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It was narrated that al-Aswad said: Ibn al-Zubayr said to me: ‘A’ishah used to tell many things exclusively to you; what did she tell you about the Kaaba? I said: She told me that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “O ‘A’ishah, were it not that your people only recently left disbelief behind, I would have demolished the Kaaba [and rebuilt it], and I would have given it two doors, a door for the people to enter and a door for them to exit.” And Ibn al-Zubayr did that..

Commentary : The Kaaba is the House of Allah on earth and the qiblah of the Muslims. Allah has honoured it, caused people to hold it in high esteem and love it, and has made it a destination for the Hajj.
In this hadith, the Tabi’i al-Aswad ibn Yazid al-Nakha‘i narrates that ‘Abdullah ibn al-Zubayr said to him: ‘A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) used to narrate some hadiths exclusively to you. ‘Abdullah asked him what she had told him about the Kaaba, and he told ‘Abdullah ibn al-Zubayr that she had narrated to him what the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had said about demolishing and rebuilding the Kaaba. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) wanted to demolish it and rebuild it, giving it two doors, a door through which the people could enter and another through which they could exit. But he did not do that, because Quraysh used to venerate the Kaaba greatly, so he was afraid that – because they had only recently left disbelief behind and entered Islam – they might think that he was changing its structure so that he could have exclusive honour and pride in that regard.
This change was in fact made by Ibn al-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him), meaning that he rebuilt the Kaaba in the manner that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had wanted. Then al-Hajjaj came and put it back as it had been, and those who came after him left it as it was, for fear that the people might start to tinker with the Kaaba, repeatedly demolishing it and rebuilding it, which would undermine the esteem in which people held it.
This hadith indicates that a matter that serves some interest may be abandoned lest it lead to some evil consequences.
It indicates that one may refrain from objecting to a reprehensible action lest doing so lead to something even more reprehensible.
It indicates that if, in the running of his people’s affairs, the ruler is faced with two options, he should choose that which best serves their interests, even if it is not the best option, so long as it is not haram.
It indicates that the ruler may strive to soften the hearts of his subjects so that they will not be resentful, and he should avoid what he fears could lead to them developing resentment, so long as that does not involve failing to do something that is enjoined in Islamic teachings..

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‘Ali said: Speak to people at the level they can comprehend; do you want Allah and His Messenger to be rejected?.

Commentary : People’s ability to understand issues and make sense of them varies. Part of the scholar’s insight and proper understanding is that he should speak to each individual and group at the level that their minds can grasp and will not be put off by.
In this report, the Commander of the Faithful, ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) advises us to speak to people at their intellectual level about issues that they will be able to understand, and to refrain from talking about that which will be confusing for them and difficult to understand, lest that lead to them rejecting what Allah and His Messenger said, and not believing them. If people hear something that their minds cannot comprehend, they will quickly reject it. Hence the scholar can use various approaches to present his knowledge when speaking to people. So he should speak to ordinary people in a manner that they can understand, then speak exclusively to intelligent people and seekers of knowledge about some subtle matters, and explain them to them.
This hadith indicates that one should pay attention to the circumstances of the audience and their ability to understand.
It also indicates that we should choose a clear and straightforward approach when calling people to Islam..

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It was narrated from Anas ibn Malik that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said, when Mu‘adh was riding behind him on his mount: “O Mu‘adh ibn Jabal!” He said: Here I am at your service, O Messenger of Allah. He said: “O Mu‘adh!” He said: Here I am at your service, O Messenger of Allah. That happened three times. He said: “There is no one who bears witness that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, sincerely from the heart, but Allah will forbid him to the Fire.” Mu‘adh said: Should I not tell the people about that, so that they will be of good cheer? He said: “Then they would rely on that [and not strive].” But Mu‘adh narrated it before he died, for fear of incurring sin [by withholding knowledge]..

