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Hadith
2021
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the last ten nights of Ramadan,' on the night when nine or seven or five nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan (i.e., the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights respectively).”.

Commentary : The Night of Al-Qadr is one of the blessed nights of Ramadan; it is a great and blessed night, in which Allah, Exalted is He, states that the Quran was revealed. It has been highly praised and venerated by Allah, Exalted is He, given the fact that it abounds in great bounties and yields abundant rewards, which are described as being equal to those earned by devoting oneself to worship for a thousand months. During that blessed night, many angels descend, and countless bounties and blessings are conferred upon people, and it is free of harm and evil.
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ commanded us to seek the Night of Al-Qadr, and strive in worship. He ﷺ underlined that we should seek it inon the night when nine nights remain out of the last ten nights of the month, i.e., the 21st night; when seven nights remain, i.e., the 23rd night; or when five nights remain, namely, the 25th night. The meaning is to seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the odd-numbered nights among the last ten nights of the month, such as: the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights.

It was called the Night of Al-Qadr because of its abundant virtues and great honor, or because the performance of worshipful acts on it yields greater reward.
The wisdom of Allah entailed that its exact date should be hidden from people so that they should strive and keenly devote themselves to worship throughout the last ten nights, and thus perform more worshipful acts and gain greater benefits (rewards).
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2022

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, “The Night of Al-Qadr is in the last ten nights of the month (Ramadan), either on the first nine or in the last (remaining) seven nights (of Ramadan).” Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) added, “Seek it on the twenty-fourth night (of Ramadan).”
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Commentary :
The Night of Al-Qadr is one of the great and blessed nights of Ramadan, in which the Quran was revealed. It has been highly praised and venerated by Allah, Exalted is He, given the fact that it abounds in great bounties and yields abundant rewards, which are described as being equal to those earned by devoting oneself to worship for one thousand months. During that blessed night, many angels descend, and countless bounties and blessings are conferred upon people, and it is free of harm and evil.
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ informed us that the Night of Al-Qadr falls in the last ten days of Ramadan, and that we should seek it when nine nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan, i.e., the 29th night; or when seven nights remain, i.e., the 23rd night; or it is unspecified and could be any night of the last seven nights of Ramadan.
It was called the Night of Al-Qadr because of its abundant virtues and great honor, or because the performance of worshipful acts on it yields greater reward.
The wisdom of Allah entailed that its exact date should be hidden from people so that they should strive and keenly devote themselves to worship throughout the last ten nights, and thus perform more worshipful acts and gain greater benefits (rewards).
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2024

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet ﷺ used to tighten his waist belt and used to devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers..

Commentary :
The last ten days of Ramadan are the best nights of the whole year and they include the Night of Al-Qadr, which is better (and more rewardable) than one thousand months, as Allah, Exalted is He, states in the Quran. This is why the Prophet ﷺ performed worshipful acts very diligently in these nights, and he urged his family to do the same.
In this hadeeth, ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) explained the situation of the Prophet ﷺ during these ten days, in terms of his diligence in worship and urging his family to follow his example. She (may Allah be pleased with her) said: “In the last ten days of Ramadan,” i.e., starting from the 21st night. Her phrase, “tighten his waist belt,” is a metaphor for keeping away from his wives (i.e., abstaining from sexual relations) and occupying himself with worship. He ﷺused to “devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers,” at night, and this is the enjoined encouragement of one’s family to perform voluntary acts of worship, and to exert their utmost in worship at this blessed time.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that maximizing one’s benefit from the blessed times (by devoting oneself to worship) requires resolve, patience, and self-discipline.
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2026

‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet ﷺ, said: “The Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf (i.e., spiritual retreat in the mosque to devote oneself exclusively to worship Allah) in the last ten days of Ramadan till he died and then his wives used to observe I‘tikaaf after him..

