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Hadith
1562
Narrated ‘Aaishah (may Allah be pleased with her): “We set out with Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) (to Makkah) in the year of the Farewell Hajj. Some of us had assumed Ihraam for `Umrah only, some for both Hajj and `Umrah, and others for Hajj only. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) assumed Ihraam for Hajj. Those who had assumed Ihraam for Hajj or for both Hajj and `Umrah did not finish the Ihraam till the Day of Sacrifice..

Commentary : There are three ways for performing Hajj: (1) Tamattu’: It is when the pilgrim enters the state of Ihraam with the intention to perform ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj, namely Shawwaal, Thoo al-Qa’dah, and Thoo al-Hijjah. And after completing the ‘Umrah, he exits his Ihraam and then enters the Ihraam again in the same year to perform Hajj. (2) Al-Qiraan: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform both ‘Umrah and Hajj together. (3) Al-Ifraad: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform Hajj only.
This hadeeth mentions the three ways for performing Hajj wherein ‘Aaishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she went out with the Prophet in the year of the Farewell Hajj, which was given that name because it was the Prophet’s Last Hajj during which he ﷺaddressed the Muslims in a manner that indicated he is departing this life, and he ﷺdid not live long after it. The farewell Hajj occurred in the 10th year of Hijrah.
Some of the people who joined the Prophet ﷺin his Hajj entered Ihraam with the intention of performing ‘Umrah only. This group of people were allowed to only perform ‘Umrah without Hajj even if they intended to perform Hajj after completing ‘Umrah and exiting their Ihraam. This is called Tamattu’ where the pilgrim exit their Ihraam after completing ‘Umrah – if they did not have Hady with them – then enter Ihraam for Hajj on the 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah to start the rites of Hajj and must offer a Hady because they chose the option of Tamattu’. Other groups entered Ihram with the intention of performing ‘Umrah and Hajj together, which is called Hajj al-Qiraan. And others entered Ihraam with the intention of performing Hajj only, which is called al-Ifraad. The Prophet ﷺentered Ihraam with the intention of Hajj only and then added the ‘Umrah. For that reason, those whose Ihraam was for Hajj only or combined Hajj and ‘Umrah in one Ihraam, and have Hady, they can only exit their Ihraam on the 10th day of Thoo al-HIjjah on which pilgrims slaughter their sacrificial animals (Hady) and exit their Ihraam.
The pilgrim who is performing Ifraad or Qiraan are only required to perform the rites of Ihraam, Tawaaf, and brisk walking between al-Safaa and al-Marwah one time each. They can only exit their Ihraam on the Day of Sacrifice and only perform the rites of Hajj since all the rites of ‘Umrah are included in the rites of Hajj. The pilgrim who is opting for Qiraan must offer Hady if he is not present at the Sacred Mosque; otherwise, he is not required to offer Hady.
The different hadeeths in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Mulsim show that pilgrims who do not have Hady with them exited their Ihraam after completing the rites of ‘Umrah, which include the Tawaaf round the Ka’bah, brisk walking between al-Safaa and al-Marwah, cutting or shaving the hair, and exiting the Ihraam. Then, waiting until the 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah to enter Ihraam for Hajj and complete the rites..

1563
Narrated Marwahn ibn al-Hakam: I witnessed ‘Uthmaan and ‘Alee ibn Abee Taalib (may Allah be pleased with them); ‘Uthmaan was forbidding people to perform Tamattu’, but he saw ‘Alee (may Allah be pleased with him) entering Ihraam with the intention of performing ‘Umrah and Hajj together. He (may Allah be pleased with him) remarked: “I will not leave the Sunnah of the Prophet (ﷺ)for the opinion of others.”.

