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Hadith
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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Do you see this qiblah of mine here? By Allah, your khushu‘ [proper focus and humility] and your bowing are not hidden from me, for indeed I see you behind my back.”.

Commentary : Khushu‘ (proper focus and humility) forms the essence of prayer; by means of khushu‘ the worshipper will be calm and unhurried in his prayer, and will turn more wholeheartedly to Allah (may He be glorified). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught the Muslims the etiquette of prayer and what is most important when praying, so that their prayer might be perfected.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) asked his companions: “Do you see this qiblah of mine here?” This is a question objecting to what they might think when he is facing towards the qiblah. In other words: do you think that I do not see what you do, because my qiblah is in this direction, and the one who faces towards something turns his back towards what is behind him. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained that what he could see was not limited to one direction; he swore by Allah that he could see who was focusing properly in his prayer, and who was not, behind him. His intention in saying that was to urge them to focus properly, with humility, and bow properly in the prayer. What his words “for indeed I see you behind my back” meant was that Allah (may He be exalted) had created in him the ability to see those who were standing behind him. This is something that was unique to him, and he was able to see them in a real sense, which was something extraordinary. He was also granted other extraordinary abilities apart from this, and that is not contrary to rational thinking or to any religious text; rather there are religious texts that confirm that, and we must believe in it.
It may be that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw them through what was revealed to him about their actions and how they performed the prayer, because seeing may mean knowing and believing.
What he meant when he said that was: Focus properly in the prayer, with humility, and do the essential parts thereof properly, as if I am watching you and directing you to do it correctly, for I see your actions in prayer behind me when I am standing and leading you in prayer and you are behind me, just as I see you when I am looking at you in front of me.
This hadith is one of the proofs of the prophethood of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) led us in prayer, then he ascended the minbar and said regarding the prayer and bowing: “Indeed I can see you behind me as I see you [now].”.

Commentary : Khushu‘ (proper focus and humility) form the essence of prayer; by means of khushu‘ the worshipper will be calm and unhurried in his prayer, and will turn more wholeheartedly to Allah (may He be glorified). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught the Muslims the etiquette of prayer and what is most important when praying, so that their prayer might be perfected.
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) led them in prayer, then he ascended the minbar and spoke regarding the prayer and bowing, meaning that he exhorted them with regard to the prayer and bowing. He singled out bowing for mention, even though it is included in the prayer, because he wanted to pay extra attention to it, either because it is the greatest of the essential parts of the prayer, based on the fact that if a latecomer to a congregational prayer catches up with bowing, he has caught up with that entire rak‘ah, or because he knew that they were falling short in bowing, so he mentioned it in order to highlight their shortcomings in it. Then he said: “Indeed I can see you behind me as I see you [now].” This was one of his miracles and unique characteristics, and one of the proofs of his prophethood. What is meant is that Allah (may He be exalted) had created in him the ability to know what was happening behind him, and his seeing meant knowing in a true sense what was happening, by extraordinary means. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was granted many extraordinary feats and events in addition to this, and nothing in that is contrary to rational thinking or religious texts, rather the religious texts speak of such miracles and extraordinary events, so we must believe in them.
It may be that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw them through what was revealed to him about their actions and how they performed the prayer, because seeing may mean knowing and believing.
What he meant when he said that was: Focus properly in the prayer, with humility, and bow and do the essential parts thereof properly, as if I am watching you and directing you to do it correctly, for I see your actions in prayer behind me when I am standing and leading you in prayer and you are behind me, just as I see you when I am looking at you in front of me.
This hadith urges us to offer the prayer in the manner enjoined by Allah (may He be glorified and exalted).
It is also one of the proofs of the prophethood of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

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It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) held a race between horses that had been made lean, starting from al-Hafya’ and ending at Thaniyyat al-Wada‘, and another race between horses that had not been made lean, starting from Thaniyyat al-Wada‘ and ending at the mosque of Banu Zurayq. ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar was one of those who took part in these races..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prescribed for his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) that by means of which they could attain some pleasures of this world and would also have a good impact on their faith and their hereafter. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) held a race between horses that had been made lean, which means that they were fed until they grew fat and strong, then their feed was reduced, giving them just enough to survive, and they were put in an enclosed space and covered with blankets until they became hot and sweated. Then when the sweat dried, their flesh would be reduced and they would be able to run fast. The course of the race began at al-Hafya’, which is a place near Madinah, to the west of Mount Uhud, and ended at Thaniyyat al-Wada‘; a thaniyyah is a path through the mountains, and it was called Thaniyyat al-Wada‘ [lit. the mountain pass of farewell] because when someone departed from Madinah, his family would take him to that mountain pass, then they would bid farewell to him in that place, and go back home. Between Thaniyyat al-Wada‘ and al-Hafya’ there is a distance of five miles or more (approximately 8 km). He also held a race between heavy horses that had not been made lean, from Thaniyyat al-Wada‘ to the mosque of Banu Zurayq, who were a tribe of the Ansar. The mosque was named after them by way of describing which mosque it was, not that they owned it. Between Thaniyyat al-Wada‘ and the mosque of Banu Zurayq there was a distance of one kilometre. ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was one of those who took part in these horse races.
This hadith indicates that it is valid to attribute a mosque to the one who built it or the one who prays in it, and to name it after him, and that it is valid to attribute righteous deeds to their doers.
It indicates that it is permissible to make horses lean and to train them to run, preparing them to make the word of Allah (may He be exalted) supreme and to support His religion.
It indicates that it is permissible to make animals go hungry for a good purpose, not by way of cruelty.
It indicates that it is essential to state the distance and the length of the course in horse races..

