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Hadith
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It was narrated that ‘Umayr, the freed slave of Ibn ‘Abbas, said: ‘Abdullah ibn Yasar, the freed slave of Maymunah, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), went to visit Abu Juhaym ibn al-Harith ibn al-Simmah al-Ansari. Abul Juhaym al-Ansari said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came from the direction of Bi’r Jamal and was met by a man who greeted him with salaam, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not return the greeting until he turned to the wall and wiped his face and hands, then he returned the greeting..

Commentary : Tayammum is a concession that Allah (may He be exalted) has prescribed for His slaves when water is not available or it is not possible to use it, so as to make things easy for them, as it makes it permissible to offer the prayer and do other acts of worship. So if a Muslim is not in a state of purity, and cannot find water, but he wants to mention the name of Allah (may He be exalted), then he may do tayammum before mentioning Him, as is indicated by this hadith. Abu Juhaym ibn al-Harith ibn al-Simmah al-Ansari narrates that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came from the direction of Bi’r Jamal – which is a place near Madinah – he was met by a man who greeted him with salaam, but he did not return the greeting until he turned to a wall, patted it with his hands, and wiped his face and hands, then he returned the man’s greeting. That was because al-Salaam is one of the names of Allah (may He be exalted), so the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to mention the name of Allah when he was in a state of purity. Hence he did tayammum, then he returned the man’s greeting.
This hadith indicates that tayammum may be done for supererogatory actions and virtuous deeds, and not only for obligatory deeds.
It indicates that tayammum may be done when not travelling, if there is no water available, or if one is not able to use it.
It indicates that tayammum consists of patting the dust once to wipe the face and hands..

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It was narrated that ‘Abdul Rahman ibn Abza said: A man came to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab and said: I became junub and could not find any water. ‘Ammar ibn Yasir said to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab: Do you not remember when we were on a journey, you and I? As for you, you did not pray; as for me, I rolled in the dust and prayed. I mentioned that to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “It would have been sufficient for you to do like this.” Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) patted the ground with his hands and blew onto them, then he wiped his face and hands with them..

Commentary : Tayammum is a concession that Allah (may He be exalted) has prescribed for His slaves when water is not available or it is not possible to use it, so as to make things easy for them, as it removes impurity (hadath) and makes it permissible to offer the prayer and do other acts of worship. In this hadith, the Tabi‘i ‘Abdul Rahman ibn Abza narrates that a man from the desert – as mentioned in the report of ‘Abdul Razzaq – came to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) and told him that he had become junub, but he could not find any water with which to do ghusl to cleanse himself from janabah. The word janabah refers to anyone who emits maniy (semen) or has intercourse; it is so called because he must avoid (ijtinab) prayer and other acts of worship until he has purified himself from it.
The response of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), according to a report narrated by Muslim, was to say: Do not pray. He told him not to pray until he could find water. According to a version narrated by Abu Dawud, he said: As for me, I would not pray until I could find water. It is as if ‘Umar thought that he should not pray until he found water with which to purify himself, then he could pray. At this point, ‘Ammar ibn Yasir reminded ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with them) of something that had happened to both of them, as he said: O Commander of the Faithful, do you not remember when you and I were on a journey? According to a report narrated by Muslim, he said: …and we became junub. They both became junub whilst they were on a journey, and they could not find any water. As for ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), he refrained from praying, because he expected to reach water before the time for the prayer ended, or because he believed that tayammum was only valid in the case of minor impurity, not major impurity (janabah). As for ‘Ammar (may Allah be pleased with him), he drew an analogy between major impurity and minor impurity, and therefore he rolled in the dust in order to remove the major impurity. It is as if, because he believed that tayammum could be an alternative for wudu’ and it is done in a similar manner to it, he thought that tayammum could also be done in a manner similar to ghusl. Then he prayed after that. When he returned to Madinah, he told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about that, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “It would have been sufficient for you to do like this,” then he patted the ground with his hands and blew onto them, to reduce the dust, then he wiped his face and hands with them. Thus he taught him how to do tayammum, and he taught him that it is valid for both major impurity (janabah) and minor impurity.
In this hadith, we see that the Sahabah strove to work out issues (ijtihad) at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
It also indicates that making analogies (qiyas) is valid..

