Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The people of the tribes of the tribe of Ra‘l, Dhakwaan, Banee ‘Usayyah, and BaneeLihyaancame to the Prophetﷺand claimed that they had embraced Islam, and they requested him to support them with some men to fight their own people. The Prophetﷺsupported them with seventy men from the Ansaar whom we used to call Al-Qurraa'(i.e., Reciters and scholars of the Quran) who (out of piety) used to cut wood during the day and pray all the night. So, those people took the (seventy) men till they reached a place called Bi’rMa‘oonah where they betrayed and martyred them. So, the Prophetﷺinvoked evil on the tribe of tribe of Ra‘l, Dhakwaan, and BaneeLihyaanfor one month in the prayer.
Qataadah narrated: Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) told us that they (i.e., Muslims) used to recite a an ayah concerning those martyrs which read: "O Allah! Let our people be informed on our behalf that we have met our Lord Who has got pleased with us and made us pleased,” but the ayah was abrogated later on. .

Commentary :
Supplication is the resort of the servants of Allah, to seek refuge with their Lord. Allah, Exalted is He, prescribed Qunoot (i.e., supplication recited in prayers) whenever calamities and adversities should befall Muslims, because supplication strengthens the heart, boosts faith, and relieves distress.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that people from the tribes of ofRa‘l, Dhakwaan, Banee ‘Usayyah, and BaneeLihyaancame to the Prophetﷺand claimed that they had embraced Islam and requested him to support them with some men to invite their people and teach them Islam. The Prophet ﷺsent seventy men from the Ansaar, led Al-Munthir ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him), and it was also said that they were led by Mathrad ibn AbeeMathrad(may Allah be pleased with him). These seventy Muslims were known as the ‘Reciters of the Quran,’ because they devoted their lives to the Quran and its recitation. They used to cut wood during the day to buy food for the People of Suffah (i.e., the poor homeless Muslims who were sheltered in a place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque) and pray all night long.
They took the (seventy) men till they reached a place called Bi’rMa‘oonah, i.e., a place in the land of Hudhayl between Makkah and ‘Usfaan, where they betrayed and killed them. This took place in Safar, 4 A.H. The Prophetﷺ observed Qunoot for a month,invoking evil on the tribes of Ra‘l, Dhakwaan, BaneeLihyaan, and Banee ‘Usayyahin the prayers. He ﷺ supplicated Allah, Exalted is He, against all these tribes because the news about the betrayal of the Muslims in the incidents of Bi’rMa‘oonah and Al-Rajee‘ reached him on the same night. It is also possible that the incident of Bi’rMa‘oonah marked the beginning of the Prophet’s Qunoot, and afterward he ﷺ observed Qunoot supplication due to following incidents.

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him)said that they (i.e., Muslims) used to recite an ayah concerning those martyrs which reads: "O Allah! Let our people be informed on our behalf that we have met our Lord Who was pleased with us and made us pleased,” but the ayah was abrogated later on.

It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is prescribed to supplicate Allah, Exalted is He, against the unjust people and those who betray and harm Muslims, proclaiming their names and openly supplicating against them.

The hadeeth also highlights the Companions’ keenness to seek martyrdom and their joy upon attaining it.

It is also inferred that the people of the truth may be harmed by the people of falsehood, and this does not indicate that the people of the truth are not right but is rather an indication of their honor and that the people of falsehood would be ruined and destroyed.
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3067

Naafi‘ narrated:
A horse of Ibn ‘Umar fled and the enemy took it. Then, Muslims conquered the enemy and the horse was returned to him during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger ﷺ. And also, once a slave of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) fled and joined the Byzantines, and when the Muslims conquered them, Khaalid ibn Al-Waleed returned the slave to him after the death of the Prophet ﷺ..

Commentary :
Islam upholds people’s rights in all situations and contexts; it has laid down the Islamic rules and provisions regulating the affairs of war, and what Muslims get from the spoils of war and prisoners of war, and the deduction of the due rights from the spoils of war before their division.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated that Ibn ‘Umar’s horse fled and the enemy seized it. Afterward, the Muslims conquered the enemy and the horse was returned to him during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, because it was his property. The version of the hadeeth recorded by Aboo Daawood reads: “The Prophet ﷺ returned it to Ibn ‘Umar and did not divide it along with the other spoils of war.” Similarly, once a slave owned by Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) fled and joined the Byzantines, and when the Muslims conquered their land and triumphed over them, Khaalid ibn Al-Waleed (may Allah be pleased with him) returned the slave to him after the death of the Prophet ﷺ. This took place at the Battle of Al-Yarmook during the reign of Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him), as reported in the version compiled by ‘Abd Al-Razzaaq. The battle took place in 14 A.H. between the Muslims and the Byzantines.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that when the enemy seizes the property of a Muslim person during war, and then the Muslims retrieve it as part of the spoils of war, this Muslim person is more entitled to his property, and it must not be divided up along with the other spoils of war. It was also said that if the owner was present before the division of the spoils of war, he is entitled to take it back, otherwise he is only entitled to its monetary value..

3073

Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophetﷺ got up amongst us and mentioned Ghulool(i.e., stealthily take something from the spoils of war before they are divided among the soldiers, without the commander’s knowledge), emphasized its gravity and declared that it was a great sin saying, "Do not commit Ghulool, for I should not like to see anyone amongst you on the Day of Resurrection, carrying over his neck a sheep that will be bleating, or carrying over his neck a horse that will be neighing. Such a man will be saying: 'O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Intercede with Allah for me,' and I will reply, 'I cannot help you, for I have conveyed Allah's Message to you nor should I like to see a man carrying over his neck, a camel that will be grunting. Such a man will say, 'O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Intercede with Allah for me, and I will say, 'I cannot help you for I have conveyed Allah's Message to you,' or one carrying over his neck gold and silver and saying, 'O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Intercede with Allah for me,' and I will say, 'I cannot help you for I have conveyed Allah's Message to you,' or one carrying clothes that will be fluttering, and the man will say, 'O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Intercede with Allah for me.' And I will say, 'I cannot help you, for I have conveyed Allah's Message to you."
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Commentary :
The Islamic law sternly warns against Ghulool (i.e., stealthily taking something from the spoils of war before they are divided among the soldiers, without the commander’s knowledge), which involves treason and theft from the spoils of war before they are divided, and clarifies the punishment designated for it which will be executed on the Day of Judgment before all people.
In this hadeeth, AbooHurayrah(may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺ delivered a speech once and warned against Ghulool and the gravity of this sin, emphasizing the prohibition in this regard. He ﷺ stated that none is entitled to take anything from the spoils of war before their division, and whoever commits Ghulool will carry over his neck what he had stealthily taken from the spoils of war before the division. He ﷺ stated that such a man would be carrying over his neck a sheep that would be bleating, a horse that would be neighing, a camelthat would be grunting, gold and silver, or clothes that would be fluttering, on the Day of Resurrection.
All these people would call upon the Prophet ﷺ saying, “O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Intercede with Allah for me.” To their shock, he ﷺ will say, “I cannot help you,“ meaning that he ﷺ cannot help them have their sins forgiven nor intercede for them, because the intercession requires the permission of Allah, Exalted is He. Afterward, he ﷺwill say, ”I have conveyed Allah's Message to you,“ meaning that he ﷺ had duly delivered the message and warned against the gravity and punishment of that sin, but they still committed it and deserved His punishment. The wisdom behind the fact that such people will carry the stealthily stolen items over their necks is to expose them before all people on the Day of Judgment. Some scholars underlined that this hadeeth explains the ayah that reads (what means): {It is not [attributable] to any prophet that he would act unfaithfully [in regard to war booty]. And whoever betrays, [taking unlawfully], will come with what he took on the Day of Resurrection.} [Quran 3:161]. The Arabic word Ghulool used in the ayah denotes carrying something over one’s neck (on the Day of Judgment).
It is deduced from the hadeeth that punishments may be of the same nature as the sins committed; Allah, Exalted is He, may punish sinners with a punishment of the same nature of the sin they have committed.
The hadeeth underlines different forms of Ghulool and edifies Muslims on them..

