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It was narrated from Abu Qatadah al-Ansari that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was praying whilst carrying Umamah, the daughter of Zaynab the daughter of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and of Abu’l-‘As ibn Rabi‘ah ibn ‘Abd Shams. When he prostrated he put her down, and when he stood up, he picked her up again..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was kind and forbearing to old and young alike. He (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) loved children and was compassionate towards them.
In this hadith, Abu Qatadah al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sometimes led them in an obligatory prayer whilst carrying his granddaughter Umamah, the daughter of Zaynab the daughter of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Her father’s name was Abu’l-‘As ibn ar-Rabi‘ ibn ‘Abd Shams. When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stood up, he carried her on his shoulder, as is narrated in as-Sahihayn, and when he bowed and prostrated, he put her down on the ground. Then when he rose from prostration and stood up for the second rak‘ah, he picked her up again, (and continued like that) until he finished his prayer. This indicates that it is permissible to carry children whilst praying, if there are no impure substances (najasah) on them, such as urine, stools and the like.
This hadith highlights the compassion and good attitude of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
It indicates that a slight movement whilst praying, picking up a child whilst praying, and other actions, even if they are many but not consecutive – rather they are intermittent – do not invalidate the prayer..

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It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn Shaddad ibn al-Had said: My maternal aunt Maymunah bint al-Harith told me: My bed was next to the place where the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed, and sometimes part of his garment would fall on me whilst I was on my bed..

Commentary : Among the Jews, when a woman menstruated, they would expel her from the house; they would not eat with her, or drink with her or be with her in the same room. In Islamic teachings, however, the menstruating woman is not blamed for something that Allah has decreed for her; her entire body is pure (tahir) apart from the place where the hurt (i.e., menses) is.
This hadith is a brief part of a longer hadith in which the Mother of the Believers Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) stated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray in her apartment, and the place where he prayed was next to her bed on which she would be sleeping, and when she was menstruating – as is mentioned in a report in al-Sahihayn – sometimes the garment of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would touch her whilst he was praying.
This indicates that the menstruating woman is not impure (najis) and it indicates that her garment that she wears whilst menstruating is pure (tahir). It also indicates that the menstruating woman may be close to one who is praying, and that does not affect his prayer or interrupt it. This is an example of the ways in which Islam makes things easier for women in all circumstances, and honours women, especially at the time of menses, whereas the Jews used to regard the menstruating woman as impure, so no one would go near her or eat with her..

