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1984

Muhammad ibn ‘Abbaad said:
I asked Jaabir, "Did the Prophet ﷺ forbid fasting on Fridays?" He replied, "Yes." (Other narrators added, "If he intends to fast only that day.").

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺexplained the Laws of Islam rulings on voluntary fasting, and clarified the appropriate way to fast some days, including Fridays.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi’ee (a Muslim who saw at least one of the Companions) Muhammad ibn ‘Abbaad asked Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah(may Allah be pleased with them): “Did the Prophet ﷺ forbid voluntary fasting on Fridays only?” He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied in the affirmative. It is noteworthy that the prohibition in this regard does not apply to the one who habitually fasts on alternate days, for example, and one of these fasts happens to coincide with Friday, or someone who vows to fast on the day when a sick loved one would be blessed with recovery and it coincided with Friday. Fasting on Friday is not prohibited in these cases. It is also prescribed to fast on Fridays if one fasts the day before or after it as well, as stated in the hadeeth narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) and compiled in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim.
The wisdom behind forbidding fasting on Friday is that it is a day of supplication, remembrance of Allah, and worship. A Muslim devotes his day to performing Ghusl, going early to the mosque, waiting for the Friday prayer, listening to the Khutbah, and reciting Dhikr (i.e. remembrance of Allah) abundantly afterward, because Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {And when the prayer has been concluded, disperse within the land and seek from the bounty of Allah, and remember Allah often that you may succeed.} [Quran 62:10].These are examples of the worshipful acts performed on that blessed day. Therefore, it is deemed forbidden to fast on that day to be inducive to performing these acts energetically and joyfully, and enjoying their performance without boredom or tedium. This is similar to the prohibition of fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah for a pilgrim. The Sunnah for a pilgrim is to refrain from fasting on that blessed day for the same wisdom. When a person fasts a day before or after Friday as well, this compensates for any inactivity or negligence that may occur in the performance of his duties on Friday. It is also possible that the wisdom behind the Prophet’s ﷺprohibition of fasting on Friday was for fear that people would continue to observe fasting on Fridays habitually and it would be deemed obligatory on them, as he ﷺ feared observing night prayer regularly lest it be deemed obligatory on Muslims. He ﷺ also feared that Muslims would venerate Fridays in the same manner the Jews and Christians venerated Saturdays and Sundays, giving up work and copying their unprescribed manner of veneration. Therefore, he ﷺ ordered that Muslims should refrain from fasting on Fridays, believing that blocking the ways leading to unfavorable results is better and more rewardable than completing the days that he ﷺ had intended to fast for the sake of Allah, Exalted is He. It could also be because Friday is a day of ‘Eid (i.e., ritual celebration) for Muslims.
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1985

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
I heard the Prophet ﷺ saying, "None of you should fast on Friday unless he fasts a day before or after it.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺexplained the Laws of Islam rulings on voluntary fasting, and clarified the appropriate way to fast some days, including Fridays.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) clarified that the Prophet ﷺ forbid singling out Fridays for voluntary fasting, unless one fasts one day before or after it (i.e., Thursday or Saturday).
It is noteworthy that the prohibition in this regard does not apply to the one who habitually fasts on alternate days, for example, and one of these fasts happens to coincide with Friday, or someone who vows to fast on the day when a sick loved one would be blessed with recovery and it coincided with Friday. Fasting on Friday is not prohibited in these cases.
The wisdom behind forbidding fasting on Friday is that it is a day of supplication, remembrance of Allah, and worship. A Muslim devotes his day to performing Ghusl, going early to the mosque, waiting for the Friday prayer, listening to the Khutbah, and reciting Dhikr (i.e., remembrance of Allah) abundantly afterward. This is because Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {And when the prayer has been concluded, disperse within the land and seek from the bounty of Allah, and remember Allah often that you may succeed.} [Quran 62:10]. These are examples of the worshipful acts performed on that blessed day. Therefore, it is deemed forbidden to fast on that day to be inducive to performing these acts energetically and joyfully, and enjoying their performance without boredom or tedium. This is similar to the prohibition of fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah for the pilgrim. The Sunnah for a pilgrim is to refrain from fasting on that blessed day for the same wisdom. When a person also fasts a day before or after Friday, this compensates for any inactivity or negligence that may occur in the performance of one’s duties on Friday. It is also possible that the wisdom behind the Prophet’s prohibition of fasting on Friday was for fear that people would continue to observe fasting on Fridays habitually, and that it would be deemed obligatory on them, as he ﷺ feared observing night prayer regularly lest it would be deemed obligatory on Muslims. He ﷺ also feared that Muslims would venerate Fridays in the same manner the Jews and Christians venerated Saturdays and Sundays, giving up work and copying their unprescribed manner of veneration. Therefore, he ﷺ ordered that Muslims should refrain from fasting on Fridays, believing that blocking the ways leading to unfavorable results is better and more rewardable than completing the days that he ﷺ had intended to fast for the sake of Allah, Exalted is He. It could also be because Friday is the day of ‘Eid (i.e., ritual celebration) for Muslims.
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1986

