Narrated `Abdullah ibn `Umar(may Allah be pleased with him):I heard the Prophetﷺsaying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house."
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Commentary : Allah predestined everything fifty thousand years before He created the heavens and earths. There is nothing that occurs within His creation in this vast cosmos except that He knows it before it takes place. Everything is subject to His will and predestination and being optimistic because of good omens or pessimistic because of bad omens does not change the fate that Allah has predestined. Indeed, all that which Allah has predestined is good, and feeling pessimistic because of a bad omen does not change anything or harms anyone but the person himself.

In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ explains the three things(namely horses, women, and houses) that people most consider as evil omens and presume are the cause ofthe harm and bad events they experience. People often take it as a bad omen if their horses fail to participate in times of fighting, if their women are sharp-tongued, barren, or difficult to please, and if their houses are small, far from the mosque, or close to a bad neighbour. Often, people take them as bad omens because they last more than anything else.

Without doubt, horses, wives, and homes are significant to the wellbeing, happiness, and stability of people. Once a person has a wife who is loyal and obedient, a house that is spacious and suitable for his family, and a strong and comfortable horse – or other medium of transport like a car – he will feel happy, stable, and secure in his life. However, if the wife is not righteous, the house is unsuitable, and the car is uncomfortable, a person will feel distressed, anxious, unhappy, and unstable physically and psychologically. It is said that the meaning of the hadeeth is that when a person considers them bad omens, anticipated unpleasant, harmful, or undesirable events will befall the person. As for whoever relies upon Allah and does not take them as bad omens, they will not be bad omens for them. This is corroborated by the hadeeth recorded by Ibn Hibbaan, who related that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Abad omen befalls whoever considers it a bad omen,” e.g., a person who believes in a bad omen even though he knows that the Prophet ﷺ forbid this is sinful.

This hadeeth does not confirm bad omens, or that horses, women, and houses are bad omens in and of themselves. It only intends to say that they could be either blessed or harmful, and their impact affects whoever is linked to them. If they are blessed, they will enjoy the blessings. and if they are harmful, they will experience their harm, just like when Allah, Exalted is He, grants parents a blessed child or an evil child, where the former brings forth goodness and the latter brings forth evil to them. All this takes place by the will of Allah, because it is Him who created all causes and linked cause to effect..

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Muslim narrated on the authority of Aboo ‘Aqeel that Aboo Al-Mutawakkil Al-Naajee said:I called on Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah Al-Ansaaree(may Allah be pleased with him) and said to him, "Relate to me what you have heard from Allah's Messenger ﷺ. He (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "I accompanied him on one of the journeys." (Aboo ‘Aqeel said, "I do not know whether that journey was for the purpose of Jihaad or ‘Umrah") "On our way back to Al-Madeenah," Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) continued, "the Prophetﷺ said, 'Whoever wants to return earlier to his family, should hurry up.' We set off and I was on a black-red tainted camel having no defect, and people were behind me. While I was in that state the camel stopped suddenly (because of exhaustion). On that the Prophetﷺ said to me, 'O Jaabir, hold on!' Then he ﷺ hit it once with his lash and it started moving on a fast pace. He ﷺ then said, 'Will you sell the camel?' I replied in the affirmative when we reached Al-Madeenah, and the Prophetﷺwent to the Mosque along with his Companions (may Allah be pleased with him). I, too, went to him after tying the camel to the tiled floor at the Mosque’s gate. Then I said to him, 'This is your camel.' He ﷺ came out and started examining the camel and saying, 'The camel is ours.' Afterward, the Prophetﷺsent some Awaaq (pl. Ooqiyyah, i.e., a weight measurement that varies based on the weighable goods as well as countries) of gold saying, 'Give it to Jaabir.' Then he ﷺ asked, 'Have you taken the full price (of the camel)?' I replied in the affirmative. He ﷺ said, 'Both the price and the camel are for you.’”.

Commentary : Allah has endowed the Prophet ﷺ with the best and the most perfect moral character. He ﷺ used to check on his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) constantly, guide them to what rectified them, financially support them, and help them out regarding their worldly and religious affairs.
In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) related that he accompanied the Prophet ﷺ once on a journey. Aboo ‘Aqeel Basheer ibn ‘Uqbah Al-Dawraqee Al-Basree, one of the narrators, doubted as to whether that journey was for the purpose of Jihaad or performing ‘Umrah. However, he affirmed in another version recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree that it was the Battle of Tabook, and it was also said that it was the Battle of Dhaat Al-Riqaa‘.
Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) added: "On our way back to Al-Madeenah, the Prophet ﷺ said, 'Whoever wants to return earlier to his family, should hurry up.' We set off, and I was on a black-red tainted camel having no defect,” the Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Shiyah, meaning a mark, gloss of a distinct color, or blemish, “and people were behind me.” This means that his camel was ahead of other camels. Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) added: “While I was in that state the camel stopped suddenly (because of exhaustion). On that the Prophet ﷺ said to me, 'O Jaabir, hold on,' meaning hold onto the back of the camel. Then he ﷺ hit it once with his lash and it started moving at a fast pace.” The Prophet ﷺ then asked Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) to sell him the camel. It is narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim that the Prophet ﷺ concluded the sale transaction during the journey and lent it to Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) to ride it until they reached Al-Madeenah, and Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) approved. When they reached Al-Madeenah, and the Prophet ﷺ went to the mosque along with his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), and Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) went to him after tying the camel to the tiled floor at the mosque’s gate. He (may Allah be pleased with him)said to the Prophet ﷺ, “This is your camel.” He ﷺ came out, went around the camel, and started examining it, saying, 'The camel is ours.' This statement could be indicative of concluding the sale transaction. Afterward, the Prophet ﷺ sent some Awaaq (pl. Ooqiyyah, i.e., a weight measurement that varies based on the weighable goods as well as countries) of gold saying, 'Give it to Jaabir.' The Ooqiyyah equaled about 40 Dirhams of silver. He ﷺ gave him the price and the camel, as a gift. This underlines the generosity and munificence of the Prophet ﷺ with his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them).
The hadeeth highlights a sign of the prophethood of Muhammad ﷺ.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable to hurt an animal, urging it to do what benefits it..

