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955
It is narrated on the authority of al-Baraa ibn ‘Azib(may Allah be pleased with them) that the Prophet ﷺ delivered a sermon after offering the ‘Eid prayer in which he ﷺ said, "Whoever offered the prayer like us and slaughtered his sacrificial animal like us then his sacrifice will be accepted by Allah. Whoever slaughtered his sacrifice before the `Eid prayer, then he has not done the sacrifice." Abu Burdah ibn Niyar, the maternal uncle of al-Bara' said, "O Allah's Messenger! I have slaughtered my sheep before the `Eid prayer as I thought today is [not a day to fast but rather] a day of eating and drinking, thus, I liked that my sheep be the first to be slaughtered in my house. I slaughtered my sheep and I ate before coming for the prayer." The Prophet ﷺ said, "The sheep which you have slaughtered is [deemed] a mutton [as it does not qualify as a sacrifice]." Abu Burdah said, "O Allah's Messenger! I have a young she-goat which is dearer to me than two sheep. Will that be sufficient as a sacrifice on my behalf? "The Prophet ﷺ said, "Yes, it will be sufficient for you, but it will not be sufficient as a sacrifice for anyone else after you."
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Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ taught us the requisites of the ‘Eid holidays, its recommended actions, and its etiquette. From amongst [all of] these are: the time of the prayer and how to perform it on the Day of the Sacrifice [i.e., ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa], and the time of slaughtering the sacrificial animal. The sacrifice is a religious ritual from amongst the [various] Islamic religious rites. It is an appointed act of worship by means of a [set] time, which is not permissible [to do] before or after its appointed time.

In this hadeeth, al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that the Prophet ﷺdelivered the sermon of ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa after the conclusion of the prayer, and not before it.He ﷺelucidated for the people by highlighting that whosoever prayed the ‘Eid prayer with the Muslims, and then slaughtered their sacrificial animal after the prayer - then they have fulfilled the prescribed act of worship for which the reward of the sacrifice is prescribed. As for whoever slaughtered the sacrificial animal before the prayer, then the slaughtered animal is not deemed as a sacrifice, meaning, he is not given the reward of the sacrifice. Then, Abu Burdah ibn Niyaar - the maternal uncle of al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) - stood up and mentioned that he slaughtered his sheep before the prayer, explaining that ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa is a day of eating and drinking, that he wanted his sheep to be the first thing to be slaughtered at his home; and that he ate from it before coming to the prayer. Thereafter, the Prophet ﷺ answered him by stating that: the sheep which he slaughtered was nothing more than meat and it would not be deemed as a valid sacrifice; thus, there was no reward from doing so. But rather, it is a mere slaughtering for the purpose of eating that has nothing to do with the prescribed act of worship.

Then, Abu Burdah mentioned that he owned nothing other than an ʿanaaqah [i.e., she-goat]. In juxtaposition to the jadhʿah [which] is less than a year in age. It is said: al-Ijdhaaʿ is a duration of time [which] does not last a year from birth, nor surpasses it; thus, it is a name for the offspring of a goat when it strengthens [in maturity]. Abu Burdah explained that he owned nothing except a jadhʿah, [a type] of goat. However, according to him, it was better and more beloved to him than two sheep due to its abundance of meat and high price. For this reason, he asked the Prophetﷺ , “Will that jadhʿah suffice for the sacrifice?” To which, the Prophet ﷺpermitted for him the slaughter of his jadhʿah because he owned nothing else and answered him by stating that it suffices for him alone and does not suffice for anyone from the Muslims after him. This is an indication that the jadhʿah which is less than one year in age does not suffice as a sacrificial animal, whereas the goat which is two years or older does. The age that suffices for the goat to be worthy of sacrificing should have at least lived one year and has entered into the second.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is the virtue of Abu Burdah(may Allah be pleased with him).

It teaches us to hasten to do good deeds and compete with others in this regard. It indicates that the way of the Prophet ﷺ is one of ease and moderation..

956
Abu Saʿeed al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated The Prophet ﷺ used to proceed to the Musallaa on the days of ‘Eid al-Fitr and ‘Eid al-Adhaa. The first thing to begin with there was the prayer and after that he would stand in front of the people and the people would keep sitting in their rows. Then he would preach, advise, and give them orders. Afterwards, if he wished to send an army for an expedition, he would do so; or if he wanted to give an order, he would do so, and then depart. Abu Saʿeed al-Khudree added, the people followed this tradition till I went out with Marwan, the Governor of Medina, for the prayer of
Eid al-Adha or ‘Eid al-Fitr. When we reached the Musalla, there was a pulpit made by Kathir ibn As-Salt. Marwan wanted to get up on that pulpit before the prayer, but I got hold of his clothes [to stop him]. However, he pulled them and ascended the pulpit and delivered the sermon before the prayer. I said to him, "By Allah, you have changed (the Prophet's tradition)." He replied, "O Abu Saʿeed! Gone is that which you know." I said, "By Allah! What I know is better than what I do not know." Marwan said, "People do not sit to listen to our sermon after the prayer, thus, I delivered it before the prayer.".

