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444

It was narrated from Abu Qatadah al-Salami that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When one of you enters the mosque, let him pray two rak‘ahs before he sits down.”.

Commentary : The prayer to “greet the mosque” (tahiyyat al-masjid) is a Sunnah that was enjoined by the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructs the one who comes and enters the mosque at any time – whether that is to pray, to await the prayer, to seek knowledge and so on – to pray two rak‘ahs before he sits down. These are the two rak‘ahs that are done to greet the mosque. This is a general ruling that applies when entering any mosque except al-Masjid al-Haram; in that case the greeting is done by circumambulating the Kaaba seven times. This hadith is specifically addressed to the one who enters the mosque when the call immediately preceding an obligatory prayer (iqamah) has not been given. If the iqamah has been given, then joining the prayer takes precedence over these two rak‘ahs.
This hadith indicates that it is encouraged to pray two rak‘ahs to greet the mosque before sitting down..

446

It was narrated from Nafi‘ that ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar told him that at the time of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) the mosque was built of bricks, its roof was made of palm branches, and its pillars were the trunks of palm trees. Abu Bakr did not add anything to it. ‘Umar expanded it, but he continued to build it as it had been built at the time of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), with bricks and palm branches, although he replaced the wooden pillars. Then ‘Uthman changed it and expanded it greatly; he built its walls of engraved stones and plaster, and he made its pillars of engraved stones, and made its roof of teak..

Commentary : Islam enjoins us to avoid extravagance in all things, which includes the building of mosques. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar speaks of the stages that the construction of the Mosque of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) went through. He says that at the time of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), the mosque was built of bricks, which are used in construction and are made of soft clay that is dried in the sun. Its roof was made of palm branches, and its pillars were made of palm trunks that had been cut from the old garden on the site of which the mosque was built. The mosque remained as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had built it, in terms of its area and shape, and Abu Bakr did not add anything to it or take anything away from it during his caliphate. When ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) was appointed caliph, he added to its length and width, but he did not change the method of construction; rather he rebuilt it using the same construction methods as had been used at the time of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), using bricks and palm branches, but he replaced the wooden pillars. Then ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Then ‘Uthman changed it and renovated it, and improved its construction. He built its walls of engraved stones and plaster, which is used in construction and to cover walls, and he made its roof of teak, which is a high quality and valuable Indian wood, black in colour.
It was said that the first one to adorn mosques was al-Walid ibn ‘Abdul Malik ibn Marwan, at the end of the era of the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them), but many people of knowledge refrained from objecting to that for fear of causing friction and turmoil.
This hadith indicates that the Sunnah when building mosques is to be moderate and not to go to extremes in building them, so as to avoid fitnah and competing in the construction of mosques.
It indicates that it is permissible to expand mosques, and to demolish them in order to expand them and rebuild them in a better way than they were initially constructed..

