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1404

Narrated Khaalid ibn Aslam: We went out with 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and a nomad said (to 'Abdullah), "Tell me about Allah's saying: {And those who hoard up gold and silver and spend them not in the way of Allah} (Quran.9:34)." Ibn 'Umar said, "Whoever hoarded them and did not pay the zakat thereof, then woe to him. But this ayah was revealed before the ayah of zakat. When it was revealed, Allah made zakat a purifier of the property.".

Commentary : Wealth is the adornment of this worldly life, and the Prophet ﷺ clarified the due rights that whoever has abundant wealth should fulfill, such as zakat and charity. He ﷺ explained the great reward that will be earned from fulfilling these rights, and the punishment that will be received if these rights are not fulfilled.

In this hadeeth, the Taabi’eeKhaalid ibn Aslam reports that he was travelling with ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them), and during their journey, a nomad man asked him to explain the ayah: {And those who hoard up gold and silver and spend them not in the way of Allah}. Ibn ‘Umar clarified to him that it refers to those who collect and hoard up gold and silver, and do not fulfill the right of Allah in them, by means of zakat, charity, and spending them in the way of Allah. Those people are promised to receive grave punishment on the Day of Judgment. However, this was before the zakat was made obligatory. It is as if Allah wanted to warn the rich against hoarding up their wealth and refraining from spending it in the way of Allah, Most High. Afterwards, the zakat was made mandatory, in the second year of Hijrah. Not only did Allah, Most High, make zakat and charity a means to purify one’s wealth, but also a way to purify one’s character and heart from miserliness and low manners. This only happens when the zakat is paid to those who are eligible to receive it.
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1405

Narrated AbooSa’eed(may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "No zakat is due on property mounting to less than five uqiyas, and no zakat is due on less than five camels, and there is no zakat on less than five wasqs." .

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ explained to us the rulings of zakat on all different kinds of wealth, and clarified the threshold of each kind, and the value under which no zakat is due.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ explains that zakat is not due on silver, if one only has five uqiyahs of silver. For calculation purposes, a one uqiyah equals forty dirhams of pure silver; hence, five uqiyahsare two hundred dirhams of pure silver. According to the modern measures, this amounts to about 595 grams of pure silver.The zakat on silver is one dirhamfor every forty dirhams above this threshold.

Likewise, there is no zakat due on camels, if a person has less than five camels. However, if one owns from five to 9 camels, then its due zakat is one sheep, and if one has more than 9 camels, the zakat increases according to the hadeeths that detailed its due zakat.

There is no due zakat on grains, dates, and their like, if their amount is less than five wasaqs. For calculation purposes, a one wasaq equals 60 Saa’, hence, the threshold is about 653 kg in our modern measures since 5 wasaqs equal 300 Saa’s. This indicates that fruits and vegetables are not subject to zakat, because they are not measured the same way as grains and dates, and are not stored to consume later like grains,and alsoare not considered a meal or a means of sustenance. The zakat is paid on that which comes from earth such as date, risen, wheat, rice, corn, and so forth.

This hadeeth is animportant text that explains the threshold of the different kinds of wealth that are subject to zakat. The threshold of silver is 200 dirhams, and of camels is 5 camels, and of grains and dates and their like is 60 Saa’.
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1406

Narrated Zayd ibn Wahb: I passed by a place called Ar-Rabadha, and by chance, I met Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with him), and asked him, "What has brought you to this place?" He said, "I was in the Shaam and differed with Mu’aawiyah(may Allah be pleased with him)on the following ayah): {They who hoard up gold and silver and spend them not in the way of Allah.}[Quran 9.34]. Mu’aawiyahsaid, “Thisayahwas revealed regarding the People of the Book." I said, it was revealed regarding us as well as the People of the Book." Because of this, we had a quarrel, and Mu'aawiyah sent a complaint against me to `Uthmaan(may Allah be pleased with him). `Uthman wrote to me to come to al-Madinah, so I came.. Many people came to me as if they had not seen me before. I mentioned this to `Uthmaan, who said to me, "You may depart and live nearby if you wish." That was the reason for my being here, for even if aHabasheehad been assigned as my ruler, I would have obeyed him..

Commentary : The noble Companion Aboo Dhar al-Ghafaaree(may Allah be pleased with him) was known for his ascetic lifestyle- as he had no interest in worldly pleasures- and his strong position to support and advocate the truth. He (may Allah be pleased with him) maintained these qualities all through his life.

