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It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “There should be no envy except in two cases: a man to whom Allah has given wealth, and he is given authority over it to spend it in appropriate ways; and a man to whom Allah has given wisdom, so he judges in accordance with it and teaches it to others.”.

Commentary : Envy (hasad) is of two types, the first of which is blameworthy envy which is prohibited according to Islamic teaching. This refers to when a man wishes that a blessing be taken away from his brother, regardless of whether the envier has it or not. The second type is permissible envy, which is positive envy (ghibtah). What this means is that a man sees a blessing that someone else has, and he wishes that he could have something similar, without wishing that it be taken away from his brother. If that positive envy concerns worldly matters such as good health, physical strength, status or children, then it is permissible. If it concerns a religious matter – such as beneficial knowledge, or wealth from lawful sources, then it is encouraged according to Islamic teachings. Here the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that envy cannot be praiseworthy or encouraged according to Islamic teachings except in two cases, the first of which is when there is a wealthy, pious man to whom Allah has granted halal wealth, so he spends it to benefit himself and others, and to please his Lord, on various charitable causes, so the person wishes to be like him and he envies him [ghibtah] for this blessing.
The second case is when there is a wise, knowledgeable man to whom Allah has granted beneficial knowledge that he acts upon, teaches to others and judges between people on the basis of his knowledge and wisdom, so the person wishes that he could be like him.
This hadith indicates that if a rich man fulfils the conditions of having wealth, and uses it in ways that please Allah, then he is better than a poor person.
It also highlights the virtue of knowledge and of learning it.
And it highlights the validity of competing in doing good, and indicates that we are urged to do that..

It was narrated from ‘Ubaydullah ibn ‘Abdillah from Ibn ‘Abbas from Ibn ‘Abbas that he disagreed with al-Hurr ibn Qays ibn Hisn al-Fazari about the companion of Musa. Ibn ‘Abbas said: He was Khadir. Ubayy ibn Ka‘b passed them and Ibn ‘Abbas called him over and said: This friend of mine and I are arguing about the companion of Musa, concerning whom Musa asked his Lord how he could meet him. Did you hear the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say anything about him? He said: Yes, I heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Whilst Musa was with a group of Israelites, a man came to him and said: Do you know anyone more knowledgeable than you? Musa said: No. Then Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) revealed to Musa: Nay; Our slave Khadir [is more knowledgeable than you]. Musa asked how he could meet him, so Allah made the fish a sign for him. It was said to him: When you lose the fish, then retrace your steps, for you will meet him there. And he was following the path of the fish in the sea. His servant said to Musa: {Did you see when we retired to the rock? Indeed, I forgot [there] the fish. And none made me forget it except Satan - that I should mention it} [al-Kahf 18:63]. Musa said: {“That is what we were seeking.” So they returned, following their footprints} [al-Kahf 18:64]. There they found Khadir, after which the events narrated in the Qur’an took place.” .

