| 2 Hadiths


Hadith
1887
Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him):(The people of) Banoo Salamah intended to move out near the mosque of the Prophet, but he ﷺdisliked to see Madeenah vacated and said, "O the people of Banoo Salamah! Do not you think that you will be rewarded for your footsteps which you take towards the mosque?" So, they stayed at their old places.
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Commentary :
Al-Madeenah is one of the best, most honored, and purified lands on earth, and the Prophet ﷺ loved it, and keenly sought to populate and fortify it. In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) related that when Banoo Salamah, from the Ansaar, wanted to move out of their houses to settle in the outskirts of Al-Madeenah near the Prophet’s Mosque, he ﷺ disliked that some parts of Al-Madeenah should be deserted. He ﷺ said to them: "O people of Banoo Salamah! Do you not think that you will be rewarded for your footsteps which you take towards the mosque?" It means, ‘Do you notaspire to the rewards earned for walking to the (distant) mosque?’ He ﷺ informed them of the abundant rewards earned by walking to a mosque at a distance away from one’s house, urging them to stay in their houses. The Prophet’s words mean, “Stay in your houses to earn greater rewards for your long-distance walking to my mosque.” He ﷺ encouraged them to stay in their houses and aspire to the rewards for each step they took to the mosque, devoting their effort sincerely to Allah, The Exalted. Upon hearing the Prophet’s words, they decided to stay in their houses as advised.
The Prophet’s intention was that Banoo Salamah should remain in their houses so that the various regions of Al-Madeenah would remain populated so that the Muslim populationin Al-Madeenah wouldincrease to instill terror in the hearts of the hypocrites and polytheists. He ﷺ did not explicitly say so to Banoo Salamah, and settled for highlighting the obvious benefit to urge them to comply and motivate them to remain in their houses.
The hadeeth also underlines the virtues of building and populating Al-Madeenah and urges Muslims to walk to the mosques..

1888
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "There is a garden from the gardens of Paradise between my house (room) and my pulpit, and my pulpit is on my Lake Fount (Al-Kawthar).”
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, has favored some lands and places over others, and one such place is the Noble Rawdhah at the Prophet's mosque.
In this hadeeth, he ﷺ informed us of the virtues of this blessed place, the area between his house (room), where he ﷺ was buried, and his pulpit in the mosque. He ﷺ stated that it is one of the gardens of Paradise. The Arabic word ‘Rawdhah’ means a garden with fertile soil where plants grow,fresh water flows, and beauty manifests. The meaning is that the Noble Rawdhah at the Prophet's mosque is a blessed place where the divine mercy descends and people taste bliss by attending the gatherings of Thikr (remembrance of Allah) and performing prayer in that particular place, especially during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ. It could also mean that this particular place is an actual garden of Paradise, like the Black Stone, and shall be moved back to it on the Day of Resurrection. This meaning is further supported by his words at the conclusion of the hadeeth reading: “and my pulpit is on my Lake-Fount (Al-Kawthar),” meaning that his pulpit is located at the bank of his lake-fount (Al-Kawthar), with which Allah shall honor him on the Day of Resurrection, or that he will have a pulpit by Al-Kawthar to stand upon and call upon people.
The hadeeth also highlights the virtues of Al-Madeenah and urges Muslims to reside therein..

1889
`Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):When Allah's Messenger ﷺ reached al-Madeenah, Aboo Bakr and Bilaal (may Allah be pleased with them) became ill. Whenever Aboo Bakr's fever got worse, he would recite (this poetic verse): "Everybody is staying alive with his People, yet death is nearer to him than His shoelaces." Meanwhile whenever fever deserted Bilaal, he would recite: "I wish I could stay overnight in a valley wherein I would be surrounded by Ithkhir and Jaleel (kinds of goodsmelling grass). Would that one day I could drink the water of the Majanna and would that (the two mountains of) Shaamah and Tafeel would appear to me!" The Prophet ﷺ said, "O Allah! Curse Shaybah ibn Rabee`ah and `Utbah ibn Rabee`ah and Umaiyah ibn Khalaf as they turned us out of our land to the land of epidemics." Allah's Messenger ﷺ then said, "O Allah! Make us love Al-Madeenah as we love Makkah or even more than that. O Allah! Give blessings in our Saa‘ and our Mudd (measures symbolizing food) and make the climate of Al-Madeenah suitable for us and divert its fever towards Al-Juhfah." ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) added: “When we reached Al-Madeenah, it was the unhealthiest of land, and the valley of Bathaan used to flow with impure colored water.”.