Aboo Ayyoob narrated on the authority of Juwayriyah bint Al-Haarith (may Allah be pleased with them):
The Prophet ﷺ visited her (Juwayriyah) on a Friday and she was fasting. He ﷺ asked her, "Did you fast yesterday?" She said, "No." He ﷺ said, "Do you intend to fast tomorrow?" She said, "No." He ﷺ said, "Then break your fast." Through a different chain of narration, Aboo Ayyoob (may Allah be pleased with him) is reported to have said, "He ﷺ ordered her and she broke her fast.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺexplained the Laws of Islam rulings on voluntary fasting, and clarified the appropriate way to fast some days, including Fridays.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers Juwayriyah bint Al-Haarith (may Allah be pleased with her) related that the Prophet ﷺ once visited her on a Friday while she was fasting. He ﷺasked her, "Did you fast yesterday (Thursday)?" She replied in the negative and stated that she had not fasted. He ﷺ further asked, "Do you intend to fast tomorrow?" She replied in the negative as well, and therefore he ﷺ commanded her to break her fast.
It is noteworthy that the prohibition in this regard does not apply to the one who habitually fasts on alternate days, for example, when this fast happens to coincide with Friday, or someone who vowed to fast on the day when a sick loved one would be blessed with recovery and it coincided with Friday. Fasting on Friday is not deemed disliked in these cases.
The wisdom behind forbidding fasting on Friday is that it is a day of supplication, remembrance of Allah, and worship. A Muslim devotes his day to performing Ghusl, going early to the mosque, waiting for the Friday prayer, listening to the Khutbah, and reciting Dhikr (i.e., remembrance of Allah) abundantly afterward, because Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {And when the prayer has been concluded, disperse within the land and seek from the bounty of Allah, and remember Allah often that you may succeed.} [Quran 62:10]. These are examples of the worshipful acts performed on that blessed day. Therefore, it is deemed forbidden to fast on that day to be inducive to performing these acts energetically and joyfully, and enjoying their performance without boredom or tedium. This is similar to the prohibition of fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah for a pilgrim. The Sunnah for a pilgrim is to refrain from fasting on that blessed day for the same wisdom. When a person fasts one day before or after Friday as well, this compensates for any inactivity or negligence that may occur in the performance of his duties on Friday. It is also possible that the wisdom behind the Prophet’s ﷺprohibition of fasting on Friday was for fear that people would continue to observe fasting on Fridays habitually and it would be deemed obligatory on them, as he ﷺ feared to observe night prayer regularly lest it would be deemed obligatory on Muslims. He ﷺ also feared that Muslims would venerate Fridays in the same manner the Jews and Christians venerated Saturdays and Sundays, giving up work and copying their unprescribed manner of veneration. Therefore, he ﷺ ordered that Muslims should refrain from fasting on Fridays, believing that blocking the ways leading to unfavorable results is better and more rewardable than completing the days that he ﷺ had intended to fast for the sake of Allah, Exalted is He. It could also be because Friday is the day of ‘Eid (i.e., ritual celebration) for Muslims.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to break voluntary fasting..

1987

‘Alqamah (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
I asked ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), "Did Allah’s Messenger use to choose some special days (for good doing)?" She (may Allah be pleased with her) replied, "No, the (good) deeds (and worshipful acts) of the Prophet ﷺ were constant (and regular). Who amongst you could endure what he ﷺ used to endure? ".