Commentary : There are three ways for performing Hajj: (1) Tamattu’: It is when the pilgrim enters the state of Ihraam with the intention to perform ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj, namely Shawwaal, Thoo al-Qa’dah, and Thoo al-Hijjah. And after completing the ‘Umrah, he exits his Ihraam and then enters the Ihraam again in the same year to perform Hajj. (2) Al-Qiraan: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform both ‘Umrah and Hajj together. (3) Al-Ifraad: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform Hajj only.
In this hadeeth, Marwahn ibn al-Hakam reports that he witnessed ‘Uthman and ‘Alee ibn Abee Taalib (may Allah be pleased with them) in ‘Asfaan, a village that is located about 128 km from the north of Makkah. ‘Uthmaan (may Allah be pleased with him) used to order people not to perform Tamattu’ i.e., he was against the practice of exiting Ihraam after completing ‘Umrah and then entering Ihraam for Hajj, because he (may Allah be pleased with him) believed that this was exclusive to the year of the Prophet’s last Hajj. He (may Allah be pleased with him) also discouraged people to perform Qiraan (i.e., entering Ihraam with the intention of performing ‘Umrah and Hajj together) as he wanted to encourage people to perform Ifraad. His orders against it were not intended to state it is forbidden in religion but only to show it is less favorable.
However, when ‘Alee ibn Abee Taalib (may Allah be pleased with him) saw that ‘Uthmaan was against the options of Tamattu’ and Qiraan, he entered his Ihraam with the intention of Qiraan (i.e., performing ‘Umrah and Hajj together) and then remarked that he would not leave the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺfor the opinion of someone else. He (may Allah be pleased with him) did that because he wanted to commit to the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺand because he feared that people may misunderstand the orders of ‘Uthmaan (may Allah be pleased with him) and assume it is forbidden.
Obviously, ‘Uthmaan (may Allah be pleased with him) was aware that Qiraan and Tamattu are permissible but he ﷺwanted to encourage people to opt for the more recommended option, from his own point of view, just like what happened to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him). Nevertheless, they are rewarded for their efforts in deducing the correct opinion.
Al-Nasaa’iee recorded that Abu Musa inquired from ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) about it, whereupon 'Umar said: “I know that Allah's Messenger ﷺdid that (observed Tamattu'), but I disliked that people should lay with their wives in the shade of the Arak trees, and then go out for Hajj with their heads dripping.” i.e., ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) disliked people to do Tamattu’ because it allows people to have intercourse with their wives until it is the time of Hajj.
It is proven authentic, as reported in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree, when the Prophet ﷺordered his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to perform Tamattu’, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdillah (may Allah be pleased with him) related that Suraaqah ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) stood up when he met the Prophet ﷺat al-‘Aqabah throwing the pebbles, and said: “O Messenger of Allah! Is this exclusive to you? The Messenger of Allah ﷺsaid: “No, this forever and forever.”
From the benefits that can be concluded from this hadeeth is learning that scholars and learned people should disseminate their knowledge and clarify and debate rulers and others whenever it is possible with the intention to seek the best interest of Muslims.
This hadeeth shows that it is permissible to enter Ihraam with the intention of performing ‘Umrah and Hajj together, and that it is better to clarify words through action.
It shows the forbearance of ‘Uthmaan (may Allah be pleased with him) and how he did not blame those who held a different opinion than his.
It shows that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) did not turn a blind eye to a view they believed is weak and always shared the view they found to be stronger.
This hadeeth shows that obedience of rulers and people of authority is only with regard to that which is right and proper.
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1564
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him): The people (of the Pre-Islamic Period) used to think that to perform `Umrah during the months of Hajj was one of the most heinous sins on earth, and considered the month of Safar as a forbidden (i.e. sacred) month, and they used to say, "When the wounds of the camel's back heal up (after they return from Hajj) and their traces vanish and the month of Safar passes away then (at that time) `Umrah is permissible for the one who wishes to perform it." In the morning of the 4th of Thoo al-Hijjah, the Prophet (ﷺ) and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) reached Makkah, assuming Ihraam for Hajj, and he ordered his Companions to make their intentions of the Ihraam for `Umrah only (instead of Hajj), so they considered his order as something great and were puzzled, and said, "O Allah's Messenger! What kind (of finishing) of Ihraam is allowed?" The Prophet (ﷺ) replied, "Finish the Ihraam completely.".

Commentary : Tamattu’ in Hajj means entering into ihraam for `Umrah during the months of Hajj, completing it and then exiting the state of ihram before subsequently entering ihraam for Hajj during the same year. After arriving at Makkah during the months of Hajj and completing ‘Umrah, pilgrims may exit their Ihraam and enjoy all that which is lawful until the commencement of the Hajj rites.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) said that Arabs before Islam used to consider performing ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj one of the most heinous sins and forbade performing ‘Umrah until the end of the month of Muharram, and that they would consider the month of Safar one of the forbidden (sacred) months, and reallocate the sanctity of months, whenever they liked, and postponed the sacred months to the end of Safar, which is the condemned practice that Allah mentions in the Quran: {Indeed, the postponing [of restriction within sacred months] is an increase in disbelief} [Quran 9:37]. They used to believe that only after the wounds that appear on the camel's back because of carrying the luggage in their long trips heal up, the traces of their footprints vanish, and the month of Safar expires, which is one of the sacred months because of their reallocation, performing `Umrah becomes permissible for the one who wishes to perform it.
However, when the Prophet ﷺand his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) arrived at Makkah in the morning of the 4th of Thoo al-Hijjah to perform Hajj, he ﷺordered his Companions to perform ‘Umrah and then exit their Ihraam, so they can enjoy all that which is lawful until the time of Hajj begins. As this was against the customary practice that people were used to, they inquired from him whether they are allowed to enjoy all that which is lawful or just part of it. The Prophet ﷺinformed them that exiting their Ihraam would allow them to enjoy all that which is not allowed for them during their Ihraam for ‘Umrah, including intercourse. By this, he ﷺput an end to the customary practices of the people of pre-Islam, namely the reallocation of sacred months and forbidding performing ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj, and established the law of Islam..

1565
Narrated Abu Moosa (may Allah be pleased with him): I met the Prophet (ﷺ)and he ordered him to exit his Ihraam..

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺsent Abu Moosa (may Allah be pleased with him) to Yemen to serve as a judge and teach them religion. When the Prophet ﷺtravelled to perform his farewell Hajj in the 10th year of Hijrah, Abu Moosa (may Allah be pleased with him) left Yemen to Makkah and assumed his Ihraam with an intention like that of the Prophet ﷺ.
In this hadeeth, Abu Moosa (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that he travelled to Makkah from Yemen to join the Prophet ﷺin his Hajj, and that he (may Allah be pleased with him) met the Prophet ﷺin al-Bat-haa’ of Makkah, which is a place that has small pebbles, and it was originally a water stream in the valley of Makkah. The Prophet ﷺordered him and those who do not have Hady with them to exit their Ihraam after completing their ‘Umrah and wait until the Day of Tarwiyah (i.e., the eighth day of Thoo al-Hijjah) to assume a new Ihraam for Hajj. It is reported in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim that the Prophet ﷺasked him if he had Hady, which refers to the sacrificial animals that pilgrims slaughter in the Haram, which includes camels, cows, goats and sheep. He replied that he did not have any Hady with him so he ﷺordered him to perform the rite of Tawaaf round the Ka’bah and the rite of brisk walking between al-Safaa and al-Marwah, and then cut or shave his head to exit his Ihraam. As for the Prophet ﷺ, he had Hady with him, thus he performed Qiraan (i.e., entering Ihraam for both `Umrah and Hajj together as a single rite.)..