In this report, the Taab’iee Ibn Wahb reports that he passed by an area called Ar-Rabdhah, which is 170 km away from the east of al-Madinah, and there,he found Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with him), although it was not a residential area. He inquired from him about the reason that he lives in such a remote area, far away from people.Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with him) explained to him that he differed with Mu’aawiyahover the reason for the revelation of the ayah: {They who hoard up gold and silver and spend them not in the way of Allah.} [Quran 9.34], as he believed that it was revealed regarding the Muslims and the People of the Book, while Mu’aawiyah argued that it was revealed regarding only the People of the Book. The latter came to this conclusion based on the context of the ayah, since it was addressing the monks and priests who do not pay the due zakat on their wealth, while Aboo Dhar considered the general meaning of the ayah, meaning whoever believes zakat is obligatory, yet refrains from paying it, will be included in those who are promised the severe punishment mentioned in the Quran. At that time, ‘Uthmaan ibn ‘Affaan was the ruler and Mu’aawiyah(may Allah be pleased with him) was the governor of Damascus. So, he wrote a letter to him explaining the dispute that occurred between him and Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with them). The reason he complained to ‘Uthmaan about Aboo Dhar is that he found his asceticlifestyle and strict interpretation [of Quran and Sunnah] may spread and cause disturbance, or even drive some to rebel against him without any valid excuse. Nothing in this hadeeth suggests that he asked ‘Uthmaan to order Aboo Dhar to return to al-Madinah as he only wanted his advice to find a solution.

‘Uthmaan wrote a letter to Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with him) ordering him to leave Damascus and return to al-Madinah. Aboo Dhar complied and returned to al-Madinah, but the people there were curious about the incident and dispute that happened between him and Mu’aawiyah(may Allah be pleased with them). He mentioned to ‘Uthmaan that people crowd around him, and they are surprised atseeing him, as if they never saw him before. To which, ‘Uthmaan gave him the choice either to stay, or leave al-Madinah to avoid all this annoyance. This proves that Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with him) was not expelled or forced to depart al-Madinah, and that it was his choice and desire to relocate to Ar-Rabdhah. Then, Aboo Dhar mentions that he would obey his rulers, as it is obligatory to do so, even if the person that the Caliph appointed as his ruler was a black slave.

We can conclude from this hadeeth that we should not rebel against the rulers, and that we should obey them, even if their opinion on a matter is not considered correct.

It shows that it is permissible to have different opinions on matters that are open for personal endeavours to understand.

It shows the kind treatment that rulers showed to the scholars i.e., Mu’aawiyah(may Allah be pleased with him) did not deny the interpretation of Aboo Dhar although he held a different opinion, and instead he raised his case to the one who is higher in position..

1408

Narrated Aboo al-‘Alaa’ ibn al-Shikheer that al-Ahnaf ibn Qays informed him: While I was sitting with some people from Quraysh, a man with very rough hair, clothes, and appearance came and stood in front of us, greeted us and said, "Inform those who hoard wealth, that stones will be heated in the Hell-fire, and will be put on their nipples until they come out from the bones of their shoulders, and then put on the bones of their shoulders till they come through their nipples, leaving them trampled." After saying that, the person retreated and sat by the side of the pillar, I followed him and sat beside him, and I did not know who he was. I said to him, "I believe the people disliked what you had said." He said, "These people do not understand anything, although my close friend told me so." I asked, "Who is your close friend?" He said, "The Prophet ﷺ said (to me), “O Aboo Dhar! Do you see the mountain of Uhud?” And on that, I (Aboo Dhar) started looking towards the sun to judge how much remained of the day, as I thought that Allah's Messenger ﷺ wanted to send me to do something for him and I said, “Yes!” He said, “I do not love to have gold equal to the mountain of Uhud unless I spend it all in Allah's cause except three Dinars. These people do not understand; they collect worldly wealth. No, by Allah, neither do I ask them for worldly benefits, nor am I in need of their religious advice till I meet Allah.".

Commentary : The noble Companion Aboo Dhar al-Ghafaaree(may Allah be pleased with him) was known of his ascetic lifestyle as he had no interest in worldly pleasures, and his strong position to support and advocate the truth. He (may Allah be pleased with him) maintained these qualities all his life until he died.

In this hadeeth, the Taab’iee al-Ahnad ibn Qays reports that, while he was sitting with a group of leaders and revered people from Qurasyh, a man with very rough hair, clothes, and appearance approached them, which is a description used to indicate his ascesis. This man was Aboo Dhar al-Ghafaaree(may Allah be please with him), the Companion of the Prophet ﷺ. He greeted the people and then said “inform those who hoard wealth’- it appeared that he wanted to support his view that hoarded wealth is all that which exceeds the needs of a person. This view is reported to be adopted by others too, and it is the view he is known to adopt. However, the correct view, according to the majority [of scholars], is that hoarded wealth refers to the wealth that zakat was not paid on; otherwise, it is not condemned, whether it is little or much. Then, he (may Allah be pleased with him) informed them that the punishment of those who hoard up wealth is stones that will be heated in the Hellfire, and then will be put on their nipples till these stones come out from the soft bones of their shoulders, and then move back until they come out through their nipples. His words ‘leaving them trampled’ is to show the great disturbance and uncontrolled movement of their bodies due to their pain. It has been said that the trampling is intended to describe the moving of the stones back and forth through their shoulder bones and nipples.

