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2780

Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) said, "A man from the tribe of Banee Sahm went out in the company of Tameem Al-Daaree and ‘Adiyy ibn Baddaa’. The man from Banee Sahm died in a land where there were no Muslims. When Tameem and ‘Adiyy returned conveying the property of the deceased, they claimed that they had lost a silver bowl with gold engraving. Allah's Messenger ﷺ made them take an oath (to confirm their claim), and then the bowl was found in Makkah with some people who claimed that they had bought it from Tameem and ‘Adiyy! Then two witnesses from the relatives of the deceased got up and swore that their testimony was more valid and truer than that of ‘Adiyy and Tameem, and that the bowl belonged to their deceased fellow. So, this ayah was revealed in connection with this case. Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {O you who have believed, testimony [should be taken] among you when death approaches one of you at the time of bequest - [that of] two just men from among you …} [Quran 5:106]
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Commentary :
Honesty is one of the becoming attributes of a Muslim, and Islam urges Muslims to choose trusted and pious travel companions, to be of real help to them.
In this hadeeth, ‘AbdullahNarrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that a Muslim man, who was said to be named Buzayl, from the tribe of Banee Sahm, from Quraysh, was travelling in the company of Tameem Al-Daaree, who was still Christian at that time, and ‘Adiyy ibn Baddaa’, who was also a Christian and died as such. The man from Banee Sahm died in a land where there were no Muslims, and he had written his Wasiyyah (i.e., last will and testament) that was kept in his luggage.He asked them to deliver his property to his family. When Tameem and ‘Adiyy returned conveying the luggage and property of the deceased man to his family, they found the Wasiyyah and discovered that a silver bowl or cup with gold engraving was missing from his belongings. They reported the incident to the Prophet ﷺ and sought his judgment. He made them (i.e., ‘Adiyy and Tameem) take an oath to confirm their claim that they had lost that bowl. It seems that their oath was false, because the bowl was later found in Makkah with some people who claimed that they had bought it from Tameem Al-Daaree and ‘Adiyy ibn Baddaa’! Then two witnesses from the relatives of the deceased, i.e., ‘Amr ibn Al-‘Aas and Al-Muttalib ibn Abee Wadaa‘ah (may Allah be pleased with them) who belonged to the tribe of Sahm, got up and swore that this bowl belonged to their late relative Buzayl, and that their testimony was more valid and truer than that of ‘Adiyy and Tameem. On this occasion, the ayah about the writing of Wasiyyah and having witnesses attesting to it was revealed. Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {O you who have believed, testimony [should be taken] among you when death approaches one of you at the time of bequest - [that of] two just men from among you …} [Quran 5:106].
Thisayah urges the testator to have two trustworthy witnesses attesting to his Wasiyyah, especially if there are signs of approaching death, such as illness or old age. Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {… or two others from outside}, meaning from other tribes because one would usually seek witnesses from his own relatives and tribe members, and he may also seek non-Muslim witnesses when needed, when there are no Muslim witnesses available. The ayah goes on: {… if you are traveling through the land and the disaster of death should strike you. Detain them after the prayer and let them both swear by Allah if you doubt [their testimony, saying], "We will not exchange our oath for a price, even if he should be a near relative, and we will not withhold the testimony of Allah. Indeed, we would then be of the sinful."} This means that these two witnesses must honor the trust and honestly give whatever the deceased entrusted to them to the beneficiaries of the Wasiyyah and must not withhold anything, {But if it is found that those two were guilty of perjury,} meaning if there are proofs indicating their lying and dishonesty, {let two others stand in their place [who are] foremost [in claim] from those who have a lawful right. And let them swear by Allah, "Our testimony is truer than their testimony, and we have not transgressed. Indeed, we would then be of the wrongdoers."} [Quran 5:106-107]. This means that the two other witnesses, from the deceased’s closest relatives, must testify to the fact that the other witnesses were lying, and must take an oath that theirtestimony is truer than theirs. Accordingly, they would be declared legally entitled to the disputed property..