1566
Narrated Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (ﷺ): I said: O Messenger of Allah! Why is it that everyone has finished Ihraam and you still have not finished ihram from your ‘Umrah?" He (ﷺ) replied, "I have matted my hair and garlanded my sacrificial animal and will not exit my Ihraam until I have sacrificed the animal.".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺperformed his farewell Hajj in the 10th year of Hijrah and explained its rites verbally and in action and ordered them to learn the rites directly from him.
In this hadeeth, Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, reports that when the Prophet ﷺarrived at Makkah, he ﷺordered those who did not have Hady to make their Ihraam for ‘Umrah instead of Hajj, and to exit their Ihraam after completing the rites of ‘Umrah. They followed the order and on the 8th day of Thoo al-Hijjah (the Day of Tarwiyah), they assumed a new Ihraam for Hajj.
As for the Prophet ﷺand those who had Hady, they maintained their Ihraam. Thereupon, Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) inquired from the Prophet ﷺabout the reason that made him not to exit his Ihraam too although he ﷺordered them to exit their Ihraam. The Prophet ﷺexplained to her that he ﷺbreaded and matted his hair, which is a practice done to keep the hair neat and not dusty, which is something that pilgrims need during Ihraam. Matting the hair takes place after taking the bath and before wearing the clothes of Ihraam.
The Hady refers to the sacrificial animals that pilgrims slaughter in the Haram, which includes camels, cows, goats and sheep, and garlanding the Hady means to put a chain around their neck to serve as a mark that these animals are Hady. With that said, he ﷺclarifies that having the Hady is the reason he ﷺdid not exit Ihraam and that he can only exit it after slaughtering the Hady on the 10th of Thoo Al-Hijjah and during the days of Tashreeq (i.e., the three days after Eid al-Adha).
This hadeeth shows that women used to ask the Prophet ﷺabout what they do not understand in religion..

1567
Narrated Aboo Jamrah, Nasr ibn ‘Imraan ad-Duba’ee: "I intended to perform Hajj-at-Tamattu`, but some people advised me not to do so. I asked Ibn `Abbaas about it and he ordered me to perform Hajj-at- Tammatu'. Later I saw in a dream someone saying to me, 'Hajj-Mabroor and an accepted `Umrah.' I related that dream to Ibn `Abbaas. Thereupon, he (may Allah be pleased with him) said, 'This is the tradition of the Prophet ﷺ.' Then he said to me, 'Stay with me and I shall give you a portion of my property.' " Shu`bah asked Aboo Jamrah, "Why did he do so?" He (Abu Jamrah) said, "Because of the dream which I had seen.".

Commentary : Tamattu’ in Hajj means entering into ihraam for `Umrah during the months of Hajj, completing it and then exiting the state of ihraam before subsequently entering ihraam for Hajj during the same year. After arriving at Makkah during the months of Hajj and completing ‘Umrah, pilgrims may exit their Ihraam and enjoy all that which is lawful until the commencement of the Hajj rites.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi’ee, Nasr ibn ‘Imraan al-Dub’ee reports that he entered Ihraam with the intention of performing Tamattu’ i.e., he entered Ihraam for `Umrah during the months of Hajj. However, some people informed him he should not do it. This happened during the time of ‘Abdullah ibn al-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with them) who used to forbid people from performing Tamattu’ because both ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab and ‘Uthmaan ibn ‘Affaan (may Allah be pleased with them) used to discourage people to perform Tamattu’ and to enter Ihraam with the intention of performing Hajj alone or ‘Umrah alone i.e., each one to perform in a separate journey.
After hearing the objection of people, Nasr ibn ‘Imraan asked Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) about it. He advised him to disregard the objection of people and maintain his intention of Tamattu’, because the Prophet ﷺ ordered his Companions to do Tamattu’ in his farewell Hajj. Afterwards, Nasr related to Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) a dream wherein he saw a man say to him, “This is a Hajj-Mabroor and an accepted `Umrah,” and according to a different version of the hadeeth in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree, it reads: “'Hajj-Mabroor and an accepted `Tamattu’” i.e., the man invoked Allah so that He accepts his Hajj and ‘Umrah. The meaning of Hajj Mabroor is the Hajj that is performed sincerely to Allah alone without being debased with ostentation and flaunting and is not performed using money from unlawful sources. The dream he was a glad tiding to inform him that his action is correct. The Prophet ﷺsaid: "Nothing is left of the prophetism except Al-Mubashshirat." They asked, "What are Al-Mubashshirat?" He replied, "The true good dreams that conveys glad tidings.” [agreed upon].
After he informed Ibn ‘Abbass (may Allah be pleased with him) of his dream, Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him: You have done the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ (i.e., performing Tamattu’) then he asked him to stay over with him and offered him a share of his money because of the true dream he saw that corresponded with the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ, which Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) upheld and advocated.
This hadeeth highlights the cooperation and collaboration of the righteous predecessors on pious and good deeds, and that they acknowledged and praised whoever does good deeds.
It shows that it is permissible to perform Tamattu’ of ‘Umrah with Hajj.
From the other benefits we can conclude from this hadeeth is that we should honour the one who delivers good needs to us, and it shows that the scholar rejoices when he knows that his verdict matches the truth..