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to strive hard in worship to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, all the time, and one such time was the last ten days of Ramadan when he ﷺ used to observe I’tikaaf (i.e., a spiritual retreat in the mosque to devote oneself exclusively to worship), to dedicate himself exclusively to observing fasting, performing prayer, reciting Dhikr (remembrance of Allah), and other worshipful acts, and to seek the Night of Al-Qadr.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers, ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) used to observe I‘tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadan, starting from the 21st night till the end of the month. I‘tikaaf means a spiritual retreat in the mosque to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, (by devoting oneself exclusively to worship). The Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf during the last ten nights of Ramadan and did not neglect it until he died. After his death, his wives (may Allah be pleased with them) used to observe I‘tikaaf at the mosque in the last ten days of Ramadan. It was narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf along with some of his wives. They used to observe I‘tikaaf during his lifetime and after his death. At first, the Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf in the first ten nights of Ramadan, and later on observed it in the middle ten nights of Ramadan. Near the end of his life, he ﷺ observed I‘tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadan, seeking the Night of the Qadr.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable for women to observe I‘tikaaf at the mosque provided that the due requirements set by the Laws of Islam are met..

2033
 ‘Amrah narrated:
‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "The Prophet ﷺ used to practice I‘tikaaf in the last ten days of Ramadan and I used to pitch a tent for him, and after offering the morning prayer, he used to enter the tent." Hafsah asked the permission of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) to pitch a tent for her and she allowed her and she pitched her tent. When Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) saw it, she pitched another tent. In the morning the Prophet ﷺ noticed the tents. He said, 'What is this?" He was told of the whole situation. Then the Prophet ﷺ said, "Do you think that they intended to do righteousness by doing this?" He ﷺ therefore abandoned I‘tikaaf in that month and observe I‘tikaaf only for ten days in the month of Shawwaal.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to show diligence in worship to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, and a manifestation of such diligence was observing I‘tikaaf in the last ten days of Ramadan, to devote himself exclusively to worship, observing fasting, performing prayer, reciting Dhikr, and other worshipful acts. In this hadeeth, ‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet ﷺ used to observe I’tikaaf in the last ten days of Ramadan. I‘tikaaf means a spiritual retreat in the mosque to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, (by devoting oneself exclusively to worship) during daytime or night. ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) used to pitch a small woolen tent for the Prophet ﷺ were he ﷺ observed I’tikaaf. He ﷺ would perform Fajr prayer with the people and then go into the tent. Hafsah asked ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) to seek the permission of the Prophet for her to pitch a tent to observe I‘tikaaf and he ﷺ gave her the permission. When Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) saw her tent, she did the same. In the morning, the Prophet ﷺ saw many tents pitched in the mosque: one for him and three for his wives (‘Aa’ishah, Hafsah, and Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with them), as clarified in other narrations cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree). The Prophet ﷺ said, addressing the people who were with him, "Do you think that they intended to do righteousness by doing this?"
It seems that he ﷺ feared that their motive or drive for doing so was rivalry and blameworthy competitiveness triggered by jealousy to be near him, or feared that the rest of women would do the same, overcrowding the mosque so much that it would not accommodate the worshipers, or that their presence in the mosque would be as if he ﷺwas staying in his house rather than the mosque, and that they may preoccupy him from devoting himself exclusively to worship, and thus undermine the very purpose of I‘tikaaf. It is also possible that he ﷺ was jealous over them and disliked their stay in the mosque, given the fact that it accommodated all Muslims, including the Bedouins and hypocrites, and the Prophet’s wives would need to go in and out of their houses, and this would be inconvenient for them. All these reasons would undermine the very essence of I‘tikaaf.
On that occasion, the Prophet ﷺ left his tent and did not observe I‘tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadan, so that they would do the same; he ﷺ used to teach His Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) by example. He ﷺ observed I‘tikaaf that year in Shawwaal, making up for the I‘tikaaf that he ﷺwas going to observe in Ramadan.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable to pitch a tent for a worshipper in the mosque to observe I‘tikaaf therein.
It is also inferred that it is permissible for women to observe I‘tikaaf.
The permissibility of cancelling the I‘tikaaf after commencing it is also deduced from the hadeeth, and also that I‘tikaaf does not become obligatory upon holding the intention to observe it or commencing it.
It is also inferred therefrom that it is allowable to give up what is more favorable and better if it secures a benefit or an interest.
It is also deduced that it is permissible to allocate a specific place in the mosque to observe I‘tikaaf,  as long as it does not involve overcrowding the mosque and making it difficult for the other worshippers therein.
It is also inferred that when women observe I‘tikaaf, their places should be covered by some sort of cover, to protect their privacy.
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2042
‘AbdullahNarrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):
‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I vowed in the pre-Islamic period to perform I‘tikaaf in Al-Masjid Al-Haraam for one night." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Fulfill your vow." So, he (may Allah be pleased with him) observed I‘tikaaf there for one night..

