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1468

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ ordered (a person) to collect Zakat, and that person returned and told him ﷺ that Ibn Jameel, Khaalid ibn al-Waleed, and al-`Abbas ibn `Abdul Muttalib had refused to give Zakat." The Prophet ﷺ said, "What is the matter with Ibn Jameel?! He was a poor man and was made wealthy by Allah and His Messenger! As for Khaalid, you are being unfair to him because he is keeping his armors and weapons to use them in fighting for Allah's Cause. As for al-`Abbas ibn `Abdul Muttalib - the uncle of Allah's Messenger ﷺ - it is incumbent upon him to pay it and an equal amount along with it.".

Commentary : Allah, Exalted be He, clarified to His Messenger ﷺ all the rulings and details pertaining to the obligation of zakat so that the wealthy is neither subjected to injustice nor the poor’s rights are overlooked. The Imaam (i.e., head of state or the ruler) is the one responsible for collecting the zakat from people, reminding people of its due time, encouraging those who are acting slack about it, and forcing those who withhold the zakat, so they pay it, and fight them if necessary.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet ﷺ ordered the collection of zakat from Muslims. According to the report in Saheeh Muslim, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah e pleased with him) was the one that the Prophet ﷺ assigned to collect zakat from people. After the collectors of zakat returned, they informed the Prophet ﷺ that collection three persons refused to pay the zakat, and they were: Ibn Jameel; it has been said that his name was ‘Abdullah and that he is from al-Ansaar, Khaalid ibn al-Waleed, and al-‘Abbaas ibn ‘Abdul Muttalib (may Allah be pleased with all of them. Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ said: “What is the matter with Ibn Jameel?” i.e., there is nothing that he dislikes except that he was a poor man but then he has become wealthy because of war bounties that Allah has made lawful for the Muslims to have after He has made it for His Messenger ﷺ. Had it not been allowed for the Prophet ﷺ, no other person would have received any share from the spoils of war. For this reason, he has no right whatsoever to withhold it because not only is it not how a person should appreciate and thank Allah for His blessings, but also it is a form of denying the favours of Allah upon him, causing him to respond to goodness with evil. For this reason, the Prophet ﷺ did not give him benefit of doubt. It has been said that Ibn Jameel was one of the hypocrites but afterwards he repented. Then, the Prophet ﷺ said: “You are being unfair to him” when you accused him of withholding the zakat. This is because he allocated his armours and weapons for fighting for Allah’s sake; thus, they are not subject to zakat. The weapons here include whatever supplies used in war such as weapons, horses, etc.
The statement of the Prophet ﷺ was directed to the collectors of the zakat because they did not know that he endowed all his armours and war supplies to the Muslim army to use them in fighting for the cause of Allah before one year has elapsed, and presumed they were intended for the purpose of business; thus, they demanded him to pay zakat. It is possible that the Prophet ﷺ intended to say that if Khaalid knew he has what he is to pay zakat on, he would have paid it without hesitation, because a person who gives away all his property for the sake of Allah willingly, it is impossible that he would withhold that which is obligatory upon him.
As for the paternal uncle of the Prophet ﷺ, al-‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him), the Prophet ﷺ mentioned that he will pay the obligatory zakat and an equal amount of it out of his generosity for he will never withhold it as he is not a miser. It has been said that al-‘Abbaas asked the Prophet ﷺ to allow him to pay his zakat before its due time and he ﷺ approved it, as reported in Sunan Aboo Dawood and Sunan al-Tirmithee and Sunan Ibn Majah. As such, the meaning of his statement, “it is incumbent upon him to pay it an equal amount along with it,” should be that it is obligatory upon al-‘Abbaas, but he paid it before its due time, and he even paid it double to cover the zakat of next year in advance.
In another version of the hadeeth in Saheeh Muslim, it reads: “and as for al-'Abbas, I shall be responsible for it and an equal amount along with it. He ﷺ then said to 'Umar: Do not you know that the paternal uncle of a person is like his father.”
This hadeeth reminds the heedless of the bounties and blessings of Allah upon them who made him wealthy after he was poor so he fulfills Allah’s right.
It shows that one should give valid excuses to justify a particular action.

It highlights the merit of Khaalid ibn al-Waleed (may Allah be pleased with him). .

