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It was narrated from Umm Qays bint Mihsan that she brought a small son of hers, who was not yet eating solid food, to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sat the child in his lap, and the child urinated on his garment. So he called for water and sprinkled it [on the urine], and he did not wash it..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pay attention to matters of purification and explain the rulings thereon, which included the method of purifying the urine of nursing infants.
In this hadith, the Sahabiyyah Umm Qays bint Mihsan (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she brought a small son of hers to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Her describing the child as not yet eating solid food indicates that the child was still breast-feeding. It was their custom to bring their children to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) so that he could pray for them and bless them. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) took the child from her and sat him in his lap, and the child urinated on his garment, but he did no more than sprinkle water on the garment, and he did not wash it. This is by way of making it easy to purify garments from the urine of breast-feeding infants who are not yet eating solid food. In other reports, it is proven that he sprinkled water over the urine of a boy, but washed the urine of a girl.
This hadith highlights the good attitude of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and how he comforted and uplifted adults by honouring their children and sitting them in his lap, and so on..

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It was narrated that Abu Wa’il said: Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari was very strict concerning urine, and he said: Among the Children of Israel, if urine got on the garments of one of them, he would cut it off. Then Hudhayfah said: I wish he would stop [being so strict]; the Messenger of Allah came to the garbage dump of some people and urinated standing..

Commentary : Islam is a religion of ease, and it made easier for the Muslims many of the rulings that had been imposed on previous nations. One example of that is how it made the matter of purification and removing impurities, if they contaminate someone, easy.
In this hadith, the Tabi‘i Abu Wa’il Shaqiq ibn Salamah narrates that Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with him) was very strict in taking precautions regarding urine, to the extent that it was said that he would urinate in a bottle, for fear of any of it contaminating him. He said that among the Children of Israel, if urine contaminated the garment of one of them, he would cut it off, meaning that he would cut off the part of his garment that had become contaminated with urine. Hudhayfah ibn al-Yaman (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I wish Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari would stop being so strict regarding this matter, because it is contrary to the Sunnah. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came to the garbage dump of some people, and urinated standing, and undoubtedly when one stands, there is bound to be some splashback, but he did not go to the trouble of urinating in a bottle and the like. This is by way of not causing too much hardship for people, because in principle whatever impurity (najasah) contaminates a person’s clothes or body may be purified with water, so if the Muslim pays attention to what he thinks was most likely contaminated with urine and the like, he should pour water over it where it can be seen, then it becomes pure. It was said that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) urinated standing in that place because it was not possible to sit in that garbage dump, or because the impurity that would contaminate him if he sat would be greater than if he stood.
This hadith indicates that it is allowed to urinate standing if you are certain that you will not be contaminated with urine..

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It was narrated that Asma’ said: A woman came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: What do you think if one of us menstruates and the blood gets onto her garment – what should she do? He said: “Scratch it, then rub it with water and sprinkle water on it, and pray wearing it.”.

Commentary : Being clean and free of impure substances (najasah) is one of the essential conditions of prayer, and menstrual blood is impure in and of itself.
In this hadith, Asma’ bint Abi Bakr al-Siddiq (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that a woman came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to ask him about a garment that becomes contaminated with menstrual blood. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed her to scratch it, meaning that she should rub it in order to remove the impurity. That applies if the blood has dried on the garment. Then she should rub it with water, meaning that she should rub it with her fingers whilst pouring water onto it, so that the stain that the garment had absorbed will be loosened and removed. Then she should sprinkle water on it, pouring water on it little by little, until the traces of blood are removed by washing it. After cleaning the garment in this manner, it will be permissible for her to pray in it.
This hadith indicates that no specific number of times is stipulated in order to remove impurity by washing; rather what is required is simply to clean the garment. Then if any trace is left on it that is too difficult to remove, it may be overlooked. This is how Islam makes things easy for people.   .

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It was narrated that ‘A’ishah said: Fatimah bint Abi Hubaysh came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, I am a woman who bleeds continually and never becomes pure. Should I stop praying? The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No; rather that is a vein and is not menses. When the usual time of your menses comes, then stop praying, and when that time ends, wash the blood from yourself, then pray.” – He [one of the narrators] said: My father said: Then you should do wudu’ for each prayer, until that time comes again..