Commentary :
The best good deeds in the sight of Allah, Exalted is He, are those performed regularly, even if few in number.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi’ee (a Muslim who saw at least one of the Companions) ‘Alqamah ibn Qays Al-Nakh‘ee asked the Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with him) whether the Prophet ﷺ used to single out certain days of the month for special good deeds and worshipful acts that he would not perform on other days. ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with him) replied in the negative and stated that the Prophet ﷺ used to perform good deeds and worshipful acts regularly and constantly. The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is ‘Deemah’, which linguistically denotes continuous rain that does not cease and is accompanied by stillness, with no thunder or lightning. The word has later been used in reference to other meanings as well. In her statement, ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) likened his performance of good deeds and worshipful acts to a continuous and constant rain, then she remarked that the Prophet ﷺ was able to endure and perform more acts of worship than anyone else, in terms of quality (i.e., the perfection of their performance), quantity, observing Khushoo‘ (i.e.,the state of the heart when it stands before its Lord in full submission, humbleness, and absolute concentration), obedience, humbleness, and Ikhlaas (i.e., devotion of one’s intentions and deeds exclusively and sincerely to Allah). A Muslim is enjoined to strive hard in performing worshipful acts and voluntary good deeds to the best of his ability, and observe them regularly.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the acts of worship and good deeds may be performed on any given day, and that they are not restricted to specific days, except for those blessed days to which the Laws of Islamhas assigned special virtues and merits.
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1989

Maymoonah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
People doubted whether or not the Prophet ﷺ was fasting on the day of `Arafat, so I sent milk while he was standing at ‘Arafaah Mount, he ﷺdrank it and the people were looking at him..

Commentary :
Fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah for a non-pilgrim abounds in good, but for a pilgrimit is better to refrain from fasting on that day, to preserve his physical strength to be able to perform the prescribed duties, since Hajj involves striving and endurance of hardship.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers, Maymoonah bint Al-Haarith (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet ﷺ, informed us that people had doubts about the Prophet’s fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah during the Farewell Hajj. Some said that he ﷺ observed fasting and others said he ﷺ did not. He ﷺ performed Farewell Hajj in 10 A.H. To eliminate all doubts, Maymoohah (may Allah be pleased with her) sent a cup of milk to the Prophet ﷺ while he was standing on ‘Arafah Mount to know with certainty whether or not he ﷺ was fasting. The Prophet ﷺ drank the milk as people were looking at him, and thus they all knew with certainty that he ﷺ was not fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah, and learned the prescribed act for a pilgrim.
It has been narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim that Umm Al-Fadhl bint Al-Haarith (may Allah be pleased with her) was the one who sent him the milk. It is possible that there were several cups of milk sent to the Prophet ﷺ on that occasion or that she and Maymoonah (may Allah be pleased with them) sent it together, and the reports referred to them both, being sisters. It is possible that Maymoonah (may Allah be pleased with her) sent the Prophet ﷺ that milk at the request of her sister Umm Al-Fadhl (may Allah be pleased with them) to verify the Prophet’sﷺ fasting, or it was the other way around.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the Prophet ﷺ used to clarify ambiguous situations for people when needed, out of his concern, mercy, and compassion for them.
It is also inferred therefrom that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) showed keenness in knowing the correct act of Sunnah for different matters.
It is also deduced therefrom that witnessing an event firsthand is more decisive than any given authentic report.
The permissibility of eating and drinking in assemblies and while standing could be inferred from the hadeeth.
The hadeeth also urges us to follow the example of the Prophet ﷺ and underlines the permissibility of resorting to strategies to know a religious ruling without explicit and direct questions. It also highlights the acumen of Maymoonah (may Allah be pleased with her).
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1993

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
Two fasts and two kinds of sale are deemed forbidden: fasting on the day of ‘Eid Al-Fitr and ‘Eid Al-Ad-haa and the two kinds of sale are: Mulaamasah and Munaabadhah. (i.e., two kinds of sale used to be practiced in the days of pre-Islamic period of ignorance; Mulaamasah means when you touch something displayed for sale you have to buy it, while Munaabadhah means when the seller throws something to you, you have to buy it.).

Commentary :
Islam has laid down Laws of Islam rulings governing worshipful acts and transactions. It prescribes rulings pertaining to fasting, prayer, and other acts of worship, and also prescribes legislations to preserve people’s wealth. It is incumbent on a Muslim to abide by the divine commands and avoid the prohibitions set by the Laws of Islam.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺ forbade fasting on two days: ‘Eid Al-Fitr, because fasting people celebrate the breaking (end) of their fast after the month of Ramadan, and the second is the Day of Nahr, the tenth of Thoo al-Hijjah, because it is the day when the pilgrims perform Hajj rituals and offer animal sacrifices. Allah, Exalted is He, has bestowed His hospitality (i.e., prescribing the refrainment from fasting) on His servants in these two days, and therefore whoever fasts on those days would be rejecting His hospitality.
Likewise, the Prophet ﷺ forbade two sales: Mulaamasah, which is an Arabic word derived from the root ‘La-ma-sa’, meaning touching. It refers to a way of selling practiced before Islam, and it means that when a buyer touches something displayed for sale, he has to buy it at the price decided by the seller. The second forbidden sale is: Munaabadhah, which is an Arabic word derived from the root ‘Na-ba-dha’, meaning renunciation. It also refers to a way of selling practiced before Islam, and it means that when a buyer throws something to the seller, the buyer has to buy it at the price decided by the seller. Both sales were conducted by people during the pre-Islamic era, and Islam forbade them, because they involve fraud and deception of the contracting parties (or one of them).
The hadeeth also highlights the utility of the Laws of Islam to keep away from causes of discord and dissension among Muslims, forbidding certain transactions that were commonly practiced by people in the pre-Islamic era of ignorance.
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1997