1469

Narrated Abii Sa’eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him): Some people from the Ansaar asked for (something) from Allah's Messenger ﷺ and he gave them. They again asked him for (something) and he ﷺ again gave them. And then they asked him, and he gave them again till all that was with him finished. And then he ﷺ said "If I had anything. I would not keep it away from you. (Remember) Whoever abstains from asking others, Allah will make him contented, and whoever tries to make himself self-sufficient, Allah will make him self-sufficient. And whoever remains patient, Allah will make him patient. Nobody can be given a blessing better and greater than patience.".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ was so generous like a freely blowing wind who would give away without fearing poverty. Despite his generosity, he ﷺ endeavored to teach people to be content and self-sufficient and to only hope from Allah for what He has is better and everlasting.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Sa’eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that a group from the Ansaar – whom he did not name – asked the Prophet ﷺ for some money so he ﷺ gave them the money they asked for. He kept asking until he ﷺ gave them all the money he had. Then, the Prophet ﷺ explained to them that he will not keep away from them any money he has. Then, he ﷺ advised them to abstain from taking their needs through unlawful means, because Allah will facilitate to whoever possess this quality to obtain his needs through lawful means. After, he ﷺ encouraged them to abstain from asking people for anything and to suffice and be content with the little they have, and only ask others for help when there is a necessity that forces them to do so. By doing so, Allah will make them self-sufficient and make them view the little they have as much. Then, he ﷺ encouraged them to remain patient and accustom themselves on it because when a person is patient, he will be able and empowered to refrain from asking others for anything.
His statement: “And whoever remains patient, Allah will make him patient.” Means that whoever endeavours to remain patient and discipline himself to endure the difficulties of life, Allah will fill his heart with patience, and whoever takes the means while being patient, Allah will facilitate for him the means to possess this quality and made it indispensable character of his personality. The Prophet ﷺ then explained that there is no better quality or blessing or a noble character that Allah has given to anyone better than patience. This is because all virtues, such like chastity, courage, determination, dignity, emerge from patience and are based upon it. When a person is patient, he will endure all that which he disliked, by the will of Allah.
This hadeeth teaches us that it is possible to possess noble qualities and good characters by practice.
It highlights the generosity of the Prophet ﷺ and that he would go beyond loving for others what he loves for himself and putting the needs of others over his own, out of kindness and compassion.
It shows that we should apologise to the one asking for help or money when there is nothing to help or provide.
The hadeeth encourages us to rely upon Allah, remain patient, and refrain from asking people for help or money, and to wait for the provision and aid from Allah. It shows us that patience is one of the best virtues that one be granted and that its reward is abundant. .

1470

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): “Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "By Him in Whose Hand my life is, it is better for anyone of you to take a rope and cut the wood (from the forest) and carry it over his back and sell it (as a means of earning his living) rather than to ask a person for something and that person may give him or not.".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ was always keen to enable the believers to be self-sufficient and possess the quality of chastity and take all the means to earn lawful income.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ swears by Allah, the One in Whose Hand his soul, which is a phrase the Prophet ﷺ often used when he wanted to swear by Allah. He swears that having a lawful work, regardless of its type, saves the face and is better than asking people for something. This is because even if such work is difficult and harsh, it would be better than experiencing the humiliation of begging and asking.
His statement: “it is better for anyone of you to take a rope and cut the wood (from the forest) and carry it over his back and sell it (as a means of earning his living) rather than to ask a person for something and that person may give him or not,” is to say that the hardship and suffering that a person goes through in collecting wood is better than losing face and humiliation that result from asking people for something. That is to say, finding work, even if it is hard and difficult, should be always given precedence over asking people for something whenever a person is in need.
This hadeeth encourages us to work and earn a living through lawful means that protect one’s dignity and honour.
From the benefits that can be concluded from this hadeeth is learning that Islam fights begging and unemployment; thus, it ordered us to work and find a living, even if it was difficult and hard work, such like collecting wood.
It shows that it is permissible to swear by Allah to emphasise the matter.
This hadeeth confirms the Hand of Allah, Most High, as it befits Him, without changing the original meaning of this attribute, without denying such attributes for Allah, without enquiring into its true nature, and without likening His attributes to those of the creation..

1472

Narrated Hakeem ibn Hizaam (may Allah be pleased with him): "(Once) I asked Allah's Messenger ﷺ (for something) and he gave it to me. Again, I asked, and he ﷺ gave (it to me). Again, I asked, and he ﷺ gave (it to me). And then he ﷺ said, "O Hakeem! This property is like a sweet fresh fruit; whoever takes it without greediness, he is blessed in it, and whoever takes it with greediness, he is not blessed in it, and he is like a person who eats but is never satisfied; and the upper (giving) hand is better than the lower (receiving) hand." Hakeem added, "I said to Allah's Messenger ﷺ, 'By Him (Allah) Who sent you with the Truth, I shall never accept anything from anybody after you, till I leave this world.'" Then Aboo Bakr (during his caliphate) called Hakeem to give him his share from the war booty (like the other Companions of the Prophet ﷺ), he refused to accept anything. Then `Umar (during his caliphate) called him to give him his share but he refused. On that `Umar said, "O Muslims! I would like you to witness that I offered Hakeem his share from this booty, and he refused to take it." So, Hakeem never took anything from anybody after the Prophet ﷺ till he died..