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Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Prophetﷺhad a she camel called Al-‘Adbaa’ which could not be excelled in a race. (Humayd, a sub-narrator said, "Or could hardly be excelled.") Once a Bedouin came riding a camel below six years of age which surpasses it (i.e., Al-‘Adbaa’) in the race. Muslims disliked it so much that the Prophetﷺ noticed their distress. He ﷺ then said, “It is a divine norm that Allah, Exalted is He, brings down whatever rises high in this worldly life.”
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Commentary :
One of the divine norms decreed by Allah, Exalted is He, for His creation is the regular alteration of rise and fall and the constant state of change; nothing remains unchanged in the worldly life.
In this hadeeth, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophetﷺhad a she-camel called Al-‘Adbaa,’ a nickname that literally denotes having a cleft ear. The Prophet’s camel did not have a cleft ear, despite the nickname, and it was amazingly fast and could not be excelled and outrun in a race. Once a Bedouin came riding a camel below six years of age which outran Al-‘Adbaa.’The Muslims disliked it so much that the Prophetﷺ noticed their distress and knew that they found it hard to accept such defeat. He ﷺ then said, “It is a divine norm that Allah, Exalted is He, brings down whatever rises high in this worldly life.” The Prophet ﷺ clarified to them that the divine norm decreed by Allah, Exalted is He, in governing the affairs of the worldly life entails that whenever something should rise high and becomes exalted in this worldly life, Allah, Exalted is He, lowers it and brings it down.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to organize camel races.
The hadeeth warns againstflaunting and boasting about worldly gains..

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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, said:I requested the Prophetﷺ topermit me to participate in Jihaad, but he ﷺ said, "Your Jihaad is the performance of Hajj."
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Commentary :
Jihaad is the pinnacle of Islam, and it requires certain (physical and emotional) capabilities, and Allah, Exalted is He, has conveniently relieved some people of such an obligation, including women.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers, ‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) stated that she asked the Prophetﷺ to allow her to participate in Jihaad, given its great virtues and refined rank in the sight of Allah, Exalted is He, but he ﷺ said, "Your Jihaad is the performance of Hajj.” This means that women are required to strive and exert physical effort in Hajj rather than on the battlefield, for they are (inherently delicate and) unable to handle face-to-face confrontations with the enemy on the battlefield, being beyond their innate capacity. The same goes of ‘Umrah, i.e., women are rather required to strive and exert physical effort in ‘Umrah rather than on the battlefield. The version recorded by Ibn Maajah reads: “What is incumbent on them (i.e., women) is the Jihaad that does not involve fighting, namely, Hajj and ‘Umrah.”
Women earn rewards for performing Hajj and ‘Umrah that are equal to those earned by men for partaking in Jihaad. It was also said that the obligatory Jihaad, meaning, striving in Allah’s Cause, for women is performing Hajj and ‘Umrah, just like it is obligatory on every male believer to partake in Jihaad in Allah’s Cause, if he is able.
Hajj is described as Jihaad, either in terms of Taghleeb (i.e., an expression in the Arabic language that consists of just one word but indicates two different things at the same time; one of the words takes preference or is treated as being used in the majority, for a given reason) or verbatim. Jihaad in this context is striving against one’s own (evil-enjoining) ‘self,’ because Hajj involves enduring physical and financial hardship. It is noteworthy that it is allowable for women to accompany the Muslim army, to help the male fighters out by conducting the tasks that are compatible with their physical capabilities, such as the provision of medical treatment for the injured, serving water to the fighters, and the like.
The hadeeth highlights the great virtues and rewards of Hajj, designated for both those who perform it as an obligatory act of worship and those who perform it as a voluntary one.
It is also inferred therefrom that the grace of Allah, Exalted is He, conferred upon people is great and enormous; He does not close some doors except to open others. .

