he came back to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), who asked him why he had disappeared and hidden in a manner that was not normal in his case. Abu Hurayrah told him that he had refused to meet the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) because he believed that if the Muslim is junub, he has become impure (najis). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was surprised by Abu Hurayrah’s thinking and what he believed, for janabah only prevents a person from praying, touching the Mus-haf and entering the mosque; it does not prevent him from sitting with other Muslims or meeting them, and the one who is junub does not become impure in a literal sense. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him that the Muslim does not become impure and that he is not filthy, meaning that when the Muslim is not in a state of purity (taharah), he is impure according to Islamic rulings, but he is not impure in a real sense, so he himself does not become najis because of the impurity that happened to him in his body. The description of him being impure is just a ruling that the Lawgiver applies to the body, so janabah prevents him from doing some things, such as praying and reading Qur’an. As for sitting with other people and interacting with them, that is not included among the things that are not allowed when one is junub. The believer is pure (tahir) in and of himself always, whether he is junub or not..

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It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar that he said: ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab mentioned to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that he became junub at night, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Do wudu’ and wash your penis, then go to sleep.”.

Commentary : Islam is a religion of mercy and compassion towards people, and seeks to make things easy for them. One example of that is the fact that purifying oneself from major impurity after becoming junub in order to resume doing acts of worship is a ruling with which one must comply; janabah is a shar‘i description, and it does not prevent one from dealing with other issues of daily life.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that ‘Umar asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) whether a person could go to sleep when he is not in a state of purity because he is junub.
The word junub refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse with his wife; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him that if he wanted to go to sleep when he was in a state of janabah, it was better for him to do wudu’ and wash his penis, but he did not have to do a complete ghusl. According to a report narrated by Muslim, he said: “Yes; let him do wudu’ then go to sleep, and then he does ghusl when he wants to.” Thus the time of doing ghusl is based on his choice, and ghusl becomes necessary if he wants to do some act of worship, especially when the time for prayer comes; in that case he must do it before the time for that prayer ends.
This hadith indicates that one may ask about matters of concern, and should not feel too shy to ask.
It also indicates that janabah is a shar‘i description, and is not to be taken literally..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When a man sits between the four parts (arms and legs) of his wife and has intercourse with her, then ghusl is obligatory.”.

Commentary : The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse with his wife; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself. This applies to both men and women. This hadith highlights one of the things that make it obligatory to do ghusl to cleanse oneself of janabah, namely intercourse. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that when the husband sits with his wife in an intimate position, and sits “between her four parts” – meaning between her arms and legs, or between her legs and thighs, and there are other explanations – and has intercourse with her; what is meant is penetration, which is when the man’s penis enters into the woman’s vagina and its head disappears, then ghusl becomes obligatory for both spouses at that point, regardless of whether the man ejaculates or not, as is clearly stated in a report narrated by Muslim, in which it says, “even if he does not ejaculate.” This hadith abrogates other hadiths which say that ghusl is not obligatory for a man who has intercourse with his wife but does not ejaculate.
This hadith indicates that one should not be explicit or mention words that could cause embarrassment or be considered obscene, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used a metaphor to refer to intercourse..

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It was narrated from Ubayy ibn Ka‘b that he said: O Messenger of Allah, what if a man has intercourse with a woman and does not ejaculate? He said: “He should wash what touched the woman of his body, then do wudu’ and pray.”.

Commentary : Janabah refers to major impurity that results either from intercourse or the emission of maniy (semen). Islamic teaching enjoins doing ghusl to energize and cleanse the body, and to purify oneself completely.
In this hadith, Ubayy ibn Ka‘b (may Allah be pleased with him) mentions that he asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about the ruling on a man who has intercourse with his wife but does not ejaculate; does he have to do ghusl? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) replied by saying: “He should wash what touched the woman of his body”, which is a metaphor for washing the penis, as mentioned in the report narrated by Muslim, then he may do wudu’ and pray, and he does not have to do a complete ghusl, washing his entire body. This was the ruling in the beginning, then it was abrogated by what is mentioned in several other hadiths, which indicate that intercourse necessitates ghusl, regardless of whether ejaculation occurs or not, such as the hadith narrated by Muslim from ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): “When he sits between the four parts (arms and legs) of his wife and one circumcised part touches the other, then ghusl becomes obligatory.” What is meant is the circumcised part of the man and the circumcised part of the woman. In al-Sahihayn it is narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When a man sits between the four parts (arms and legs) of his wife and has intercourse with her, then ghusl is obligatory.” Thus he stated that ghusl becomes obligatory for both spouses as a result of this intercourse, regardless of whether the man ejaculated or not, as is clearly stated in a report narrated by Muslim: “even if he does not ejaculate.”.