Commentary : Money and wealth are from the temptations of this worldly life that the believer should not be keen on collecting and ensure to avoid earning it from unlawful sources, earning it via unlawful means, or spending it in matters that displease Allah.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ instructs Hakeem ibn Hizaam ibn Khuwaylid (may Allah be pleased with him) to the optimal and best way to earn money. This advice was given to Hakeem after he asked the Prophet ﷺ for money three times. In his advice, the Prophet ﷺ likened the money and property of this life with the fruit that is fresh in look and good in taste, which therefore are desired, and people are keen and inclined to have because it is pleasant to the eyes and tastes delicious too. After, he ﷺexplained that whoever receives money without him persisting in asking for it, without being concerned and keen to have it, and without putting the giver in a position that he dislikes or makes him embarrassed to give it, then this money will be blessed and increased, and the recipient will taste its sweetness. As for who takes it after persisting in asking for it due to his desire to have that which other people have and his greediness and takes it even though the giver dislikes to give him what he asked for, but he was too embarrassed to decline his persisting requests, the money he received will be devoid of Allah’s blessings. Knowing that he did not refrain from asking people for money, which is a condemned practice in religion, his punishment was to take away Allah’s blessings from the money he received and thus become like a person who eats without ever feeling satisfied i.e., he does not feel content with whatever he has and the more he collects money [via this way], the hungrier and stingier he becomes. The Prophet ﷺ then mentioned that the upper hand is better the lower hand, meaning that the giver is better than the receiver.
Once Hakeem (may Allah be pleased with him) heard this valuable advice from the Prophet ﷺ, he said: “'By Him (Allah) Who sent you with the Truth, I shall never accept anything from anybody after you, till I leave this world” i.e., I swear that I will not ask anyone for money from now and on. From that day, he would not accept taking his share from the war spoils that the Muslims seized from the disbelievers without fighting. He remained firm on his position during the reigns of Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) and ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) to the extent ‘Umar asked the people to be witness that he offered Hakeem his share, but he declined it only so that no one would think that ‘Umar refused to give him his share or deprive him of his right in the war spoils that are seized without fighting, and because he feared people may misunderstand the situation, so he (may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to leave no room for gossips and misunderstanding. Hakeem remained firm on his position until he departed this life 10 years after Mu’aawiyyah (may Allah be pleased with him) assumed his position as the new Caliph. All this because he (may Allah be pleased with him) was keen on acting upon the advice of the Prophet ﷺ. Indeed, the innate nature of humans is keen on having more wealth and collecting more money for the self is disposed to take as much as it can, and whoever approaches the sanctuary is bound to transgress upon it.
From the benefits of this hadeeth is that there is no shame if a person asks the ruler for money, and that it is fine to advise the person to refrain from asking others for money and decline his requests if he is found to be persistent in his request for money while he is no need of it.
This hadeeth shows that one should not ask for help or money except when there is a real need or necessity, and that the reward of zuhd (i.e., detachment from worldly pleasures) and the blessings of Allah in wealth will be realised if a person accepts money without being attached to it or keen on having it.
It highlights an evident merit of Hakeem ibn Hizaam (may Allah be pleased with him), condemns greediness and keenness on having more wealth, encourages refraining from asking for money and to be content with the little one had, and shows that the upper hand that gives in charity is better than the lower hand that receives the charity..

1473

Narrated ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): I heard ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) say: Allah's Messenger ﷺ used to give me something but I would say to him, "would you give it to a poorer and more needy one than l?" The Prophet ﷺ said to me, "Take it. If you are given something from this property, without asking for it or having greed for it take it; and if not given, do not run for it.".

Commentary : Money and property are from the temptations of this life that the believer should not be attached to or keen on collecting them, avoid collecting or wealth from unlawful sources, and avoid spending it on that which Allah dislikes or forbids.
The Prophet ﷺ used to give ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab money from the zakat money. However, the money was not given as a charity but rather as remuneration for his work in collecting the zakat. For this reason, ‘Umar thought that the Prophet ﷺ was giving him the money as a charity due to his poverty thus he (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Prophet ﷺ to give the money to those who are poorer and more needy. The Prophet ﷺ, however, ordered him to take the money, and then said to him, as reported in the hadeeth in Saheeh Muslim, “keep it or give it away in charity”. He ﷺ gave him the option either to keep it or donate it after he takes it from him ﷺ. After, the Prophet ﷺ explained to him that if he is offered money or property without him being avaricious or begging for it, then he should accept it. However, if he was not offered that money or property, then he should not let his desire go after it or ask for it.
From the benefits of this hadeeth is that we learn that the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ were not after worldly pleasures, and that their deeds were only intended for the sake of Allah, Most High.
This hadeeth shows that it is permissible to accept gifts and offerings if one does not let his desire go after it or ask for it.
It highlights one of the merits of ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him), and his altruism and lack of interest in worldly benefits and pleasures. .