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It was narrated that Shaqiq said: I was sitting with ‘Abdullah and Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari, when Abu Musa said to him: What if a man becomes junub and cannot find water for a month; would he not do tayammum and pray? Then how do you understand this verse in Surat al-Ma’idah, {[But if you] do not find water, then seek clean earth…} [al-Ma’idah 5:6]? ‘Abdullah said: If that concession was granted to them, then you would most likely see them, every time they found the water to be cold, seeking clean earth [to do tayammum]. I said: So you dislike it for that reason? He said: Yes. Abu Musa said: Did you not hear what ‘Ammar said to ‘Umar? [He said:] The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sent me on an errand, and I became junub but could not find any water, so I rolled in the dust as an animal does. I mentioned that to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and he said: “It would have been sufficient for you to do like this.” Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) patted the ground with his hands once, then he shook them [to remove excess dust], then he wiped the back of his [right] hand with the palm of his left hand, or the back of his left hand with the palm of his [right] left, then he wiped his face with them. ‘Abdullah said: Did you not see that ‘Umar was not convinced by what ‘Ammar said? Ya‘la added, narrating from al-A‘mash, from Shaqiq: I was with ‘Abdullah and Abu Musa, and Abu Musa said: Did you not hear what ‘Ammar said to ‘Umar? [He said:] The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sent me and you, and I became junub and rolled in the dust. Then we came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and told him about that, and he said: “It would have been sufficient for you to do like this.” And he wiped his face and hands once..

Commentary : Tayammum is a concession that Allah (may He be exalted) has prescribed for His slaves when water is not available or it is not possible to use it, so as to make things easy for them, as it removes impurity (hadath) and makes it permissible to offer the prayer and do other acts of worship.
‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that in the beginning, tayammum was an alternative to wudu’ only, not to ghusl. In this hadith, the Tabi‘i Shaqiq ibn Salamah reports the discussion that took place between ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud and Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with them both) about this matter, as Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) said to ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him): What if a man becomes junub and cannot find water for a month; would he not do tayammum and pray? Abu Musa objected to the view of Ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) which said that tayammum cannot be done in the case of janabah, and a person in this situation cannot pray until he finds water. Then he [Abu Musa] quoted as evidence [to refute the view of Ibn Mas‘ud] the verse in which Allah (may He be exalted) says: {[But if you] do not find water, then seek clean earth…} [al-Ma’idah 5:6] ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) responded to him by saying that if people were granted a concession allowing them to do tayammum in this case, then people would most likely, every time they found the water to be cold, seek clean earth [to do tayammum] and they would stop washing with water. Ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) suggested that if we go along with the view that it is permissible for the one who is junub to do tayammum, that might open the door to being too heedless with regard to tayammum, so everyone who found the water cold would do tayammum [instead of ghusl]. Thus he wanted to prevent people from resorting to it for trivial reasons, by preventing them from doing tayammum to cleanse themselves from janabah instead of doing ghusl. But Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) quoted the hadith of ‘Ammar ibn Yasir (may Allah be pleased with him), in which he said that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sent him on an errand, and that during this journey he became junub, so he rolled in the dust like an animal. According to a report narrated in Sahih al-Bukhari, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab was with ‘Ammar (may Allah be pleased with them both), and he also became junub, but he refrained from doing tayammum and decided not to pray until he was able to find water. Then when ‘Ammar returned, he told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about that, and that he had rolled in the dust with the intention of doing tayammum to cleanse himself of janabah. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught him how to do tayammum, which is to pat the dust with both hands, then blow on them to reduce the dust, then wipe the hands and face with them. This proves that it is valid for one who is junub to do tayammum. Thus ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud disagreed with Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with them both), and said to him: Did you not see that ‘Umar was not convinced of what ‘Ammar said? Here he was referring to when ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) did not remember that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said this to ‘Ammar (may Allah be pleased with him) when ‘Ammar (may Allah be pleased with him) told him about this incident. It was as if ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) was using ‘Umar’s view as evidence to prove that tayammum was not valid in the case of janabah and major impurity.
This hadith highlights the fact that the Sahabah used to discuss issues of knowledge and quote as evidence the Book of Allah, the Sunnah of His Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and sound analogies to both. .