Commentary : The testimony of Tawhid is a matter of great virtue, by means of which a person enters Islam and exits disbelief, and by virtue of it he will be saved on the Day of Resurrection from abiding forever in the Fire.
In this hadith, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates something that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told Mu‘adh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him), when he was riding behind the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) on his mount. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) called out to Mu‘adh, repeating the call three times, to highlight the importance of what he was going to tell him. Each time, Mu‘adh (may Allah be pleased with him) responded by saying: Labbayka ya Rasulallah wa sa‘dayk (Here I am at your service, O Messenger of Allah). In other words, I respond to you, O Messenger of Allah, time after time; or, I am adhering to obedience to you time after time, seeking bliss and well-being in this world and the hereafter each time I respond to you. This means that he was responding to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and affirming his willingness to obey him in whatever instructions he gave him. As Mu‘adh (may Allah be pleased with him) responded well and listened attentively, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him that there is no one who testifies that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah, so none is worshipped rightfully except Him, and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, sincerely from the heart, but Allah will forbid him to the Fire, meaning that He will forbid him to abide therein forever. The phrase “sincerely from the heart” means that what matters is that saying and uttering the twin declaration of faith (al-shahadatayn) should be based on what one believes in the heart. This is by way of excluding the hypocrite, because the words of the twin declaration of faith will not benefit the hypocrite on the Day of Resurrection, for he did not say these words sincerely from the heart. Mu‘adh (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to let him tell the people about this, so that they would rejoice and be of good cheer, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was concerned lest the people rely on it, and therefore strive less and do fewer acts of worship. So Mu‘adh did not narrate it to anyone until just before he died, for fear of falling into the sin of withholding knowledge.
It was said that the apparent meaning of the report indicates that all those who utter the twin declaration of faith will not enter the Fire, because of the general and emphatic meaning of the hadith, but the definitive proof of Ahl al-Sunnah indicates that a group of believers who sinned will be punished in the Fire for the sins that they committed, then they will be brought forth from the fire through intercession.
This hadith gives great glad tidings to those who affirm the oneness of Allah that if the one who committed major sins dies affirming the oneness of Allah, he will not abide in the Fire forever.
It also indicates that there are some types of knowledge that may be told to all people, and some types that may be given only to the elite.
It highlights the humbleness of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
It highlights the high status of Mu‘adh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) in terms of knowledge, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told some knowledge exclusively to him.
It indicates that words may be repeated for a purpose and to make a point.
It indicates that one may respond by saying, Labbayka wa sa‘dayk (here I am at your service)..

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said:  I was told that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said to Mu‘adh ibn Jabal: “Whoever meets Allah not associating anything with Him will enter Paradise.” He said: Should I not tell the people this good news? He said: “No, for I fear that they will rely on that [and stop striving].”.

Commentary : The heart cannot be sound unless it is completely free of shirk, which is contrary to Tawhid, because the worst type of wrongdoing and evil in this world is shirk or associating others with Allah, for that is the cause of a person abiding forever in the Fire.
In this hadith, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told Mu‘adh (may Allah be pleased with him) that whoever dies as a believer, associating nothing with Allah, in the sense that he worships Allah alone, knowing that none is rightfully worshipped except Him, and believing this in his heart, as indicated by these reports, will enter Paradise by the grace of Allah, either straight away or after being punished, but this does not include the hypocrites. Mu‘adh (may Allah be pleased with him) asked him to let him tell the people about that so that they might rejoice and be of good cheer, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told him not to do that, for fear that they would rely on that and would strive less and do fewer acts of worship. According to the report narrated by al-Bukhari, Mu‘adh (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated this hadith just before he died, for fear of falling into the sin of withholding knowledge.
This hadith highlights the virtue of Tawhid and the danger of shirk.
It indicates that that there are some types of knowledge that may be told to all people, and some types that may be given only to the elite.
It highlights the status and knowledge of Mu‘adh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him), because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told some knowledge exclusively to him.
It indicates that it is prescribed for the seeker of knowledge to ask about that concerning which he is not certain.
It also gives great glad tidings to those who affirm the oneness of Allah..

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It was narrated that Umm Salamah said: Umm Sulaym came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not too shy to tell the truth; does a woman have to do ghusl if she has an erotic dream? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “[Yes], if she sees water.” Umm Salamah covered her face, and said: O Messenger of Allah, can a woman have an erotic dream? He said: “Yes, may your hands be rubbed with dust. How else would her child resemble her?”.