Commentary :
A vow is an act of worship and a good deed by means of which one draws closer to Allah, Exalted is He, and it must be devoted exclusively to Him. In the Quran, Allah, Exalted is He, lauded His righteous servants, and promised them reward, making mention of the fulfillment of vows as one of their good qualities. He Says (what means): {They [are those who] fulfill [their] vows.} [Quran 76:7].
In this hadeeth, ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he once told the Prophet ﷺ that he had vowed before his conversion to Islam to observe I’tikaaf in Al-Masjid Al-Haraam, the Sacred Mosque in Makkah. I‘tikaaf means a spiritual retreat in the mosque to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, (by devoting oneself exclusively to worship) during daytime or night. The Prophet ﷺ commanded him to fulfil his vow and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) complied and observed I’tikaaf. The Prophet ﷺ commanded ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) to fulfill a vow that he had made before his conversion to Islam in the pre-Islamic time, because he (may Allah be pleased with him) had vowed to do a righteous and prescribed act that does not conflict with the Laws of Islam. However, if someone vows to do something that contravenes Islam, it is impermissible to fulfill such a vow.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to observe I’tikaaf at night, and it is not conditional upon fasting.
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2047
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
You people say that Aboo Hurayrah relates many narrations from Allah's Messenger ﷺ and you also wonder why the emigrants and Ansaar do not narrate from Allah's Messenger ﷺ as much as Aboo Hurayrah does. My emigrant brothers were busy in the marketplaces while I used to keep the company of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, content with what satisfied my hunger; so, I used to be present when they were absent and I used to remember when they used to forget, and my brothers from the Ansaar used to be busy with their property and I was one of the poor people of Suffah (i.e., homeless men who were sheltered in a place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque). I used to remember the narrations when they used to forget. No doubt, Allah's Messenger ﷺ once said, "Whoever spreads his garment till I have finished my present speech and then gathers it to himself, will remember whatever I will say." So, I spread my colored garment which I was wearing till Allah's Messenger ﷺ had finished his saying, and then I gathered it to my chest. So, I did not forget any of his narrations!.

