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2957
AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "We are the last (i.e., the Muslim Ummah) but will be the foremost to enter Paradise." The Prophet ﷺ added, "He who obeys me, obeys Allah, Exalted is He, and he who disobeys me, disobeys Him. He who obeys the Imaam (i.e., ruler), obeys me, and he who disobeys the Imaam, disobeys me. The Imaam is like a shelter for whose safety Muslims should fight and where they should seek protection. If the Imaam orders people with righteousness and rules justly, then he will be rewarded for that, and if he does the opposite, he will be responsible for that.”
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Commentary :
The religious and worldly affairs of a given community or group of people are not duly governed and put in order except by appointing an Imaam or ruler to shoulder this vital task, by managing people’s affairs, settling their disputes, and obliging people to abide by the obligations and prohibitions. Therefore, the appointment of the Imaam is inevitable, and his obedience is also entailed.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ underlined that Muslims’ obedience to him, i.e., complying with his commands and prohibitions, is entailed by their obedience to Allah, Exalted is He, and compliance with His commands and prohibitions. Similarly, disobeying the Prophet ﷺ implies disobeying Allah, Exalted is He, because the Prophet ﷺ conveyed to us the divine commands and prohibitions.
Moreover, the Prophet ﷺ underlined that Muslims’ obedience to their Imaam or ruler is entailed by their obedience to Allah, Exalted is He, and to the Prophet ﷺ, and their disobedience to him involves disobedience to Allah, Exalted is He, and to the Prophet ﷺ. This general principle applies to all just Muslim rulers. The people of Quraysh and the neighboring Arab tribes did not accept rulers from outside their own people (i.e., other than the chiefs of their tribes). After the advent of Islam, whenever a ruler from a different tribe was appointed over them, they would develop an aversion towards him and some may have defiantly refused to obey him, and therefore, he ﷺ made this statement to edify them on the fact that their obedience to the appointed ruler was entailed by their obedience to the Prophet ﷺ, and to urge them to obey their rulers and governors whom he ﷺ appointed and refrain from defiantly disobeying them.
One of the purposes and benefits gained by appointing the Imaam warranting their obedience is that they serve as shields and a protection, safeguarding Muslims from the harm of their enemies and also from the harm that may be afflicted by some of them on the others. Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "The Imaam is like a shelter for whose safety Muslims should fight and where they should seek protection,” meaning that Muslims fight against the disbelievers, the unjust, and the makers of mischief in general under the leadership of their Imaam, who is a source of protection and strength for them, and to whom they turn for judgment and governance of their affairs. Whenever he commands them to be mindful of Allah, Exalted is He, and establishes justice among them, he earns rewards for fulfilling the rights of Allah over him. However, if his governance is not informed by the enjoined mindfulness of Allah and justice, and he likes and chooses to do so, being inclined to it, such a choice would incur his ruin as he bears the whole sin for it.The commanded person would not bear a sin for it if he were excusedby coercion or the like, otherwise he bears a share of the sin.
In conclusion, obedience to the Imaam is obligatory as long his commands are informed by and in accordance with the Islamic law, otherwise they are not required to obey him, yet they must not rebel against him, to foster the unity of Muslims. Dissension is a reason for the corruption of their religious and worldly affairs, and both the ruler and ruled are bound by what was mentioned at the beginning of the hadeeth, i.e., obedience to Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messenger ﷺ.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that Muslims are enjoined to obey their rulers, and that disobeying them is forbidden.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to patiently endure the unjust rulers and enjoins them to obey them and refrain from rebelling against them.
It is inferred from the hadeeth that Muslims must fight under the leadership of an Imaam or ruler..