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Some wealth from al-Bahrain was brought to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and he said: “Display it in the mosque.” It was the largest amount of wealth ever brought to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came out to pray, and he did not pay any attention to it. When he had finished the prayer, he sat by it, and he did not see anyone but he gave him something. Then al-‘Abbas came to him and said: O Messenger of Allah, give me something, for I paid ransom for myself and for ‘Aqil. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Take.” So he scooped up some wealth into his garment, then he tried to lift it, but he could not. He said: O Messenger of Allah, tell someone to lift it up for me. He said: “No.” He said: Then lift it up onto me yourself. He said: “No.” So he reduced it, then he tried to lift it up, and he said: O Messenger of Allah, tell someone to lift it up onto me. He said: “No.” He said: Then lift it up onto me yourself. He said: “No.” Then he reduced it some more, then he lifted it up onto his back, and left. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) kept watching him until he disappeared from our view, because he was astonished at how much he wanted to have of it. And the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not leave until there was not even a single dirham left of it..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) warned his ummah against accumulating worldly gains, and said that those who acquire a great deal of wealth in this world will be those among the people who have the least share of reward on the Day of Resurrection, except those who pay what is due on wealth [i.e., zakah and charity]. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the least interested of people in worldly gains.
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the wealth of al-Bahrain – meaning the land tax [kharaj] that was imposed on the Magians of Hajar, which was a region in the land of al-Bahrain – was brought by Abu ‘Ubaydah ibn al-Jarrah (may Allah be pleased with him); it had been sent by al-‘Ala’ ibn al-Hadrami from al-Bahrain. The total amount was eighty thousand dirhams. The name al-Bahrain in ancient times referred to the region that now includes [the island of] Bahrain, al-Ahsa’ and al-Qatif, in the eastern part of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed his companions to display that wealth in the mosque; this wealth was the largest amount that had been brought to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came out to pray without paying any attention to it or looking at it, in order to show his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) that wealth was not something to be concerned about, and it should not distract one from prayer and faith. When he had finished his prayer, he sat, and he did not see anyone but he gave him some of that wealth. Then al-‘Abbas ibn ‘Abdul Muttalib (may Allah be pleased with him), the paternal uncle of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), came to him and said: Give me something, for I ransomed myself and ‘Aqil – meaning that he had paid the ransom for himself and for ‘Aqil ibn Abi Talib when they were taken prisoner on the day of Badr. It was said that he paid a ransom of eighty uqiyahs of gold, or that he paid one thousand dinars. What he meant was that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) should compensate him for the wealth that he had lost.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Take.” So al-‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) scooped up a great deal with his hands, and placed it in his garment. Then he tried to lift it up, but he was not able to do so. So he told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to instruct one of those present to lift it up onto him so that he could carry it. But the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) refused to instruct anyone to do that. So al-‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to lift it up onto him himself, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) refused to do that. Al-‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) threw some of it aside, so that he would be able to carry it, then he tried to lift it but he was not able to do so. He told the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to instruct someone to lift it up onto him, but he refused, and he also refused to lift it onto him himself. So al-‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) put back some more of it, then he lifted it onto his back – the Arabic word translated here as back refers to the part of the back between the shoulders – then he left. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) kept watching him until he went away and disappeared from view. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was astonished at how keen al-‘Abbas was to acquire wealth. The only reason he did not instruct anyone to lift the wealth onto al-‘Abbas’s back was – and Allah knows best –that he wanted to deter this eagerness to take too much wealth that al-‘Abbas demonstrated, and so that he would not take more than he needed of worldly gains, and would limit himself to what was sufficient for him, as he himself used to do.
The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not get up and leave until he had shared out all the wealth, and not a single dirham of it was left. This was his usual habit.
This hadith indicates that the wealth of al-fay’ [booty seized without fighting] may be given to both rich and poor.
It highlights how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) looked down on worldly gains and glamour, no matter how great they were.
It indicates that one may be astonished at the eagerness of someone who is keen to acquire wealth and to acquire a great deal of it.
It indicates that it is permissible to share out fay’ in the mosque, and to put it in the mosque..

