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2543

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
I have loved the people of the tribe of Banee Tameem ever since I heard, three things, Allah's Messengerﷺ said about them. I heard him saying, ‘These people (of the tribe of Banee Tameem) would stand firm against Al-Dajjaal." When the Sadaqah (i.e., charity) from that tribe came, Allah's Messengerﷺ said, "These are the Sadaqaat (i.e., Zakaah and charity) of our folk." ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had a slave-girl from that tribe, and the Prophet ﷺsaid to her, "Manumit her as she is a descendant of Prophet Ismaa‘eel (Ishmael).”
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to hold people in due regard and laud their good qualities to win their hearts and underline their qualities which merited praise.
In this hadeeth, It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he (may Allah be pleased with him) loved the Banee Tameem, an Arab tribe, since the moment he heard the Prophet ﷺ lauding three of their good qualities.
First, they would stand firm against Al-Dajjaal when he emerges. Linguistically, the Arabic word ‘Dajjaal’ denotes concealment and deception, because he is a liar who covers up the truth, conceals it, and reveals falsehood. He will be a human being whose emergence will be one of the major signs of the Last Hour. His emergence shall be a trial and test for people, for Allah, Exalted is He, will grant him some abilities that are exclusive to Him such as: the resurrection of the dead person whom he shall kill, the time of prosperity and affluence that he will usher in, his heaven and fire, and his two rivers. Moreover, the treasures of the land will follow him, and he will command the sky to rain and the plants to grow, and they will comply. All of that shall happen by the power and will of Allah, Exalted is He, as a Fitnah and trial for people.
Second, when their Zakaah and charity funds were brought to the Prophet ﷺ, he ﷺ said: “These are the Sadaqaat (i.e., Zakaah and charity) of our folk." He ﷺ attributed them to himself because their lineage intersects with the Prophet’s, as they both can be traced back to Ilyaas ibn Mudhar.
Third, he ﷺ attributed them to Prophet Ismaa‘eel (Ishmael). ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had a slave-girl from that tribe, taken prisoner in one of the battles, and the Prophet ﷺsaid to her, "Manumit her as she is a descendant of Prophet Ismaa‘eel (Ishmael).”
It is inferred therefrom that it is allowable to take Arab captives as prisoners of war and retain ownership of them as is the case with non-Arab captives.
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2548

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah:
Allah's Messengerﷺ said, "A pious slave gets a double reward." Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) added: “By Him in Whose Hands my soul is but for Jihaad, Hajj, and my duty to serve my mother, I would have loved to die as a slave”.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ keenly urged slaves to obey their masters, for Allah, Exalted is He, does not allow a doer’s good deed to go unrewarded. When a slave shoulders great burdens and duties and carries them out as due, aspiring to the reward of Allah, Exalted is He, He shall reward him handsomely.
In this hadeeth, Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺsaid, "A pious slave gets a double reward,” meaning the slave who serves his master duly and fulfills his rights over him, and also honors the rights of Allah over him, i.e., worship, earns a double reward; one for his service to his master and aspiring to the rewards of Allah, Exalted is He, and the second is for his worship, like any obedient servant of Allah who fulfills the rights of his Lord over him. It was also said that such a slave earns a double reward if he serves his master with what constitutes obedience to Allah, Exalted is He, such as the service of the needy and weak people, when his master commands him to do so.
Afterward, Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) “By Him in Whose Hands my soul is, but for Jihaad, Hajj, and my duty to serve my mother, I would have loved to die as a slave.” He (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that had not it been for the (abundant rewards of) Jihaad, Hajj, and dutifulness towards one’s mother, observed by a free Muslim man, he (may Allah be pleased with him) would have loved and chosen to die as a slave to earn such great rewards. The reward of a good slave is after that of Jihaad, Hajj, and dutifulness towards one’s parents, because a slave is unable to perform such great acts of worship except with the permission of his master, who may hinder or prevent him from performing them.