Commentary : The Companions of the Prophet ﷺ would enjoin the good and forbid the wrongdoing and reprehensible. They were firm and upheld the truth without making any compromise, spoke the truth without fearing the blame of the blamers.

In this hadeeth, Abu Saʿeed al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him) clarifies the guidance of the Prophet ﷺ with regards to the prayer of the two ‘Eids, explaining the order of events. He states that on the ‘Eids of al-Fiṭr and Al-Aḍhaa, he ﷺ used to set out towards the Musallaa, which is a wide and spacious place، and a well-known locality in al-Madeenah which is about 1000 cubits (The Arabic word dhirāʿ is a unit of measurement which is pretty close to that of a cubit. The average cubit is 0.5 meters. This means the approximate distance here is close to 450 - 500 meters) from the entrance of the masjid.

The first thing that he ﷺ began with was the offering the ‘Eid prayer, then he ﷺ would stand up facing the people to deliver the sermon all the while the people would [remain] seated in their places. During the ‘Eid sermon he ﷺ would admonish, advise, and give the people orders. If he ﷺ wanted to dispatch an army or a troop to a region of the outlying areas [for a mission], he ﷺ would dispatch them accordingly.

Then, Abu Saʿeed mentioned that the people persisted in that manner until Muʿaawiyah(may Allah be pleased with him) appointed Marwaan ibn al-Hakam as a governor over al-Madeenah.

When the ‘Eid of Al-Aḍhaa or al-Fiṭr came, Abu Saʿeed(may Allah be pleased with him) set out with Marwaan to the Musallaa. Then, he saw a pulpit that was built by the famous taabiʿee, Katheer ibn al-Salt al-Kindĩ. Thereafter, Marwaan intended to ascend the pulpit so that he could deliver the ‘Eid sermon before the performance of the prayer. Abu Saʿeed did no more than pull upon the garment of Marwaan forcibly, attempting to prevent him from doing as such. However, Marwaan did not respond to him, and proceeded towards delivering the sermon before the performance of the ‘Eid prayer.

Then, Abu Saʿeed(may Allah be pleased with him) spoke harshly towards him because his actions changed the sunnah [the practice that had been established by the Prophet ﷺ and the people thereafter.] Subsequently, he (may Allah be pleased with him) swore that which he knows is good, because it is the way of the Prophet ﷺ. So, how can it be other than good, [if] it is from him ﷺ?!

Afterwards, Marwaan claimed that his actions were good because the conditions had changed - and that the people did not sit to listen to his Eid sermon after the conclusion of the Eid prayer. For that reason, he delivered the sermon before the prayer so that he could obligate them to listen to it.

This gives us the impression that Marwaan did that as he believed it is a matter that is open to ijtihaad (i.e., exercising an independent judgement), and that he changed the action[s] of the Prophet ﷺ - with beginning with the performance of the prayer, and then the deliverance of the sermon - to his own on the basis of precedence. He advanced a reason for leaving the foregoing in [exchange] to what he mentioned earlier regarding the change in the people’s condition. He discerned that the adherence to the basis of the sunnah - which [when applied here refers to] listening to the sermon - is more important than the observance of a position that is not a condition [for its validity]. However, Abu Saʿeed (ay Allah be pleased with him) understood the actions of the Prophet ﷺ and their sequence as being fixed and not subject to change. Nonetheless, he neither left off the prayer nor refrained from listening to the sermon.

From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that the ‘Eid prayer should be performed outdoor, and not in a masjid, except out of necessity.

It teaches us that the Prophet delivered the sermon at the Musallaa on the two ‘Eids while standing.

It shows us that we should constantly enjoin the good and forbid the prohibited - even if the one to condemn is a person of authority or a ruler.

This hadeeth shows us that it is prescribed to use the pulpit for the purpose of delivering the sermon of ‘Eid and explains that the person delivering the sermon should stand facing the people.

Lastly, it indicates the permissibility of a person’s oath toward the truth in what they convey.

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957
‘Abdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated that the Prophet ﷺ used to offer the prayer of `Eid al-Adhaa and `Eid al-Fitr, and then deliver the sermon after the prayer..

Commentary : The Prayer of ‘Eid has requisites, recommended actions, and etiquettes that the Prophet ﷺ always ensured to perform. His noble Companions transmitted his traditions and the way he performed them for us.

In this hadeeth, Ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased the both of them) reports that the way of the Prophet ﷺ handled the prayer of the two ‘Eids was to: deliver the sermon after the prayer, as opposed to the Friday prayer, in which the sermon precedes the prayer, and that sermon of ‘Eid consists of two parts, similar to that of the [ones] delivered on Friday.

The sermon is legislated on Fridays, ‘Eids, and [other] occasions for many reasons. One of them is that the people learn about the matters of religion and worldly affairs. For this reason, whenever the Imaam ascends on to the pulpit, he should make it his goal to teach the people and instruct them - especially on religious correlations that coincide with that sermon. This is based on the report that al-Bukhaaree recorded about the description of the sermon of the Prophet ﷺaccording to Abu Saʿeed al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him). In this report, he explained that the first thing that he ﷺ began with was the performance of the ‘Eid prayer. Then, after he finished the prayer, he ﷺ turned towards the people, and stood up facing the congregation. The people would [remain] seated in their rows as he ﷺ delivered the sermon to them, during which he admonished, advised, and gave them orders.  .

