logo

| 2 Hadiths

Hadith
634
It was narrated from ‘Awn ibn Abi Juhayfah, from his father, that he saw Bilal giving the call to prayer. [He said:] I started watching his mouth as he turned this way and that, this way and that, reciting the adhan..

Commentary : The adhan has been prescribed to alert the people to the beginning of the time for prayer. In order to serve that purpose, the mu’adhdhin should have a loud voice, so that his voice will reach the largest possible number of people.
In this hadith, Abu Juhayfah, Wahb ibn ‘Abdillah al-Suwa’i (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he saw Bilal ibn Rabah (may Allah be pleased with him) as he was giving the adhan. He saw him turning right and left as he was giving the call to prayer. According to a report narrated by Muslim, he said: I started watching his mouth as he turned this way and that – meaning, right and left – saying, Hayya ‘ala al-salah, hayya ‘ala al-falah. This indicates that the turning referred to in the hadith should only be done when reciting these two phrases; so the mu’adhdhin should turn to his right when saying “Hayya ‘ala al-salah” and to his left when saying “Hayya ‘ala al-falah.” The purpose of turning right and left is to make the voice reach as far as possible, so that the people can hear him.
This hadith indicates that it is prescribed to turn right and left when giving the call to prayer, whilst saying “Hayya ‘ala al-salah” and “hayya ‘ala al-falah.”.

635
It was narrated that Abu Qatadah said: Whilst we were praying with the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), he heard the sound of people coming in. When he finished the prayer, he said: What was that noise? They said: We were rushing to pray. He said: “Do not do that. When you come to prayer, come in a calm and dignified manner, then whatever you catch up with pray, and whatever you miss, make it up.”.

Commentary : Because prayer is a meeting between a person and his Lord, it is appropriate for him to prepare himself for that meeting, and to observe proper etiquette with Allah (may He be glorified and exalted). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) taught his ummah a great deal about this etiquette, including what is mentioned in this hadith. When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) heard the sound of people coming in – meaning the sound of their movements and words – whilst he was praying in congregation, he asked them, after he had finished his prayer, about the reason for this movement and noise. They said: We were rushing to catch up with the prayer. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told them not to rush like that, and advised them to behave in the calm and dignified manner that is required when coming to prayer; he instructed them to be quiet and unhurried, then whatever you catch up with of his prayer, pray it with him, and whatever you miss of his prayer, make it up after the imam says the salaam. Thus you will attain the reward of having prayed in congregation, so there is no need to rush.
This hadith urges the Muslim to be calm and dignified when coming to prayer..

642
It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: The iqamah for prayer was given when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was conversing with a man in a corner of the mosque, and he did not get up to pray until the people had fallen asleep..

Commentary : Prayer is a connection between a person and his Lord, hence he should make sure that there is nothing in his mind or heart to distract him before he starts to pray, because that will help him to focus on his prayer with proper humility (khushu‘).
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the iqamah for prayer was given whilst the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was talking to a man and having a private conversation with him in a corner of the mosque. The prayer in question was ‘Isha’, as is stated clearly in a report narrated by Muslim. He spoke to him for such a long time that he did not get up to pray until after those who were present in the mosque had fallen asleep, because he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spoke to that man for so long. Perhaps the conversation was about some religious matter that was urgent and important, otherwise he would not have delayed the prayer for so long that the people fell asleep after such a lengthy wait.
This hadith indicates that it is permissible to give precedence to urgent and important matters, concerning which there is the fear that not doing so may lead to harm, or one could be distracted by them if prayer is offered at the beginning of its time.
It indicates that it is permissible to talk after the iqamah for prayer has been given, and before starting to pray.
It indicates that it is permissible to separate the iqamah and prayer in cases of necessity.
It indicates that it is permissible for two people to converse privately in the presence of a group of others..

644
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “By the One in Whose hand is my soul, I thought of issuing orders that firewood be collected and brought, then issuing orders that the call to prayer be given, and instructing a man to lead the people in prayer, then I would go to some men and burn their houses down with them inside. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if one of them knew that he would find a bone with meat on it, or the meat from a sheep’s foot, he would attend ‘Isha’.”.