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It was narrated from Hisham ibn ‘Urwah, from ‘Urwah, that he was asked: Can a menstruating woman take care of me or can a woman come close to me when she is junub? ‘Urwah said: All of that is fine with me; whatever the case, she may take care of me, and there is no problem for anyone in that regard. ‘A’ishah told me that she used to comb the hair of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when she was menstruating and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was observing i‘tikaf in the mosque; he would put his head out for her when she was in her apartment, and she would comb his hair when she was menstruating..

Commentary : Among the Jews, when one of their women menstruated, they would banish her from the house, and they would not eat with her, drink with her or be in the same room as her. In our religion, however, the menstruating woman is not to be blamed for something that Allah has ordained for her, so her body is pure, apart from the place where the impurity is.
In this report, the Tabi‘i Hisham ibn ‘Urwah narrates that someone asked his father, ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr: Is it permissible for a menstruating woman to take care of him or to come close to him? Or for a woman who has become junub as a result of an erotic dream or intercourse to do that? ‘Urwah explained to him that there is nothing wrong with a woman who is menstruating or is junub taking care of someone else, or coming close to someone else; she may take care of him when she is menstruating or is junub, with no reservations, and she does not incur any sin. Then he narrated that ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to comb the hair of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when she was menstruating and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was observing i‘tikaf in the mosque at that time. He would bring his head close to her when she was in her apartment and the rest of his body was in the mosque, and he was aware of her condition and that she was menstruating. Her apartment was attached to the mosque.
Even though this hadith indicates that it is permissible for a menstruating woman to take care of her husband and others, it also indicates that it is permissible for a woman who is junub to be close to other people and to take care of others. This is understood by analogy with the woman who is menstruating; what they have in common is major impurity, and this is a clear analogy.
The hadith refers to combing a man’s hair, and includes other things that come under the heading of adorning oneself.
It indicates that a menstruating woman may care for her husband and help him with personal hygiene.
It indicates that if the one who is observing i‘tikaf puts his head, hand or foot outside the mosque, that does not invalidate his i‘tikaf.
It highlights the Prophet’s kind treatment of his wives, and how he would understand their situation and condition.
It indicates that the body and clothing of the menstruating woman are pure (tahir). .

1405
Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh reported: We used to engage in Mut'ah in return for a handful of dates and flour during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and Abu Bakr until 'Umar forbade it in the case of 'Amr ibn Hurayth..

Commentary : The Shar'i marriage is a system that establishes a united family, preserves each party's rights, and highlights human dignity. Mut'ah marriage, on the other hand, damages society and causes loss for women. A man may like a woman and marry her for a specific period in return for a certain compensation. This is no more than fulfilling lust, and it leads to many evils; that's why it was more appropriate to forbid it.
In this Hadīth, Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that they used to marry women for enjoyment and fulfilling lust, and this was permissible and then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) declared it unlawful. This kind of relationship was so lowly that they would agree to "a handful of dates and flour" as a dowry or gift from the man to the woman, which is a small amount, equivalent to a meal. Jābir (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that they continued to do so while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was living among them. Then, when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away, they engaged in Mut'ah marriage during the caliphate of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) until 'Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) forbade it during his caliphate, in the case of the Companion' Amr ibn Hurayth. 'Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) married a woman by Mut'ah marriage during the reign of 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), and she got pregnant from him. The statement of Jābir and the action of 'Amr (may Allah be pleased with both of them) are taken to indicate that the Prophet's prohibition of such marriage did not reach them.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) permitted the Mut'ah marriage in the beginning and then forbade it later during the battle of Khyber until the Day of Judgment, and he declared it unlawful during the Farewell Hajj, as narrated by Al-Bukhāri, Muslim, and others.
The Hadīth indicates that Mut‘ah marriage is forbidden.
It warns against doing anything forbidden by the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
It also points out that the ruler can force specific rulings on the people to serve the interests of society..

1406
Sabrah al-Juhani reported: I married a woman from Banu' Āmir by Mut'ah marriage during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for two red Burds (cloaks). Then, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade us from Mut'ah..

Commentary : Islam has established the Shar‘i marriage system on the most just standard to preserve progeny and honor, and it has forbidden all means of enjoying women that were widespread in Jāhiliyyah and which do not protect their rights. It began to legislate that gradually so that people could adopt it rightly.
In this Hadīth, Sabrah ibn Ma‘bad al-Juhani (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that he married women by Mut‘ah marriage during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Mut‘ah is one of the kinds of marriage in which a man enjoys a woman in return for compensation agreed by them and for a specified period, and the marriage ends with the elapse of that period. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that he married a woman from Banu ‘Āmir by Mut‘ah marriage and gave her two red Burds, a reference to her dowry. Burd: a striped garment opened from the front and placed on the shoulders like a cloak, yet it is smaller than it. A person can wrap it around himself or let it hang down. Then, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade Muslims from Mut‘ah marriage. Another version by Muslim points out that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade it in the year of the Conquest of Makkah.
The Mut'ah marriage was known during the early stages of Islam, and the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not forbid them from it during their travels, given their need for it. However, he forbade them from it during their stay and residence in their countries. The ruling of the Mut'ah marriage passed through various phases, as the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade them from it more than once. Then, he ordered them to engage in it at various times until he made it permanently forbidden. Forbidding the Mut'ah marriage was reported in many narrations, which point out that the prohibition was during the Conquest of Makkah, and this is the most famous opinion, or during the battle of Awtās, or the battle of Khaybar, or during the Prophet's last days in the Farewell Hajj. It was a permanent prohibition, not a temporary one, thus leaving no room for any difference of opinion among the jurists and the leading scholars of the Ummah. Only some of the Shiites hold a different opinion, and their opinion does not count..