2958
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) said:
When we reached (Al-Hudaybiyah) in the next year (of the Treaty of Al-Hudaybiyah), not even two men amongst us agreed unanimously as to which was the tree under which we had given the Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance), and that was out of Allah's Mercy. (The sub narrator asked Naafi‘, "For what did the Prophetﷺ take their pledge of allegiance, was it for death?" Naafi‘ replied "No, but he ﷺ took their Bay‘ah for patience.”
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Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) gave the Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) to the Prophet ﷺ in the year when Al-Hudaybiyah Treaty was concluded in 6 A.H., to hear and obey Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messenger ﷺ and not to flee from the battlefield. Quraysh denied the Muslims access to the Sacred House (to perform ‘Umrah), and the Prophet ﷺ concluded Al-Hudaybiyah Treaty with them, and one of its terms was that the Prophet ﷺ and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) must return to Al-Madeenah that year without performing ‘Umrah, on the condition that they may return to perform it the following year.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated that when the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) returned to Makkah in 7 A.H. to perform ‘Umrah the next year (after the treaty of Hudaybiyah), which was known as ‘Umrat Al-Qadaa’, they reached the place where they had given Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance). They disagreed on the exact location of the tree under which they had given the Bay‘ah. Not even two men amongst them agreed unanimously as to which was the tree under which they had given the Bay‘ah. Perhaps this was a manifestation of Allah's Mercy, lest it would have been a source of Fitnah for some people, being a blessed place that witnessed a significant event (i.e., the Bay‘ah) and the descent of the divine pleasure and tranquility on the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). Were the exact location of the tree to be identified and known to people, some ignorant people might have fallen into unprescribed reverence or worship of it. Therefore, the fact that its exact location remained hidden has been a source of mercy from Allah, Exalted is He.
Joowayrirah ibn Asmaa’ asked Naafi‘, the freed slave of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them), "For what did the Prophetﷺ take their pledge of allegiance, was it for death?" Naafi‘ replied that the Prophet ﷺ took their Bay‘ah for patience, and not for death in Allah’s Cause. It was narrated in other versions that the Prophet ﷺ took their Bay‘ah for death in Allah’s Cause, and for not fleeing from the battlefield in other versions. The term ‘patience’ incorporates all these meanings because giving the Bay‘ah for death in Allah’s Cause is the same as giving the Bay‘ah not to flee from the battlefield even if it meant their death, and this also entails patience, and therefore the term patience includes the rest of the meanings..

2959
‘Abdullaah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that in the time (of the Battle) of Al-Harrah a person came to him and said, "Ibn Handhalah is taking the Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) from people for death." He (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "I will never give a Bay‘ah for such a thing to anyone after Allah's Messenger ﷺ!”
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Commentary :
The Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) is a contract and covenant between the ruler and the ruled, and it is given that name by analogy with financial exchange; the Messenger of Allah ﷺ offers the promise of reward, and the Companion (may Allah be pleased with him) commits himself to obey him. The Sunnah highlighted that the Bay‘ah for death in war should not be given to anyone after the Prophet ﷺ, but rather the Bay‘ah for patience and steadfastness in fighting to the best of one’s ability. A war took place between the Caliph Yazeed and the people of Al-Madeenah who refused to give him the Bay‘ah. ‘Abdullaah bin Handhalah ibn Abee ‘Aamir and other people from Al-Madeenah went to Yazeed in the capital, Damascus, where they saw him unfit for the office, taking into account the killing of Al-Hussayn ibn ‘Alee in Karbala. They returned to Al-Madeenah, toppled Yazeed, ‘Abdullaah bin Handhalah claimed the Caliphate for himself, and the Ansaar gave him the Bay‘ah. They expelled ‘Uthmaan ibn Muhammed ibn AbeeSufyaan, the governor appointed by Yazeed, from Al-Madeenah. Thereupon, Yazeed sent a huge army from the people of Shaam led by Muslim ibn ‘Uqbah, who was known as Musrif ibn ‘Uqbah by the people of Hijaaz, in 63 A.H. A heinous war took place at (the lava field of) Al-Harrah (in the northeastern outskirts of Al-Madeenah) and resulted in an awful death toll. The army declared Al-Madeenah violable for three days, and theirviolent attack became known as the Battle of Al-Harrah, which is an Arabic word that literally means astony tract or lava field whose stones are black, and it refers to the Harrah (an open area with black stones) at the eastern outskirts of Al-Madeenah.
Before the battle began, ‘Abdullah ibn Handhalah wanted to take the Bay‘ah from people for death, and ‘Abdullah ibn Yazeed(may Allah be pleased with him) knew of it, and said, “I would not give the Bay‘ah for death to anyone after the Prophet ﷺ!” He (may Allah be pleased with him) was referring to the Bay‘ah given to the Prophet ﷺ during Al-Hudaybiyah Treaty, when the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) gave him the Bay‘ah for death.
The wisdom behind the Companion’s statement that he would not give the Bay‘ah for death to anyone after the Prophet ﷺ is that the due rights of the Prophet ﷺ over all Muslims entailed that each Muslim should defend him, even if it meant his own death, and it was forbidden for Muslims to flee from the battlefield even if it entailed sacrificing their own lives to protect the Prophet ﷺ, and this is not the case with anyone else after the Prophet ﷺ..