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) differed concerning some issues of knowledge, according to what each of them knew, whilst paying attention to proper etiquette, each of them showing due respect to others and appreciating their brothers’ knowledge. One example of this is when the two Companions, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas and al-Hurr ibn Qays (may Allah be pleased with them both) disagreed concerning the companion of Musa (peace be upon him) who is mentioned in the verse {And they found a servant from among Our servants to whom we had given mercy from us and had taught him from Us a [certain] knowledge. Moses said to him, “May I follow you on [the condition] that you teach me from what you have been taught of sound judgement?”} [al-Kahf 18:65-66]. The view of Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) was that this was al-Khadir, and this was the view in which Ubayy ibn Ka‘b supported him, based on what he had heard from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about the story of Musa and al-Khadir (peace be upon them both). So he told him that he had heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saying that when Allah’s Prophet Musa was with a group of Israelites, a man came to him and asked him: Do you know of anyone more knowledgeable than you on earth? Based on his own opinion, Musa denied that there was anyone more knowledgeable than him, because he was a Prophet who received revelation. But Allah rebuked him for not referring the matter to Him, as is narrated in Sahih Muslim. It was said that this was a rebuke to Musa (peace be upon him) and a lesson for those who came after him, so that no one else would follow him in praising himself and being filled with self-admiration, and thus be doomed. Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) revealed to him: There is someone who is more knowledgeable than you, to whom Allah has given knowledge other than that which He revealed to you. He is a person whose name is Khadir. So Musa asked: How can I meet him? Allah made the fish a sign for him, to show him where al-Khadir was, so that he could meet him. It was said to him: When you lose the fish on the seashore, then retrace your steps, for you will meet him. That was when Musa asked how he could meet al-Khadir. Allah (may He be exalted) said: Look for him on the shore, near the rock. He said: O Lord, how can I reach him? He said: Take a fish in a basket, and where you lose it, he will be there. It was said that he took a salted fish, and said to his servant: When you lose the fish, tell me.
The phrase “And he was following the path of the fish in the sea” means: he was looking at it whilst he was on the shore, walking alongside it, until he reached al-Khadir. It does not mean that he was literally following its path in the sea. And it was said that Musa met al-Khadir on an island in the sea, and to reach that island one must travel by sea. And it was said that the pronoun in the phrase “he was following” refers to the servant of Musa, Yusha‘ ibn Nun. That was because Musa (peace be upon him) had said to him: When you lose the fish, tell me, because it was the sign of where he would meet al-Khadir.
The servant said to Musa, as Allah (may He be exalted) tells us: {Did you see when we retired to the rock? Indeed, I forgot [there] the fish. And none made me forget it except Satan - that I should mention it} [al-Kahf 18:63]. After they had rested beside the sea, the servant forgot the fish, then they travelled on for a while. When the servant remembered that, he told Musa (peace be upon him) about it, and Musa said to him: {“That is what we were seeking.” So they returned, following their footprints} [al-Kahf 18:64]. So they retraced their steps until they reached the place where they had lost the fish, and there they found Khadir, after which there happened the events of which Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) tells us in His Book, in Surat al-Kahf.
After that, it became clear to Musa how great al-Khadir’s knowledge was, which was based on what Allah had taught him of the unseen, and the events that took place by Allah’s decree, which none of the Prophets knew except what they were taught about by the Creator (may He be glorified and exalted).
In this hadith, we see that one should put up with some hardship for the sake of seeking knowledge and learning more, and acknowledge the status of the one who is more knowledgeable.
We also see that disagreeing about some issues of knowledge, if each person is seeking to learn the truth without being stubborn, is something permissible.
This hadith also indicates that in the event of disagreement, we should refer to people of knowledge, and that it is essential to show humility towards knowledge and people of knowledge.
It also indicates that one should take provisions when travelling.
And it indicates that the knowledgeable person should not become too proud of his knowledge..

It was narrated that Ibn ‘Abbas said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) embraced me and said: “O Allah, give him knowledge and understanding of the Book.”.

Commentary : Our Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) always set the best and most sublime example of mercy, love and compassion with his relatives and companions (may Allah be pleased with them).
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) embraced him and hugged him, then he prayed for him, saying: “O Allah, give him knowledge and understanding of the Book.” In other words, teach him the Qur’an and enable him to memorize it, understand it, explain it, interpret it and learn fiqh and rulings from it. Allah answered his prayer, and Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) became the most knowledgeable of the ummah, the interpreter of the Qur’an.
The reason for this dua was narrated by al-Bukhari in his Sahih: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) went to relieve himself, and I brought him some water for wudu’. According to one report: When he came out, he said: “Who brought this?” and he was told who had brought it. In Sahih Muslim it is narrated that the Mother of the Believers Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) is the one who told him about that, and that happened in her house one night. Perhaps that was the night on which Ibn ‘Abbas stayed overnight in her house to see how the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed. Ahmad narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) about his standing behind the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) during the night prayer, in which it is narrated: he said to me: “What is the matter? I put you next to me but you step back.” I said: O Messenger of Allah, is it appropriate for anyone to pray next to you, when you are the Messenger of Allah to whom Allah has given abundance? He liked that, so he prayed to Allah to increase me in knowledge and understanding.
In this hadith, we see the blessing of the dua of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and this report also highlights the virtue of ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him), and how he became distinct from others by virtue of this blessed dua, when Allah answered the dua of His Prophet.
This hadith also highlights the virtue of knowledge and encourages us to seek knowledge and to memorize the Qur’an, and to pray for that. .