Commentary :
The transmission of the Sunnah and narrating the hadeeths of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ are solemn and serious responsibilities, and the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were remarkably meticulous regarding narration of the hadeeths and the verification of their authenticity. Some Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) related numerous hadeeths and reports while others narrated only few, according to the time during which they kept the company of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) used to keep the company of the Prophet ﷺ more often and narrated more hadeeths than other Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). When Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) realized the bewilderment of some of them and their questions about his ability to narrate so many hadeeths on the authority of the Prophet ﷺ, he (may Allah be pleased with him) clarified the reasons for them. He (may Allah be pleased with him) highlighted that he was able to narrate more hadeeths compared to the emigrants and Ansaar, meaning all the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), because his fellow brothers from the emigrants were busy with trade in the marketplaces, while he (may Allah be pleased with him) kept the company of the Prophet ﷺ longer and settled for having enough food to satisfy his hunger and keep him alive! This is why he (may Allah be pleased with him) was present with the Prophet ﷺ most of the time. He (may Allah be pleased with him) used to be present when they were absent and used to remember when they used to forget, because he kept the company of the Prophet ﷺ longer.
On the other hand, the Ansaar were also preoccupied with tending to their property, farms and the like, while he was a poor man, who belonged to the People of Suffah (i.e., homeless men who were sheltered in a place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque) who did not engage in trade nor had any property to keep him busy. The word Suffah means a shaded place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque which was home to the strangers and poor homeless Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). Therefore, he (may Allah be pleased with him) was always near the Prophet ﷺ and conveniently listened to the discussions of many knowledge-related issues and the hadeeths of the Prophet ﷺ. This is why he (may Allah be pleased with him) used to remember and memorize the hadeeths that they missed out on. Afterward, he (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever spreads his garment till I have finished my present speech and then gathers it to himself, will remember whatever I will say,” meaning that he would be able to memorize whatever he ﷺ said. Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) hastened to spread his garment, which was a striped or colored garment, and kept it spread till Allah's Messenger ﷺ had finished his saying, and then gathered it to his chest. Thus, he (may Allah be pleased with him) did not forget any of his hadeeths or statements in that gathering!
Perhaps one blessing of the Prophet’s ﷺsupplication for him manifested in the fact that he (may Allah be pleased with him) memorized everything he had learned and heard from the Prophet ﷺ during his long stay with him.
The hadeeth highlights an apparent miracle exercised by the Prophet ﷺ.
It also underlines the virtues and merits of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him).
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a Muslim is urged to seek knowledge.
It is also inferred therefrom that it is allowable for a person to proclaim his good qualities and virtues to dismiss suspicions about himself, and not to praise himself.
It is also deduced therefrom that senior Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) engaged in trade and worked to earn their living..

2048
Ibraaheem ibn Sa‘d narrated on the authority of his father narrating on the authority of his grandfather:
‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf said, "When we came to Al-Madeenah as emigrants, Allah's Messenger ﷺ established a bond of brotherhood between me and Sa‘d ibn Al-Rabee‘, who said (to me), 'I am the richest among the Ansaar, so I will give you half of my wealth and you may look at my two wives and whichever of the two you may choose I will divorce her, and when she has completed the prescribed period (before marriage) you may marry her!' ‘Abdul-Rahmaan replied, "I am not in need of all that. Is there any marketplace where trade is practiced?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "The marketplace of Qaynuqaa‘." ‘Abdul-Rahmaan went to that market on the following day and brought some dried buttermilk (yogurt) and butter, and then continued to go there regularly. Few days later, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan came having traces of yellow (scent) on his body. Allah's Messenger ﷺ asked him whether he had got married. He replied in the affirmative. The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Whom have you married?' He replied, 'A woman from the Ansaar.' Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ asked, 'How much did you pay her (as dower)?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, '(I gave her) a gold piece equal in weigh to a date stone (or a date stone of gold)! The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Throw a wedding banquet even if with one sheep.'".