Commentary :
Love for one’s homeland, an emotional attachment to it, and nostalgia for it are part of the innate human nature thatis not denounced by Islam, but israther channeled in the right direction that serves the religion of Allah and raises its banner high.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) informed us of the situation when the Prophet ﷺ and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) migrated to Al-Madeenah. Aboo Bakr and Bilaal ibn Rabaah (may Allah be pleased with them) got a fever, and each of them put his emotions into words according to his certitude in Allah and knowledge of the anticipated consequences.
Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) found solace in reciting the following poetic verse (which means): “Everybody is staying alive in the company of his people, yet death is nearer to him than his shoe laces.” Meaning that when everyone wakes up, he is greeted with ‘good morning,’ or ‘may Allah bless your morning,’ and similar greetings exchanged by people and their loved ones, while death may suddenly befall them and they may depart this worldly life in the evening, indicating the proximity of death from all human beings, whether they are sick or healthy.
On the other hand, whenever fever desertedBilaal (may Allah be pleased with him), he would raise his voice and recite some poetic verses. The Arabic expression “Yarfa‘ ‘Aqeeratah” means to raise one’s voice. It was said that a man once had his leg amputated; he raised his amputated leg, placed it over the other leg, and shouted of the top of his voice. Afterward, whenever a person shouted of the top of his voice as such, the Arabs used this expression to describe his act. He(may Allah be pleased with him) used to recite somepoetic verses, expressing longing and hopeto return to Makkah, where he relished sound health. He wished to spend one night in the valley of Makkah to quench his longing for it in the well of Majannah, a well near ‘Ukaath few miles away from Makkah in the direction of the Dhahraan area, where the Arabs had a marketplace in the pre-Islamic era. He (may Allah be pleased with him)wished he could go there to enjoy the view of the Ithkhir and Jaleel (kinds of pleasantly scented grass), which grew back in Makkah, and see Shaamah and Tafeel, two adjacent mountains southwest of Makkah, about 90 km away from it.
He (may Allah be pleased with him)would say, "Would that I could stay overnight in a valley wherein I would be surrounded by Ithkhir and Jaleel. Would that one day I could drink from the water of the Majannah, and that the two mountains Shaamah and Tafeel would appear to me!"
Afterward, Bilaal (may Allah be pleased with him) supplicated against the polytheists who drove them away from Makkah to a land afflicted with epidemics and diseases. He said: "O Allah! Curse Shaybah ibn Rabee`ah and `Utbah ibn Rabee`ah and Umaiyah ibn Khalaf as they turned us out of our land to the land of epidemics." These were the chiefs of the polytheists and their leaders in Makkah.
When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saw what had befallen his Companions of fever and epidemic, he ﷺ feared that they might hate Al-Madeenah, because people are innately averted from what they hate. Therefore, he ﷺ supplicated Allah, Exalted is He, to instill the love of Al-Madeenah within their hearts, and make them love it even more than they loved Makkah, and to bless Al-Madeenah and its Saa‘ and Mudd.
The Saa’ equals four Mudds, and the Mudd is the measure of two open medium-sized handfuls. The Mudd approximately equals 509 grams at the lowest estimate, and 1072 grams in the highest estimate. The Saa’, on the other hand, equals tobetween 2036 and 4288 grams. In another hadeeth, cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, he ﷺ supplicated Allah, Exalted is He, to confer upon Al-Madeenah twice the blessings conferred upon Makkah.
He ﷺ asked Allah, Exalted is He, to relieve Al-Madeenah of the epidemic and transfer it to Juhfah, which was an abode of polytheism inhabited by non-Muslims then, so that they would be preoccupied by it and distracted from helping the disbelievers. Juhfah is located between Makkah and Al-Madeenah, at a distance of 190 km from Makkah. Allah, Exalted is He, answered the Prophet’s supplication and blessed people’s livelihoods in Al-Madeenah, and instilled its love in the hearts of the Prophet ﷺ and his Companions, and this love remained apparent until death befell them. One of the manifestations of this love was that whenever the Prophet ﷺ returned from any of his travels back to Al-Madeenah, he ﷺ urged his riding animal to move faster upon seeing the houses of Al-Madeenah, out of his deep love for it, as narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree.
The Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) added that when they went to Al-Madeenah, it was the unhealthiest land, afflicted with epidemic diseases, to the extent that the valley of Bathaan, to the south of Al-Madeenah near the Prophet’s Mosque, used to flow with impure colored water that was often stagnant, causing fever and spreading epidemics.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable for a Muslim to ask his Lord to bless him with well-being and recovery when ailments befall him, just like he asks Him for sustenance and victory, and that such supplications and desires do not imply blaming Allah or rejecting His decrees.
It is also inferred that it is permissible to supplicate Allah against the wrongdoers and the disbelievers. The hadeeth also highlights the significance of care for good health conditions, fresh air, and pure water, and warns against stagnant and colored water. It also underlines the permissibility of reciting, quoting, and listening to poetry.
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1890
Zayd ibn Aslam narrated on the authority of his father (may Allah be pleased with them):`Umar said, O Allah! Grant me martyrdom in Your cause, and let my death be in Al-Madeenah of Your Messenger.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ supplicated Allah, Exalted is He, to instill the love of Al-Madeenah within his heart and the hearts of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). He ﷺ said: “O Allah! Make us love Al-Madeenah as we love Makkah or even more than that.” [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim].
Allah, Exalted is He, answered his supplication and Al-Madeenah became the most beloved land to his Companions(may Allah be pleased with them). They lived therein and did not wish to die elsewhere.
In this report, Aslam, the freed slave of ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with them), stated that ‘Umar used to supplicate Allah, Exalted is He, to bless him with martyrdom and to cause him to die in Al-Madeenah. Allah, Exalted is He, answered his supplication and caused him to die as a martyr. He (may Allah be pleased with him) was killed at the hands of Aboo Lu’lu’ah Al-Majoosi, may Allah punish him proportionally, while he (may Allah be pleased with him) was performing Fajr Prayer in 23 A.H. Thus, he earned the reward of martyrdom, because a disbelieving Zoroastrian killed him out of his resentment against Islam, and against ‘Umar’sdiligence and sincerity in governing the affairs of the Muslims. He (may Allah be pleased with him) was killed in the Cause of Allah, and Allah caused him to die in Al-Madeenah as he wished, and he(may Allah be pleased with him) was buried in the land that he loved the most, next to his beloved friend andProphet ﷺ and his close friend Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him). May Allah be pleased with ‘Umar and all the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them).
This hadeeth highlights the merits of ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him)..