Commentary : The women of the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them), despite their shyness and modesty, would ask the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about matters having to do with purification that concerned them exclusively, such as menses (hayd) and irregular bleeding (istihadah).
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah, the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her) tells us that Fatimah bint Abi Hubaysh (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: I am a woman who bleeds continually (istihadah) and I never become pure, meaning that the bleeding never stopped. Irregular bleeding (istihadah) is non-menstrual bleeding that occurs after a woman’s normal period ends. Then she asked whether that bleeding came under the same rulings as menses, meaning that she should stop praying until it ended. But the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained to her that that was irregular bleeding, and it was bleeding caused by illness, that came from the rupture of a vein in the uterus that is called al-‘adhil. It is not regarded as menstrual bleeding according to Islamic teachings, and it does not come under the same rulings as menses. So when the time of the usual monthly period comes, which is the time when a woman usually used to menstruate before she began to suffer from irregular bleeding, she should stop praying when that time begins, whether it occurs at the beginning of the month, or in the middle, or at the end. Then when the time of her normal menses ends she should wash the traces of blood from herself and start praying again. What is meant is that she should continue to refrain from prayer, fasting and other things that are forbidden whilst menstruating for what had been the duration of her regular menses before she began to suffer from irregular bleeding. Then when that time ends, and she has completed the number of days that her menses used to last, at that point she is no longer menstruating, so she should wash the site of the bleeding in order to clean it, then do a complete ghusl in order to remove impurity (hadath).
Hisham [one of the narrators] narrated from his father, ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr: Then she should do wudu’ for every prayer during the time of irregular bleeding, until the next menses comes.
This hadith indicates that the Sahabah used to refer to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) concerning any issues that they encountered, and ask him about rulings, seeking answers concerning these matters..

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It was narrated that ‘Amr ibn Maymun said: I asked Sulayman ibn Yasar about a garment that gets contaminated with semen. He said: ‘A’ishah said: I would wash it from the garment of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), then he would go out to pray, with damp spots on the garment from its having been washed..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to take care of his body and garments by washing and cleaning them, whether that was in accordance with an Islamic ruling, or simply seeking to be clean.
In this report, ‘Amr ibn Maymun asked Sulayman ibn Yasaar about the ruling on a garment if it becomes contaminated with semen, which is the liquid that is emitted from a man’s penis when having intercourse or a wet dream; it is a thick, white substance. He replied by quoting what ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had narrated, that she used to wash the semen from the garment of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and she did not wash the entire garment. Then he would go out of her apartment to pray in the mosque, with damp spots on his garment, and he would pray wearing it. This indicates that a garment may be purified by washing away the semen. This washing applies if the semen is still wet. If it has dried, it may be scratched off the garment, as is mentioned in the report narrated by Muslim: I used to scratch it off the garment of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Every wound that a Muslim sustains in Allah’s cause will appear on the Day of Resurrection as it was at the time when he was stabbed; it will be flowing with blood, the colour of which will be the colour of blood, but its fragrance will be the fragrance of musk.”.

Commentary : Martyrdom in Allah’s cause is a great virtue, and the martyrs have a high status before Allah (may He be glorified). This hadith highlights some of the virtues of those who are martyred in Allah’s cause; in it the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) states that every wound that a Muslim sustains when fighting in Allah’s cause will appear on the Day of Resurrection as it was in this world when he was stabbed, flowing with blood. But even though its colour will be the colour of blood, its fragrance will be perfume, like the fragrance of musk. It was said that the wisdom behind the blood appearing on the Day of Resurrection as it was [when he was stabbed in this world] is that it will testify to the virtue of the individual and will testify against the one who killed him. The benefit of its fragrance is that this fragrance will spread in the place of standing, also to highlight the virtue of the person. Hence it is not prescribed to wash the bodies of martyrs who die in battle..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that he said: “No one of you should urinate into standing water that does not flow, then wash himself with it.”.