447

It was narrated from ‘Ikrimah: Ibn ‘Abbas said to me and to his son ‘Ali: Go [both of you] to Abu Sa‘id and listen to what he tells you. So we went and found him in a garden, tending it. He took his rida’ and wrapped it around himself, then he began to talk to us, until he came to the story of the building of the mosque. He said: We were carrying bricks one at a time, and ‘Ammar was carrying two bricks at a time. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw him, then he brushed the dust off him and said: “Poor ‘Ammar! The transgressing group will kill him. He will be calling them to Paradise, but they will be calling him to Hell.” And ‘Ammar said: I seek refuge with Allah from tribulations..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was keen to teach his ummah and warn them against tribulation (fitnah) and division. The true Muslim reflects on the words and teachings of the Prophet, and tries as much as he can to save himself and his Muslim community from falling into tribulations that could lead to confusion and misguidance.
In this hadith, the Tabi‘i ‘Ikrimah – who was one of the students of Ibn ‘Abbas and a freed slave of his – narrates that Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him and his son ‘Ali ibn ‘Abdillah ibn ‘Abbas: Go to Abu Sa‘id Sa‘d ibn Malik al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him), the companion of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and listen to him and learn from him. He only sent them to listen to his words so that they could hear what he could tell them about the Kharijis, as was mentioned in a report narrated by al-Hakim. They were one of the most extreme groups of innovators with whom Allah tested the people of Islam; they regarded Muslims as disbelievers and did not refrain from shedding their blood, even though they strove hard in worship, prayer and fasting. When they went to Abu Sa‘id (may Allah be pleased with him), they found him in a garden of his, working on it and tending it. He took his rida’ and wrapped himself in it, sitting upright with his knees drawn up to his chest, wrapping himself with his turban or with a garment or something else. He may also have done that using his arms. It was said that he sat on his posterior, drew up his legs and wrapped himself in a garment and the like.
Then he told them what he had of knowledge, until he came to the story of the building of the Prophet’s Mosque. He told them that the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were carrying bricks for the construction of the mosque one by one. A brick is something made of soft clay that is dried in the sun, then is used for building like stones. But ‘Ammar was carrying two bricks at a time. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw him, so he began to brush dust from him, saying to him: “Poor ‘Ammar!” This is an expression of compassion and pity for a calamity that would befall him. Then he told him that the transgressing group would kill him – this refers to the group of wrongdoers who rebelled and refused to obey the just leader. They are the ones who killed him at the Battle of Siffin. “He will be calling them to Paradise”, that is, the way that leads to Paradise, which is obedience to the leader, just as what leads to Hell is disobedience to him. “but they will be calling him to Hell,” that is, they will think that they are calling him to Paradise, when in reality it is a call to Hell.
These words, “He will be calling them to Paradise, but they will be calling him to Hell,” were a foretelling that that would happen to him, hence when he heard that, ‘Ammar (may Allah be pleased with him) sought refuge with Allah from tribulations, because no one knows, when there are tribulations and internal strife, whether he is earning reward or incurring sin, except on the basis of conjecture. If ‘Ammar was certain that he was going to earn reward, he would not have sought refuge with Allah from reward. This indicates that ‘Ammar was following the right path, unlike those who opposed him.
This hadith indicates that the scholar who has abundant knowledge and is keen for his children to learn may send his children to other scholars so that they may also teach him, even if he himself has more knowledge and understanding, because of what he hopes they will learn from others of knowledge that he does not have.
It indicates that the scholar should prepare himself before he narrates hadith, and sit in a manner that is appropriate to narrating hadith, and that he should not narrate hadith if he is busy with something, until he has finished it, out of respect for hadith. This is how the early generations (salaf) conducted themselves.
In this hadith we see one of the signs of the prophethood of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). It clearly highlights the virtue of ‘Ammar ibn Yasir (may Allah be pleased with him).
It indicates that one should seek refuge with Allah from tribulations.
It indicates that cooperating in building a mosque is one of the best of deeds, because it is something for which a person will continue to earn reward after he dies.
It indicates that we should honour one who is striving in Allah’s cause, and show kindness to him in word and deed.
It indicates that it is prescribed to take care of one’s worldly affairs, such as tending one’s garden oneself..

448

It was narrated that Sahl said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sent word to a woman saying: “Tell your slave the carpenter to make something of wood for me to sit on.”.

Commentary : In the beginning, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would stand on a palm trunk in the mosque when addressing the people and delivering khutbahs, then he acquired a minbar. In this hadith, Sahl ibn Sa‘d al-Sa‘idi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sent word to a woman – it was said that she was a woman of the Ansar – telling her to instruct her slave and servant, who was a carpenter, to make something of wood for him to sit on when addressing the people. This woman had previously made an offer to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to have something made for him to sit on when addressing the people and so on, because she had a slave who was a skilled carpenter and could make things out of wood. This slave made the minbar, which consisted of three steps and was not very high, as is mentioned in the reports.
This hadith indicates that one should stand and sit on an elevated surface when addressing people and delivering khutbahs, and that minbars may be used in mosques.
It indicates that one may seek the help of craftsmen and skilled people in anything that may be beneficial to the Muslims, and that the one who takes the initiative to do such things is to be appreciated and thanked..