1892
Narrated Ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):The Prophet ﷺ observed the fast on the 10th of Muharram (‘Ashooraa’)and ordered (Muslims) to fast on that day, but when the fasting of the month of Ramadan was prescribed, the fasting of ‘Ashooraa’ was abandoned. ‘Abdullah(may Allah be pleased with him) did not observe fasting on that day unless it coincided with his routine fasting by chance..

Commentary :
The Day of ‘Aashooraa’ is the tenth day of the sacred month of Muharram and it is one of the blessed days. On that day, Allah, Exalted is He, saved His Prophet Moses (peace be upon him)s from Pharaoh and his army.  The Messenger of Allah ﷺ venerated this day, fasted on it, and commanded Muslims to fast, to express gratitude to Allah, The Exalted.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) informed us that the Prophet ﷺ fasted on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ and commanded his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to fast. Other narrations have been reported regarding the reasons why the Prophet ﷺ fasted the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, one of which was narrated on the authority of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him): “When the Prophet ﷺ came to Al-Madeenah, he found (the Jews) fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ (i.e., 10th of Muharram). They used to say: "This is a great day on which Allah, Exalted is He, saved Prophet Moosaa and drowned the people of Pharaoh. Moosaa observed the fast on this day, as a sign of gratitude to Allah." The Prophet ﷺ said, "I am closer to Moosaa than they!" So, he observed the fast (on that day) and ordered the Muslims to fast on it.” 
Another narration was reported by Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ said: “That was a day on which the people of pre-Islamic days used to observe fast. So, he amongst you who likes to observe fast should do so, and he who does not like it should abandon it.” [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim].
Narrations have been reported about the virtues of fasting on that day, stating that it expiates the sins committed in the preceding year, like the hadeeth narrated on the authority of Qataadah (may Allah be pleased with him)that has been cited in Saheeh Muslim.
Moreover, Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that when the obligatory fasting on Ramadan was prescribed in 2 A.H., people abandoned fasting the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ as an obligatory act of worship, but some Muslims observed fasting on it voluntarily.
Naafi‘, the freed slave of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), underlined that Ibn ‘Umar did not observe fasting on that day in particular unless it happened to coincide with days when he regularly fasted. He(may Allah be pleased with him) refrained from fasting on that day in particular fearing that people might mistakenly assume that it was obligatory, or that it would be venerated in the same (unprescribed) manner it was venerated in the pre-Islamic era.
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1896
Narrated Sahl (may Allah be pleased with him):The Prophet ﷺ said, "There is a gate in Paradise called Al-Raiyyaan, and those who observe fasts will enter through it on the Day of Resurrection and none except them will enter through it. It will be said, 'Where are those who used to observe fasting?' They will get up, and none except them will enter through it. After their entry the gate will be closed and nobody will enter through it.".