Commentary : All shyness (haya’) is good, for it is part of faith and is one of the praiseworthy characteristics that both men and women should seek to acquire.
In this hadith, Zaynab, the daughter of Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her), narrates that Umm Sulaym – who was the mother of Anas ibn Malik and the wife of Talhah ibn ‘Ubaydillah (may Allah be pleased with them all) – came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in the presence of Umm Salamah, the wife of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). She introduced her question by saying: Allah is not too shy to tell the truth, so He would not refrain from explaining the truth and making it clear. That was because what she was going to say to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was something that women usually feel too shy to mention in the presence of men. Then she asked her question: Does a woman have to do ghusl if she has an erotic dream, and sees in her dream that a man is having intercourse with her? The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) responded by saying that ghusl is required of her if she sees “water”, meaning discharge, when she wakes up. If she does not see it, then she does not have to do ghusl. Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) covered her face out of embarrassment at this question, because the emission of a discharge in women is indicative of strong desire for men, and she asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in astonishment: Can a woman have an erotic dream? In other words, can a woman see discharge and have an erotic dream like men? He answered: Yes, a woman may have an erotic dream and see discharge. Then he said to her: “May your hands be rubbed with dust,” meaning: May you become poor and left with nothing. This was a saying among the Arabs, but they did not mean it literally as a prayer against the one to whom it was addressed. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: How else would her child resemble her? In other words, for what other reason would her child resemble her, if she did not emit a discharge of her own? The discharge of the man is thick and white, and the discharge of the woman is thin and yellow. It was narrated that whichever of the two discharges overwhelms the other, the child will resemble that parent.
This hadith indicates that there is no need to feel shy when seeking knowledge and asking questions about religion, because it is truth.
It highlights the fact that women emit discharge and may see erotic dreams like men, and because of this discharge the child may resemble the mother.
It also indicates that it is enjoined for the one who has an erotic dream to do ghusl if he (or she) sees “water” (discharge) after waking up.
And it indicates that the child may resemble his father or his mother..

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It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Among trees, there is one tree whose leaves do not fall, and it is like the Muslim. Tell me what it is.” The people started listing the trees of the desert. ‘Abdullah said: It occurred to me that it was the palm tree, but I felt too shy to say anything. Then they said: Tell us what it is, O Messenger of Allah. He said: “It is the palm tree.” ‘Abdullah said: I told my father about what had occurred to me, and he said: If you had said it, that would have been dearer to me than such and such..

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was a wise teacher and great educator. He used to give likenesses to the people to explain some ideas.
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) asked his companions about the tree whose leaves do not fall, which he likened to the Muslim. They started to think only about trees of the desert, each of them listing different types of desert trees, but the palm tree completely slipped their minds. Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) thought to himself that it was the palm tree, but he was too shy to mention what he had in mind, out of respect for the senior Sahabah present, who could not give the right answer. So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) gave them the answer, telling them that it was the palm tree. The palm tree is like the Muslim in the sense that it offers a great deal of goodness: it constantly offers shade (because it does not lose its leaves), it bears good fruit, and it offers many other benefits. It is full of benefits, goodness and beauty. Similarly, the believer is all good because he does many acts of worship, has good characteristics, and persists in doing righteous deeds, giving charity and doing all kinds of good deeds. So it is as if he never stops doing good, so he constantly does good deeds just as the leaves of the palm tree are always there, then it gives fruits at the right time.
Then ‘Abdullah told his father, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) of what had occurred to him, that it was the palm tree, but he had felt too shy to mention that. His father said to him: If you had said it and told the Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that it is the palm tree, that would have been dearer to me than having such and such; in other words, then being given such and such, such as red camels, for example. Ibn Hibban added in his Sahih: I think he said: Red camels. ‘Umar only wished for that so that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would offer supplication for his son, and he would thus attain the blessing of his supplication, as ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) did, and so that it would be clear that his son possessed smartness and understanding from an early age, and thus would become prominent when he grew up.
In this hadith we see that a knowledgeable person may ask questions of those who want to learn, in order to see how smart they are and how much they understand.
It also indicates that one should show respect to elders, as Ibn ‘Umar did. But if the elder cannot work it out, then the younger person may speak up.
This hadith also highlights the intelligence of ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), for Allah (may He be exalted) gifted him with intelligence.
It highlights the virtue of the palm tree and how it is like the Muslim, and how it is blessed because of what it bears of fruits.
It indicates that a man may be keen for his son to show that he has more knowledge than one who is older than him.
It indicates that a father may express happiness with the intelligence and smartness of his son..