1406
Ar-Rabī‘ ibn Sabrah reported that his father joined battle along with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) during the Conquest of Makkah. He said: We stayed in it for fifteen; thirty including days and nights. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) permitted us to engage in Mut‘ah marriage to women. A man from my people and I went out. I surpassed him in beauty, and he was close to ugliness. Each of us had a Burd (cloak). My Burd was old, while the Burd of my cousin was new and fresh. When we reached the south of Makkah - or its north - we came across a girl like a young smart long-necked she-camel. We said: "Would you agree that one of us engage in Mut‘ah marriage with you?" She said: "What would you give?" Each of us spread out his Burd, and she began to look at the two men and my companion saw her looking on her side. He said: "The Burd of this is old, and my Burd is new and fresh." She said: "The Burd of this is not bad," three times or twice. Then, I engaged in Mut‘ah marriage with her, and I did not come out of it until the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) declared it unlawful. [In a version]: He added: She said: Is this valid? And he said: The Burd of this is old and worn-out..

Commentary : Islam has established the Shar‘i marriage system on the best methods for preserving progeny and honor, and it has forbidden the ways of enjoying women, which were prevalent during Jāhiliyyah and did not protect their rights. It was legislated gradually so people could adopt it rightly and not turn away all at once.
In this Hadīth, Sabrah ibn Ma‘bad (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that he joined the battle along with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in the Conquest of Makkah, in 8 A.H., and they stayed there for fifteen nights along with fifteen days. Thus, the total of nights and days was thirty. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave them permission to engage in Mut'ah marriage with women in return for compensation they would agree for a specific period, and it would come to an end with the elapse of this time. So, Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) went out along with a man from his people, who was his cousin, as will be mentioned in this narration. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) was more good-looking than him, and the other man was close to ugliness, i.e., unpleasant look and bad appearance. Each of them had a Burd he wanted to give to the woman he would marry by Mut‘ah. Burd: a striped garment opened from the front and placed on the shoulders like a cloak, yet it is smaller than it. A person can wrap it around himself or let it hang down. The garment of Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) was old and worn out, whereas the Burd of his cousin was new. They kept searching until they reached the south of Makkah or its north. There, they came across a girl like "a young smart long-necked she-camel", i.e., she had a long, straight neck and shapely figure. They presented themselves to her so that she could choose one of them to marry her by Mut'ah. In another version, she asked them: "Is this valid?" She meant the validity of this kind of marriage as to whether it is lawful and permissible to enjoy a woman for a certain period of time! He replied to her in the affirmative, as narrated in the Mustakhraj of Abu ‘Awānah. She asked them: What would you offer in return for this marriage? Thereupon, each of them spread out his Burd. She began to look at the two men and compare between them. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: And my companion was looking at her while she was looking on her side. When he saw her in this state, he said: The Burd of this is old, and my Burd is new and fresh, seeking to attract her to himself and keep her away from Sabrah. And in a version, he said: "The Burd of this is old and worn-out." She said: The Burd of this young man is not bad - three times or twice - as if she was reconsidering the matter and thinking of choosing the more youthful of the two men, regardless of how good the Burd was. She chose Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him), and he married her by Mut‘ah. Sabrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that he did not leave her until the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) declared the Mut‘ah marriage unlawful. In another version by Muslim: "I stayed with her for three. Then, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever has any of these women with whom he engaged in Mut‘ah marriage should let her go."
The Hadīth points out that Mut‘ah marriage was permanently prohibited after it had been permissible.
It affirms the existence of abrogation in the Sunnah..

1406
‘Urwah ibn az-Zubayr reported: 'Abdullāh ibn az-Zubayr stood up in Makkah and said: "Allah has made blind the hearts of some people as He has deprived them of eyesight that they give a Fatwa in favor of Mut'ah", alluding to a certain man. He called him and said: "You are uncouth and coarse. By my life, Mut'ah was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious", referring to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Thereupon, Ibn Az-Zubayr said to him: "Do it yourself, and by Allah, if you do that, I will stone you with your stones.".