Commentary :
The Islamic Laws of Islam urges Muslims to seek self-sufficiency, work to earn their living, and refrain from begging others for money or relying on their charity, because a Muslim is enjoined to preserve his dignity and save face.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that when he migrated to Al-Madeenah, the Prophet ﷺ established a bond of brotherhood between him and Sa‘d ibn Al-Rabee‘ Al-Ansaaree Al-Khazrajee (may Allah be pleased with him), who was one of the leaders chosen during the pledge of Al-‘Aqabah. A bond of brotherhood was a contract between two men (one from the emigrants and the other from the Ansaar) to support and show solidarity to one another just as two blood brothers would do.
Sa‘d offered his brother, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with them), half his wealth and asked him to choose one of his wives, so that he would divorce her, and after her ‘Iddah expired he could marry her. However, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) rejected the (exceptionally) generous offer and said: “I am not in need of all that. Is there any marketplace where trade is practiced?” He guided him to the marketplace of Qaynuqaa‘, which was named after one of the Jewish tribes in Al-Madeenah.
‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) frequently visited the marketplace and engaged in the trade of dried buttermilk (yogurt) and butter, and continued to work until he earned money. Afterward, he (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet ﷺ having traces of yellow (scent) on his body (i.e., customarily applied to the groom in wedding ceremonies). The Prophet ﷺasked him whether he had got married, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) replied in the affirmative. The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Whom have you married?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, 'A woman from the Ansaar.' He (may Allah be pleased with him) married the daughter of Anas ibn Raafi‘, from Banee ‘Abd Al-Ashhal. The Prophet ﷺ asked, 'How much did you pay her (as dower)?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, '(I gave her) a gold piece equal in weight to a date stone (or a date stone of gold)! This was equivalent to the weight of three Dirhams and one third.
The Prophet ﷺ commanded him to throw a wedding banquet even with one sheep. A wedding banquet is thrown on the occasion of marriage and may be done with one sheep or more, according to one’s financial ability. If someone cannot afford it, there is no harm in that. The Prophet ﷺ threw a wedding banquet with Saweeq (i.e., a liquid meal made of wheat and barley) and dates for some of his wives.
It was said the establishment of brotherhood bonds between the emigrants and the Ansaar (after the migration to Makkah) had two reasons. First, it conformed with the common practice of forming alliances in the pre-Islamic times with which they were familiar. The Arabs even used to establish inheritance rights based on their alliances. However, the Prophet ﷺ said: “There is no alliance in Islam!” Islam cancelled the practice of forming such alliances, but retained the practice of establishing ‘brotherhood bonds’ because human beings tend to develop an aversion when asked to give up the familiar all of a sudden.
Second, the emigrants came to Al-Madeenah while being in dire need of wealth and accommodation (as they left everything behind). They were graciously hosted by their fellow Muslim brothers from the Ansaar, and therefore Islam confirmed this manifestation of (the enjoined) solidarity by establishing brotherhood bonds between them. After the Battle of Badr, the practice of establishing ‘brotherhood bonds’ was no longer needed, because Muslims started gaining spoils of war.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to engage in trade, and that it is one of the noblest means of earning lawful wealth.
The hadeeth highlights the incomparable affection, love, and altruism embodied by the emigrants and the Ansaar during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that a Muslim is urged to throw a wedding banquet on the occasion of marriage.
It is also deduced that it is allowable for a Muslim man to wear perfume at his wedding ceremony.
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2055
Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ passed by a fallen date and said, "Were it not for my doubt that this might have been given in charity, I would have eaten it." It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) the Prophet ﷺ said, "I found a date fruit fallen on my bed.".

Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, deemed it prohibited for His Prophet ﷺ or his household to avail themselves of charity, even an insignificant amount.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺpassed by a fallen date once, and he ﷺ did not know its source or owner. He ﷺ said that he would have eaten it had not he any doubt that it may have been given in charity. Therefore, he ﷺ refrained from eating it to avoid such doubts.
 Another version of the hadeeth reads: "I found a date fruit fallen on my bed," meaning he ﷺ refrained from eating a date fruit fallen in his own home lest it was given in charity, because he ﷺ used to distribute the dates offered in charity to the poor; it was possible that some date fruits could have clung to his garment and fallen on his bed or the like, or that he ﷺ was collecting dates given in charity in his house to distribute them and feared that this date belonged to them. Therefore, he ﷺ refrained from eating the it out of his mindfulness of Allah, lest it was given in charity.He would not eat it unless he ﷺ verified that it belonged to the household supply.
The hadeeth highlights the enjoined mindfulness of Allah and abandoning doubtful matters.
It is deduced from it that it is permissible to eat food that is thrown away by the road, because the Prophet ﷺ refrained from eating that date fruit only out of his mindfulness of Allah, lest it was given in charity.
It is also inferred therefrom that a Muslim’s wealth and property that only declared unlawful and inviolable to his fellow Muslims (as per the laws of Islam) is that which has a value.
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2057

 ‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
Some people said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Meat is brought to us by some people and we are not sure whether the Name of Allah has been mentioned on it or not (at the time of slaughtering the animals)." Allah's Messenger ﷺ said (to them), "Mention the Name of Allah and eat it.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺclarified for us the laws and rulings of religion and made clear the precise divine texts and the broadly indicative ones. He ﷺ detailed the rulings regarding food and beveragesand clarified the situations in which one is urged to avoid obsessiveness and doubts lest people should fall into hardship.
In this hadeeth, ‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that a group of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet ﷺ about the ruling on eating the meat of an animal when they were not sure whether or not the Name of Allah had been mentioned when it was being slaughtered, because the one who slaughtered it was a recent convert, as stated in the version cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, reading: “…a recent convert to Islam.” Another version reads: “… recent converts from polytheism.”
The Prophet ﷺ clarified to them that there was no harm in eating such meat and that they should simply presume that the Name of Allah had been mentioned upon it during the slaughter. He ﷺ instructed them to mention the Name of Allah upon eating it, as is prescribed when eating any food.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a Muslim is urged to have good expectations of his fellow Muslims.
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2059
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "A time will come when one will not care much how he gains his wealth, lawfully or unlawfully!".

Commentary :
Islam urges Muslims to seek lawful provision and ensure that they obtain wealth from lawful sources only. It underlines the reward for that act, and also warns against availing oneself of what is unlawful, in all its forms and in all facets of life.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ foretold that the Muslims’ situation would change and there would come a time when religiosity would be weakened, consciences and inner moral characters would be corrupted, and people would greedily vie with one another to accumulate more wealth, caring less about its sources, whether it was acquired through lawful or unlawful means! They would not bother ensuring that their wealth was acquired from lawful means only, such as permissible sales or working and earning a living. They would not mind gaining wealth from unlawful means such as theft, embezzlement, Ribaa (i.e., interest, usury), gambling, bribery, etc. Their ultimate aim and sole purpose would be acquiring wealth and raising money without verifying the lawfulness of the means of its acquisition.
The hadeeth includes a stern warning against acquiring wealth from unlawful means.
It also highlights the Prophet’s forecast of people’s situation at the end of time, and this falls under the category of disapproval, admonition, and warning. The hadeeth also underlines one of the Prophet’s miracles, foretelling future events..

2060
Aboo Al-Minhaal narrated:
I used to practice money exchange, and I asked Al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib and Zayd ibn Arqam about it, and they said: “We engaged in trade during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ and we asked about practicing money exchange (currency trading). He ﷺ replied, 'If the exchange is hand to hand, there is no harm in it; otherwise, it is not permissible.’".

Commentary :
Islam warns against falling into Ribaa (i.e., interest-based-loans, usury, etc.) in all its forms, because it involves devouring people's money unlawfully, and wipes out the blessing of one’s wealth.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi‘ee Aboo Al-Minhaal ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn Mut‘im Al-Bunaanee stated that he asked Al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib and Zayd ibn Arqam about the ruling on money exchange, like exchanging gold or Dinars for silver or Dirhams, and vice versa, or selling gold for gold, or silver for silver. They told him that they had engaged in trade during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ, encountered such transactions, and asked him about the ruling on money exchange or currency trading. He ﷺ clarified that if the exchange is done hand to hand, there is no harm in that, as long as the Taqaabudh requirement (i.e., reciprocal taking possession of the purchased commodity and its monetary equivalent by the buyer and seller respectively in the contracting session) is fulfilled. However, if the exchange or receipt when selling one currency for another currency or gold is delayed, it is prohibited (i.e., the exchange must be hand to hand).
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) used to work in trade and earn their living.
The hadeeth also urges Muslims to keenly investigate the lawfulness and unlawfulness of work dealings and business transactions.
It is also deduced that Taqaabudh (or immediate hand-to-hand exchange) is required in transactions that involve Ribaa Al-Fadhl (i.e., exchange or sale transactions in trade which effectively result in the charging of ‘interest’ through the exchange of the same commodity, but of a different quality or quantity).
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2062