Then, he left and sat by the side of a pillar. Thereupon, al-Ahnaf ibn Qays followed him and sat with him. as he did not know the identity of this man. He said to Aboo Dhar: "I believe the people disliked what you had said,’ meaning they were displeased with hearing his words. Aboo Dhar, however, responded by saying that they lacked the ability to understand, since they endeavour and are keen on collecting wealth. Then, he mentioned that his close friend, the Prophet ﷺ asked him once: “Do you see the mountain of Uhud?” and that he started looking towards the sun to see how much remained of the day. as he thought that Allah's Messenger ﷺ wanted to send him to do something for him. The Prophet ﷺthen said to him that if he had gold equal to the mountain of Uhud, then there is nothing he would love to do more than spend it all in the way of Allah, Most High, except three Dinars; one to spend on his wife, children and dependents, one to free a slave, and one to repay a debt- because debt is not wiped out by passing, and the person will remain liable to it even after death [if no one settles it on his behalf], and he will not enter Paradise until his debt is settled, even if he was a believer.

Thereafter, Aboo Dhar (may Allah be pleased with him) explained that those people who do not spend their wealth in the cause of Allah lack sensibility and do not understand, as their biggest concern is hoarding and collecting wealth. Then, he swore by Allah that he would not ask people for any worldly benefits, and that he would be satisfied with the minimum from this worldly life, and that he would not even ask them about a matter related to religion until he dies, as he is content with the knowledge that he heard from the Prophet ﷺ.

We can conclude, from this hadeeth, that the Prophet ﷺ was the least interested of all people in worldly pleasures and gains, to the extent he ﷺ did not like to keep in his possession anything from this life, except that which he ﷺ needed to spend on those who deserve it.

This hadeeth encourages us to spend in good causes, and to give the repayment of one’s own debts precedence over voluntary charity.

It also shows that it is permissible to ask others for loans.

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1410

Narrated AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "If somebody gives in charity something equal to a date, from his lawful earned money ----for nothing ascends to Allah except that which is good---- then Allah will take it in His Right (Hand) and bring it up for its owner, as anyone of you brings up a baby horse, till it becomes like a mountain.".

Commentary : In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ encourages us to gives in charity, even if it is very little, and informs us that if a person gives in charity as little as a date that he has earned from a lawful source of income – as Allah does not accept anything unless it is earned from lawful sources – then Allah, Exalted be He, will take this charity in His Right Hand –to show that He will honour it since His both Hands are Right – and then grow it and multiply its reward, to make his scale heavier, and He will nurture it, until it becomes like a mountain in size and weight, on the Day of Judgment. And he ﷺlikened it to the analogy of how a person takes care of a baby horse that needs great attention and care.

From this hadeeth, we learn that Allah, Exalted be He, only accepts good charity,which is given with sincerity and is from lawful money.

This hadeeth also teaches us that the reward and significance ofcharity depends on its lawfulness and the sincerity of the person who gives it, not on its value or amount.

Furthermore, it shows that good deeds will take tangible forms on the Day of Judgment, and thus, will have an image, weight, and size, that will be placed on the scale of good deeds.
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1411

Narrated Harithah ibn Wahb(may Allah be pleased with him): I heard the Prophet ﷺ saying, "O people! Give in charity, as a time will come upon you, when a person wanders about with his object of charity and cannot find anybody to accept it. It will be said to him, "If you had brought it yesterday, I would have taken it, but today I am not in need of it.".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ would always encourage his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to do good deeds, one of which wasoffering zakat and charity to those who deserve it.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ orders us to never delay in giving charity and paying our zakat, as there will come a time when wealth will be abundant such that no person will be in need. This will happen towards the end of time, close to the time of the Hour, as noted in the narration in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim,from AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him). This signis considered to be among the minor signs of the Hour. It has been said that it will take place during the time of al-Mahdee, and when Jesus (peace be upon him) descends to earth. At that time, a person will walk around searching for any poor person to give charity or zakat tobut will find no one to accept it from him. Every time he offers his zakat and charity to someone, they will decline it and say to him, “If you had brought it yesterday, I would have taken it, but today I am not in need of it.” The reason they would say this is thought to be because they have become rich and are no longer in need of money, but it has also been said that it is because people would opt for the Hereafter, and give up on worldly pleasures, Thus, they would be satisfied with whatever Allah provides for them each day, and refrain from saving any money for tomorrow.