1568
Narrated Aboo Shihaab: I left for Makkah for Hajj Tamattu` assuming Ihraam for `Umrah. I reached Makkah three days before the day of Tarwiyah (8th of Thoo al-Hijjah). Some people of Makkah said to me, "Your Hajj will be like the Hajj performed by the people of Makkah (i.e., you will lose the superiority of assuming Ihraam from the Miqaat). I went to `Ataa' asking him his view about it. He said, "Jaabir bin `Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated to me, 'I performed Hajj with Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) on the day when he drove camels with him. The people had assumed Ihraam for Hajj al-Ifraad (i.e., Hajj only). However, the Prophet (ﷺ) ordered them to finish their Ihraam after completing the Tawaaf round the Ka`bah, and the brisk walking between al-Safaa and al-Marwah and to cut short their hair and then to stay there (in Makkah) till the day of Tarwiyah (i.e., 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah) and then to assume Ihraam for Hajj, and they were ordered to make the Ihraam with which they had come as for `Umrah only. They asked, 'How can we make it `Umrah (Tamattu`) as we have intended to perform Hajj?' The Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'Do what I have ordered you. Had I not brought the Hady with me, I would have done the same, but I cannot finish my Ihraam till the Hady reaches its destination (i.e., is slaughtered).' So, they did (what he ordered them to do).".

Commentary : Tamattu’ in Hajj means entering into ihraam for `Umrah during the months of Hajj, completing it and then exiting the state of ihraam before subsequently entering ihraam for Hajj during the same year. After arriving at Makkah during the months of Hajj and completing ‘Umrah, pilgrims may exit their Ihraam and enjoy all that which is lawful until the commencement of the Hajj rites.
In this hadeeth, the Taab’iee, Aboo Shihaab, ‘Abd Rabbih ibn Naafi’ reports that he arrived at Makkah with the intention of performing ‘Umrah and Hajj in two separate Ihraam (i.e., to perform ‘Umrah first then exit Ihraam, so he later enters Ihraam to perform Hajj). He arrived at Makkah 3 days before the day of Tarwiyah, which takes place in the 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah. The word Tarwiyah in Arabic is derived from a word which means drinking, and the reason this day is called the Day of al-Tarwiyah is that pilgrims on this day prepare their water supply and allow their camels to drink enough water before heading towards the Arafah.
However, some of the residents of Makkah informed him that he is considered as one of the residents of Makkah who do not need to enter Ihraam from a particular Miqaat and enter Ihraam from where they are in Makkah i.e., he loses the virtue of entering Ihraam from the Miqaat. Upon hearing this, he consulted ‘Ataa’ ibn Abee Rabaah, the known Taabi’ee, to know whether this is true or not. ‘Ataa informed him that Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed him that he performed Hajj with the Prophet ﷺin the farewell Hajj in the 10th year of Hijrah, when he ﷺdrive the camels with him from al-Madeenah to Makkah. The camels mentioned here refer to the Hady, which is the term used to refer to the camels, cows, goats, and sheep that pilgrims bring along with them to slaughter in the Haram. He (may Allah be pleased with him) added that they entered Ihraam with the intention of performing Hajj only. However, after they arrived at Makkah, the Prophet ﷺordered them to complete the rites of ‘Umarh then exit their Ihraam, so they can enjoy all that a person who is in a state of Ihram cannot enjoy, including intercourse with wives, and to remain in this state until the Day of Tarwiyah on 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah. On that day, he ﷺordered them to enter Ihraam for Hajj and to head towards ‘Arafah.
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet ﷺ 'How could they make it `Umrah while they intended to perform Hajj!’ He ﷺordered them to comply with his order and mentioned to him that he would have performed ‘Umrah and finished his Ihraam and waited till the Hajj time like them, but that would not be allowed, and he cannot perform any of the things that a Mahram cannot do until the Hady are slaughtered in Minaa on the 10th of Thoo al-Hijjah. Thereupon, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) complied immediately and acted upon his order.
By this, the Prophet ﷺdenounced and ended the practices of pre-Islam that did not allow ‘Umrah in the months of Hajj and established the law of Islam that gives people room in the matters of ‘Umrah and Hajj.
This hadeeth shows that it is permissible to perform ‘Umrah in the months of Hajj and highlights the obedience of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to the Prophet ﷺ. .

1570
Narrated Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him): We travelled with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ [to perform Hajj. We recited the Talbiyah upon putting on the Ihraam, saying: “O Allah! Here I am [at your service]; O Allah! Here I am. Here I am [at your service], intending Hajj.” Afterwards, the Prophet ﷺordered us to make it ‘Umrah..