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It was narrated that ‘A’ishah the Mother of the Believers said: When Allah first enjoined the prayer, each prayer was two rak’ahs, whether one was at home or travelling. Then the prayer when travelling was confirmed and remained as it was, and the prayer when not travelling was increased..

Commentary : The revelation came down to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gradually. By the wisdom of Allah (may He be exalted), some rulings were abrogated. This gradual approach was done to achieve some purposes, or to make things easy, or for other reasons.
In this report, the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that in the beginning, before the Mi‘raj, all the prayers consisted of two rak‘ahs, whether one was at home or travelling. After that, the five daily prayers were enjoined, then obligatory prayers that were offered when not travelling were increased; Zuhr, ‘Asr and ‘Isha were increased to four rak‘ahs when not travelling, after having been two. Fajr, however, remained as two rak‘ahs because of the lengthy recitation in it; and Maghrib became three rak‘ahs, because it is the Witr of the day. Prayer offered when travelling remained two rak‘ahs, as it had been originally, except for Maghrib, which cannot be shortened.
It was said that after the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) reached Madinah and settled there, prayer offered when travelling was made lighter with the revelation of the verse, {And when you travel throughout the land, there is no blame upon you for shortening the prayer, [especially] if you fear that those who disbelieve may disrupt [or attack] you. Indeed, the disbelievers are ever to you a clear enemy} [al-Nisa’ 4:101]. Thus we may say that when they said that prayer when travelling remained as it was, the Arabic phrase may be understood as meaning that the prayer when travelling ended up lighter and did not continue to be the same as it was initially enjoined..

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It was narrated from ‘Umar ibn Abi Salamah that he saw the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) praying in a single garment in the house of Umm Salamah, with the ends of it wrapped over his shoulders..

Commentary : One of the distinguishing characteristics of the Islamic religion is that it makes things easy for people. Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) has not enjoined anything but that which is easy to apply. One example of that is making it easy to do acts of worship. In this hadith, ‘Umar ibn Abi Salamah – the stepson of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him); he was the son of Umm Salamah the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) – narrates that he saw the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) praying in a single garment in the house of Umm Salamah, with the ends of it wrapped on his shoulders. The word translated here as shoulder refers to the place where the shoulder meets the side of the neck and it is the place where the garment is placed on both sides. What that means is that he put the right edge of his garment on his left shoulder and the left edge of his garment on his right shoulder, then he tied the two ends over his chest, which is known as ishtimal; it is done to prevent the garment from falling and uncovering the ‘awrah. This ruling applies to one who only owns one garment, if the garment is big enough for that and can cover the entire body. But if the garment is narrow or small, then the individual should pray with it wrapped around his waist to cover his ‘awrah and the lower half of his body, as is mentioned in the hadith of Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) in Sahih al-Bukhari..

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It was narrated from Abul Nadr the freed slave of ‘Umar ibn ‘Ubaydillah, that Abu Murrah, the freed slave of Umm Hani’ bint Abi Talib told him that he heard Umm Hani’ bint Abi Talib say: I went to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) during the year of the conquest [of Makkah], and I found him doing ghusl, with his daughter Fatimah screening him. I greeted him with salaam, and he said: “Who is that?” I said: I am Umm Hani’ bint Abi Talib. He said: “Welcome, Umm Hani’!” When he had finished his ghusl, he stood and prayed eight rak‘ahs, wrapped in a single garment. Then when he had finished, I said: O Messenger of Allah, The son of my mother is saying that he is going to kill a man to whom I have offered my protection, So-and-so the son of Hubayrah. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “We grant protection to whomever you grant protection to, O Umm Hani’.” Umm Hani’ said: That happened at midmorning..