2960
Yazeed ibn Ubayd narrated:
Salamah said, "I gave the Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) of Al-Ridwaan to Allah's Messenger ﷺ and then I moved to the shade of a tree. When the number of people around the Prophetﷺdiminished, he said, 'O Ibn Al-Akwa‘! Will you not give to me the Bay‘ah?' I replied, 'O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I have already given to you the Bay‘ah.' He ﷺ said, ‘Give it again.' So, I gave the Bay‘ah for the second time." I asked 'O Aboo Muslim! For what did you give him the Bay‘ah on that day?" He replied, "We gave him the Bay‘ah for death."
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Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) gave the Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) to the Prophet ﷺ in the year of Al-Hudaybiyah treaty in 6 A.H. Allah, Exalted is He, praised the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) who gave the Bay‘ah and stated (in the Quran) that He was pleased with them, and the Prophet ﷺ testified to the fact that they shall enter Paradise.
In this hadeeth, Salamah ibn Al-Akwa‘ (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he gave the Bay‘ah of Al-Ridwaan beneath the tree in Al-Hudaybiyah to Allah's Messenger ﷺ and then moved to the shade of another tree. Bay‘ah (i.e., pledge of allegiance) is a contract and covenant between the ruler and the ruled, and it is given that name by analogy with the financial exchange; the Messenger of Allah ﷺ offers the promise of reward, and the Companion (may Allah be pleased with him) commits himself to obey him in return. When the number of people around the Prophet ﷺ diminished, he ﷺ said, “O Ibn Al-Akwa‘! Will you not give to me the Bay‘ah?”  He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, “O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I have already given to you the Bay‘ah.” He ﷺ said, “Give it again.” He (may Allah be pleased with him) gave the Bay‘ah for the second time, and the Prophet ﷺ wanted him to emphasize his Bay‘ah, given his knowledge of Salamah’s courage, striving in support of Islam, and steadfastness. Therefore, he ﷺ commanded him to give the Bay‘ah for the second time to be added to his virtues (and rewards).
The Taabi‘ee (Follower) Yazeed ibn ‘Ubayd asked Salamah ibn Al-Akwa‘ (may Allah be pleased with him), “O Aboo Muslim,” i.e., his nickname, “For what did you give him the Bay‘ah on that day?” He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "We gave him the Bay‘ah for death,” meaning that they pledged not to flee from the battlefield, even if it cost them their lives.
Other narrations have reported that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) pledged allegiance to the Prophet ﷺ for patience, not death, and other narrations stated that they pledged not to flee from the battlefield. The term ‘patience’ incorporates all these meanings, because giving the Bay‘ah for death in Allah’s Cause is the same as giving the Bay‘ah not to flee from the battlefield even if it meant death, and this also entails patience, and therefore the term patience includes the rest of the meanings.This pledge indicates that they would adhere to endurance and steadfastness on the battlefield and would not flee until they triumphed over their enemy or died trying.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to adhere to patience and steadfastness on the battlefield.
It also highlights the Companions’ great love for the Prophet ﷺ.
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2964
‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Today, a man came to me and asked me a question which I did not know how to answer! He said, "Tell me, if a wealthy active man, well-equipped with arms, goes out on military expeditions with our chiefs, and orders us to do such things as we cannot do (should we obey him?)" I replied, "By Allah, I do not know what to reply to you, except that we, were in the company of the Prophetﷺ and he used to order us to do a thing once only till we finished it. No doubt everyone among you will remain in a good state as long as he obeys Allah. If one is in doubt as to the permissibility of something, he should ask somebody who would satisfy him, but soon will come a time when you will not find such a man. By Him, except Whom none has the right to be worshipped. I see that the example of what has passed of this life (to what remains thereof) is like a pond whose fresh water has been used up and nothing remains but muddy water."
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Commentary :
People’s obedience to the Imaam or ruler, or their deputies, is one of the most important means to rectify and put their religious and worldly affairs in orderand is required for fostering the unity of the Muslim community. The Islamic law clearly identified the defining lines that that determine the limits of people’s obedience to the Imaam and ruler.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullaah ibn Mas‘ood(may Allah be pleased with him)narrated that someone asked him a question which he did not know how to answer. The man asked, "Tell me, if a wealthy active man, well-equipped with arms,” meaning that he is energetic and hastens to follow his pursuits and is well-equipped for war, “goes out on military expeditions with our chiefs,” meaning for Jihaad in Allah’s Cause, “and orders us to do such things as we cannot do,” meaning that this ruler or commander strictly imposed on them what they could not bear, “(should we obey him?)"
Ibn Mas’ood(may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "By Allah, I do not know what to reply to you.” It was said that the reason Ibn Mas’ood(may Allah be pleased with him) refrained from issuing his Fatwaa (i.e., scholarly opinion) at first was because if an Imaam (i.e., ruler) appoints a group of fighters to partake in Jihaad or perform any given task, such responsibilities entrusted to them became individual obligations required of them.So, if any of these appointed people sought the Fatwaa of a scholar that such anImaamcan strictly impose obligations beyond people’s capabilities based on his personal whims, the Fatwaa would seem objectionable. Also, advising the complainer to obey the Imaam as enjoined may be objected to by the fact that rulers may grow corrupt during corrupt times. On the other hand, if the complainer is advised that it is permissible to rebel against such anImaam and defiantly disobey him, this Fatwaa could lead to Fitnah (i.e., dissension). Therefore, the right thing to do in such a situation was to refrain from issuing a Fatwaa. However, it seems that Ibn Mas‘ood(may Allah be pleased with him) retreated from this stance and then advised the man that he was obliged to obey his Imaam provided that his commands conformed with the enjoined mindfulness of Allah, Exalted is He, as inferred from Ibn Mas’ood’s statement. He (may Allah be pleased with him) added: “By Allah, I do not know what to reply to you except that we were in the company of the Prophetﷺ and he used to order us to do a thing once only till we finished it. No doubt everyone among you will remain in a good state as long as he obeys Allah, Exalted is He.” This indicated the Companions’ swift response (and obedience) to the Prophet’s commands. Whenever he ﷺ commanded them to do anything and emphasized it, they hastened to comply with his command without the need for repeating it.
By doing so, Ibn Mas‘ood(may Allah be pleased with him) prudently issued his Fatwaa, advising this man that obedience to the Imaam was obligatory provided that his commands conformed with the enjoined mindfulness of Allah, Exalted is He. This entails that such an Imaam must not command them to avail themselves of any given legal concession in a situation where adherence to the original Islamic ruling is urged (as per the Islamic law) or the other way around. Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {Allah does not charge a soul except [with that within] its capacity.} [Quran 2:286].
Afterward, Ibn Mas‘ood(may Allah be pleased with him) clarified that a Muslim is safe as long as he adheres to the enjoined mindfulness of Allah, Exalted is He. He (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “If one is in doubt as to the permissibility of something, he should ask somebody who would satisfy him,” meaning to give him a satisfying answer supported by evident truth to eliminate his doubts, and this urges a Muslim to refrain from doing anything about which he harbors doubts before asking those endowed with knowledge. Afterward, Ibn Mas‘ood(may Allah be pleased with him) bemoaned the fact that people would be deprived of knowledge by the death of their scholars as times and the Muslims’ situation would change by the passage of time and the distance from the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ. At such times, people would not find someone to issue a Fatwaa in accordance with the truth, to relieve the hearts from doubts and misconceptions. Ibn Mas‘ood(may Allah be pleased with him) sadly added, “…but soon will come a time when you will not find such a man. By Him except Whom none has the right to be worshipped, I see that the example of what has passed of this life (to what remains thereof) is like a pond whose fresh water has been used up and nothing remains but muddywater.” In his statement, he (may Allah be pleased with him) likened the remaining period of the worldly life to a pond whose fresh water is used up and nothing remained but muddy water mixed with impurities and litter.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a scholar should not hasten to issue his Fatwaa regarding matters that seem objectionable to him.
It is also inferred that the army commanders should not overburden the Muslim fighters, lest it should imperil some of them to disobedience. Rather, they should conveniently make things easier for them to the best of their abilities, consult with them, and keep them posted on latest updates that inform the way of handlingtheir affairs.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that whenever a person doubts something, he must not pass his judgment on it based on such doubts. Rather, he is required to inquire and investigate the matter further and seek the light of guidance from the people of knowledge, if any, otherwise he is required to act upon the fundamentals of the Islamic law, and apply Qiyaas (i.e., legal analogy) and Ijtihaad (i.e., personal reasoning)..