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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, narrated that the Prophetﷺ was asked by his wives about the Jihaad and he ﷺ replied, "The best Jihaad (for you, i.e., women) is (the performance of) Hajj."
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Commentary :
Jihaad is the pinnacle of Islam, and it requires certain (physical and emotional) capabilities, and Allah, Exalted is He, has conveniently relieved some people, including women, of such an obligation.
In this hadeeth, ‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, narrated that the wives of the Prophetﷺ asked him to partake in Jihaad (like men did), and he ﷺ replied, "The best Jihaad (for you, i.e., women) is (the performance of) Hajj,” to highlight its great virtues and refined status in the sight of Allah, Exalted is He. The Prophet’s wives (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen to ask him about participating in Jihaad, on the battlefield, like men, but the Prophet ﷺ informed them of an act of worship that substituted Jihaad for them and befitted their (delicate) nature; a Jihaad that involves no fighting, i.e., Hajj, and the same goes for ‘Umrah. The version recorded by Ibn Maajah reads: “What is incumbent on them (i.e., women) is the Jihaad that does not involve fighting, namely, Hajj and ‘Umrah.”
Women earn rewards for performing Hajj and ‘Umrah that are equal to those earned by men for partaking in Jihaad. It was also said that the obligatory Jihaad for them is performing Hajj and ‘Umrah, just like it is obligatory on every believer to partake in Jihaad in Allah’s Cause, if he is able.
Hajj is described as Jihaad, either in terms of Taghleeb (i.e., an expression in the Arabic language that consists of just one word but indicates two different things at the same time; one of the words takes preference or is treated as being used in the majority, for a given reason) or verbatim. Jihaad in this context is striving against one’s own (evil-enjoining) ‘self,’ because Hajj involves enduring physical and financial hardship. It is noteworthy that it is allowable for women to accompany the Muslim army, to help the male fighters out by conducting the tasks that are compatible with their physical capabilities (and delicate nature), such as the provision of medical treatment of the injured, serving water to the fighters, and the like.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to keenly perform the best and most rewardable good deeds.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is not incumbent on women to partake in Jihaad, and that Hajj is the best form of Jihaad (striving) befitting them because it does not involve fighting; it is more becoming for women to veil themselves and refrain from direct interactions with men (for no need), and this is possible for them when performing Hajj.
The hadeeth underlines the great virtues and rewards of Hajj designated for those who perform it as an obligatory act of worship or a voluntary one..

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Tha‘labah ibn Abee Maalik narrated that ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab(may Allah be pleased with him) distributed some garments amongst the women of Al-Madeenah. One good garment remained, and one of those present with him said, "O Commander of the Believers! Give this (remaining) garment to your wife, the (grand) daughter of Allah's Messenger ﷺ.” They meant Umm Kulthoom, the daughter of ‘Alee (may Allah be pleased with them). ‘Umar said, Umm Saleet has more right (to have it)." Umm Saleet(may Allah be pleased with her) was a woman from the Ansaar who had given the pledge of allegiance to Allah's Messenger ﷺ. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "She (i.e., Umm Saleet) used to carry the water skins for us on the day of Uhud."
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, favored the senior Muslims (i.e., those who embraced Islam first) and singled them out for the highest ranks in Paradise, because He established the religion of Islam at their hands. Al-Faarooq‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab(may Allah be pleased with him)knew this well and acknowledged the rights of these senior Muslims. He (may Allah be pleased with him) gave them priority over others in terms of grants (i.e., allowances assigned by rulers to the eligible recipients, such as employees and soldiers).
In this report, Tha‘labah ibn Abee Maalik Al-Qurdhee – scholars held different opinions as to whether or not he was a Companion - narrated that ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab(may Allah be pleased with him) distributed some garments amongst the women of Al-Madeenah. The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Muroot, pl. of Mirt, which meant woolen or silken clothes. One of these garments remained, and one of those present with him said, "O Commander of the Believers! Give this (remaining) garment to your wife, the (grand) daughter of Allah's Messenger ﷺ.” They meant Umm Kulthoom, the daughter of ‘Alee ibn AbeeTaalib(may Allah be pleased with them). They attributed her directly to the Prophet ﷺ because she was the daughter of Faatimah(may Allah be pleased with him), who had four children with ‘Alee: Al-Hasan, Al-Husayn, Zaynab, and Umm Kulthoom(may Allah be pleased with them), and ‘Umar married Umm Kulthoom(may Allah be pleased with them). He (may Allah be pleased with him) said, “Umm Saleet has more right (to it)." Umm Saleet(may Allah be pleased with her) was a woman from the Ansaar who had given the Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) to Allah's Messenger ﷺ. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) further explained, "She (i.e., Umm Saleet) carried the water skins for us on the day of Uhud,” in 3 A.H.
The hadeeth underlines that ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) acknowledged and honored the rights of the Ansaar and gave them precedence over his own wife and granddaughter of the Prophet ﷺ.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable for women to accompany the Muslim army, to help the male fighters out by carrying out the tasks that are compatible with their physical capabilities (and delicate nature), such as the provision of medical treatment for the injured, serving water to the fighters, and the like..

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Al-Rubayyi‘ bintMu‘auwwidh(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:We were in the company of the Prophetﷺ providing the wounded with water and treating them and bringing the killed to Al-Madeenah (from the battlefield) .
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, did not deem it obligatory on women to partake in fighting in His cause, for it is an exclusive obligation on men. However, women are still allowed to partake in Jihaad along with men and perform the tasks that befit their innately delicate nature.
In this hadeeth, Al-Rubayyi‘ bintMu‘auwwidh ibn ‘Afraa’ (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated that she and some other women used to accompany the Prophetﷺ in battles, providing the wounded with water, medical treatment, and carrying the killed back to Al-Madeenah (from the battlefield)to be buried therein..

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Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him):The Prophet ﷺ said, "Let the slave of Dinar and Dirham, and the slave of Khameesah (i.e., wealth and luxurious clothes) perish as he is pleased if these (worldly) things are given to him, and if not, he is displeased. Let such a person perish and relapse, and if he is pierced with a thorn, let him not find anyone to take it out for him. Paradise is for him who holds the reins of his horse to strive in Allah's Cause (i.e., partake in Jihaad), with his hair unkempt and feet covered with dust: if he is appointed in the vanguard, he is perfectly satisfied with his post of guarding, and if he is appointed in the rearward, he accepts his post with satisfaction; (he is so simple and unambiguous that) if he asks for permission he is not permitted, and if he intercedes, his intercession is not accepted.".