It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas said: I came riding on a female donkey – and at that time I was approaching the age of puberty – and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was praying in Mina with no wall in front of him. I passed in front of one of the rows, then I let the donkey go and graze, and I joined the row. And no one rebuked me for that..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed the one who is praying to have a barrier (sutrah) in front of him, so that no one will pass in front of him and interrupt his prayer. But in the case of the congregational prayer, the imam is the “barrier” for those who are praying behind him.
In this hadith, Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he came riding on a female donkey. At that time, Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) was a boy who was approaching puberty. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was praying in Mina without a barrier such as a wall and the like. Mina is a valley near the Haram of Makkah where the pilgrims halt to stone the Jamarat. Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) passed in front of one of the rows of worshippers whilst he was riding his donkey, at the time when their imam – namely the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not have a barrier in front of him. Then he left the donkey to eat and graze, and wander among the rows, then he joined the people in the rows and prayed, and no one rebuked him for passing in front of the rows or for letting the donkey pass in front of them, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not interrupt the prayer.
This hadith indicates that the imam is like a barrier for those praying behind him.
It also indicates that it is valid for a young boy who has reached the age of discernment to hear a hadith and narrate it..

It was narrated that Mahmoud ibn al-Rabi‘ said: I remember the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spraying water in my face from a bucket when I was five years old..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the best of people in manners and attitudes, even with little children. He cared for them and would be playful with them. He would let them ride behind him, and teach them so that they would grow up to be true men.
In this hadith, the Sahabi Mahmoud ibn al-Rabi‘ (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he still remembered how the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) sprayed water from his mouth in his face; at that time Mahmoud was a small boy, five years old, but he still remembered that and conveyed it after he grew up.
Spraying water into the child’s face is an example of the Prophet’s playfulness with young children; he showed kindness to them and honoured their fathers by doing that, whilst also teaching the people that being playful with children and family does not undermine the dignity of people of prominence and authority.
The hadith also indicates that he did that so that the child would get blessing (barakah) from him.
It also indicates that it is valid for a child to narrate, if he remembers and understands what he saw and heard..

It was narrated from Abu Musa that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The likeness of that with which Allah has sent me of guidance and knowledge is the likeness of abundant rain that falls on land. Some of it is pure and good land which absorbs the water and brings forth abundant vegetation and plants; some of it is solid, barren land which retains the water [in pools or ponds], so that Allah benefits the people thereby, as they drink from it, give water to their livestock and irrigate crops with it. And some of the rain falls on another type of land, which is nothing but flat, barren land which does not retain the water or produce vegetation. The first one is the likeness of one who understands issues of religion, so he benefits from that with which Allah sent me, thus he learns it and teaches others. The second is the likeness of the one who pays no attention to it and does not accept the guidance of Allah with which I was sent.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was the best educator. He often used to give simple yet eloquent likenesses through which the ideas that he wanted to convey would be transmitted and take root in people’s minds. In this hadith, he likened guidance, the ways that lead to Allah, and Islamic knowledge that is based on the Book of Allah (may He be exalted) and the Sunnah of His Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to abundant rain that falls on different types of land. The first type is fertile land that is free of nuisance insects and worms that destroy crops. This land receives the water and absorbs the rain, then it produces abundant vegetation. This is the likeness of the knowledgeable person who has deep understanding of the religion of Allah, acts upon what he knows, and teaches others. This is the highest level of guidance.
The second type is barren land that retains [but does not absorb] the water. This is solid land on which vegetation does not grow, so it is like huge reservoirs which collect and hold the water, and become a source for others. The people benefit from it, as they drink, give water to their livestock and irrigate fertile land with this water. Even though this land does not benefit from the rain itself, it benefits others, humans, animals and other types of land. This is the likeness of people who are able to memorize, but their minds are not sharp enough to derive meanings and rulings, and they do not strive to put what they learn into practice. Thus they memorize and preserve information until people of knowledge come along who are able to benefit from it, so they learn it from them and thus benefit others through what they convey to them. And it was said that the likeness of this land is that of the knowledgeable person who teaches others, but does not act upon his knowledge himself, so he is like a candle which gives light to others but burns itself.
The third type is the plains, which are vast tracts of flat land. It was also said that it is smooth land, or land that has no vegetation. This is what is referred to in the hadith: salt flats in which nothing grows and which do not retain water. Thus they do not benefit from the rain themselves, nor do they benefit any other land, because they are flat and have no vegetation. This is the worst type of land; it is the likeness of the ignorant Muslim, or the knowledgeable Muslim who does not act upon his knowledge or teach anyone else. This is what is meant by the words “who pays no attention to it.” Or it may refer to the disbelievers who do not enter Islam in the first place, and this is what is meant by the words “[he] does not accept the guidance of Allah.”
This hadith highlights the virtue of one who learns, acts upon his knowledge and teaches it to others.
It also indicates that it is blameworthy to turn away from knowledge..