Commentary : Offering protection is a promise that one of the Muslims may give to a disbeliever, according to which that person becomes safe on the basis of that promise, and his life and property are protected.
In this hadith, Umm Hani’ bint Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with her) – who was a paternal cousin of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) – narrates that she went to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) during the year of the conquest [of Makkah], which occurred in 8 AH. According to a report in Sahih al-Bukhari, that happened at midmorning; midmorning (duha) extends from the time when the sun has risen to the height of a spear until just before Zuhr. That happened in her house, as is stated in a report narrated in Sahih al-Bukhari. She found him doing ghusl, with his daughter Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) shielding him from view, so that he would not be seen. She greeted him with salaam, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) asked who she was, so she told him that she was Umm Hani’, whereupon the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) welcomed her.
Then she narrates that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had finished his ghusl, he prayed eight rak‘ahs, wrapped in a single garment. The way in which that garment was worn was that he placed the right edge of the garment on his left shoulder, and placed the left edge of it on his right shoulder, then tied the two ends over his chest. This is what is called ishtimal, and it is done to make the garment more secure in covering the ‘awrah.
When he finished his prayer, she said to him: The son of my mother – meaning ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib – is threatening that he is going to kill a man to whom I have granted protection. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “We grant protection to whomever you grant protection to.” Umm Hani’ said: That happened at midmorning.
This hadith indicates that a woman may grant protection to a polytheist (mushrik).
It highlights the good manners of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), how he upheld the ties of kinship, how he spoke kind words, was of a gentle nature, and welcomed visitors warmly.
It also indicates that it is prescribed to offer the Duha prayer..

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It was narrated that Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Do not aim to offer your prayer when the sun is rising or setting.”.

Commentary : There are specific times for the five daily obligatory prayers. With regard to supererogatory and voluntary prayers, it is permissible to offer them at any time, apart from the fact that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) forbade praying at certain times, which include what is mentioned in this hadith, namely the time when the sun is rising and the time when it is setting. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Do not aim to offer your prayer when the sun is rising or setting.” In other words, do not seek out these two times to pray. The reason for that – as mentioned in other reports – is that the sun rises between the two sides of the head of a devil, or the side of the head of the Shaytan rises with it, and because some of the disbelievers used to prostrate to the sun and pray to it at these two times. Therefore it is prohibited to pray at these two times, in order to differ from these disbelievers.
This prohibition is understood to refer to voluntary prayers at these times. In the case of one who has an excuse for not having caught up with the obligatory prayer at the beginning of its time, he may pray at the end of its time and catch up with the prayer before the sun rises and before it sets, as it says in the hadith narrated by al-Bukhari: “Whoever catches up with one rak‘ah of Fajr before the sun rises has caught up with Fajr.” Or it may be that the prohibition is on praying deliberately at the time of sunrise or sunset. However, if it is not done deliberately – as in the case of one who wakes up or remembers after having forgotten – he may pray (at those times) and there is no blame on him..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that someone asked the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about praying in a single garment. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Does everyone among you have two garments?”.

Commentary : One of the distinguishing characteristics of the Islamic religion is that it makes things easy for people. Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) has not enjoined anything but that which is easy to apply.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah narrates that someone came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and asked him about the ruling on praying in a single garment: was that permissible and valid, or not? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave a response which implied the answer and gave a fatwa, as he said: “Does everyone among you have two garments?” This was a question which indicated that he found the first question somewhat odd, for if not everyone among you can afford two garments, and the prayer is obligatory, then it should be valid to pray in a single garment so long as it covers the ‘awrah, because this is a religion of ease and Allah does not burden any soul with more than it can bear. At the beginning of Islam, the Sahabah were extremely poor, and perhaps they could only afford one garment, which they would use in various ways for various purposes, including prayer. When Allah enabled the Muslims to make conquests, they prayed in two garments, a rida’ (upper garment) and izar (lower garment), so that this would be more covering for the body and the ‘awrah, and it would be more appropriate for the one who was standing in prayer, in addition to improving his appearance when standing before Allah (may He be glorified and exalted)..

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It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No one of you should pray in a single garment of which nothing is on his shoulders.”.