1474

Narrated ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "A man keeps on asking others for something till he comes on the Day of Resurrection without any piece of flesh on his face." The Prophet ﷺ added, "On the Day of Resurrection, the Sun will come near (to, the people) to such an extent that the sweat will reach up to the middle of the ears, so, when all the people are in that state, they will ask Adam for help, and then Moses, and then Muhammad ﷺ." The sub-narrator added "Muhammad will intercede with Allah to judge amongst the people. He will proceed on till he will hold the ring of the door (of Paradise) and then Allah will exalt him to highly-praised status (the privilege of intercession, etc.). Thereafter, all the people of the gathering will praise him.” Mu’alla said: Wuhayb narrated from al-Nu’maan ibn Raashid from ‘Abdillah ibn Muslim, the brother of al-Zuhree that Hamzah heard ‘Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated from the Prophet the same issue.

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Commentary : Money and property are from the temptations of this worldly life that believers should detach themselves from them, and refrain from desiring the wealth and possessions of others or even asking them for help or money without being in a real need so they be saved from humiliation in this life and the Hereafter.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ clarifies that if a person is not poor or in need and yet asks people for money only to increase his wealth and possessions without caring about humiliating himself, although Allah orders him to preserve his dignity, Allah will be angry at him and humiliate him in the Day of Judgment just like how he accepted to humiliate himself in life for the sake of money. On the Day of Judgment, this person will be exposed in the presence of all people and the flesh of his face will fall off due to his embarrassment and shame. All this because he did not save his face in this life and accepting to experience humiliation for the sake of money.
The Prophet ﷺ then explained that the Sun will draw so close to the people, on the Day of Judgment, such that their sweat will reach up to the middle of their airs due to the extreme heat. It is reported on the authority of al-Miqdaad ibn al-Aswad (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “The people would be submerged in perspiration according to their deeds, some up to their knees, some up to the waist and some would have the bridle of perspiration.” Amid this difficult situation, the people went to Adam and then Moses ((peace be upon them) asking for their help to intercede for them with Allah but they declined their request. According to the hadeeth of intercession that is reported on the authority of Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, they first asked Adam before asking Ibraheem, Moses, and Jesus (peace be upon them) respectively. However, all of them declined and explained their excuse. Thereupon, they ask intercession from Allah’s Messenger ﷺ and Allah, Exalted be He, approves his intercession for them. He ﷺ then proceeds on till he holds the ring of the door of Paradise. Thereupon, all the people of the gathering praise him for his intercession, which is an exclusive privilege that Allah has granted to him ﷺ to relieve the people from the torments of the Day and judge the creation and settle all the disputes between them. That is the highly praised status that Allah has promised to the Prophet ﷺ.
The scholars differed on the reason that made the other prophets (peace be upon them) not to intercede for the people with Allah. One view said that it was out of humility and due to the seriousness of the request. It has been said that they believed that this intercession and lofty status do not belong to them; thus, they directed people to another prophet until they reached the Prophet ﷺ. It is also possible that they knew that only the Prophet ﷺ is entitled to this status and privilege and they directed them to lead people gradually to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.
This hadeeth teaches us that punishment fits the crime thus Allah promised those who beg and ask for money and things only to increase their wealth and not because they are in need that He will skin off their faces on the Day of the Judgment just like how they did not save their faces in this life. This is because begging and asking people is humiliation and shame, and Allah does not wish for the believer to put himself in such shame and humiliation unless there is a necessity.
We learn from this hadeeth that begging and asking people for something is commended and ugly, and that we should endeavour to give our charity to those who are in need, but their dignity prevents them from asking people for help.
It confirms the intercession of the Prophet ﷺ on the Day of Judgment..

1476

Narrated Aboo Hurayah (may Allah be pleased with him): “The Prophet ﷺ said, "The needy person is not the one who asks a morsel or two (of meals) from the others, but the needy is the one who has nothing and is ashamed to beg from others.".