Commentary : Tamattu’ in Hajj means entering into ihraam for `Umrah during the months of Hajj, completing it and then exiting the state of ihraam before subsequently entering ihraam for Hajj during the same year. After arriving at Makkah during the months of Hajj and completing ‘Umrah, pilgrims may exit their Ihraam and enjoy all that which is lawful until the commencement of the Hajj rites.
In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that he travelled with the Prophet ﷺin his journey to perform the farewell Hajj in the 10th year of Hijrah. He explained that they assumed their Ihraam and recited the Talibyah for Hajj but later the Prophet ﷺordered them to break their Ihraam and make it for ‘Umrah only and enter Ihraam again for Hajj when its rites begin. The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) complied to his order and acted upon it.
The reports in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim clarifies that he ﷺordered those who did not drive the Hady with them in this journey to finish their Ihraam after performing the rites of ‘Umrah, namely Tawaaf round the Ka’bah and brisk walking between al-Safaa and Marwah and cutting or shaving the hair. Then, he ﷺordered them to enter Ihraam for Hajj on the 8th day of Thoo al-Hijjah and complete the rites.
By this, the Prophet ﷺdenounced and ended the practices of pre-Islam that did not allow ‘Umrah in the months of Hajj and established the law of Islam that gives people room in the matters of ‘Umrah and Hajj.
This hadeeth highlights the obedience of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to the Prophet ﷺ..

1571
Narrated ‘Imraan (may Allah be pleased with him): We performed Hajj al-Tamattu’ during the time of the Prophet ﷺand the Quran revealed [that it is valid and legitimate], and whatever a person said regarding it was his personal opinion..

Commentary : There are three ways for performing Hajj: (1) Tamattu’: It is when the pilgrim enters the state of Ihraam with the intention to perform ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj, namely Shawwaal, Thoo al-Qa’dah, and Thoo al-Hijjah. And after completing the ‘Umrah, he exits his Ihraam and then enters the Ihraam again in the same year to perform Hajj. (2) Al-Qiraan: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform both ‘Umrah and Hajj together. (3) Al-Ifraad: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform Hajj only.
In this hadeeth, ‘Imraan ibn Husayn (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that they performed Hajj al-Tammttu’ during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺand the Quran revealed that it is valid and legitimate. Allah, Most High, said: {And when you are secure, then whoever performs ʿUmrah [during the Hajj months] followed by Hajj [offers] what can be obtained with ease of sacrificial animals.} [Quran 2:196]. Nothing in the Quran was revealed to forbid it and the Prophet ﷺnever prohibit it during his lifetime; thus, the ruling cannot be abrogated regardless of the personal opinions of people i.e., those who uphold it is allowed and those who uphold it should be avoided. This is because saying that it is recommended to perform Hajj alone (i.e., Hajj al-Ifraad) does not abrogate that which the Prophet ﷺestablished i.e., Hajj al-Qiraan and Hajj al-Tamattu’.
The first one who discouraged people to perform Hajj al-Tamattu’ was ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) during his ruling, and ‘Uthmaan ibn ‘Affaan upheld the same view during his ruling too. Their discouragement was not intended to mean it was invalid but rather to encourage people to attain the reward of Ifraad, so they can visit the Ka’bah more than once i.e., to travel to perform Hajj and travel again to perform ‘Umrah, each one separately.
This hadeeth shows that the Companions differed in concluding some rulings and that the Mujtahid amongst them objected to each other relying on textual evidence.
It also confirms the fiqh rule: “No Ijtihaad is allowed when textual evidence is established.”.

1572
Ibn 'Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) received a question regarding Hajj al-Tamattu' to which he responded: "The Emigrants, the Ansaar, and the wives of the Prophet(ﷺ) and all those who joined them in the farewell Hajj, assumed our Ihraam with the intention of performing Hajj only. However, when we reached Makkah, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Give up your intention of doing the Hajj (at this moment) and perform 'Umrah, except those who had garlanded the Hady." So, we performed Tawaaf round the Ka'bah and [brisk walking] between As-safaa and Al-Marwah, slept with our wives and wore ordinary (stitched) clothes. The Prophet (ﷺ) added, "Whoever has garlanded his Hady is not allowed to finish the Ihraam till the Hady has reached its destination (has been sacrificed)." Then on the night of Tarwiyah (8th Thoo al-Hijjah, in the afternoon) he ﷺordered us to assume Ihraam for Hajj and when we have performed all the rites of Hajj, we came and performed Tawaaf round the Ka'bah and (brisk walking) between al-Safaa and al-Marwah, and then our Hajj was complete, and we had to sacrifice a Hady according to the statement of Allah: {He must slaughter a Hady such as he can afford, but if he cannot afford it, he should observe fasts three days during the Hajj and seven days after his return} (Quran 2:196] and that is after returning to their homelands. And the sacrifice of the sheep is sufficient. So, the Prophet (ﷺ) and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) offered the two rites, (i.e., Hajj and 'Umrah) in one year. Indeed, Allah revealed (the permissibility) of such practice in His Book and it is in the Sunnah of His Prophet (ﷺ) and he ﷺrendered it permissible for all the people except those living in Makkah. Allah says: {This is for him whose family is not present at the Al-Masjid-Al-Haram, (i.e., non-resident of Makkah).}
The months of Hajj which Allah mentioned in His book are: Shawwaal, Thoo al-Qa'dah and Thoo al-Hijjah. Whoever performed Hajj-al-Tamattu' in those months, then slaughtering [a sacrificial animal] or fasting is compulsory for him.
The words: Rafath means intercourse, Fusooq means all kinds of sin, and Jidaal means to argue and dispute..