Commentary :
The most wretched of all people is the one who takes his own (sinful) urges and desires as an object of worship, exerting all his effort to gratify and chase after such desires. By doing so, he fails to realize the very purpose for which he was created in the first place, namely, the worship of Allah, Exalted is He, and instead pursues instant gratification of desires by doing what does not please his Lord. This involves trading his (lasting) Hereafter for the (fleeting) worldly life. On the contrary, the most blessed and happiest of all people is the one who devotes his life to Allah, Exalted is He, seeking His pleasure, and aspiring only to His reward, designated for His righteous servants.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ warned all the believers against becoming enslaved to their own urges and desires, and urged them to devote their lives to Allah, Exalted is He, and strive in His cause. He ﷺ said, "Let the slave of Dinar and Dirham, and the slave of Khameesah (i.e., wealth and luxurious clothes) perish.” The Khameesah is a kind of fine garment or black rectangle striped sheet. The reason for such a supplication against this person is explained in the following statement: he ﷺ said: ‘as he is pleased if these (worldly) things are given to him, and if not, he is displeased.” Such a person is wretched because whenever he is given worldly gains, wealth, and the gratification of his desires, he feels satisfied and pleased with Allah, Exalted is He, and whenever he is deprived of any of them, he becomes dissatisfied and displeased with Him! The Prophet ﷺ repeated his supplication against such a person to be wretched in order todiscourageMuslims from such an unbecoming quality. He ﷺ added: “Let such a person perish and relapse,” meaning to incur loss and ruin on himself, “and if he is pierced with a thorn, let him not find anyone to take it out for him,” meaning to try removing it by means of tweezers or the like, and it would not come out on its own as well. This means that whenever the least amount of harm should befall him, he would not find any help or relief.
Afterward, the Prophet ﷺ praised the inconspicuous devout servant of Allah, Exalted is He, (i.e., who may seem insignificant and inferior in the eyes of people) who partakes in Jihaad, caring less about (chasing after) worldly gains and luxuries or seeking them. He ﷺ said: “Paradise is for him,” the Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Toobaa, a name that refers to a tree in Paradise. He ﷺ is supplicating that such a person should be admitted to Paradise, because Toobaa is the most famous and best tree therein, “who holds the reins of his horse to strive in Allah's Cause (i.e., partake in Jihaad), with his hair unkempt and feet covered with dust: if he is appointed in the vanguard, he is perfectly satisfied with his post of guarding,” at the front, “and if he is appointed in the rearward, he accepts his post with satisfaction;’ aspiring to the reward of Allah, Exalted is He. Such person may be unnoticed by people; they do not hold him in such high regard, nor does he seek to win their praise and admiration; “(he is so simple and unambiguous that) if he asks for permission he is not permitted, and if he intercedes, his intercession is not accepted,” because he seems insignificant and inferior in people’s eyes. However, he is held in high regard by Allah, Exalted is He, and his rewards are preserved for him (in the Hereafter).
The hadeeth warns against greed for worldly pleasures and following one’s (sinful) urges and desires.
It also discourages Muslims from seeking after positions of authority (prominence), and fame, and highlights the virtues of being modestly inconspicuous and humble in people’s eyes..

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Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
I was in the company of Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) on a journey and he used to serve me though he was older than I. Jareer said, "I saw the Ansaar doing a thing(i.e., showing great reverence to the Prophetﷺ)for which I have vowed that whenever I meet any of them, I will serve him."
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Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) dearly loved the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and they also loved whoever loved him ﷺ, eagerly served him and fulfilled his needs, and gave us the greatest examples in this regard.
In this report, Jareer ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) underlined his deep love for the Prophet ﷺ, and of the Ansaar for their service of him. Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that he once accompanied Jareer ibn ‘Abdullaah Al-Bajalee(may Allah be pleased with him) on a journey and he hastened to serve him, though he was older than Anas (may Allah be pleased with them). Jareer(may Allah be pleased with him) explained that he did so as an expression of gratitude and appreciation for what the Ansaar did, and their laudable service of the Prophet ﷺ, and out of great reverence to them. Therefore, he (may Allah be pleased with him) vowed that whenever he should meet any of the Ansaar, he would devotedly serve him, as a reward for their devotion in serving the Prophet ﷺ.
The hadeeth underlines the virtues of the Ansaar, the merits of Jareer(may Allah be pleased with him), and his humbleness towards and deep love for the Prophet ﷺ..

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Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
We were with the Prophet ﷺ (on a journey) and the only shade one could have, was the shade made by one's own garment. Those who fasted did not do any work and those who did not fast served the camels, brought water on them, and treated the sick (and wounded). So, the Prophet ﷺ said, "Today, those who were not fasting took (all) the reward.".

Commentary :
Helping and serving the weak and needy are among the best and most rewarding acts of righteousness.
In this hadeeth, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that they were once with the Prophet ﷺ (on a journey in one of the battles) and it was an extremely sweltering day; the only shade one could have been the shade made by one's own garment. Some of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were fasting on that day. Those who fasted did not do any work or acts of service, because of fasting, enduring the nuisance of travel, and preparing for Jihaad, and those who did not fast served the camels, brought water to them, served (the fasting ones), and treated the sick (and wounded). They carried out all the exhausting tasks of bringing water, preparing food, and fetching fodder. So, the Prophet ﷺ said, "Today, those who were not fasting took (all) the reward,” meaning that they earned the most perfect and greatest share of reward because the benefit of fasting is limited to the fasting person only, while the benefit of those who did not fast extended to others as well. However, this does not suggest that their rewards were diminished in the slightest, but rather means that those who did not fast earned greater rewards for performing services for others, as well as their own personal responsibilities.
The hadeeth highlights the austere living conditions and (financial) hardship endured by the Prophet ﷺ and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)..