3074

‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with them) narrated:
There was a man who looked after the family and the belongings of the Prophetﷺ and he was calledKirkirah. The man died and Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "He is in Hellfire." People ﷺ then went to look at him and found in his place, a cloak he had stolen from the spoils of war.
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Commentary :
The Islamic law sternly warns against Ghulool (i.e., stealthily take something from the spoils of war before they are divided among the soldiers, without the commander’s knowledge), which involves treason and theft from the spoils of war before their division, and clarifies the punishment designated for it which will be executed on the Day of Judgment before all people.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that there was a man who looked after the family and the belongings of the Prophetﷺ, meaning the luggage during travels, and his name was Kirkirah. After this man died, Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, "He is in Hellfire." This was one of the incidents when Allah, Exalted is He, imparted knowledge of the unseen (which is exclusive to Him) to the Prophet ﷺ. People were astonished and went to investigate the matter and look at him and found in his place a cloak he had stolen from the spoils of war before they were divided. This indicates that Ghuloolis forbidden regardless of the value of what is being stealthily taken from the spoils of war before their division, and that the thief bears the sin in all cases..

3075

Raafi‘ (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
"We were in the company of the Prophetﷺ at Dhul-Hulayfah, and people suffered from hunger. We got some camels and sheep (as spoils of war) and the Prophetﷺ was still behind the people. They hurried and put the cooking pots on the fire. (When he ﷺ came) he ordered that the cooking pots should be upset and then he ﷺ distributed the spoils of war (amongst Muslims) regarding ten sheep as equal to one camel then a camel fled and the people chased it till they got tired, as they had a few horses (for chasing it). So, a man threw an arrow at it and caused it to stop (with Allah's Permission). On that, the Prophetﷺsaid, 'Some of these animals behave like wild beasts, so, if any animal flees from you, deal with it in the same way." He (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the Prophetﷺ, “We hope (or are afraid) that we may meet the enemy tomorrow and we have no knives. Can we slaughter our animals with canes?" Allah's Messenger ﷺreplied, "If the instrument used for killing causes the animal to bleed profusely and if Allah's Name is mentioned on killing it, then eat its meat (i.e., it is lawful) but will not use a tooth or a nail and I am telling you the reason: A tooth is a bone (and slaughtering with a bone is forbidden), and a nail is the slaughtering instrument of the Ethiopians.”
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Commentary :
The spoils of warare the gains taken by the warriors from the enemy's property and goods after attaining victory over them. The Prophet ﷺ clarified the Islamic rules and provisions regarding the spoils of war and made it clear that nothing may be taken from the spoils of war before they are duly divided (among the rightful recipients).
In this hadeeth, Raafi‘ ibn Khadeej(may Allah be pleased with him) stated that they were in the company of the Prophet ﷺ at Dhul-Hulayfah, a land in Tihaamah between Al-Taa’if and Makkah, and not the one near Al-Madeenah. It was said that it was a village about fourteen kilometers from the Prophet’s Mosque, and it is the Miqaat (i.e., appointed place for assuming Ihraam in Hajj and 'Umrah) for the people of Al-Madeenah. People suffered from hunger there and had seized some camels and sheep (as spoils of war) from the disbelievers, and the Prophet ﷺ was still behind with the people to provide the needed help for the weak who needed a ride and urge those who were moving slowly. People hurried and put the cooking pots on the fire to cook the meat of these camels and sheep without seeking the permission of the Prophet ﷺ. When he ﷺ came, he ﷺ ordered that the cooking pots should be turned upside down, as a punishment for them, because the spoils of war had not been divided yet. However, the meat in these pots was not destroyed, but was rather collectedand given back to the rightful recipients of the spoils of war. It is inconceivable that the Prophet ﷺ should command them to dispose of it, for he ﷺ forbade wasting property, and this meat was the property of the rightful recipients of the spoils of war. Moreover, the mistake was committed by some of the rightful recipients of the spoils of war and not all of them; some of them did not partake in the cooking, and others were entitled to one-fifth of the spoils of war. Afterwards, the Prophet ﷺ distributed the spoils of war (amongst the Muslims); ten sheep as equal to one camel. Meanwhile, a camel fled and people chased it till they got tired, and were not able to catch it, as they had few horses (for chasing it) and given their exhaustion. So, a man shot an arrow at its leg and caused it to stop (with Allah's Permission). On that, the Prophet ﷺ said, 'Some of these animals behave like wild beasts, so, if any animal flees from you, deal with it in the same way," meaning shoot an arrow at it to slow it down or stop it from moving, and thus you would be able to catch it.
Then, Raafi‘ (may Allah be pleased with him) said to the Prophet ﷺ, “We hope (or are afraid) that we may meet the enemy tomorrow and we have no knives. Can we slaughter our animals with canes?" The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Madaa, which refers to sharp canes used as knives. They feared to use their own swords and blades to slaughter animals lest they should become blunt for the battlefield. The Prophet ﷺ replied, "If the instrument used for killing causes the animal to bleed profusely and if Allah's Name is mentioned on killing it, then eat its meat (i.e., it is lawful) but do not use a tooth or a nail,” meaning that the meat is lawful whenever any tool is used to slaughter the animal causing it to bleed profusely and the name of Allah is mentioned during the slaughter, except when the animal is slaughtered using a tooth or nail, being the slaughtering instruments used by the Ethiopians, who were disbelievers; Muslims are enjoined to avoid resembling the disbelievers. They would stick their nails in the animal’s throat and suffocate it, so it would be strangled, not slaughtered.
The hadeeth highlights the Prophet’s humbleness, as he ﷺ marched behind the army, taking care of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) and their needs, checking on them, and taking their advice.
The hadeeth also underlines the Companions’ swift compliance with the Prophet’s commands.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that it is impermissible for Muslims to take anything from the spoils of war before their division.
It also highlights that Islam promotes facilitation regarding slaughtering instruments.
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3077

Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophetﷺ said, on the day of the Conquest of Makkah, "There is no migration (after the Conquest of Makkah), but Jihaad and good intentions, and whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call.”
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Commentary :
In the early days of Islam, the migration to Al-Madeenahwas deemed obligatory on every Muslim, to fight alongside the Prophet ﷺ to raise high the word of Allah (i.e., His religion). After the conquest of Makkah in 8 A.H., the stubborn disbelievers of Quraysh were destroyed (and disarmed), people converted to Islam in large numbers, and Allah, Exalted is He, made Muslims triumphant over their enemies.The migration to Al-Madeenahceased to be obligatory. On the day when Makkah was conquered, the Prophet ﷺ said: "There is no migration (after the Conquest of Makkah), but Jihaad and good intentions, and whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call.” The obligation that remained binding on Muslims was Jihaad whenever they should be called to defend their lands against enemies’ attacks or to conquer new lands. The migration was deemed obligatory for two reasons: 1) to support the Prophet ﷺ when the number of Muslims was small, and it was incumbent on all Muslims to hasten to his support against his enemies, and 2) to acquire knowledge and understand their religion. The most serious threat for Muslims was the disbelievers of Makkah. When the Muslims conquered Makkah and Islam became widespread, Muslims were taught that they were no longer obliged to migrate to Al-Madeenah, yet they were still required to hold the intention of partaking in Jihaad (whenever they were called for it). This is why the Prophet ﷺ said: “… whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call,” meaning that Muslims should be ready and well-prepared to respond to calls for Jihaad at any given time.
The hadeeth includes the glad tidings that Makkah shall remain a Muslim land for ever. This is because he ﷺ stated that migration from Makkah was no longer obligatory, and this indicated that it would never become a non-Muslim land in the future; migration is only required from non-Muslim lands..

3080

‘Ataa’ narrated:
I and ‘Ubaydullaah ibn ‘Umayrwent to ‘Aa’ishah while she was staying near Thabeer (i.e., a mountain). She (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "There is no migration after Allah, Exalted is He, gave His Prophet ﷺ victory and conquest of Makkah.”
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Commentary :
The migration to Al-Madeenahwas deemed obligatory on the Prophet ﷺ and Muslims in the early days of Islam, to escape religious persecution in the disbelievers’ lands and to support the Prophet ﷺ. The best of the believers were those who migrated to Al-Madeenah. Theywere given the title ‘emigrants,’ and Allah, Exalted is He, singled them out for praise.
In this report, the Taabi‘ee (Follower) ‘Ataa’ ibn AbeeRabaah narrated that heand ‘Ubaydullaah ibn ‘Umayr, the Judge of Makkah, went to the Mother of the Believers, ‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) while she was staying near Thabeer, i.e., a huge mountain in Al-Muzdalifah to the left on the way to Minaa. She (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "There is no migration after Allah, Exalted is He, gave His Prophet ﷺ victory and the conquest of Makkah.” This is because the believers escaped religious persecution in their lands and fled to the Prophet ﷺ in Al-Madeenah, lest they should be proselytized and forced out of their religion. However, Islam became triumphant after the conquest of Makkah,so this ceased to be the case. It was narrated on the authority of ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) that the Prophet ﷺ said: “There is no migration (after the Conquest of Makkah), but Jihaad and good intentions, and whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call.” [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim]. This means that Muslims were no longer required to migrate, yet they were enjoined to be ready to respond whenever they should be called for Jihaad, to fight against the enemy.
The hadeeth highlights the keenness of the Taabi‘oonfor learning and acquiring knowledge from the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) of the Prophet ﷺ..

3082

Ibn AbeeMulaykah narrated that Ibn Al-Zubayr said to Ibn Ja‘far(may Allah be pleased with them), "Do you remember when I, you and Ibn ‘Abbaas went out to receive Allah's Messengerﷺ?”Ibn Ja‘far(may Allah be pleased with him) replied in the affirmative. Ibn Al-Zubayr(may Allah be pleased with him) added, "And Allah's Messenger ﷺmade us (i.e., I and Ibn ‘Abbaas) ride along with him and left you."
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Commentary :
Receiving travelers and those coming from Jihaad and Hajj and giving them a warm welcome is an act of righteousness, and it shows the joy and the mutual love between the travelers and their friends and families.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi‘ee (Follower) ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Ubaydullaah ibn AbeeMulaykah narrated that Ibn Al-Zubayr said to ‘Abdullaah ibn Ja‘far(may Allah be pleased with them), "Do you remember when me, you and Ibn ‘Abbaas went out to receive Allah's Messengerﷺ?”‘Abdullaah ibn Ja‘far(may Allah be pleased with him) replied in the affirmative. Ibn Ja’far(may Allah be pleased with him) added, "And Allah's Messenger ﷺmade us (i.e., Ibn ‘Abbaas and me) ride along with him and left you." He (may Allah be pleased with him) meant that the Prophet ﷺ gave him and ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) a ride and not ‘Abdullah ibn Al-Zubayr(may Allah be pleased with him)on that occasion.
The hadeeth highlights the Prophet’s humbleness.
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3083

As-Saa’ib ibn Yazeed(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
I along with some boys went out to receive Allah's Messenger ﷺ at Thaniyat Al-Wadaa‘.
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Commentary :
Receiving travelers and those coming from Jihaad and Hajj, and giving them a warm welcome,are acts of righteousness, which show the joy and mutual love between the travelers and their friends and families.
In this hadeeth, As-Saa’ib ibn Yazeed(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he and some other boys went out to receive Allah's Messenger ﷺ at Thaniyat Al-Wadaa‘ when he ﷺ was coming back to Al-Madeenah after the Battle of Tabook in 9 A.H. The Arabic word Thaniyah means a mountainous pathway, and Thaniyat Al-Wadaa‘ refers to the mountainous pathway on the way from Al-Madeenah to Tabook.It was given this name because people, young and old, used to bid farewell to their travelers who set out on their journeys for Jihaad or Hajj purposes, and it became the regular place for bidding farewell to the travelers.
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3086

Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he and AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with them) came in the company of the Prophetﷺ and Safiyyah(may Allah be pleased with her) was accompanying the Prophet ﷺ and he let her ride behind him on his she-camel. During the journey, the she-camel slipped and both the Prophetﷺand (his) wife fell down. AbooTalhah (the sub-narrator thinks that Anas said that AbooTalhah jumped from his camel quickly) said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ!May Allah sacrifice me for your sake! Did you get hurt?" The Prophetﷺ replied, "No, but take care of the lady." AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with him) covered his face with his garment and proceeded towards her and covered her with his garment, and she (may Allah be pleased with her) got up. He (may Allah be pleased with him) then set right the condition of their she-camel and both of them(i.e., the Prophet ﷺ and his wife)rode and proceeded till they approached Al-Madeenah. The Prophetﷺsaid, "We are returning with repentance and worshipping and praising our Lord." The Prophetﷺ kept on saying this statement till he ﷺ entered Al-Madeenah.
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Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) dearly loved the Prophet ﷺ more than themselves and were eager to please him and preserve his sanctity and were even willing to sacrifice their own lives to spare him any harm, when needed.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he and AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with them) came in the company of the Prophet ﷺ after the Battle of Khaybar, as reported in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim, and his wife SafiyyahbintHuyay ibn Akhtab(may Allah be pleased with her) was accompanying him, for he ﷺ had married her during that journey. He ﷺ let her ride behind him on his she-camel. During the journey, the she-camel slipped and both the Prophet ﷺ and his wife fell down. AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with him) jumped from his camel quickly, and said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! May Allah sacrifice me for your sake! Did you get hurt?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "No, but take care of the lady," meaning Safiya (may Allah be pleased with her); help her. AbooTalhah(may Allah be pleased with him) covered his face with his garment, to respect her privacy, and proceeded towards her. He (may Allah be pleased with him)covered her with his garment, and she (may Allah be pleased with her) got up. He (may Allah be pleased with him) then set right the condition of their she-camel, and the Prophet ﷺ and his wife (may Allah be pleased with her) rode and proceeded till they approached Al-Madeenah. The Prophet ﷺ said, "We are returning with repentance and worshipping and praising our Lord." The supplication means, ‘We return to Allah, Exalted is He, repenting of all which is unprescribed as per the Islamic law and renewing our commitment to all which is prescribed, devoting our worship, including our praise and expression of gratitude, exclusively to Allah, Exalted is He.’ He ﷺ kept on repeating this supplication till he ﷺ entered Al-Madeenah.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable for a woman to ride behind a man on his riding animal, and that her privacy must be respected.
It is also inferred therefrom that a Muslim man should cover the (‘Awrah of the) women whom he is not allowed to see as per the Islamic law and cover his face to avoid accidentally looking at them.
The hadeeth also encourages travelers to praise Allah, Exalted is He, thank Him for returning safely to his family, and ask Him for steadfastness in repentance and worship..

3088

Ka‘b(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Whenever the Prophetﷺreturned from a journey in the forenoon, he ﷺ would enter the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs before sitting.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ was an excellentmentor and educator; he ﷺ taught us the Islamic etiquette of travelling and returning back, what a traveler should do when he returns back to his family, and the activity that should be done first.
In this hadeeth, Ka‘b ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that whenever the Prophetﷺreturned from a journey, for Jihaad or Hajj purposes, or otherwise, in the forenoon, he ﷺ would enter the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs before sitting down. Another version of the hadeeth recorded in Saheeh Muslim reads: “The Prophet ﷺ always came back from a journey at daytime in the forenoon.” Upon arriving back to Al-Madeenah, he ﷺ would go first to the mosque to perform two Rak’ahs, to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for his safe return, before he ﷺ would sit down with people,so they could greet him and welcome him back..

3089

Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) said, "When Allah's Messenger ﷺarrived at Al-Madeenah, he ﷺ slaughtered a camel or a cow." Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) added, "The Prophetﷺbought a camel from me for two Awaaq (pl. Ooqiyyah, i.e., a weight measurement that varies based on the weighable goods as well as countries) (of gold) and one or two Dirhams. When he ﷺ reached Siraar, he ﷺ ordered that a cow be slaughtered and they ate its meat. When he ﷺ arrived at Al-Madeenah, he ordered me to go to the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs and weighed (and gave) me the price of the camel."
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Commentary :
Returning back to one’s home safely after travel is a blessing that should entail expressing gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for blessing the traveler with a safe trip and return back to his home.
In this hadeeth, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah(may Allah be pleased with him) stated that when the Prophet ﷺ arrived at Al-Madeenah, he ﷺ slaughtered a camel or a cow, to express gratitude to Allah, Exalted is He, for returning safely to Al-Madeenah. Giving out food is one of the best and most rewardable good deeds that draws a person closer to Allah, Exalted is He.
In another version of the hadeeth, Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺ bought a camel from him for two Awaaq (pl. Ooqiyyah, i.e., a weight measurement that varies based on the weighable goods as well as countries) of gold and one or two Dirhams. When he ﷺ reached Siraar, a place located three miles to the east of Al-Madeenah, he ﷺ ordered that a cow be slaughtered, and they ate its meat. The banquet thrown by a person after returning safely from a journeyis called ‘Al-Naqee‘ah,’ derived from the Arabic word Naqa‘ denoting the dust, because when a traveler returns home, he needs to wash off the dust of travel and have a satisfying meal to replenish his energy.
When he ﷺ arrived at Al-Madeenah, he ﷺ ordered Jaabir(may Allah be pleased with him) to go to the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs and weighed (and gave) him the price of the camel that he ﷺ had bought from him during their journey. Another version of the hadeeth recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim reads: “When he ﷺ arrived in Al-Madeenah, I went to him to give him the camel; he ﷺ gave me the price of the camel, the camel itself (as a gift), and my share of the spoils of war like the others.”
The hadeeth encourages the Imaam (i.e., ruler) and chief of the people to throw a banquet for his companions upon returning from travels.
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3094