Commentary : Prayer is an act of worship that nourishes the soul. In the prayer, the individual stands before his Lord, and he should cover his body and his ‘awrah, presenting himself in a manner that is appropriate to standing before Allah (may He be glorified). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained what is permissible when praying and what is not permissible. This hadith includes the Prophet’s instructions not to pray in a single garment, leaving the shoulders bare, in such a manner that nothing is placed over them to cover them. The word translated here as shoulder refers to the place where the shoulder meets the neck. That is because, even though the shoulder is not ‘awrah, covering it will make the covering of the ‘awrah more secure, because if a man wraps his garment around his waist with nothing on his shoulders, there is no guarantee that his ‘awrah will not become uncovered. This is in contrast to the situation when he puts part of it on his shoulders. This is more respectful before Allah (may He be exalted).
This is indicative of how Islam makes it easy to pray in a single garment, if the garment is loose and wide enough to do that. But if it is narrow or small, then the individual may pray with it wrapped around his waist, to cover his ‘awrah and the lower part of his body, as is mentioned in the hadith of Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah in Sahih al-Bukhari..

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It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: I bear witness that I heard the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Whoever prays in a single garment, let him put each end of it on the opposite shoulder.”.

Commentary : Prayer is an act of worship that nourishes the soul. In the prayer, the individual stands before his Lord, and he should cover his body and his ‘awrah, presenting himself in a manner that is appropriate to standing before Allah (may He be glorified). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained what is permissible when praying and what is not permissible.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoins the one who prays and only has one garment to put each end of it on the opposite shoulder, by placing the right edge over his left shoulder and the left edge over his right shoulder, to make the garment cover his entire body and thus take the place of both the rida’ and izar. The benefit of putting the ends of the garment on opposite shoulders is that the worshipper will not be looking at his own ‘awrah when he bows, and his garment will not fall open when moving between the postures of the prayer.
This is indicative of how Islam makes it easy to pray in a single garment, if the garment is loose and wide enough to do that. But if it is narrow or small, then the individual may pray with it wrapped around his waist, to cover his ‘awrah and the lower part of his body, as is mentioned in the hadith of Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah in Sahih al-Bukhari..

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It was narrated that Sa‘id ibn al-Harith said: We asked Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah about praying in a single garment, and he said: I went out with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on one of his journeys. I came to him at night for some reason, and I found him praying. I was wearing a single garment, so I wrapped myself in it and prayed beside him. When he finished he said: “What brought you here at night, O Jabir?” I told him what I needed, and when I had finished speaking, he said: “What is this wrapping that I see?” I said: The garment is narrow. He said: “If it is wide, then wrap yourself with it, and if it is narrow, then wrap it around your waist.”.

Commentary : Prayer is an act of worship that nourishes the soul. In the prayer, the individual stands before his Lord, and he should cover his body and his ‘awrah, presenting himself in a manner that is appropriate to standing before Allah (may He be glorified). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained what is permissible when praying and what is not permissible.
In this hadith, the Tabi‘i Sa‘id ibn al-Harith narrates that they asked Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) about the ruling on praying in a single garment, and Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) responded by telling them what happened to him with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), when he went out with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on one of his journeys. That was the campaign of Buwat – as was specified in Sahih Muslim. Buwat is the mountains of Juhaynah; between Buwat and Madinah there is a distance of approximately 36 miles. This campaign was one of the first campaigns of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Jabir went by night for some purpose, and he found the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) standing in prayer. Jabir was wearing a single garment, so he wrapped it around himself because it was narrow, and he put its edges on his shoulders, and prayed with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) finished praying, he asked Jabir why he had come at night; he only asked him that because he knew that what had made him come at night was a serious matter. So Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) told him what he needed, then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “What is this wrapping that I see?” This is a question which reflected disapproval; the reason why he did not approve was that the garment was narrow, and Jabir had put its ends on opposite shoulders; so it was as if when he put its ends on opposite shoulders, the garment was no longer covering him properly. Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) replied by telling him that he was wearing a single garment that was narrow, so he had wrapped himself in it. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught him that the time to wrap oneself in that manner was when the garment was wide enough, in which case he could wrap himself in it by using one end as an izar and the other end as a rida’. But if the garment was narrow, then it would be sufficient to wrap it around his waist, because the aim is to cover the ‘awrah, which may be achieved by wrapping it around the waist only, if it is small and narrow..