449

It was narrated from Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah that a woman said: O Messenger of Allah, why don’t I have something made for you to sit on, for I have a slave who is a carpenter? He said: “If you wish.” So she had the minbar made..

Commentary : In the beginning, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to stand on the trunk of a palm tree in the mosque when addressing the people and delivering khutbahs, then he acquired the minbar.
In this hadith, Jabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a woman came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, why don’t I have something made for you to sit on? Meaning, on which to sit and stand, instead of the palm trunk from which he addressed the people. I have a slave who is a carpenter – that is, a craftsmen who is skilled in working with wood. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) accepted her offer, and left it up to her so as not to burden her; if she wished, she could do that, and if she wished, she could refrain from doing that, and there would be no sin on her. So the woman instructed her slave to make the minbar for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and he did that. The minbar had three steps that were not very high, as is mentioned in the reports.
This hadith indicates that one should stand and sit on an elevated surface when addressing people and delivering khutbahs, and that minbars may be used in mosques.
It indicates that one may seek the help of craftsmen and skilled people in anything that may be beneficial to the Muslims, and that the one who takes the initiative to do such things is to be appreciated and thanked..

450

It was narrated from ‘Ubaydullah al-Khawlani that he heard ‘Uthman ibn ‘Affan saying, when the people spoke about him when he went ahead and expanded the mosque of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): You are talking too much; I heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Whoever builds a mosque – Bukayr said: I think he said: seeking the pleasure of Allah thereby – Allah will build something similar to it for him in Paradise.”.

Commentary : The building of mosques for the worship of Allah is one of the noblest and greatest acts of worship and obedience. Islam urges people to build mosques and respect their sanctity.
In this hadith, the Tabi‘i ‘Ubaydullah al-Khawlani narrates that when ‘Uthman ibn ‘Affan wanted to demolish the Prophet’s Mosque and rebuild it with a better design and shape than it was originally, the people disapproved of that and talked a great deal, because of what he was planning to change in the structure of the mosque from how it had been built at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). That was because the mosque had been built of bricks, with a roof of palm branches, then it had been renovated during the caliphate of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), but it had the same layout and was built as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had built it. But ‘Uthman rebuilt it with engraved stones and plaster, as is explained in a report in Sahih al-Bukhari. Hence the people criticized ‘Uthman a great deal. ‘Uthman (may Allah be pleased with him) was annoyed with them, and he rebuked them and told them that he had heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Whoever builds a mosque, seeking thereby the pleasure of Allah”, meaning that he did it for His sake alone, and not to show off or enhance his reputation, Allah would grant him the best reward that matched the nature of his deed: Allah would build something like it for him in Paradise. The phrase “like it” does not mean that it would be of the same size or of the same quality and design; rather what is meant is that it would be like it in name only. It was also said that what is meant – and Allah knows best – is that Allah would expand his house in Paradise commensurate with his expansion of the mosque in this world, and the structure of that house would be as solid and well-built as he made the mosque, and he would be caused to benefit from what was built for him in Paradise to the extent that the people benefitted from what he built for them in this world.
This hadith indicates that sincerity is a condition of attaining reward in all good deeds.
It also highlights the virtue of building mosques..

452

It was narrated from Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever passes through any of our mosques or marketplaces carrying arrows, let him hold them by the tip, so as not to injure any Muslim.”.

Commentary : Islam is keen to protect people’s lives and forbids harming them by any means, and it has set out some precautions that are needed for that purpose.
In this hadith, Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed that anyone who passes any crowded place, whether it is a mosque or a marketplace, and he is carrying arrows – which are sticks with sharp pointed heads; the ruling applies to any sharp weapon – should carry them by their heads, holding their sharp edges in his hand or by any other means. While passing through that place, he should be very cautious, so as to avoid injuring anyone with the arrows. This is an affirmation of the sanctity of the Muslims’ lives, and of the necessity of taking precautions not to transgress against them, because mosques are likely to have many people in them, especially at the times of prayer, and marketplaces are also likely to be crowded. This advice to take precautions came from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) because he feared that someone might be harmed by that.
This hadith highlights the noble character and compassion of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) towards the believers.
It highlights how sacred the Muslim’s blood is, and it must not be shed whether in small or large amounts.
It highlights the etiquette of carrying weapons; the one who carries a weapon must take precautions and be very careful to avoid causing injury to anyone.
It indicates that it is permissible to pass through mosques, even though they are originally built for the purpose of worship, because there is a need for that..