Commentary : Prayer in congregation is one of the practices and rituals of Islam. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoined it and warned against neglecting it and being heedless concerning it. In this hadith, there is a stern warning and threat from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to the one who stays away from prayer in congregation with no excuse. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) swore an oath, saying: “By the One in Whose hand is my soul.” This is an oath by which the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) often swore. What it means is: By Allah, in Whose hand is my soul; this is an affirmation of the divine attribute of the hand, in a manner that is befitting to Allah’s majesty. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) swore this oath, saying: “I thought of issuing orders that firewood be collected” – that is, I was about to issue orders that firewood – which is dry material from crops and trees – be collected, then issuing orders that the call to prayer be given, and instructing a man to lead the people in prayer; then I would not join the prayer in congregation, doing something different to my instruction to pray. I would go to some people who have stopped praying in congregation and have been praying in their houses, and burn their houses down with them inside. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) swore the same oath again, for emphasis, saying: “By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if one of them knew that he would find a bone with meat on it, or the meat from a sheep’s foot, he would attend ‘Isha’.” The word translated here as a bone refers to a bone on which there is a little meat left. What is meant is that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was swearing that if those people who stayed away from prayer in congregation with no excuse knew that, if they attended the prayer, they would find some worldly benefit, such as food for example, even if that worldly benefit was of very little significance, they would attend and join the worshippers, because all they cared about was worldly benefit, and they did not care about what would benefit them in the hereafter.
This hadith emphasizes the importance of praying in congregation, and warns against missing it with no excuse.
It indicates that it is permissible for one who is of lower standing to lead the prayer in the presence of one who is of higher standing, if that serves a purpose..

645
It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Prayer in congregation is twenty-seven times better than prayer offered on one’s own.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) urged the Muslims to pray in congregation, because of the great virtue that there is in doing so. He spoke of its virtue in many hadiths, including this hadith in which he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained the difference between the reward of praying in congregation and the reward of praying on one’s own; praying in congregation is twenty-seven times better than praying on one’s own, so the one who prays in congregation attains the reward of the one who prays on his own, plus a twenty-sevenfold reward. This meaning is indicated by what is mentioned in a report narrated by Muslim from Abu Hurayrah: “Prayer in congregation is equivalent to twenty-five prayers offered on one’s own.” Muslim also narrated: “One prayer offered with the imam is better than twenty-five prayers offered on one’s own.” With regard to the difference of numbers mentioned in the reports, twenty-seven and twenty-five, this difference may be due to differences in the situation of each individual worshipper and the way he performs the prayer. Thus one of them may attain a twenty-fivefold reward, and others may attain a twenty-sevenfold reward, depending on how well they pray, the extent to which they do the movements properly and show proper focus and humility (khushu‘), the number of people present in the congregation and their virtues, the virtue of the location, and other matters.
The salaf or early generations (may Allah be pleased with them) did not stay away from prayer in congregation, and they were keen to do it. One of them – as is narrated in Sahih Muslim from Ibn Mas‘ud (may Allah be pleased with him) would be brought to attend the prayer in congregation leaning on two men, having to be supported by them because of his feebleness and weakness, because of what he knew of the virtue of praying in congregation and hoping to attain the reward thereof.
This hadith urges the Muslim to pray in congregation and highlights the virtue of doing so..

650
It was narrated that Umm al-Darda’ said: Abu’l-Darda’ came in, looking angry. I said: What has made you angry? He said: By Allah, I do not recognize anything of the ummah of Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) except the fact that they pray together..