‘Ubayd ibn ‘Umayr narrated: Aboo Moosaa sought permission to enter ‘Umar’s house, but was not given permission, because ‘Umar was busy, and therefore Aboo Moosaa left. When ‘Umar finished his task he said, "Did not I hear the voice of ‘Abdullah ibn Qays? Let him come in." ‘Umar was told that he had left. So, he sent for him and on his arrival, he (Aboo Moosaa) said, "We were ordered to do so (i.e., to leave if not admitted after seeking permission thrice). ‘Umar told him, "Bring a witness to prove your statement!" Aboo Moosaa went to the Ansaar's meeting places and asked them. They said, "None amongst us will witness to this except the youngest of us, Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree. Aboo Moosaa then took Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree (to ‘Umar) and ‘Umar said, surprisingly, "Has this command of Allah's Messenger ﷺ been hidden from me?" (Then he (may Allah be pleased with him) added), "I was preoccupied with trading in marketplaces!".

Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) used to comply with the Prophet’s ﷺcommands and adhere to the Islamic etiquettes, and they (may Allah be pleased with them) left the most wonderful legacy attesting that.
In this hadeeth, the Tabi’ee (Follower) ‘Ubayd ibn ‘Umayr stated that Aboo Moosaa, ‘Abdullah ibn Qays Al-Ash’aree (may Allah be pleased with him) sought permission thrice to enter ‘Umar’s house, as recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim. However, the Caliph ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was busy and did not give him permission to enter, and therefore he left. When ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) finished his task, he ordered that Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) should be given permission to enter, but he was told that he had left. ‘Umar summoned Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with them) and inquired about his reason for leaving instead of waiting to be given permission to enter. Aboo Moosaa told him that he was acting upon the command of the Prophet ﷺ in this regard. It has been narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim that the Prophet ﷺ said: “When one of you seeks permission thrice to enter and it is not granted to him, he should go back.” Upon hearing the hadeeth, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was shocked that such etiquette should have missed him, while he (may Allah be pleased with him) accompanied the Prophet ﷺ in residence and travel! He (may Allah be pleased with him) feared that Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) might have been confused and therefore asked him to bring a witness to testify to the authenticity of this act of Sunnah so that people would not take lightly the attribution of a statement or an act to the Prophet ﷺ. Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) went to the Ansaar’s meeting place and asked them to testify with him that this hadeeth was authentically attributed to the Prophet ﷺ. Since this matter was well-known and quite common among the Ansaar, they sent with Aboo Moosaa a young Companion Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree to ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them), and he testified as to the authenticity of the relevant hadeeth. Upon knowing that and learning of the authentic hadeeth on that act of Sunnah, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) attributed the reason for his lack of knowledge of it to his preoccupation with trade and spending a lot of time in the marketplaces. The Arabic word ‘Safq’ used in the hadeeth means handshakes upon concluding sales transactions.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that Muslims are required to investigate the authenticity of any statement before attributing it to the Prophet ﷺ.
It is also inferred that when a Companion (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “We were commanded”, it meant that the Prophet ﷺ commanded them.
The hadeeth also highlights that senior Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) engaged in trade and worked to earn their living.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) complied with the Prophet’s command and accepted it upon verifying its authenticity.
It is also inferred therefrom that even a knowledgeable scholar (like ‘Umar) may be ignorant of some knowledge issues that may be known to someone else who is less knowledgeable!
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2066
Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "If a woman spends something (i.e., in charity) from her husband's earnings without his permission, he will get half the reward.".