2781

Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah Al-Ansaaree (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated:
My father was martyred on the day (of the Battle) of Uhud and left six daughters and some debts to be paid. When the time of plucking the date-fruits was due, I went to Allah's Messengerﷺ and said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ, you know that my father was martyred on Uhud and owed much debt, and I wish that the creditors would see you." The Prophet ﷺsaid, "Go and collect the various kinds of dates and place them separately in heaps."' I did accordingly and called him. On seeing him, the creditors started claiming their rights pressingly at that time. When the Prophet ﷺ, saw how they behaved, he ﷺ went round the biggest heap for three times and sat over it and said, "Call your companions (i.e., the creditors)." Then he ﷺ kept on measuring and giving them, till Allah, Exalted is He, cleared all my father's debts. By Allah, it would have pleased me that Allah, Exalted is He, would clear the debts of my father even though I had not taken a single date to my sisters. But by Allah, all the heaps were complete, (as they were) and I looked at the heap where Allah's Messengerﷺ was sitting and noticed as if not a single date had been taken thereof!
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Commentary :
Incurring debts is a serious matter given its gravity; it is incumbent on debtors to repay their debts. If a debtor dies before the repayment, his guardian and heirs are required to pay off his debts from his estate.
In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah Al-Ansaaree (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated that his father ‘Abdullah ibn Haraam (may Allah be pleased with him) was martyredat the Battle of Uhud, in 3 A.H., and left six young daughters and some debts to be paid. Jaabir (may Allah be pleased with him) promised the repayment of these debts when the date-fruits should be picked. When the time of harvesting dates was due, he (may Allah be pleased with him) went to Allah's Messengerﷺ and asked him to be present when the creditors, who were Jews, should claim their debts, in the hope they would see him and write off part of the debt for his sake. Another version of the hadeeth recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree stated that the Prophet ﷺ asked the creditors to reduce the debts, but they refused. Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺsaid to him, "Go and collect the various kinds of dates and place them separately in heaps,” meaning arrange each kind in a separate heap. Jaabir (may Allah be pleased with him) did as commanded and called the Prophet ﷺ. On seeing him, the creditors started claiming their rights pressingly. When the Prophet ﷺ saw how they behaved, he ﷺ went round the biggest heap three times and sat over it, to be blessed, and said, "Call your companions (i.e., the creditors).” Jaabir (may Allah be pleased with him) called for the creditors and the Prophet ﷺ kept on measuring and giving them from the very heap over which he ﷺ was sitting, till Allah, Exalted is He, cleared all his father's debts. Jaabir (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that he would have been pleased that Allah, Exalted is He, cleared the debts of his late father, even if he could not take a single date to his sisters. However, the dates were blessed by the Prophet ﷺ, and all the heaps were complete, (as if they were untouched). Even after repaying all the creditors, the heap remained the same,as if not a single date had been taken!
The hadeeth highlights a sign of hisﷺ prophethood.
It urges the repayment of debts owed by the deceased.
It is also deduced from it that the unpaid debts owed by one’s dead parents must be repaid by their children. .

2785

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
A man came to Allah's Messengerﷺ and said, "Instruct me as to such a deed that equals Jihaad (in reward)." He ﷺ replied, "I do not find such deed!" Then he ﷺ added, "Can you, while the Mujaahid (i.e., a Muslim fighter partaking in Jihaad) is on the battlefield, enter your mosque to perform prayers unceasingly and fast without breaking your fast?" The man said, "But who can do that?" Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "A Mujaahid is rewarded even for the footsteps of his horse while it wanders about (for grazing) tied in a long rope."
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Commentary :
Jihaad is the most rewardable good deed in Islam; it is the pinnacle of Islam, by means of which Allah, Exalted is He, honors Muslims, and empowers the monotheists on earth.
In this hadeeth, It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man went to Allah's Messengerﷺ and asked him about a good deed that was equal to Jihaad in terms of reward and status in the Sight of Allah. The Prophet ﷺ replied, "I do not find such a deed!" This means that there is no better or more rewardable good deed than Jihaad. Afterward, he ﷺ asked him, "Can you, while the Mujaahid (i.e., a Muslim fighter partaking in Jihaad) is on the battlefield, enter your mosque to perform prayers unceasingly and fast without breaking your fast?" The man inquired, "But who can do that?" There is no doubt that none can endure exerting such enormous effort!
Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) added, underlining the great merits and rewards of Jihaad, "A Mujaahid is rewarded even for the footsteps of his horse while it wanders about (for grazing) tied to a long rope,” meaning that he earns reward in all situations; whenever he eats, sleeps, sells, and buys what he needs – equal to the reward of the one who unceasingly observes fasting, performs prayer, and recites the Book of Allah (unfailingly), and few people are able to do so!
The hadeeth highlights the virtues of Jihaad in the cause of Allah, Exalted is He, and urges Muslims to partake in it..

2786

Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Somebody asked, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Who is the best among all people?" He ﷺ replied, "A believer who strives his utmost in Allah's Cause with his life and property." They asked, "Who is next?" He ﷺ replied, "A believer who stays in one of the mountain paths worshipping Allah, Exalted is He, and leaving people safe from his mischief.".

Commentary :
Interacting and mixing with people entails that one should be careful and cautious, lest he should fall into what Allah, Exalted is He, has forbidden. As for the one who cannot do so regarding his interactions with others, solitude is better for him.
Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that a man asked the Prophet ﷺ about the best among all people in terms of reward and status in the Sight of Allah, Exalted is He, He ﷺ replied, "A believer who strives his utmost in Allah's Cause with his life and property,” meaning that he was martyred, and the reference to spending his property means that he spends on his needs or on those partaking in Jihaad. It is noteworthy that the hadeeth does not mean that such person is the best and most virtuous among all people in general, because this description fits those who attain the ranks of the steadfast affirmers of truth, ensure that people should follow the laws of Allah, Exalted is He, and the Sunnah of His Prophet ﷺ, guide them to perform good deeds, and help them with regard to their religious or worldly affairs. However, the Prophet ﷺ meant that such a person was the best among lay Muslims in general, because there may be some devout Muslims who are endowed with (greater shares of) righteousness, knowledge, virtue, and adherence to the Sunnah, who may be better than such person.
People asked, "Who is next?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "A believer who stays in one of the mountain paths worshipping Allah, Exalted is He, and leaving people safe from his mischief." The hadeeth means that such a believer stays in isolation without quarrelling and disputing with others regarding anything, and this takes place in a time of Fitnah (i.e., dissension and civil strife) or for someone who cannot endure people's harm.
His saying ‘in one of the mountain paths,’ is intended as a mere example since such mountain paths are often deserted and therefore would be perfect places of retreat, yet any distant place away from people fits the profile and the hadeeth applies to it.
The hadeeth underlines that the becoming etiquette of the one who seeks solitude entails that he should aim to keep his evil and harm away from Muslims, not to escape theirs, even though it is also entailed, and this aims to discipline his ‘self’ (i.e., humble himself) so that he does not see himself as superior to others, in compliance with the command of Allah, Exalted is He, to display humbleness.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that good deeds vary in terms of virtue and reward..