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2551

Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "A Mamlook (i.e., slave) who worships his Lord in a perfect manner, and is dutiful, sincere and obedient to his Saiyyid (i.e., master), will get a double reward."
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ keenly urged slaves to obey their masters, for Allah, Exalted is He, does not allow a doer’s good deed to go unrewarded. When a slave shoulders great burdens and duties and carries them out as due, aspiring to the reward of Allah, Exalted is He, He shall reward him handsomely.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ underlined that a slave who worships and obeys Allah, Exalted is He, as due, fulfills the rights of his master, and displays sincerity and obedience to him, within what is permissible as per the laws of Islam, earns a double reward; one for his service of his master and aspiration to the rewards of Allah, Exalted is He, and also the reward of worship, like any obedient servant of Allah who fulfills the rights of his Lord over him.
The hadeeth urges slaves to perfect their adherence to and performance of the worshipful acts and be sincere in this regard.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that obedience to Allah, Exalted is He, is more imperative and takes precedence over the obedience to any created being, as it was given priority in the hadeeth.
It also underlines the vast and all-inclusive nature of the divine mercy and grace bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He, on His servants, and the multiplication of their rewards.
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2552

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "You should not say, 'Feed your lord (Rabbaka), help your lord in performing ablution, or give water to your lord, but should say, 'my master (e.g., Feed your master instead of lord etc.) (Saiyyidee), or my guardian (Mawlaaiy), and one should not say, my slave (‘Abdee), or my girl-slave (Amatee), but should say, my lad (Fatayaa), my lass (Fataatee), and 'my boy (Ghulaamee).
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Commentary :
In this Hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ underlined some guidelines for the Islamic etiquette of speech that instillshumility within Muslims’ hearts. He ﷺ highlighted the proper titles that should be used when masters and slaves address one another. He ﷺ forbade slave-owners to address their slaves or those owned by others using the title ‘lord’ in reference to a master or slave-owner, saying, ‘Feed your lord (Rabbaka), help your lord in performing ablution, or give water to your lord,’ and instructed them to rather use the title master (Saiyyid) or guardian (Mawlaa).
Moreover, he ﷺ forbade slave-owners to address their slaves saying, “my slave (‘Abdee), or my girl-slave (Amatee),” because absolute servitude is exclusive to Allah, Exalted is He, “but should say, my lad (Fatayaa), my lass (Fataatee), and my boy (Ghulaamee).”
The wisdom behind the prohibition is this regard is that human beings are required to devote their worship exclusively to Allah, Exalted is He, their One and Only Lord, and to refrain from associating any partners with Him, and therefore it is disliked to address someone as ‘lord’, lest one should fall into Shirk (i.e., associating partners with Allah). There is no difference in the relevant ruling when the addressee is a slave or a free man. As for what is not taken as an object of worship, such as animals and inanimate objects, it is not disliked to refer to their owner as ‘Rabb,’ which literally means lord, like saying the lord of the house for instance.
As for the fact that the title Rabb was used in His Saying (which means): {"Mention me before your Rabb (lit., lord)."} [Quran 12:42], and His Saying {Return to your Rabb (lit., lord).} [Quran 12:50], it was used to indicate the permissibility of using the title, and the prohibition in this hadeeth aims to urge Muslims to adhere to the becoming Islamic etiquette of speech and (graciously refrain from using it since), being a non-prohibitively disliked act rather than forbidden. It could also mean that a Muslim is forbidden from the excessive and habitual use of such titles, but it does not indicate deeming it strictly forbidden when used occasionally.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a Muslim is required to abide by the Islamic etiquette of speech even if the wording does not involve any violation of the Laws of Islam..

2557

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "When your servant brings your meals to you then if he does not let him sit and share the meals, then he should at least give him a mouthful or two mouthfuls of that meal or bits of the food, as he has prepared it."
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ taught us the Islamic etiquette of dealing with servants and the less fortunate, and urged Muslims to treat them well and honor them.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ instructed Muslims to abide by refined Islamic etiquette when interacting with one’s servants and slaves. He ﷺ enjoined a master or slave-owner to invite the servant, who serves him food, to join him for the meal that he has prepared and cooked. If he cannot invite him to join him for the meal for a valid excuse, like having a small quantity of food, involuntarily disliking it and fearing to force himself into it lest he should fall into a Laws of Islam violation, or for any other reason like his wish to enjoy a delicious meal on his own, or that a servant dislikes it out of bashfulness or politeness, he should feed the servant from the food he has prepared. He ﷺ instructed that he should offer the servant a mouthful or two mouthfuls of that meal. It was also said that he ﷺ said, “bits of the food.” To reconcile between the two wordings, it can be fairly said that the meaning of the two wordings is close; it is possible that the narrator doubted as whether the Prophet ﷺ had said ‘mouthful’ or ‘bits of food’, and narrated them both using the particle of conjunction “Aww” (or) to indicate his doubt and be honest in narrating the hadeeth. It is also possible the Prophet ﷺ used the particle of conjunction “Aww” (or) to couple two synonyms.
The Prophet ﷺ justified the command to feed the servant from the meal he has prepared by saying that he is the one who endured the heat and smoke when cooking the food, went to the trouble of preparing the meal for him, smelled the aroma of delicious food, and craved to taste it. Moreover, eating with one’s servant is a manifestation of humbleness and modesty, and it distances one from arrogance, and this is part of the becoming etiquette of the believers and the good manners of the Messengers of Allah..