2967
Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
I participated in a battle along with Allah's Messenger ﷺ. The Prophetﷺ met me (on the way) while I was riding a camel of ours used for irrigation and it had got so tired that it could hardly walk. The Prophetﷺ asked me, "What is wrong with the camel?" I replied, "It has got tired." So. Allah's Messenger ﷺ came from behind it and rebuked it and prayed for it so it started surpassing the other camels and going ahead of them. Then he ﷺ asked me, "How do you find your camel (now)?" I replied, "I find it quite well, now as it has received your blessings." He ﷺ said, "Will you sell it to me?" I felt shy (to refuse his offer) though it was the only camel for irrigation we had. So, I said, "Yes." He ﷺ said, "Sell it to me then." I sold it to him on the condition that I should keep on riding it till I reached Al-Madeenah. Then, I said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I am a bridegroom," and requested him to allow me to go home. He ﷺ allowed me, and I set out for Al-Madeenah before the people till I reached Al-Madeenah, where I met my uncle, who asked me about the camel and I informed him all about it and he blamed me for that. When I took the permission of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, he asked me whether I had married a virgin or a matron and I replied that I had married a matron. He ﷺ said, "Why had not you married a virgin who would have played with you, and you would have played with her?" I replied, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! My father died (or was martyred) and I have some young sisters, so I felt it not proper that I should marry a young girl like them who would neither teach them manners nor serve them. So, I have married a matron so that she may serve them and teach them manners." When Allah's Messenger ﷺ arrived in Al-Madeenah, I took the camel to him the next morning and he gave me its price and gave me the camel itself as well.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was keenly considerate of his Companions’ different conditions, at times of ease and hardship, and in happiness and sadness. He ﷺ would console the distressed, help those in need, rejoice at their happiness, and advise every person with what best suited his situation.
In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with them) related that he was with the Prophet ﷺ once on a journey back to Al-Madeenah – it was said that this incident took place during the conquest of Makkah - and he was riding a slow camel. The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Naadih, meaning a camel used to carry water for drinking or irrigation. The Prophet ﷺpassed by him while he was in this condition, his camel exhausted and almost unable to walk any farther. The Prophet ﷺ asked, "What is wrong with the camel?" He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied that he was late due to his slow camel. He ﷺ beat the slow camel with a stick or whip, urging it to move faster, and supplicated Allah, Exalted is He, to grant it strength and blessing. The camel surpassed the others thenceforth, leading the way (by the blessing of the Prophet ﷺ). He ﷺasked me, "How do you find your camel (now)?"  He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "I find it quite well, now as it has received your blessings."
He ﷺasked Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) to sell him this camel, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) felt shy and replied, "It is (a gift) for you, O Allah's Messenger ﷺ,” although it was his only camel. He (may Allah be pleased with him) agreed to sell it to the Prophet ﷺon the condition that he (may Allah be pleased with him) should keep on riding it till they reached Al-Madeenah.
Afterward, Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) informed the Prophet ﷺ that he was a bridegroom, and this highlights his merits, for he (may Allah be pleased with him) partook in Jihaad despite being a newlywed! He (may Allah be pleased with him) sought permission to go faster to his bride. When he (may Allah be pleased with him) reached Al-Madeenah, he met his maternal uncle, named Tha‘labah ibn Ghanamah, who asked about the camel and found out that he had sold it to the Prophet ﷺ. When he (may Allah be pleased with him) informed him all about it, he blamed him for that, because Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) had no other camel to carry water thereon. When he (may Allah be pleased with him) sought the Prophet’s permission to go ahead of them, he ﷺ asked him whether he (may Allah be pleased with him) had married a virgin or a previously married woman. He (may Allah be pleased with him) informed the Prophet ﷺ that he had married a matron, meaning a previously married woman, and her name was SuhaylahbintMu‘awwdh Al-Awsiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her). The Prophet ﷺ asked, "Why have you not married a virgin who would have played with you, and you would have played with her?" The Prophet ﷺ was asking him about the reason for choosing to marry a previously married woman rather than a virgin, who would most likely be more emotionally attached to her first husband, encouraging her to strive in making him happy and the like of good qualities that warrants the preference of marrying a virgin to a matron. Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) told him that his father was martyred in the Battle of Uhud, and left young sisters under his guardianship, and they needed someone to take care of them and tend to their needs. He (may Allah be pleased with him) believed that a virgin would not be able to shoulder such a task. He (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “I felt it not proper that I should marry a young girl like them who would neither teach them manners nor serve them.” Therefore, he (may Allah be pleased with him) decided to marry a matron, an experienced woman to look after and raise them properly.
When the Prophet ﷺ reached Al-Madeenah, Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) went to the mosque with the camel and he ﷺ gave him the price, the camel itself, and his share of the spoils of war like the others, as recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree. This reflects the Prophet’s gracious generosity with his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them).
The hadeeth highlights the Prophet’s gracious humbleness and kindness with his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), checking on them and serving their best interests.
It underlines the virtues of Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him), his compassion towards his sisters, and putting their best interests first before his own.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that a woman should take care of her husband’s family and tend to the needs of his siblings (dependents)..