2787

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
I heard Allah's Messengerﷺ saying, "The example of a Mujaahid in Allah's Cause (i.e., a Muslim fighter partaking in Jihaad) - and Allah knows better who sincerely strives in His Cause - is like a person who fasts and prays unceasingly. Allah, Exalted is He, guarantees that He will admit the Mujaahid in His Cause into Paradise if he is killed, otherwise He will return him to his home safely with rewards and spoils of war."
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Commentary :
Ikhlaas (i.e., sincere devotion of one’s worship exclusively to Allah, Exalted is He) is one of the conditions for the acceptance of worshipful acts and good deeds. In fact, a worshipful or good act may incur destruction upon the doer if he does not sincerely devote it exclusively to Allah, Exalted is He. Conayahly, it could be a reason for attaining reward and bliss (in the Hereafter) if he sincerely devotes it exclusively to Him.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated the divine promise for a Mujaahid who participates in Jihaad in the cause of Allah, Exalted is He, when he sincerely devotes his deed to Him alone. He ﷺ said: “… and Allah knows better who sincerely strives in His Cause,” meaning that Allah, Exalted is He, knows best people’s intentions and knows those who partake in Jihaad with the intention of upholding the truth and raising the Words of Allah (i.e., His Religion) and those who merely seek worldly gains, fame, and to be labeled “heroes.” Whoever participates in Jihaad sincerely for the sake of Allah, Exalted is He, devoting his intention exclusively to Him, earns the reward of a person who observes obligatory fasting at daytime and also devotes his nights to worship while displaying humbleness and sincerity to Him. This worshipper earns the rewards of both worshipful acts by the grace of Allah, Exalted is He. He ﷺ likened such person to a fasting person because the latter abstains from eating and drinking and sexual activity, and similarly a Mujaahid refrains from carrying out his everyday activities and devotes himself entirely to Jihaad. Moreover, a person who observes fasting and prays at night is devoting his day and night to worship unceasingly, and similarly a Mujaahid earns unceasing rewards for all his time devoted to Jihaad.
Then the Prophet ﷺ stated that Allah, Exalted is He, guarantees that He will grant a Mujaahid in His cause one of two great rewards: martyrdom and entering Paradise, or returning him to his home safely with the rewards of partaking in Jihaad, whether without the spoils of war, with both the reward and the spoils of war.
The hadeeth highlights the grace of Allah, Exalted is He, bestowed upon the Mujaahid.
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2790

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Whoever believes in Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messenger, establishes prayer perfectly, and fasts the month of Ramadan, will rightfully be granted Paradise by Allah, no matter whether he fights in Allah's Cause or remains in the land where he is born." People said, "O Allah's Messengerﷺ! Shall we acquaint people with such good news?" He ﷺ said, "Paradise has one-hundred ranks which Allah has reserved for the Mujaahideen (pl. Mujaahid) who fight in His Cause, and the distance between each of two ranks is like the distance between the Heaven and the Earth. So, when you ask Allah (for something), ask for Al-Firdaws which is the best and highest part of Paradise." (The sub-narrator added, "I think the Prophet ﷺ also said, 'Above it (i.e., Al-Firdaws) is the Throne of The Especially Merciful (i.e., Allah), and from it originate the rivers of Paradise.")
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Commentary :
The sincere good deeds that are devoted exclusively to Allah, Exalted is He, are a reason for winning the Pleasure of Allah, Exalted is He. Prayer, fasting and Jihaad are examples of the good deeds that help the doer ascend to higher ranks of righteousness in the sight of Allah and enter Paradise.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ underlines that whoever believes in Allah, Exalted is He, and does not associate partners with Him, sincerely believes in His Messenger ﷺ as the last Messenger of Allah for humanity, establishes the five obligatory prayers (i.e., Fajr, Duhr, Asr, Maghrib, and ‘Ishaa’), by fulfilling their conditions and pillars as due, and fasts the month of Ramadan, out of sincerity of faith and in the hope of earning reward, will rightfully be granted Paradise by the grace and mercy of Allah, Exalted is He, no matter whether he was able to partake in Jihaad and fight in Allah's Cause or remained in the land where he is born and did not participate in Jihaad. This is because each Muslim shall be rewarded according to his or her abundant or few good deeds.People vary in terms of their good deeds in the worldly life and their ranks in Paradise shall vary accordingly.
The Prophet ﷺ did not make mention of Zakaah and Hajj in this hadeeth and it was said that it is because the hadeeth was not intended to list the pillars of Islam. Therefore, he ﷺ made mention of these worshipful acts because they are the more common for most people. Zakaah is not due except on a wealthy person when certain conditions are met, and similarly, Hajj is only obligatory on whoever is able to perform it, and is required once in a lifetime.
When the Prophet ﷺ said so, people said, "O Allah's Messengerﷺ! Shall we acquaint people with such good news?" They wanted to bear such glad tidings to others. It was narrated on the authority of Mu‘aadh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: "Should I not inform the people of this?" The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, “Leave people to perform good deeds.” [Al-Tirmithee]. It means, ‘Do not inform people of what I have said about the fact that those who believe in Allah, Exalted is He, and carry out the obligatory worshipful acts would enter Paradise lest this should drive them to stop performing any extra good deeds and miss out on attaining higher ranks earned by those who partake in Jihaad.’
The Prophet ﷺ stated the one who believes in Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messengerﷺ, establishes the prayer, and fasts Ramadan shall earn such reward whether he participates in Jihaad and fights in Allah's Cause or remains in the land where he is born, meaning does not partake in Jihaad. However, he ﷺ further explained it by his following statement, reading: "Paradise has one-hundred ranks which Allah has reserved for the Mujaahideen (pl. Mujaahid) who fight in His Cause…” Such a statement explained that the situation of the two people (i.e., the one who partakes in Jihaad and the one who does not) is not the same in all regards, but it rather means that the performance of the previously-mentioned deeds is the condition for entering Paradise rather than attaining equal ranks therein; there are various ranks and levels in Paradise (attained by performing other worshipful acts). He ﷺ informed them of the ranks designated for those who partake in Jihaad, and the distance between each of two ranks is like the distance between Heaven and Earth, to urge Muslims to participate in Jihaad, fight against the disbelievers, and support Islam. There are numerous ranks in Paradise whose exact number was not reported in Laws of Islam texts, and one hundred of such ranks are designated for those who partake in Jihaad. Afterward, he ﷺ said: “So, when you ask Allah (for something), ask for Al-Firdaws which is the best and highest part of Paradise." In the Arabic language, the term Firdaws means a grove where there are trees, flowers, and plants. The Arabic term used by the Prophet ﷺ to describe its location is Awsat, lit., the middle part, and it means the best and highest (rank of Paradise). This is similar to the ayah that reads (what means): {And thus we have made you a midmost (i.e., the most just and moderate) community,} [Quran 2:143].The Arabic word used in the ayah is Wasataa, meaning the most just and moderate. It was also said that Wasataa here means the most vast and highest part of Paradise. The Prophet ﷺ added: 'Above it (i.e., Al-Firdaws) is the Throne of The Especially Merciful (i.e., Allah),’ meaning that its ceiling is the Throne of Allah, Exalted is He, which is higher than all the ranks of Paradise. It is the greatest, highest, and best of all Allah’s Creation.
The rivers of Paradise originate from Al-Firdaws, and they were referred to in the ayah that reads (what means): {… wherein are rivers of water unaltered, rivers of milk the taste of which never changes, rivers of wine delicious to those who drink, and rivers of purified honey.} [Quran 47:15].