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It was narrated that ‘Abdullah said: Whilst the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was standing in prayer at the Kaaba, and a group of Quraysh were sitting in one of their gatherings, one of them said: Look at this show-off! Which of you will go the recently slaughtered camel of the family of So-and-so, and bring its dung, blood and intestines, then wait until he prostrates and put it between his shoulders? The most wretched of them jumped up [and went and brought that filth], then when the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prostrated, he put it between his shoulders. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) remained in prostration, and the polytheists fell about laughing, then someone went to Faatimah (peace be upon her) – who was still a young girl – and she came running, whilst the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was still prostrating, and she lifted [that filth] off him and cast it aside, then she turned to them and berated them. When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) finished his prayer, he said: “O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon Quraysh; O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon Quraysh; O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon Quraysh.” Then he said: “O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon ‘Amr ibn Hisham, ‘Utbah ibn Rabi‘ah, Shaybah ibn Rabi‘ah, al-Walid ibn ‘Utbah, Umayyah ibn Khalaf, ‘Uqbah ibn Abi Mu‘ayt and ‘Umarah ibn al-Walid.” ‘Abdullah said: By Allah, I saw them fallen in battle on the day of Badr, then they were dragged to the dry well, the dry well of Badr. Then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “And the people in the dry well were followed with a curse.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was sorely mistreated by the polytheists, but he persevered in the face of many difficulties for the sake of spreading his call and conveying the message of his Lord. The polytheists persecuted him in Makkah and elsewhere, but he remained steadfast, seeking reward for that with Allah, in the hope that Allah (may He be glorified) would guide them to enter Islam.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) speaks of one of the kinds of mistreatment that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) endured at the hands of the disbelievers of Quraysh. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was standing in prayer at the Kaaba, and some of the disbelievers of Quraysh were sitting in one of their gatherings, when one of them said: Do you not see this showoff? referring to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). He falsely claimed that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was praying at the Kaaba in order to show off, so that people would see his worship. Then that man said: Which of you will go to the recently slaughtered camel of the family of So-and-so …? What is meant is that a specific person had recently slaughtered a camel; the word translated here as camel refers to an animal that has been slaughtered and is being cut up. He wanted someone to go and take the dung, blood and intestines of that camel and bring it to them, then wait until the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prostrated, then place that filth between his shoulders. The most wretched of the people, whose name was ‘Uqbah ibn Abi Mu‘ayt, went and did what they had agreed on. The polytheists laughed so much at the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that they found themselves leaning on one another in their laughter. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) remained in prostration, and someone – it may have been Ibn Mas‘ud himself (may Allah be pleased with him) – went to Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) and told her what had happened. At that time she was still very young. Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) came quickly, removed the filth from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), then turned to the polytheists and berated them.
When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) finished his prayer, he prayed against them, saying: “O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon Quraysh; O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon Quraysh; O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon Quraysh.” In other words, destroy Quraysh. What is meant is the disbelievers among them, or those whom he named after that. The words were general in meaning but what was meant was specific individuals. Then he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed against specific individuals, as he said: “O Allah, I urge You to wreak vengeance upon ‘Amr ibn Hisham, ‘Utbah ibn Rabi‘ah, Shaybah ibn Rabi‘ah, al-Walid ibn ‘Utbah, Umayyah ibn Khalaf, ‘Uqbah ibn Abi Mu‘ayt and ‘Umarah ibn al-Walid.” On the day of the battle of Badr – which took place in 2 AH, and was the first and greatest battle – all of those whom the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had prayed against were killed, and were thrown into a dry well. When they were thrown into the dry well, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “And the people in the dry well were followed with a curse,” meaning that Allah followed them with a curse, so that just as they were killed in this world, they will be cast out from the mercy of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) in the hereafter.
This hadith highlights a clear miracle of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as his supplication was answered and each of those against whom he had prayed was killed..

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It was narrated from Ibn Shihab that ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Aziz delayed the prayer one day. ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr went to him and told him that al-Mughirah ibn Shu‘bah delayed the prayer one day when he was in Iraq, then Abu Mas‘ud al-Ansari came to him and said: What is this, O Mughirah? Do you not know that Jibril (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came down and prayed, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed; then he prayed, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed; then he prayed, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed; then he prayed, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed; then he prayed, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed – then he said: Thus I have been commanded? ‘Umar said to ‘Urwah: Watch what you are saying! Are you saying that Jibril was the one who defined the times of prayer for the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)? ‘Urwah said: That is what Bashir ibn Abi Mas‘ud used to narrate from his father.
‘Urwah said: ‘A’ishah told me that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray ‘Asr when the sun was shining into her apartment, before the apartment became shady..