2974
Tha‘labah ibn Abee Maalik Al-Quradhee narrated:
When Qays ibn Sa‘d Al-Ansaaree, who used to carry the flag of the Prophet ﷺ, intended to perform Hajj, he combed his hair.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was a great commander, and he used to divide the army into coherent groups and used to assign a flag or banner for each people or tribe to fight beneath, teaching Muslims the organization of worldly affairs related to war and politics, as he ﷺ taught us our religious matters and worshipful acts, such as prayer, Zakat, Hajj, and the like.
In this hadeeth, Tha‘labah ibn AbeeMaalik Al-Quradhee (scholars held different opinions as to whether or not he was a Companion) narrated that when Qays ibn Sa‘d Al-Ansaaree(may Allah be pleased with him), who used to carry the flag of the Prophet ﷺ assigned to the tribe of Khazraj from the Ansaar, intended to perform Hajj, he combed his hair. The flag here refers to the banner of the army’s division. It was said that the banner was the sign of the commander that followed him wherever he went on the battlefield. The Prophet ﷺ used to assign a flag or banner to the chief of each tribe. The banner of the emigrants was assigned to ‘Alee (may Allah be pleased with him) and the banner of the Ansaar was assigned to Sa‘d ibn ‘Ubaadah, and his son Qays(may Allah be pleased with them) held it after him. Whenever Qays(may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to perform Hajj, he (may Allah be pleased with him) cleaned and combed his hair, before assuming Ihraam (i.e., ritual state of consecration), to keep his hair kempt for the longest period of time.
The version compiled by Al-Bayhaqee in Al-Sunan Al-Kubraa and Al-Tabaraanee reads: “He (may Allah be pleased with him) combed his hair on one side of his head; a young boy stood and copied him. Qays(may Allah be pleased with him) noticed that his example had been followed; he assumed Ihraam without combing the rest of his hair,” to avoid unbecoming luxury, since unkemptness is preferred for a person in a state of Ihraam. His servant’s act (i.e., copying him) does not count as a deed on his part, yet the two scenarios are possible; he may have commanded his young servant to copy him or chosen to do so out of prudence and mindfulness of Allah, Exalted is He.
The hadeeth underlines the virtues of Qays ibn Sa‘d(may Allah be pleased with him).
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to comb one’s hair before assuming Ihraam.
It is inferred therefrom that it is allowable to use flags and banners in war..