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Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Saa‘dee(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "To observe Ribaat (i.e., guarding at frontier outposts in support of Allah's Cause), guarding Muslims from the disbelievers in Allah's Cause, for one day is better than the worldly life and everything therein, and a place in Paradise as small as that occupied by the whip of one of you is better than the worldly life and everything therein; and a morning's or an evening's journey which a person travels in Allah's Cause is better than the worldly life and everything therein."
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Commentary :
Jihaad in Allah’s Cause is the pinnacle of Islam and a source of glory for all Muslims. It is a great means to enter Paradise, and manytextual evidence encourage and urge Muslims to partake in Jihaad, and underline the great reward designated for this worshipful act.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ highlighted that observing Ribaat (i.e., guarding at frontier outposts in support of Allah's Cause), and guarding Muslims against the disbelievers’ potential assaults for one day, is better than the worldly life and everything therein, and this reward is earned because Ribaat involves putting one’s life on the line to defend Islam and protect Muslims.
He ﷺ also underlined that a small place in Paradise, being the (eternal) bliss earned by observing Ribaat, that is as small as a place occupied by the whip of a Mujaahid (i.e., Muslim fighter partaking in Jihaad) is better than the whole worldly life and everything therein, because the worldly life is fleeting and Paradise and the bliss therein, no matter how insignificant it may seem in that simile, are lasting and enduring. Verily, what is lasting is better than what is fleeting, in all respects.
The Prophet ﷺ also said that a morning's or an evening's journey which a person travels once in Allah's Cause is better than the worldly life and everything therein.
The hadeeth highlights the great virtues of Ribaat in Allah’s Cause.
It underlines the insignificance of the (short-lived) worldly life compared to the (everlasting) Hereafter..