‘Urwah narrated on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah, and on the authority of Saalim narrating it on the authority of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):“Nobody was allowed to fast on the days of Tashreeq except those who could not afford the Hady (i.e., Hajj sacrificial animal).”.

Commentary :
The days of Tashreeq are the eleventh, twelfth, and thirteenth days of Thoo al-Hijjah, and they are blessed days bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He, upon Muslims, and He decreed that they should be taken as days of ‘Eid (i.e., ritual celebration).
In this hadeeth, ‘Aa’ishah and Narrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ did not prescribe fasting on the days of Tashreeq, i.e., three days after ‘Eid Al-Ad-haa, except for those who cannot afford to offer the Hady (i.e., Hajj sacrificial animal). This means that he ﷺ did not prescribe fasting on those days except for a pilgrim performing Hajj Al-Tamatu‘ (i.e., a pilgrim assumes Ihraam for ‘Umrah only, during the months of Hajj, which means that when he reaches Makkah, he makes Tawaaf and Sa‘y for ‘Umrah. Then he shaves or clips his hair. On the eighth day of Thoo al-Hijjah, the pilgrim assumes Ihraam again for Hajj only and carries out all of its requirements) or Hajj Al-Qiraan (i.e.,a pilgrim assumes Ihraam for both ‘Umrah and Hajj, or he assumes Ihraam first for ‘Umrah, then makes his intention for Hajj before his Tawaaf for Hajj) and cannot afford to offer the Hady. This means that a pilgrim cannot find it in Makkah sanctuary, either due to unavailability, or lack of its price, e.g., if it is sold at more than twice its normal price, or because it is available, but its owner would not sell it. In all of these cases, a pilgrim is declared unable to offer the Hady and should opt for fasting, whether or not he finds its price back in his country. He may fast on the Days of Tashreeq as part of the ten days that he has to fast. Allah, Exalted is He, Says (that which means): {And whoever cannot find [or afford such an animal] - then a fast of three days during Hajj and of seven when you have returned [home].} [Quran 2:196].
The Arabic word Hady incorporates all sacrificial animals that are slaughtered in the sanctuary, including: camels, cows, sheep, and goats.
In the prohibition of fasting on these days and the command to eat and drink therein lies a good wisdom, namely, that Allah, Exalted is He, knew the hardships of travelling, the fatigue of pilgrims in the state of Ihraam (i.e., ritual state of consecration), and the striving against the ‘self’ when performing Hajj rituals, and therefore He legislated for them a rest afterward to stay in Mina on the Day of Nahr and three days after it, and commanded them to eat from their Hady. These pilgrims are the guests of Allah, Exalted is He, and He is offering them hospitality out of His grace and mercy. Muslims in different parts of the world share such hospitality with the pilgrims, since they also strive in worship and show diligence in the first ten days of Thoo al-Hijjah, observing fasting, reciting Dhikr (i.e., remembrance of Allah), performing worshipful acts, and drawing closer to Allah by offering sacrificial animals. The also share in the forgiveness and ritual celebration, and all Muslims celebrate the hospitality of Allah, Exalted is He, by enjoying eating and drinking during the days of Tashreeq. They eat from His sustenance, and express gratitude to Him for His bounty. Since it is not appropriate for a generous host to let his guests go hungry, they are forbidden from fasting on these days.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the Islamic Laws of Islam promotes ease and facilitation, and that hardship begets ease..

1999

Narrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):Fasting for those who perform Hajj Al-Tamattu‘ (in lieu of the Hady which they cannot afford) may be performed up to the day of ‘Arafah, and if one did not offer Hady and has not fasted (before the ‘Eid) should fast of the days of Mina. (11th, 12th, and 13th of Thoo al-Hijjah)..