2989
Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him):
Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "There is a (required) Sadaqah (i.e., charity) to be given for every joint of the human body (as a sign of gratitude to Allah) every day the sun rises. To judge justly between two persons is regarded as Sadaqah, and to help a man concerning his riding animal by helping him ride it or by lifting his luggage on to it, is also regarded as Sadaqah, and (saying) a good word is also Sadaqah, and every step taken on one's way to offer the obligatory prayer (in the mosque) is also Sadaqah and to remove a harmful thing from the way is also Sadaqah.”
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, decreed that all acts of goodness a person performs to fulfill his own rights over himself in terms of worship, and the rights of others in terms of acts of kindness, should be counted as Sadaqah (i.e., charity) as an expression of gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for health and wellbeing.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated that there is a (compulsory) Sadaqah to be given for every joint of the human body (as a sign of gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He) every day the sun rises, by performing acts of obedience and righteous deeds every day. This is done by using these joints in performing acts of obedience and worship. The bone structure of the human body is one of the greatest blessings bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He, upon His servant. Therefore, one should offer Sadaqah for each joint in his body to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for such a blessing. However, it is not incumbent to do so; it is adequate for a person to carry out the obligations and avoid the prohibitions.
Afterward, the Prophet ﷺ listed some acts of obedience that are counted as Sadaqah, which one may perform to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for the blessing of his joints. He ﷺ stated: “To judge justly between two persons is regarded as Sadaqah,” or reconcile between disputing people. Reconciliation is a good act, yet if he knew that one of them was rightfully entitled to the disputed item or right, he must establish justice. Another example of Sadaqah is to help a man concerning his riding animal, or any other means of transportation, by helping him ride it or by lifting his luggage on to it. The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Akheeh, lit., his brother, and it refers to one’s fellow Muslims in general, since all Muslims are brothers in faith. A Muslim is required to wish for his fellow Muslims what he wishes for himself, and exchange with them acts of kindness and charity. Another example listed in the hadeeth is good speech, in fulfillment of the rights of Allah, Exalted is He, such as Tasbeeh (i.e., saying 'SubhaanAllaah,’ Glory be to Allah), Takbeer (i.e., saying ‘Allaahu Akbar,’ Allah is the Greatest), and Tahleel (i.e., saying 'La ilaahaillaAllaah,’ none is worthy of worship but Allah), or in fulfillment of people’s rights such as embodying good morals in one’s interactions with people. Another example is every step taken on one's way to offer the compulsory prayer (in the mosque), regardless of the distance, and to remove harmful objects from the people’s way.
It was narrated on the authority of AbooDharr(may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet ﷺ said: “… and two Rak‘ahs which one prays in the forenoon will suffice.” [Muslim]. This means that performing the Duhaa prayer is sufficient asSadaqah for each joint, because the prayer is performed by the whole body and it incorporates all the listed acts of Sadaqah and more.
The hadeeth underlines the numerosity of the acts of goodness and obedience that count as Sadaqah devoted to Allah, Exalted is He.
It urges Muslims to perform acts of obedience regularly.
It also underlines the grace of Allah, Exalted is He, conferred upon His servants by guiding them to perform righteous deeds and then rewarding them for them. .

2990
 ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated:
Allah's Messenger ﷺ forbade people from traveling to a hostile country carrying (copies of) the Quran..

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ taught his nation to pursue good in all their affairs, and an example of this is urging Muslims to honor and preserve the Quran and protect it from any form of harm or whatever undermines its sanctity.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ forbade Muslims from traveling to a hostile country carrying written copies of the Quran. The wisdom behind the prohibition is the fear that enemies may disrespect it or violate its sanctity. In the version recorded by Muslim, the Prophet ﷺ said: “lest the enemy should seize it,” and violate its sanctity. .