Maalik ibn Aws ibn Al-Hadthaan narrated:
While I was at home, the sun rose high and it got hot. Suddenly the messenger of ‘Umar ibn Al- Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) came to me and said, "The Commander of the Believers has sent for you." So, I went along with him till I entered the place where ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was sitting on a bedstead that is made of date-palm leaves and covered with no mattress, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) was leaning over a leather pillow. I greeted him and sat down. He (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "O Maali! Some persons of your people who have families came to me and I have ordered that a gift should be given to them, so take it and distribute it among them." I said, "O Commander of the Believers! I wish that you order someone else to do it." He (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "O man! Take it." While I was sitting there with him, his doormanYarfa’ came saying, "‘Uthmaan, ‘Abd Al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf, Al-Zubayr and Sa‘d ibn AbeeWaqqaas(may Allah be pleased with them) are asking your permission (to see you); may I admit them?" ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "Yes", So they were admitted and they came in, greeted him, and sat down. After a while Yarfa’ came again and said, "May I admit ‘Alee and ‘Abbaas?" ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "yes." So, they (may Allah be pleased with them)were admitted and they came in and greeted (him) and sat down. Then ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with him) said, "O Commander of the Believers! Judge between me and this (i.e., ‘Alee)." They had a dispute regarding the property of Banne Al-Nadeer which Allah, Exalted is He, had given to His Messenger ﷺ as Fay’ (i.e., war-gains taken by Muslims from the disbelievers without fighting). The group (i.e., ‘Uthmaan and his companions) said, "O Commander of the Believers! Judge between them and relieve both of them front each other." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "Be patient! I beseech you by Allah by Whose Permission the Heaven and the Earth exist, do you know that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, 'Our (i.e., Prophets') property will not be inherited, and whatever we leave, is Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity),' and Allah's Messenger ﷺ meant himself (by saying "we'')?" The group said, "He said so." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) then turned to ‘Alee and ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) and said, "I beseech you by Allah, do you know that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said so?" They replied, " He said so." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) then said, "So, I will talk to you about this matter. Allah, Exalted is He, bestowed on His Messenger ﷺ a special favor of Fay’ which He gave to nobody else." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) then recited the ayaat (which mean): {And what Allah restored [of property] to His Messenger from them - you did not spur for it [in an expedition] any horses or camels, but Allah gives His messengers power over whom He wills, and Allah is over all things competent.} [Quran 59:6] ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "So, this property was especially given to Allah's Messenger ﷺ, but, by Allah, neither did he ﷺ take possession of it and leave you, nor did he ﷺ favor himself with it to your exclusion, but he ﷺ gave it to all of you and distributed it amongst you till this property remained out of it. Allah's Messenger ﷺused to spend the yearly expenses of his family out of this property and used to keep the rest of its revenue to be spent in Allah's Cause. He ﷺ kept on doing this during all his lifetime. I ask you by Allah do you know this?" They (may Allah be pleased with them) replied in the affirmative. ‘Umar then said to ‘Alee and ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them), "I ask you by Allah, do you know this?" ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) added, "When Allah had taken His Prophet unto Him,’ Aboo Bakr said, 'I am the successor of Allah's Messenger ﷺso, Aboo Bakr took over that property and managed it in the same way as Allah's Messenger ﷺused to do, and Allah, Exalted is He, knows that he (may Allah be pleased with him) was true, pious and rightly guided, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) was a follower of what was right. Then, Allah took Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) unto Him and I became Aboo Bakr's successor, and I kept that property in my possession for the first two years of my Caliphate, managing it in the same way as Allah's Messenger ﷺ used to do and as Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) used to do, and Allah knows that I have been true, pious, rightly guided, and a follower of what is right. Now you both (i.e., ‘Alee and ‘Abbaas) came to talk to me, bearing the same claim and presenting the same case; you, ‘Abbaas, came to me asking for your share of your nephew's property, and this man, i.e., ‘Alee (may Allah be pleased with him), came to me asking for his wife's share of her father's property. I told you both that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, 'Our (prophets') properties are not to be inherited, but what we leave is Sadaqah (i.e., to be spend in charity).' When I thought it right that I should hand over this property to you, I said to you, 'I am ready to hand over this property to you if you wish, on the condition that you would take Allah's Pledge and Convention that you would manage it in the same way as Allah's Messenger ﷺ used to, as Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) used to do, and as I have done since I was in charge of it.' So, both of you said (to me), 'Hand it over to us,' and on that condition I handed it over to you. So, I ask you by Allah, Exalted is He, did I hand it over to them on this condition?" The group aid, "Yes." Then ‘Umar faced ‘Alee and ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) saying, "I ask you by Allah, did I hand it over to you on this condition?" They (may Allah be pleased with them) said, "Yes. " He (may Allah be pleased with him) said, " Do you want now to give a different decision? By Allah, by Whose Leave both the Heaven and the Earth exist, I will never give any decision other than that (I have already given), and if you are unable to manage it, then return it to me, and I will do the job on your behalf."
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, singled out the Prophet ﷺ for the Fay’ (i.e., war-gains taken by Muslims from the disbelievers without fighting) rather than the spoils of war (for they were distributed among the Muslim fighters). The Prophet ﷺ stated what should be done with the Fay’ and how it should be spent, and also underlined what should be done with his personal property after his death.
In this hadeeth, Maalik ibn Aws – scholars held different opinions as to whether or not he was a Companion – narrated that while he was sitting with his family at home once, the sun rose high and it got hot. Suddenly the messenger of the Caliph ‘Umar ibn Al- Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) came and asked him to come and meet the Commander of the Believers. He went along with him to a place where ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was sitting on a bedstead made of date-palm leaves and covered with no mattress, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) was leaning over a leather pillow. Maalik greeted him and sat down. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "O Maali,” which is a term of endearment indicating emotional proximity and friendliness, “Some persons of your people who have families came to me;” it was said that they belonged to Banee Nasr ibn Mu‘aawiyah ibn Abee Bakr ibn Hawaazin,that they were afflicted with drought, and that they came to Al-Madeenah asking for financial support and supplies. Thereupon, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) ordered that a gift (a small, unfixed grant) should be given to them. The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Radkh (i.e., a smallportion of the war gains which is less than the share of a single fighter, given by a ruler or his deputy to a person who is not entitled to a share despite taking part or helping in the fighting, such as a woman, a child, or a disbeliever). ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) commanded Maalik to take this grant and distribute it among them. Maalik apologized and said, "O Commander of the Believers! I wish that you would order someone else to do it." He said, "O man! Take it." While Maalik was sitting there with him, his doormanYarfa’, one of ‘Umar’s freed slaves, came saying, "‘Uthmaan, ‘Abd Al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf, Al-Zubayr and Sa‘d ibn AbeeWaqqaas(may Allah be pleased with them) are asking your permission (to see you); may I admit them?" ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "Yes." So, they (may Allah be pleased with them)were admitted and they came in, greeted him, and sat down. After a while Yarfa’ came again and asked to admit ‘Alee ibn AbeeTaalib and Al-‘Abbaas ibn ‘Abd Al-Muttalib(may Allah be pleased with them).They came seeking the settlement of their dispute over the property of Banee Al-Nadeer.This was property which Allah had given to His Messenger ﷺas Fay’ (i.e., war-gains taken by Muslims from the disbelievers without fighting).They (may Allah be pleased with them) were seeking ‘Umar’s judgment as to who should manage it. The group (i.e., ‘Uthmaan, ‘Abd Al-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf, Al-Zubayr, and Sa‘d ibn AbeeWaqqaas(may Allah be pleased with them)) asked ‘Umar to judge between them (i.e., ‘Alee and Al-‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them)) and relieve each of them of the other. The Arabic word used in the hadeeth is Raht, and it means a group of men below ten or forty. Afterward, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to these Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), "Be patient! I beseech you by Allah, by Whose Permission the Heaven and the Earth exist, do you know that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, 'Our (i.e., prophets') property will not be inherited, and whatever we leave is Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity),' and Allah's Messenger ﷺ meant himself (by saying ‘we'’)?" The group (may Allah be pleased with them) said, "He said so." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) then turned to ‘Alee and Al-‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) and said, "I beseech you by Allah, do you know that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said so?" They replied, "He ﷺ said so." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) then said, "So, I will talk to you about this matter. Allah, Exalted is He, bestowed on His Messenger ﷺ the special favor of Fay’ which He gave to nobody else." ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) then recited the ayaat (which mean): {And what Allah restored [of property] to His Messenger from them - you did not spur for it [in an expedition] any horses or camels, but Allah gives His messengers power over whom He wills, and Allah is over all things competent.} [Quran 59:6].
‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) explained how the Prophet ﷺ used to manage this Fay’ and that he ﷺ used to cover the yearly expenses of his family from this property and allocate the rest of its revenue to the Muslim Treasury, to be spent in Allah's Cause. He (may Allah be pleased with him) continued to remind them of what the Prophet ﷺ did and how he ﷺ managed this Fay,’ stressing that he ﷺ did not keep it all for himself. They (may Allah be pleased with them) availed themselves of such property as members of his family. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) asked them as to whether the Prophet ﷺ did so during his lifetime and they (may Allah be pleased with them) replied in the affirmative. ‘Umar then reminded ‘Alee and Al-‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) that Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him), being the successor of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, took over that property and managed it in the same way as Allah's Messenger ﷺ used to do, and so did ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). He (may Allah be pleased with him) stated: “Allah, Exalted is He, knows that he (i.e., Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him)) was true, pious and rightly guided, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) was a follower of what was right.”
He (may Allah be pleased with him) also reminded them that he (may Allah be pleased with him) became Aboo Bakr's successor and kept that property in his possession for the first two years of his Caliphate, managing it in the same way as Allah's Messenger ﷺ and Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) used to do, and said about himself, “Allah knows that I have been true, pious, rightly guided, and a follower of what is right.”
Afterward, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) reminded ‘Alee and Al-‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) of what they did when they came to him before this dispute. He (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “You both came to talk to me, bearing the same claim and presenting the same case;” meaning that there was no dispute, “you, ‘Abbaas, came to me asking for your share of your nephew's property,” being the Prophet’s paternal uncle, “and this man, i.e., ‘Alee (may Allah be pleased with him), came to me asking for his wife's share of her father's property. I told you both that Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, 'Our (prophets') properties are not to be inherited, but what we leave is Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity).' When I thought it right that I should hand over this property to you, I said to you, 'I am ready to hand over this property to you if you wish, on the condition that you would take Allah's Pledge and Convention that you would manage it in the same way as Allah's Messenger ﷺ used to, and as Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) used to do, and as I have done since I have been in charge of it.' ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) agreed to put them in charge of the property on that condition.
Afterward, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) asked ‘Uthmaan and the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) with him whether he was speaking the truth, and they replied in the affirmative. He (may Allah be pleased with him) addressed ‘Alee and Al-‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with them) and they both replied in the affirmative. He (may Allah be pleased with him) then rebuked them for seeking a different judgment. He (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “By Allah, by Whose Leave both the Heaven and the Earth exist, I will never give any decision other than that (which I have already given), and if you are unable to manage it, then return it to me, and I will do the job on your behalf,” in the manner that the Prophet ﷺ and Aboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) managed it.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a knowledgeable ruler may settle complicated disputes and govern the affairs of the Muslim state in the way that serves the best interests of Muslims, after consulting with thepeople of knowledge and specialists.
The hadeeth states that the Prophets of Allah did not leave personal properties (i.e., estates), and rather their inheritance was knowledge, and whatever property they left was Sadaqah.
It is inferred from the hadeeth that it is allowable to decline assignments and mandates that are assigned to a Muslim individual by the ruler if the person knows his weakness and inability to fulfill the rights of such office.
It also highlights the virtues of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and his (outstanding)asceticism, justice, and good judgment when settling disputes. .