It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “One of the portents of the Hour is that knowledge will be taken away, ignorance will become widespread, much alcohol will be drunk and zina will become prevalent.”.

Commentary : The time of the onset of the Hour is not known to anyone except Allah (may He be glorified and exalted). Nevertheless, He has ordained signs which will indicate that it is close at hand, so that the Muslim may be careful and strive to prepare for that momentous Day.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that one of the signs of the approach of the Hour is that beneficial knowledge that is accompanied by righteous deeds will be taken away with the death of knowledgeable people, not by means of it being erased from people’s hearts. Then the people will follow ignorant leaders who will speak about religious issues on the basis of their own personal views, and they will issue fatwas that are based on ignorance. Thus ignorance will prevail and spread among the people, and that will result in people no longer having fear of Allah in their hearts. So a great deal of alcohol will be drunk, and it will become widespread among people despite the fact that it is forbidden. Allah (may He be exalted) says: {O you who have believed, indeed, intoxicants, gambling, [sacrificing on] stone altars [to other than Allah], and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid it that you may be successful } [al-Ma’idah 5:90]. The word khamr (intoxicants) comes from a root meaning to cover. It is so called because it covers the mind so that one cannot think properly, as a result of that the drinker falls into sins that lead to doom.
Another sign of the approach of the Hour is that zina (unlawful sexual relationships) and shameful deeds will become widespread, as mentioned in the report of Muslim, and they will become very clearly prevalent, even though Allah has forbidden them, as He says: {And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse} [al-Isra’ 17:32].
It is as if these things are singled out for mention because they indicate that matters are getting out of hand, which if they are brought under control, will be a cause of well-being in this world and the hereafter. The first is religion, because the taking away of knowledge will undermine religion. The second is reason, because it is undermined by consuming intoxicants. The third is lineage, because it is undermined by zina. The undermining of these three things indicates that the world is heading towards ruin.
This hadith indicates that Allah (may He be exalted) has already decreed that the ruin of life on earth will come once mischief and corruption become prevalent and widespread.
It also indicates that we are urged to acquire knowledge, for it will not be taken away except through the death of knowledgeable people.
This hadith is one of the signs of the prophethood of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). .

It was narrated from Qatadah that Anas ibn Malik said: I will surely tell you of something that no one will tell you after me. I heard the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “One of the portents of the Hour is that knowledge will become rare and ignorance will prevail; zina will become widespread; and there will be many women and few men, to the extent that for fifty women there will be one man to look after them.”.

Commentary : No one knows exactly when the Hour will begin except Allah (may He be glorified and exalted). Nevertheless, He has ordained some signs of its approach, to alert the Muslim so that he may strive to prepare for that momentous Day.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that one of the signs of the approach of the Hour is that Islamic knowledge will become rare on earth, because many scholars will die. Then the people will follow ignorant leaders who will speak about religious issues on the basis of their own personal views, and they will issue fatwas that are based on ignorance. Thus ignorance will prevail among the people, and that will result in no one having fear of Allah in their hearts. Zina (unlawful sexual relationships) and shameful deeds will become widespread, as mentioned in the report of Muslim, and they will become clearly prevalent, even though Allah has forbidden them, as He says: {And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse} [al-Isra’ 17:32].
Another of the signs that the Day of Resurrection is approaching is that the numbers of women will increase exponentially in comparison with the numbers of men, as few males will be born, whereas many females will be born, or the number of men may be reduced as a result of wars and conquests, until fifty women will only be able to find one man to be in charge of them, sponsor them and look after their affairs.
It is as if these five things are singled out for mention because they indicate that matters are getting out of hand, which if they are brought under control, will be a cause of well-being in this world and the hereafter. The first is religion, because the taking away of knowledge will undermine religion. The second is reason, because it is undermined by consuming intoxicants. The third is lineage, because it is undermined by zina. As for life and wealth, they will be undermined too, because of overwhelming trials and tribulations, and when all of these things are undermined, this indicates that the world is heading towards ruin.
This hadith indicates that Allah (may He be exalted) has already decreed that the ruin of life on earth will come once mischief and corruption become prevalent and widespread.
In this hadith, we are urged to acquire knowledge, for it will not be taken away except through the death of knowledgeable people.
This hadith is one of the signs of the prophethood of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as he foretold what will happen at the end of time..