Commentary :
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ highly praised spending in charity and emphasized its reward, urging Muslims to spend more in charity. He ﷺ also underlined the reward earned by both the husband and wife when she spends in charity from her husband's earnings without his explicit consent, while knowing his tacit approval of such disposal of his wealth; or in the case that such act of disposal is customarily pardoned and approved. An example is when she offers in charity an insignificant amount of food or money. However, if she spends a significant amount of food or money in charity without his explicit consent and such an act is not customarily pardoned and approved, she earns no reward for her act and rather bears a sin for it.
If she spends in charity seeking to earn the pleasure of Allah, Exalted is He, the husband is credited with half the reward. She would earn the reward for spending in charity, and her husband would be credited with the reward for earning this money. It has also been said that the hadeeth rather means that the husband gets an equal share in the reward of spending charity; each gets half the reward, since whoever guides someone to a good deed receives a reward similar to that of its doer (i.e.,without his reward being diminished in any respect), and this entails having equal shares of the reward.
It is said that the money spent in charity, for which a husband gets half the reward when his wife spends, should be surplus to the enjoined maintenance on one’s household and children, after fulfilling their needs without extravagance or squandering.
It has also been said that the hadeeth refers to the case when a husband gives an allowance to his wife to provide for herself and her household. If she spends from such money without his knowledge, the reward is shared by them both; she gets the reward of spending in charity and he gets the reward for earning this money, and because he is also rewarded for the money he spends on his family in general. The wife gets the reward because this money was taken from the enjoined maintenance for her (and her household).
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2067
Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him):
I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "Whoever desires to have his Rizq (i.e., provisions) and life span expanded (i.e., blessed), should uphold ties of kinship.".

Commentary :
Upholding ties of kinship is one of the best acts of worship by means of which a person draws closer to his Lord, who commanded it, and warned against cutting it off. He even deems severing ties of kinship a cause to incur His punishment, and its upholding as a good deed warranting reward.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated the virtues and merits of upholding ties of kinship in this worldly life. The reference to ties of kinship incorporates all one’s relatives bonded by kinship ties, whether they are heirs or non-heirs, and the obligation of upholding ties of kinship is further emphasized the closer in kinship a relative.
He ﷺ stated that upholding ties of kinship is rewarded with having one’s Rizq (provision) blessed, and whoever wishes to earn such reward should uphold ties of kinship. He ﷺ also stated that such a good deed is rewarded with having one’s lifespan blessed, meaning to guide him to acts of worship and obedience, preoccupying his time with what benefits him in the Hereafter, and guarding him against wasting his life in other futile activities. It could also mean that his good remembrance would live longer after his death. It has also been said that there are two ends to one’s life on earth; one end is unconditional and only known to Allah and the second is conditional. Allah, Exalted is He, commands an angel to write down the lifespan of a given person, and it is said that he also writes: “If he upholds ties of kinship, he shall live until such-and-such time!” The angel does not have knowledge of whether or not this person’s lifespan shall be extended; this is only Known to Allah, Exalted is He.
Muslims are urged to uphold ties of kinship in countless religious texts. Upholding ties of kinship can be done by visiting one’s relatives when they are sick, checking in on them, paying them visits, talking nicely to them, helping them do what is good and righteous, spending in charity for the poor among them, offering gifts to the rich ones, and the like of what is customarily considered a means to uphold ties of kinship. It is noteworthy that ties of kinship are not merely upheld with those who uphold ties of kinship with us. The Prophet ﷺ said: “A person who perfectly upholds ties of kinship is not the one who does it to reciprocate or recompense those relatives (for being kind and good to them), but the one who truly upholds ties of kinship is the one who persistently upholds them even though such relatives have severed ties of kinship with him.” [Al-Bukhaaree].
It is deduced from the hadeeth that some good deeds may have lasting impacts and keep the doer’s good memory alive after his death, and may cause his lifespan to be blessed, beyond his actual lifespan..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..