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It was narrated from Ishaq ibn ‘Abdillah ibn Abi Talhah that he heard Anas say: I found the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in the mosque, and some people were with him. I stood there and he said to me: “Did Abu Talhah send you?” I said: Yes. He said: “[Is he inviting me] to eat?” I said: Yes. He said to those who were with him: “Let’s go!” He set out, and I set out ahead of them..

Commentary : This text is an abridgement of a lengthy hadith the authenticity of which is agreed upon. During the battle of al-Khandaq, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) suffered greatly from hunger and exhaustion, to the extent that that showed in the voice of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as it sounded weak. Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) sensed hunger in the voice of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). He told his wife Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was hungry, and asked her whether she had any food. She brought out some baked loaves of barley flour, then she brought out a scarf and put the bread together and wrapped it in the scarf. Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) – whose mother was Umm Sulaym – said: Then she tucked it under my arm, to hide it, and sent me to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) did what she did because there was so little bread and food. The apparent meaning of that report indicates that she sent the food to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). In other reports in al-Sahihayn, it says that she prepared food, and Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) sent Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to invite him to come and eat some of that food. Perhaps this version is in harmony with the text, and perhaps the story of offering food to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) happened on two separate occasions.
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) went to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and found him sitting in the mosque with his companions. He stood waiting for the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to be alone, so that he could give him the bread, because it was not enough for his companions. When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw him standing there, he said to him: “Did Abu Talhah send you?” Anas replied: Yes. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “[Is he inviting me] to eat?” Anas said: Yes. This was one of his miracles and a sign of his prophethood, that he told Anas why he had come before Anas even spoke. Abu Talhah’s full name was Zayd ibn Sahl al-Ansari, one of the leaders who had been present at the pledge of al-‘Aqabah; he was the husband of the mother of Anas (may Allah be pleased with them all).
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) brought his companions to the house of Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) to eat with him, because they were very hungry and exhausted. This is an example of the Prophet’s etiquette and kind treatment of his companions, as he did not keep that invitation to himself; rather the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) brought them to eat with Abu Talhah even though his food was little, because he knew that it would be sufficient for all of them, by virtue of his barakah and what Allah (may He be exalted) had granted uniquely to him of honour and virtue. This was another sign of his prophethood.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) set out, along with his companions, and Anas was walking quickly ahead of them, to bring this news to Abu Talhah. So he came to him and told him, and Abu Talhah told his wife Umm Sulaym about the news, and that they did not have enough food for the companions of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Umm Sulaym referred the matter to Allah, which is indicative of her strong faith and religious commitment. Abu Talhah went out to welcome the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), then they came in to where Umm Sulaym was. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “O Umm Sulaym, bring me what you have”, asking her to bring to him what she had of bread. When she brought it, the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed that it be broken into pieces, then Umm Sulaym squeezed a round leather vessel of ghee and honey over the bread, like a condiment. Then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said whatever he wanted to say concerning it, and he offered supplication that the food be blessed. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to Abu Talhah: “Give permission to ten men to come in.” That was because the place was not big enough to hold all the people. Permission was given to them, and they came and ate until they were full, then they left. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Give permission to another ten to come in.” And it carried on like that until all the people – of whom there were seventy or eighty men – had eaten their fill, by the blessing of the supplication of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
In this hadith, we see that if someone is invited to a meal and knows that the host will not mind if he brings someone else with him, and that the food will be sufficient, then there is nothing wrong with him bringing that other person with him.  .

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came to Madinah and halted in A‘la al-Madinah, among a tribe called Banu ‘Amr ibn ‘Awf. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stayed among them for fourteen days, then he sent for Banul Najjar, who came armed with their swords. It is as if I can see the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on his mount, with Abu Bakr riding behind him, and Banul Najjar all around him, until he dismounted in the courtyard of Abu Ayyub. He liked to pray wherever he was when the time for prayer came, and he would pray in sheepfolds. He issued instructions that the mosque be built, and he sent for a group of Banul Najjar and said: “O Banul Najjar, name your price for this garden of yours.” They said: No, by Allah, we will not ask for any price for it, except [reward] from Allah. Anas said: There was in [that garden] what I am going to tell you: there were some graves of the polytheists, and a ruin, and some palm trees. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) issued orders that the graves be dug up, the ruin be levelled, and the palm trees cut down; [the trunks of the palm trees] were lined up to make a wall in the direction of the qiblah of the mosque, and they made its other two supporting walls of stone. They brought stones whilst reciting rajaz verse, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was with them and was saying: “O Allah, there is no good except the good of the hereafter; have mercy on the Ansar and the Muhajirin.”.