959
ʿAṭaa’ ibn AbeeRabaah reported that Ibn ‘Abbaas sent [a message] to Ibn Zubair at the commencement of the oath of allegiance to him (for Caliphate saying): As there is no Adhan on 'Eid-ul-Fitr, so you should not pronounce it. Ibn Zubair did not pronounce Adhan on that day. He (Ibn 'Abbaas) also sent him (with this message) that the sermon (is to be delivered) after the prayer, and thus it was done. So, lbn Zubair observed the prayer before the sermon..

Commentary : The Prayer of ‘Eid has requisites, recommended actions, and etiquettes. which the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ learned from him ﷺ, and they conveyed them to [those] who came after them - like what is [reported] in this hadeeth.

The ṭaabiʿee, ʿAṭaa’ ibn AbeeRabaah, reports that ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) sent a message to ʿAbdullah ibn al-Zubayr(may Allah be pleased with them) at the onset of when he was acknowledged with homage as the Caliph - which was in the year 64 A.H., after the death of Yazeed ibn Muʿaawiyah. In the message, ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) informed him [about] the guidance of the Prophet ﷺ regarding the prayer of the two ‘Eids, [by stating] that the adhaan was not called for the prayer of ‘Eid al-Fiṭr in the time of the Prophet ﷺ; and that the sermon of ‘‘Eid was delivered after the prayer.

The description of this sermon is mentioned in the report that al-Bukhaaree narrates on the authority of Abu Saʿeed al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him), which is that the first thing that the Prophet ﷺ began with what was the performance of the ‘Eid prayer. Then, he stood up and turned towards the people, facing them. The people would remain seated in their rows as he ﷺ delivered the sermon to them, during which he would admonish and advise them, and give them orders.

The Eid prayer does not have an adhaan or iqaamah, nor are there any sunnah prayers to be performed before or after it. It is performed at a Musallaa, which is an open land that is wide and spacious.



This hadeeth shows the avidity of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) in guiding the caliphs and governors towards the way of the Prophet ﷺ and his sunnah - and explaining it to them.
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961
Jaabir ibn ʿAbdullah(may Allah be pleased with them) reported that the Prophet ﷺ stood up on the day of ‘Eid al-Fitr and started by offering the ‘Eid prayer. Then, after he commenced the prayer, he delivered the ‘Eid sermon. After he ﷺ had finished (the sermon) he descended the pulpit [stairs] and made his way to the women and exhorted them (to do good deeds). He exhorted them while he was leaning on the hand of Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him) who had stretched his cloth in which women were throwing alms. I (one of the narrators) asked 'Ata' (the other narrator): “Do you think it is incumbent upon the Imaam [to go] and turn his attention towards the women and exhort them [to do good deeds]?” He said: “Why not! Indeed, it is right for them (to do so).”
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Commentary : The Prayer of ‘Eid has requisites, recommended actions, and etiquettes. which the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ learned from him ﷺ, and then conveyed them to us.

In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ʿAbdullah(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that on the ‘Eid day, the Prophet ﷺ began with the prayer without an adhaan or iqaamah. Then, after the completion of the prayer, he delivered the sermon and admonished them like he ﷺ did for the sermons on Fridays - except that [in this case] the sermon was after the prayer and not before it.

Afterwards, he ﷺ turned towards the women and devoted his attention to them by preaching and admonishing them so that they may give alms. He ﷺ did this while supporting his weight upon the hand of Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him) and leaning on it to hold him ﷺ up. Meanwhile, Bilal spread out his garment so that he could collect the alms from them. Thereafter, the Prophet ﷺ distributed it amongst those in need, like what his custom was with voluntary charities and zakaat.

ʿAbd al-Maalik ibn Jurayj asked his shaykh - ʿAṭaa’ ibn AbeeRabaah - a narrator of this hadeeth who reported it from Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with them): “Do you think it is incumbent upon the Imaam [to go] and turn his attention towards the women and exhort them?” ʿAṭaa’ stated that it is indeed incumbent upon the Imaams to exhort the women on the day of ‘Eid - and that there is nothing preventing the Imaams from doing so, following the practice of the Prophet ﷺ.

From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that women should be segregated and away from men when they attend the prayers of men and their congregations. This practise is done as a precaution, out of fear of temptation [that may rise] against them.

This hadeeth teaches us that the ‘Eid prayer is performed before the ‘Eid sermon, and that it is permissible for the scholar to teach women Islamic knowledge and exhort them in women’s only classes. .

962
ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) related: “I offered the ‘Eid Prayer with Allah's Messenger ﷺ, Abu Bakr, `Umar, and `Uthmaan. All of them offered the prayer before delivering the ‘Eid sermon.”.

Commentary : The Prayer of ‘Eid has requisites, recommended actions, and etiquettes, which the Prophet ﷺ always ensured to perform. All of that was narrated to us through the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them).