Commentary : Property and wealth are from the pleasures and temptations of this worldly life that believers should not be keen on collecting them and avoid desiring what others have, and refrain from asking others for money or things, as much as possible.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ explains that the needy (Arabic: miskeen) who deserve receiving charity and zakat is not the one who begs people and would accept as little as one morsal or two. Rather, it is the one who works but what he earns is insufficient. Allah, Most High, described the ones who owned the ship in the story of Prophet Moses (peace be upon him) as needy although the ownership of the ship was theirs. He said: {As for the ship, it belonged to some needy (masakeen) people, working at sea. So, I intended to damage it, for there was a ˹tyrant˺ king ahead of them who seizes every ˹good˺ ship by force.} [Quran 18:79].
The statement of the Prophet ﷺ “The needy person is not…” does not negate the vulnerability and neediness of the one who begs people. It is rather intended to mean that the vulnerability and neediness of the one who cannot cover all his basic needs are the most overwhelming. He could be a person who has money, but it is not enough to cover all his basic needs and yet is ashamed of asking people for money, and his shyness and embarrassment prevents him from informing people of his need and do not persist in his request for help. The Statement of Allah {They do not beg people persistently.} [Quran 2:273] means they do not beg people at all i.e., they do not go around begging people for money, and nobody is aware of their need. It is possible that it means that if they beg people for money and help, they would not be persistent.
This hadeeth encourages us to refrain from begging people and asking for their money, and directs us to whom we better give our charity, and that we should give priority to those who are ashamed of begging people and if they beg, they do not do it persistently. .

1477

The clerk of Al-Mugeerah ibn Shu`bah related that "Mu’aawiyyah wrote to al-Mugheera ibn Shu`bah asking him to write for him something which he has heard from the Prophet ﷺ." So, al-Mugheerah wrote “I heard the Prophet ﷺ saying, "Allah has hated for you three things: -1. Vain talks. -2. Wasting of wealth -3. And asking too many questions (in disputed religious matters).

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Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ would order people to observe good manners and warn them from bad manners.
In this hadeeth, Mu’aawiyyah ibn Abee Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him) wrote to al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him) asking him to write to him something he heard directly from the Prophet ﷺ. In response, al-Mugheerah wrote to him this hadeeth in which the Prophet ﷺ mentions that Allah disliked for His servants engaging in three things:
1. “vain talks” i.e., talking too much without a real needthat necessitates it, or about others, or reporting something that one is not certain of its truthfulness, or useless talking that neither benefits nor harms.
2. “waste of wealth” i.e., by extravagance and spending it on inappropriate things, or spending it on unlawful things and sins.
3. “Asking too many questions” i.e., asking others for their money without being in need, or asking too many questions about the matters of this life and the Hereafter like asking about acts of worship that we are ordered to perform without disclosing to us the wisdom behind them, or asking about matters that do not concern the questioner, or asking people so many questions about their life affairs such that they become embarrassed.
This hadeeth shows that it is fine to ask for knowledge be written and fulfilling such requests, and that the Companions used to take knowledge from each other.
It highlights the superiority of living with the minimum where needs are covered over poverty and wealthiness, because wasting money will lead to poverty and begging people for money, and wealthiness could lead to inflictions and trials. .

1479

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "The needy person is not the one who goes round the people and ask them for a mouthful or two (of meals) or a date or two but the needy is that who has not enough (money) to satisfy his needs and whose condition is not known to others that others may give him something in charity, and who does not beg of people.".

Commentary : Allah has praised those who do not beg people despite their need (i.e., money, food, clothes, etc.) Allah, Most High, said: {Those unfamiliar with their situation will think they are not in need ˹of charity˺ because they do not beg.} [Quran 2:273] and the Prophet ﷺ disliked for his nation to frequently ask people for help.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ explains that the neediest person is not the one who goes around asking people for charity and all they want is a mouthful or two of meals or a date or two, and that is because he is capable of earning his living. Allah, Exalted be He, described the people of the ship as Miskeen despite the fact they owned the ship that Prophet Moses (peace be upon him) mounted. Allah, Most High, said: {As for the ship, it belonged to some needy (masakeen) people, working at sea.} [Quran 18:79].
The statement of the Prophet ﷺ “The needy person is not…” does not negate the vulnerability and neediness of the one who begs people. Rather, it means that his vulnerability and neediness are not the most overwhelming. The true needy person is the one who does not have enough money to cover all his basic needs and make him self-sufficient, yet he is ashamed of begging and does not disclose to others his neediness thus no one knows about his condition thus they do not give charity to him. As Allah, Most High, said: {They do not beg people persistently.} [Quran 2:273]
This hadeeth teaches us that we should refrain from begging and asking people for charity and directs us to be diligent about where to put our charity and ensure that our charity is given to the needy who does not beg people for charity..