454

It was narrated from ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr that ‘A’ishah said: I remember the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) standing at the door of my apartment one day, when the Ethiopians were playing in the mosque. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was screening me with his rida’, whilst I watched them playing..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) loved his wife ‘A’ishah the Mother of the Believers, and in the way in which he interacted with her, he set an example of kind treatment and taught us a great deal, paying attention to the age and maturity level of his wife, and letting her have some of what she needs of permissible things [such as entertainment].
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stood at the door of her apartment one day, when the Ethiopians were playing with their spears in the mosque. The Ethiopians are a nation of black people; some of them were slaves and servants. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was screening ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) with his garment so that she could watch them playing with their weapons as she stood beside him.
This hadith highlights the good attitude of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and his kind and gentle treatment of his wife.
It highlights the virtue of ‘A’ishah, and how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) held her in high esteem.
It indicates that it is permissible to play with spears and the like – such as sticks – so long as it does not involve anything that is prohibited..

456

It was narrated from ‘Amrah that ‘A’ishah said that Barirah came to her for help with her contract of manumission. She said: If you wish, I will pay your masters, and the wala’ will be for me. But her masters said: If you wish, you can give her what remains (of the cost of her manumission) – on one occasion Sufyan [one of the narrators] said: If you wish, you can manumit her, but the wala’ will be for us. – When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came, she told him about that, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Buy her and set her free, and the wala’ belongs to the one who manumits the slave.” Then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stood up on the minbar – on one occasion, Sufyan said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) ascended the minbar – and said: “What is the matter with people who stipulate conditions that are not in the Book of Allah? Whoever stipulates a condition that is not in the Book of Allah, he has no right to it, even if he stipulates it one hundred times.”.

Commentary : Islam urges people to free slaves, and teaches that the reward for one who frees a slave purely for the sake of Allah is that Allah will ransom him from the Fire. Islamic teachings offer guidelines on issues surrounding the manumission of slaves and what results from that of the relationship of wala’ and inheritance that is established between the one who manumits the slave and the slave who is manumitted.
In this hadith, ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that Barirah bint Safwan (may Allah be pleased with her) – who was a freed slave of ‘A’ishah – came to her, seeking her help to pay off her contract of manumission with her master. The contract of manumission was when a slave made a deal with his master to pay a certain amount of money, and if he did that he would become free. ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) told her that she would help her with the money, on condition that the wala’ of Barirah after she was manumitted would belong to ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her). Wala’ refers to mutual support, which dictates that the one who manumitted the slave would inherit from him, meaning that if this former slave died, and had no heir, then the one who manumitted him would inherit from him on the basis of wala’; thus wala’ is like blood ties. But Barirah’s masters said something to ‘A’ishah of which Sufyan ibn ‘Uyaynah, one of the narrators of the hadith, was not sure. On one occasion he said that they said to her: If you wish, you can give her what remains (of the cost of her manumission), meaning that you can do Barirah the favour of paying off what she still owes of her contract of manumission. On another occasion he said: If you wish, you can manumit her, but the wala’ will be for us. When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came, ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) told him what had happened with Barirah, and he told ‘A’ishah to buy Barirah from her masters and manumit her. He also told her that wala’ belongs to the one who manumits the slave; this is the ruling of Islam. Then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stood on the minbar in his mosque and said: “What is the matter with people” – meaning, why do they do that? – “who stipulate conditions that are not in the Book of Allah” and are not in accordance with the laws of Allah (may He be exalted) and his rulings in the Qur’an or Sunnah. This was a hint of criticism on his part, so that the one who did that would not be embarrassed, and so that the people would realize that this matter was addressed to all of them, and would feel that many people did that. Thus the original doer would remain unknown and not feel embarrassed in front of other people; rather he would learn and come to know the correct ruling.
Then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told them that whoever stipulates a condition that is not in the Book of Allah has no right to what he stipulated and does not deserve it, “even if he stipulates it one hundred times.” The number one hundred was mentioned for emphasis, not that this particular number was meant.
This hadith highlights the good and gentle approach of a leader with his followers, because when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) addressed the matter, he did not confront the one who stipulated that condition himself, as the aim could be achieved in his case and in the case of others without exposing or condemning him.
It highlights the fact that the leader may address the people when an error is committed, to explain the rulings thereon to the people and to denounce the action.
It indicates that one should make a great effort to remove evil and emphasize how abhorrent it is.
It highlights the importance of teaching the Islamic rulings having to do with worldly matters – such as buying and selling in the mosque – and explaining those rulings to people..