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It was narrated that ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib said: I was a man who emitted a great deal of madhiy, so I told al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad to ask the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about that; he asked him and he said: “Do wudu’ for it.”.

Commentary : Islam is the religion of mercy and compassion towards people, and seeks to make things easy for them. It is also the religion of purity and cleanliness. One of the things that proves this is the fact that Islam makes things easy for people and pays attention to their circumstances.
In this hadith, ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I was a man who emitted a great deal of madhiy, which is a thin, white liquid that is usually emitted when desire is provoked, and when playing with one’s wife and kissing her, or looking with desire, or remembering, or after urinating. It usually precedes the omission of maniy (semen) or follows it. According to a report narrated by Abu Dawud, ‘Ali said: I began to do ghusl for it during the winter until I got cracks in the skin of my back. Thus it is clear that the reason why he asked this question was that he was doing ghusl a great deal, which had a harmful effect on his body, because he thought that this came under the heading of janabah. So he asked al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad to ask the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about the omission of madhiy and what is required of the one who experiences that. ‘Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) only felt too shy to ask the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) because he was the husband of Fatimah, the daughter of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). This was a praiseworthy kind of shyness, because it did not prevent him from learning what he did not know and sending someone to ask in his stead.
So al-Miqdad (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about that, and he told him, “Do wudu’ for it.” Therefore the one who emits madhiy must do wudu’ only, not ghusl. In al-Sahihayn it is narrated that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed him to wash his penis in addition to doing wudu’.
This hadith highlights good conduct with one’s in-laws, and that the husband should not mention anything having to do with intercourse and intimacy with women in the presence of his wife’s father, brother, son and other relatives.
It also highlights the keenness of the Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) to find out about issues of purification (taharah) and other Islamic rulings.  .

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It was narrated from ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar that a man stood up in the mosque and said: O Messenger of Allah, from where do you instruct us to enter ihram? The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The people of Madinah should enter ihram from Dhul Hulayfah; the people of al-Sham [Greater Syria] should enter ihram from al-Juhfah; and the people of Najd should enter ihram from Qarn.” Ibn ‘Umar said: They claim that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “And the people of Yemen should enter ihram from Yalamlam.” Ibn ‘Umar used to say: I did not learn this from the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)..

Commentary : There are miqats for Hajj, from which the pilgrim must enter ihram; there are rulings concerning them which are explained in detail in the Sunnah of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar tells us that a man stood up in the Prophet’s Mosque and asked the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): From where do you instruct us to enter ihram? In other words, from where should we begin to recite the talbiyah, raising our voices in reciting it, with the intention of entering ihram for Hajj or ‘umrah?
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed the people of Madinah to enter ihram from Dhul Hulayfah, which is a place outside Madinah on the road to Makkah, it is the miqat of the people of Madinah. The distance between it and Makkah is 420 km; therefore it is the furthest of the miqats from Makkah. For the people of al-Sham and those who pass through [their land], the miqat is al-Juhfah, which is located between Makkah and Madinah, at a distance of approximately 190 km from Makkah. It is a village near Rabigh. For the people of Najd and those who pass through [their land], the miqat is Qarn, i.e., Qarn al-Manazil, which nowadays is called al-Sayl al-Kabir. Its location is 55 km north of the city of al-Ta’if; it is 75 km from Makkah. Najd is the land between the Hijaz and Iraq; Najd now forms the centre of the Arabian Peninsula; in the middle of Najd lies the city of Riyadh, the capital of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. Najd includes many regions, including Qasim, Sudayr, al-Aflaj, al-Yamamah, al-Washm and others.
Then Ibn ‘Umar stated that he did not know that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) instructed the people of Yemen to enter ihram from Yalamlam, which is a mountain to the south of Makkah, 85 km away.
This hadith highlights the keenness of the Sahabah to convey the hadiths of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in the manner he said them, even if they did not understand some of what he said. .