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It was narrated that Sahl ibn Sa‘d said: Some men were praying with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), with their izars tied on their shoulders, like children, and it was said to the women: Do not raise your heads [from prostration] until the men have sat up completely..

Commentary : Some of the companions of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) were so poor and needy that they did not own more than one garment with which to wrap themselves and cover both the upper and lower parts of their bodies whilst praying. The basic principle concerning the izar is that it is used to cover the lower part of the body, but they were wrapping it around their shoulders, to serve as both a rida’ and an izar, covering the entire body as small children used to do at that time.
This is indicative of how Islam makes it easy to pray in one garment when necessary, if the garment is large enough to do that. But if it is too narrow or small, then the individual should pray with it wrapped around his waist, so as to cover his ‘awrah and the lower part of his body, as mentioned in the hadith of Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) in Sahih al-Bukhari.
It was said to the women: Do not raise your heads [from prostration] until you are certain that the men have sat up completely after rising from prostration. That was to prevent them seeing the ‘awrahs of the men, if they raised their heads from prostration before them. That was because the women stood behind the men, and the men’s ‘awrahs might become uncovered as they were standing up. Therefore the women were prohibited to raise their heads too soon, for that reason.
This hadith indicates that the garments of those men were short and might uncover their ‘awrahs.
It also highlights the fact that averting the gaze and avoiding looking at ‘awrahs is more emphasized in the case of prayer..

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It was narrated that Mughirah ibn Shu‘bah said: I was with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on a journey, and he said: “O Mughirah, pick up the vessel.” So I picked it up, then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) set out, until he disappeared from my view and relieved himself. He was wearing a Syrian jubbah, and he went to bring his arm out from its sleeve, but it was too narrow, so he brought his arm out from beneath the garment, and I poured water for him and he did wudu’ as for prayer and wiped over his khuffs, then he prayed..

Commentary : Al-Mughirah (may Allah be pleased with him) was with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) during a journey on one of his campaigns, which was the campaign to Tabuk in 9 AH. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed him to pick up “the vessel” – the vessel in question was a small vessel that was used for carrying water for wudu’ and the like. So al-Mughirah (may Allah be pleased with him) picked it up, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) set out until he had moved away from al-Mughirah and disappeared from his sight. Then he relieved himself, urinating or defecating. He was wearing a jubbah that had been woven in Syria. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tried to bring his arm out of the sleeve, but he could not do that, because it was too narrow. So he brought his arm out from beneath the jubbah so that he would be able to wash it in wudu’, and he lifted the jubbah up onto his shoulders; the word translated here as shoulder refers to the point where the arm meets the shoulder. Al-Mughirah poured water for him, and he did wudu’ as prescribed for prayer, and wiped over his khuffs. The khuff is a kind of footwear made of leather, which covers the foot. It is usually worn for warmth. He wiped over his khuffs because he had put them on his feet when he was in a state of purity, so he availed himself of the concession allowing one to wipe over the khuffs without taking them off. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed.
The Sunnah explains that wiping over the khuffs may be done for one day and night for one who is not travelling, and for three days and nights for one who is travelling.
This hadith indicates that one may pray in clothes that were made by the polytheists, because there were Christians in Syria.
It also indicates that it is valid to wipe over the khuffs..

364
It was narrated that ‘Amr ibn Dinar said: I heard Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah narrating that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was moving stones with them for [the rebuilding of] the Kaaba. He was wearing his izar, and his uncle al-‘Abbas said to him: O son of my brother, if you undo your izar and put it on your shoulders, it will protect you from the stones. So he undid it and placed it on his shoulders, then he fainted. And he was never seen in a state of undress after that, blessings and peace of Allah be upon him..