In this hadeeth, ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that he was present and performed the ‘Eid prayer with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, Abu Bakr, ʿUmar, and ʿUthmaan(may Allah be pleased with them) - and each in [their own] time while they served as Caliphs. He confirms that all of them prayed the ‘Eid prayer before the ‘Eid sermon.

The statement of Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) is a clear evidence that the Prayer of ‘Eid preceded the sermon. The Prophet ﷺ pursued this practice diligently and was observed by the Rightly Guided Caliphs (may Allah be pleased with them) and [those] after him ﷺ, and they continued this practice thereafter.

The sermon of ‘Eid consists of two parts, with a break between the two of them - like the sermon delivered on Friday.

The sermon is legislated on Fridays, ‘Eids, and [other] occasions for many reasons. One of them is that the people learn about the matters of religion and worldly affairs. For this reason, whenever the Imaam ascends on to the pulpit, he should make it his goal to teach the people and instruct them - especially on religious correlations that coincide with that sermon. This is based on the report that al-Bukhaaree recorded about the description of the sermon of the Prophet ﷺ according to Abu Saʿeed al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him). In this report, he explained that the first thing that he ﷺ began with was the performance of the ‘Eid prayer, then after he finished the prayer, he ﷺ turned towards the people, and stood up facing the congregation. The people would [remain] seated in their rows as he ﷺ delivered the sermon to them, during which he admonished, advised, and gave them orders.

From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is the eagerness of the Rightly Guided Caliphs (may Allah be pleased with them) towards preserving and implementing the sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ..

964
Ibn `Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) narrated that the Prophet ﷺ performed a two-units-prayer on the Day of ‘Eid al-Fiṭr and he did not perform any prayer before or after it. Then, he went towards the women along with Bilal and instructed them to pay alms and so they started giving their earrings and necklaces in charity..

Commentary : The Prayer of ‘Eid has requisites, recommended actions, and etiquettes, that the Prophet ﷺ always ensured to perform. His noble Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated all of that for us, as they saw and learned them from the Prophet ﷺ.

In this hadeeth, ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) reports on the guidance of the Prophet ﷺ regarding the prayer of ‘Eid al-Fiṭr. He relates that the Prophet ﷺ performed a two-units prayer for the ‘Eid prayer without performing any sunnah prayers before or after it. After, he ﷺ delivered a general sermon to the people [present], like what is mentioned in the other reports.

Then, he ﷺ, with Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him), went towards the women and reminded and exhorted them - so that they may give alms. Thereupon, they became moved by his reminder and words and began to toss from what money and goods they had with them. So [many of] the women tossed their earrings (al-khurs) and necklaces (al-sikhaab).

[On] al-khurs: [the word is written and pronounced] with a dammah [or a] kesrah on the letter khaa’. The pendant [of the earring] is a single bead. It was said that the link [for it] is made of gold or silver.

[On] al-Sikhaab: [it is] a thread with beads strung on it that is worn by boys and girls. It was [also] said [that] it is a necklace that was made of carnation, cloves, and the like; and nothing on it is made of pearls, gems, gold, and silver. It was also said that it refers to every necklace, whether it is comprised of gems or not.

The Prophet ﷺ gathered the alms for the purpose of distributing it amongst those in need; like what his custom was with voluntary charities and zakaat.

From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that when women attend the prayers of men and their congregations, they should be separated from the men as a precaution - out of fear of temptation [that may rise] against them, [or] they be looked upon unnecessarily, or the like.

It shows us that it is permissible for the male scholar to teach women Islamic knowledge and exhort them in women’s only classes..

966
Narrated Sa`id bin Jubair: I was with Ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) when a spear head pierced the sole of his foot causing his foot to be stuck to the paddle of the saddle. I got down and pulled it out of his foot. This incident happened in Mina. Al-Hajjaj learned of the incident so he visited Ibn ‘Umar to inquire about his health, and said, "Alas! If only we had known the one who wounded you," Ibn `Umar said, "You are the one who wounded me." Al-Hajjaj said, "How is that?" Ibn `Umar said, "You have allowed arms to be carried on a day on which nobody used to carry them, and you allowed arms to be carried in the Haram even though it was not allowed before.".

Commentary : There are times and places that Allah -Exalted be He, honours and sets a sanctity [over them] that no one should desecrate; except, he who is sinful at heart. Al-Hajjaaj ibn Yusuf al-Thaqafee was an oppressive, iniquitous tyrant.

In this hadeeth, the ṭaabiʿee, Saʿeed ibn Jubayr(may Allah be pleased with him) reports that he was with ʿAbdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them both) on Hajj, when the tip of a spear pierced ibn ʿUmar on the sole of his foot, which is the area that raises while walking. This event occurred while the two of them were in Minaa, [which is] located in Makkah. [Minaa] is a valley near the Sacred Precinct of Makkah that the pilgrims descend into, in order to throw their pebbles [at the Jamaraat]. This incident narrated in the hadeeth occurred while Al-Hajjaaj ibn Yusuf was the leader of the Hijaz, one year after the killing of ʿAbdullah ibn al-Zubayr in the year 74 A.H.