It has been said that this hadeeth serves as a warning and threat to those who would delay in giving charity – that is to say, it is a threat to those who intentionally delay giving it to the poor who deserve it, until the poor are no longer in need of the money. In this case, the rich will be liable and held accountable, because they did not help the poor when theywere in need.

This hadeeth warns us against postponing the giving of zakat, because doing so may result in the person finding no one to take it from him later.

It also serves as evidence that testifies to the Prophethood of the Prophet ﷺ.
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1412

Narrated AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "The Hour (Day of Judgment) will not be established till your wealth increases so much so that one will be worried, for no one will accept his zakat, and the person to whom he will give it will reply, 'I am not in need of it.' ".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ would always encourage his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to do good deeds, one of which was offering zakat and charity to those who deserve it.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺspeaks of a time that will come, when people will have so much wealth, that no one will be in need of charity or zakat. He ﷺ informs us that the Day of Judgment will not be established before this happens, during the time of al-Mahdee and Jesus (peace be upon him) after he descends to earth. At that time, wealth will be so abundant, such that people will be concerned, as they will not find anyone to accept their charity and zakat. And, when they find a poor person and offer it to him, he would still decline and say he is not in need of it, because he has sufficient money. It has also been said that this is because people would opt for the Hereafter, and give up on worldly pleasures; thus, they would be satisfied with whatever Allah provides for them each day, and refrain from saving any money for tomorrow.

This hadeeth is believed to serve as a warning and threat to those who would delay in giving charity – that is to say, it is a threat to those who intentionally delay giving it to the poor who deserve it, until the latter are no longer in need of money. In this case, the rich will be liable and held accountable because they did not help the poor when they were in need.

This hadeeth warns us against postponing the giving of zakat, because doing so may result in the person finding no one to take it from him later.

It serves as a sign that testifies to the Prophethood of the Prophet ﷺ.
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1413

Narrated `Adi ibn Haatim(may Allah be pleased with him): While I was sitting with Allah's Messenger ﷺ,two persons came to him; one of them complained about his poverty and the other complained about the prevalence of robberies. Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "With regards to stealing and robberies, there will shortly come a time when a caravan will go to Makkah (from al-Madinah), without any guard. And regarding poverty, The Hour (Day of Judgment) will not be established till one of you wanders about with his charity and will not find anybody to accept it. Each one of you will stand in front of Allah, and there will be neither a barrier nor an interpreter between him and Allah, and Allah will ask him, “Did not I give you wealth?” He will reply in the affirmative. Allah will further ask, “Did not I send a Messenger to you?” And again, that person will reply in the affirmative. Then, he will look to his right, and he will see nothing but Hellfire, and then he will look to his left and will see nothing but Hellfire. And so, each one of you should save himself from the fire, by giving even half of a date-fruit (in charity). And if you do not find a half datefruit, then (you can do it through saying) a pleasant word..

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ would always urge his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to hasten to good deeds, encouraging them to do good deeds and warning them against sins, by reminding them of what Allah has made for people in the Hereafter i.e., Paradise and Hellfire.

In this hadeeth, ‘Adi ibn Haatim(may Allah be pleased with him) reports that while he was sitting with the Prophet ﷺ, two men approached him to raise their concerns about two issues. The first one complained about poverty,and the other expressed his concern regarding road robberies. The Prophet ﷺ assured the latter that safety will prevail,as it will not be long until caravans will travel without requiring any guard alongside them to provide protection. This happened after Islam spread everywhere. He ﷺ explained to the former that the Day of Judgment will not be established until poverty disappears, and people become affluent, as it will be one of the signs of the Hour. It has been said this will happen during the time of al-Mahdee and Jesus (peace be upon him), after he descends to earth. At that time, wealth will be so abundant, that people will find no one to accept their charity and zakat. It has been said this it will be so because people would opt for the Hereafter, and give up on worldly pleasures, thus, they would be satisfied with whatever Allah provides for them each day, and refrain from saving any money for tomorrow.

Then, the Prophet ﷺ explained that on the Day of Judgment, each person will stand before Allah, Most High, without having any barriers between him and Allah, Exalted be He, who will talk to them directly, without any medium or interpreter. At that point, Allah will ask each one, “Did not I give you wealth?”, “Did not I send a Messenger to you?” The person who withheld his zakat will reply in the affirmative, and acknowledge that Allah sent a Messenger, who conveyed to the people that Allah made zakat one of the pillars of Islam, and that the poor have a right on their money,which should be fulfilled. Then, this person will look to his left and right, and will see nothing but Hellfire. At that moment, he will become certain that he will be punished for his miserliness.