Commentary : The migration from Makkah to Madinah took place by the command of Allah to His Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). That was the beginning of a new stage in the da‘wah (call) and the spread of Islam.
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) migrated to Madinah, he halted and stayed in A‘la al-Madinah, which is an area also known as al-‘Awali and al-‘Aliyah. This refers to Quba’ and its environs. Quba’ was the land of Banu ‘Amr ibn ‘Awf. It was also said that everything on the side of Madinah in the direction of Najd, of villages and populated areas as far as Tihamah, is called al-‘Aliyah, and everything other than that is called al-Safilah.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stayed with them for fourteen days, then he sent for his maternal uncles, Banul Najjar. They came with their swords on their shoulders, as was their custom when they went to meet one of their prominent figures; or it may be that they came in this manner because they feared that the Jews might harm the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and this was a display of their support for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The Prophet’s intention was to move from al-‘Awali to the centre of Madinah and find a place to settle there. So he rode his she-camel, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) rode behind him, which is indicative of the honourable and unique status of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him), which none of the other companions shared with him. The men of Banul Najjar, their bravest fighters and nobles, surrounded him, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) rode until he dismounted and unloaded his luggage in the courtyard of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him), who was one of Banul Najjar. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) liked to pray wherever he was when the time for prayer came, to show that the entire earth had been made a place of prostration and a means of purification for him. He would pray in sheepfolds, which are enclosures to which the sheep go to sleep, rest and spend the night. This was a concession granted by the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), allowing people to pray in the places where sheep gathered, because sheep are peaceful animals that do not harm anyone, and there is blessing in them because they are so peaceful and gentle, and do not move very much, in addition to other benefits. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to build the mosque on the site of a garden belonging to some of Banul Najjar, so he sent word to them and said to them: Name your price for your garden; tell me how much you want for it, so that I can buy it from you. But they swore by Allah that they would seek the reward for that with Allah (may He be glorified and exalted), and they did not want any money for it. In this place there were some old graves of the polytheists, a ruin and some palm trees, so the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) issued orders that the graves of the polytheists be dug up, and the bones and remains be removed to another place. The ruin, in which there were holes, stones, cracks and the like, was to be leveled. It was said that what was meant by levelling the ruin is that the ruined building that is to be demolished will result in piles of rubble on the ground, so there is a need to remove that rubble, then make the ground level. And he issued orders that the palm trees be cut down, then the trunks of the felled trees were lined up to form a wall in the direction of the qiblah of the mosque. They made two other supporting walls of stone; the word translated here as supporting wall refers to anything that supports a structure around it. It is as if they put stones around the wall made of palm trunks. As they worked, they were reciting lines of rajaz verse, like chanting; rajaz is a type of rhythmic speech, like poetry. They did that to energize themselves and make the work go more smoothly. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was reciting lines of rajaz verse with them, and saying: “O Allah, there is no good except the good of the hereafter”, meaning that true goodness is the bliss of the hereafter, because it is eternal, and everything else is temporary; “have mercy on the Ansar and the Muhajirin” – this was a supplication for forgiveness for them. The Ansar were [the tribes of] al-Aws and al-Khazraj who supported him against his enemies, and the Muhajirin were those who migrated from Makkah to Madinah.
There was an issue regarding how to understand the report that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) recited lines of rajaz verse when Allah (may He be exalted) says: {And We did not give Prophet Muhammad, knowledge of poetry} [Ya-Sin 36:69].  The response to that is that what was not possible for him was to compose poetry of his own; it does not refer to him reciting poetry composed by others. It was not something that he did deliberately, and it was never proven that he composed poetry of his own.
This hadith indicates that it is permissible to recite poetry and rajaz verse when working and when on a military campaign, and to use that as a means to energize people and make the work go more smoothly.
It indicates that the one who owns something has more right to name its price.
It indicates that if a graveyard is dug up and the bones of the dead are removed, then it is no longer regarded as a graveyard, and it is permissible to pray there.
It indicates that one should not pray in graveyards, even if they are the graveyards of the polytheists, because that is barring a means that may lead to taking graves as places of worship, because with the passage of time people will forget what the situation was, and there is the fear that it may lead to fitnah and going astray.
It indicates that the graves of the polytheists have no sanctity, and that it is permissible to exhume their bones and remove them from that place, in order to make use of the land, if there is a need for that.
It indicates that it is permissible to cut down palm trees and other trees, if that serves the public interest. .

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It was narrated that Nafi‘ said: I saw Ibn ‘Umar praying facing towards his camel, and he said: I saw the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) doing that..