Commentary : Allah (may He be exalted) cared for His Prophet from childhood and before He sent him with His message; He protected him from anything shameful or inappropriate. One example of this divine care is mentioned in this hadith, in which Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was moving the stones to rebuild the Kaaba with his people, when Quraysh wanted to rebuild it. That was some time before his mission began. It was said that at that time he was fifteen years old. Whilst he was carrying the stones, he was wearing his izar, which is a garment that is worn to cover the lower part of the body. His uncle al-‘Abbas said to him: If you undo your izar and put it on your shoulders, making it a barrier between the skin and the rocks, it will be less painful and less tiring for you to carry the stones. The word translated here as shoulder refers to where the top of the arm meets the shoulder. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did that. Then he fainted, because his ‘awrah had become uncovered, for he had a natural inclination towards the best of manners and attitudes, and was created with a complete sense of modesty and shyness, and fainting was more covering for him. This is an example of Allah’s care for His Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and of His guiding him to follow the best manners and attitudes. From that time on, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was never seen in a state of undress with his ‘awrah uncovered.
It was also said that he fainted because of something he saw behind him, or because of a caller who called out to him to alert him to his being in a state of undress. In al-Sahihayn it says: He fell to the ground and his eyes rolled up, then he woke up and said: “My izar, my izar!” Then he tied his izar on firmly..

365
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: A man went to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and asked him about praying in a single garment. He said: “Does everyone among you have two garments?” Then a man asked ‘Umar [a similar question] and he said: If Allah has enabled you to afford it, then cover yourselves properly; a man may wear whatever he has of garments. A man may pray in an izar and rida’, or in an izar and chemise, or in an izar and a qaba’, or in a sirwal and a rida’, or in a sirwal and a chemise, or in a sirwal and a qaba’, or in a short sirwal and a qaba’, or in a tubban and a chemise. And I think he said: in a tubban and a rida’..

Commentary : Prayer is an act of worship that nourishes the soul. In the prayer, the individual stands before his Lord, and he should cover his body and his ‘awrah, presenting himself in a manner that is appropriate to standing before Allah (may He be glorified). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained what is permissible when praying and what is not permissible.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and asked him about praying in a single garment: was that permissible and valid, or not? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave a response which implied the answer and gave a fatwa, as he said: “Does everyone among you have two garments?” This was a question which indicated that he found the question somewhat odd, for if not everyone among you can afford two garments, and the prayer is obligatory, then it should be valid to pray in a single garment so long as it covers the ‘awrah, because this is a religion of ease and Allah does not burden any soul with more than it can bear.
Then a man asked ‘Umar about praying in a single garment. That occurred during the caliphate of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). It seems that they differed concerning that matter, so they asked the caliph about it, and he said: If Allah has enabled you to afford it, then cover yourselves properly. Here he was urging people to let the blessings of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) be seen clearly. This indicates that a single garment is sufficient, but anything in addition to that is better. Then ‘Umar said: A man may wear whatever he has of garments. A man may pray in an izar and rida’… What is meant is: let him put on his garments and pray in them. So a man may pray in an izar and rida’; the izar is the garment that covers the lower part of the body, and the rida’ covers the upper part. Or he may pray in an izar and a chemise, which refers to a garment with sleeves and pockets that is shaped to fit the body, and is put on and taken off over the head. It is like the thobe that people wear nowadays. Or he may pray in an izar and qaba’; the qaba’ is a garment with narrow sleeves and a narrow middle, and a slit at the back. Or he may pray in a sirwal (loose trousers) and a rida’; or in a sirwal and a chemise; or in a sirwal and a qaba’; or in a tubban and a qaba’; or in a tubban and a chemise. Sirwal refers to trousers that cover the body from the navel to the knees, or to the feet. Tubban refers to something that is like the sirwal except that it has no legs; it covers the most private part of the ‘awrah only. These nine types of clothing are listed with a conjunction, because ‘Umar said that by way of listing options. It is as if he was saying: if a man puts on whatever he has of garments, that is good enough, then he explained what garments may go together.
This hadith indicates that praying in two garments is better, even though it is permissible to pray in one garment.
It indicates that the matter of what garments may be worn when praying is easy and broad in scope, and that it may vary according to what one is able to afford, without falling short with regard to covering the ‘awrah..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..