The hadeeth urges Muslims to perform the obligatory acts of worship prescribed by Allah, Exalted is He.
It also urges Muslims to partake in Jihaad and fight in Allah’s Cause to support His religion.It is deduced from the hadeeth that Al-Firdaws is the highest garden in Paradise.

It also comforts those who miss out on partaking in Jihaad, to learn that they may not miss out on a great reward. Rather, if they believe in Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messenger ﷺ and perform the obligatory worshipful acts, they will earn Paradise, even if they shall attain lower ranks therein than those allocated for the ones who partake in Jihaad.
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2795

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik(may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophetﷺsaid, "Nobody who dies and finds good from Allah (in the Hereafter) would wish to come back to this world even if he were given the whole world and whatever is in it, except the martyr who, on seeing the superiority of martyrdom, would like to come back to the world and get killed again (in Allah's Cause)."
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Commentary : Allah has promised a great reward for those who die in His way. Allah, Most High, says: { Indeed, Allah has purchased from the believers their lives and their properties [in exchange] for that they will have Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah, so they kill and are killed.} [Quran 9:111].

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺinforms us that nobodywho dies and finds good from Allah after departing this life would like to come back to this world, even if he were given the whole world and whatever is in it, except the martyr.On seeing the superiority of martyrdom and its great reward, he would like to come back to the world and get killed again, to attain and enjoy more of Allah's favours. Even the pious, whose good deeds were of all kinds except martyrdom,would not like to return to this life.

It is said that the reason those who die in the way of Allah are described as Shaheed in Arabic is because the word entails the meaning of witnessing i.e., their souls witness the land of peace as opposed to the souls of others who are only able to witness it on the Day of Judgment. One view suggests that the word entails that Allah, Most High, and His angels (peace be upon them) witness that they are from the dwellers of Paradise. Others said it means that upon the departure of his soul, the martyr witnesses what Allah has prepared for him from reward and honour.

This hadeeth highlights the high status of martyrs,and the significant reward that Allah has made for them, and it encourages us to fight for the cause of Allah and in His way..

2798

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik:(may Allah be pleased with him)The Prophetﷺdelivered a sermon and said, "Zayd took the flag and was martyred, and then Ja'far took the flag and was martyred, and then `Abdullah ibn Rawaahah took the flag and was martyred too, and then Khaalid ibn Al-Waleed took the flag though he was not appointed as a commander and Allah made him victorious." The Prophetﷺfurther added, "It would not please us to have them with us"and in another narration: "theProphetﷺsaid while shedding tears, 'It would not please them to be with us.'"
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Commentary : Allah prepared for martyrs the highest ranks in Paradise and a great reward that is beyond imagination.This superior status made the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) so keen on having this honour and dying in the cause of Allah, and many of them attained this honour and died in the way of Allah on battlefields.