Commentary : There are three ways for performing Hajj: (1) Tamattu’: It is when the pilgrim enters the state of Ihraam with the intention to perform ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj, namely Shawwaal, Thoo al-Qa’dah, and Thoo al-Hijjah. And after completing the ‘Umrah, he exits his Ihraam and then enters the Ihraam again in the same year to perform Hajj. (2) Al-Qiraan: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform both ‘Umrah and Hajj together. (3) Al-Ifraad: It is when the pilgrim enters the Ihraam with the intention to perform Hajj only.
In this hadeeth, Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) answers a question that was posed to him about Tamattu’ in Hajj. He (may Allah be pleased with him) mentioned to the questioner that the Emigrants, the Ansaar, the wives of the Prophet ﷺ, and all the people who accompanied them in the farewell Hajj recited the Talbiyah aloud intending Hajj only. The reason it was called the farewell Hajj is because the Prophet ﷺaddressed the people in his sermons in this journey, which occurred in the 10th year of Hijrah, as if he is about to depart this life. However, when they arrived at Makkah, the Prophet ﷺordered those who did not drive Hady with them to change their intention to ‘Umrah instead of Hajj – to oppose the practices of people before Islam who used to prohibit people to perform ‘Umrah in the months of Hajj. As for those who had garlanded their Hady, they were ordered to maintain their Ihraam for Hajj and never exit Ihraam except after they complete all the rites of Hajj.
The Hady refers to the camels, cows, sheep, and goats that are offered as a sacrifice and slaughtered in the Haram, and the garlanding is done by putting a necklace or chain around the neck of the Hady to distinguish them and mark them as the Hady. Those who were ordered to change their Ihraam, performed the rites of Tawaaf round the Ka’bah, brisk walking between al-Safaa and al-Marwah, cut or shaved their hair and exited their Ihraam; thus, were able to have intercourse with their wives and wear ordinary clothes that people who are in state of Ihraam are not allowed to wear. As for those who garlanded their Hady and maintained their Ihraam for Hajj, they were not allowed to do anything from that which is not allowed for people who are in the state of Ihraam until the Hady is slaughtered in Minaa in the 10th day of Thoo al-Hijjah and during the days of Tashreeq (i.e., the 3 days of Eid al-Adhah).
On the 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah, in the evening of the Day of Tarwiyah, the Prophet ﷺthen ordered those who completed ‘Umrah and exited their Ihraam to assume Ihraam for Hajj from Makkah, and after completing the rites of Hajj, namely standing on ‘Arafah, passing the night in Muzdalifah, throwing the stones, shaving or cutting hair, to perform Tawaaf round the Ka’bah (i.e., Tawaaf al-Ifaadah) and do the brisk walking between al-Safaa and al-Marwah to conclude their Hajj. Due to their Tamattu’, the Prophet ﷺobliged them to slaughter a sacrificial animal because Allah, Most High, says: {whoever performs ʿUmrah [during the Hajj months] followed by Hajj [offers] what can be obtained with ease of sacrificial animals.} [Quran 2:196]. The pilgrim has the option to slaughter a camel, cow, goat, or sheep. This is considered a compensatory sacrifice that the pilgrim who offered it is not permitted to eat from it. If he could not afford it, then he is obliged to fast 10 days, the first 3 days during Hajj time and the other 7 days after completing Hajj and returning to their homelands and place of residence, which is the interpretation of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) to the part in the ayah that says: “{…and seven days after his return} (Quran 2:196]. it is better to fast the 3 days before the day in which pilgrims stand on ‘Arafah, because it is recommended for pilgrims not to fast on that day.
After, he (may Allah be pleased with him) mentions that slaughtering a sheep or a goat suffices as a compensation animal, thereby, the pilgrims who performed Tamattu’ performed both ‘Umrah and Hajj in the same year. This practice is mentioned in the Quran as Allah, Most High, says: {then whoever performs ʿUmrah during the Hajj months followed by Hajj} [Quran 2:196] and is prescribed by the Prophet ﷺwhen he ﷺordered his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to do it. The Prophet ﷺallowed people to perform Tamattu’ (i.e., perform ‘Umrah in the months of Hajj) because at that time people believed it to be prohibited and a heinous sin. As such, those who performed Tamattu’ are obliged to offer a compensation sacrifice (i.e., Hady) unless they were from the residents of Makkah. This is because the residents of Makkah are not obliged to offer a compensation sacrifice; Allah, Most High, says: {These offerings are for those who do not live near the Sacred House} [Quran 2:196] i.e., those who live from the Sacred House at a distance that allows one to shorten the prayer. The months of Hajj which Allah mentioned in the Quran are: Shawwaal, Thoo al-Qa’dah, and Thoo al-Hijjah, thus, whoever performed Tamattu’ in these months is obliged to slaughter an animal as a compensation sacrifice, and if the pilgrim could not afford it, then he needs to fast 3 days during Hajj time and 7 days after returning to his place of residence and homeland.
Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) then offered his interpretation of the Statement of Allah: {Whoever commits to ˹performing˺ pilgrimage, let them stay away from Rafath, fusooq, and Jidaal during pilgrimage.} [Quran 2:197] He said: Rafath is intercourse, fusooq is sins, and Jidaal arguing and disputing with others. This is to say, he who enters Ihraam for Hajj in the months of Hajj, he must not engage in intimate relationships and intercourse, and it is more emphasised that he should avoid sins due to the special virtue of the place and time (Haram of Makkah and months of Hajj), and refrain from arguments that lead to dispute and enmity..