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Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophetﷺ said to AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with him), "Choose one of your boy servants to serve me in my expedition to Khaybar." So, AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with him) took me letting me ride behind him while I was a boy nearing the age of puberty. I used to serve Allah's Messenger ﷺwhen he stopped to rest. I heard him saying repeatedly, "O Allah! I seek refuge with You from distress and sorrow, from helplessness and laziness, from miserliness and cowardice, from being heavily in debt and from being overcome by men." Then we reached Khaybar; and when Allah enabled him to conquer the Fort (of Khaybar), the beauty of SafiyyahbintHuyayy ibn Akhtab(may Allah be pleased with her)was described to him. Her husband had been killed while she was a bride. So, Allah's Messenger ﷺ chose her for himself (i.e., to be his wife) and took her along with him till we reached a place called Sadd Al-Sahbaa’ where her menses were over and he took her for his wife. Hays (i.e., a kind of desert;stoneless dates that are mixed with dried yoghurt or flour or butter) was served on a small leather sheet. Then Allah's Messenger ﷺ told me to call those who were around me. So, that was the marriage banquet of Allah's Messenger ﷺ and Safiyyah. We left for Al-Madeenah afterward. I saw Allah's Messenger ﷺ folding a cloak round the hump of the camel so as to make a wide space for Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) (to sit on behind him) He ﷺ sat beside his camel letting his knees for Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) to put her feet on so as to mount the camel. Then, we proceeded till we approached Al-Madeenah; he ﷺ looked at Uhud (mountain) and said, "This is a mountain which loves us and is loved by us." Then, he ﷺ looked at Al-Madeenah and said, "O Allah! I declare the area between its (i.e., Al-Madeenah's) two mountains a sanctuary as Prophet Ibraaheem (Abraham) declared Makkah to be a sanctuary. O Allah! Bless them (i.e., the people of Al-Madeenah) in their Mudd and Saa‘ (i.e., dry measures used for agricultural produce by the Arabs in the Prophet's lifetime).”
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Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) enjoyed the company of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ in residence and travel and were his best helpers. They strove to fulfill his needs and carry out his commands and were also the best conveyers of his Sunnah and guidance to the following Muslim generations.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophetﷺ asked AbooTalhah, the stepfather of Anas (may Allah be pleased with them) to choose one of his servants to serve him in his expedition to Khaybar in 7 A.H. Khaybar was a village inhabited by Jews, about 153 km away from Al-Madeenah on the way to Shaam.
Therefore, AbooTalhah took Anas (may Allah be pleased with them), letting him ride behind him. Anas (may Allah be pleased with them) was then a young boy near the age of puberty. It is known that Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) served the Prophet ﷺ for years before Khaybar. This statement may be interpreted as to mean seeking AbooTalhah’s permission to take Anas on that journey, not to serve the Prophet ﷺ in general. During that journey, he (may Allah be pleased with him) used to serve the Prophet ﷺ whenever he stopped to rest in any place and at any time, and would hear him saying repeatedly, "O Allah! I seek refuge with You from distress and sorrow, from helplessness and laziness, from miserliness and cowardice, from being heavily in debt and from being overcome by men." In this supplication, the Prophet ﷺ combined all the main evil qualities that hinder good-doing. He ﷺ sought refuge with Allah, Exalted is He, from distress and sorrow; the first denotes anxiety about potential harm, whereas the second meansdeep distress regarding an unpleasant event that had happened. It was also said that the Arabic words used in the hadeeth (Hamm and Hazan) denote the same meaning. Moreover, he ﷺ sought refuge from helplessness and laziness; the first implies inability, while the second means neglecting a duty that one was able to do. He ﷺ also sought refuge frommiserliness and cowardice, because these two bad qualities involve falling short in carrying out one’s duties and obligations, honoring the rights of Allah, Exalted is He, and eliminating evils (as enjoined), and also because the moderate courage and inner strength empowers a person to perfect his worshipful acts and support the wronged and oppressed, and avoiding miserliness enables him to fulfill the due financial rights, generously spend in charity, embody refined morals, and refrain from coveting what he does not have. Afterward, he ﷺ sought refuge frombeing heavily in debt, and inability to repay it, especially when the creditors claim it, and from being overcome by men, meaning the oppression or dominion of unjust men or creditors over him.
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) related that when they reached Khaybar; and when Allah, Exalted is He, enabled the Prophet ﷺ to conquer the Fort (of Khaybar), the beauty of SafiyyahbintHuyayy ibn Akhtab(may Allah be pleased with her)was described to him. Her husband, Kinaanah ibn Al-Rabee‘ ibn Abee Al-Huqayq, had been killed while she was still a bride. So, Allah's Messenger ﷺ chose her for himself (i.e., to be his wife), because she was their king’s daughter. He ﷺ took her along with him till they reached a place called Sadd Al-Sahbaa,’ a place at the lower part of Khaybar, southeast of Thamad, which is a village near Khaybar to the north. Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) attained ritual purity after her menses ended and the Prophet ﷺ consummated his marriage to her. Hays (i.e., a kind of dessert;stoneless dates that are mixed with dried yoghurt or flour or butter) was served on a small leather sheet. Allah's Messenger ﷺ told Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) to inform the Muslims of the marriage banquet thrown by Allah's Messenger ﷺ when he married Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her), and this banquet did not include bread nor meat.
Afterward, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) related that they left for Al-Madeenah, and he saw Allah's Messenger ﷺ folding a cloak round the hump of the camel so as to make a wide space for Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) (to sit on it behind him). He ﷺ sat beside his camel placing his knees for Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) to put her feet on so as to mount the camel easily. Then, they proceeded till they approached Al-Madeenah; the Prophet ﷺ looked at Uhud (mountain), which is located in the north-west of Al-Madeenah, 4 km from the Prophet’s Mosque. The famous Battle of Uhud took place in 3 A.H. near it. The Prophet ﷺ said, "This is a mountain which loves us and is loved by us." This means that he ﷺ loved those residing near and around it. The Prophet’s love for the mountain entails it being blessed and encourages Muslims to seek residence near it.
The Prophet ﷺ looked at Al-Madeenah and said, "O Allah! I declare the area between its (i.e., Al-Madeenah's) two mountains a sanctuary as Prophet Ibraaheem (Abraham) declared Makkah to be a sanctuary. O Allah! Bless them (i.e., the people of Al-Madeenah) in their Mudd and Saa‘ (i.e., dry measures used for agricultural produce by the Arabs in the Prophet's lifetime).”
The Arabic word Laabah means Harrah, which is a stony tract or lava field, whose stones are black, as if they were burned with fire. Al-Madeenah is located between two Harrahs; the Harrah of Waaqim to the east, where the Mosque of Qubaa’ and Waaqim fortress are situated, and the Harrah of Wabarah to the west, where Masjid Al-Qiblatayn is located. A Saudi official committee has defined the limits of Al-Madeenah sanctuary, and the Madeenah Municipality has installed architectural signs in the shape of the arcs of the Prophet's Mosque to mark the limits of the sanctuary.
The sacredness of Al-Madeenahis manifested in the fact that whatever lies within its boundaries is declared inviolable; no animal may be hunted, and no tree therein may be cut down. As for trees and plants that people grow and plant, it is permissible for people to cut down and eat from them. No religious innovation may be introduced therein, and none may do what contravenes the religion of Allah or commit an act of injustice or a crime warranting the implementation of the Hudood (i.e., the plural of Hadd, the corporal punishment determined by the Islamic law). This meaning is further explained by another version of the hadeeth recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim reading, “Al-Madeenah is a sanctuary from such-and-such place to such-and-such place. Its trees may not be cut, and no innovation may be introduced therein, and whoever introduces an innovation (in religion) therein, will incur the curse of Allah, the angels, and all people.”
The Prophet ﷺ further added: “O Allah! I declare the area between its (i.e., Al-Madeenah's) two mountains a sanctuary as Prophet Ibraaheem (Abraham) declared Makkah to be a sanctuary.” Prophet Ibraaheem declared Makkah a sanctuary, meaning inviolable, by the permission of Allah, Exalted is He, and similarly Al-Madeenah was declared an inviolable sanctuary, except with regard to the prescribed punishment for hunting in Makkah.
Lastly, the Prophet ﷺ supplicated Allah, Exalted is He, to bless the food measured by the Mudd and Saa‘ (i.e., dry measures used for agricultural produce by the Arabs in the Prophet's lifetime). The Saa‘ equaled four Mudds, and the Mudd equaled two handfuls scooped up by someone with hands of average size. On account ofthis supplication, Allah, Exalted is He, blessed the Saa‘ of Al-Madeenah so much that it would be sufficient for a greater number of people than what it would normally suffice elsewhere, and this was tangible and noticeable to the people of Al-Madeenah.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable to hire an orphan to perform certain tasks.
It is also inferred that it is permissible to bring young boys on military expeditions.
It is also deduced that a Muslim may throw a wedding banquet, and it may include food other than bread and meat.
The hadeeth highlights the virtues of Uhud mountain.
It also underlines the virtues of Al-Madeenah and the Prophet’s ﷺsupplications for it.
It is inferred therefrom that a younger person may serve an elder one because of his refined status, being held in high esteem by his people, his knowledge, righteousness, and the like.
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2896