Commentary : The qiblah is the direction faced during prayer, in which a person turns to Allah. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed the worshipper to have a sutrah (screen) so that no one will pass in front of him and interrupt his prayer, especially in open spaces. However, in the case of congregational prayer, if the imam has a sutrah for himself, then he is the sutrah for those who are praying behind him.
In this hadith, Nafi‘, the freed slave of ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar, narrates that he saw Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) praying, using his camel – the Arabic word refers to a camel used for travelling – as a screen whilst he was praying, so that no one would walk in front of him, between him and the qiblah. Then ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) stated – and it is as if he was asked about what he had done – that he had seen the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) praying whilst facing towards his camel, making it like a screen whilst he prayed, and that he was following the example of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). This is different from the issue of praying in camel pens, concerning which it was narrated that that is prohibited – as it was narrated by al-Tirmidhi, al-Nasa’i, Ibn Majah and others that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “… and do not pray in camel pens.” Rather the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed in the direction of the camel, not in the place where it was kept. It cannot be said that if a camel kneels in a place, that place then becomes a pen for it, or a place that is known to be for camels; rather pens are the places that are already prepared and equipped for camels to stay there overnight, and it is known to the people and to the camels themselves that these places are for them, so they naturally go to that place at the end of the day, without any trouble..

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It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Offer some of your prayers in your houses, and do not make them like graves.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was keen to teach his ummah good things, and he would instruct them to do what would be beneficial to them.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed the Muslims to offer some of the supererogatory and sunnah prayers – such as Duha, qiyam al-layl, tahajjud and so on – in their houses. His aim was to encourage people to offer supererogatory prayers at home. It is narrated in al-Sahihayn from Zayd ibn Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The best prayer is the prayer that a man offers in his house, except for the prescribed prayers.” That is because this is furthest removed from showing off, and is a precaution against anything that could make the prayers null and void; it brings blessing (barakah) and mercy to the house, attracts angels to the house and drives devils away; thus these houses will be revived with the blessing of the prayer and what it involves of remembering Allah and calling upon Him. Then houses will not be made like graves, as if the people in them are dead and residing in graves. It was said that it may be that what is meant is: do not make your houses places that are only for sleeping, in which you do not pray, for sleep is the brother of death..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “May Allah destroy the Jews! They took the graves of their prophets as places of worship.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was very concerned about warning his ummah against falling into shirk, as happened to the nations who came before us, who took the graves of their prophets as places of worship.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “May Allah destroy the Jews!” This is a supplication against them, praying that Allah kill them and oppose them. It was said that it is an expression that refers to their being cast far away from mercy, because they took the graves of their prophets as places of worship. They did that either by way of prostrating to them and venerating them; or by taking them as a direction towards which they faced when praying, and turning to it in worship; or because they built places of worship over the graves.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) only singled out the Jews for mention here because they were the first people to establish this idea and were the first to take the graves of their prophets as places of worship, so their wrongdoing is worse than that of others, and thus they are more extreme in that regard.
This is a stern warning and prohibition, and teaches the ummah to avoid taking graves as places of worship, because that is a means that may lead to believing in them and worshipping them..

438
It was narrated that Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “I have been given five things that were not given to any of the prophets before me: I have been supported with fear for a distance of one month; the earth has been made a place of prostration and a means of purification for me, so wherever any man of my ummah is when the time comes to pray, let him pray; war booty has been made permissible for me; each prophet before me was sent exclusively to his own people, whereas I have been sent to all of mankind; and I have been granted intercession..