1573
Narrated Naafi’: On reaching the sanctuary of Makkah, Ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) used to stop reciting the Talbiyah and then he would pass the night at Dhee Tiwaa and then offer the Fajr prayer and take a bath. He (may Allah be pleased with him) used to say that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to do the same..

Commentary : ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was known of being so keen on following the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺin all his actions and conditions. He (may Allah be pleased with him) used to stop reciting the Talbiyah upon arriving at the beginning of the sanctuary of Makkah (Haram). The words of Talbiyah are: “Labbayka Allahumma Labayk, Labbayaka Laa Shareeka Laka Labbayk, Inna al-Hamda wal Ni’mata Laka wal Mulk, Laa Shareeka Lak”. It is possible that he would stop reciting it completely or resume it later and then stop reciting it on the day of ‘Eid when starting the rite of throwing stones since at that point of time he would start the process of finishing Ihraam. It is said that the reason Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) stopped reciting the Talbiyah upon arriving at the beginning of the Haram is because he believed pilgrims at the Haram should be glorified and exalted because the Talbiyah is no longer needed upon arriving at the intended place mentioned in it. The way he stopped reciting the Talbiyah was by engaging in other acts of worship and rites like Tawaaf and so on.
After, he would pass the night at Dhee Tiwaa, which is a valley near Makkah located at the borders of Makkah and is known today in the name of al-Zaahir. The well of Dhoo Tiwaa is situated in this valley next to al-Baydaa’, the house of Muhammad ibn Sayf. Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) used to spend the night there and pray Fajr there before taking a bath to prepare himself for entering Makkah during daytime.
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) used to relate that the Prophet ﷺused to do the same i.e., stops reciting the Talbiyah, spends the night, prays Fajr, and takes a bath at Dhee Tiwaa. It is possible that he (may Allah be pleased with him) intended to refer to bathing there only. According to this narration, the Prophet ﷺspent the night at Dhee Tiwaa and entered Makkah during the daytime. However, this is not considered obligatory because it has been proven authentic that the Prophet ﷺentered Makkah during nighttime and entered Ihraam for ‘Umrah from al-Ji’raanah. While these are not from the rites of Hajj, but it clarifies the places at which he ﷺused to stay.
This hadeeth shows that the Sunnah is to take a bath before entering Makkah and to enter it during daytime..

1575
Narrated Naafi’ that Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to enter Makkah from the high Thaniyya and used to leave Makkah from the low Thaniyyah..

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) loved the Prophet ﷺwholeheartedly and followed his example in all their actions; thus, they ensured to describe and relate all his actions in every place he travelled to.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah ﷺwould enter Makkah from the high Thaniyyah, which is the area from which people descend to the cemetery of the people of Makkah, alias al-Ma’laah. It is situated next to al-Muhassab in the area of Kadaa, which is also known as al-Hajoon. It used to be an area that it is too difficult to climb and walk on, but then it was paved. And when he ﷺwanted to depart Makkah, he ﷺwould leave from the low Thaniyyah. The name of this area today is Kudaa and it has been paved, and the main road of the area leads to Jarwal.
The word Thaniyyah in Arabic means an obstacle that is in a mountain or a high road. The reason he ﷺliked to enter from the high Thaniyyah and leave from the low Thaniyyah as each one is the best route to his intended destination. It was said that the Prophet ﷺdid that was because he ﷺliked not to use the same road for entering and leaving, out of optimism and hope that conditions will change to better just like it was his guidance in going to Eid prayer (i.e., he would go from one road and return from another) so both roads testify to his deed and the people on these roads enjoy his blessings..

1579
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Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) loved the Prophet ﷺwholeheartedly and followed his example in all their actions; thus, they ensured to describe and relate all his actions in every place he travelled to.
In this hadeeth, ‘Aaishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that the Prophet # entered Makkah on the day it was conquered from the high thaniyyah, which is situated near Kadaa’ where people ascend from it to the cemetery of the people of Makkah, alias al-Ma’laah, near al-Muhassab – also known as al-Hajoon. It was a bumpy and rough path that was difficult to climb, but now it is made accessible and paved. The wisdom behind choosing to enter Makkah from the high place is to show his glorification to the place and to leave Makkah from the lower place is to show detest for leaving it. It is said that as the Prophet ﷺleft Makkah in disguise, he wanted to enter it from a notable visible place. It is also said that the wisdom behind entering from the high place is that through it, he enters Makkah facing the House.
Hishaam ibn ‘Urwah mentioned that his father ‘Urwah ibn al-Zubayr used to enter Makkah from two different places, from the area of Kadaa’ which the Prophet ﷺused to enter Makkah, and from Kudaa which is down the road of Makkah, a.k.a. the lower Thaniyyah, which has been paved and it has been paved and is on the main road leading to Jarwal..