When Ibn ʿUmar was wounded [by the spearhead], his foot was affixed to the stirrup - which is where a man’s foot is placed [so that they may mount] onto the saddle for helping to [maintain control while] riding their mounts. As Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) was not able to descend from his saddle; thus, when Saʿeed ibn Jubayr saw this occur, he pulled out the spearhead from the foot of Ibn ʿUmar.

When [news] of Ibn ʿUmar’s injury reached Al-Hajjaaj, he paid him a visit; and [upon seeing him] said: “If only we had known the one who wounded you!” - [i.e.] “We would have punished him.”

Then, Ibn ʿUmar replied: “You are the one who injured me,” - that is to say: “this happened because of your own actions.”

Al-Hajjaaj said: “How?” [To this], Ibn ʿUmar told him that: he was the one responsible for [allowing] the carrying of weapons on the day of ‘Eid, that the days of Minaa during the Hajj coincide with ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa for all Muslim communities, that it was a day on which weapons were not carried; and, lastly, that he allowed weapons to enter Minaa - while this was not allowed before.

It is reported in the sunnah that weapons should not be carried at events [for] which there is no need to do so. This is legislated out of fear that arms could cause harm [accidently] to others when it is crowded.

In the agreed upon hadeeth, that the Prophet ﷺ said to [a person] he saw carrying a weapon in the masjid: “Hold onto the arrows by their heads.” He ordered him to do that so it would not injure anyone. But if Muslims fear their enemy may be present, then it is permitted for them to bear arms, such as when Allah, Exalted be He, legislated the carrying of weapons during the prayer when peril [presents itself].

From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that Minaa is a part of the sacred site of Makkah.

It teaches us that carrying weapons at sacred sites is prohibited, as Allah made it a haven for the Muslims, and that carrying arms on the day of ‘Eid is prohibited.

It shows the vigour of the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ, and their courage on upholding and preserving the truth.

Lastly, it teaches us that whoever mandates anything, or is the cause of anything of which a harm falls upon another - then it is permissible to attribute that harm to him.


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968
Al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) related that the Prophet ﷺ delivered a sermon on the day of the Sacrifice [i.e., ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa], and then said, "The first thing we should do on this day of ours is to pray and then return and slaughter (our sacrifices). Whoever does so he acted according to our Sunnah; and whoever slaughtered before the prayer then it was just meat that he offered to his family and would not be considered as a sacrifice in any way. My maternal uncle Abu Burdah ibn Niyaar got up and said, "O, Allah's Messenger! I slaughtered the sacrifice before the prayer, but I have a young she-goat which is better than an older sheep." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Slaughter it in lieu of the first and such a goat will not be considered as a sacrifice for anybody else after you.".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ taught us the requisites of the ‘Eid holidays, its recommended actions, and its etiquette. From amongst [all of] these are: the time of the prayer and how to perform it on the Day of the Sacrifice [i.e., ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa], and the time of slaughtering the sacrificial animal. The sacrifice is a religious ritual from amongst the [various] Islamic religious rites. It is an appointed act of worship by means of a [set] time, which is not permissible [to do] before or after its appointed time.

In this hadeeth, al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that he heard the Prophet ﷺ while he was delivering a sermon on the day of ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa. During the sermon, the Prophet ﷺ elucidated on his traditions and habitual actions during ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa: [and] that is, he would first begin with the ‘Eid prayer. Afterwards, he ﷺ would slaughter his sacrificial animal. By doing so, then, truly, the person has acted according to his Sunnah and upon his guidance ﷺ, and thus, he has obtained the prescribed reward. The ‘Eid prayer is to be performed without an adhaan or iqaamah. The slaughtering of the sacrificial animal is requested from the one who is capable and possesses the wealth and ability to purchase a sacrificial animal. It is said: the intended [meaning] by wealth [here] is that the individual should rightfully own the nisaab of zakat [i.e., the minimum amount necessary for one to pay the zakat]. [All of this is done] so that one may draw closer to Allah - the Mighty and Majestic - by it.

Then, the Prophet ﷺ clarified that whoever did not do this [in the described manner above], such as slaughtering the sacrificial animal before the prayer; then, the slaughtered animal is not deemed as a sacrifice, and no reward [of the sacrifice becomes] his - that is to say, their deed would not be considered valid as an act of worship [or] legitimate sacrifice. But rather, [his sacrifice] would be treated as meat that he offered to his family.

Then, Abu Burdah ibn Niyaar - the maternal uncle of al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib(may Allah be pleased with them) - stood up and mentioned that he slaughtered his sheep before the prayer, explaining that - like what is [mentioned] in another report [narrated] by al-Bukhaaree - that ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa is a day of eating and drinking, that he wanted his sheep to be the first thing to be slaughtered at his home, and that he ate from it before coming to the prayer. Thereafter, the Prophet ﷺ answered him by stating that: the sheep which he slaughtered was nothing more than meat and it would not be deemed as a valid sacrifice; thus, the prescribed reward of this act of worship is not attained.