3096

Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him):
Allah's Messenger ﷺsaid, "My heirs should not take even a single Dinar (i.e., anything from my private property), and whatever I leave, excluding the expenditure of my wives and my laborers, will be Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity)."'
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Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, blessed His Prophets with non-attachment to worldly pleasures and gains; they led the mostascetic lives and were content with their modest shares of worldly property. They availed themselves of their worldly gains within the scope of their needs only, and graciously offered the excess to be spent on what benefits people.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ commanded that his private property must not be inherited by his heirs. He ﷺ stated that his heirs had no right to even a single Dinar (i.e., anything from his private property) after his death, and whatever wealth he ﷺ should leave, beyond the due expenditure of his wives and laborers, should be given as Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity) for the benefit of Muslims. The Prophet ﷺ used to take his share of the (conquered) lands (i.e., Fay,’ meaning war-gains taken by Muslims from the disbelievers without fighting, and spoils of war) to provide for himself and his dependents and spend the rest for the benefit of Muslims. The reference to his ‘laborers’ here is said to mean his successors (Caliphs) after his death, and it was also said that it means the workers whom he ﷺ had appointed to tend to the palm trees in his lands.These lands were part of the Fay’ gained after the battle with Banee Al-Nadeer, the land of Fadak, and his share of the lands of Khaybar. It was also said that it means his servants or the workers whom he ﷺ had appointed to collect the Zakaah funds.
The hadeeth highlights the Prophet’s keenness in taking care of his family and dependents and allocating allowances for the workers and employees appointed to manage the Muslims’ affairs to keep them secure and able to shoulder the tasks entrusted to them.
It is inferred therefrom that the Prophets of Allah did not leave behind personal properties to be inherited by their heirs, and that their estates were rather spent in charity. .