Commentary : Praying at the beginning of the time for the prayer, and hastening to do so, is among the best of deeds by means of which one may draw closer to Allah (may He be exalted). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained the times of prayer in both his words and his actions. The Sahabah after him were careful to offer the prayers on time, and they encouraged one another to do that.
In this hadith, it says that when ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr saw ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Aziz – who at that time was the governor of Madinah, during the caliphate of ‘Abd al-Malik ibn Marwan – delaying the prayer, namely ‘Asr prayer, one day, he went to him and told him that al-Mughirah ibn Shu‘bah (may Allah be pleased with him) delayed the prayer one day when he was in Iraq, and Abu Mas‘ud al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) went to him and objected to his doing that. He said to him: Do you not know that Jibril came down and prayed, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed? He was referring to the time when Jibril came down to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and led him in prayer at the times of all five daily prayers; thus he taught the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) when the times for the prayers began and when the prayers are to be performed. In other words, he explained the times of prayer to him, and that delaying the prayer from that time to the time when ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Aziz prayed was something that was not narrated from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The words “Thus I have been commanded” are the words of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Aziz said to ‘Urwah: Watch what you are saying! In other words, verify what you are narrating; are you saying that Jibril was the one who defined the times of prayer for the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)? From this question of ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Aziz – was it Jibril who taught the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) the times of the prayers? – it seems that he was not aware of this hadith. So ‘Urwah said to him: That is what Bashir ibn Abi Mas‘ud used to narrate from his father, meaning that this was the isnad (chain of narrators) of the report, so that he would know that it was sahih (sound), with an uninterrupted isnad.
Then ‘Urwah said, as further confirmation: ‘A’ishah the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her) told me that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray ‘Asr when the sun was shining into her apartment, before the apartment became shady. What is meant is that the sun was still high; in other words, he used to offer the prayer at the beginning of its time.
This hadith urges the Muslim to pray at the beginning of the time for the prayer, especially in the case of ‘Asr prayer, and that delaying the prayer may take it to the time when it is not allowed and it is makruh (disliked) to pray.
It also indicates that it is prescribed for the scholar to advise one who is in a position of authority.
And it indicates that one may request verification of a hadith from the one who narrates it..

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It was narrated from Ibn Mas‘ud that a man kissed a woman, then he came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and told him about that. Then Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) revealed the verse: {And establish prayer at the two ends of the day and in some hours of the night. Indeed, good deeds do away with misdeeds} [Hud 11:114]. The man said: O Messenger of Allah is this for me? He said: “It is for all of my ummah.”.

Commentary : One of the means that help a person to repent is being keen to increase the number of righteous deeds that he does, so that most of his time will be spent in worshipping Allah and his heart will always be thinking of doing righteous deeds. One of these means of expiating sin is prayer.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man kissed a woman who was not permissible for him. Then he came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and told him what had happened. Then Allah revealed this verse: {And establish prayer at the two ends of the day} [Hud 11:114]. That is, establish the obligatory prayers at the beginning and end of the day, namely Fajr, Zuhr and ‘Asr; {and in some hours of the night} that is, and establish prayer during the night hours, namely Maghrib and ‘Isha’; {Indeed, good deeds do away with misdeeds} – righteous deeds, such as prayer and other actions, expiate minor sins. The man asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): O Messenger of Allah, is this ruling for me alone? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “It is for all of my ummah.” This was affirmation after affirmation from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that this included both those who were present and those who were absent. In other words, it is for them, and you are one of them.
This expiation is only for minor sins. In the case of major sins, complete repentance is required, fulfilling all the necessary conditions.
This hadith highlights the extent of Allah’s mercy to His slaves, and that He accepts the repentance of those who repent..

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It was narrated that ‘Abdullah said: I asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): Which deed is most beloved to Allah? He said: “Prayer offered on time.” He said: Then which? He said: “Then honouring one’s parents.” He said: Then which? He said: “Jihad in Allah’s cause.” He told me these, and if I had asked for more, he would have told me more..