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It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) that a man asked him: What may the muhrim (pilgrim in ihram) wear? He said: “He should not wear a chemise, or a turban, or trousers, or a burnouse, or any garment that has been dyed with safflower or saffron. If he cannot find sandals, then let him wear khuffs (a kind of leather footwear that covers the ankle) but let him cut them down so that they come below the ankles.”.

Commentary : Islamic teachings explain the rulings of ihram for Hajj and ‘umrah, which includes the clothing that it is prescribed for the muhrim to wear and the rulings concerning it. In this hadith, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that a man asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him): What may the muhrim wear? So the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) explained what it is not permissible for the muhrim to wear, and that he should not wear a turban, which is wrapped around the head and is the same size as the head and made to fit it, because it comes under the heading of a garment that is made to fit; or a chemise, which is what covers the upper part of the body and is made to fit its shape; or trousers, which are worn instead of the izar (waist-wrapper) to cover the lower half of the body; or a burnouse, which is a garment with a hood to cover the head, because it is made to fit the body. The guideline on these prohibited things is that any garment that is made to fit the body and may be worn without having to wrap it and tie it should not be worn by the muhrim.
He should not wear any garment that has been dyed with safflower, which is a plant that has a good fragrance, or with saffron, which is a kind of perfume. The prohibition here is on wearing garments that have been dyed with safflower or saffron. Then the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stated that it is permissible for the muhrim to wear khuffs after cutting off their tops, if he cannot find any sandals, so as to leave the ankles bare. The khuff is a kind of footwear made of thin leather that covers the ankles and more.
Although the man’s question was about what the muhrim may wear, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) mentioned in his answer what could be limited instead of what could not be limited, in order to be concise and brief, because the questioner asked about what may be worn, but the answer has to do with what may not be worn, since the basic principle is that things are permissible, and if he had listed what may be worn, it would have taken too long. In fact there was the fear that the one who heard that might misinterpret what he heard, and think that it applied only to the muhrim. Moreover, what matters here is what is not allowed, not what it is permissible to wear, because there is no particular type of clothing that is required; rather the muhrim is required to avoid a few specific things.
This hadith indicates that an answer may be given in more detail than the questioner asked about, if there is an interest to be served by that..

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It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The prayer of one whose wudu’ was invalidated will not be accepted until he does wudu’.” A man from Hadramawt asked: What could invalidate wudu’, O Abu Hurayrah? He said: Breaking wind, either silently or loudly. .

Commentary : This hadith discusses what invalidates wudu. The one whose wudu’ is invalidated is not allowed to do anything for which wudu’ is required, such as praying. Purifying oneself after wudu’ has been invalidated is a condition of prayer being valid.
In this hadith, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) tells us that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The prayer of one whose wudu’ was invalidated will not be accepted until he does wudu’.” In other words, until he purifies himself with water. Anyone who prays when his wudu’ has been invalidated, his prayer will not be accepted and it is not valid. Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) explained what invalidates wudu’ in this hadith as breaking wind, either silently or loudly; in both cases, it refers to wind being expelled from the back passage. However, this is not the only thing that invalidates wudu’, as urination and defecation both invalidate wudu’ too, and they also come under the heading of minor impurity. Janabah and having intercourse also invalidate wudu’, but they come under the heading of major impurity; and there are other things that invalidate wudu’. He only mentioned one of the things that invalidate wudu’, because he was answering someone who asked him about one whose wudu’ is invalidated whilst he is praying, so he gave an answer concerning one who is praying and finds that his wudu’ is invalidated involuntarily, because urination, defecation and touching do not usually happen when praying. This is similar to the case in which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) told the one who is not sure whether his wudu’ became invalid whilst he was praying: “One should not stop [praying] unless he hears a sound or notices a smell,” because this is the usual way in which a person’s wudu’ may become invalid whilst praying, and it cannot be imagined that any of the other cases would be applicable in prayer. It is as if he answered the questioner with regard to something of which he was unaware, or with regard to what he needed to know in most cases, or what often happens when praying..

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It was narrated that Nu‘aym al-Mujmir said: I climbed up to the top of the mosque with Abu Hurayrah and he did wudu’, then he said: I heard the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “Indeed my ummah will be called on the Day of Resurrection with bright faces and limbs, because of the traces of wudu’.” So whoever among you is able to expand the area of his face that will shine, let him do so..