Commentary :
One type of Hajj is Hajj Al-Tamattu‘, which means that a pilgrim assumes the state of Ihraam (i.e., ritual state of consecration) with the intention of performing ‘Umrah (i.e., lesser pilgrimage) during the months of Hajj - which are Shawwaal, Dhul-Qa‘dah, and Thoo al-Hijjah - then ends his state of Ihraam, and reassumes it ontheDay of Tarwiyah (i.e., the 8th of Thoo al-Hijjah) to perform Hajj that same year.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar and the Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) informed us that whoever intends to perform Hajj Al-Tamattu‘ must fast the three days before the Day of ‘Arafah, and refrain from fasting on the Day of ‘Arafah, because the Sunnah for a pilgrim is to refrain from fasting on this day. A pilgrim performing Hajj Al-Tamattu‘ is required to offer the Hady (i.e., Hajj sacrificial animal) on the Day of Nahr (i.e., the 10th Day of Thoo al-Hijjah), meaning, the camels, cows, sheep, and goats that are slaughtered in the Sanctuary of Makkah. If a pilgrim cannot find a Hady in Makkah or cannot afford it, e.g., if it is sold for more than twice its normal price, or because it is available, but its owner refuses to sell it, a pilgrim, in all these scenarios, cannot offer the Hady and therefore must opt for fasting, whether or not he can afford buying the Hady in his country. He is required to fast three days in Hajj, and seven when he returns to his country, a total of ten days. If he cannot not find a Hady and did not fast before the Day of ‘Arafah, he may fast on the Days of Tashreeq, which are the days a pilgrim spends in Mina to cast the pebbles at the Jamrah (Pillar) of Al-‘Aqabah after the Day of ‘Eid, and they are: the eleventh, twelfth, and thirteenth of Thoo al-Hijjah.
The hadeeth highlights that the Laws of Islam promotes ease and facilitation pertaining toHajj rituals..

2003

Humayd ibn ‘Abdul-Rahmaan narrated that he heard Mu‘aawiyah ibn Abee Sufyaan on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ during the year he performed Hajj, saying on the pulpit, "O people of Al-Madeenah! Where are your religious scholars? I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, 'This is the day of ‘Aashooraa’. Allah, Exalted is He, has not enjoined its fasting on you but I am fasting it. You have the choice either to fast or not to fast (on this day).' ".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to instruct his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to fast on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ before the obligation of fasting on Ramadan was prescribed due to the virtue of that day.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi’ee (a Muslim who saw at least one of the Companions) Humayd ibn ‘Abdul-Rahmaan stated that the Caliph Mu‘aawiyah ibn Abee Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him) ascended the pulpit of the Prophet’s Mosque in Al-Madeenah once while visiting to perform Hajj. The first Hajj he performed was after assuming the Caliphate in 44 A.H., and the last one was in 57 A.H. The day coincided with the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, the tenth day of Muharram. It seems that he remained longer in Makkah or Al-Madeenah until the Day of ‘Aashooraa’. On that day, he said: “O people of Al-Madeenah, where are your scholars?!” He (may Allah be pleased with him) said so because he had heard that some people were deeming fasting on that day either obligatory, forbidden, or disliked. He (may Allah be pleased with him) summoned the scholars to edify them on the correct ruling in this regard, or to familiarize himself with the different information they might have had on that matter, or to rebuke them upon seeing or hearing of someone adopting a different opinion on that mater. Mu‘aawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed them that he heard the Prophet ﷺ say: “This is the Day of ‘Aashooraa’. Allah, Exalted is He, has not enjoined its fasting on you but I am fasting it.”
He ﷺ wanted to inform them that fasting on that day was not deemed obligatory on them.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ informed His Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) that he was fasting and gave them the choice either to fast voluntarily or refrain from fasting, and those who did not fast would not bear any sin for that because it was not incumbent to observe fasting on that day.
This hadeeth is an affirmation of the virtue of fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ because the Messenger of Allah ﷺ singled it out for fasting, commanded Muslims to observe fasting on that particular day, urged them to do so, and told them that he ﷺ was fasting it. All this wasonly so that they would follow his example and to highlight the merits of fasting on that blessed day. Verily, he ﷺ is the best example for us to follow.
It is noteworthy that this hadeeth does not contradict the one narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her)stating: “The Prophet ﷺ had ordered to observe fast (on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’) before the fasting in Ramadan was deemed obligatory, but when this became obligatory, it (fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’) became optional; whoever wished fasted on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, and whoever wished did not observe fasting (on that day).”
Moreover, Mu‘aawiyyah (may Allah be pleased with him) reverted to Islam after the Conquest of Makkah; this means that he had heard this hadeeth after his conversion to Islam, in 9 or 10 A.H., after the relevant ruling was abrogated (when the obligation of fasting on Ramadan was prescribed). Therefore, the meaning of the relevant report would be, “It is not prescribed to fast on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ after the obligatory fasting on Ramadanhas been prescribed.” He (may Allah be pleased with him) may also mean that the following ayah does not apply to fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’; Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {O you who have believed, decreed upon you is fastingas it was decreed upon those before you.} [Quran 2:183].
It has been reported in Saheeh Muslim on the authority of Aboo Qataadah (may Allah be pleased with him) that fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ expiates the sins committed in the previous year. Furthermore, it has also been reported in Saheeh Muslim on the authority of ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “When the next year comes, Allah willing, we will observe fast on the 9th day of Muharram as well,” meaning that he ﷺ would fast on the 9th and the 10th of Muharram. He ﷺ prescribed fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ as a voluntary act of worship.
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2004