2991
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophetﷺ reached Khaybar in the morning, while people were coming out carrying their spades over their shoulders. When they saw him, they said, "This is Muhammad and his army! Muhammad and his army!" So, they took refuge in the fort. The Prophetﷺraised both his hands and said, "Allahu Akbar, Khaybar is ruined, for when we approach a nation (i.e., enemy to fight) then miserable is the morning of the warned ones." Then we found some donkeys which we (killed and) cooked: The announcer of the Prophetﷺ announced: "Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messenger ﷺ forbid you to eat donkey's meat." So, all the pots including their contents were turned upside down.
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Commentary :
The conquest of Khaybar took place in 7 A.H. between Muslims and Jews. Khayber was a village inhabited by Jews and located (153 km) away from Al-Madeenah to the north on the route to Damascus. The Jews gathered therein, so the Prophet ﷺ wanted to secure Al-Madeenah from their evil.
In this hadeeth, Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophetﷺ reached Khaybar in the morning, while its people were coming out carrying their spades (and ploughs) over their shoulders, on the way to their farms. When they saw the Prophet ﷺ, they said, "This is Muhammad and his army! Muhammad and his army!" The Arabic word used in the hadeeth isKhamees, meaning army, which consists of five divisions:  front, rear, left, right, and center. So, they took refuge in the fort. The Prophetﷺraised both his hands and said, "Allahu Akbar, Khaybar is ruined, for when we approach a nation (i.e., enemy to fight) then miserable is the morning of the warned ones,” the Prophet ﷺ repeated it thrice, being upbeat and optimistic about conquering Khaybar, seeing the spades and ploughs. During this battle, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) seized some domestic donkeys, which were used by farmers for cultivation and as riding mounts. The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) slaughtered these donkeys and cooked their meat without the knowledge and permission of the Prophet ﷺ. When he ﷺ knew of it, the announcer of the Prophetﷺ announced: "Allah, Exalted is He, and His Messenger ﷺ forbid you from eating donkey's meat." Immediately, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) complied and refrained from eating such meat; all the pots including their contents were turned upside down, in compliance with the Prophet’s command.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is prohibited to eat the meat of domestic donkeys.
It is also inferred therefrom that it is allowable to recite Takbeer (i.e., saying ‘Allaahu Akbar,’ Allah is the Greatest) when Muslims are blessed with victory and conquest.
The hadeeth highlights the Companions’ immediate compliance with the Prophet’s commands and prohibitions..

2993
Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Whenever we went up a place we would say, "Allahu--Akbar (i.e., Allah is the Greatest)", and whenever we went down a place we would say, "Subhan Allah (i.e., Glory be to Allah).”
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Commentary :
It is becoming of a Muslim to mention Allah, Exalted is He, constantly and evoke the Greatness of his Lord in all his conditions and at all times. The Prophet ﷺ and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) did so. In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) stated that whenever they went upwards on their way, they would say, "Allahu Akbar (i.e., Allah is the Greatest)," and whenever they went downwards, they would say, "Subhaan Allah (i.e., Glory be to Allah).” This is because reciting Takbeer is suitable to ascending to an elevated place, to remind oneself that Allah, Exalted is He, is the Most Hight and Greatest, and to evoke His Kibriyaa’ (Pride/Grandeur), and Tasbeehis suitable for descending to a lower place, to remind oneself of the fact that Allah, Exalted is He, is Free of all aspects of imperfection, because He is the Most High and the Greatest and also because Tasbeeh means deeming Allah, Exalted is He, above all aspects of imperfection and attributes of lowliness. It was also said that reciting Tasbeeh when passing through valleys and lower places is inferred from the story of Prophet Yunus (Jonah). Allah, Exalted is He, Says (what means): {And had he not been of those who exalt Allah. * He would have remained inside its belly until the Day they are resurrected.} [Quran 37:143-144]. Allah, Exalted is He, rescued him as a reward for reciting Tasbeeh inside the whale’s belly. The Prophet ﷺ followed his example and recited Tasbeeh while passing through the valleys, imploring Allah, Exalted is He, to rescue (and safeguard) him (from any potential harm). .