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) – because of their keenness to do that which would bring them closer to the pleasure of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) – often asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about the best deeds and those which would bring them closest to Allah (may He be exalted). The responses of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) varied from one person to another, according to their character and situation, and what would be most beneficial for each of them.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) asks the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): Which deed is most beloved to Allah? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) answered that the most beloved of deeds to Allah (may He be exalted) and the most pleasing to Him is prayer offered at the beginning of its time. That means that the Muslim regularly offers the prayer after hearing the adhan. Mentioning the best time to pray serves to urge and encourage the Muslim to hasten to pray, and not be lazy or delay offering the prayer, because offering the prayer at the beginning of its time indicates that one is keen to do it, and that the Muslim acknowledges the rights of Allah and honours them, that he offers the prayer at the time when it becomes obligatory, without delaying or procrastinating, and that he is not among those of whom Allah (may He be exalted) says: {So woe to those who pray, [But] who are heedless of their prayer} [al-Ma‘un 107:4-5] – they are the ones who delay the prayer from the best time to offer it, or even until its time has ended. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him that the next most beloved deed to Allah is honouring one’s parents, by treating them kindly and serving them, and not defiantly disobeying them. That was because Ibn Mas‘ud had a mother, so he needed to be reminded about honouring his parents after the prayer, because prayer is the right of Allah and the rights of parents come after the rights of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted, as He says: {Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination} [Luqman 31:14]. Then Ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) asked which deed was most beloved to Allah (may He be exalted) after honouring one’s parents, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him that it is jihad in Allah’s cause, to make the word of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) supreme, offering one’s life and wealth, so that the symbols and rituals of Islam may be practised openly.
What is meant is that the best of deeds is fulfilling the rights of Allah that He has enjoined upon His slaves, the best of which is prayer offered on time, then fulfilling the rights of His slaves, the most important of which is honouring one’s parents. And the pinnacle of deeds is jihad in Allah’s cause.
It was said that the wisdom behind singling out these three things for mention – prayer on time, honouring one’s parents, and jihad – is because these three are the best of deeds after faith. The one who neglects the prayer – which is the foundation of faith – at the time when he is aware of its virtue, is more likely to neglect other matters of religion, be careless about them and take them lightly. Similarly, the one who fails to honour his parents is more likely to neglect other rights of people. By the same token, the one who neglects jihad in Allah’s cause – even though he is able to do it when it becomes an individual obligation for him –is more likely to neglect other deeds by means of which he may draw closer to Allah (may He be exalted).
Then Ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that if he had asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to tell him about more deeds, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would not have refused to tell him of the best deeds.
This hadith highlights the keenness of the Sahabah and of Ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) to seek out the most sublime of deeds.
It also indicates that Muslims are urged to pray when the time for the prayer begins, to honour their parents, and to strive in jihad in Allah’s cause..

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that he heard the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Do you think, if there were a river at the door of one of you in which he bathed five times every day, would there be any trace of dirt left on him?” They said: There would be no trace of dirt left on him. He said: “That is the likeness of the five daily prayers; Allah erases sins by means of them.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the best teacher and the most eloquent of the people in speech. One of the effective ways in which he educated and taught people was by making knowledge straightforward and easy to understand, by giving tangible likenesses to make things clearer.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gives the likeness of how sins are erased by means of the five daily prayers, as he likened the five daily prayers to a river at the door of a person in which he bathes five times every day. Just as all dirt would be removed from him, so that there would be no trace of dirt left on him, in like manner the five daily prayers erase sins and misdeeds until there is nothing left of them.
The reason for that is that just as a person may become contaminated with physical dirt on his body and clothes, which he cleanses by means of abundant water, by the same token, the prayers cleanse a person of the dirt of sin, until there is no sin left that has not been expiated and removed, so long as he avoids major sins, as it was narrated in a sahih report by Muslim that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The five daily prayers, one Jumu‘ah to the next, and one Ramadan to the next, are expiation for what comes between them, so long as major sins are avoided.”
The view of many scholars is that the prayers expiate all minor sins, so long as one does not persist in them, because by persisting in them they become major sins. As for major sins, they require complete repentance, fulfilling all the necessary conditions..

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It was narrated that Anas said: I cannot recognize anything of what you do that is the same as it was at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). It was said: What about prayer? He said: Are you not neglecting what you are neglecting in it?.