It was narrated that Ibn ‘Umar said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Whilst I was sleeping, a vessel of milk was brought to me and I drank until I saw its wetness coming out of my nails. Then I gave my leftovers to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab.” They said, How did you interpret that, O Messenger of Allah? He said, “Knowledge.”.

Commentary : The dreams of the Prophets are true and are revelation from Allah (may He be glorified and exalted). The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would give glad tidings to his companions (may Allah be pleased with them) when he saw a dream.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) saw in a dream that he was given a vessel of milk, and he drank from it to the extent that his thirst was greatly quenched and the moisture of the milk started to come out from his fingers, flowing over his nails, which was an indication that his body had had its needs fully met, to the extent that the surplus came out of him. Then he gave what was left of the milk to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) and he drank it. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) interpreted the milk as signifying knowledge. It is as if that was glad tidings to ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that he would excel in understanding Islamic knowledge and teachings, because he drank from that milk from which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had drunk. This was an indication that ‘Umar would be singled out and distinguished because of extra knowledge that he had. And it was said that milk was interpreted as referring to knowledge because both are very beneficial, and both are a means of well-being. Milk is nourishment for children, and a means of their well-being; moreover, it is a food that maintains physical well-being, and knowledge is a means of well-being in the hereafter and in this world.
This hadith highlights the virtue, honourable status and importance of knowledge for people.
It also highlights the virtue of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him)..

It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr ibn al-‘As that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) halted in Mina during the Farewell Pilgrimage so that the people could ask him questions. A man came to him and said: I did not think, so I shaved my head before slaughtering the sacrifice. He said: “[Go ahead and] slaughter it; there is no problem.” Another man came to him and said: I did not think, so I slaughtered the sacrifice before stoning the Jamrah. He said: “[Go ahead and] stone the Jamrah, and there is no problem. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was not asked about anything that was brought forward or delayed but he said: “[Go ahead and] do it, and there is no problem.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) performed the Farewell Pilgrimage at the end of his life, in 10 AH. During this Hajj, he explained to the people their rituals and the rulings of Hajj, and what was permissible and what was forbidden of both words and deeds during the pilgrimage.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) halted during his pilgrimage, whilst he was riding his mount – as mentioned in a report of Muslim – in Mina, near the Jamrah, after the sun had passed its zenith on the Day of Sacrifice. Mina is a valley surrounded by mountains, located east of Makkah on the road between Makkah and Jabal ‘Arafah. It is approximately six kilometres from al-Masjid al-Haram. It is the place where pilgrims stone the Jamarat and slaughter the sacrificial animals.
On this great occasion, amidst this great crowd, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) halted so that the pilgrims could ask him questions and seek advice about what they needed to know of the rulings of Hajj. That included a man who made a mistake and forgot, so he did not do the rituals in the proper order, as he shaved his head before slaughtering his sacrifice. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) responded: “[Go ahead and] slaughter it; there is no problem” – so there is no sin on you and you do not have to offer a compensatory sacrifice. Another question came from a man who had slaughtered his sacrificial animal before stoning Jamrat al-‘Aqabah. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) answered him: “[Go ahead and] stone it, and there is no problem.”
So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was not asked on that day about any of the actions of Hajj that was brought forward or delayed but he said to the questioner: “[Go ahead and] do it, and there is no problem.” He was not strict with them, no compensatory sacrifice was required of them, and they did not incur any sin for doing one action before another, or delaying it.
This was by way of making things easy for people, because the time of Hajj is a time of hardship, in which people encounter many difficulties and there are many necessary things that are required of the pilgrim, which may force people to do many things without following the proper order. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not insist that people do things in a particular order, for what matters is doing the actions of Hajj, even though it is preferable to follow his example and Sunnah in the manner he told people to do them, as was narrated from him.
This hadith highlights the compassion of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) towards his ummah, as he sought to make it easy for them to do the rituals of Hajj. .