Commentary : Islam came to preserve honor, as the preservation of honor is one of the five necessities that all divine legislations came to preserve, and these are: religion, life, honor, mind, and wealth.
This Hadīth points out that the issue of Mut‘ah marriage was subject to disagreement among some of the Companions. During the days of his caliphate in the Hejaz, ‘Abdullāh ibn az-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) stood up to deliver a speech in Makkah, and he said: "Allah has made the hearts of some people blind", i.e., to the truth "as He has deprived them of eyesight", making them unable to see that they give a Fatwa to the people permitting Mut'ah marriage, which is a contract entailing enjoyment of a woman for a specific period in return for a certain dowry. By this statement of his, Ibn az-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) was "alluding to a certain man", namely 'Abdullāh ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him), who lost his eyesight in the latter part of his life. Thereupon, Ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) - who was attending the sermon - called him and said: "You are uncouth and coarse", i.e., you are simple-minded, rude, and harsh. Then, he said: "By my life, Mut‘ah was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious", referring to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). This is an oath he took over this matter. Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) had his personal interpretation of the texts that prohibit Mut‘ah marriage, as he maintained that it is permissible in case of necessity or the like. So, Ibn az-Zubayr said to him: "Do it yourselves, and by Allah, if you do that, I will stone you with your stones" i.e., Mut‘ah marriage is unlawful. So, if you do it after that, you will become an adulterer and you will be punished by stoning to death.
Indeed, Ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) spoke the truth when he said that it was practiced during the lifetime of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). But Ibn Az-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) was in the right, for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while the prohibition of Mut'ah was the latter of the two relevant rulings.
The Hadīth shows that Mut‘ah marriage is prohibited.
It also indicates that the ruler can talk to the scholars regarding their Fatwas and choose for the people what serves the best interests of society..

1406
Sabrah al-Juhani reported: that he was with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he said: "O people, I had permitted you to engage in Mut‘ah with women, and indeed Allah has forbidden that until the Day of Judgment. So, he who has any of these women should let her go, and do not take back anything you have given them.".

Commentary : The Mut‘ah marriage is a fixed-term marriage, with the word 'tamattu‘' (enjoyment) verbally stated, in return for an amount of money. In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "O people, I had permitted you to engage in Mut‘ah with women" i.e., in the beginning, but the matter has finally been decided now. He clarified to the people that Allah, Exalted be He, forbade the Mut‘ah marriage altogether till the Day of Judgment.
The Mut'ah marriage was known during the early stages of Islam, and the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not forbid them from it during their travels, given their need for it. However, he forbade them from it during their stay and residence in their countries. The ruling of the Mut‘ah marriage passed through various phases; the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade them from it more than once; then, he ordered them to engage in it at various times until he made it permanently forbidden. Forbidding the Mut'ah marriage was reported in many narrations, which point out that the prohibition was during the Conquest of Makkah in the eighth Hijri year, and this is the most famous opinion, or during the battle of Awtās, also in the eighth Hijri year, or during the battle of Khaybar in the seventh Hijri year, or the Prophet's last days in the Farewell Hajj. It was a permanent prohibition, not a temporary one. So, the right thing is that Mut‘ah marriage was abrogated more than once. It was permitted during the battle of Khaybar and then forbidden therein, and then it was permitted in the year of the Conquest of Makkah, which is the year of the battle of Awtās, and then it was permanently forbidden. No difference of opinion remains among the jurists and the scholars of the Ummah over this issue, and none disagrees with that except some Shiites, whose view does not count.
Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded those engaged in Mut'ah marriage to separate from the women married to them, for they were not lawful to them. He also commanded that the man should not take anything of what he gave to the woman in return for enjoying her, even if the separation took place before the appointed period, as she deserved that by copulation with her..

1406
Khālid ibn al-Muhājir ibn Sayfullāh reported: that while he was sitting in the company of a man, a man came to him and asked for a Fatwa on Mut‘ah. He enjoined him to engage in it. Thereupon, Ibn Abi ‘Amrah al-Ansāri said to him: 'Wait.' He said: "What is it?! By Allah, it was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious." Ibn Abi ‘Amrah said: "It was a dispensation in the early days of Islam for one who was driven to it by necessity, just like carrion, blood, and pork. Then Allah finally established the religion and prohibited it altogether.".