In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that while the Prophetﷺwas delivering a sermon, Allah revealed to him that the three commanders of the Muslim army had beenmartyred. This was in the battle of Mu'tah, which is situated in al-Balqaa' in the south of Jordan and occurred in the 8th year of Hijrah. The battle was between the Muslims and the Romans. Upon receiving the revelation, the Prophet ﷺ shared from his noble pulpit the news with his Companions in al-Madeenah. The first one who was martyred was Zayd in Haarithah (may Allah be pleased with him), the commander and flag bearer of the army. After his martyrdom, Ja'far ibn Abee Taalib (may Allah be pleased with him), the paternal cousin of the Prophet ﷺ, took the flag and was martyred, and then `Abdullah ibn Rawaahah(may Allah be pleased with him) took the flag and was martyred too. The Prophet ﷺ delivered the news ashis eyes shed tears out of his grief over them. Then, he ﷺ remarked: "It would not please us to have them with us" i.e., the great honour and high ranks those martyrs receive is much better for them than being with us in this life. According to the other version of the hadeeth, it reads: "It would not please them to be with us" i.e., after seeing all the honour and rewards preparedfor them, they no longer desire this worldly life except for the purpose of fighting again in the way of Allah to attain the honour of martyrdom repeatedly.

The three martyred Companions mentioned in the hadeeth were appointed by the Prophet ﷺ as general commanders of the Muslim army. After they all died in the battle, Khaalid ibn Al-Waleed(may Allah be pleased with him)took the flag, though he was not appointed by the Prophet ﷺ as a commander, and Allah made him victorious. He took the initiative after seeing that taking the leadership would serve the best interest of the Muslims. The victory mentioned in the hadeeth refers to the success of his military tactics when he ordered the army to leave their positions and retreat to save the strength and supplies of the Muslims. This was because the number of the Romans and their allies who fought was two hundred thousand; 100,000 from the Romans and 100,000 from the Christians of the Levant, while the number of the Muslims was only three thousand. In response to the tactic of Khaalid (may Allah be pleased with him), the Romans retreated too despite their large number and advantage of arms and troops.But they had no choice because of the fierceness of the battle and the large number of casualties in their army. It is reported on the authority of Khaalid (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: "Nine swords were broken in my hand on the Day of Mu'tah, and nothing was left in my hand except a Yemenite sword." [Saheeh al-Bukhaaree]. The Prophet ﷺ considered this a victory for the Muslims.

From the benefits that can be concluded from this hadeeth is learning that being compassionate and merciful is a praiseworthy quality, and that one should take the initiative to help, support, and benefit the Muslims, whenever he is able to and sees that it will serve their best interests.

This hadeeth highlights the virtue and merit of Khaalid ibn al-Waleed (may Allah be pleased with him),and it shows that it is permissible to shedtears for the deceased. It also offers one of the miracles of the Prophet ﷺ..

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Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ sent seventy men from the tribe of Banee Saleem to the tribe of Banee‘Aamir. When they reached there, my maternal uncle said to them, "I will go ahead of you, and if they allow me to convey the message of Allah's Messenger ﷺ (it will be all right); otherwise, you will remain close to me." So, he went ahead of them, and the pagans granted him security but while he was reporting the message of the Prophet ﷺ , they beckoned to one of their men who stabbed him to death. My maternal uncle said, "Allah is Greater! By the Lord of the Ka`bah, I am successful." After that they attached the rest of the party and killed them all except a lame man who went up to the top of the mountain. (Hammam, a sub-narrator said, "I think another man was saved along with him)." Angel Gabriel informed the Prophet ﷺ that they (i.e., the martyrs) met their Lord, and He was pleased with them and made them pleased. We used to recite, {Inform our people that we have met our Lord, He is pleased with us, and He has made us pleased.}Afterwards, this ayah was abrogated. The Prophet ﷺ invoked Allah for forty days to curse the murderers from the tribes of Ra’l, Thakwaan, Banee Lihyaan and Banee‘Usaiyyah who disobeyed Allah and his Messenger..

Commentary : The Reciters were among the best of people during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ; they used to learn and teach the Quran and help the Muslims whenever they werein need.

In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ dispatched 70 men from the Reciters to the tribe of Banee' Aamir ibn Sa'sa'ah, who were based in Najd, to invite them to Islam.

The seventy men that the Prophet ﷺ dispatched are mentioned in this narration to be from the tribe of Banee Saleem, which is wrong. The correct narration, as recorded in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, states that they were from the Ansaar, and headed by Haraam ibn Milhaan, the maternal uncle of Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with them). When they reached there, Haraam said to his group, "I will go ahead of you, and if they allow me to convey the message of Allah's Messenger ﷺ (it will be all right); otherwise, you will remain close to me." After he approached the tribe of Banee ‘Aamir, they assured him of safety and so he started to convey the message of Islam to them. However, they beckoned to one of their men who stabbed him with his spear to death. Thereupon, Haraam exclaimed in excitement for attaining martyrdom: “Allah is the Greatest! By the Lord of the Ka’bah, I have succeeded.”

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) then mentioned that after killing his maternal uncle, they pusued the others, killing the 70 companions except a lame man, named Ka’b ibn Zayd al-Ansaaree, who climbed a mountain and managed to escape to safety. The sub-narrator mentioned that there was another man who managed to escape, and it was said that he was ‘Amr ibn Umayyah al-Damree. Angel Gabriel reported the incident to the Prophet ﷺ and informed him that they met their Lord, and He was pleased with them and made them pleased. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) goes on to say: “We used to recite, {Inform our people that we have met our Lord, He is pleased with us, and He has made us pleased.}, but it was then abrogated and cancelled.” This incident made the Prophet ﷺ fall into great grief and angered him; thus, he ﷺ invoked Allah against the tribes of Ra’l, Thakwaan, Banee Lihyaan and Banee ‘Usaiyyah – who disobeyed Allah and His Messenger ﷺand killed his noble Companions - for forty consecutive days in the Fajr prayer, as reported in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim.