It was narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was asked during his Hajj: I slaughtered my sacrifice before stoning the Jamrah, and he gestured with his hand as if to say, There is no problem. Another person said: I shaved my head before slaughtering my sacrifice, and he gestured with his hand as if to say, There is no problem..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) performed the Farewell Pilgrimage at the end of his life, in 10 AH. During this Hajj, he explained to the people their rituals and the rulings of Hajj, and what was permissible and what was forbidden of both words and deeds during the pilgrimage.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that during his Farewell Pilgrimage, when he was near the Jamrah after the sun had passed its zenith on the Day of Sacrifice, as narrated by al-Bukhari, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was asked questions. On this great occasion, amidst this great crowd, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) halted so that the pilgrims could ask him questions about what they needed to know of the rulings of Hajj. That included a man who made a mistake and forgot, so he did not do the rituals in the proper order, as he slaughtered his sacrifice before stoning Jamrat al-‘Aqabah. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) responded with a gesture to indicate that he approved of what he had done, or he made a gesture and said to him, “There is no problem,” so there is no sin on you and you do not have to offer a compensatory sacrifice. Someone else asked him about his having shaved his head before slaughtering the sacrifice, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) responded with a gesture to indicate that he approved of what he had done, or he made a gesture and said to him, “There is no problem,” so you have nothing to worry about and you do not have to offer a compensatory sacrifice for doing one action before another, or delaying it.
This was by way of making things easy for people, because the time of Hajj is a time of hardship, in which people encounter many difficulties and there are many necessary things that are required of the pilgrim, which may force people to do many things without following the proper order. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not insist that people do things in a particular order, for what matters is doing the actions of Hajj, even though it is preferable to follow his example and Sunnah in the manner he told people to do them, as was narrated from him..

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Knowledge will be taken away, and ignorance and tribulations will prevail, and there will be a great deal of harj.” It was said: O Messenger of Allah, what is harj? He gestured like that with his hand, tilting it, as if he meant killing..

Commentary : No one knows exactly when the Hour will begin except Allah (may He be glorified and exalted), for He has kept that knowledge to Himself.
Nevertheless, He has ordained some signs of its approach, to alert the Muslim so that he may strive to prepare for that momentous Day.
In this hadith, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) tells us that one of the signs of the approach of the Hour is that beneficial knowledge that is accompanied by righteous deeds will be taken away, and will disappear from the earth with the death of its people. It will be reduced by their death but will not be erased from people’s hearts. Then the people will follow ignorant leaders who will speak about religious issues on the basis of their own personal views, and they will issue fatwas that are based on ignorance. Thus ignorance will prevail and spread among the people, and tribulations, disputes and division will become widespread; that will result in no one having fear of Allah in their hearts, and there will be a great deal of “harj.” When the people asked what harj meant, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) made a gesture with his hand, from which it could be understood that the word referred to killing and unlawful bloodshed. This explanation is clearly mentioned in al-Sahihayn, where it says: They said: O Messenger of Allah, what is that? He said: “Killing, killing.” What is meant is that there would be tribulations and disputes, and that will be the cause of a great deal of killing among the Muslims, as is mentioned in a report narrated by Ibn Majah from Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari (may Allah be pleased with him), in which it says that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “It will not be as a result of the polytheists killing the Muslims; rather you will kill one another, to the extent that a man will kill his neighbour, his cousin and his relative.”
This hadith indicates that Allah (may He be exalted) has already decreed that the ruin of life on earth will come once mischief and corruption become prevalent and widespread.
It also indicates that we are urged to acquire knowledge, for it will not be taken away except through the death of knowledgeable people.
This hadith is one of the signs of the prophethood of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