In this hadeeth, [there is] an emphasis on the sequence regarding the actions of ‘Eid, and that the performance of the prayer is first, then the deliverance of the sermon, and lastly the slaughter.

Afterwards, Abu Burdah mentioned that he owned nothing other than a jadhʿah [i.e., she-goat.] The [word] jadhʿah conveys the meaning of something that is less than one year old. It is said [that] al-Ijdhaaʿ is a duration of time [which] does not last a year from birth, nor surpasses it; thus, Jadhaʿh is a name for the offspring of a goat when it strengthens [in maturity].

He explained that he owned nothing except a jadhʿah, [a she-goat]. However, according to him, it was better and more beloved to him than a sheep which has aged - due to its abundance of meat and high price. The Prophet ﷺ allowed him to slaughter his she-goat [despite its age not meeting the requirements of sacrificial animals] since it was all he had. Then, he ﷺ explained to him that [this ruling] suffices for him alone and does not suffice for anyone from the Muslims after him. This is an indication that the jadhʿah which is less than one year in age does not suffice as a sacrificial animal, whereas the goat which is over one year does i.e., the age that suffices for the goat to be worthy of sacrificing should have at least lived one year and has entered into the second.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is the virtue of Abu Burdah(may Allah be pleased with him), and that the way of the Prophet ﷺ is one of ease and moderation.
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969
Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) related that the Prophet ﷺ said, "No good deeds done on other days are superior to those done on these." The companions inquired, "Not even Jihad?" He replied, "Not even Jihad, except that of a man who does it by putting himself and his property in danger (for Allah's sake) and does not return with any of those things.".

Commentary : From the mercy of Allah, Exalted be He, towards His servants, is that He bestows His favours upon them by granting them [certain] blessed days. During of which, He multiplies rewards and provides abundant bounties for them - both mercifully and generously. Some of these blessed days include [but are not limited to] the first ten days in the month of DhulHijjah.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ is directing us towards the virtue of good deeds in the first ten days of DhulHijjah. He ﷺ explained that the rewards [for] virtuous acts during [this time] are multiplied [in a way that they] do not multiply during the rest of the year. It is therefore incumbent upon the Muslim to seize the opportunity and increase [in] pious deeds during these days. Among the greatest of pious deeds [to engage oneself in] during this time is the remembrance of Allah, Exalted be He. And the greatest [forms] of Allah’s remembrance [include] the recitation of the Quran, and the utterances of: “Allaahu Akbar” [i.e., Allah is the Greatest - al takbeer], “Laailaahaillaallaah [i.e., There is no god worthy of worship except Allah - al tahleel, and saying “Alhamdulillaah” repeatedly [i.e., All praise is due to Allah - al tahmeed].

In the Musnad of Imaam Ahmad and other [hadeeth collections, it is narrated] that the Prophet ﷺ said: “There are no more virtuous days in the sight of Allah and there are no days in which good deeds are more pleasing to Him than these ten days. On these days, fill your time with engaging more in tahleel, takbeer, and tahmeed.”

The good deeds include the obligatory religious duties, obligations, all of the known pious actions, and voluntary acts of worship - [ranging] from prayer, alms, [charity], and fasting – particularly on the day of ʿArafah.

All that was done from amongst the religious duties during these ten days is better than the religious duties that were performed at any other time. Likewise, the supererogatory actions during these ten days are more excellent than if they were done at any other time.

The good deeds also include refraining from that which is prohibited or objectionable. Whoever leaves [actions] of disobedience during these days, then there is no doubt that his reward is greater than if he were to leave the sins on other days.

Upon hearing this, [some] of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet ﷺ about jihaad [occurring] on other than these ten days, whether virtuous deeds are superior to it also. Their question about jihad in particular [was asked so they might] be able to distinguish it from what had been determined for them [by the Prophet ﷺ] about it being one of the most virtuous deeds; and for that [reason] the days of DhulHijjah were weighed up against it.

The Prophet ﷺ responded: Yes, the good deeds performed during these days are better than jihaad occurring on [any] others, except [if] a man set out, risking himself and his property, for the sake of Allah - and then lost his wealth and his soul departed for the sake of Allah. This [form] of jihaad which is depicted [here] is better than any good deeds [that are] performed during these ten blessed days. This [serves as] a demonstration to the excellence of this form of jihaad; and a commemoration [to the fact] that he reached a level that hardly varies with the honour of the days and times [which Allah has appointed as such], [along with those that] lack honour.

The apparent meaning of this hadeeth is that these ten days are more virtuous than the last ten of Ramadan. It has been said that the ten days of DhulHijjah are the best of all days, while the [last] ten of Ramadan are the best of all nights - due to the presence of Laylat al-Qadr therein.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that we learn the magnitude of the virtues of the first ten days of DhulHijjah over the other days of the year.

It also shows the significance of the matter of martyrdom for the sake of Allah, giving oneself and wealth together [for His sake], and that this is the highest degree of jihaad.

Lastly, it teaches us that the good deeds of less merit – as opposed to other good deeds - done during the distinguished time becomes similar to the good deeds of high merit at other times.