Commentary : Allah (may He be exalted) has ordained for the believers characteristics and features by which they will be distinguished from others in the hereafter, and by which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) will recognize his followers on the Day of Resurrection, as signs of faith and Islam, such as the traces of wudu’, which will appear in the form of light that will be visible on the parts of the body that are washed in wudu’.
In this hadith, Nu‘aym al-Mujmir narrates that he climbed up to the roof of the Prophet’s Mosque with Abu Hurayrah, who did wudu’ in a complete and thorough manner, giving each part its due share of water and washing. Then he told him that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) had given the glad tidings to his ummah who responded to his call, that Allah (may He be exalted) would give them a distinct sign on the Day of Resurrection and would call them before all people with shining faces and limbs, because of the traces of wudu’. The word translated here as shining faces refers to white markings on the forehead [of a horse]; what is meant here is the light that will appear on the faces of the ummah of Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). The word translated here as shining limbs refers to white markings on the legs [of a horse]; what is meant here is also light, for wudu’ leaves traces on the face, legs and arms that will be white and light on the Day of Resurrection. This is something that will be unique to this ummah among all other nations. Because wudu’ leaves these traces, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) advised people to expand this brightness, as he said: So whoever among you is able to expand the area of his face that will shine, let him do so. So he should expand the brightness of his face and limbs. He mentioned the brightness on the face only, because it also implies brightness on the limbs. And it was said that he mentioned the brightness on the face only, to the exclusion of the limbs, because the face is the noblest part that is washed in wudu’ and it is what is first seen and noticed in a person. However the report narrated by Muslim mentions both, as it says: “Let him expand the area of his face and limbs that will shine.”.

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It was narrated from ‘Abbad ibn Tamim, from his paternal uncle, that a man complained to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) who sometimes thought that he felt something whilst praying. He said: “One should not stop [praying] unless he hears a sound or notices a smell.”.

Commentary : This hadith forms the basis for one of the major fiqhi guidelines, which is that certainty cannot be dispelled by uncertainty. In it, it says that ‘Abdullah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and complained to him that a man may sometimes think that he feels something whilst praying, meaning that he thinks that he has passed wind. But the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) responded by telling him that he should not exit his prayer unless he is certain that he has passed wind, which is when he hears a sound or notices a smell, because he is certain that he was in a state of purity [when he started praying], and that certainty cannot be dispelled because of mere uncertainty; rather he should be certain that his wudu’ has been invalidated and that he has indeed passed wind. Hearing a sound and noticing a smell are mentioned because that is what usually happens when wudu’ is invalidated whilst praying. It cannot be imagined that it would be invalidated in any other way. It is as if he answered the questioner by telling him what he needed to know in most cases, or what usually happens when praying, because urinating, defecating, touching and other things that invalidate wudu’ do not usually happen when one is praying.
It was said that what the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) meant is that one should be certain that wudu’ has been invalidated; he did not mean that he should literally have heard it or smelt it, because wind may come out with no sound and no smell, or there may be something wrong with his hearing or sense of smell, so he does not hear the sound or notice the smell. In that case, the person’s wudu’ is invalidated if he is certain that he has passed wind..

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It was narrated from ‘Ata’ ibn Yasaar, from Ibn ‘Abbas, that he did wudu’ and washed his face. He scooped up a handful of water, rinsed his mouth with it and rinsed his nose, then he scooped up another handful of water and did like this; he brought up his other hand and washed his face with both hands. Then he scooped up a handful of water and washed his right forearm with it. Then he scooped up another handful of water and washed his left forearm with it. Then he wiped his head. Then he scooped up a handful of water, sprinkled it on his right foot and washed it, then he scooped up another handful of water and washed his foot with it, meaning the left foot. Then he said: This is how I saw the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) doing wudu’..