458

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that a black man – or a black woman – used to take care of the mosque, and he died. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) asked about him, and they said: He died. He said: “Why did you not tell me? Show me his grave – or her grave.” He went to her grave and offered the funeral prayer for her..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was as his Lord described him in the Qur’an: {There has certainly come to you a Messenger from among yourselves. Grievous to him is what you suffer; [he is] concerned over you and to the believers is kind and merciful} [al-Tawbah 9:128]. His offering the funeral prayer for the deceased was a mercy to him, and a light with which Allah would illuminate the grave of the deceased.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) asked about a black man or woman who used to clean and sweep the mosque, and they told him that she had died. So he said to his companions: “Why did you not tell me” and inform me that she had died? According to a report in al-Sahihayn, they thought little of the deceased and did not pay much attention to him. According to a report narrated by al-Nasa’i from Abu Umamah ibn Sahl ibn Hunayf (may Allah be pleased with him), they said: We did not want to wake you up at night. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) asked about his or her grave, and he offered the funeral prayer for the deceased at the graveside, after the burial had taken place.
This hadith highlights the virtue of cleaning the mosque, and of asking about a servant or friend when you do not see him for a while.
It indicates that one may reciprocate by offering supplication, and that it is encouraged to attend the funerals of good people.
It indicates that it is permissible to offer the funeral prayer at the grave of a deceased person in the same city, for one who did not attend his funeral, and that it is prescribed to announce deaths..

461

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “An ‘ifrit of the jinn came at me suddenly yesterday – or words to that effect – to interrupt my prayer, but Allah gave me the power to suppress him. I wanted to tie him to one of the pillars of the mosque so that you could all see him this morning, then I remembered the words of my brother Sulayman, {He said, My Lord, forgive me and grant me a kingdom such as will not belong to anyone after me} [Sad 38:35].” Rawh said: So he sent him away humiliated..

Commentary : The jinn are beings made of fire that can take different forms. They are creatures that are invisible to us, that Allah may show to whomever He wills of his creation. They are accountable like us; some of them are believers and disbelievers and sinners; some of them are good and some of them are evil.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that an ‘ifrit of the jinn attacked him the day before; in other words, he came to him suddenly and at speed whilst he was praying, to interrupt his prayer, distract him from it, and break his focus in the prayer by causing him to become confused and lose concentration, getting between him and his qiblah, and preventing him from conversing with his Lord. But Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) gave him power over that devil, so he was able to push him away. And then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to tie him to one of the pillars of the mosque, so that on the following morning the people could see him tied up in the daylight. But then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) remembered what his brother Sulayman ibn Dawud (peace be upon him) had said: {My Lord, forgive me and grant me a kingdom such as will not belong to anyone after me} [Sad 38:35]. Control over the jinn was part of the dominion that Allah had granted to Sulayman (peace be upon him), so the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) refrained from doing that, and he let that jinni run away, defeated and humiliated, as he had failed to cause any harm to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) or distract him from his prayer. This hadith does not contradict the verse, because what is meant by Sulayman’s dominion over the jinn is that he was able to subjugate them and make them serve him and obey him.
This hadith indicates that one may do some actions whilst praying, for the purpose of performing the prayer well, without intending to fidget or be heedless, and that one may ward off something harmful whilst praying, even if it cannot be warded off except with violence or forceful shoving.
It highlights the dignity and good attitude of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and how he showed respect to Allah’s Prophet Sulayman (peace be upon him).
It indicates that it is permissible to tie up a prisoner in the mosque and leave him there..