2559

It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺsaid, "If somebody fights (or beats somebody), let him avoid striking the face."
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Commentary :
Man is the creation of Allah, Exalted is He; He created, honored, and favored him over many other created beings. He enjoins us to honor and respect human sanctity, and specifically commanded us to respect the face, being the loftiest body part that is associated with human dignity and honor.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ commands Muslims to avoid striking the face, if they have to hit someone in a quarrel, fight, and the like. The prohibition in this regard also applies to all (prescribed) disciplinary measures towards one’s servant, wife, and children. It is prohibited to strike someone’s face, because it is special; its parts are invaluable and crucial for most human cognitive processes; striking the face may cause serious damage to a person’s cognitive abilities. It might also deform the face, which is a substantial damage because the face is the most prominent body part that is hard to cover, and striking it often causes some sort of damage.
The version of the hadeeth recorded in Saheeh Muslim further clarified the rationale behind the prohibition in this regard. The Prophet ﷺ said: “When any of you fights another person, let him avoid striking the face, for Allah, Exalted is He, created Adam in His own image.” This means that Allah, Exalted is He, created Man in His own image, but this does not mean that He is like His creation. Rather, Allah, Exalted is He, is nothing like His creation, for His Attributes befit His Majesty and Grandeur, and human beings’ attributes suit them as well. The attributes of human beings are subject to non-existence and imperfection, whereas the Attributes of Allah are perfect and ever-lasting. Therefore, Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {There is nothing like unto Him, and He is the Hearing, the Seeing.} [Quran 42:11]. He also Says (what means): {Nor is there to Him any equivalent.} [Quran 112:4].
This hadeeth underlines one of the Attributes of Allah, Exalted is He, in which we are enjoined to believe without Tahreef (i.e., distortion) or Ta‘teel (i.e., denial), Takyeef (i.e., trying to describe "how" an Attribute is, e.g., to say: How Allah's Face is), or Tashbeeh and Tamtheel (i.e., likening Allah to His creation).
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2566

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, “O Muslim women! None of you should look down upon the gift sent by her female neighbor even if it were the trotters of sheep (i.e., fleshless part of sheep’s legs).”
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, shall reward Muslims for all good deeds and acts of kindness, no matter how small they may seem. He Says (what means): {So whoever does an atom's weight of good will see it.} [Quran 99: 7].
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ enjoined women not to belittle any gift they may offer to their neighbors, even it was sheep’s trotters (i.e., fleshless part of sheep’s legs)! It was said that the meaning of the Prophet’s ﷺstatement is that a woman must not look down on any gift, as insignificant as it may seem, that she offered to her neighbors, meaning that she should not refrain from offering charity and gifts to her neighbors because she believes such gifts and charity are insignificant. Rather, they are enjoined to spend in charity and offer gifts from whatever they have available, regardless of its worth, even if it was a sheep’s trotter or a goat’s hoof; it is better than nothing. If people generously spend in charity and exchange gifts from small provisions, it will add up, and such acts foster mutual love and affection, and expel grudges and hatred. Moreover, small gifts are more indicative of affection, and are also easier and more convenient for the gift giver, being more affordable. The Prophet ﷺ made mention of women in particular because they often belittle such small things, boast about abundance, and the like.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to offer gifts to their neighbors.

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2567

‘Urwah narrated:
‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to me, "O my nephew! We used to see the crescent, and then the crescent and then the crescent in this way we saw three crescents in two months and no fire (for cooking) used to be made in the houses of Allah's Messenger ﷺ. I said, "O my aunt! Then what did you eat to sustain yourselves?" ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "The two black foodstuff: dates and water; our neighbors from Ansaar had some milch she-camels and they used to present Allah's Messenger ﷺ some of their milk and he ﷺ used to offer it to us to drink it.".