Commentary : The Sahabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen to follow the Prophet’s Sunnah and to learn it and teach it to the Muslims who came after them in both word and deed. That includes the description of how the Messenger of Allah blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did wudu’.
In this hadith, the scholar of the ummah, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) describes the steps of wudu’ in practical terms. He began by washing his face, but what is meant by the phrase, when he said that he started with the face, is something additional to what is obligatory and what is Sunnah, based on the fact that he mentioned the face a second time, after he mentioned rinsing the mouth with a new handful of water. So he began washing his face by rinsing his mouth, which means moving the water around in the mouth, then spitting it out. Then he rinsed his nose, by sniffing water into the nose then blowing it out, to clean the inside of the nose.
Then he took a handful of water in one hand, then brought up his other hand, and washed his face with it once, using both hands, because one hand may not reach all over the face properly. The definition of the face in terms of length is from the hairline to the chin and beard, and in terms of width it is from one ear to the other. Then he took another handful of water and washed his right forearm with it, up to the elbow, then he took another handful of water and washed his left forearm with it, up to the elbow. Then he wiped his head, and wiping is less than washing. What is meant by the head here is where the hair grows. According to a report narrated by Abu Dawood: Then he took a handful of water, shook it off his hand, then wiped his head. According to another report narrated by Abu Dawood: He wiped his head and ears, inside and out.
Then he took a handful of water and sprinkled it on his right foot, meaning that he poured the water little by little, until he washed his foot. Then he took another handful of water and washed his left foot with it. He washed his feet up to the ankles, as is narrated in the reports. It was said that the reason for mentioning sprinkling, rather than washing, was to highlight how little water is used to wash a part for which it is likely that people would use too much water. This is supported by the words “until he washed it.” This is an indication that what is meant by sprinkling is washing. Then ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said, after he finished: This is how I saw the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) doing wudu’. So ‘Abdullah’s wudu’ was a precise imitation of the wudu’ of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), and it was done to teach those around him of the Tabi‘in and others who wanted to learn the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him).
In this hadith, we see that teaching by doing is more effective than teaching by speaking alone..

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It was narrated that Anas ibn Malik said: When the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) went to the outhouse, he would say: “O Allah, I seek refuge with You from al-khubthi wa’l-khaba’ith.”.

Commentary : The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) would teach his ummah the prescribed etiquette in all situations, which includes remembering Allah and seeking refuge with Him from the evils of the devils before entering places where people relieve themselves.
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that when the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) went to the outhouse to relieve himself – and outhouse is a word used to refer to any place where people relieve themselves by urinating or defecating – he would offer supplication by saying: O Allah, I seek refuge with You – so I resort to and seek protection with Allah (may He be glorified in exalted) from al-khubthi wa’l-khaba’ith. It was said that what is meant is male and female devils; so that he is seeking refuge from their schemes and their evil, and the whispers and intrusive thoughts that they cast into people’s minds and hearts. It was also suggested that al-khubth refers to evil or disbelief, or that al-khubth refers to the devils and al-khaba’ith refers to sins..

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It was narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) went to the outhouse, so I brought some water for wudu’ and placed it there for him. He said: “Who placed this here?” He was told [who had done it], and he said: “O Allah, grant him understanding of religion.”.

Commentary : This hadith highlights the virtues of Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him). In it, he tells us that he brought water to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) so that he could do wudu’. After he came out of the outhouse – which is a word used to describe any place where people relieve themselves, by urinating or defecating – he asked who had put the water there for him, and he was told that it was Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him). The one who told him that was the maternal aunt of Ibn ‘Abbas, Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her), because that happened in her house, as is mentioned in the report of Ahmad. The apparent meaning suggests that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) did not ask for water; rather Ibn ‘Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) took the initiative and hastened to bring the water, because he was a smart and intelligent boy and he used to follow the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Hence the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) prayed for him and said: “O Allah, grant him understanding of religion,” that is, bless him with understanding and deep insight into matters of religion. This prayer for him to be granted understanding of religion was appropriate, because he had done the right thing, which was indicative of his intelligence. This also indicates that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was happy that he took the initiative of bringing water for him when he went to the outhouse. The blessing of this supplication was demonstrated in ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him), as his knowledge and virtue became well-known, and he was one of the Sahabah who narrated a great deal from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). He narrated approximately one thousand six hundred and sixty hadiths, and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) consulted him about major issues.
This hadith indicates that one may reward a person by offering supplication for him when he does a favour, offers help or does an act of kindness.
It also indicates that it is prescribed to serve scholars and people of knowledge, and pay attention to their needs, without being instructed to do so..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..