Commentary : Loving the religion of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted), teaching it to the people, being angry and sad when people forget anything of it, and hastening to advise them and remind them, are all obligatory, and every Muslim must do them to the best of his knowledge and ability. The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were the keenest of people to do that. In this hadith, Umm al-Darda’ – whose name was Hujaymah; she was the younger Umm al-Darda’ and was a Tabi‘iyyah – narrates that her husband Abu’d-Darda’, whose name was ‘Uwaymir (or ‘Amir) ibn Zayd al-Khazraji, came in one day looking angry. She asked him why he was angry, and he said: By Allah, I do not recognize anything of the ummah of Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) except the fact that they pray together. In other words, he did not recognize anything that they were still adhering to of the teachings of Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) except their praying in congregation. He said that out of sorrow for what he saw of the people falling short in matters of religion. Undoubtedly this is a relative matter; the people of his time still adhered to most of the teachings of Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Rather Abu’d-Darda’ was saddened by the difference between the Prophet’s era and what followed it, and undoubtedly there was a difference between the two, especially following the emergence of turmoil (fitnah) at the time of ‘Uthman (may Allah be pleased with him). Otherwise, their era was among the three best generations of which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of humanity are my generation, then those who come after them, then those who come after them.”
There is no contradiction between what Abu’l-Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with him) said and the Prophet’s prohibition on describing people as being doomed, as was narrated in Sahih Muslim from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): “If a man says, The people are doomed, he is the most doomed of them.” The scholars are unanimously agreed that criticizing the one who says that people are doomed only applies to one who says that by way of looking down on people, thinking himself superior to them, and condemning what he sees of their situation, because he does not know what is in people’s hearts. As for the one who says that by way of expressing sorrow at what he sees in himself and in other people of falling short with regard to religious matters, there is nothing wrong with that. Moreover, Abu’l-Darda’ did not say, The people are doomed and have neglected religious matters. Rather he said it by way of comparing his situation at that particular time with the situation of the Sahabah at the time of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had stated that no time would come, but what came after it would be worse. Narrated by al-Bukhari.
This hadith indicates that it is permissible to be angry when there is a change in people’s religious commitment, and it is permissible to denounce evil by expressing anger, if one is not able to do more than that..

651
It was narrated that Abu Musa said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The people who will have the greatest reward for prayer are those who have to come from the furthest distance, then the next furthest, and the one who waits for the prayer until he prays with the imam will have a greater reward than the one who prays, then goes to sleep..

Commentary : The reward for an act of worship is connected to the sincerity and effort involved. The greater the effort and the greater the sincerity, the greater the reward will be. In this hadith, the Prophet highlights the virtue of walking to the mosque from far away, and the virtue of waiting to pray in the mosque with the imam. He said: “The people who will have the greatest reward for prayer are those who have to come from the furthest distance.” Then he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) mentioned that the reason why the reward for the prayer in this case is so great is the distance walked; in other words, the long distance and the many steps taken. That is because the hardship involved is greater than in the case of one who is a neighbour of the mosque, in addition to the patience involved in doing this act of worship. Every prayer in which there is difficulty due to the distance walked brings a greater reward and is better than a prayer in which there is no difficulty. This is encouraging and urging the Muslim to pray in congregation, even if the mosque is far away. In Sahih Muslim it is narrated that when Banu Salamah wanted to move closer to the mosque of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), he said to them: “O Banu Salamah, remain in your land and the reward for your steps will be recorded, remain in your land and the reward for your steps will be recorded.” What is meant is: stay where you are, and in return for the steps that you take to the mosque, more reward will be written for you because of having to walk further to reach the mosque.
Similarly, the one who waits for the prayer so that he may pray with the imam in congregation will have a greater reward than the one who prays on his own as soon as the time for the prayer begins, then goes to sleep. Just as distance has an impact of increasing reward, waiting for a longer time also increases reward, because in both cases extra effort is required..

652
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whilst a man was walking on a road, he came across a thorny branch on the road, so he removed it. Allah appreciated his action and forgave him.” Then he said: “The martyrs are five: one who dies of a plague, one who dies of a stomach disease, one who drowns, one who dies beneath a collapsed structure, and the martyr who is killed in Allah’s cause.” And he said: “If the people knew what there is in the call (to prayer) and the first row, and they could find no way except drawing lots, they would draw lots for that. If they knew what there is in coming early for prayer, they would race and compete for it. If they knew what there is in ‘Isha’ and Fajr prayer, they would come to them even if they had to crawl.”.