2996
IbraaheemAbooIsma‘eel Al-Saksakee narrated:
I heard AbooBurdah who accompanied Yazeed ibn AbeeKabshah on a journey. Yazeed used to observe fasting on journeys. AbooBurdah said to him, "I heard AbooMoosaa several times saying that Allah's Messenger ﷺ had said, 'When a servant of Allah falls ill or travels, he will get reward similar to that he gets for good deeds practiced at home when in good health."
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, favors His pious servants with more rewards for their good deeds in different circumstances, at times of good health and sickness, and in free time and at times of preoccupation.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi‘ee (Follower) IbraaheemAbooIsma‘eel Al-Saksakee narrated that AbooBurdah ibn AbooMoosaa Al-Ash‘aree and Yazeed ibn AbeeKabshah, who were Taabi‘een (Followers) as well, went on a journey with him. Yazeed used to observe fasting on journeys. AbooBurdah said to him, "I heard AbooMoosaa Al-Ash‘aree(may Allah be pleased with him) several times saying that Allah's Messenger ﷺ had said, 'When a servant of Allah falls ill or travels, he will get reward similar to what he gets for good deeds practiced at home when in good health.’” This means that whoever used to perform any given worshipful act or good deed, such as voluntary prayer, fasting, and the like, regularly and then happened to travel or fall sick and this prevented him from these deeds, Allah, Exalted is He, shall grant him rewards equal to them.
It was said that this also applies to the obligatory worshipful acts as well; when a Muslim is unable to perform some or all of them due to sickness, Allah, Exalted is He, shall grant him equal rewards for such worshipful acts. When a sick person performs the obligatory prayer while sitting down because he is unable to pray while standing, he earns equal rewards to the one who performs the prayer in a standing position.
The hadeeth highlights the great grace bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He, on His servants.
It also underlines the virtues of performing voluntary (and obligatory) worshipful acts and good deeds while being in good health and in his residence (not travelling) to earn equal rewards whenever he travels or falls sick (and becomes unable to perform them)..

2998
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated on the authority of the Prophetﷺ the following Hadeeth (No. 242). The Prophetﷺ said, "If people (only) knew what I know about traveling alone, then nobody would travel alone at night."
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Commentary :
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ warns against travelling and walking alone at night. He ﷺ stated that if people knew what he ﷺ knew about the risks and harms that may befall a person when traveling or riding his mount alone at night, nobody would travel alone at night. This statement aims to discourage Muslims from traveling or walking alone at night.It imperils a person to the danger of being robbed, and were he to die during such a time, there would be no one to wash and shroud his dead body and perform the funeral prayer over him. It is also possible that the Prophet ﷺ said so out of his fear and compassion for the one traveling or walking alone at night lest he should be harmed by the devils, for they come out at night and may harm people by taking human form, scaring them, or targeting them with their whisperings. .

3004
Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated on the authority of the Prophetﷺ the following Hadeeth (No. 242). The Prophetﷺ said, "If people (only) knew what I know about traveling alone, then nobody would travel alone at night."
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Commentary :
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ warns against travelling and walking alone at night. He ﷺ stated that if people knew what he ﷺ knew about the risks and harms that may befall a person when traveling or riding his mount alone at night, nobody would have travelled alone at night. This statement aims to discourage Muslims from traveling or walking alone at night.It imperils a person to the danger of being robbed, and were he to die during such time, there would be no one to wash and shroud his dead body and perform the funeral prayer over him. It is also possible that the Prophet ﷺ said so out of his fear and compassion for the one traveling or walking alone at night, lest he should be harmed by the devils, for they come out at night and may harm people by taking human form, scaring them, or targeting them with their whisperings. .

3005
Aboo Basheer Al-Ansaaree(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he was in the company of Allah's Messenger ﷺon some of his journeys. (The sub-narrator ‘Abdullaah adds, "I think that Aboo Basheer (may Allah be pleased with him) also said, 'And the people were at their sleeping places.") Allah's Messenger ﷺ sent a messenger ordering: "There shall not remain any necklace of string or any other kind of necklace round the necks of camels except it is cut off."
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was compassionate and kind towards people; he ﷺ commanded them to do whatever would benefit them with regard to their religious and worldly affairs and corrected their erroneous actions to which they were accustomed and which would undermine their beliefs or worldly benefits.
In this hadeeth, AbooBasheer Al-Ansaaree(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he was in the company of Allah's Messenger ﷺon one of his journeys. People were at their sleeping places and tents. Allah's Messenger ﷺ sent a messenger, i.e., his freed slave Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him), commanding them that there shall not remain any necklace of string or any other kind of necklace round the necks of camels except it is cut off.
These necklaces referred to the bells, horseshoes, and the like, and strings were similar toa bow’s strings, which were attached to the camels’ necks (used as amulets) to ward off envy and the evil eye. They were commanded to cut off these necklaces and strings, because they can neither avert nor hinder the decrees of Allah, Exalted is He. It was also said that he ﷺ forbade attaching such strings to the animals’ necks, because they are harmed by them; they may get attached to trees or the like and cause the poor animal to suffocate and die, and they may also suffocate the animal when running extremely fast; or because they attached bells to them. AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him)narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said: “The angels do not go along with a travelling company in which there is a dog or a bell.” [Muslim].
The hadeeth urges Muslims to perfect their belief in Tawheed (i.e., unique Oneness of Allah, Exalted is He) and eliminate all traces of Shirk (i.e., associating partners with Allah) and all means leading to it..

1441
Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442
Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443
‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451
’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452
‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454
Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460
‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462
Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463
‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467
Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..