Thereafter, the Prophet ﷺ ordered each and every Muslim to shield himself from Hellfire,by giving charity, even if it was as little as half of a date-fruit. And if they do not find a half date fruit, thenthey should speak good to people, to bring happiness to their hearts. This proves that speaking good words is a form of charity that protects from the Hellfire, and evil words bring about punishment in Hellfire. For this reason, the Muslim should never belittle any charity even if it is extraordinarily little, because it will benefit the person who gave it in charity,as well as the person who will receive it.

This hadeeth warns us from postponing the giving of zakat, because doing so may make the person find no one to take it from him later.

It also serves as evidence that testifies to the Prophethood of the Prophet ﷺ.

Furthermore, it shows that even a little charity is accepted by Allah, Most High, and that we should never look down upon any little charity and urge people to never underestimate any good deed or word, regardless of how little it is.
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1414

Narrated AbooMoosa(may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "A time will come upon the people, when one will wander about with gold as zakat, and will not find anybody to accept it. And one man will be seen followed by forty women to be their guardian, because of scarcity of men and great number of women. ".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ would always urge his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to hasten to good deeds, encouraging them to do good deeds, particularly giving zakat and charity to those who deserve it.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ clarifies that there will come a time when wealth will be so abundant, that no person will be in need. This will happen towards the end of time, close to the time of the Hour, as noted in the narration in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, from AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him). This sign is considered from among the minor signs of the Hour.

It has been said that it will take place during the time of al-Mahdee and when Jesus (peace be upon him) descends to earth. At that time, a person will walk around with his zakat of gold, searching for any poor person to give it to, yet he will find no one to accept it from him. This is because people will become affluent,and no longer be in need of money. It has also been said that this is because people would opt for the Hereafter, and give up on worldly pleasures, and they would therefore be satisfied with whatever Allah provides for them each day, and refrain from saving any money for tomorrow.

It has been said that this hadeeth serves as a warning and threat to those who would delay in giving charity – that is to say, it is a threat to those who intentionally delay giving it to the poor who deserve it, until the poor are no longer in need of money. In this case, the rich will be liable and held accountable because they did not help the poor when they were in need.

Thereafter, the Prophet ﷺ mentions that at that time, each man will be chased by forty women, be they his wives, servants, or relatives i.e., they will pursue him to marry them, to seek his help and protection, or request him to fulfil their needs. The example of this is a tribe that has no men left in it except one, so all the women in that tribe will turn to him. It is possible that the number mentioned in this hadeeth is a metaphor, to indicate the large proportion of women to men, based on a narration in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, wherein Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Prophet ﷺ said: “...Until fifty women will have one guardian”; conversely, it could reflect the actual number.

This hadeeth warns us against postponing the giving of zakat, because doing so may result in the person finding no one to take it from him later.

It also serves as evidence that testifies to the Prophethood of the Prophet ﷺ..

1415

Narrated AbooMas’ood (may Allah be pleased with him): When the Ayah enjoining charity was revealed, we used to carry loads on our backs to earn something that we could give away in charity. One person presented a considerable amount for charity and the hypocrites said: "He has done it to show off." Another one gave away a Saa' [of dates] and they said: "Allah does not stand in need of this person's dates". Thereupon, it was revealed: {Those who defame such of the believers who give charity (in Allah's Cause) voluntarily, and such who could not find to give charity (in Allah's Cause) except what is available to them...}[Quran 9:79].