Commentary : Obeying Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) and fulfilling His commands are a means of attaining high status in this world and the hereafter. Acts of obedience and worship are many and varied, and people’s motivation to do them also varies. Hence people’s rewards and status before Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) also vary.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) urges the Muslim to do a number of righteous deeds, and he describes the types of martyrs. He (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) begins by urging the Muslim to remove harmful things from the road. He speaks of a man who was walking on a road, and came across a thorny branch that was bothering the people; either this branch was on a tree at the level of their heads, and bothered them, or it was at the level of their feet and bothered them. So he removed it, so as to stop it bothering people. Allah accepted that from him and praised him for it, and his reward was that Allah forgave him his sins in return for removing that branch from the road.
Then the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) mentioned types of martyrs who will have the reward of the martyr. It was said that the martyr (shahid) is so called because the angels witness (yashhaduna) his death, so it is witnessed (mashhud). It was also said that it is testified (mashhud) that Paradise is his; or it is because he is alive and present with Allah; or because he has seen (shahida) what Allah has prepared for him of honours. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) mentioned five types of martyrs here. The first of them is the one who dies of a plague, which is an epidemic or pandemic. The second is the one who dies of a stomach disease, namely diarrhoea; it was also said that he is the one who dies of oedema or swelling of the stomach, or the one who dies of any internal disease. The third is the one who dies by drowning in water. The fourth is the one who dies beneath a collapsed structure, such as a wall and the like. The fifth is the one who is killed in Allah’s cause; this refers to a Muslim who dies striving in jihad against the disbelievers, by any means of fighting them, before the war ends. He is the one who is described as a martyr in this world and the hereafter, and he is the one whose body is not to be washed or shrouded in anything except the clothes in which he was killed, and no funeral prayer is to be offered for him. That is in contrast to the other four types, who are martyrs in the hereafter only, and will have a reward like that of the martyr. In this world, however, they are to be washed and shrouded, and the funeral prayer is to be offered for them, like any other Muslim who dies. These manners of dying are regarded as martyrdom by the grace of Allah (may He be exalted), because of how difficult and painful they are.
Other reports mention other types of martyrs, apart from the five mentioned here, such as the report in al-Sahihayn: “Whoever is killed defending his wealth is a martyr”; and the report in Sunan al-Tirmidhi: “Whoever is killed defending his religion is a martyr, whoever is killed defending his life is a martyr, and whoever is killed defending his wife is a martyr.” And there are others. This indicates that the number mentioned in this hadith does not mean that martyrs are limited to these five. The variation in numbers is connected to variations in the revelation that came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). It is as if the revelation came down to him on separate occasions, and each time told him about some types of martyrs.
Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) highlighted the virtue of coming early to the prayer, and the virtue of the first row and coming early to the prayer, and praying ‘Isha’ and Fajr in congregation. He states that if people knew of the virtue and reward of coming early to the prayer, and they knew of the reward of standing in the first row that is immediately behind the imam, then they could find no means of attaining that except by drawing lots for it, they would draw lots, because of what there is in these actions of immense reward. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) urged the Muslims to come early to prayer, and stated that if the Muslims knew of the virtue and reward that there is in coming early to the prayer – whichever prayer it is – they would race and compete for that. Similarly, if the people were aware of the reward that there is for praying ‘Isha’ and Fajr in congregation, they would come to these prayers even if they had to come crawling on their hands and knees, or on their stomachs.
The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) referred to ‘Isha’ prayer here as al-‘atamah (lit. darkness), but it was narrated from him (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) elsewhere that he forbade calling ‘Isha’ al-‘atamah, as is narrated in Sahih Muslim from Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): “Do not be influenced by the Bedouin with regard to the name of your prayer; indeed it is ‘Isha’, but they delay milking the camels until it is very dark [yu‘timuna].” It was said concerning this that the prohibition mentioned was not emphatic and did not mean that this is haram, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used this wording on this occasion for a reason, which is that they used to call Maghrib prayer ‘Isha’ and they called ‘Isha’ al-‘atamah, based on the time when they offered the prayer. Hence it was necessary to explain things in their dialect sometimes, so that they would not become confused and misunderstand what the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) meant. It was also said that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used these words in order to explain that there is no blame on a person for using them, but that is contrary to what is more appropriate.
This hadith highlights the virtue of removing a harmful thing from the road, which is the least of the branches of faith.
It also highlights the virtue of coming early to the mosque and of competing to be in the first row.
It highlights the virtue of coming early for prayer.
It highlights the virtue of praying ‘Isha’ and Fajr..