Commentary : When Islam came, it was keen to preserve the five necessities that all divine legislations came to preserve, and these are: religion, life, honor, mind, and wealth. It began to be legislated for society gradually so that people could adopt it rightly and not forsake it all at once.
In this Hadīth, the noble Tābi‘i Khālid ibn al-Muhājir ibn Sayfullāh informs that while he was sitting with a man - who was ‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him), according to the Mustakhraj of Abu ‘Awānah - a man came to him and sought a Fatwa from him about the ruling on marrying women by Mut‘ah marriage for a specific period in return for compensation agreed between them; Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him), permitted him to marry women by Mut‘ah marriage. Thereupon, the Tābi‘i Ibn Abi ‘Amrah al-Ansāri - Muhammad ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān ibn Hārithah - said to Ibn ‘Abbās: 'Wait!' i.e., stop and do not rush. Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him: "What is it?!" i.e., what is the matter that could prevent me from giving this Fatwa?! It seems he was criticizing him. By this, Ibn' Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to reject Ibn Abi' Amrah's disapproval of his Fatwa. Then, he swore by Allah that it was practiced during the lifetime of the leader of the pious, referring to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The meaning: How could you criticize me while the people practiced it during the lifetime of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), at his command?! In reply, Ibn Abi ‘Amrah said that Mut‘ah was a dispensation for Muslims in the early days of Islam for those driven to it by necessity, just like a person driven by necessity to eat carrion, blood, and pork, if he is on the verge of death due to severe hunger. Then Allah completed the religion, perfected His commands and prohibitions, and permanently forbade marrying women by Mut‘ah marriage. Indeed, Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) spoke the truth when he swore that it was practiced during the lifetime of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). But Ibn Abi ‘Amrah was right, for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while the prohibition of Mut‘ah was the latter of the two relevant rulings.
The Hadīth demonstrates that some of the Shar‘i rulings were superseded (abrogated).
It indicates that taking an oath for emphasis is legitimate.
It also shows that a great scholar may be unaware of some Shar‘i issues..

1409
‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The Muhrim (one in the state of Ihrām) must neither marry, nor give someone in marriage, nor get engaged.".

Commentary : Performing Hajj to Allah's Sacred House - for whoever finds a way thereto - is one of the pillars of Islam and one of its great rituals. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) taught us its pillars and how to make Ihrām (ritual state of consecration) for it. He clarified what the Muhrim is allowed to do and what he is not allowed to do.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "The Muhrim must neither marry," i.e., the Muhrim - who intends by his Ihrām Hajj, ‘Umrah, or both - must not contract marriage for himself and must not marry a woman. "Nor give someone in marriage," i.e., or give someone in marriage through guardianship or proxy. Since he himself is forbidden from getting married during the period of Ihrām; therefore, he is not to give someone in marriage during this period. Also, he should not "get engaged," as this involves hinting at a proposal of marriage. The secret behind such a prohibition is the fact that the Muhrim has engaged in an act of worship that takes up most of his time, so he must not be occupied with anything else that is not consistent with the state of such an act of worship. Allah has forbidden Rafath - which is sexual intercourse with women and what leads to it - while performing Hajj and its relevant acts, for marriage during the state of Ihrām calls one to commit Rafath. The purpose of this journey is to be devoted to Allah and to be occupied only with remembering Him, calling upon Allah loudly, declaring Allah's oneness, and making Dhikr and nothing else..

1409
Nubayh ibn Wahb reported: that ‘Umar ibn ‘Ubaydullāh ibn Ma‘mar intended to marry his son Talhah to the daughter of Shayba ibn Jubayr during Hajj. Abān ibn ‘Uthmān was the leader of pilgrims at that time. He sent someone to Abān saying: "I intend to marry Talhah ibn ‘Umar, and I like that you attend that." In reply, Abān said to him: "I find you to be a thickheaded Iraqi. I heard ‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān say: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: 'A Muhrim should not marry.'".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Nubayh ibn Wahb relates that the Tābi‘i ‘Umar ibn ‘Ubaydullāh wanted to marry his son Talhah to the daughter of Shaybah ibn Jubayr while they were in a state of Ihrām during Hajj. So, they wanted the Tābi‘i Abān ibn ‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān to attend the contract. Abān, who was the leader of the Hajj convoy at the time, said to him: "I find you to be a thickheaded Iraqi" i.e., ignorant of the Sunnah. In some versions: 'a Bedouin', and a Bedouin is someone who lives in the desert. It is said: 'Iraqi' here is erroneous, unless he knew that the doctrine of the people of Kufa at the time permitted a Muhrim to marry, in which case 'Iraqi' would be correct, and it would mean: You are adopting their doctrine. Thickheaded denotes roughness along with ignorance.
Then, ‘Abān told them that he heard ‘Uthmān ibn ‘Affān (may Allah be pleased with him) say: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A Muhrim should not marry" i.e., a Muhrim should not get married. In a version in the Sahīh Muslim Collection: "And he should not marry others off," i.e., a man should not give a woman in marriage either as her guardian or representative. This is because a Muhrim is too busy to engage in marriage contracts, as this would necessarily distract his mind and make him unable to perform worship perfectly, for it involves proposing, asking, inviting, and meeting..

1411
Maymūnah bint al-Hārith reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married her when he was Halāl (outside the state of Ihrām). He said: She was my maternal aunt and the maternal aunt of Ibn ‘Abbās..