Commentary : Prayer is the foundation and basis of faith, on which the rest is built. Whoever upholds it as the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did it, will uphold other things, but whoever neglects it will be more neglectful with regard to other duties.
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I cannot recognize anything of what you do that is the same as it was at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). According to another report, that was in Damascus, and what he was referring to was the neglect of some sunnahs and much of what was done at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Some of those who heard him were astonished, and it was said: What about the prayer? Meaning that prayer is something that was known at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and was still practised. Anas said: Are you not neglecting what you are neglecting in it? What he meant was: that they delayed it from its proper time, or until the time for it ended.
According to a report narrated by Ahmad: “You prayed when the sun was setting.” His aim was to warn them against delaying ‘Asr prayer from the beginning of its time, until the time when prayer is not allowed and it is disliked (makruh) to pray.
This hadith highlights the keenness of the Sahabah to uphold the sunnahs of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and to warn against being heedless with regard to prayer..

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It was narrated from Anas ibn Malik that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Prostrate properly, and do not rest your forearms on the ground as a dog does. If you spit, then do not spit in front of you or to your right, for you are conversing with your Lord.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to teach his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) how to pray, and the etiquette and sunnahs of prayer.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructs the Muslim to prostrate properly when praying, by resting on his feet (toes), knees, hands and face. The worshipper should not rest his forearms on the ground when prostrating, as a dog rests, which means placing the hands and the elbows on the ground.
Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) forbade spitting – which means ejecting mucus from the mouth or nose – whilst praying or whilst one is in the mosque. Thus he forbade the worshipper to spit in front of him, which is the direction of the qiblah, or to spit to his right, because that is the honourable side, and all honourable actions are started on the right. That is because the person – whether he is praying or is in the mosque – is standing before his Lord, so he must adhere to proper etiquette and not do anything that it is not appropriate to do before Him (may He be glorified and exalted). Other reports explain that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed the worshipper, if he cannot help but spit, to spit to his left or under his foot, in order to bury it, or to spit into the edge of his garment if he cannot spit in any of those directions. The Muslim should take precautions to avoid contaminating the mosque with spittle on the ground, especially if the mosque is carpeted, and he is able to use a handkerchief or the edge of his garment to spit into if he is praying. But if he is not praying, then he can exit the mosque and go somewhere else where he can clean his mouth and nose. This comes under the heading of proper etiquette and respecting the mosque..

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It was narrated that Abu Dharr al-Ghifari said: We were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on a journey, and the mu’adhdhin wanted to give the call to prayer for Zuhr, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Wait until it cools down.” Then he wanted to give the call to prayer, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Wait until it cools down.” Then when we saw the shadow of the high ground begin to appear, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Intense heat is from the exhalation of Hell, so when it is intensely hot, wait until it cools down before you pray.”.

Commentary : There are many examples that illustrate the easy-going nature of Islamic teachings. One example of that is that for each prayer there is a considerable amount of time during which the prayer may be offered, so as to avoid hardship and difficulty.
In this hadith, Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that they were with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on a journey, and the mu’adhdhin wanted to give the call to prayer for Zuhr, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him to delay it until it had cooled down and the heat had dissipated, so he sat down. Then after a while he wanted to give the call to prayer, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Wait until it cools down.” Then when they saw the shadow of the high ground begin to appear, as a result of the delay, at that point the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Intense heat is from the exhalation of hell – meaning from its scorching heat – so when it is intensely hot, wait until it cools down before you pray.” In the case of Zuhr, waiting until it cools down means delaying going out to offer the prayer until it has cooled down and the heat has reduced in comparison to the heat at the beginning of the noontime..

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It was narrated from Abu Barzah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray Fajr and one of us could recognize the person next to him, and in the prayer he would recite between sixty and one hundred verses. He would pray Zuhr when the sun passed the meridian, and he would pray ‘Asr then one of us would go to the furthest part of the city and come back when the sun was still bright – and I forgot what he said about Maghrib – and we would not mind if ‘Isha’ was delayed until one third of the night had passed. Then he said: until half of the night had passed. Mu‘adh said: Shu‘bah said: I met him once, and he said: or one third of the night..