Commentary : Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) granted certain blessings exclusively to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) which He did not grant exclusively to any of the prophets before him.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells of these characteristics which were never given in combination to any of the prophets except to him (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The first is that he was supported with fear for the distance of a month, so fear would be cast in the hearts of his enemies when there was a distance of a month’s journey between him and them, as Allah (may He be exalted) says: {We will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve for what they have associated with Allah} [Al ‘Imran 3:151]. And Allah said concerning the Battle of Badr: {[Remember] when your Lord inspired to the angels, “I am with you, so strengthen those who have believed. I will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieved”} [al-Anfal 8:12].
The second was that the earth was made a place of prostration and a means of purification for him. This is one of the things that were granted exclusively to this ummah. So wherever a man is when the time for prayer comes, he may pray in the place where he is when the time for prayer comes. If he cannot find water, then he may do tayammum with clean earth, or whatever comes under the same ruling as it, then pray, for prayer is not only to be done in the mosques that are built for that purpose, as was the case with previous nations; rather the Muslims may pray wherever they are on earth when the time for prayer comes. This is not contradicted by the fact that prayer is not allowed in certain places on earth, for reasons specific to those places, such as the prohibition on praying in camel pens, graveyards and bathrooms.
Mentioning that tayammum is one of the unique blessings that were granted to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gives the impression that purification with water was not something unique to him that was not granted to other prophets. Rather what is unique to him is tayammum, which was granted to him so as to make things easier when water is not available, or when it is not possible to use it.
The third thing is that war booty was made permissible for him; this refers to what the Muslims capture during their wars with the disbelievers, and everything captured by force from the disbelievers. This was not permitted to the prophets who came before him, as it is narrated in al-Sahihayn from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “One of the prophets went on a campaign and collected booty, then a fire came to consume it…”
The fourth thing is that he was sent to all of mankind, for he was the last of the prophets. Hence his message was made universal, to reach all of mankind. The prophets before him were sent exclusively to their own people. Muslim narrated from Abu Hurayrah in a marfu‘ hadith: “I have been sent to all people; the prophets end with me.”
The fifth thing is that he was granted intercession, so he will intercede for the people on the Day of Resurrection at the beginning of the reckoning, which will be the general intercession or the greater intercession, and there are other things that will be exclusive to him on the Day of Resurrection.
The intercession that is unique to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) among the other prophets is not the intercession to bring forth the sinners from the Fire, for other prophets and the believers will also have a share of that intercession, as is mentioned in mutawatir texts. Rather the intercession that is unique to him, to the exclusion of the other prophets, is of four types: (i) he will intercede for all people, asking for judgement to be passed among them; (ii) he will intercede for the people of Paradise to be admitted to Paradise; (iii) he will intercede for those who committed major sins among the people of Hell, and it was said that this is something that is granted uniquely to him; (iv) he will intercede for large numbers of his ummah, for he has saved and stored up his intercession for the Day of Resurrection. There are sahih reports which clearly state that this intercession is what is referred to in this hadith, such as the hadith which was narrated by Ahmad from ‘Amr ibn Shu‘ayb, from his father, from his grandfather ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Tonight I was granted five things that were not granted to anyone before me… The fifth of which is that it was said to me: Ask, for every prophet [before you] asked. But I have delayed my asking until the Day of Resurrection, and it will be for you and for everyone who testifies that there is no god worthy of worship except Allah.”
Some of the scholars mentioned a fifth type of intercession that is unique to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), which is his intercession for the punishment to be reduced for some of the polytheists, such as his intercession for his uncle Abu Talib. This was granted exclusively to our Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). And some scholars include a sixth kind of intercession that is unique to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), namely his intercession for seventy thousand to enter Paradise without being brought to account.
The one who reflects upon the texts and reports will realize that the characteristics that were granted exclusively to him, to the exclusion of other prophets, are not limited to five. On some occasions he mentioned six, or five, or four, or three, according to what needed to be mentioned.
This hadith highlights the status of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) before Allah (may He be glorified and exalted.
It also highlights the fact that some of the prophets are superior to others, by the blessing of Allah (may He be exalted)..

439
It was narrated from ‘A’ishah that Walidah was a black slave woman belonging to a tribe of the Arabs. They manumitted her, but she remained with them. She said: One of the girls of the tribe went out wearing an adorned red leather scarf. She took it off – or she dropped it – and a kite [a type of bird] flew over and thought that it was meat, so it snatched it up. They looked for it, but they did not find it, so they accused me of taking it. They started to examine her, to the extent that they even examined her private parts. She said: By Allah, I was standing with them when the kite flew by and dropped it, and it fell in their midst. I said: This is what you are accusing me of, and you claimed [that I took it], but I am innocent of that; here it is. Then she came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and became Muslim. ‘A’ishah said: She had a tent – or a small room with a little roof – in the mosque. She used to come to me and talk to me, and she never sat with me but she said: The day of the scarf was one of the wonders of our Lord… But it saved me from the land of disbelief. ‘A’ishah said: I said to her: What is the matter with you? Every time you sit with me, you say this. And then she told me the whole story..