It was narrated that Asma’ said: I came to ‘A’ishah when she was praying, and I said: What is the matter with the people? She pointed to the sky, and I saw that the people were standing in prayer. Then she said, Subhan-Allah. I said: Is it a sign? And she nodded to say yes. So I started to pray [with the people] until I nearly fainted, so I began to pour water on my head. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) praised and glorified Allah (may He be glorified and exalted), then he said: “There is nothing that had not been shown to me before but it was shown to me [just now] whilst I was standing in prayer, even Paradise and Hell. Then it was revealed to me that you will be tested in your graves, like or close to” – I [the narrator] do not know which word Asma’ said – “the trial of the Dajjal. It will be said: What do you know about this man? As for the believer or the one who had certain faith” – I do not know which word Asma’ said – “he will say: He is Muhammad the Messenger of Allah; he came to us with clear proofs and guidance, and we responded and followed him; he is Muhammad” – three times. “Then it will be said: Rest, benefitting from your righteous deeds. We knew that you believed with certainty in him. As for the hypocrite or the one who had doubts” – I do not know which word Asma’ said – “he will say: I do not know; I heard the people saying something, so I said it too.”.

Commentary : The trial of the grave is one of the greatest trials that a person will undergo. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) always sought refuge with Allah from it at the end of his prayer.
In this hadith, Asma’ bint Abi Bakr (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she went to the house of her sister ‘A’ishah, the Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her), and she found her praying, following the prayer of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in his mosque, as the houses of the Mothers of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with them) were attached to the mosque of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as is well known. Asma’ asked her, whilst she was praying, why the people were so scared and were praying at this time, which was not the time of the obligatory prayer. ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) responded to her as she was praying with a gesture, pointing towards the sky, as if she wanted to make her understand that the sign of a solar eclipse in the sky was the reason for this fear and this prayer. Thus Asma’ realized that this was a sign of the might and power of Allah (may He be glorified), so she joined the people in prayer and offered a lengthy prayer with them, until she got tired and signs of exhaustion appeared on her, to the extent that she poured water on her head to revive herself and so that she would not faint. That was because the eclipse prayer is two rak‘ahs, in each of which there are two bowings (ruku‘) and two recitations, and the imam makes each recitation and bowing very long, with the bowing as long as the recitation. This lengthy procedure may be exhausting for some, but it is by way of beseeching Allah and humbling oneself before Him, so that He will relieve the people of this calamity and distress.
Then when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had finished the prayer, he addressed the people. He began by praising and glorifying Allah as He deserves, then he told the people that there was nothing that he had not seen before but he saw it whilst standing in this prayer, and he looked at it, even Paradise and Hell. He saw them both and they were both visible and displayed before him. He began to describe what he had seen, and told the people that Allah had revealed to him the trial of the grave, in which people will be questioned by the two angels. This is something very difficult, almost as difficult as the trial of the Dajjal, and the trial of the Dajjal is one of the greatest and most dangerous of trials and tribulations. The word Dajjal comes from a root meaning to cover; he is so called because he will cover the truth with his falsehood. He will be a human being, and his emergence will be one of the major signs of the Day of Resurrection. Allah will test His slaves by means of him, and He will enable him to do some things that only Allah (may He be exalted) can do, such as bringing back to life a dead person whom he killed, or bringing about prosperity and abundance in this world. He will have with him his paradise and his hell, and his two rivers, and the treasures of the earth will follow him; he will order the sky to send down rain and it will do so, and he will order the earth to bring forth vegetation and it will do so. All of that will happen by the will and decree of Allah (may He be exalted).
The trial of which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) warned us will happen when a person is questioned in his grave: What do you know about this man? This is referring to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The response of the believer or the one who had certain faith will be: he is Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, who came to us with clear proofs and guidance, and we responded and followed him. He will say that three times, as Allah will make him steadfast with the word that stands firm and will inspire him to give the right answer. The angels will affirm that what he says is correct, and will give him the glad tidings of rest and being spared suffering, and they will say to him: “Rest, benefitting from your righteous deeds. We knew that you believed with certainty in him.”
As for the hypocrite, or the one who doubted and was hesitant, he will say I do not know, I am not certain, but I heard the people saying something in the former world, so I said it too. So I was not certain that he was a Prophet; rather I went along with what the people said outwardly. He will be in a state of wretchedness and punishment, the opposite of the believer.
This hadith affirms that the believer, the hypocrite and the disbeliever will be questioned in the grave.
It indicates that Paradise and Hell are already created and they exist at present.
It also confirms the emergence and trial of the Dajjal.
It indicates that perfect faith and perfect knowledge is the knowledge of Allah and His Messenger, and knowing the proof for that.
It indicates that women may attend the eclipse prayer in congregation in the mosques.
It indicates that it is prescribed for the one who is praying to listen to what he is told by someone who is not praying.
It indicates that one who is praying may gesture with his hand and head to the one who asks him one thing after another.
It indicates that it is prescribed to pray and beseech Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) when natural phenomena occur, such as solar and lunar eclipses, and earthquakes. .