659
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The angels send blessings upon one of you so long as he remains in the place where he prayed, provided that he does not commit sin, [and they say]: O Allah forgive him; O Allah have mercy on him. One of you remains in a state of prayer so long as the prayer is detaining him, and nothing is preventing him from returning to his family except the prayer.”.

Commentary : Being attached to prayer and waiting for it is indicative of a sincere faith in Allah (may He be exalted), and is a means of attaining immense reward with Allah (may He be glorified and exalted). In this hadith, the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) highlights the virtue of waiting for the prayer in the mosque. He tells us that the angels pray for forgiveness for the believer, so long as he remains in the place where he prayed, or the place that is prepared for prayer. This meaning includes those who are praying and those who are waiting for the prayer. This reward also includes a woman, if she prays in a place in her house that is allocated for prayer, and sits there waiting for the prayer, if what is keeping her from getting up and going about her business is the prayer. This reward is conditional, and it depends on the one who is waiting for the prayer not committing sin by causing offence to someone by backbiting, insulting or the like. And it was said that what is meant by the word translated here as “committing sin” is invalidating his wudu’, because when wudu’ is invalidated the prayer is also invalidated, so he can no longer be in a state of prayer.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said that the angels say, praying for forgiveness for the person: “O Allah forgive him; O Allah have mercy on him.” The difference between forgiveness and mercy is that forgiveness is concealment and pardon of sins, whereas mercy is showing kindness and generosity.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) also highlighted the reward for the one who sits, waiting for the prayer. He stated that the worshipper will have reward throughout the period when he is waiting, so long as what is keeping him there and preventing him from going back to his family is nothing except the prayer. This implies that if his intention changes for any reason, the reward mentioned will cease. The same applies if anything else becomes mixed with his intention.
This hadith highlights the virtue of sitting in one’s place of prayer in a state of purity.
It also encourages the Muslim to be devote his time to obeying and worshipping Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) and doing good, and remaining steadfast in that..

660
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “There are seven whom Allah will shade with His shade on the Day when there will be no shade but His: a just ruler; a young man who grows up worshipping Allah; a man whose heart is attached to the mosque; two men who love one another for the sake of Allah, meeting and parting on that basis; a man who is called (to sin) by a woman of status and beauty, but he says, ‘I fear Allah’; a man who gives charity so secretly that his left hand does not know what his right hand is giving; and a man who remembers Allah when he is alone and his eyes fill with tears.”.