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ came to Al-Madeenah and saw the Jews fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’. He ﷺ asked them about that. They replied, "This is a blessed day, on which Allah rescued Banee Israa’eel (Children of Israel) from their enemy. So, Prophet Moosaa fasted this day." The Prophet ﷺ said, "I have more claim over Moosaa than you!" So, the Prophet ﷺ fasted on that day and ordered (Muslims) to fast (on that day)..

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to instruct his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to fast on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ before fasting in Ramadan was made obligatory, due to the virtues of that blessed day.
In this hadeeth, ‘AbdullahNarrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ migrated from Makkah to Al-Madeenah, and on the following year he ﷺ found the Jews in Al-Madeenah fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, i.e., the tenth day of Muharram. He ﷺ asked them about the reason for it, and they stated that it was a blessed day when Allah, Exalted is He, rescued Prophet Moosaa (Moses) and the children of Israel from their enemy, Pharaoh, and caused him and his troops to drown in the sea. Therefore, Prophet Moosaa observed fasting on that day (to express gratitude to Allah), and when the Prophet ﷺ learned of that, he ﷺ stated that he had more claim over Moosaa than the Jews, being his fellow brother and Messenger of Allah and because he ﷺ was more obedient to Allah and adhered to the truth more earnestly than them. Therefore, he ﷺ had more right to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for saving Prophet Moosaa.This is why he ﷺ fasted on that day and commanded the Muslims to fast it, because we, Muslims, are more entitled to love and follow the example of Prophet Moosaa than the Jews, since they distorted the divine law revealed to him, while we are the true adherents of the religion of Allah, Islam, which is the very religion with which all the Prophets of Allah were sent.
In addition, Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the act of Sunnah in this regard is to observe fasting on the 9th and 10th days of Muharram, to be different from the Jews who fasted only on the 10th of Muharram, and this was narrated in Saheeh Muslim. Moreover, it has been reported on the authority of Qataadah (may Allah be pleased with him) that fasting on that day expiates the sins committed during the previous year, and this has also been cited in Saheeh Muslim.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to observe fasting to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for relief from an adversity or anguish, or the facilitation of a desired attainment..

2005

Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Day of ‘Aashooraa’ was considered as a ‘Eid (i.e., ritual celebration) by the Jews. So, the Prophet ﷺ ordered, "I urge you (Muslims) to fast on this day.".

Commentary :
Fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ has great virtues and merits, and the righteous predecessors (i.e., early Muslim generations) keenly fasted that day, following the example of the Prophet ﷺ, while contravening the Jews in the manner of their fasting.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Moosaa Al-Ash’ari (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Jews used to venerate the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ and take it as a festival, and therefore the Prophet ﷺ commanded Muslims to observe fasting on that day.
The apparent meaning of this narration is that the motive behind the Prophet’s command to fast on that day was out of his keenness to contravene the Jews, observing fasting on the days when they refrained from fasting and refraining from fasting on the days when they fasted, because the days of ‘Eid must not be fasted. The hadeeth narrated on the authority of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them), cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, indicates that the reason for his fasting was the approval of the reason for which they fasted on that day, i.e., expressing gratitude to Allah for saving Prophet Moosaa. However, the Jews’ veneration of that day and their belief in it as a day of ‘Eid did not necessitate that they refrained from fasting on it. Perhaps fasting on that day was a manifestation of veneration prescribed by their divine law. This was explicitly stated in another narration reported by Al-Bukhaaree on the authority of Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) reading: “… and saw the Jews venerating and fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’.” The version narrated in Saheeh Muslim reads: “People of Khaybar observed fast on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ and took it as ‘Eid.”
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the act of Sunnah in this regard is to observe fasting on the 9th and 10th days of Muharram, to be different from the Jews who fasted only on the 10th of Muharram, and this was narrated in Saheeh Muslim. Moreover, it has been reported on the authority of Qataadah (may Allah be pleased with him) that fasting on that day expiates the sins committed during the previous year, as has also been recorded in Saheeh Muslim.
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2006

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
I never saw the Prophet ﷺ seeking to fast on a day that he favored more than another except this day, the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, and this month, meaning the month of Ramadan..