Mus‘ab ibn Sa‘d(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Once Sa‘d (ibn AbeeWaqqaas)(may Allah be pleased with him) thought that he was superior to those who were below him in rank. On that the Prophetﷺsaid, "You gain no victory or livelihood except through (the blessings and invocations of) the poor amongst you."
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was a merciful teacher, a kind educator and giver of discipline, and a forbearing mentor. Whenever he ﷺ saw one of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)making a mistake, he ﷺ would kindly correct him and guide him to what is good and right.
In this hadeeth, Mus‘ab ibn Sa‘d(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that Sa‘d ibn AbeeWaqqaas(may Allah be pleased with them) thought that he was superior to those who were below him in rank, thanks to his physical strength and courage on the battlefield. On that, the Prophetﷺ reminded him of the virtues of those who were below him in rank, andthat Allah, Exalted is He, grants Muslims victory and livelihood because of the blessings and invocations of the poor amongst them. Allah, Exalted is He, bestows upon Muslims triumph over their enemies by means of the strength and courage of the strong Muslim fighters, and He also confers upon him victory because of the supplication of the weak Muslims and their submission to Him. This is because their worship and invocationsare characterized by sincerity and devotion, for their hearts are not attached to any of the (alluring) worldly pleasures and luxuries, and their consciences are clear. Such people seek after realizing one main purpose; the Hereafter (and they are not caught up in the worldly life). The Prophet ﷺ wanted to urge Sa‘d(may Allah be pleased with him) to embody humbleness and warn the believers against arrogance and conceit, lest these things should find their way to their hearts, driving them to look down on any of their fellow Muslims (who may be lower than them in rank).
It is deduced from the hadeeth that Muslims should value the supplication of their weak fellow Muslims to be blessed with victory over their enemies, because victory is a blessing conferred by Allah, Exalted is He, upon Muslims. They must not rely merely on their military strength, heroism, and courage. Rather, they should duly rely on Allah, Exalted is He, and invoke and implore Him abundantly..

2897

AbooSa‘Eid Al-Khudree(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophetﷺsaid, "A time will come when groups of people will go for Jihaad and it will be asked, 'Is there anyone amongst you who has enjoyed the company of the Prophet ﷺ?' The answer will be, 'Yes.' Then they will be given victory (by Allah) (because of him). Then a time will come when it will be asked. 'Is there anyone amongst you who has enjoyed the company of the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ?' It will be said, 'Yes,' and they will be given victory (by Allah). Then a time will come when it will be said, 'Is there anyone amongst you who has enjoyed the company of the companions of the Prophet’s Companions ﷺ?' It will be said, 'Yes,' and they will be given victory (by Allah).”
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Commentary :
The best people, next to the Prophets of Allah, were the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), then those who followed them, and those who followed them, and so on, as stated by the Prophet ﷺ.
This hadeeth highlights the virtues of the first three Muslim generations and that the victory of Islam was bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He, upon Muslims at their hands. In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated that a time shall come when groups of people will partake in Jihaad in Allah’s Cause and it will be asked, 'Is there anyone amongst you who has enjoyed the company of the Prophet ﷺ?' The answer will be, 'Yes.' Then they will be blessed with victory by Allah, Exalted is He, because of them, given the merits and refined status of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). He ﷺ added, “Then a time will come when it will be asked. 'Is there anyone amongst you who has enjoyed the company of the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ?' It will be said, 'Yes,' and they will be given victory (by Allah).” They will also be blessed with victory at their hands because of their merits and refined status, being the companions of the Prophet’s Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), who embodied their morals and followed their example. Afterward, the Prophet ﷺ added: “Then a time will come when it will be said, 'Is there anyone amongst you who has enjoyed the company of the companions of the Prophet’s Companions?' It will be said, 'Yes,' and they will be given victory (by Allah).” They will also be blessed with victory at their hands because of their merits and refined status, being the students of the companions of the Prophet’s Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) who embodied their morals and followed their example and learned the knowledge they conveyed to them.
The hadeeth highlights the signs of prophethood.
It underlines the virtues of the first three Muslim generations..