Commentary : The Day of Resurrection will be a difficult day, filled with terrors, on which the sun will come close to people’s heads and its heat will grow intense. But the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) has given us the glad tidings that Allah has slaves whom He will shade with His shade on that Day on which there will be no shade except His.
In this hadith, the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) mentions seven types of people in this ummah who will be blessed with His shade on that Day on which no one will find any shade except those whom Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) will shade with His shade. What is meant by shade here is the shade of the Throne, as is explained in other hadiths, including the report narrated by Ahmad and al-Tirmidhi from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) , according to which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever grants respite to the one who owes him money, or lets him off, will be in the shade of the Throne on the Day of Resurrection.” As what is meant is the shade of the Throne, this implies that they will be in the care of Allah (may He be exalted) and honoured by Him. The first of these seven is the just ruler; this is a ruler who treats his subjects justly, protects their rights, takes care of their interests, and judges between them according to the law of Allah (may He be glorified and exalted). Thus he takes care of their religious and worldly interests. The second is a young man who grows up striving in worshipping his Lord, committed to obeying Him and His commands and prohibitions. The young man is singled out for mention, because worship is harder or more difficult for young people, as the inclination to commit sin is very powerful in their case, and they are overwhelmed by physical desires. But if a young person persists in worship at that age, it is indicative of his being very mindful of Allah and having great fear of Him. The third is a man whose heart is attached to the mosques, so he loves the mosques very much, frequents them and stays in the mosque for a long time, always attending prayers in congregation and obligatory prayers, waiting for prayer after prayer. It is as if his heart is one of the lamps of the mosque. The fourth is two men, each of whom loves the other for the sake of Allah (may He be exalted), seeking His pleasure and obeying Him, and not for any worldly purpose, so they meet one another on this basis and continue to love one another for His sake. The apparent meaning of the phrase “meeting and parting on that basis” is that their love for the sake of Allah is sincere when they meet and when they part. The fifth is a man who is pursued for immoral purposes by a beautiful woman of noble lineage, high status and wealth, but he says, “I fear Allah.” It may be that he utters these words out loud, to deter her from shameful deeds, or he says that to himself in his heart and confirms it by his actions, meaning that fear of Allah prevents him from committing an action that would incur His wrath. The woman of status and beauty is singled out for mention because such a woman is very desirable, and by taking this stance despite all these temptations, this man is able to attain the highest level of obeying and fearing Allah (may He be exalted); this is the character of those who are strong and true in faith (siddiqin). The sixth is a man who gives voluntary charity and goes to extremes in concealing his charity from people, from everything and from his own self, to the extent that his left hand does not know what is right hand is spending. The right hand and left hand are mentioned to emphasize how much he conceals his charity. This likeness is given because the right hand is close to the left and they are always together. What this likeness means is that if his left hand was a man who is alert and notices everything, it would still not be able to find out about it, because he goes to such great lengths to conceal his charity. This is the best approach when giving charity, and is furthest removed from showing off, even though it is permissible to give charity and zakah openly if you are confident that showing off can be avoided, and the intention is to encourage others to also spend in charity, and to set an example for others to follow, and to openly practice the teachings of Islam. The seventh is a man who remembers Allah when he is on his own, either by uttering words of dhikr verbally or by remembering the greatness of Allah (may He be exalted), and the meeting with Him, when he will stand before Him and be brought to account for his deeds, and he remembers that when he is on his own, away from other people, because at that time he is furthest removed from showing off. It was also said that the phrase translated here as “when he is alone” refers to total focus, not paying attention to anyone other than Allah, even if he is amongst people, so his tears flow out of fear of Allah (may He be exalted).
These seven people only attained this blessing by being sincerely devoted to Allah (may He be exalted) and going against their whims and desires. That is because the ruler who has power cannot be just except by going against his whims and desires. The young man who gives precedence to worshipping Allah over the impulses of youth would not be able to do that without going against his whims and desires. With regard to the man whose heart is attached to the mosque, what makes him do that is going against the whims and desires that call him to places of entertainment and leisure. With regard to the giver who hides his charity from his left hand, if he did not suppress his whims and desires, he would not be able to do that. With regard to the one who is called to sin by a beautiful woman of high standing, but he fears Allah (may He be glorified in exalted) and goes against his whims and desires, and the one who remembers Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) when he is on his own and his eyes flow with tears out of fear of Him, only attain this status [of being shaded by Allah’s shade on the Day of Resurrection] by going against their whims and desires. Therefore Allah will save them from the heat, sweat and hardship of the standing on the Day of Resurrection.
This hadith mentions seven types of people, and there are other reports which mention other types in addition to those who are mentioned here. One of these hadiths is that which was narrated by Imam Muslim from Abu’l-Yasar Ka‘b ibn ‘Amr al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him), according to which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The one who gives respite to a debtor who is in difficulty, or waives the debt, Allah will shade him with His shade.” This blessing will also be granted to: the warrior and those who help him, the honest trader, and the one who helps a slave who has a contract of manumission to pay off what he owes to his master, as is narrated in other reports and hadiths. This indicates that the number of those who will be shaded by Allah’s shade is not limited to these seven.
This hadith highlights the virtue of the seven types of people mentioned here, and the virtue of one who is saved from sin and focuses on obeying his Lord all his life.
It also urges the Muslim to do acts of worship and obedience, because they are means of attaining the pleasure of Allah (may He be exalted) in the hereafter.
It also indicates that one of the blessings that Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) will bestow on the Day of Resurrection is shelter beneath His shade..