1582
Narrated Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (ra): “When the Ka`bah was built, the Prophet (ﷺ) and al-`Abbaas (ra) went to bring stones (for its construction). Al- `Abbaas said to the Prophet (ﷺ), "Take off your waist sheet and put it on your neck." (When the Prophet (ﷺ) took it off) he fell on the ground with his eyes open towards the sky and said, "Give me my waist sheet." And then he (ﷺ) tied his waist sheet round his waist.”.

Commentary : Allah, Exalted be He, has protected the Prophet ﷺand looked after him since he was born and from before he ﷺwas entrusted to the revelation. Allah made him free from every defect and shortcoming, and this hadeeth gives an example of how Allah protected and looked after the Prophet ﷺ.
In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (ra) reports that the Prophet ﷺ a helped Quraysh in rebuilding the Ka’bah as he participated in carrying the stones. This event took place long time before he became a Prophet i.e., he was 15 years old at that time.
At that time, he was wearing a waist sheet (Izaar) that covered the lower half of his body from waist to down while he ﷺwas carrying the stones. His uncle, al-‘Abbaas (ra), suggested that he should take off his waist sheet and put it on his neck to protect his body from the stones he carried. He ﷺfollowed his advice but once he did that, he ﷺfell down on the ground as he could not stand the showing of his private parts and falling off was more covering to his body. This is because Allah adorned in him with perfect shyness and implanted in his nature all best qualities.
This incident manifests the protection that Allah bestowed upon the Prophet ﷺand how He enabled him to uphold the best character. After falling down, he ﷺasked his uncle to hand him his waist sheet and so he did. Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺtied his waist sheet round his waist.
From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is learning the virtue of partaking in the building of the Ka’bah.
This hadeeth shows that we should always be keen on covering the body parts that we are not allowed to show in the presence of others..

1583
Narrated ‘Aaishah (raa): Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Don't you see that when your people built the Ka’bah, they shortened from Ibraaheem’s foundations?" I said, "O Allah's Messenger! Why don't you restore it to Ibraaheem’s foundations?" He (ﷺ) said, "Were your people not so close to infidelity, then I would do so." The sub-narrator, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (ra) said, “If ‘Aaishah (raa) has heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying that, I do not think that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) left touching the two corners of the Ka’bah, facing Al-Hijr except because it was not built on all the foundations of Ibraaheem.”
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Commentary : The honourable Ka’bah is the House of Allah on earth, and the direction (Qiblah) of the Muslims in their prayers, which Allah, Exalted be He, has glorified its status by making it a destination for pilgrimage and the place to which hearts [of all believers] incline.
In this hadeeth ‘Aaishah raa relates that the Prophet ﷺexplained to her that Quraysh did not build the Ka’bah on all of the foundations that Prophet Ibraheem (peace be upon him) constructed, for they excluded the Hijr! This was due to the lack of lawful funds that they managed to collect, since they stipulated that the money used to build the Ka’bah must be from the most lawful money, and that no money earned from unlawful resources to be used. In response, ‘Aaishah raa asked the Prophet ﷺ: “Would you not restore it to the foundations of Prophet Ibraaheem (peace be upon him)?” She intended thereby that he ﷺdemolishes the current building upon which the foundations are built and then re-builds it in a structure that accommodates all the foundations. However, the Prophet ﷺtold her that had it not been for the closest time of Quraysh to disbelief (i.e., had not the people of Quraysh been new to Islam), he ﷺwould have restored it to the foundations of Prophet Ibraaheem (peace be upon him), and he ﷺwould have built it anew on all its foundations.
The description of the construction of Ibraaheem (peace be upon him) of the House was that it was curved around the two corners of al-Rukn ash-Shaamee and al-Rukn al-‘Iraaqee; thus, the Hijr of Ismaa’eel was a part of it, and it had two corners, which are the two Yamaanee corners. But when Quraysh built it in the pre-Islamic era, they made four corners for it, and placed the Hijr of Ismaa’eel behind it, as they wanted to perfectly complete the circumambulation of the Ka’bah, and it is in the form of a semi-circle adjoining the two corners, al-Rukn al-Shaamee and al-Rukn al-‘Iraaqee.  Hence, al-Hijr is part of the Ka’bah.
‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar ra commented on this hadeeth by saying: “If ‘Aaishah (raa) heard this from the Prophet ﷺ.” This is neither intended to doubt her statement nor to weaken her report, for she is after all a mastered memoriser. However, doubt-based statements have normally occurred within the speech of the Arabs for the purpose of confirmation i.e., he (ra) wanted to acknowledge her statement. Then, he (ra) goes on to say that this explains the reason the Messenger of Allah ﷺrefrained from kissing or touching the two corners to derive blessing from them, which are adjacent to the Hijr, and are called al-Rukn al-Shaamee and al-Rukn al-‘Iraaqee.  He ﷺonly did it with the other two corners i.e., al-Rukn al-Yamaanee and al-Rukn al-Shaamee.
From the benefits that we can conclude from this hadeeth is that it serves as evidence for perpetrating the lesser of two evils to repel the greater of them. This is because the harm done from making no changes to the construction of the Ka’bah is lesser than the dissension that may be caused by this and having some Muslims turning away from Islam.
This hadeeth shows that it is permissible to deal tactfully with people in matters of religion - other than the obligatory acts - by leaving and removing from the people that which they deny (i.e., things they view as the norm and not aware of its opposite).
It defines that which can be touched and kissed from the Ka’bah, namely the Black Stone and the Yamaanee Corner, and not others..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..