3097

‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
Allah's Messenger ﷺ died, and there was nothing in my house that a living being could eat, except some barley lying on a shelf. So, I ate of it for a long period and measured it, and (after a short period) it was consumed.
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Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to invoke Allah, Exalted is He, to bless him and his family with enough sustenance that would spare them the need to ask others for financial help. His wives and household members (may Allah be pleased with them) were content (with their modest shares of worldly pleasures and properties) and endured the strained living conditions, aspiring to the rewards of Allah, Exalted is He, and the everlasting bliss in Paradise.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) stated that when the Prophet ﷺ died, there was nothing in her house that a living being could eat, except some barley lying on a shelf. So, she (may Allah be pleased with her) ate of it for a lengthy period and it was not consumed. She (may Allah be pleased with her) measured it, and (after a brief period) it was consumed. This means that she (may Allah be pleased with her) used to eat of this small quantity of barley for an extended period of time and it was not measured. When she (may Allah be pleased with her) measured it and knew its exact weight and amount, it was no longer so blessed and was consumed (after a short period). Not knowing the exact measure of the foodstuff made it blessed; each day she would think that the barley would be consumed, as it seemed a small quantity, and this is why it lasted for longer before being ultimately consumed. It is also possible that this was related to the blessing of the Prophet ﷺ, and when she measured it, such blessing ceased. It was recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim on the authority of Asmaa’ bintAboo Bakr (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Spend in charity and do not calculate, (for) Allah would calculate in your case; and do not hoard, otherwise Allah would be withholding from you.” It means, ‘Do not measure and meticulously calculate what you spend in charity, lest Allah, Exalted is He, do the same to you (i.e., in terms of reward and blessing). When one relies on the blessing of Allah, Exalted is He, refrains from measuring and meticulously calculating his foodstuff, and eats thereof until it is consumed, he would avail himself of the blessings bestowed by Allah, Exalted is He.
The hadeeth urges Muslims to give precedence to the enjoined reliance on Allah, Exalted is He, (over the reliance on the worldly and material causes) in all matters.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that when a person measures and meticulously calculates the quantity of foodstuff, closely monitoring the consumed or remaining amount, it becomes unblessed. .

1441

Abu ad-Dardā’ reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came across a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy at the door of a tent, and he said: "Perhaps he wants to copulate with her." They said: 'Yes.' Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I resolved to curse him with a curse that would enter his grave with him. How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him?! And how would he employ him while this is not lawful for him?!".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to forbid his Companions from unlawful things and all that Allah, the Exalted and Glorified, prohibited. He would sometimes do so by encouraging them to obtain the reward with Allah Almighty and other times by intimidating them from the penalty and punishment of Allah.
In this Hadīth, Abu ad-Dardā’ (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was on a journey, he passed by a woman in the advanced stage of pregnancy. She was one of the captives and was sitting at the door of a tent. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Perhaps he", meaning her owner and master who obtained her as his share of the captives. "wants to copulate with her" i.e., wants to engage in sexual intercourse with her. However, it is not lawful for the master of a pregnant captive to copulate with her until she gives birth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said that he resolved and intended to supplicate against him to be turned away from Allah's mercy and for that to continue after his death. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) intended to curse him because he failed to ascertain the emptiness of her womb, for if he copulates with his captive whom he owns while she is pregnant from someone else, he is thus neglecting to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. However, the cursing did not take place because this man was not aware of the ruling.
His words: "How would he be his heir while this is not lawful for him" means that this slave-girl captive may give birth after six months, and thus, the baby is likely from this captor, and it is likely from someone before him. So, if he is from the captor, then he is his child, and they may inherit from each other; and if he is from someone else, then he and the captor may not inherit from each other, given the lack of blood relationship.
Then, he said: "And how would he employ him," i.e., the child? If he employs him as a slave, it is probable that he came from him, and thus, he will be enslaving his child and cutting off his own lineage, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing. And if he attributes the baby to himself as his child, it is likely that he did not come from him, and thus he will be making him his heir, whereas he is not his heir, and for this, he will be worthy of cursing.
The Hadīth indicates that captivity nullifies previous ownership and dissolves marriage.
It also indicates that when there is a new owner of a female slave, it becomes due to ascertain the emptiness of her womb. So, he may not copulate with her until her womb is verified to be empty of pregnancy.
It also points out that it is forbidden to copulate with a pregnant captive until she gives birth..

1442

Judāmah bint Wahb - sister of ‘Ukkāshah - reported: I was there when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to some people: "I was about to forbid Ghīlah (sexual intercourse during the breastfeeding period), so I considered that the Romans and the Persians do it without any harm done to their children thereby." Then they asked him about coitus interruptus, and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d (burying a child alive).".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was keen on benefiting the believers and showed sympathy and concern for them. He left nothing that could be of benefit to them without guiding them to it and ordering them to do it. However, he used to correct the lies and suspicions that were spread among people and inherited from the pre-Islamic era of ignorance out of guidance and politeness.
In this Hadīth, the female Companion Judāmah al-Asadiyyah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she attended with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) an assembly that had some of his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was about to," i.e., I was determined to forbid "Ghīlah", which is having intercourse with one's wife during her breastfeeding period, or a woman's conception during the breastfeeding period. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was determined to forbid it because there was a popular belief at that time that it was harmful to the infant. They used to say that if the breastfeeding woman had sexual intercourse with her husband and conceived during her breastfeeding period, her milk would be spoilt and the child would get weak if he fed on it, and the Arabs would hate and avoid him. However, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) saw that the Romans and the Persians - two great kingdoms at that time - did this without worrying about it, besides the fact that it did not cause their children any harm; so, he did not forbid it.
Then, the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked him about the ruling on coitus interruptus, which means removing the man's penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation and ejaculating outside the vagina to avoid conception. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That is the hidden Wa’d," considering the coitus interruptus hidden burial of a child alive because it entails wasting the sperm that Allah Almighty has prepared to be a child. So, it resembles killing a child by burying him alive. However, there is no doubt that it is less grave, and this is why he said it is hidden.
In the Two Sahīh Collections, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to those who asked him about the coitus interruptus: "It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Judgment will be born," i.e., no soul to exist in the knowledge of Allah Almighty except that it will come to exist, whether the coitus interruptus is done or not. Despite the coitus interruptus, there could be a small amount of semen ejaculated which Allah destined to form a child, and on the other hand, there could be normal ejaculation without conception. In short, coitus interruptus or normal ejaculation are equal as both do not lead to having a child except by Allah's decree..

1443

‘Āmir ibn Sa‘d reported: that Usāmah ibn Zayd informed his father Sa‘d ibn Abi Waqqās that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Why do you do that?" The man said: "I fear for her child - or for her children." Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If this was harmful, it would harm the Persians and the Romans." [In a version]: "If it was for that, then no. This does not harm the Persians or the Romans.".