It was narrated that Abu Jamrah said: I used to translate between Ibn ‘Abbas and the people. He said: The delegation of ‘Abdul Qays came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and he said: “Who are the delegation – or who are the people?” They said: [The tribe of] Rabi‘ah. He said: “Welcome to the people – or the delegation. You have nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to regret.” They said: We have come to you from afar, for between us and you there is this tribe of the disbelievers of Mudar, and we cannot come to you except in the sacred month. Tell us something that we can tell to those whom we left behind, by means of which we may enter Paradise. He commanded them to do four things, and forbade to them four things. He commanded them to believe in Allah (may He be glorified and exalted) alone. He said: “Do you know what believing in Allah alone means?” They said: Allah and His Messenger know best. He said: “Testifying that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.” [And he commanded them] to establish prayer, give zakah and fast Ramadan, and to give one fifth of the war booty. And he forbade them to use gourds, glazed pitchers, and varnished jars. Shu’bah said: And perhaps he said hollowed-out stumps. And he said: “Memorize them [these rulings] and tell them to those you left behind.”.

Commentary : 103090.

It was narrated from ‘Uqbah ibn al-Harith that he married a daughter of Abu Ihab ibn ‘Aziz. A woman came to him and said: I breast-fed ‘Uqbah and the woman whom he married. ‘Uqbah said to her: I do not know that you breast-fed me, as you never told me that before. Then he sent word to the family of Abu Ihab to ask of them, and they said: We do not know that she breast-fed our daughter. He travelled to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in Madinah and asked him, and the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “How [could you do that] after what was said?” So he left her, and she married someone else..

Commentary : When a woman breast-feeds a child who is not hers, that results in some Islamic rulings, and what becomes mahram (forbidden for marriage) through breastfeeding is that which becomes mahram through blood ties.
In this hadith, ‘Uqbah ibn al-Harith (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that he married the daughter of Abu Ihab ibn ‘Aziz, whose name was Ghaniyyah and her kunya was Umm Yahya. Then a woman who was a wet-nurse came to him and told him that she had breast-fed him and the woman whom he had married; in other words, the woman whom he had married was his foster sister, because she had breast-fed both of them. ‘Uqbah (may Allah be pleased with him) responded by saying: I do not know that you breast-fed me, giving the excuse that he knew nothing about that, or he denied that she had breast-fed him in the first place, as if he was accusing her of lying. ‘Uqbah also sent word to the family of Abu Ihab to ask them about that, and they said: We are not aware that she breast-fed our daughter. So they also denied that the woman who was making this claim had breast-fed the wife. In order to find out what he should do, ‘Uqbah rode from Makkah, because that was where he lived, and he went to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in Madinah, to ask him about the matter. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) replied “How [could you do that] after what was said?” In other words, how could you be intimate with her when it was said that she is your foster sister? That is not appropriate for a man of dignity and piety. So he separated them, in order to avoid falling into a dubious matter, or because his marriage was invalid, because the wet-nurse had affirmed that she had breast-fed both of them, although ‘Uqbah denied it. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) accepted her word and ordered ‘Uqbah to separate from his wife, and she married someone else.
This hadith indicates that we should avoid dubious matters.
It also indicates that one who does not know about a matter cannot have any argument against the one who does know it.
It also highlights the keenness of the Sahabah to seek knowledge, and their commitment to that which would bring them closer to Allah (may He be exalted)..

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

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