1481

Narrated Aboo Humayd al-Saa’idee (may Allah be pleased with him): We joined Allah's Messenger ﷺ in the Battle of Tabuk and we came to the valley of al-Quraa where there was a garden belonging to a woman. Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, “Make an assessment.” And Allah's Messenger ﷺ also made an assessment, and it was ten awsaaq. He asked that woman to calculate the amount. Then, we proceeded on until we came to Tabuk and Allah's Messenger ﷺ said: A violent storm will overtake you during the night, so none amongst you should stand up and he who has a camel with him should hobble it firmly. A violent storm blew and a person who had stood up was carried away by the storm and thrown between the mountains of Tayy. The King of ‘Aylah, gifted Allah's Messenger ﷺ a white mule. Allah's Messenger ﷺ wrote him (the reply) and gifted him garments. We came back until we halted in the valley of al-Quraa. Allah's Messenger ﷺ asked that woman about the total weight of the date fruits she had. She said: Ten awsaaq. Then, Allah's Messenger ﷺ said: I am going to depart, and he who amongst you wishes may depart with me, but he who wants to stay may stay. We resumed the journey until we came to the outskirts of al-Madeenah. (It was at this time) that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said: This is Taaba, this is Uhud, that is a mountain which loves us, and we love it, and then said: Should I tell you the best houses of al-Ansaar? The best amongst the houses of the Ansaar is the house of Banee al-Najjaar. Then the house of Banee ‘Abd al-Ashhal, then the house of Banee Saa’idah - or Banee ‘Abd al-Haarith ibn al-Khazraj - and there is goodness in all the houses of the Ansaar.
Sulaimaan ibn Bilaal said: ‘Amr narrated to me: then the house of Banee al-Haarith then the house of Banee Saa’idah.
Sulaymaan related from Sa’d ibn Sa’eed from ‘Umaarah ibn Ghaziyyah from ‘Abbaas from his father that the Prophet ﷺ said: Uhud is a mountain that loves us and we love him..

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ loved al-Madeenah, its people, and everything about it. He ﷺdeclared it a safe sacred place and supplicated Allah for His blessings to be showered in its food twice as did Ibraheem (peace be upon him) for the inhabitants of Makkah.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Humayd al-Saa’idee (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were with the Prophet ﷺ in the Battle of Tabuk, which was the last military expedition in which he ﷺ took part. It occurred in the month of Rajab in the 9th year of Hijrah against the Romans. Tabuk is in the northernmost of the Arabian Peninsula, halfway to Damascus and is situated 1252 kilometers away from the region of Hijaaz.
He (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Muslim army arrived at the Valley of al-Quraa, which is located near al-Madeenah, between Taymaa’ and Khaybar (i.e., between al-Madeenah and al-Shaam). While scholars differed on its exact location, but most signs indicate that it refers to what is known today as the Valley of al-Jazl. After their arrival to that place, he ﷺ found a garden that belonged to a woman. The Prophet ﷺ asked his Companions to estimate the weight of the date fruits that are still on the palm trees. He ﷺ estimated that they would make when they are dry about 10 awsaaq (plural of wasaq) i.e., 1300 kg since one wasaq equals 60 Saa’, and then asked the woman to measure the weight of date fruits when they are dry to get an accurate measurement.
After they arrived at Tabuk, the Prophet ﷺ informed them that there would be a stormy wind coming in the night; thus, no one should stand up so they would not be harmed by the wind, and that those with camels should hobble them firmly so they do not get loose and carried away with the wind and be harmed. On that night, a violent windstorm swept the place, and one man stood up and was carried away by the wind until threw him near the mountain of Tayy, which is located in Haa’il, in the northern part of al-Hijaaz.
The king of ‘Aylah, which is an ancient coastal town, known today as Aqaba in Jordan, gifted the Prophet ﷺ a white mule called Duldul, and in return the Prophet ﷺ gifted him fancy garments and wrote him a letter to him inviting him and his people to Islam or pay the Jizayh. They opted for the jizyah and he ﷺ accepted that they remain upon their faith and pay the jizyah.
On their way back to al-Madeenah, they arrived at the valley of al-Quraa, where they visited the owner of the garden, and the Prophet ﷺ asked her about the total weight of her date fruits to which she confirmed that it was 10 awsaaq, which was exactly as the Prophet ﷺ estimated.
Afterwards, the Prophet ﷺ informed his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) that he wishes to return to al-Madeeanh as soon as possible. It has been said that he ﷺ meant that he ﷺ wished to take the shortest route; thus, he ﷺ gave them the option to accompany him in the journey back to al-Madeenah or stay behind with the Muslim army. When he ﷺ arrived at the outskirts of al-Madeenah and saw the houses of its inhabitants from far, he ﷺ said this is Taabah (English: good) i.e., the good city that Allah has named Taabah due to its goodness. And when he ﷺ saw the mountain of Uhud, he ﷺ said that this mountain loves us and we love him. The mountain of Uhud is in the northwest of al-Madeenah and 4 km away from the Prophet Mosque. There is nothing to prevent that a non-animated object to love as Allah can create this emotion into it just like how it happens that non-animated objects extol Allah [as reported in the Quran and Sunnah]. The meaning of his statement is that he ﷺ loved the inhabitants of al-Madeenah and his love to the mountain of Uhud necessitates that it be a blessed place and encourage residing near it.
Then, the Prophet ﷺ asked his Companions if they would like to know which houses are the best amongst the Ansaar, and the word “houses” here is used in reference to their tribes. The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) expressed their interest in knowing the answer so he ﷺ said: The best tribe is Banee al-Najjaar, which is the tribe of his mother and thus they are considered his maternal uncles who hosted him when he emigrated from Makkah to al-Madeenah. The next tribe he ﷺ mentioned was Banee ‘Abd al-Ashhal and that was because they were from the early tribes that entered Islam from the Ansaar at the hand of Mu’sab ibn ‘Umayr (may Allah be pleased with him) after their leader Sa’d ibn Mu’aadth entered Islam. There are a few of highly esteemed Companions from this tribe like Sa’d ibn Mu’aath, Usayd ibn al-Khudayr, and ‘Abbaad ibn Bishr. Then, he ﷺ mentioned Banee Saa’idah – or Banee al-Haarith ibn al-Khazraj and added that there is goodness in all of the tribes of al-Ansaar i.e., all the tribes of Ansaar are renowned and highly esteemed in Islam and even before Islam. However, he ﷺ ranked them based on who embraced Islam earlier and their contributions to Islam.
From the benefits of this hadeeth is learning the permissibility of estimating the total weight of dates that palm trees are expected to produce from the Rutab (i.e., dates before the maturity), so its zakat can be calculated.
This hadeeth provides one of the evidences on the truthfulness of the Prophethood of the Prophet ﷺ as he foretold the Companions about the windstorm.
It shows us that it is permissible to accept gifts from non-Muslims and that opposing the instructions of the Prophet ﷺ leads to loss and hardship.
It shows the merit of the mountain of Uhud and confirms the virtue of the Ansaar and that while they are meritorious, they differ in rank among each other..