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were quick to respond to the orders of Allah and His Messenger ﷺ, and each one of them would give away in charity what they were able to offer and spend [from their wealth].
In this hadeeth, AbooMasʿood al-Ansaaree (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that “when the ayah of obligatory almsgiving was revealed”, as if he was referring to the ayah: {Take from their wealth ˹O Prophet˺ charity to purify and bless them and pray for them—surely your prayer is a source of comfort for them. And Allah is All-Hearing, All-Knowing.} [Quran 9:103]
“We bore heavy loads [for profit]”: that is to say: we were carrying [heavy loads] for others on our backs for wages with the intention of earning a wage so that we can give away in charity.’ This is a description of the condition of their poverty and hardship at that time; and he mentioned, according to a narration reported by al-Nasaa’ee: “one of us could not find anything to give alms until he went out to the marketplace; to carry loads for people [for wages]. Then, he would come with a mudd and gave it to the Prophet ﷺ.”
Then a man - it has been said that it was ʿAbd al-Rahmaan ibn ʿAwf - came and offered a lot of his wealth in charity. The hypocrites said: ‘[What a] hypocrite. He did not intend to offer it for the sake of Allah!’ Afterwards, [another] man came and offered a Saaʿ of food in charity. The Saaʿ is equivalent to at least 2036 grams, i.e., two kilograms and thirty-six grams; and at most equalling 4288 grams, namely: four kilograms and two hundred and eighty-eight grams.
Then, the hypocrites said: ‘that Allah is not in need of this Saaʿ! Afterwards, Allah The Mighty and Majestic sent down [the following ayah] {{Those who defame such of the believers who give charity (in Allah's Cause) voluntarily, and such who could not find to give charity (in Allah's Cause) except what is available to them...} [Quran 9:79], and the ayah’s meaning is: [that] those who reproach wealthy, believers voluntarily offering their alms, and also reproach those who [can] obtain [only] a little when it results from what they are capable of [earning]; thus, they mock them by saying: “What is the benefit in you offering [these] alms?!” Allah will mock them, as a recompense for them mocking the believers. And they will have a painful punishment [as well]. This is a requital for their misdeeds and mocking the believers because the recompense is of the same type as the deed. So, He, Exalted be He, will treat them [in the same way] as those who had mocked [the believers]; as a form of retribution for [what they did to] the believers in this world.
From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it urges us to offer charity, whether it is a little or great amount.
It shows that a person should not despise what he offers in charity.
And lastly, that we can see that the [pious] predecessors were humble, eager for the good, and employed themselves in [various] professions and [positions] of service.
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1416

Narrated AbooMas’ood al-Ansaaree (may Allah be pleased with him): Whenever the Messenger of Allahﷺordered us to give charity, we used to go to the market and work as porters and get a Mudd (a special measure of grain) and then give it in charity. (Those were the days of poverty) and today some of them have one hundred thousand.”.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were quick to respond to the orders of Allah and His Messenger ﷺ,and each one of them would give away in charity what they were able to offer and spend [from their wealth].
In this hadeeth, AbooMasʿood al-Ansaaree (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that whenever the Prophet ﷺ ordered for the offering of obligatory alms and charity from their own wealth, some of them would head towards the marketplace, and carry [heavy loads] for others on their back - with the intention of earning a wage so that he could give away in charity - then, he would earn a mudd, which is very close to 1.3 pounds, as compensation for their hire; in order to offer the alms with it. This is an indication of the hardship[s] and poverty conditions that were upon them at the time; yet, despite that, they were eager to work and offer charity with the little which they had to pay from the wages of their labour. Then, the narrator said: “And today, some of them have one hundred thousand”, By this, he referred to what the Companions were enduring in the time of the Prophet ﷺ, from the scarcity of things, and to what they became after him ﷺ as they have become wealthy and well off because of the many conquests [that occurred afterwards]. In spite of that, in the beginning, they used to give in charity whatever they acquired, even if hardship came to them.
In a narration reported by al-Nasaa’ee: “I know a man who has a hundred thousand [Dirham] now, [but] on that day, he did not have a single dirham,” that is to say: ‘On the day which he used to carry loads for hire, because they were destitute at that time. And today, they are rich.’ This may be interpreted, either, as speaking about the blessings of Allah, and His Favour for them after He enriched them. Or, about some [consequence] of what had befallen the people with regards to the transformation [of their hearts] and eagerness [to excel] in this world because after they were poor and eager to offer alms, they became rich. But they did not give charity in the same manner that they used to do before that.
AbooWaa’il, Shaqeeq ibn Salamah, the narrator of the hadeeth on the authority of AbooMasʿood, said in a narration mentioned by al-Bukhaaree: “He said: ‘We believe that he was referring to himself,” meaning: What I think AbooMasʿood meant by [saying] “some of them” was an allusion for himself also, because he was one of the rich.
From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it urges us to offer charity, whether it is a little or great [amount].
It shows that a person should not despise what he offers in charity.
And lastly, we can see that the [pious] predecessors were humble, eager for the good, and employed themselves in [various] professions and [positions] of service.
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1418

Narrated ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): A woman along with her two daughters came to me asking (for some alms), but she found nothing with me except one date which I gave to her, and she divided it between her two daughters, and did not eat anything herself, and then she got up and went away. Then, the Prophet ﷺ came in and I informed him about this incident. He said, "Whoever is put to trial by these daughters, then these daughters will act as a shield for him from Hell-Fire." .