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to observe many acts of worship and obedience regularly, one of which was fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’. He ﷺ observed fasting on that day to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for rescuing his brother Moosaa (Moses) fromPharaoh.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) related that he did not see the Prophet ﷺ intently and keenly seeking to fast on a day except the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, favoring it over other days of the year and singling it out for fasting.
It was narrated on the authority of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them), as cited in Saheeh Muslim, that the act of Sunnah in this regard is to fast on the ninth day of Muharram along with the Day of ‘Aashooraa’, to act contrary to the Jews. Moreover, it has also been authentically reported in Saheeh Muslim on the authority of Aboo Qataadah (may Allah be pleased with him) that fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ expiates the sins committed during the previous year.
This implies that the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ is the best day to observe fasting, Ramadan aside. However, Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) attributed that conclusion to his own knowledge and opinion, and his statement does not refute the other narrations reported by other Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) in this regard. For instance, a Marfoo‘ hadeeth (i.e., directly attributed to the Prophet ﷺ) was reported in Saheeh Muslim on the authority of Aboo Qataadah (may Allah be pleased with him) stating that fasting on the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ atones for the sins committed during the previous year, and that fasting on the day of ‘Arafah expiates the sins committed during two years: the previous and following ones. The apparent indication of the hadeeths is that fasting on the day of ‘Arafah is better (i.e., more virtuous and rewardable) than fasting the Day of ‘Aashooraa’. It has been said that the wisdom behind this is that the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ is attributed to Prophet Moosaa, while the day of ‘Arafah is attributed to the Prophet ﷺ, and therefore fasting it is deemed better (i.e., more virtuous and rewardable).
Likewise, the Prophet ﷺ was keen to fast the month of Ramadan, because it is obligatory, and due to the great bounties bestowed upon the fasting people during that blessed month, including: the divine mercy, deliverance from Hellfire, forgiveness of sins, and the Night of Al-Qadr, which is better and superior to one thousand months (i.e., equivalent to 83 years and 4 months).
In fact, Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) made mention of the Day of ‘Aashooraa’ and Ramadan in his statement, even though fasting in the first is optional and in the second is obligatory, because the common feature here is the abundant reward. The meaning of “seeking,” is that he ﷺ intended to fast it, aspiring to obtain its reward..

2010

‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Abdul-Qaari said: "I went out in the company of ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) one night in Ramadan to the mosque and found people praying in different groups. A man was praying alone or a man praying with a little group behind him. So, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, 'In my opinion, I would better gather these (people) under the leadership of one Qaari, Quran reciter (i.e., let them pray in congregation!)'. So, he (may Allah be pleased with him) made up his mind to congregate them behind Ubay ibn Ka‘b (may Allah be pleased with him). Then, on another night I went again in his company and people were praying behind their reciter. On that, ‘Umar remarked, 'What an excellent Bid‘ah (i.e., innovation) this is; but the prayer which they do not perform, but sleep at its time is better than the one they are offering.' He (may Allah be pleased with him) meant that performing night prayer in the last part of the night. (In those days) people used to pray in the early part of the night.".