661
It was narrated that Humayd said: Anas ibn Malik was asked: Did the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) acquire a ring? He said: Yes. One night he delayed ‘Isha’ prayer until halfway through the night, then he turned to us after he had prayed and said: “The people prayed and went to sleep, but you have been in a state of prayer all the time you have been waiting.” [Anas] said: It is as if I can see the glimmering of his ring..

Commentary : Islam permits men to wear rings, so long as they are not made of gold. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had a ring made of silver. In this hadith, that is mentioned along with an explanation of some of the rulings on ‘Isha’ prayer and the virtue of waiting for the prayer. Humayd al-Tawil narrates that Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) was asked: Did the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) acquire a ring? He said: Yes. Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that he saw the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wearing his ring one night. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had delayed ‘Isha’ prayer on that night until halfway through the night, which is the best time [for ‘Isha’ prayer] for those who are able to do that. When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had finished the prayer at that time, he turned to face those who had prayed with him and said: Other people have prayed ‘Isha’, either at home or in a mosque where they usually pray in congregation, and gone to sleep, whilst you were gaining the reward of prayer throughout this time that you were waiting to pray, until half way through the night. So it is as if you were praying throughout the time that you were waiting.
Then Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said that he saw the glimmering of the silver of the ring of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) as he was addressing them. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) acquired a ring when he began to send letters to the kings and rulers, and he was told that they would not accept any letter that did not bear a seal. So he had a ring made of silver, on which were engraved the words “Muhammad Rasulullah (Muhammad the Messenger of Allah)”, as is narrated in al-Sahihayn.
This hadith highlights the virtue of delaying ‘Isha’ prayer until almost half way through the night.
It also highlights the virtue of waiting for prayer after prayer..

662
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah, that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever goes to the mosque and comes back, Allah will prepare his place and provision in Paradise every time he goes and comes back.”.

Commentary : The mosques are the best places on earth, and the more a person’s heart is attached to the mosques, and he finds comfort and ease there, and is keen to pray Jumu‘ah and to pray in congregation, and to remember Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) in the mosques, the greater his reward will be and the higher his status in this world and the hereafter.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) highlights the virtue of going to the mosques, and mentions the immense reward that is prepared for the one who has the habit of going to the mosque. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) says: “Whoever goes to the mosque and comes back, Allah will prepare his place and provision in Paradise every time he goes and comes back.”
What is meant is one who is always going to the mosque for the purpose of worship, foremost among which is prayer. It was said that what is meant by the phrase, “Whoever goes to the mosque and comes back” is that he goes and comes back from the mosque all the time; in other words, whoever has the habit of going to the mosque, Allah will prepare for him his place and provision in Paradise every time he goes to the mosque. Thus his going to the mosque is a cause of preparation of his place in Paradise. This is encouragement to attend the prayers in congregation, and to regularly attend the mosque for prayer, because if Allah has prepared his place and provision in Paradise simply for going to the mosque and coming back, what do you think will be prepared for him, and what kind of blessings will he receive for praying in congregation, seeking the reward thereof from Allah and showing sincerity to Allah (may He be exalted) in doing that?.

663
It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn Malik ibn Buhaynah that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw a man praying two rak‘ahs after the iqamah for prayer had been given. When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) finished praying, the people surrounded him [that man] and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to him: “Did you pray Fajr with four rak‘ahs? Did you pray Fajr with four rak‘ahs?”.