Commentary : The best guidance is the guidance of Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). He taught his ummah everything having to do with religious matters, including prayer, its timings and how to do it, because of its great importance in Islamic teachings.
In this hadith, Abu Barzah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray Fajr and one of us would recognize the person next to him. This indicates that the dawn had grown so light that a worshipper could recognize the person next to him. That was at the end of the prayer; he would make the prayer lengthy and would not finish it until things had become visible and faces had become recognizable. In the prayer he would recite between sixty and one hundred verses.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would pray Zuhr straight after the sun had passed the meridian in the middle of the day, when the sun started to decline from the middle of the sky.
He (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would pray ‘Asr at such a time that one of them would be able to go to the furthest part of Madinah and come back, and the sun would still be shining strongly, very hot and bright. This indicates that he offered the prayer at the beginning of its time.
Then the narrator, Abu’l-Minhal, says that he forgot what Abu Barzah (may Allah be pleased with him) told him about the time when they used to pray Maghrib.
Abu Barzah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: we would not mind if ‘Isha’ was delayed until one third of the night had passed. Then he said: until half of the night had passed. In other words, sometimes they would pray ‘Isha’ after one third, or one half, of the night had passed, because of its virtue. Concerning the virtue of delaying it there is a report narrated by Abu Dawud, according to which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Offer this prayer when it is very dark, for you have been given precedence over other nations because of it; no nation before you ever had a prayer like it.”.

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: When we prayed Zuhr behind the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), we would prostrate on our garments to protect ourselves from the heat..

Commentary : Islam is a religion of mercy and ease in all its laws and teachings, and in the application of its teachings, as it takes into consideration an individual’s ability, without causing undue hardship.
In this hadith, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) says: When we prayed Zuhr behind the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), we would pray on our garments. They used to use the edges of their garments when prostrating, placing the cloth between their foreheads and the ground, to protect themselves from the intense heat. That is because in the summer, when temperatures are high, Zuhr prayer is offered during the hottest time of the day, as a result of which the ground is extremely hot.
This hadith indicates that it is permissible to take measures to help one do acts of worship without facing any harm or difficulty..

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It was narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed seven [rak‘ahs] and eight [rak‘ahs] in Madinah: Zuhr and ‘Asr, and Maghrib and ‘Isha’. Ayyub said: Perhaps that was on a rainy night? He said: Perhaps..

Commentary : In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that when he was in Madinah, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed seven [rak‘ahs], meaning that he put ‘Maghrib and ‘Isha’ together, so he delayed Maghrib until the end of its time, when he prayed it with three rak‘ahs, and when he finished it, the time for ‘Isha’ began and he prayed it with four rak‘ahs.
And he prayed eight [rak‘ahs], meaning that he put Zuhr and ‘Asr together in a similar manner. So he delayed Zuhr until the end of its time, and when he had prayed it with four [rak‘ahs], its time had ended and the time for ‘Asr began, so he prayed ‘Asr with four rak‘ahs.
Ayyub – namely Ayyub al-Sakhtiyani, the narrator of the hadith, and the one to whom he spoke was Jabir ibn Zayd – said: Perhaps this delay was on a very rainy night? Jabir ibn Zayd said: Perhaps that was on a rainy night. This was an expression of hope on his part that that had happened on a rainy night, because usually the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not delay a prayer from the beginning of its time except for a valid reason and hardship that required the concession allowing a delay.
This hadith indicates that Islam aims to make things easy and avoid causing difficulty, and that it is permissible to avail oneself of concessions with regard to acts of worship..