Commentary : Hajj is the fifth pillar of Islam. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified the rituals of Hajj in his words and deeds, which were reported by the noble Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) just as they had learned them from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). During Hajj, some of what is permissible becomes forbidden for the one who assumes Ihrām.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Yazīd ibn al-Asamm reports that his maternal aunt, Maymūnah bint al-Hārith (may Allah be pleased with her), wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married her when he was Halāl, i.e., was not a Muhrim (one in the state of Ihrām). In Abu Dāwūd's narration, Maymūnah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married me when we were both Halāl (outside the state of Ihrām) at Sarif." The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) contracted marriage with her on his way to Makkah to make ‘Umrah al-Qadā’ (deferred ‘Umrah) in 7 AH, before assuming Ihrām. Their marriage became known after he had assumed Ihrām. Then, he consummated marriage with her when he was outside the state of Ihrām on the way back to Madīnah in an area called Sarif, which is almost 10 kilometers away from Makkah, and it was said: 16 kilometers away, and there are other opinions as well.
Then, Yazīd reported that Maymūnah (may Allah be pleased with her) was his maternal aunt and the maternal aunt of Ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) in reference to Ibn ‘Abbas's mistake in what he reported about the Prophet's marrying Maymūnah while being a Muhrim. However, Maymūnah (may Allah be pleased with her) certainly knew herself better than Ibn ‘Abbās. Moreover, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The Muhrim (one in the state of Ihrām) must neither marry, nor give someone in marriage, nor get engaged." [Narrated by Muslim].

1424
Abu Hurayrah reported: As I was in the company of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), a man came to him and told him that he married a woman from the Ansār. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Did you look at her?" He said: 'No.' He said: "Go and look at her, for indeed, there is something in the eyes of the Ansār.".

Commentary : Islam established the Shar‘i marriage system to preserve progeny and honor and it is keen on the continuity of cordiality and love between the two spouses and legislated means to this end from the beginning of engagement so that it would be more likely for them to continue their life together.
In this Hadīth, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that he was present with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) when a man came and informed him that he proposed marriage to a woman from the Ansār - the people of Madīnah - and wanted to marry her. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: "Did you look at her?" This is an instruction urging the man to look at the woman before proposing marriage, as this would encourage him to marry her or cause him to refrain from her. The man replied that he did not look at her. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) ordered him to go and look at her. In a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd and reported by Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh (may Allah be pleased with him): "When one of you asks a woman in marriage; if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, let him do so." This points out that a man should look at the woman by himself if he can, so as to see what encourages him to like and marry her.
Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified the reason behind his instruction to look at her, saying: "for indeed there is something in the eyes of the Ansār, " i.e., some disliked blueness, smallness, or the like. This signals that a man should usually look at the face and hands, as her beauty can be recognized from the face, and the tenderness of her body can be known through her hands. The looking should happen before betrothal, lest it will be hard for her if he decides to retract his proposal, in case he does not like her.
The Prophet's instruction serves a great interest. There may be something in the woman that would badly affect the continuity of their relationship after marriage, and he can identify it by looking at her, so he will leave her before the consummation of marriage; this would be lighter, simpler, and easier than consummating the marriage and divorcing her after that.
The Hadīth indicates that a man should look at his fiancée before marrying her.
It points out the excellence of the pure Shariah and its perfect guidelines, as it takes into consideration the interests of people by which their livelihood can be set in order in this world and the Hereafter without undergoing regret and sorrow over what was missed..

1426
Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: I asked ‘Ā’ishah: "How much was the Sadāq (dowry) paid by the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)?" She said: "His dowry for his wives was twelve ’Uqiyyahs and one Nashsh. Do you know what the Nashsh is?" I said: "No." She said: "It is a half ’Uqiyyah, so this equals five hundred dirhams, and it was the dowry that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) paid to his wives.".

Commentary : Sadāq is the dowry and the money paid to the woman when getting married. Allah Almighty has made it a right that is due to the woman. Allah Almighty says: {Give women their marriage dowries graciously.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 4]
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reports that he asked the Mother of the Believers, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): How much was the dowry paid by the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to his wives? She told him that it was twelve ’Uqiyyahs and one Nashsh. The ’Uqiyyah is forty dirhams, and the dirham refers to a coin made of pure silver, and one ’Uqiyyah is equal to 28.35 grams. The Nashsh is half a Uqiyyah. So, the dowry paid by the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to his wives was five hundred dirhams. It means that this is what the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) mostly paid to his wives, simply because Al-Bukhāri narrated that the dowry of Safiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) was emancipating her, and likewise the dowry of Juwayriyah bint al-Hārith was emancipating her. Moreover, An-Najāshi paid four thousand dirhams to Umm Habībah (may Allah be pleased with her) when he gave her in marriage to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). And no mention was made about the dowry of Zaynab bint Jahsh. So, the dowry does not have to be something specific; rather, it depends on everybody's ability and capability..