1483

Narrated Saalim ibn ‘Abdullah from his father (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "On a land irrigated by rain water or by natural water channels or if the land is wet due to a nearby water channel one-tenth is compulsory (as Zakat); and on the land irrigated by the well, half of a one-tenth is compulsory (as Zakat on the yield of the land).".

Commentary : Zakat is one of the five pillars of Islam that Allah has dictated upon those whose savings exceed the specified threshold. It is taken from the wealthy and given to the poor (i.e., all those who are eligible to receive it according to the Quran). Allah and His Messenger ﷺ explained all the rulings and details pertaining to this obligatory act of worship to protect the wealthy ones from injustice and protect the rights of those who are in need.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ explains that the yield of rainfed agriculture and lands irrigated by natural water channels or irrigated by rivers and nearby water sources without the help of tools is subject to one-twentieth as zakat, and the yield of lands irrigated by water taken out from the well by whatever means is subject to one-fifth as zakat. The difference of zakat rate between the two types of lands is due to the additional cost incurred by lands owners.
This hadeeth explains the zakat on agricultural products and that the hardship and expenses incurred to produce the yield affect the rate of zakat..

1485

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Dates used to be brought to Allah's Messenger ﷺ immediately after being plucked. Different persons would bring their dates till a big heap collected (in front of the Prophet ﷺ). Once Al-Hasan and Al-Husayn were playing with these dates. One of them took a date and put it in his mouth. Allah's Messenger ﷺ looked at him and took it out from his mouth and said, "Don't you know that the family of Muhammad do not eat what is given in charity?".

Commentary : Allah, Exalted be He, has honored His Prophet Muhmmad ﷺ, purified him, elevated his rank above all His creation, and endowed him with exclusive qualities that befit the state of his prophethood that makes him different to the people in certain issues that entail desire for worldly pleasures.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the people during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ would harvest the palm trees after the date fruits ripen and fully dry, and then bring the zakat of their dates to the Prophet ﷺ making a big heap. One day, al-Hasan and al-Husayn, the two sons of Alee ibn Abee Taalib and Faatimah, the daughter of the Prophet ﷺ (may Allah be pleased with all of them), played with the dates, and al-Hasan picked one date from the dates of zakat and put it into his mouth. Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ looked at him in a way that showed his disapproval so he ﷺ took it out from his mouth and said to him: “Don't you know that the family of Muhammad do not eat what is given in charity?” i.e., the family of Muhammad ﷺ are not allowed to accept and receive charity or zakat from people as Allah honored them because charity and zakat are the dirt of the people, as reported in the authentic hadeeths.
The family of the Prophet ﷺ who are not allowed to take or receive zakat and charity are his offspring, wives, and the descendants of ‘Abdul-Muttalib: the descendants of ‘Alee ibn Abee Taalib, the descendants of al-‘Abbaas, the descendants of Ja’far, the descendants of ‘Aqeel, and the descendants of al-Haarith.
This hadeeth shows that zakat on dates should be given upon its plucking when the dates ripen and dry.
It teaches us that we should raise and teach our children to obey the rules of religion and avoid that which is made forbidden.
It shows that we should explain to children the reason they are not allowed to do a particular act, as much as possible.
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1486

Narrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ forbade selling fruits till they appear ripe. When he ﷺ was asked about (the words): 'appear to be ripe'?" He ﷺ replied, "Till they were safe from damage or disease.".