Commentary : Islam came to uproot the reprehensible customs of the ignorance period that existed before Islam. And from that, it instructed to give special attention to the daughters of one’s offspring, prohibited burying them alive and killing them, and it sowed in the hearts of Muslims love and mercy for them. It has promised a great reward to who show them benevolence and raise them in all [aspects] of goodness.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers, ʿA’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that a woman came to her with her two daughters, asking for some alms out of need, but ʿA’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) did not have anything, except for a date, which she gave to her. Then the woman divided it up between her two daughters and did not eat anything from it.
Afterwards, ʿA’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) informed the Prophetﷺof what happened. So, he ﷺexplained to her that: whoever Allah destines to have and bestows upon him daughters, and he treats them well by providing for them, upholding their rights, educating them, and so on - [then] they will serve as a shield for him front he Hellfire; because he protected them in this world with his kindness and good tact towards them, and because of their upbringing. So, Allah will shield himto serve as a fitting reward.
The gift of having daughters was called a trial because of the hardship and difficulty in providing for them, or due to the people usually disliking them (i.e., they favour having boys over girls), and because they often do not contribute to the sources of earnings or livelihoods of families. So, the trial here means a test, which means: Allah tests people with daughters so that He judges them and see whether they will treat them well or not?
It has been said: what is meant by this is that the reward for providing for [and taking care of] daughters is greater than the reward for taking care of sons; since there is nothing similar was indicated in regards to their rights; and that is - and Allah knows best - because the provisions of daughters and taking care of their affairs is greater than the affairs of the sons since the former are vulnerable and [generally] do not manage their own affairs, nor behave like boys. Likewise, the expectations of the father or brother do not pertain to them [their daughters] with regard to aiding them [their fathers] in facing their enemies, to revive the name of their fathers, continue their lineage and other things which are relevant for males. This requires patience, and sincerity on the part of the one providing for them with good intentions since this is what will rescue him from the Hellfire.
From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it urges us to offer charity, whether it is a little or great amount.
It shows that a person should not despise what he offers in charity.
It highlights the intense eagerness that ʿA’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had for charity and alms.
And lastly, spending [and providing] for daughters and striving for them is one of the best acts of righteousness that keeps one away from the Hellfire..

1419

Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): A man asked the Prophet ﷺ which charity is the most rewardable. He ﷺ replied: “That which you give when you are healthy and inclined to be mean, fearing poverty and hoping to be [financially] self-sufficient. Do not defer itto such a length that you are about to die, and say then: This is for so-and-so, and this is for so-and-so. Behold! it has already come into (the possession of) so-and- so"..

Commentary : The Prophetﷺwould teach his nation about the virtues of generosity and developing solidarity among them, and to hasten towards righteous deeds by giving alms and charity before death strikes them.
In this hadeeth, AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that a man came to the Prophet ﷺand asked him: ‘Which charity is the greatest in reward, and most beneficial for the one who offers it?’ He ﷺ told him that whatever the person gives while he is healthy and there is no disease or illness that would sever his hope in life. It is a time when those who are frugal do so with avidity, and fear falling into poverty. They hope for riches and wish and covet it for themselves. This is during the entire course of life [for many people], especially [during] the time of affluence and comfort. So, the person will be more cautious. And if he gives charity with all of these obstacles and temptations which urge him to save his wealth, then that will lead to the greatest reward.
Then, the Prophet ﷺ warned the man of a vice which will afflict many people; by waiting, being deliberately slow in delaying offering alms [to others] until: his soul reaches his throat and feels that death is near and becomes convinced that the money will not benefit him and that it is going to leave him - [so] he will bequeath so much to so and so, and so much for so and so. He ﷺ told him it had already belonged to so and so [either] from debts or rights; and that the wealth had become the property of the heirs, so this is the least rewarding. Thus, the Prophet ﷺ explained to us that the best form of charity to offer is while you are alive and healthy, despite your need for money and competence with it. And not in the case of being sick with the context of dying because at that time, the money will leave you, and belong to someone else.
From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it highlights the virtue of giving alms while one is healthy and frugal.
It warns against delaying one’s spending in charity and holding out until the hour of death draws near, and [against] being engaged solely with fulfilling your wishes.
It informs us that sickness shortens the hand of the owner from some of his possessions and being generous with money during his illness does not eliminate the trait of miserliness from him. And that if all of the works of piety are difficult, their reward will be greater.
And lastly, it shows that charity offered during the time when a person is healthy and well is better than a testament [i.e., a will]..

1420

Narrated ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Some of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ asked him, "Who amongst us will be the first to follow you (i.e., die after you)?" He said, "Whoever has the longest hand." So, they started measuring their hands with a rod and Sawdah's hand turned out to be the longest. Later, we came to know that the long hand was a symbol of practicing charity, so she was the first to follow the Prophet ﷺ and she used to love to give away in charity..