Commentary :
This hadeeth highlights the Prophet’s asceticism and renouncement of this worldly life. He ﷺ was content with a small share of worldly provisions and pleasures and endured it. He ﷺ was content with having his basic needs and necessities of life, and gave preference to the Hereafter over the worldly life. The Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah bint Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with them) said to her nephew ‘Urwah ibn Al-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him), the son of her sister Asmaa’ bint Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with them), that they used to wait three crescents in a row, i.e., 60 days or three consecutive months, and no fire (for cooking) would be used in the houses of Allah's Messenger ﷺ! ‘Urwah exclaimed: “O my aunt! Then what did you eat to sustain yourselves?” ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "The two black foodstuffs: dates and water;” Arabs used one word to refer to both dates and water (since dates and water are usually consumed together), Al-Aswadaan (i.e., the two black things) even though only the dates are black (which is known in Arabic language as Taghleeb), giving preference to the color of dates.
She (may Allah be pleased with her) added: “… our neighbors from the Ansaar,” and it was said that they were Sa‘d ibn ‘Ubaadah, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr ibn Haraam, Aboo Ayyoob Khaalid ibn Zayd, Sa‘d ibn Zuraarah, and others (may Allah be pleased with them), “… had some milch she-camels and they used to present Allah's Messenger ﷺ some of their milk and he ﷺ used to offer it to us to drink it. It was also said that the Arabic word Manaa’ih referred to milch she-camels or sheep that are gifted to someone else to avail himself of their milk, and then return them to their owners. It could also mean that such she-camels or sheep are offered as life-long gifts to others to keep and avail themselves of their milk and other benefits. These men from the Ansaar used to gift such milk to the Prophet ﷺ, who offered it to his household members as sustenance.
The hadeeth underlines the merits of the Ansaar (may Allah be pleased with them) and the virtues of exchanging gifts and presents, as small and insignificant as they may seem.
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2568

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "I shall accept the invitation even if I were invited to a meal of a sheep's arm or trotter, and I shall accept the gift even if it were a sheep's arm or trotter."
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to accept invitations and gifts, regardless of their worth, out of his refined moral character and graciousness.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ instructed his Ummah, saying: “I shall accept the invitation even if I were invited to a meal of a sheep's arm or trotter, and I shall accept the gift even if it were a sheep's arm or trotter.” The most beloved part to the Prophet ﷺ from a slaughtered animal was its arm, because this meat can be cooked easily, and is more delicious than the other parts of the animal. A sheep’strotter means the fleshless part of the legs below the knees. He ﷺ stated that if he was invited for a meal of a sheep’s arm or trotter, or it was gifted to him, he ﷺ would graciously accept it. He ﷺ made mention of a sheep’s arm or trotter to indicate his keenness to accept invitations and gifts, regardless of their worth. This reflects his humbleness, kindness, and consideration of the host’s or gift-giver’s feelings, lest he may be hurt or harmed if he ﷺ turned down his invitation or gift.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to accept gifts and invitations, and graciously eat from any food served to them, even if it was a small humble meal.
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2571

Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him):
Once Allah's Messengerﷺvisited us in this house of ours and asked for something to drink. We milked one of our sheep and mixed it with water from this well of ours and gave it to him. Aboo Bakr was sitting on his left side and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) in front of him and a Bedouin on his right side. When Allah's Messengerﷺfinished, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to Allah's Messenger ﷺ, “Here is Aboo Bakr!" But Allah's Messengerﷺ gave the remaining milk to the Bedouin and said twice, "The (persons on the) right side! Start from the right side." Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "It is an act of Sunnah," and repeated it thrice.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was keen to instill goodness and adherence to true guidance within Muslims, an example of which is teaching Muslims to start with the right side in every act where it is optional; the right side is blessed since the people of the right hand (i.e., those whose books of records will be placed in their right hands) are the people of Paradise.
In this hadeeth, Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺvisited their house and asked for something to drink. They milked one of their sheep, and Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) mixed it with water from the well inside their house and gave it to the Prophet ﷺ. Aboo Bakr was sitting on his left side, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) in front of him, and a Bedouin on his right side. When Allah's Messengerﷺfinished drinking, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him, “Here is Aboo Bakr!" He (may Allah be pleased with him) meant to ask the Prophet ﷺ to give him the milk, but heﷺ gave the remaining milk to the Bedouin and said twice, "The (persons on the) right side! Start from the right side,” meaning that those on one’s righthand side should be given precedence, and repeatedly emphasized it by the following command to start with the right side. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "It is an act of Sunnah," and repeated it thrice, to further stress its importance, and the Prophet’s command in this regard.
In the same vein, it was narrated on the authority of Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Saa‘idee (may Allah be pleased with him), and recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, that the Prophet ﷺ was oncewas offered something to drink. He ﷺ drank of it while on his right was a boy, i.e., Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them), and on his left were some elderly people. He ﷺ said to the boy, "May I give these (elderly) people first?" The boy said, "By Allah, O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I will not give up my share from you to somebody else." On that, Allah's Messenger ﷺ placed the cup in the hand of that boy. In this incident, he ﷺ sought permission from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) because he was on his right side and worthier of the turn, and did not seek the Bedouin’s permission in the other hadeeth to give the milk to Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) out of consideration of his feelings, being a new revert and lest he should assume that the Prophet ﷺ was disgusted by him, and that he ﷺ was offending him, acting upon the Arabs’ prejudice against Bedouins in the pre-Islamic era, in light of the Bedouins’ reputation for being harsh and discourteous. Moreover, he ﷺ sought the permission of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) to offer the beverage to the elderly and elite of his people, as he ﷺ was confident that he (may Allah be pleased with him) would not mind being asked to do so, and out of courtesy and consideration for the elderly people, and also to edify those who did not know on the relevant ruling, and that he ﷺ could not deny the one on his right hand his turn except with his permission.
As for the fact that other Laws of Islam texts have been reported regarding giving precedence to elderly people, there is no contradiction between their indication and the command to start with one’s right hand; giving precedence to the elderly people should be done when all the concerned people are of equal statuses (as far as all other qualities are concerned). In this case, the older person should be given precedence. The same goes for the case when a group of people do not sit in order, i.e., ranked by age; in this case the older ones should be given precedence. However, if they sat down in order, the one sitting on the right side should be given precedence and he is more deserving of it than the elder.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the act of Sunnah is to give the beverage to the one on the right side, even if the one on the left side is more virtuous.

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2572

Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him):
Once Allah's Messengerﷺvisited us in this house of ours and asked for something to drink. We milked one of our sheep and mixed it with water from this well of ours and gave it to him. Aboo Bakr was sitting on his left side and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) in front of him and a Bedouin on his right side. When Allah's Messengerﷺfinished, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to Allah's Messenger ﷺ, “Here is Aboo Bakr!" But Allah's Messengerﷺ gave the remaining milk to the Bedouin and said twice, "The (persons on the) right side! Start from the right side." Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "It is an act of Sunnah," and repeated it thrice.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was keen to instill goodness and adherence to true guidance within Muslims, an example of which is teaching Muslims to start with the right side in every act where it is optional; the right side is blessed since the people of the right hand (i.e., those whose books of records will be placed in their right hands) are the people of Paradise.
In this hadeeth, Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺvisited their house and asked for something to drink. They milked one of their sheep, and Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) mixed it with water from the well inside their house and gave it to the Prophet ﷺ. Aboo Bakr was sitting on his left side, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) in front of him, and a Bedouin on his right side. When Allah's Messengerﷺfinished drinking, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him, “Here is Aboo Bakr!" He (may Allah be pleased with him) meant to ask the Prophet ﷺ to give him the milk, but heﷺ gave the remaining milk to the Bedouin and said twice, "The (persons on the) right side! Start from the right side,” meaning that those on one’s righthand side should be given precedence, and repeatedly emphasized it by the following command to start with the right side. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "It is an act of Sunnah," and repeated it thrice, to further stress its importance and the Prophet’s ﷺcommand in this regard.
In the same vein, it was narrated on the authority of Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Saa‘idee (may Allah be pleased with him), and recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, that the Prophet ﷺ was oncewas offered something to drink. He ﷺ drank of it while on his right was a boy, i.e., Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them), and on his left were some elderly people. He ﷺsaid to the boy, "May I give these (elderly) people first?" The boy said, "By Allah, O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I will not give up my share from you to somebody else." On that, Allah's Messenger ﷺ placed the cup in the hand of that boy. In this incident, he ﷺ sought permission from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) because he was on his right side and worthier of the turn, and did not seek the Bedouin’s permission in the other hadeeth to give the milk to Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him), out of consideration of his feelings, being a new revert and lest he should assume that the Prophet ﷺ was disgusted by him, and that he ﷺ was offending him, acting upon the Arabs’ prejudice against Bedouins in the pre-Islamic era, in light of the Bedouins’ reputation for being harsh and discourteous. Moreover, he ﷺ sought the permission of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) to offer the beverage to the elderly and elite of his people, as he ﷺ was confident that he (may Allah be pleased with him) would not mind being asked to do so, and out of courtesy and consideration for the elderly people, and also to edify those who did not know on the relevant ruling and that he ﷺ could not deny the one on his right hand his turn except with his permission.
As for the fact that other Laws of Islam texts have been reported regarding giving precedence to elderly people, there is no contradiction between their indication and the command to start with one’s right hand; giving precedence to the elderly people should be done when all the concerned people are of equal statuses (as far as all other qualities are concerned). In this case, the older person should be given precedence. The same goes for the case when a group of people do not sit in order, i.e., ranked by age; in this case the older ones should be given precedence. However, if they sat down in order, the one sitting on the right side should be given precedence, and he is more deserving of it than the elder.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the act of Sunnah is to give the beverage to the one on the right side, even if the one on the left side is more virtuous.