Commentary : Islam is a religion of purity and cleanliness, and it guides the Muslim to that which will preserve his cleanliness. One of the most important means of achieving cleanliness is water, so Islam instructs us to protect it and not let it be contaminated with impurities, or to throw filthy things into it.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) forbids urinating into standing water, which is stagnant water that does not flow and is not renewed, and then washing oneself with it. This prohibition is so that this action will not lead to the water becoming impure or being spoiled so that people find it off-putting. Moreover, such water is not fit to be used for washing oneself.
In a report narrated by Muslim, there is an explanation of how to wash oneself with standing water. In that report it says: he should scoop the water out from it, meaning that he should take water from that pond or pool, then wash himself away from it. This also comes under the heading of protecting clean and pure water that is fit to be used, because the Muslim is enjoined to protect and preserve all kinds of water, whether flowing or stagnant. The emphasis is on being careful to preserve stagnant water because it is not renewed, and it is more likely to change or become spoiled if something is thrown into it, let alone if what is thrown into it is something impure (najis), such as urine and the like. .

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spat into his garment..

Commentary : The lives of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and of his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were not lives of ease and luxury; rather hardship and roughness were the hallmarks of the lives of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and his companions. Hence there was no sign of luxury in his life, and instead of handkerchiefs, they would use the edge of their garments. In this hadith, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spat into his garment. Spitting refers to expelling saliva or mucus from the mouth by blowing it out. It may be understood that this happened during the prayer, because the Muslim is required to respect the qiblah and the mosque, and he is enjoined to bury his phlegm if he has no choice but to spit it out [whilst praying], as is proven in various reports.
This hadith indicates that spittle and phlegm are pure (tahir)..

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It was narrated from Abu Hazim that he heard Sahl ibn Sa‘d as-Sa‘idi when the people asked him, and there was no one between me and him: With what were the wounds of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) treated? He said: There is no one left who knows more about that than me. ‘Ali brought his shield, in which there was water, and Fatimah washed the blood from his face, then a small reed mat was taken and burned, and applied to his wounds..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was injured during the battle of Uhud; he received cuts to his head and face. In this hadith, the Tabi‘i Abu Hazim Salamah ibn Dinar al-Madini narrates that Sahl ibn Sa‘d as-Sa‘idi (may Allah be pleased with him) was asked how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was treated for the injuries that he had sustained on the day of Uhud. He replied: There is no one left who knows more about that than me. That was because he was the last of the Sahabah to die in Madinah; he died in 91 AH at the age of one hundred years. He narrated that ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) brought water in his shield, which is a piece of personal armour that is used to protect a fighter from being struck by arrows and swords. Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) washed the blood from the wounds, and when she saw that the bleeding would not stop, she burned a small reed mat, then took the ashes and put them on the wound in order to stop the bleeding.
This hadith indicates that trials and calamities befell the Prophets (blessings and peace of Allah be upon them) so that they might attain immense reward, so that their nations and others would know what befell them and thus follow their example, and so that they might know that they were human beings who experienced what other humans experience.
It indicates that a woman may interact with her father and mahrams, show kindness to them and treat them when they are sick or injured.
It indicates that it is valid to seek medical treatment.
It indicates that one who has no knowledge may ask one who does have knowledge about something that he does not know..

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It was narrated that Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari said: I came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and I found him cleaning his teeth with a siwak that he had in his hand, saying, “Agh, agh” with the siwak in his mouth, as if he was retching..

Commentary : The siwak is a stick cut from the arak tree. It is used to clean the mouth and teeth, to perfume the mouth and to remove bad smells. It is a confirmed Sunnah of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and he would enjoin people to use it. It is cleansing for the mouth and pleasing to the Lord, as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said.
This hadith highlights how extensively the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would clean his mouth with the siwak, as Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was cleaning his teeth with a siwak, reaching to the furthest part of the throat, to the extent that he made a sound as if he were going to vomit, saying “Agh, agh.” This is describing the sound made when he using the siwak, because of how extensively he was cleaning his teeth and mouth with it.
This hadith highlights the virtue and importance of the siwak..

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It was narrated that Hudhayfah said: When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) got up to pray at night, he would clean his mouth with a siwak..