Commentary : Putting priorities in order, and giving precedence to what is more important and to obligatory prayers over supererogatory prayers is indicative of wisdom and a good understanding of religion. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn Buhaynah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw a man praying two rak‘ahs after the iqamah had been given for Fajr prayer. It was said that this man was ‘Abdullah ibn Buhaynah, the narrator of this hadith. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spoke to him about that. “When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) finished praying, the people surrounded him [that man]” That is, they gathered around him and asked him what the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had said to him. So he told them that he had rebuked him by saying to him, “Did you pray Fajr with four rak‘ahs?” That was because the man had ignored the obligatory prayer that was about to begin, and started with a supererogatory prayer, as if he regarded the obligatory prayer and the supererogatory prayer as being equal and as being the same thing, so it was as if he had prayed Fajr with four rak‘ahs. This indicates that it is not permissible to begin a supererogatory prayer after the iqamah has been given for an obligatory prayer, because the obligatory prayer takes precedence over the supererogatory prayer, and catching up with the opening takbir (takbirat al-ihram) with the imam is better than offering a supererogatory prayer. In Sahih Muslim it is narrated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “When the iqamah for prayer is given, there is no prayer except the obligatory prayer,” meaning the prayer that is currently due.
This hadith indicates that it is not allowed to begin a supererogatory prayer after the iqamah for prayer has been given..

673
It was narrated that Ibn ‘Umar said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: If the dinner of one of you is served and the iqamah is given for prayer, let him start with dinner and let him not rush until he has finished it. Dinner would be served for Ibn ‘Umar and the iqamah will be given for prayer, and he would not go to pray until he had finished eating, even though he would be hearing the recitation of the imam..

Commentary : Prayer is a connection between a person and his Lord, in which he stands before Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) with humility and beseeching Him, hoping for the mercy of Allah and fearing His punishment. Hence he should make sure that there is nothing in his mind or heart to distract him before he starts to pray, so that he will not lose anything of his reward, and so that he may attain reward from Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) in full, with nothing detracted from it.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explains that if the serving of food coincides with the time of ‘Isha’ and the iqamah for the prayer, the individual should start with dinner and not rush to go to pray until he has finished eating. Food would be served to Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) – whether that was dinner or any other meal – whilst the iqamah was being given for Maghrib or any other prayer, and he would not go and pray until he had finished eating, even if the imam started to pray. He would continue eating even though he could hear the recitation of the imam in the prayer. This was indicative of Ibn ‘Umar’s deep understanding of religion, because it is part of a person’s deep understanding to attend to his needs so that he will be able to focus on his prayer with no worldly matters to distract him, and he will be able to stand before the Lord (may He be glorified and exalted) and offer his prayer in the most perfect manner.
This hadith encourages the Muslim to free himself from worldly distractions whilst praying.
It highlights the virtue of giving precedence to attaining proper focus and humility in prayer over the virtue of praying when the time for the prayer begins, even if one misses out on praying in congregation, provided that one does not make that a habit..

676
It was narrated that al-Aswad said: I asked ‘A’ishah: What did the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) do in his house? She said: He used to be at the service of his family, then when the time for prayer came, he would go out to pray..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed men to treat women well, and he urged them to show kindness to them. He (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the best example to this ummah, so he was the best, most compassionate and kindest of people when dealing with his family and in his treatment of them. One example of that is what the Mother of the Believers ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) speaks of in this hadith. When she (may Allah be pleased with her) was asked about how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was in his house, and what he used to do, she said: He was at the service of his family, meaning that he would help them with the tasks that they did. That includes the fact that he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) – as is narrated in Musnad Ahmad – used to look after himself, milk his sheep, patch his clothes, and mend his sandals. And when the time for prayer came, he would go out to pray with no delay. This was by way of teaching the ummah so that they might emulate their Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), who did whatever he could and did whatever household tasks he was able to do, and would look after himself in some cases. This indicates that there is nothing contrary to dignity in doing such things, whilst also being keen to fulfil obligatory duties to Allah. This is a way of achieving balance between all the duties and obligations that life may place on a man’s shoulders.
This hadith indicates that one should go to pray when the time for prayer comes, and not be distracted by engaging in any worldly matters, whether one is an imam or member of the congregation.
It indicates that leaders and people of virtue and prominence may take care of their own affairs, and that this is one of the actions of the righteous, following the example of their leader (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..