2898

Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Saa‘idee(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Allah's Messenger ﷺand the pagans faced each other and started fighting. When Allah's Messenger ﷺ returned to his camp and the pagans returned to theirs, somebody talked about a man amongst the Companions of Allah's Messenger ﷺwho would chase and kill with his sword any pagan going alone. He said, "Nobody did his job (i.e., fighting) so properly today as that man." Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "Indeed, he is amongst the people of Hellfire." A man said, "I shall accompany him (to watch what he does warranting it)." Thus, he accompanied him, and wherever he stood, he would stand with him, and wherever he ran, he would run with him (i.e., he did not let him leave his sight). Afterward, the (brave) man got wounded seriously and he decided to bring about his death quickly. He planted the blade of the sword in the ground directing its sharp end towards his chest between his two breasts. Then he leaned on the sword and killed himself! The other man came to Allah's Messenger ﷺand said, "I testify that you are truly Allah's Messenger ﷺ!” The Prophetﷺasked, "What has happened?" He replied, "(It is about) the man whom you had described as one of the people of the Hellfire. People were greatly surprised at what you said, and I said to myself, 'I will find out his reality for you.' So, I came out seeking him. He got severely wounded and hastened to die by slanting the blade of his sword in the ground directing its sharp end towards his chest between his two breasts. Then he eased on his sword and killed himself!” When Allah's Messenger ﷺsaid, "A man may seem to people as if he were practicing the deeds of the people of Paradise while in fact he is from the people of the Hellfire, another may seem to people as if he were practicing the deeds of the people of Hellfire, while in fact he is from the people of Paradise."
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Commentary :
Having a good final stage of life is a blessing bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He, upon His servant, and it is afruit of the inward Jihaad (i.e., striving against one’s own ‘self’) and the outwardone (i.e., striving against the enemies of Islam and Muslims), in obedience to Allah, Exalted is He. On the other hand, having a foul final stage of life is indicative of loss and ruin (in the Hereafter), and it is the result of one’s negligence in obeying Allah, Exalted is He, and submissively devoting the heart and body parts to Him.
In this hadeeth, Sahl ibn Sa‘d Al-Saa‘idee(may Allah be pleased with him)narrated that Allah's Messenger ﷺand the pagans faced each other and started fighting. When Allah's Messenger ﷺ returned to his camp and when the pagans returned to theirs after the first day of fighting, somebody talked about a man amongst the Companions of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, named Quzmaan,who was brave on the battlefield, and would chase and kill with his sword any pagan going alone, thanks to his (notable) physical strength and courage. People talked about the exceptional bravery of such a strong warrior, and said, "Nobody did his job (i.e., fighting) so properly today as that man." Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ informed them, based on the divine revelation, that he belonged to the People of Hellfire!
A man (astonishedly) said (to himself), "I shall accompany him (to watch what he does)," to find out the reason that warranted labelling him as one of the People of Hellfire, since his outward deeds seemed to be good, indicating his righteousness, yet the Prophet ﷺ (decisively) stated that he would be thrown into Hellfire!
The man related that he accompanied the man in question and did not let him leave his sight; wherever he stood, his companion would stand with him, and wherever he ran, his companion would run with him, to monitor all his acts closely. He said: “Then the (brave) man got wounded seriously and he decided to bring about his death quickly. He planted the sword in the ground, directing its sharp end towards his chest between his two breasts. Then he leaned on the sword and killed himself!” The Companion who had accompanied the man in question, went to Allah's Messenger ﷺand said, "I testify that you are truly Allah's Messenger ﷺ!” The Prophetﷺasked, "What has happened?" He replied, "(It is about) the man whom you had described as one of the people of Hellfire. People were greatly surprised at what you said, and I said to myself, 'I will find out his reality for you.' So, I went out seeking him.” He (may Allah be pleased with him) related to them what had happened.
Some objections were made regarding the fact that this man was decisively declared as one of the people of Hellfire only because he disobediently killed himself, yet a believer is not declared as a disbeliever on account of a sin as per the . In response, it was said that the Prophet ﷺ knew, through the divine revelation, that this man was not a true believer, and was rather a hypocrite, or that he would apostatize and declare lawful killing himself.
Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ remarked, "A man may seem to people as if he were practicing the deeds of the people of Paradise while in fact he is from the people of Hellfire;” he may perform worshipful acts and righteous deeds, and people would assume that he would (certainly) enter Paradise, yet his inner character is contrary to what he is displaying to people, and he would be committing Riyaa’ (i.e., showing off and seeking to impress others to win their praise) or the like. Similarly, “… another may seem to people as if he were practicing the deeds of the people of Hellfire, while in fact he is from the people of Paradise;” one may commit sins and fall short in performing worshipful acts and the like, and people may assume that he would most likely be thrown into Hellfire, whereas he would (have a good inward character qualifying him to) be from the people of Paradise in the sight of Allah, Exalted is He. Therefore, He may guide him to perform virtuous deeds and acts of obedience, repent, and have a good final stage of life (to earn Paradise).
The hadeeth warns against being deceived by one’s (outward appearance and) good deeds, or relying merely on his good deeds, since his situation may change in a blink of an eye.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that Allah, Exalted is He, examines people’s hearts and their inward characters, and holds them accountable for them accordingly..

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated `Abdullah ibn `Umar(may Allah be pleased with him):I heard the Prophetﷺsaying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house."
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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, said:I requested the Prophetﷺ topermit me to participate in Jihaad, but he ﷺ said, "Your Jihaad is the performance of Hajj."
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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, narrated that the Prophetﷺ was asked by his wives about the Jihaad and he ﷺ replied, "The best Jihaad (for you, i.e., women) is (the performance of) Hajj."
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Al-Rubayyi‘ bintMu‘auwwidh(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:We were in the company of the Prophetﷺ providing the wounded with water and treating them and bringing the killed to Al-Madeenah (from the battlefield) .
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’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated `Abdullah ibn `Umar(may Allah be pleased with him):I heard the Prophetﷺsaying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house." .

‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, said:I requested the Prophetﷺ topermit me to participate in Jihaad, but he ﷺ said, "Your Jihaad is the performance of Hajj." .

‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, narrated that the Prophetﷺ was asked by his wives about the Jihaad and he ﷺ replied, "The best Jihaad (for you, i.e., women) is (the performance of) Hajj." .

Al-Rubayyi‘ bintMu‘auwwidh(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:We were in the company of the Prophetﷺ providing the wounded with water and treating them and bringing the killed to Al-Madeenah (from the battlefield) . .

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Narrated `Abdullah ibn `Umar(may Allah be pleased with him):I heard the Prophetﷺsaying. "Evil omen is in three things: The horse, the woman and the house."
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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, said:I requested the Prophetﷺ topermit me to participate in Jihaad, but he ﷺ said, "Your Jihaad is the performance of Hajj."
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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, narrated that the Prophetﷺ was asked by his wives about the Jihaad and he ﷺ replied, "The best Jihaad (for you, i.e., women) is (the performance of) Hajj."
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Al-Rubayyi‘ bintMu‘auwwidh(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:We were in the company of the Prophetﷺ providing the wounded with water and treating them and bringing the killed to Al-Madeenah (from the battlefield) .
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