Commentary : The siwak is a stick cut from the arak tree. It is used to clean the mouth and teeth, to perfume the mouth and to remove bad smells. It is one of the most emphatically confirmed Sunnahs of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as he often cleaned his teeth with a siwak and enjoined others to do likewise. It is more important to use it at some times than others, such as what is mentioned in this hadith, which speaks of offering voluntary prayers at night (qiyam al-layl). Hudhayfah ibn al-Yaman (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to get up to pray qiyam al-layl and tahajjud, he would clean his mouth with the siwak, meaning that he would pass it over his teeth and rub them with it. He did that to take away any bad smell, so that he could recite Qur’an and offer du‘a’ in his prayer.
This hadith highlights the virtue and importance of the siwak..

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It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “I saw myself [in a dream] cleaning my teeth with a siwak. Then two men came to me, one of whom was older than the other, and I gave the siwak to the younger one, but it was said to me: Give it to the older one, so I gave it to the older of the two.”.

Commentary : The dreams of the Prophets are true. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw in a dream that he was cleaning his teeth with a siwak, which is a stick cut from the arak tree. It is used to clean the mouth and teeth, to perfume the mouth and to remove bad smells. Then two men came to him, one of whom was older than the other, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave the siwak to the younger of them. Then it was said to him: Give it to the older one, meaning: give precedence to the older one. The one who told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to give it to the older one was Jibril (peace be upon him). So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave it to the older one.
This hadith indicates that proper etiquette is to give precedence in a gathering to one who is older over one who is younger. This is the Sunnah when saying salaam and greeting people, when offering drinks and perfume, and other matters.
It highlights the virtue and importance of the siwak..

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It was narrated that al-Bara’ ibn ‘Azib said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When you go to your bed, do wudoo’ as for prayer, then lie down on your right side and say: Allahumma aslamtu wajhi ilayka wa fawwadtu amri ilayka wa alja’tu zahri ilayka raghbatan wa rahbatan ilayka, la malja’a wa laa manjaa minka illa ilayka. Allahumma amantu bi kitabika alladhi anzalta wa bi nabiyyika alladhi arsalta (O Allah I submit my face to You, and I entrust my affairs to You, and I seek Your protection, in hope and in fear of You. Indeed there is no refuge nor safe haven from You except with You. O Allah, I believe in Your Book which You have revealed and in Your Prophet whom You have sent).
Then if you die during the night, you will have died in a state of fitrah (sound human nature). Make these the last words that you speak.”
He said: I repeated it back to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and when I reached the words. “Allahumma amantu bi kitabika allahi anzalta (O Allah, I believe in Your Book which You have revealed),” I said: “Wa rasulika (And Your Messenger).” He said: “No. Wa nabiyyika alladhi arsalta (and Your Prophet whom You sent).”
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Commentary : This hadith highlights the etiquette of going to sleep, and what is to be said when laying down in one’s bed, as al-Bara’ ibn ‘Azib (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “When you go to your bed”, meaning: when you want to go to sleep, then do wudu’ properly before you go to bed, as if you were doing wudu’ for prayer. Then lie down on your right side, because it is more effective in giving you energy and making you content with a little sleep, and it is more effective in helping you to wake up at the end of the night, and is more beneficial for the heart. Then say: “O Allah I submit my face to You” meaning: I submit my soul to You when going to sleep, and entrust it to You for safekeeping.
“and I entrust my affairs to You”, so I put my trust in You in all my affairs, hoping that You will suffice me in all things, and protect me from all ills.
“and I rely totally on You”, seeking Your protection and turning to You, so that You will keep me under Your watchful eye that never sleeps. Saying “and I seek Your protection” after “and I entrust my affairs to You” indicates that after entrusting to Allah his affairs that he needs to be in order and that are essential to his well-being, he turns to Allah for protection from that which could cause him harm and damage from various causes, both internal and external.
And I only do that “in hope” that is, hoping for Your mercy, “ and in fear of You” that is, fearing You and Your punishment, for there is no escape from You except to You, and no protection from Your punishment except by turning to Your pardon and forgiveness, O Most Merciful of those who show mercy.
“I believe in Your Book which You have revealed” namely the Qur’an, and I believe “in Your Prophet whom You have sent”, namely Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him of the reward for the one who does that, which is that the one who dies that night in that state, will have died adhering to the religion of Islam and to the Sunnah of the best of mankind.
Because al-Bara’ was so keen to memorize this du‘a’, he repeated it back to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), but he said “Rasulika (Your Messenger)” instead of “Nabiyyika (Your Prophet)”, so the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) corrected him. The reason why he corrected him was that he wanted it to refer to both positions, being a Prophet and being a Messenger, and to refer to both blessings. And it was said that that was so as to avoid any ambiguity, because the word rasul (messenger) could also include Jibril (peace be upon him) and others. And it was said that this is dhikr and du‘a’, so it should be limited to the exact wording that was narrated, because of the possibility that there might be something special about these exact words that is not applicable to other words.
This hadith highlights how greatly the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) cared for his ummah in this world and the hereafter, and how he wanted them to die in a state of obedience and closeness to Allah (may He be glorified and exalted).
It encourages us to do wudu’ and offer du‘a’ before going to sleep, so that the last thing the Muslim does is remembering Allah (may He be exalted). .