Commentary : Our Lord (may He be glorified and exalted) is most merciful to His slaves, especially the weak and oppressed among them; He supports them against those who wrong them and causes the truth to be manifest sooner or later.
In this hadith, the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that there was a black slave woman who belonged to one of the Arab tribes. They manumitted her and freed her from slavery, but she remained with them. This former slave woman told the story of how a girl from that tribe went out wearing a red scarf made of leather, that was adorned with strings of pearls; this was something that women wore to adorn themselves. It was also said that it was woven from strips of leather adorned with pearls, and a woman would tie it between her shoulder and waist. The girl dropped the scarf, and a kite – which is a well-known, harmful type of bird; it is permissible to kill this bird both outside and inside the Haram zone – flew by. The kite snatched up the scarf, thinking that it was meat. They looked for this scarf, searching for it and asking about it, but they did not find it, so they accused that former slave woman of stealing it. They came and examined her, to the extent that they even examined her ‘awrah, but Allah (may He be glorified) made known the innocence of this former slave woman. Whilst that was happening, and she was standing with them, the kite flew over them and dropped the scarf from its beak; when it realized that it was not meat, it dropped it in their midst. The former slave woman said to them: This is what you are accusing me of, and you claimed that I stole it, but I am innocent of that. Then this former slave woman came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and became Muslim. ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: This former slave woman had a tent or a small and narrow room in the mosque. She used to come to ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her and talk to her, and she never sat with her but she said this line of poetry: “The day of the scarf was one of the wonders of our Lord” meaning that it was a strange and unique incident; “But it saved me from the land of disbelief.” What this line of poetry means is that the trial that she went through when she was accused of stealing and mistreated was the reason why she became Muslim and migrated. The scarf was one reason why she was saved; the day of the scarf was a wonder, because what happened on that day, of the kite snatching up the scarf and her being accused of taking it, was one of the wonders of the age. It was one of the blessings that Allah bestowed upon her, as it became a turning point in her life, taking her from wretchedness to bliss, and it was a cause of her becoming Muslim and being saved, and migrating from the land of disbelief to the land of faith, as the proverb says: “Something harmful may turn out to be beneficial.” When ‘A’ishah asked her about the reason why she used to say those words, she told her this story. What appears to be the case is that this woman only became Muslim after the story of the scarf took place.
This hadith tells us that Allah (may He be exalted) may relieve the distress of the distressed by extraordinary means, even if they are disbelievers, and that Allah’s justice extends to both believers and disbelievers, righteous people and evildoers.
It indicates that it is permissible for the one who does not have a home or a place to sleep at night – whether man or woman – to spend the night in the mosque, so long as there is no risk of fitnah.
It also highlights the virtue of migrating from the land of disbelief, and that the Sunnah is to leave a land in which one is subject to trials and tribulations..

440
It was narrated that Nafi‘ said: ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar told me that when he was young and unmarried, and had no family, he used to sleep in the Mosque of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

Commentary : The mosque is regarded as a sacred place and is held in high esteem by the Muslims. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught us what is and is not permissible in the mosque.
In this hadith, Nafi‘, the freed slave of Ibn ‘Umar, tells us that ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) told him that when he was a young, unmarried man who had no wife – and even though the fact that he had no wife is understood from the word unmarried, it is added here for emphasis – he used to sleep in the Mosque of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). It was said that he used to spend the night there because he did not have a house of his own, or it may be that he used to spend the night in the mosque so that he could be near to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and learn from him, and so that he could pray in the mosque whenever he wanted to. It is proven that the ‘Uranis [people from the tribe of ‘Uraynah] used to sleep in the mosque. It is proven in al-Sahihayn that ‘Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) slept in the mosque, as did Safwan ibn Umayyah, and the woman who had been accused of stealing a scarf also slept in the mosque; and it is proven that numerous others among the Sahabah also did that. It was narrated that Thumamah ibn Uthal used to sleep in the mosque before he became Muslim. All of that happened at the time of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), which indicates that it is permissible to spend the night and to sleep in the mosque, especially for the poor and those who have no home.
This is a call to mosques to be refuges for the poor, especially now, as they are sturdily constructed and are suitable to offer such refuge..

441
It was narrated that Sahl ibn Sa‘d said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came to the house of Fatimah and did not find ‘Ali there. He said: Where is your cousin? She said: We had an argument and we got angry with one another, so he went out and did not take his siesta here. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to someone: “Go and find out where he is.” That person came back and said: O Messenger of Allah, he is sleeping in the mosque. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came [to the mosque and found him] laying on his side; his rida’ had slipped on one side, and he had dust on him, so the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) began to wipe the dust from him, saying: “Get up, Abu Turab; get up, Abu Turab.”.