Commentary :
Islam assigns great virtue to fasting and the honor of Allah conferred upon those who observe fasting is unmatched. They refrain from all intake of food, water, beverages, and from sexual activity, and in return Allah, Exalted is He, confers upon them His abundant rewards, and distinguishes them with a special divine bestowal.
In this hadeeth, Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Ansaaree(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet ﷺ stated that Allah, Exalted is He, allocated a gate in Paradise especially for those who observed obligatory fasting and often observed voluntary fasting, or those who keenly assigned a special care to fasting compared to other worshipful acts. This gate is called “Al-Rayyaan,” which is derivedfrom a root that means quenching thirst. The name conveniently suits the situation of these people because it is their reward for enduring thirst and hunger. The name referred to quenching thirst rather than satiating hunger because thirst is harder to endure compared to hunger.
Only those who observed fasting will enter Paradise through this gate, to hasten to quench their thirst. This would be a manifestation of their honor and a special bestowal for them, so that they would not have to crowd with others to enter Paradise, for such crowding may cause thirst in and of itself. It should be noted, though, that there shall be no crowding at the gates of Paradise because they shall be vast and there shall be no harm, distress, or hardship therein. This is an honor conferred by Allah, Exalted is He, on them, to elevate their status, and distinguish them from others. The angels will call upon them: “Where are those who observed fasting?” They shall stand up and enter Paradise from it, and then the gate will be closed; none will enter Paradise through it except those who observed fasting. The Prophet ﷺ repeatedly stated that no one else shall enter Paradise through that gate for the sake of emphasis (on their special honor)..

1897
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "Whoever gives two items of wealth in charity for Allah's Cause, will be called from the gates of Paradise and will be addressed, 'O slaves of Allah! This is good.' So, whoever was amongst the people who observed prayer, will be called from the gate of the prayer; and whoever was amongst the people who used to participate in Jihaad, will be called from the gate of Jihaad; and whoever was amongst those who used to observe fasting, will be called from the gate of Al-Rayyaan; whoever was amongst those who used to give in charity, will be called from the gate of charity." Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "Let my parents be sacrificed for you, O Allah's Messenger! No distress or need will befall the one who will be called from those gates! Will anyone be called from all these gates?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "Yes, and I hope you will be one of them.".

Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, urged His servants to hasten to perform good deeds, and promised them abundant rewards in this worldly life and the Hereafter. In this hadeeth, Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed us that the Prophet ﷺ stated that whoever spends in charity two items of wealth, e.g., two cows, two Dirhams, two loaves of bread, or two garments, will earn such reward. It may also mean whoever spends them in charity on two consecutive occasions. His saying “in Allah’s Cause” means, ‘while aspiring to His reward,’ and this is more general than Jihaad and other worshipful acts. Whoever does so, the angels will call upon him on the Day of Resurrection from the gates of Paradise, welcoming him to enter it. They will say: “Oh servant of Allah, this is good,” meaning, ‘the good deed that you have done is more virtuous than all worldly pleasures.’ The Arabic word ‘khayr’ (lit. good) used in the hadeeth means in this context ‘virtuous’ rather the comparative adjective ‘better’, even if the wording may imply otherwise, and the wisdom is to urge the listener to seek entering Paradise through that gate. It could also mean that this gate through which you are asked to enter Paradise is good, meaning that therein lies all that is good, and the statement denotes honoring them.
Allah, Exalted is He, allocated a special gate in Paradise for each worshipful act. So, those who devote themselves to performing voluntary prayers after performing the obligatory ones shall be called upon to enter Paradise through the gate of prayer, and they will enter it, and the same goes for all other acts of worship, such as Jihaad and charity. Likewise, the angels shall receive those who devotedly observed fasting frequently at the gate of Al-Rayyaan, calling upon them to enter through it. This gate is called “Al-Rayyaan,” which is derivedfrom a root that means quenching thirst because whoever enters Paradise through it will never experience thirst again. The name conveniently suits the situation of these people because it is their reward for enduring thirst and hunger. The name refers to quenching thirst rather than satiating hunger because thirst is harder to endure compared to hunger.
His saying: “Whoever was amongst those who used to give in charity will be called from the gate of charity,” is not a repetition of the same meaning denoted by his saying: “Whoever spends two items of wealth” at the beginning of the hadeeth, because spending even an insignificant item of wealth in charity is better than the great worldly pleasures, and this applies to all the gates of Paradise, but it is stated here in particular for further emphasis.
Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “Let my parents be sacrificed for you, O Allah's Messenger! No distress or need will befall the one who will be called from those gates!” This is because such a person shall taste bliss in Paradise. It could also mean that whoever shall be called upon to enter Paradise through some of these gates will not need to be called upon to enter it through other ones; it is adequate to be called upon to enter Paradise through one gate!
Afterwards, Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) asked: “Will anyone be called from all of these gates?” The Prophet ﷺ replied, "Yes, and I hope you will be one of them." He ﷺ replied that some believers will be called upon to enter from all those gates as they will have performed numerous and various worshipful acts. He ﷺ added: “I hope you will be one of them.” He (may Allah be pleased with him) had devotedly performed all worshipful acts for which Allah, Exalted is He, allocated gates in Paradise. It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ asked once: ‘Who among you is fasting today?’ Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, ‘I am.’ He ﷺ asked, ‘Who among you followed a funeral today?’ Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said, ‘I did.’ He ﷺ further asked, ‘Who among you presented food to a needy person today?’ Again, Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said, ‘I did.’ He ﷺ asked, ‘Who among you visited a patient (to inquire about his health and check on them) today?’ Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, ‘I did.’ Upon this, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ remarked: ‘Those (good deeds) never meet in a person but that he would be admitted to Paradise.’” [Muslim].

It is deduced from the hadeeth that the angels love the devout people and rejoice at meeting them.
It is also inferred that a Muslim is urged to spend more in charity; the more the merrier, and that it is required of Muslims to wish for good in this worldly life and the Hereafter. The hadeeth also underlines the virtues of Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him), and the merits of those who combine the qualities of goodness. It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to praise someone to his face as long as it is not feared that it would not usher him into conceit and similar diseases of the heart..

1899
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "When the month of Ramadan starts, the gates of heaven are opened and the gates of Hellfire are closed and the devils are chained.".

Commentary :
The month of Ramadan is the month of forgiveness and deliverance from Hellfire, during which Allah, Exalted is He,has made easy the material and moral means to attain forgiveness, and the performance of good deeds, including: fasting, night prayer, Zakaah, and the like.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ informed us that when the month of Ramadan comes, the gates of heaven are actually opened to celebrate this holy month, to welcome it in the exalted assembly [of angels], to note its abundant virtues and honor, and to inform the angels of its arrival. It could also mean that the gates of Paradise are opened as suggested by the mention of the closing of Hellfire’s gates afterward. Some versions of the hadeeth cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim have been reported to that effect. As it starts, the gates of Hellfire are closed before those who observe fasting; this means that should anyone, who observes fasting, die while fulfilling the due rights (of the sacred month) and observing his religious duties, will be saved from Hellfire in that month of Ramadan. The devils are also chained, and this means that they are tied up with chains and prevented from corrupting Muslims in the same way they do at other times. All these virtues are due to the special honor conferred by Allah, Exalted is He, on this month during which He bestows His divine mercy and forgiveness on His servants.
The reference to the ‘devils’ here means the rebellious devils among the Jinn, the most hostile and aggressive ones, as stated in some versions of the hadeeth narrated by Al-Tirmithee and Al-Nasaa’i, and not all the devils. This explains why some evil deeds and sins are still committed by some people during the month of Ramadan. Based on the opinion suggesting that all the devils are chained during the month of Ramadan, it could mean that they are chained and prevented from harming those who observe fasting, complying with its conditions and etiquettes. However, the devils are not chained and prevented from harming those who fail to observe such conditions and etiquettes. Moreover, the chained devils may still harm people, in proportion to the perfection of their fasting, but their harm is lesser and weaker compared to at other times. Whoever perfects his fasting will be shielded from the devils in a way that would not apply to those who fail to perfect their fasting. It is noteworthy that the chaining of all the devils does not necessarily mean that no evil deeds would be committed during the sacred month of Ramadan, because there are other causes for sins, such as the evil-enjoining self and the devils among human beings.
The hadeeth also underlines the virtues of Ramadan, and it serves as supportive evidence on the existence of Paradise and Hellfire and that they have gates that are opened and closed. It also proves the existence of devils, and that they have physical bodies that can be tied up with chains. It also highlights the greatness of Allah's Kindness towards His servants and His Generosity.
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1900
Narrated Ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "When you see the crescent (of the month of Ramadan), start fasting, and when you see the crescent (of the month of Shawwaal), stop fasting; and if the sky is overcast (and you cannot see it) then regard the month of Ramadan as of 30 days.".

Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, decreed that the sighting of the new moon (crescent) should be used to determine the timings of the lunar months. The sighting of the crescent marks the end of a lunar month and the beginning of another. Based on that sighting, many religious obligations are determined, such as fasting and Hajj.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ underlined that Muslims must not observe fasting in the month of Ramadan except after sighting the new moon after the sunset of the twenty-ninth day of Sha‘baan, and also must not end their fasting (at the end of the month) except after sighting the crescent of the month of Shawwaal after sunset on the twenty-ninth day of Ramadan. If the sighting of the new moon is not possible because of clouds, or for any given reason, the month will be considered thirty days, because the maximum length of a lunar month is thirty days, and thus it is proved with certainty that the month has begun or ended.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is not allowable to rely on meansother than the sighting of the new moon to determine the beginning and end of lunar months, such as the astronomical calculation.
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1903
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "Whoever does not give up forged speech and evil actions, Allah is not in need of his leaving his food and drink (i.e., Allah will not accept his fasting.)"
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Commentary :
Among the wisdoms behind fasting and its great aims are to attain Taqwa (mindfulness of Allah), tame sexual urges, and discipline the ‘self’ (i.e., practice self-restraint). The ultimate purpose of fasting is notto abstain from eating and drinking only, but rather to discipline, refine, and reform the ‘self’. 
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ warned those who perceive fasting as mere refrainment from eating and drinking, and do not abstain from lying, deviation from the truth, and following falsehood and doubtful matters, that Allah, Exalted is He, does not accept their refrainment from eating and drinking. However, this does not mean commanding those who observe fasting and fall into sin to give up fasting, but rather it serves as a warning against false speech and acting upon it, and it also emphasizes the gravity of committing these sins while fasting, as it causes the decrease in the rewards of one of the best (and most rewardable) worshipful acts. How should someone abstain from eating, drinking, and sexual activity, and yet let his rewards diminish because of false speech and acting upon it! It is narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said: “There are people who fast and get nothing from their fast except hunger.” [Sunan Ibn Maajah].
This hadeeth urges the fasting person to give up evil deeds and forbidden acts.
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1904
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messengerﷺsaid, "Allah said, 'All the deeds of Adam's sons (people) are for them, except fasting which is for Me, and I will give the reward for it.' Fasting is a shield or protection from Hellfire and from committing sins. If one of you is fasting, he should avoid sexual relation with his wife and quarreling, and if somebody should fight or quarrel with him, he should say, 'I am fasting.' By Him in Whose Hands my soul is, the unpleasant smell coming out from the mouth of a fasting person is better in the sight of Allah than the smell of musk. There are two pleasures for the fasting person: one at the time of breaking his fast, and the other at the time when he will meet his Lord; then he will be pleased because of his fasting."
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Commentary :
Islam assigns great virtues to fasting and the honor conferred by Allah upon those who observe fasting is unmatched. They refrain from all intake of food, water, beverages, and from sexual activity, and in return Allah, Exalted is He, confers upon them His abundant rewards, and distinguishes them with a special divine bestowal.
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ informed us that Allah, Exalted is He, said: “All the deeds of Adam's sons (people) are for them,” meaning that the doer aspires to some worldly gains when performing them,“except for fasting; it is exclusively devoted to Me, and none knows its reward except Me. I shall give the doer its allocated reward and only I knows the amount of such reward and its multiplication.” As for other worshipful acts, their designated rewards and their multiplication are known by people; their rewards may be multiplied until seven hundred times, except for fasting. Allah, Exalted is He, multiplies the reward of fasting as He sees fit, with no maximum limit. 
Another version of this hadeeth reads: “Every (good) deed of the son of Adam would be multiplied, a good deed receiving a tenfold to seven hundredfold reward. Allah, Exalted is He, has said: ‘With the exception of fasting, for it is done for Me and I will give a reward for it.’” [Muslim].
Since the reward of fasting is only known to Allah, Exalted is He, He did not entrust it to His angels, but rather grants it Himself, and this indicates its greatness and significance.