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It was narrated from ‘A’ishah, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah, he would start by washing his hands, then he would do wudu’ as for prayer, then he would put his fingers in the water [that he had poured on his head] to make the water to reach the roots of his hair. Then he would pour water over his head three times, using both hands, then pour water over his entire body..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) loved to be in a state of purity and to keep himself clean all the time. He often taught his companions how to purify themselves and what purification was.
In this hadith, the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) tells us that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to purify himself and do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah – the word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself – he would begin by washing his hands, before putting them into the water, by pouring water over them and washing them first. Then after that, he would do wudu’ as if for prayer, a complete wudu’. Then after that he would put his fingers in the water [that he had poured on his head] to make the water reach the scalp. Then he would pour a handful of water over his head three times. Then after that he would pour water over his entire body, making it reach all of his skin.
This hadith highlights the practice of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) with regard to doing ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah.
It highlights the fact that purification and cleanliness are characteristics of Islam and the Muslims.
It indicates that a little water is sufficient to do ghusl to cleanse oneself from janabah..

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It was narrated that Abu Salamah said: A’ishah’s brother and I went to visit ‘A’ishah, and her brother asked her about the ghusl of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). She called for a vessel that was approximately the size of a sa‘ and did ghusl, pouring water over her head. Between us and her there was a screen. Yazid ibn Harun, Bahz and al-Jadiy narrated from Shu‘bah that it was the size of a sa‘..

Commentary : In this hadith, the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) describes how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl. What is meant by ghusl is that which removes the janabah (state of impurity) that results from emitting maniy (semen) or having intercourse. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl with an amount of water that would fill a vessel that holds a sa‘. The sa‘ is a unit of measurement equivalent to four mudds or eight ratls. There is a difference of opinion regarding the equivalent to the ratl in terms of modern units of measurement. It is said that the ratl is equivalent to approximately 380 grams, or less than half a litre; or it is said that it is equivalent to 538 grams, or more than half a litre.
Then Abu Salamah ibn ‘Abdul Rahman ibn ‘Awf said that ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) explained to him and her brother, ‘Abdul Rahman ibn Abi Bakr al-Siddiq – or it was said that it was ‘Abdullah ibn Yazid, her foster-brother – in practical terms how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did ghusl with this amount of water. She called for a vessel the size of a sa‘, and did ghusl from it.
There was a screen between her and them, hence they did not see anything but the pouring of water on her head. Abu Salamah was the son of ‘A’ishah’s foster sister; he had been breast-fed by Umm Kalthum, the daughter of Abu Bakr. So the two men present were her mahrams. Hence they saw nothing of her ghusl except the pouring of water onto her head, for that is what is permissible for a man to see of the woman who is his mahram. Were it not that they saw that, there would have been no point in calling for water to be brought and purifying herself in their presence, because if she did all of that behind a screen, where they could not see her at all, it would have been sufficient for her to teach them in words only. She only put the screen to cover the lower part of her body, and what it is not permissible for a mahram to look at..

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Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..