Commentary : Islam introduces legislations that govern the transactions and dealings between people to protect their rights and end any possibility of dispute.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ forbids people from selling fruits that are not picked yet from the tree before they appear are ripe and good to eat i.e., the taste, texture, and color appear good. This is because when fruits and dates are soft and taste good, and their color changes to yellowish or reddish can be signs of their ripeness.
When the Prophet ﷺ was asked about the signs that can indicate the fruit is ripe, his answer was that it is when the defect is no longer present i.e., the signs of ripeness are evident as that indicates its suitability for consumption. The legal reasoning for prohibiting the selling of fruits before their condition is known i.e., they appear ripe is that such transaction would entail vagueness and harm. This is because when the condition of the fruit is unknown, there would be a possibility that it may become defective or damaged; thus, the buyer will lose his money and entail taking his money without any lawful right.
This hadeeth forbids us from selling fruits before they are ripe and good to consume..

1488

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ forbade the selling of fruits until they were ripe. The Prophet ﷺ added, "It means that they become red.".

Commentary : Islam introduces legislations that govern the transactions and dealings between people to protect their rights and end any possibility of dispute.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet ﷺ forbade the selling of fruits on trees and dates on palm trees before their condition is known i.e., they are ripe and suitable for eating, and their color changes to red or yellow as that would indicate it is ripe. The Prophet ﷺ explained the red color is the sign that indicates the maturity of fruit and that is free of defects.
The legal reasoning for prohibiting the selling of fruits before their condition is known i.e., they appear ripe is that such transaction would entail vagueness and harm. This is because when the condition of the fruit is unknown, there would be a possibility that it may become defective or damaged; thus. the buyer will lose his money and entail taking his money without any lawful right.
One of the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is learning the ruling of impermissibility to sell dates before they are ripe, and their condition is known..

1489

Narrated Saalim from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): `Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) gave a horse in charity in Allah's Cause and later he saw it being sold in the market and intended to purchase it. However, he went to the Prophet ﷺ and asked his permission. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Do not take back what you have given in charity." For this reason, Ibn `Umar never purchased the things which he had given in charity except that he would give it in charity again.”.

Commentary : Giving in charity for the sake of Allah, Exalted be He, is considered one of the best and most rewarding good deeds. It necessitates that when a person gives something in charity hoping for its reward and blessings from Allah alone that he does not wish to have it back again or request that it goes back to his possession.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that his father ’Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) gave in charity a horse to a man so he can mount it in fighting for Allah’s cause. Afterwards, he (may Allah be pleased with him) found that this horse in the market is offered for sale. The reason the man wanted to sell the horse was because it became fatigued and no longer suitable to participate in battles like other horses. According to another report in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, the ownership of the horse was transferred to the man, which explains the reason he wanted to sell it afterwards. When ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) found the man selling his horse in the market, he presumed that the man may sell it for less than its actual value and that he was no longer able to afford looking after it. For this reason, he wanted to buy it but before doing so he consulted the Prophet ﷺ about his plan. The Prophet ﷺ said to him: “Do not take back what you have given in charity” because it was given for the cause of Allah and no person may buy his charity because a person no longer owns anything that he has given away for the cause of Allah. ‘Umar complied and refrained from proceeding with his plan.
For this reason, whenever ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) would buy something that he gave in charity before, he would only do it so he can give it away in charity one more time. It is as if he understood the order of the Prophet ﷺ to only apply to whose intent is to bring back his charity into his possessions and not whose intent is to give it away in charity again.
This hadeeth highlights the virtue of donating to the Muslim army to help and support them in their fighting for the cause of Allah.
It shows that it is impermissible to buy that which a person has given in charity because it will be considered as if one reconsidered his charity..

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated Aboo Hurayah (may Allah be pleased with him): “The Prophet ﷺ said, "The needy person is not the one who asks a morsel or two (of meals) from the others, but the needy is the one who has nothing and is ashamed to beg from others.".

Narrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ forbade selling fruits till they appear ripe. When he ﷺ was asked about (the words): 'appear to be ripe'?" He ﷺ replied, "Till they were safe from damage or disease.".

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ forbade the selling of fruits until they were ripe. The Prophet ﷺ added, "It means that they become red.".

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".