It is reported on the authority of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ recited Qunoot daily for a monthat the Thuhr, ‘Asr, Maghrib, ‘Ishaa and Fajr prayers. Heﷺ wouldinvoke Allah against the clans of Ra’l, Thakwaan, Banee Lihyaan and Banee ‘Usaiyyah, and those who were standing behind him would say: "Allah listens to him who praises Him” in the last unit of the prayer, and then say: “Amen.” [Sunan Aboo Dawood]. After the revelation of the ayah: {Not for you, [O Muḥammad, but for Allah], is the decision whether He should [cut them down] or forgive them or punish them, for indeed, they are wrongdoers.} [Quran 3:128], the Prophet ﷺ refrained from invoking Allah against them, as reported in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim.

From the benefits that can be concluded from this hadeeth is that it is permissible to invoke Allah against oppressors, traitors, and those who harm the Muslims.

The hadeeth shows that complete submission to Allah and His Messenger ﷺ causes us to attain Allah’s pleasure and safety from His punishment.

It shows that Qunoot is to be recited in times of affliction and hardship.

It shows the eagerness of the Companions to attain martyrdom, and their happiness at attaining it.

It serves as evidence that the people of the truth may suffer harm from those who are upon falsehood, and that does not indicate that the people of the truth are wrong. Rather, it serves as a grace for them and as a tribulation for the people of falsehood..

2802

Narrated Jundab ibn Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him):In one of the Battles a finger of Allah's Messengerﷺ(got wounded and) bled. Heﷺ said, "You are just a finger that bled, and what you got is in Allah's Cause."
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Commentary : Allah, Exalted is He, guaranteed Paradise for His believing servants who sacrifice their lives and wealth for His sake. Allah, Most High, says: {Indeed, Allah has purchased from the believers their lives and their properties [in exchange] for that they will have Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah, so they kill and are killed.} [Quran 9:111].

In this hadeeth, Jundub ibn Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the finger of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was wounded in one battle – it is said that it was the battle of Uhud – so he ﷺ addressed his finger by saying“You are just a finger that bled, and what you got is in Allah's Cause” i.e., take it easy, for you have not been wounded in vain, for you have been injured and bled only in the cause of Allah and His pleasure. It is said that lines that the Prophet ﷺ uttered are not considered poetry and that it is natural rhyming that comes unintentionally. Allah, Most High, said: {We have not taught him poetry nor is it befitting him} [Quran 36:69]. Others suggested that it is a couplet from the poetry of ‘Abdullah ibn Rawaahah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ quoted,as he found it to fit the situation.

From the benefits that can be concluded from the hadeeth is learning that Prophets can suffer harm sometimes to increase their reward;indeed,they are the highest rank of people in enduring trials and hardships. .

2805

Narrated Anas(may Allah be pleased with him): My paternal uncle Anas ibn An-Nadr was absent from the Battle of Badr. He said, "O Allah's Messengerﷺ! I was absent from the first battle you fought against the pagans. (By Allah) if Allah gives me a chance to fight the pagans, no doubt. Allah will see how (bravely) I will fight." On the day of Uhud when the Muslims turned their backs and fled, he said, "O Allah! I apologize to You for what these (i.e., his companions) have done, and I denounce what these (i.e., the pagans) have done." Then he advanced and Sa`d ibn Mu’aath met him. He said "O Sa`d ibn Mu’aath ! By the Lord of An-Nadr, it is Paradise! I am smelling its aroma coming from before (the mountain of) Uhud," Later on Sa`d said, "O Allah's Messenger! I cannot achieve or do what he (i.e., Anas ibn An-Nadr) did. We found more than eighty wounds by swords and arrows on his body. We found him dead, and his body was mutilated so badly that none except his sister could recognize him by his fingers." We used to think that the following ayah was revealed concerning him and other men of his sort: {Among the believers are men who have been true to their covenant with Allah..........} (Quran 33.23) His sister Al-Rubay' broke a front tooth of a woman and Allah's Messengerﷺordered for retaliation. On that Anas (ibn An-Nadr) said, "O Allah's Messengerﷺ! By Him Who has sent you with the Truth, her tooth shall not be broken." Then the opponents of Anas's sister accepted the compensation and gave up the claim of retaliation. So, Allah's Messengerﷺsaid, "There are some people amongst Allah's servants whose oaths are fulfilled by Allah when they take them."
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Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) exerted all their efforts and set the best examples of sacrifice and sincerity to raise the Word of Allah and support His religion.Anas ibn al-Nadr (may Allah be pleased with him) is a Companion whoset a remarkable example of sincerity, truthfulness, commitment, and sacrifice for raising the word of Allah, Exalted is He.

In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that his paternal uncle, Anas ibn al-Nadr (may Allah be pleased with him) did not witness the battle of Badr, which occurred during the month of Ramadan in the 2nd year of Hijrah. This is because the Prophet ﷺ did not announce general mobilization,since the original mission of the Prophet ﷺ and his expedition was to raid the trade caravan of Aboo Sufyaan, but a change of plan happened, and Allah willed that fighting to take place, to grant the Muslims their first victory. In the month of Shawaaal in the third year of Hijrah, the drums of war started to beat again when Quraysh prepared a large army to fight the Muslims. Anas ibn al-Nadr seized the opportunity and asked the Prophet ﷺ to allow him to participate in the battle,as he had missed the first battle, promising Allah that his actions would speak louder on the battlefield.