547
It was narrated that Sayyar ibn Salamah said: My father and I went to see Abu Barzah al-Aslami, and my father said to him: How did the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) offer the obligatory prayers? He said: He used to pray al-hajir [Zuhr] – which you call the first prayer – when the sun passed the zenith. He would pray ‘Asr, then one of us would be able to go to his residence in the furthest part of Madinah when the sun was still bright – and I forgot what he said about Maghrib – and he liked to delay ‘Isha’ – which you call al-‘atamah (lit. darkness) – and he did not like to sleep before it or to talk after it. He would finish Fajr prayer when a man could recognize the person next to him, and he would recite between sixty and one hundred verses..

Commentary : This hadith highlights the eagerness of the Tabi‘in to seek knowledge of the Sunnah and their keenness to follow the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). In it, Sayyar ibn Salamah, who was one of the Tabi‘in, went with his father Salamah to see Abu Barzah al-Aslami (may Allah be pleased with him). Salamah the father of Sayyar asked him about the prayer of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and how he used to offer the obligatory prayers that Allah (may He be exalted) prescribed for His slaves. Abu Barzah (may Allah be pleased with him) answered by telling him that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to offer al-hajir prayer – the word hajir refers to extreme heat; what is meant here is Zuhr prayer, and it is so called because the time for the prayer begins then. They also used to call Zuhr the first prayer, because it was the first prayer in which Jibril (peace be upon him) led the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would offer this prayer when the sun passed the meridian and began to decline from the middle of the sky towards the west. What that implies is that he used to pray Zuhr at the beginning of its time.
Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to hasten to pray ‘Asr; he would pray it so early in its time that one of those who had prayed with him could go to his home in the furthest part of Madinah when the sun was still bright and its light and heat had not changed. The narrator forgot what Abu Barzah said about Maghrib prayer. Then Abu Barzah said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) liked to delay ‘Isha’ prayer because of the virtue that there is in that. Concerning the virtue of delaying it there is the report narrated by Abu Dawud, which says that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Offer this prayer when it is very dark, for you have been given precedence over other nations because of it; no nation before you ever had a prayer like it.” This is the prayer you call al-‘atamah (lit. darkness); al-‘atamah refers to the darkness that appears after the red afterglow disappears. This indicates that this prayer should not be called by this name. It is disliked (makruh) to sleep before ‘Isha’, for fear that one may end up praying it after its time has ended. It is also disliked to speak about worldly matters after it, because that may lead to missing out on praying qiyam al-layl and Fajr.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to finish praying, or turn towards the congregation after praying Fajr, when a man could recognize the person next to him. This indicates that the dawn had grown so light that a worshipper could recognize the person next to him. That was at the end of the prayer; he would make the prayer lengthy and would not finish it until things had become visible and faces had become recognizable. In the prayer he would recite between sixty and one hundred verses..

548
It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: We would pray ‘Asr, then one of us would go out to Banu ‘Amr ibn ‘Awf, and find them praying ‘Asr..

Commentary : The Sahabah were very keen to teach the people and the Tabi‘in the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and the times of the prayer, and how it is to be done.
In this hadith, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that they used to pray ‘Asr with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), then one of them would go out to Banu ‘Amr ibn ‘Awf and find them still praying ‘Asr. This indicates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to pray ‘Asr very early. That was because the houses of Banu ‘Amr ibn ‘Awf were in Quba’, two miles away from Madinah. They used to pray ‘Asr in the middle of its time, because they were busy working in their fields, then when they had finished their work, they would get ready to pray by purifying themselves and so on, then they would gather for the prayer. So they would delay the prayer until the middle of its time for that reason.
The beginning of the time for ‘Asr – as is stated in the reports – is when the sun is in the sky and the length of the shadow of a thing is double its height.
This hadith indicates that one may delay ‘Asr so long as the time when praying is disliked (makruh) has not yet begun, because during the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), some of the Sahabah used to offer this prayer later than he did, and what appears to be the case is that he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was aware of that and approved of it..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..