Commentary :
The Caliph ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) was keen to revive acts of Sunnah, eradicate religious innovations, and fight whatever triggered disunity and dissention among Muslims. The Prophet ﷺ commanded Muslims to adhere to the practices of the rightly guided Caliphs (may Allah be pleased with them).
In this hadeeth, the Taabi’ee (a Muslim who saw at least one of the Companions) ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Abdul-Qaari, who was appointed by ‘Umar as the head of the Public Treasury, related that he went to the Prophet’s Mosque with ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with them) one night in Ramadhan, to find some people praying night prayer in different congregations. Some prayed individually, and others prayed in small congregations, small groups of three to ten. Therefore, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) thought about organizing Taraaweeh prayer (i.e., night prayer in Ramadan) in congregation for all Muslims, because it is more stimulating for the worshippers, and so that the they would not disturb each other when praying in small congregations.
He (may Allah be pleased with him)formed this view based on the actions of the Prophet ﷺ and his tacit approval of such an act when he ﷺ once led Muslims in congregation on one night of Ramadan. This was stated in a hadeeth narrated on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), that the Prophet ﷺ went out in the middle of the night and prayed in the mosque and some men prayed behind him. In the morning, people spoke about it and then a large number of them gathered and prayed behind him (on the second night). On the next morning the people again talked about it and on the third night the mosque was full with a large number of people. Allah's Messenger ﷺ came out and led them in prayer. On the fourth night the Prophet’s Mosque was overcrowded with people and could not accommodate them all, but the Prophet ﷺ came out (only) for Fajr prayer. When Fajr prayer was finished, he recited Tashah-hud and said (addressing the people): “Know that your presence was not hidden from me but I was afraid lest the night prayer should be enjoined on you and you might not be able to carry it on.”
‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) intended to organize congregational Taraaweeh prayers at the mosque and appointed Ubayy ibn Ka‘b (may Allah be pleased with him) as the Imaam, because he was one of the best Companions in the recitation and memorization of the Quran. When he (may Allah be pleased with him) went out on another night and found them praying in one congregation behind Ubayy ibn Ka‘b (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: “What an excellent Bid‘ah (i.e., innovation) this is,” because it was a good and righteous act, urging Muslims to pray in congregation as recommended. Even if it was not done during the reign of Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) him, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ held congregational Taraaweeh prayers. He ﷺ refrained from holding such congregational Taraaweeh prayers regularly lest it be deemed obligatory on Muslims and they would not have endured it.
His saying, “What an excellent Bid‘ah (i.e., innovation) this is” indicates that this practice has its basis and origin is the Sunnah, and it is not a religious innovation as per the laws of Islam that is labelled as misguidance, rather it is described as an innovation, in the linguistic sense of the word (i.e., being an unprecedented rather than an unprescribed act). The fact that ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Abdul-Qaari went to the Prophet’s Mosque once to find people praying Taraaweeh in congregation, indicates that ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) did not regularly pray with them, and perhaps he (may Allah be pleased with him) believed that performing Taraaweeh prayers individually at home was better (and more rewardable), especially at the end of the night.This is why he (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that people used to perform Taraaweeh prayers at the beginning of the night, but it would be better for them to sleep for a while, and then wake up at the end of the night to perform them.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to perform night prayers at the end of the night.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to perform night prayer in congregation.
It also highlights that a ruler should check on the ruled and keenly foster their interests, with regard to their religious or worldly affairs..

2015

Narrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):
Some men amongst the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ were shown in their dreams that the Night of Al-Qadr was in the last seven nights of Ramadan. Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "It seems that all your dreams agree that (the Night of Al-Qadr) is in the last seven nights, and whoever wants to seek it (i.e., the Night of Al-Qadr) should seek it in the last seven (nights of Ramadan).”.

Commentary :
The Night of Al-Qadr is one of the great and blessed nights of Ramadan, in which Allah, Exalted is He, states that the Quran was revealed. It has been highly praised and venerated by Allah, Exalted is He, given the fact that it abounds in great bounties and yields abundant rewards, which are described as being equal to those earned by devoting oneself to worship for one thousand months. During that blessed night, many angels descend, and many bounties and blessings are conferred upon people, and it is free of harm and evil.
In this hadeeth, ‘AbdullahIbn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) related that many of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) saw in a dream that the Night of Al-Qadr falls in the last seven nights of Ramadan. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "It seems that all your dreams agree that (the Night of Al-Qadr) is in the last seven nights, and whoever wants to seek it (i.e., the Night of Al-Qadr)…”, meaning by means of performing prayer, reciting the Quran and supplications, and diligently devoting himself to worship, “… should seek it in the last seven (nights of Ramadan).” It is possible that he ﷺ meant the last seven nights of Ramadan, starting from the 23rd night, or the last seven nights are after the twentieth night, which includes the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights.
It was called the Night of Al-Qadr because of its abundant virtues and great honor, or because the performance of worshipful acts in it yields greater reward.
The wisdom of Allah entailed that its exact date should be hidden from people so that they should strive and keenly devote themselves to worship throughout the last ten nights, and thus perform more worshipful acts and gain greater benefits (rewards).
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2017

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "Seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the odd-numbered nights of the last ten days of Ramadan.".

Commentary : 114270.

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Muhammad ibn ‘Abbaad said: I asked Jaabir, "Did the Prophet ﷺ forbid fasting on Fridays?" He replied, "Yes." (Other narrators added, "If he intends to fast only that day.").

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) I heard the Prophet ﷺ saying, "None of you should fast on Friday unless he fasts a day before or after it.".

Maymoonah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: People doubted whether or not the Prophet ﷺ was fasting on the day of `Arafat, so I sent milk while he was standing at ‘Arafaah Mount, he ﷺdrank it and the people were looking at him..