1428
Anas reported: When the waiting period of Zaynab was over, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to Zayd: "Make mention of me to her." He said: "Zayd went off until he came to her while she was fermenting her flour." He said: When I saw her, I felt her greatness in my chest, so much that I could not look at her; that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) made mention of her. So, I turned my back toward her and turned upon my heels. I said: "O Zaynab, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) has sent a message making mention of you." She said: "I will not do anything until I consult my Lord." So, she stood at her place of worship, and the Qur’an was revealed. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came and entered her place without permission. He said: I recall when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) served us bread and meat at midday. Then, the people went out, and some men remained talking in the house after the meal. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out, and I followed him. He began to go to his wives' rooms and greet them, and they would say: "O Messenger of Allah, how did you find your wife?" He said: I do not know whether I told him that the people had come out or he told me. He said: He moved on until he entered the house, and I went to enter with him. Thereupon, he placed the curtain between me and him, and the Hijab was sent down. He said: The people were preached by the preaching they received. He added in another version: {O you who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet unless you are given permission for a meal; not so early as to wait for the meal to be prepared... but Allah is not shy of [telling] the truth.} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 53].

Commentary : Zaynab bint Jahsh, the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her), was the daughter of Umaymah bint 'Abdul-Muttalib, the paternal aunt of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had married Zaynab off to his freed slave Zayd ibn Hārithah (may Allah be pleased with him), whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had adopted before Allah prohibited adoption. However, Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) saw herself as superior to Zayd, and they used to have such disputes between spouses until Zayd divorced her.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that when the divorce waiting period of Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came to an end, after Zayd ibn Hārithah (may Allah be pleased with him) divorced her; and the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advised Zayd regarding his wife before he divorced her, as revealed in the verse that reads: {And [remember, O Prophet] when you were saying to the one who was favored by Allah and favored by you: "Keep your wife and fear Allah."} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 37] And in the other part of the verse, Allah Almighty said to His Prophet: {and you were fearing people, while it was more fitting that you should fear Allah. When Zayd no longer desired her, We gave her to you in marriage.} Allah Almighty informed His Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) that Zayd would divorce Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that she would be his wife after Zayd divorced her. He, however, concealed that within himself, fearing that the hypocrites might defame him and spread rumors to the effect that he forbade that a man should marry the wife of his son, and he married the wife of Zayd, who used to be called Zayd ibn Muhammad before that was forbidden and adoption was abolished.
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him): "make mention of me to her" i.e., go and propose marriage to her on my behalf and mention me in her presence and say that I want to propose to her. Zayd left and reached her and saw her "fermenting her flour" i.e., preparing her dough for baking. Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that when his sight fell on her, he found it hard to look at her, as the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to propose to her. He treated her like the mothers of the believers and averted his gaze from her and turned his back toward her. He stepped backward and stood some distance away from her. This happened before Hijab was prescribed in the Qur’an.
Then Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) told her that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent him to propose marriage to her on his behalf. Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) told him that she would not give any response until she consulted her Lord and waited to see what Allah would do regarding her matter. So, she stood at her praying place in the house to offer the Istikhārah (consultation) prayer and "the Qur’an was revealed" i.e., the verses in Surat al-Ahzāb were revealed. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came to Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and entered her place without seeking permission, as she became his wife after Allah Almighty married her off to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) from above seven heavens.
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said that he remembered when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had served them bread and meat in the wedding banquet for his marriage to Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her). All this happened when it was midday and the heat of the sun became intense. Those who ate from the banquet went out and there remained some people who engaged in talking within the house of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came out and left them in the house, talking. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) came out after him because he was his servant and would always accompany him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went to the houses of his wives to check on them and learn about their conditions, and the Prophet's wives would ask him: "O Messenger of Allah, how did you find your wife?" In a version narrated by Al-Bukhāri, it was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) who asked the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), saying: "How did you find your wife? May Allah bless you." It is said: She said that by way of jesting. But it is more likely that she intended supplication for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to be blessed in his family and to be rest assured about them. In a version narrated by Muslim, the reply of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was: 'Fine.'
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) informed that he could not remember: Was he the one who told the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) that the people, who had lingered and engaged in talking after the banquet, did leave, or it was the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) who told him about that? When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) became sure that they had come out of the house, he quickly went and entered the house of Zaynab. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) intended to enter with him, as usual, but the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) put a curtain between the two of them; this was because the verses on Hijab in Surat al-Ahzāb were revealed: {O you who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet unless you are given permission for a meal; not so early as to wait for the meal to be prepared. But if you are invited, then enter, and when you have eaten, then disperse, without lingering for conversation. Such [behavior] causes annoyance to the Prophet; he is too shy to express it to you, but Allah is not shy of [telling] the truth.} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 53]
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "The people were preached by the preaching they received", i.e., they complied with the command of Allah, the Glorified and Exalted, and the statement of His Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), and they came to know the error they committed as they stayed for long in the house of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and engaged in conversation.
The Hadīth points out the merit of Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her).
It indicates that a person should entrust his affairs to Allah Almighty in all his conditions.
It demonstrates the modesty of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
It urges performance of the Istikhārah prayer before undertaking any matter.
It also urges checking on one's family to rest assured about them..