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970
Narrated Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr al-Thaqafee: I was with ‘Anas ibn Maalik as we were going from Mina to `Arafat, I asked him about the Talbiyah, "How did you use to say Talbiyah while you were in the company of the Prophet ﷺ?" Anas replied: "People used to say Talbiyah and their saying was not objected to and they used to say Takbir and that was not objected to either."

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Commentary : The Hajj is one of the five pillars of Islam, and it is a significant act of worship which encompasses many types of religious observances. The one who performs Hajj sincerely for Allah, in accordance with the guidance of the Messenger ﷺ, he will receive a great reward from Allah, Most Exalted. For that [reason], observing the etiquettes of the Hajj is necessary, just as Prophet ﷺ taught us.

In this hadeeth, the taabiʿee Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr al-Thaqafee reports that he asked ‘Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) about the permissible forms of Allah’s remembrance the pilgrims can say while departing from Minaa towards ʿArafaat, which occurs on the morning of the Day of ʿArafah, the ninth day [in the month of] DhulHijjah.

Minaa is a valley surrounded by mountains and is located east of Makkah, and is on the path between Makkah and Mount ʿArafaat, close to 6 kilometres away from the Masjid Al-Haram. Some of the rituals of Hajj are performed in Minaa, such as throwing the pebbles at the Jamaraat.

ʿArafaat is a mountain on the path between Makkah and Ṭaa’if, and is approximately: 22 kilometres away from Makkah, 10 kilometres from Minaa, and 6 kilometres from Muzdalifah. The most important ritual of Hajj is performed nearby, which is the stay at [the plains] of ʿArafah on the ninth day of DhulHijjah.

‘Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) then informed Muhammad ibn Abu Bakr al-Thaqafee that when they performed the Hajj with the Prophet ﷺ, on his ﷺ Farewell Pilgrimage, in the 10th year A.H - some of pilgrims recited the talbiyah, so he then said: “LabbaykAllaahummaLabbayk!” - [i.e., “Here I am, O Lord, Here I am!], and raised their voices while doing it.

Some of the others recited the takbeer: “Allaahu Akbar!” - [i.e., “Allah is the Greatest!”] and raised their voices while doing so. Either way, the Prophet ﷺ did not reproach them [while they did this].

This is a confirmation from the Prophet ﷺ about the permissibility of Allah’s remembrance, whether it is the takbeer or the talbiyah. It has been said that the intended meaning behind this is that one can insert anything that pertains to Allah’s remembrance during one’s utterance of the talbiyah; [but] he should not leave the talbiyah in its entirety - because it is narrated on the authority of the Prophet ﷺ that heﷺ did not stop reciting the talbiyah until the throwing of the pebbles at Jamarat al-ʿAqabah.

The talbiyah, rather, is prescribed for the pilgrim. As for those who are not performing the Hajj, the takbeer[aat] is prescribed for them to recite from the morning on the Day of ʿArafah following the performance of their obligatory prayers until the mid-afternoon prayer (ʿAsr) on the last of the days of Tashreeq [i.e., the 13th of DhulHijjah].

From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that the initiation of the takbeer on the day of ʿArafah is permissible - even if the person who is uttering it was in the state of ihram [i.e., the state of ritual sanctity that one enters into for the Hajj] and intending to stay in ʿArafah, although the prescribed words to utter for the one in a state of ihram is the talbiyah.

This shows that the range of the matter with reference to the performance of dhikr on the Day of ʿArafah is open.
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971
Narrated Umm ʿAtiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her): “We used to be ordered to come out on the Day of `Eid and even bring out the virgin girls from their houses and menstruating women so that they might stand behind the men and say Takbir along with them and invoke Allah along with them and hope for the blessings of that day and for purification from sins.”.

Commentary : Demonstrating the rites of Islam is a significant aim [in trying to fulfil] the objectives of this religion. The ‘Eid prayer is one of the important rites which, through its performance, is a blessing for the Muslims and serves as a call to Islam [for all in the vicinity]. For that [reason], every Muslim is commanded to set out to the place where the ‘Eid prayer is being performed, even the young and old women, and those who are menstruating - for whom which prayer is not incumbent upon! This is so that they can witness the blessings of this event and the calling of Muslims.

In this hadeeth, Umm ʿAtiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) reports that the Prophet ﷺ ordered all of the women to set out towards the site where the ‘Eid prayer was held.

Whether it was the ‘Eid al-Fiṭr or Al-Aḍhaa; even the young virgin girls departed from their homes and chambers [which they often remained in] for the sake of remaining concealed from the unnecessary viewing of others; and likewise - [for] the woman during her menses, all of them were ordered to go out towards the place where the ‘Eid prayer was performed in the time of the Prophet ﷺ. However, those women who were on their menses used to sit at the very back behind the people, following the lead of the people, thus, said with them the takbeer[aat], called upon Allah in supplication. All this as they hoped for the obtainment of blessings, rewards, and purification from [their] sins on this day.

This shows the merit of this glorious day, and the mercy and forgiveness that Allah pours forth onto His servants, and that kind of Allah’s remembrance and pious acts [of all be observed].

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is to notice the strong encouragement of performing lots of Allah’s remembrance on this day..