The battle of Uhud witnessed a dramatic change after the Muslim archers did not follow the strict orders of the Prophet ﷺthat they should remain stationed in their positions on the mountain of Uhud until further orders.After the Muslims defeated Quraysh in the beginning, those archers left their positions thinking the battle was over and because they wanted to collect the spoils of war. However, Anas ibn al-Nadr denounced their actions and declared himself innocent from that disobedience of the order of the Prophet ﷺ.Hedetached himself completely from the actions of pagans against the Muslims and the Prophet ﷺ in particular. As he (may Allah be pleased with him) advanced to fight the disbelievers of Quraish, Sa’d ibn Mu’aath (may Allah be pleased with him) met him on his way, so he said to Sa’d: “O Sa’d ibn Mu’aath, it is Paradise!” i.e., I want Paradise as it is my aim. Then, he swore by Allah by saying “By the Lord of [my father] al-Nadr,I can smell the scent of Paradise at the mountain of Uhud,” which could be theactual scent of Paradise or a sweet scent that made him think of the scent of Paradise. After seeing his actions, bravery, and achievements on the battlefield, Sa’d ibn Mu’aath (may Allah be pleased with him) stated: “O Messenger of Allah! I cannot achieve or do what he (i.e., Anas ibn al-Nadr) did.”

Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) remarked that they found more than eighty wounds by swords, spears, and arrows on his body. Also,the pagans mutilated his dead body so badly that none except his sister – al-Rubay’ bint al-Nadr - could recognize him, by the tip of his finger. Then, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) remarked that the Muslims believed the ayah: {Among the believers are men who have been true to their covenant with Allah...} (Quran 33.23) was revealed about Sa’d ibn al-Nadr and his like.

This hadeeth highlights the virtue and merit of Sa’d ibn al-Nadr (may Allah be pleased with him), and the virtue ofcommitment and devotion to fulfill one’s promise to Allah, regardless of the hardship one may experience. It shows that the order not to put one’s life in danger does not apply to the case of fighting in the way of Allah to attain martyrdom.

Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him)wenton to add that once, the sister of Anas ibn al-Nadr broke the front tooth of another woman, so the issue was raised to the Prophet ﷺ and heﷺ ordered for retaliation i.e., her front tooth be broken just like she broke the front tooth of the woman, as Allah, Most High, said: {and for wounds equal retaliation.} [Quran 5:45]. On that Anas (ibn An-Nadr) said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! By Him Who has sent you with the Truth, her tooth shall not be broken." i.e., he said it out of his hope that Allah would soften the heart of the woman to forgive her and drop the case for the sake of Allah. It is also possible that he (may Allah be pleased with him) did not know at that time about the option either to accept equal retaliation or offer compensation. The outcome of the case was that the woman accepted compensation and relinquished her right toretaliation. Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ said "There are some people amongst Allah's servants whose oaths are fulfilled by Allah when they take them,” i.e., they would take oaths while being confident in Allah’s generosity and favours, and Allahwould allow theiroaths to be fulfilled,sotheywouldnot have to offer oath expiation, due to their status with Allah.
This hadeeth highlights the virtue of Anas ibn al-Nadr (may Allah be pleased with him),and his strong faith and certainty in Allah, Exalted is He, and it shows that it is permissible to give up the claim of retaliation and accept financial compensation instead..

2808

Narrated Al-Baraa’ (may Allah be pleased with him): A man whose face was covered with an iron mask (i.e., clad in armour) came to the Prophetﷺand said, "O Allah's Messengerﷺ! Shall I fight or embrace Islam first? "The Prophetﷺsaid, "Embrace Islam first and then fight." So, he embraced Islam, and was martyred. Allah's Messengerﷺsaid, A Little work, but a great reward”.
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Commentary : It is from Allah’s favour upon a person to inspire him to do a good deed before passing from this life. It is from Allah’s grace over his servant to facilitate for him righteous deeds with which he concludes his life on this earth, to attain the eternal pleasures in the Hereafter, even if a person did only few good deeds in this life.

In this hadeeth, al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that a man whose face was covered with an iron mask came to the Prophet ﷺ asking him if he should enter Islam first and then fight or fight first and then enter Islam. The Prophet ﷺ advised him to embrace Islam first and then join the fight. The man complied and he was martyred in the battle, so the Prophet ﷺ remarked that this man did very little after embracing Islam, but he will be rewarded in abundance because of his martyrdom, and that his place in Paradise is secured although he did not offer one prayer.

The man came to the Prophet ﷺwhile the Muslims were preparing to go to war. It is said that the man was from the Ansaar from the tribe of al-Aws from Banee al-Nabeet, and it is said that his name was ‘Amr ibn Thaabit ibn Waqsh.

From the benefits that can be concluded from this hadeeth is learning that Allah, out of His favour and grace, rewards His servants in abundance for fewgood deeds. It also shows that the priority of the Prophet ﷺ was that people enter Islam and worship Allah alone. .

2815

Narrated Jaabir ibn `Abdullah(may Allah be pleased with him):"Some people drank alcohol in the morning of the day (of the battle) of Uhud and were martyred (on the same day)." Sufyaan was asked, "(Were they martyred) in the last part of the day?)" He replied, "Such information does not occur in the narration."
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Commentary : Allah does not punish or hold a person accountable for doing that which He has not forbid or warned against yet – even if He knows that such an action will be made forbidden at a later stage. This is because accountability is established after the order to do or refrain from something is confirmed.