465

It was narrated from Anas ibn Malik that two of the companions of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) left the Prophet’s house on a dark night, and each of them had something like a lamp lighting the way in front of them. When they parted, a light went with each one of them until he reached his family..

Commentary : Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) singles out whomever He wills from among His righteous slaves for honour and karamahs (extraordinary events bestowed upon the close friends of Allah), and He may cause extraordinary feats to happen at their hands, by way of highlighting their honourable status and righteousness, as He supported His prophets with miracles.
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) tells of a karamah (extraordinary event) that happened to two of the companions of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). They were ‘Abbad ibn Bishr and Usayd ibn Hudayr, as is narrated in Sahih Muslim. They were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on a dark night, and when they left him, Allah (may He be exalted) caused two lights to go in front of them, as an honour to them, and as a miracle for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as He granted to some of his companions karamahs such as this when they needed lights. It was said that the reason for that is what was narrated by Abu Dawud from Buraydah (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Give glad tidings to those who frequently walk in the dark to the mosques of perfect light on the Day of Resurrection.” Allah hastened for them some of that which He had stored up in the hereafter. This light moved with them like lamps, to illuminate the way for them. Then when they parted, for each of them to go to his house, a light went with each of them until he reached his home. According to a report narrated by Ahmad, each of them had a stick in his hand, and the stick of one of them lit up, so that they could walk in its light, then when they parted ways, the stick of the other one lit up too.
This hadith highlights the virtue of these two Sahabis.
It affirms that karamahs may happen to the close friends of the Most Gracious in all eras and times, until the onset of the Hour..

470

It was narrated that al-Sa’ib ibn Yazid said: I was standing in the mosques when a man threw a pebble at me. I looked and saw that it was ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab. He said: Go and bring these two men to me. So I brought them to him, and he said: Who are you – or where are you from? They said: We are from al-Ta’if. He said: If you were people of this land, I would have given you a painful punishment for raising your voices in the mosque of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

Commentary : The mosques are houses of Allah on earth, and Islam urges us to respect their sanctity and protect them from all ills, including the raising of voices in them, by way of honouring them and out of respect for the worship that is done in them. The Prophet’s Mosque is especially sacred and is to be respected more than other mosques.
In this hadith, al-Sa’ib ibn Yazid (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he was standing in the mosque, and a man threw a pebble at him. When he looked to see who had thrown the pebble, he found that it was the caliph ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him). ‘Umar said to him: Go and bring these two men to me. They were two men who had raised their voices in the mosque. So al-Sa’ib went and brought them to him, then ‘Umar asked them: Who are you – or where are you from? They said: We are from al-Ta’if, which is a city approximately 500 km from Madinah. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: If you were inhabitants of Madinah, I would have punished you with a beating and flogging, because you are raising your voices in the mosque of the Messenger of Allah! ‘Umar only differentiated between the people of Madinah and others regarding this matter because the people of Madinah were not unaware of the sanctity and venerable status of the mosque of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), unlike those who were not local residents, who might be unaware that one should show such great respect to this mosque. Hence he let them off because of their lack of awareness.
This hadith indicates that people who are ignorant of rulings may be excused, if those rulings are matters of which they are unaware.
It indicates that it is forbidden to raise one’s voice in the Prophet’s Mosque.
It highlights the virtue of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and his respect for the Prophet’s Mosque.
It indicates that the leader may discipline one who raises his voice in the mosque when talking and arguing..