972
ʿAbdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) related that on the day of ‘Eid al-Fiṭr or Al-Aḍhaa a spear used to be thrusted into the ground in front of the Prophet ﷺ, and then he would pray..

Commentary : In this hadeeth, a practical demonstration of some of the guidance of the Prophet ﷺ [can be observed] with regards to the prayer in general, and the two ‘Eid prayers specifically; ʿAbdullah ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) reports that a spear would be thrusted into the ground in front of the Prophet ﷺ before starting the two ‘Eid prayers so that it could serve as a barrier (sutrah) for him ﷺ. This was done for the purpose of demarcating his ﷺ place of prayer so that no one could pass in front of him.

The spear [that is mentioned here] is a short pole with a broad spearhead, and it has a shorter length than the rumh [i.e., which was a longer type of spear often used by horsemen in combat].

The Prophet ﷺ used to do this for the two ‘Eid prayers, because he would perform these two prayers outdoor at the Musallaa, where the land is wide and spacious, and there are no structures or barriers.

This was also the habit of the Prophet ﷺ during his travels; because: in most instances, the traveller cannot find a wall [so that he may] be shielded by it when he wants to pray; and most of what he prays [is done so] outdoor in lands that are expansive [and lack structure, etc].

It is therefore incumbent upon whoever is praying by themselves to place an object to serve as a barrier between himself and the direction of the Qiblah - so that no one may pass and interrupt [his] performance of the prayer - specifically in open places. As for the congregational prayer, it is sufficient that the Imaam places a barrier in front of himself, as this will serve as a barrier for the ones praying behind him.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that the Prophet ﷺ was so keen to place a barrier in front of him whenever he wanted to pray..

973
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) related that the Prophet ﷺ would go out in the morning* to the place of prayer with a short spear in front of him which was carried and set up in front of him in the place of prayer, and he would pray towards its direction..

Commentary : Out of earnest concern, the Prophet ﷺ would utilise an object to serve as a barrier in prayer. This hadeeth is a practical demonstration of one of the guidance of the Prophet ﷺ regarding the placing a barrier in front of him in prayer. Ibn ʿUmar (may Allah be pleased with them) reports that the Prophet ﷺ used to arrive at the place where the prayer of ‘Eid would be performed and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) would bring along a short spear for him.

In another version of the same hadeeth in al-Bukhaaree, it’s narrated as: “A short spear was thrusted into the ground in front of him”. The short spear here refers to a strong rod that is similar to the spear but shorter. The short spear was brought by the Companions so that it would be set up in front of him ﷺ and serve as a barrier. This was done for the purpose of demarcating his ﷺ place of prayer, so that no one could pass in front of him ﷺ.

This was also the habit of the Prophet ﷺ during his travels; because: in most instances, the traveller cannot find a wall so that he may be shielded by it when he wants to pray; and most of what he prays [is done so] outdoor in lands that are expansive [and lack structure, etc].

It is therefore incumbent upon whoever is praying by themselves to place an object to serve as a barrier between himself and the direction of the Qiblah - so that no one may pass and interrupt [his] performance of the prayer - specifically in open places. As for the congregational prayer, it is sufficient that the Imaam places a barrier in front of himself, as this will serve as a barrier for the ones praying behind him.
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975
Narrated ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them): I went out with the Prophet ﷺ on the day of ‘Eid al-Fiṭr or Al-Aḍhaa. The Prophet ﷺ prayed and then delivered the sermon and then went towards the women, preached, and advised them and ordered them to give alms..

Commentary : The Prayer of ‘Eid has requisites, recommended actions, and etiquettes. which the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ learned directly from him, and then conveyed them to us.

This hadeeth elaborates on some of the guidance of the Prophet ﷺ with regards to the ‘Eid prayer. ʿAbdullah Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) reports that he went with the Prophet ﷺ on the day of ‘Eid al-Fiṭr or ‘Eid Al-Aḍhaa to offer the prayer of ‘Eid.

The Prophet ﷺ used to pray it at al-Musallaa, which is a wide and spacious area. Then, he began with the performance of the prayer - [which], for the ‘Eid prayer[s] do not have an adhaan or iqaamah; nor are there any sunnah prayers which are performed before or after it. Then, he ﷺ delivered a sermon to the people, [and it] is like the sermon delivered on Fridays - [which] is comprised of two parts and a pause [in between both of them]; except that it is delivered after the prayer and not before it.

Afterwards, he ﷺ went towards the women near the place where they prayed; so that he could preach and remind them and urge them to give alms.

The Prophetﷺ gathered the alms for the purpose of distributing it among those in need; like what his ﷺ custom was with voluntary charities and zakaat.

From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that when women attend the prayers of men and their congregations, they should be separated from the men as a precaution, out of fear that temptation [may rise] against them.

The hadeeth teaches us to set out towards the site where the ‘Eid prayer is held to attend the ‘Eid prayer, and that it is performed before the sermon is delivered.

We understand from this hadeeth the importance of preaching and reminding women, and exhort them to give alms, and that it is permissible for the male scholar to teach women Islamic knowledge and exhort them in women’s only classes..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..