Commentary : The mosque is regarded as a sacred place and is held in high esteem by the Muslims. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught us what is and is not permissible in the mosque.
In this hadith, Sahl ibn Sa‘d (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came to the house of his daughter Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) one day, to check on his daughter and see how she was getting on with her husband. He did not find ‘Ali in the house, and that was at a time when the men would usually be at home. So he asked her: Where is your cousin? He did not say, Where is your husband, or your father’s cousin, so as to soften her heart by reminding her of the ties of kinship between them. She told him that something had happened between them, and they had had an argument that led to both of them becoming angry, so he had left, because he wanted to put a stop to the argument, and because going out and keeping away would allow the flames of anger to die down. Hence he did not spend the time of the siesta with her at home. The siesta is a nap that is taken at midday or in the afternoon. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed one of his companions to look for ‘Ali and find out where he was, and he found him in the mosque. So the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came and found ‘Ali asleep, laying on his side in the mosque. His garment had fallen from his side, and dust had gotten onto him. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) began to wipe the dust from him with his hand, saying: Get up, Abu Turab; get up, Abu Turab.
Abu Turab (lit. Father of Dust) was a kunyah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave to ‘Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) because he was sleeping on the dust and it had gotten onto his clothes and body. By doing that, he showed kindness to him and calmed his anger; it comforted him whilst carrying an implicit and gentle rebuke, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not rebuke ‘Ali for being angry with his wife; rather he said to him, “Get up,” implying that he should get up and go back to his wife. This is indicative of the Prophet’s good attitude and how gentle he was with people.
This hadith indicates that a father may enter his daughter’s house without the permission of her husband, if he knows that her husband approves of that.
It indicates that one may joke with one who is angry, and call him by a kunyah other than his own, if that will not upset him or make him angry; rather it will comfort him.
It indicates that it is permissible to give someone a kunyah that is not based on his child’s name.
It highlights the great virtue of ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him).
It indicates that it is permissible to sleep in the mosque at any time..

442
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: I saw seventy of ashab al-suffah, not one of whom was wearing a rida’; each of them had either an izar or a kisa’ which they tied around their necks; some of them would reach mid-calf, and some would reach the ankles, and the wearer would gather it in his hand, so that his ‘awrah would not be seen..

Commentary : When the Muslims first migrated to Madinah, there were some among the Sahabah who were poor and did not possess any worldly goods, for they had left behind their wealth and their homes, and had fled for the sake of Allah and His Messenger to Madinah. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave them shelter in his mosque, and he fed them from what came to him of the provision of Allah and what was given to him as gifts by the wealthy Muslims (may Allah be pleased with them).
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he saw seventy of ahl al-suffah – who were the poor Muslims among the companions of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) who had no houses in which to live, and they sought shelter in the suffah, which was a canopy at the back of the Prophet’s Mosque. He narrates that he saw them, and there was not one man among them who was wearing a rida’, which is a garment that covers the upper part of the body only. Rather each of them was wearing either an izar only, which is a garment that covers the lower half of the body, or a kisa’ only, which is a single garment. They tied their kisa’s on their necks, and some of these kisa’s would reach mid-calf, because they were short and would not reach any longer than that. Others of them reach the ankles, below the calves. One of them would gather his garment in his hand, so that his ‘awrah would not be seen. In some reports it says that they used to hold the garment together when praying, for no one among them had two garments, and he pray in it whilst taking precautions so that his ‘awrah would not become uncovered.
This hadith highlights the patience of the early Sahabah in bearing hardships and poverty out of love for Allah and His Messenger, and preferring Islam to disbelief..

443
It was narrated that Jabir ibn ‘Abdullah said: I came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when he was in the mosque – Mis‘ar [one of the narrators] said: I think he said: at mid-morning – and he told me: Pray two rak‘ahs. He owed me something, and he paid it back, giving me more than he owed..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the most compassionate of people towards his companions; he would check on them and help them in their religious and worldly affairs.
There is a story behind this text. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) bought a camel from Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah on the way back from the conquest of Makkah, on the basis that he would give him its price when they returned to Madinah. It was also said that he bought it from him on the way back from Tabuk, or that that happened when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was returning from the campaign of Dhat al-Riqa‘.
When Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) came to Madinah, he went to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in his mosque, to greet him. That happened at the time of mid-morning. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) welcomed him warmly and told him to pray two rak‘ahs to “greet the mosque” (tahiyyat al-masjid). Then he paid him what he owed him, which was the price of the camel that he had bought on credit, and he gave him more than he owed him. According to Ibn Majah, Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) said: He kept giving me more, dinar after dinar, and every time he gave me another dinar, he said, “And may Allah forgive you,” until the number reached twenty dinars. When I came to Madinah, I took my camel by the head and brought it to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and he said: “O Bilal, give him twenty dinars from the war booty.” Then he said: “Go and get your camel, and take it back to your family.” This was by way of honouring Jabir and showing generosity to him, because his father ‘Abdullah ibn Haram (may Allah be pleased with him) had died in the Battle of Uhud, leaving Jabir with sisters to take care of. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to help him to take care of them. Hence he bought the camel from him, so as to avoid embarrassing him, and so that that would be a reason to give him something and show him kindness, without embarrassing him, as is clearly explained in other versions of this hadith. The reports differ concerning the price and the additional amount that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave him.
This hadith indicates that part of paying off debts properly is to repay what is owed with something of better quality or greater quantity, so that the debtor gives the lender more than he took from him. This comes under the heading of dignity and decency.
It highlights the kindness and generosity of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to his companions.
It also indicates that the one who enters the mosque should pray two rak‘ahs as a greeting to the mosque (tahiyyat al-masjid)..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

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Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..