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2576

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
We chased a rabbit at Marr Al-Thahraan and people ran after it but were exhausted. I overpowered and caught it, and gave it to Aboo Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) who slaughtered it and sent its hip or two thighs to Allah's Messenger ﷺ. (The narrator confirms that he sent two thighs). The Prophet ﷺ accepted his gift. (The sub-narrator asked Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), "Did the Prophet ﷺ eat from it?" Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "He ﷺ ate from it.")
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was the humblest of all people, and a manifestation of his (exemplary) humility was that he ﷺaccepted gifts from his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), regardless of their worth.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) stated: “We chased a rabbit at Marr Al-Thahraan, meaning that they forced it out of its hole and chased it at Marr Al-Thahraan, a valley five miles (8 kilometers) from Makkah in the direction of Al-Madeenah. People ran after it but were exhausted. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) overpowered and caught it.He said: “I gave it to Aboo Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) who slaughtered it,” for Aboo Talhah Al-Ansaaree was his stepfather, who married his mother Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with them). Aboo Talhah sent Anas (may Allah be pleased with them) with its hip or two thighs to Allah's Messenger ﷺ, as a gift. Shu‘bah ibn Al-Hajjaaj, a sub-narrator of the hadeeth, confirmed that he sent two thighs. Shu‘bah doubted at the beginning as to whether he (may Allah be pleased with him) had gifted the rabbit’s hips or thighs to the Prophet ﷺ but then learnt with certainty that he (may Allah be pleased with him) sent him the thighs; the hips are part of the thighs. The Prophet ﷺ accepted the gift. Shu‘bah also doubted as to whether the Prophet ﷺ ate from it or not, but merely narrated that he ﷺaccepted it. When Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) was asked about it, he (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "He ﷺ ate from it." Shu‘bah was certain that he ﷺ accepted the gift but doubted as to whether he ﷺ ate it or not. Anyway, whether he ﷺ ate it or merely accepted it, this hadeeth evidences that it is allowable to eat rabbit meat.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that accepting a hunted gift and the like is allowable.
It is also deduced therefrom that hunting is permissible as long it does not lead to missing the prayers or other religious and worldly interests.
It is also inferred that a hunted animal belongs to the one who catches and takes it, and none of the chasers has the right to any share of it..