472

It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar said: A man asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when he was on the minbar: What do you say about prayer at night? He said: “[One should pray] two [rak‘ahs] by two, then when he fears that dawn is approaching, he should pray one [rak‘ah], which will make what he has prayed odd-numbered.” He used to say: Make the last of your prayers odd-numbered, for the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoined that..

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen to ask the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about prayer, both obligatory and supererogatory, which included voluntary prayers at night (qiyam al-layl), after Allah praised His Messenger and the believers for that in His Book: {Indeed, your Lord knows, [O Muhammad], that you stand [in prayer] almost two thirds of the night or half of it or a third of it, and [so do] a group of those with you} [al-Muzzammil 73:20].
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) whilst he was addressing the people from his minbar in his mosque. Perhaps he was addressing the people on Friday (Jumu‘ah) or on some other occasion. The man asked him how the prayers at nights were to be done, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him that they are to be done two by two; in other words: pray two rak‘ahs then say the taslim, then pray two more, and so on, and then when the worshipper fears that the time for Fajr prayer is about to begin – and the same applies to one who prays at the beginning of the night then sleeps until the time of Fajr – he should end his qiyam with a single rak‘ah, so as to make the even-numbered prayers that he has offered odd-numbered, then say the taslim after that. Then Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) instructed his companions to make the last of their prayers before sleeping, or before the break of dawn, odd-numbered, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoined that.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed Witr in different ways, with different numbers of rak‘ahs. By examining all of the reports, it becomes clear that it is permissible to pray Witr with three, five, seven, nine or eleven rak‘ahs. If a person prays Witr with three rak‘ahs, there are two ways of doing that which are both prescribed. The first is to offer three rak‘ahs one after another with one tashahhud; the second way is to say the taslim after two rak‘ahs then offer one rak‘ah on its own. But if he prays Witr with five or seven rak‘ahs, then they should be done continuously, with no tashahhud except one tashahhud at the end, followed by the taslim. If he prays Witr with nine rak‘ahs, they should be done continuously, and he should sit for the tashahhud in the eighth rak‘ah, then stand up without saying the taslim, and recite tashahhud in the ninth, followed by the taslim. If he prays Witr with eleven rak‘ahs, he should say the taslim after each two rak‘ahs, then pray one rak‘ah on its own at the end. The least perfect way of praying Witr is to pray two rak‘ahs and say the taslim, then to pray one rak‘ah on its own, then say the taslim. It is permissible to pray Witr with one taslim, but that should be with one tashahhud, not two..

475

It was narrated from ‘Abbad ibn Tamim, from his paternal uncle, that he saw the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) lying down in the mosque, with one leg on top of the other. It was narrated from Ibn Shihab, that Sa‘id ibn al-Musayyib, said: ‘Umar and ‘Uthman also used to do that..

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) used to observe how the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) lived, in order to learn his Sunnahs, as Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) instructed them to do in His Book: {There has certainly been for you in the Messenger of Allah an excellent pattern} [al-Ahzab 33:21].
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn Zayd ibn ‘Asim (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he saw the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) lying down – that is, sleeping – on his back in the mosque, with one of his legs on top of the other, and ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab and ‘Uthman ibn ‘Affan (may Allah be pleased with them both) also used to lie down in the mosque as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had done.
It is proven from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that it is prohibited to lie down placing one leg on top of the other, as it is narrated in Sahih Muslim that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No one of you should lie down, then place one of his legs on top of the other.” This prohibition may be understood in the case of the ‘awrah becoming uncovered, because raising one leg on top of the other means bending one leg so that the knee of that leg is high, whilst the other leg is lifted to rest on the knee of the first leg. Even though it is possible that the ‘awrah may become uncovered in this position, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did that in such a way that nothing of it could be seen. It was also said that this prohibition was abrogated by this hadith, and the action of the two caliphs ‘Umar and ‘Uthmaan, who did that after the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), is quoted as evidence for that abrogation, because it is not possible that they were unaware of what of his Sunnah abrogated or was abrogated.
This hadith indicates that it is permissible to lie down in the mosque in any position, so long as there is no risk of the ‘awrah becoming uncovered..

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

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