Then, the Prophet ﷺ stated that fasting is a protection and shield against sins and misdeeds in the worldly life and against Hellfire in the Hereafter.
He ﷺalso forbade the fasting person from engaging in obscene speech and using foul language, and also forbade him from shouting and quarreling.
Should anyone should fight or quarrel with him, he should say, 'I am fasting,’ to urge his opponent to stop or to evoke this meaning within his heart to restrain his anger.  The prohibition in this hadeeth is meant as an emphasis on the prohibition in this regard during fasting; the one who is not fasting is also enjoined to do the same.
Then, the Prophet ﷺ swore by saying: “By Him in Whose Hand is the soul of Muhammad,” because to Allah, Exalted is He,belongs our souls. The Prophet ﷺ often swore by Allah, Exalted is He, with this wording. In this hadeeth, he ﷺ swore to the fact that the unpleasant smell coming out from the mouth of a fasting person, which is generally due to an empty stomach, is better and nicer in the sight of Allah on the Day of Resurrection than the smell of musk, which is the best fragrance. The superiority of fasting compared to other worshipful acts is indicated because it is attributed directly to Allah, Exalted is He, (“With the exception of fasting, for it is done for Me and I will give a reward for it.”),qualifying it to have one of the most refined statuses.
The smell of the mouth is declared better than musk in the sight of Allah because fasting is a secret between a servant and his Lord, and only He knows if it is accepted or rejected. Therefore, Allah, Exalted is He, rendered the smell of the fasting person’s mouth a manifest indication on the Day of Resurrection, to highlight his honor and refined praiseworthy status.
 Afterwards, the Prophet ﷺ informed us that the fasting person who fulfills the due rights of fasting, by carrying out its obligations and recommended acts, will taste two great joys: one in this worldly life, and the other in the Hereafter. As for the first, he rejoices when he breaks the fast, because he quenches his thirst and satisfies his hunger whenever it is deemed allowable, and this joy is normal in this context. It could also mean that he would rejoice at the completion of his fasting and the conclusion of his worshipful act. People’s joy varies according to their different statuses in this regard. As for the second joy, he tastes it upon meeting his Lord (on the Day of Judgment); he would rejoice at his fasting, meaning that he would rejoice at receiving its reward, or meeting his Lord, or having his fasting accepted and earning its abundant reward.
Perfecting fasting entails guarding one’s tongue against committing sins such as: lying and obscene and false speech, guarding one’s stomach by abstaining from eating and drinking, and guarding his private parts by refraining from sexual activity. This means that a fasting person should not utter what may undermine his fasting and should only confine himself to good and useful speech, and the same goes for his actions. This is the prescribed fasting, which is not limited to the refrainment from eating and drinking. It has been narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever does not give up false speech and evil actions and does not abandon foolishness, Allah is not in need of his leaving food and drink (i.e., Allah will not accept his fasting).” [Al-Bukhaaree]. He ﷺ also said: “There are people who fast and get nothing from their fast except hunger.” [Sunan Ibn Maajah].
Correct fasting requires guarding oneself against sins along with the refrainment from eating and drinking. The consumption of food or beverages invalidates the fasting, and similarly committing sins undermines the rewards and outcomes of fasting, as if the person has not observed fasting to begin with.
The hadeeth urges the fasting person to give up evil deeds and prohibitions.
Also deduced from it the affirmation of the Hand ofAllah, Exalted is He, as befits His majesty.
It is also serves as evidence on the affirmation of the Speech of Allah, Exalted is He, and that He speaks wherever He wills to whomever He wills with whatever He wills, and that His words are not limited to the Holy Quran.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that acts of worship differ in terms of reward.
It may also be deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to swear an oath to confirm one’s statement, even if the listener does not deny it.
Finally, it underlines that whoever worships Allah, Exalted is He, and seeks His pleasure in this worldly life, yet his actions result in unpleasant outcomes in this worldly life, they are loved by Allah, Exalted is He, and regarded as ‘good’ in His sight, being the outcome of obedience to Him and seeking after His pleasure.
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1907
Narrated `Abdullah ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with them):Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "The (lunar) month is 29 nights (i.e., days), and you should not fast till you see the moon, and if the sky is overcast, then complete Sha‘baan as thirty days.".

Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, decreed that the sighting of the new moon (crescent) should be usedto determine the timings of the lunar month. The sighting of the crescent marks the end of one lunar month and the beginning of another. Based on this sighting, many religious obligations are determined, such as fasting and Hajj.
In this hadeeth, ‘AbdullahIbn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him)related that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ told them that the month may be twenty-nine or thirty days, and that both scenarios arepossible and valid, but determining the timings to observe or break fasting requires the sighting of the moon, and this is the meaning of his saying: “Do not fast until you see the moon,” meaning, ‘do not fast until you see the crescent after sunset of the twenty-ninth day of Sha‘baan.’ He ﷺ added: “If the sky is overcast, then complete Sha‘baan as thirty days.” If the crescent is not seen for some reason - such as clouds and the like - then the month of Sha‘baan is thirty days.
It is inferred from the hadeeth that it is not allowable to rely on means other than the sighting of the new moon to determine the beginning and end of lunar months, such as astronomical calculation.

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1908
Narrated Ibn `Umar (may Allah be pleased with them): The Prophet ﷺ said, "The month is like this and this," (at the same time he showed the fingers of both his hands thrice) and left out one thumb on the third time.
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, decreed that the sighting of the new moon (crescent) should be usedto determine the timings of the lunar months. The sighting of the crescent marks the end of one lunar month and the beginning of another. Based on this sighting, many religious obligations are determined, such as fasting and Hajj.
In this hadeeth, ‘AbdullahIbn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ told them that the lunar months generally alternate between 29 and 30 days. He ﷺ said: “The (lunar) month (may be) thus and thus,” holding up his hands with all their fingers twice, but at the third time withdrawing or folding his left thumb (indicating that the month might consist of twenty-nine days). The use of sign language is the best way to explain the correct meaning, because it is more tangible and leaves no possibility of incorrect assumptions.
To sum up, determining the end of the current lunar month and the beginning of the following month requires the sighting of the crescent; if the crescent is sighted on the eve of the twenty-ninth day, then the month will have ended, and that night will be the first night of the new month, and if the crescent is not sighted for some reason - such as clouds and the like - then the month is thirty days.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable to use sign language to explain an intended meaning.
It is also inferred that it is not allowable to rely on means other than the sighting of the new moon to determine the beginning and end of lunar months, such as astronomical calculation.


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1909
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "Start fasting on seeing the crescent (of Ramadan), and give up fasting on seeing the crescent (of Shawwaal), and if the sky is overcast (and you cannot see it), complete thirty days of Sha‘baan."
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, decreed that the sighting of the new moon (crescent) should be usedto determine the timing of the lunar months. The sighting of the crescent marks the end of one lunar month and the beginning of another. Based on that sighting, many religious obligations are determined such as fasting and Hajj.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ commanded us to fast Ramadan upon sighting the new moon after sunset on the twenty-ninth day of Sha’baan, and break the fast when the crescent moon is sighted after sunset on the twenty-ninth day of Ramadan. This means that the lunar month may be twenty-nine or thirty days, and both scenarios are possible and valid. However, determining the times of fasting and breaking the fast depends on the sighting of the new moon. If the crescent moon of Ramadan is not sighted for any given reason, such as clouds and the like, we are commanded to complete thirty days of Sha’baan; likewise, if the crescent moon of Shawwaal is not sighted, we should complete thirty days of fasting in Ramadan..

1912
Narrated Aboo Bakrah (may Allah be pleased with him):The Prophet ﷺ said, “The two months of ‘Eid i.e., Ramadan and Thoo al-Hijjah, do not decrease (in terms of reward).”.

Commentary :
If a person complies with the divine commands, and diligently strives to abide by the divine will of Allah, and to earn His pleasure to the best of his ability, Allah, Exalted is He, will not deprive him of the full reward and will even grant him more rewards, out of His grace and generosity.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Bakrah Naafi‘ ibn Al-Haarith (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Prophet ﷺ informed us that the reward of two months will not be diminished, even if the number of their days decreases. These months are Ramadan and Thoo al-Hijjah. The Prophet ﷺ mentioned them in particular because the obligatory fasting and pilgrimage are performed on these two months.
The month of Ramadan is described as a month of ‘Eid, because it is followed by ‘Eid Al-Fitr. This hadeeth eliminates any doubts that may find their way into the hearts of those who fasted twenty-nine days (because they know that their rewards shall not be diminished).
The hadeeth also highlights the virtues of the month of Ramadan and Thoo al-Hijjah..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..