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Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If any of you is invited, let him accept the invitation. If he is fasting, let him pray (for the inviter); if he is not fasting, let him eat.".

Commentary : A manifestation of tolerance of Islam is taking into consideration solidarity and affection between people. Hence, it encourages responding to the inviter and deems it one of the rights that the Muslim owes to his brother, all for the sake of having a society where the spirit of love, brotherhood, solidarity, and coherence prevails.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs us that if one is invited for food - whether a banquet or something else - by his Muslim brother, he must accept the invitation and go. If one who received the food invitation happens to be fasting, whether it be a voluntary fast, a missed fast, or a vow; since the inviter would not have invited him if it had been an obligatory fast during Ramadān, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guides the fasting person to clarify his status in another version of Muslim, saying: "Let him say: I am fasting" as an apology to the inviter and a way of informing him that he is fasting and cannot eat his food. "Let him pray," i.e., let him pray for the house dwellers to be granted goodness and blessings and let him engage in supplicating for them. Let him also inform his Muslim brother, who invited him, that his abstention is only because of fasting and not because he does not want to eat his food. It was the Arabs' habit to abstain from eating the food of the one towards whom they held evil intentions. If the person invited is not fasting, then let him eat from the food.
The Hadīth signifies a command to accept the invitation for food.
It also encourages supplicating for the food providers (the host)..

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Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Verily, one of the most important trusts in the sight of Allah on the Day of Judgment is a man who is intimate with his wife, and she is intimate with him, and then he divulges her secret." Ibn Numayr said: [Another version reads]: Verily, the most important..

Commentary : Having a healthy marital relationship and seeking love and mercy are among the means of protecting this bond and this pledge that Allah has made solemn and has described as being solemn given its strength and significance.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says that the most serious breach, betrayal, and violation of trust, and the gravest in terms of punishment in the sight of Allah on the Day of Judgment, the day of recompense, is the man's betrayal to his wife. "a man who is intimate with his wife, and she is intimate with him" is an indirect reference to sexual intercourse and physical contact between the spouses, i.e., everything related to marital secrets and what each spouse entrusts to the other. Then after this, the man divulges her secret, i.e., the hidden physical defects. It could also mean describing what occurs between the spouses regarding the enjoyment and what the woman says or does during the intercourse. In fact, this is a severe threat and a warning for one who reveals his spouse's secret. The advice is addressed to both spouses along with the warning against divulging each other's secrets. Thus, the man must not reveal her secret and vice versa. However, he mentioned one of them - the husband - to refer to the other, or he made no mention of the wife divulging her husband's secret because the woman, in principle, tends to conceal and hide whatever is indecent and she rarely does this because of her bashfulness, unlike the man who is expected to do this..

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Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh reported: A man asked the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), saying: "I have a slave-girl and I practice coitus interruptus with her." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, this would not prevent something willed by Allah." He said: The man came and said: "O Messenger of Allah, the slave-girl I mentioned to you has become pregnant." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I am the servant and Messenger of Allah.".

Commentary : All the destinies of created beings lie in the Hand of Allah alone. He is the Knower of the unseen things. A Muslim should rely upon Allah, pursue the proper means, and then entrust his affairs to Allah Almighty.
In this Hadīth, Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and asked him about coitus interruptus and informed that he had a slave-girl with whom he practiced coitus interruptus lest she would get pregnant; so, is it permissible for him to practice coitus interruptus with her or not? Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. Replying to him, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Indeed, this would not prevent something willed by Allah." The meaning: Indeed, if Allah Almighty predestined the creation of a soul, it would surely be created; and that the fluid and semen may outrun you, and you cannot stop it, and your keenness in this regard would not avail you. The semen could quickly come out without the man practicing coitus interruptus feeling it to execute what Allah predestined. There is no soul determined in the knowledge of Allah Almighty that it will be born except that it will exist in reality, whether coitus interruptus is practiced or not. Likewise, ejaculation may happen inside, and no pregnancy takes place. So, coitus interruptus and ejaculation inside are alike in terms of the fact that pregnancy can only happen by Allah's predestination.
Then, after some time, that man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and spoke to him about this slave-girl with whom he had practiced coitus interruptus and told him that she got pregnant. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I am the servant and Messenger of Allah" i.e., what I say to you is true; so, adopt it and be certain of it, for indeed it will surely come to pass.
The Hadīth shows the keenness of the Companions in learning the matters of their religion from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)..