Commentary : Charity is one of the best and most rewarding deeds which a person can benefit from and offer himself.
In this hadeeth, The Mother of the Believers, ʿA’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that some of the wives of the Prophetﷺ had asked him: which one of them will die the fastest after him? To which, he ﷺ answered them by [saying] ‘she who has the longest hand.’ They understood this matter according to its literal meaning, so the women grabbed a rod so that they could measure the arms’ length of every one of them and compare [their results], in order to find out which of them had a longer hand than the other, [as] they thought that what he meant ﷺ was truly the length of the hand. [It turned out that] Sawdah bint Zamʿah (may Allah be pleased with her) had the longest hand. Afterwards, it became clear to them after Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) died what the Prophet ﷺ had intended by the expression regarding the longest hand, which [was actually] alluding to who was the most charitable of the wives; and what he meant by the length of her hand was the frequency of her spending [money on others] and offering alms, as ʿA’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said in a narration reported in Saheeh Muslim: “Zaynab had the longest hand amongst us, because she used to work with her hands and spent [the income] on charity.” Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) was the first of his ﷺwives to die after him ﷺ, and she (may Allah be pleased with her) passed away during ʿUmar ibn al-Khaṭṭaab’s caliphate (may Allah be pleased with him), while Sawdah lived until she passed away during Muʿaawiyah’s caliphate, in the month of Shawwaal, the fifty-fourth year [after Hijrah].
From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it highlights the merits and virtues of Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her).
It serves as an indication that the legal ruling [of a matter] stems from the meanings, and not from the wording.
And lastly. It gives a sign thattestifies to the Prophethood of the Prophet ﷺ..

1421

Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): The Messenger of Allah ﷺsaid: A man said that he would give something in charity. He went out with his object of charity and unknowingly gave it to a thief. Next morning the people said that he had given his charity to a thief. (On hearing that) he said, "O Allah! All the praises are for you. I will give alms again." And so, he again went out with his alms and (unknowingly) gave it to an adulteress. Next morning the people said that he had given his alms to an adulteress last night. The man said, "O Allah! All the praises are for you. (I gave my alms) to an adulteress. I will give alms again." So, he went out with his alms again and (unknowingly) gave it to a rich person. (The people) next morning said that he had given his alms to a wealthy person. He said, "O Allah! All the praises are for you. (I had given alms) to a thief, to an adulteress and to a wealthy man." After, someone came and said to him, "The alms which you gave to the thief, might make him abstain from stealing, and that given to the adulteress might make her abstain from illegal sexual intercourse (adultery), and that given to the wealthy man might make him take a lesson from it and spend his wealth which Allah has given him, in Allah's cause.".

Commentary : Charity is one of the best deeds which a person can offer himself, and he obtains its great reward from Allah, The Almighty.
In this hadeeth, The Prophet ﷺ tells us about a man - it was said that he was from Banee ‘Israa’eel - who went out to offer alms [to those in need]. So, his alms went into the hands of a thief once. And then in the hand of an adulteress once more. And in the hand of a rich man a third time. In every instance, the people would rise in the morning, talking about what he did in amazement; because charity, according to them, was dedicated to the needy people from amongst the charitable; and that is why they marvelled at the charity that was offered to these people.
The man praised Allah, The Mighty and Majestic; for he had intended for his charity to fall into the hands of an upright poor person that no one knows about his poverty, or an honourable, honest man, or a chaste woman. But Allah’s Decree is a predetermined, divine preordainment, so the man was brought into a dream, and was told that his charity was accepted, as what is narrated in a report in Musnad Ahmad because he was sincere and had intended to do good, however, it was not facilitated for him. It was said to him: ‘As for your charity for the thief, perhaps the thief will abstain from stealing. Maybe the burglar will say: ‘This money will suffice me’ or that he is embarrassed that he had been provided for without stealing, and he knows that, among the servants of Allah, there are those who offer alms in secret at night to those who do not know him. As for the prostitute who commits fornication as an occupation, perhaps she may abstain from it because she may have committed adultery – we seek refuge in Allah from such sin - with the purpose of [earning] money, and something happened to her which stopped her from doing so again. As to the rich man, maybe he will reflect and learn a lesson, causing him to spend from what Allah has given him. This is how a good intention will yield wholesome fruits.
From the other benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it indicates that when a person intends goodness, and strives towards it, and makes a mistake; it is because it was written for him, and it will not harm him.
It shows that the legal ruling [for a matter] is given based on what appears, until it becomes clear otherwise.
It encourages us to submit and be content with the Divine Decree, and praise Allah, and entrust all of your concerns and affairs to Allah, The Mighty and Majestic.
And lastly, it teaches us that we should give charity and alms again if it did not fall in its proper place [i.e., be received by its rightful recipients]..

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated AbooSa’eed(may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "No zakat is due on property mounting to less than five uqiyas, and no zakat is due on less than five camels, and there is no zakat on less than five wasqs." .

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".