2581

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
Whenever a meal was brought to Allah's Messengerﷺ,he would ask whether it was a gift or Sadaqah (i.e., charity). If he ﷺ was told that it was Sadaqah, he ﷺ would tell his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to eat it, but if it was a gift, he ﷺ would hasten to share it with them.
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Commentary :
It was forbidden for the Prophet ﷺ to eat or avail himself of what is given in charity, because it may be paid by some people as means to purify their wealth from unlawful earnings or as atonement for their sins.
In this hadeeth, It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that whenever a meal was brought to Allah's Messengerﷺ,he would ask whether it was a gift or Sadaqah (i.e., charity). If he ﷺ was told that it was Sadaqah, he ﷺ would tell his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) to eat it, but if it was a gift, he ﷺ would hasten to share it with them. This is because it was deemed unlawful for the Prophet ﷺ to eat from what was given in charity. He ﷺ used to eat from a meal offered as a gift rather than the one give in charity, because the exchange of gifts fosters love and affection, and it was possible that he ﷺ would reward the gift-giver with a similar or better gift so that none should do a favor to the Prophet ﷺ (that would go unrewarded), but this was not the same for charity, and this was the wisdom behind the different rulings.
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2582

‘Azrah ibn Thaabit Al-Ansaaree narrated:When I went to Thumaamah ibn ‘Abdullah, he gave me some perfume and said that Anas (may Allah be pleased with him)would not reject the gifts of perfume and said that the Prophet ﷺwould not reject any perfume gifted to him.
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Commentary :
Perfume was one of the most beloved things to the Prophet ﷺ, as he used to love (cleanliness and) good scent and disliked that his body odor should not be pleasant, which was not possible, because he ﷺ always had a good smell, and wore the best perfume, so much that people used to use his sweat as perfume.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi‘ee ‘Azrah ibn Thaabit Al-Ansaaree narrated that he visited Thumaamah ibn ‘Abdullah ibn Anas ibn Maalik, who gave him some perfume and told him that his grandfather Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) never turned down perfume gifted to him, following the example of the Prophet ﷺ who did not turn down perfume that was gifted to him.
The prohibition of turning down gifts of perfume was reported along with the wisdom behind it in the hadeeth narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), and recorded by Aboo Daawood, reading: “Whoever is offered perfume (as a gift), let him not refuse it, for it is easy to carry, and smells good.”
The hadeeth urges Muslims to considerately accept people’s gifts.
It is also inferred therefrom that Muslims are urged to wear fragrance and use aromatic perfumes..

2585

‘Aai’shah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
Allah's Messengerﷺused to accept gifts and used to give something in return.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was the humblest of all people, and a manifestation of such (exemplary) humility was that he ﷺ would accept gifts from his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), regardless of their worth.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) stated that the Prophet ﷺ used to accept gifts from people and never turned down any gift given to him, regardless of its value. In this vein, the Prophet ﷺ said: “I shall accept the gift even if it were an arm or a trotter of a sheep.” [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim].
This reflected his graciousness and noble moral character as he ﷺ was keen to win people’s hearts. He ﷺ used to accept people’s gifts, no matter how insignificant they may seem, and reward the gift givers with similar or better gifts, acting upon the Islamic etiquette of rewarding acts of kindness in kind, with one better than it or [at least] return it [in a like manner] and so that none should do a favor to the Prophet ﷺ that goes unrewarded.
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1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah: Allah's Messengerﷺ said, "A pious slave gets a double reward." Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) added: “By Him in Whose Hands my soul is but for Jihaad, Hajj, and my duty to serve my mother, I would have loved to die as a slave”. .

Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Prophet ﷺ said, "A Mamlook (i.e., slave) who worships his Lord in a perfect manner, and is dutiful, sincere and obedient to his Saiyyid (i.e., master), will get a double reward." .

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Prophet ﷺ said, "When your servant brings your meals to you then if he does not let him sit and share the meals, then he should at least give him a mouthful or two mouthfuls of that meal or bits of the food, as he has prepared it." .

It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺsaid, "If somebody fights (or beats somebody), let him avoid striking the face." .

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Prophet ﷺ said, “O Muslim women! None of you should look down upon the gift sent by her female neighbor even if it were the trotters of sheep (i.e., fleshless part of sheep’s legs).” .

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Prophet ﷺ said, "I shall accept the invitation even if I were invited to a meal of a sheep's arm or trotter, and I shall accept the gift even if it were a sheep's arm or trotter." .

‘Azrah ibn Thaabit Al-Ansaaree narrated:When I went to Thumaamah ibn ‘Abdullah, he gave me some perfume and said that Anas (may Allah be pleased with him)would not reject the gifts of perfume and said that the Prophet ﷺwould not reject any perfume gifted to him. .

‘Aai’shah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: Allah's Messengerﷺused to accept gifts and used to give something in return. .