In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that some of the Companions who participated in the battle of Uhud drank alcohol in the morning of the day of the battle. On the same day, they were martyred on the battlefield. However, as this happened before Allah revealed that consuming alcohol is completely prohibited, they are not to be held accountable for it. The fact that Allah knew in His eternal knowledge that drinking alcohol would be prohibited at a later stage does not deprive them from the reward of martyrdom. This is because the ruling of prohibition requires the existence of an order against that thing; therefore, people are not held accountable for their actions before the relevant orders and rulings are established.

The battle of Uhud took place between the Muslims and Quraysh in the month of Shawwaalin the third year of Hijrah. The battle is named after the mountain of Uhud, which is one of the mountains of al-Madeenah.

Sufyaan ibn ‘Uyaynah – one of the sub-narrators of this hadeeth – was asked whether they were martyred in the last part of the day on which they drank alcohol. He stated that the narration does not mention such information. According to one version of the hadeeth in Saheeh al-Bukhaaree: “All of them were martyred on the day, and this happened before it was made forbidden.”.

2819

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messengerﷺsaid, "Once Prophet Sulaymaan, son of Prophet Dawood (peace be upon them) said, '(By Allah) Tonight I will have sexual intercourse with one hundred (or ninety-nine) women each of whom will give birth to a knight who will fight in Allah's Cause.' On that his companions said: if Allah wills, but he did not say, 'Allah willing.' Therefore, only one of those women conceived and gave birth to a half-man. By Him in Whose Hands Muhammad's life is, if he had said, "Allah willing', (he would have begotten sons) all of whom would have been knights striving in Allah's Cause."
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Commentary : There is nothing that occurs except that Allah wished and willed it to occur. Considering this, one is encouraged to detachhimself from personal whims and desires andmake his desires and wants subject to Allah’s will in order to obtain them.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ explains that Prophet Sulaymaan, son of Prophet Dawood (peace be upon them) swore that he would have sexual intercourse with one hundred - or ninety-nine – women, each of whom would give birth to a knight who would fight in Allah's Cause. The doubt about the number of women is from the narrator of this hadeeth. His companion, the angel who used to convey Allah’s revelation to him -and it is said he was someone else - said to him to say, “if Allah wills.” However, he did not say it, out of forgetfulness. The fact that he forgot to utter the words does not entail or mean that his heart was not relying upon Allah when he made that statement. He wasaProphet of Allah (peace be upon him), who was infallible like the other Prophets of Allah (peace be upon them). Simply, he forgot to utter the words “if Allah wills” with his tongue, but his heart was mindful of Allah and relying upon Him.

The Prophet ﷺ continued that only one woman of them conceived,and gave birth to a half-man, because he did not utter the words. The Prophet ﷺ swore by Allah that if he had said, "if Allah wills”, he would have begotten 100 sons, all of whom would have been knights striving in Allah's Cause, as he said. The Prophet ﷺ swore using the words: “By Him in Whose Hands Muhammad's life is,” which he ﷺ often used whenever he wanted to swear and emphasise a point.

From the benefits that can be concluded from this hadeeth is learning that one should strive to have sons with the intention of sending them to fight in the way of Allah.

This hadeeth confirms the divine attribute of Hand, which is understood as it befits Allah, Exalted is He..

2821

Narrated Jubayr ibn Mut`im(may Allah be pleased with him): While I was walking with Allah's Messenger ﷺand the people returning from Hunayn were walking along with him. Some people caught hold of the Prophet ﷺ and started begging of him so much so that he had to stand under a thorny tree, causing his cloak to be hooked onthe thorns. The Prophet ﷺ stopped and said, "Give me my cloak. If I had as many camels as these thorny trees, I would have distributed them amongst you, and you will not find me a miser or a liar or a coward.".

Commentary : The Prophet ﷺ was a teacher who exercised the highest level of compassion, mercy, kindness, forbearance and gentleness.

In this hadeeth, Jubayr ibn Mu’tim (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that after the Battle of Hunayn, which was in the 8th year of Hijrah, the Prophet ﷺ walked with the people while they were on their way back to al-Madeenah. It happened that some of the people who participated in the Battle of Hunayan were new to Islam (i.e., new reverts). As such, some of them crowded around the Prophet ﷺ asking for spoils, to the extent that he had to stand next to a thorny tree. His cloak got caught on the thorns, so he ﷺ asked for his cloak and then addressed the people by saying: “If I had as many camels as these thorny trees, I would have distributed them amongst you,” i.e., if I had camels, cows, and sheep equivalent to the large number of trees I would have distributed between you without leaving anything from them for myself. He ﷺ intended to inform them that if he would give away all his property to them, then it is more befitting to know that he will not keep forhimself any of their spoils.

The Prophet ﷺclarified that he was neither a miser, coward, nor liar,but rather that he wasthe opposite, namely honest, generous, and brave. These three qualities are mentioned together,and each one of them necessitates the other two.

This hadeeth shows that it is permissible for one to mention the good qualities he possesses to those who do not know him well,to prove to them that he is a person that can be relied upon.

It also condemns the attributes of lying, miserliness and cowardice. .

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated Jundab ibn Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him):In one of the Battles a finger of Allah's Messengerﷺ(got wounded and) bled. Heﷺ said, "You are just a finger that bled, and what you got is in Allah's Cause." .

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Narrated Jundab ibn Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him):In one of the Battles a finger of Allah's Messengerﷺ(got wounded and) bled. Heﷺ said, "You are just a finger that bled, and what you got is in Allah's Cause."
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