Commentary : Islam is keen on the safety of Muslims and has guided them to what presents good care of children. This includes the exhortation to provide good suckling.
In this Hadīth, Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him) relates that a man came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I practice coitus interruptus with my wife." Coitus interruptus is practiced by removing the male sex organ out of the woman's vulva before ejaculation, and the man ejaculates outside the vulva, to prevent pregnancy. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: For what reason do you do this act? The man said: "I fear for her child", who suckles from her. This is because if she gets pregnant, her milk will be spoiled, and the body of the baby will become unsound and weak. Or he meant the famous notion among the Arabs that copulation damages milk and that such milk will be a malady and if the baby drinks it, he will become ill. So, he feared that he would be thin and unwell. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "If this was harmful" - copulation or pregnancy during the period of suckling - "it would harm the Persians and the Romans", for the women of the Persians and the Romans suckle their babies while they are pregnant. So, if pregnancy or copulation during the period of suckling was harmful, it would harm their children. But the reality belies that, as they do not care to avoid this matter and their children are in good condition, and you are like them in this regard..

1451

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Commentary : Islam has made suckling a bond like blood relation, and it has established the unlawfulness of marriage by suckling like the unlawfulness of marriage due to blood relations. It has forbidden a man from marrying his sister, mother, maternal aunt, or paternal aunt by suckling, and so on.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs about the amount that does not establish the ruling on suckling that makes marriage unlawful. He says: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." This was said in response to someone who asked about one suckling and two. So, he replied that they do not make marriage unlawful, whether this suckling happens before the completion of two years or beyond that. The amount that makes marriage unlawful is five sucklings taken before the completion of two years. In a Hadīth by Muslim, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "In what was sent down in the Qur’an was ten known sucklings that make (marriage) unlawful. Afterwards, they were abrogated by five known ones. Then the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed away while they were part of what was recited in the Qur’an." And ’Umm Salamah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The only suckling which makes marriage unlawful is what is taken from the breast and enters the bowels and is taken before the time of weaning." Narrated by At-Tirmidhi..

1452

‘Ā’ishah reported: It was revealed in the Qur’an that: ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits (marriage); then it was abrogated and replaced with five times of known (breastfeeding). The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified for his Ummah all that is lawful and unlawful including the rulings of breastfeeding and the consequent rulings related to lineages.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports the amount that used to establish the ruling of breastfeeding, that makes marriage prohibited at first, whereby the woman becomes prohibited for the man to marry the same, as it is prohibited for him by consanguinity (being descended by the same ancestor). She (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that it was first revealed in the Qur’an that ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits marriage. Then, this number was abrogated, and it became five times of known breastfeeding, i.e., known and satiating during the two years of infancy. In At-Tirmidhi's Collection, ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No prohibition results from breastfeeding, except for what penetrates the intestines from the breast before weaning." So, breastfeeding after two full years does not prohibit anything, as Allah Almighty says: {Mothers may breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to complete the full term of breastfeeding.} [Surat al-Baqarah: 233] Abrogation in the Qur’an has three types: First: What is abrogated in terms of ruling and recitation. Second: That which is abrogated in terms of recitation apart from its ruling. Third: That which is abrogated in terms of ruling apart from its recitation. The first two types of abrogation are found in this Hadīth. (Ten times of known breastfeeding prohibits) was abrogated both in terms of ruling and recitation, whereas the five times of breastfeeding was abrogated in terms of recitation only and its ruling has remained.
The statement of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while these (words of the abrogating verse) were still being recited as part of the Qur’an" meaning: The abrogation by the five times of breastfeeding was revealed at a very late stage to the extent that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) died while some people were still reciting the part of the five times of breastfeeding as part of the Qur’an because of not being aware of that recent abrogation. Later, when they learned about the abrogation, they stopped reciting it and unanimously agreed that it should not be recited..

1453

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported: I heard' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, say to 'Ā’ishah: By Allah, I do not feel comfortable to be seen by a boy who has passed the age of suckling. She said: Why? Sahlah bint Suhayl came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I see (displeasure) on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of Sālim entering." She said: Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Suckle him." She said: "He has a beard." He said: "Suckle him, and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away." She said: "By Allah, I did not see it on the face of Abu Hudhayfah.".

Commentary : In this Hadīth, Zaynab bint Abi Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) informs that she heard her mother' Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, swearing to 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and saying: "By Allah, I do not feel comfortable" i.e., I do not like it; "to be seen by a boy" from non-Mahram (unrelated) males "who has passed the age of suckling" i.e., he is no longer in need of suckling. Thereupon, ‘Ā’ishah said to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with both of them): "Why?" i.e., why are you saying this, whereas there is nothing wrong with that if you suckle him or he is suckled by someone who makes him a Mahram (related and non-marriageable) to you? This is evidenced by the fact that "Sahlah bint Suhayl", the wife of Abu Hudhayfah, came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore to him that she would see dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah because of their foster son Sālim continuing to enter the house as he would usually do when he was young, and he now reached adulthood - particularly after verses had been revealed prohibiting adoption. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him" to be your son by suckling. She said to him: "He has a beard" for he is an adult man. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what is on the face of Abu Hudhayfah will go away" i.e., the sign of dislike will vanish from him. Sahlah did so and then she swore that she did not find the sign of dislike on the face of Abu Hudhayfah after she had suckled him.
This Hadīth is problematic in terms of explaining it and deriving rulings therefrom, and difference of opinion actually arose over it among the Prophet's wives. ’Umm Salamah and some of the Prophet's wives believed that this was a dispensation from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah alone, and they held that there should be no suckling for adults and that the suckling that makes a person a Mahram is the one provided in young age and which grows the bones and builds the body and flesh.
As for ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), she - as reported here - held that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations, whether the suckled one is a child or an adult. She cited as evidence the story of Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) and that the ruling is not exclusively restricted to them.
What appears to be right - and Allah knows best - is that suckling of adults does not count, has no effect, and causes no prohibition, and that true suckling is that which occurs during babyhood; and what happened in the story of Sālim is particularly restricted to him and does not apply to anyone other than him. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) affirmed that not every suckling causes prohibition. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body.
The Hadīth points out that suckling causes prohibition of the same things made prohibited by blood relations.
It demonstrates that there is a difference of opinion regarding the suckling of adults and its resultant effects..

1454

Zaynab bint Abi Salamah reported that her mother ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, reported: The other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling. They said to ‘Ā’ishah: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular. No one would enter our houses or see us by such suckling.".

Commentary : The Hadīth addresses an incident that took place during the Prophet's lifetime, namely suckling an adult, which means suckling a person after the age of two years and the time of weaning, and beyond, so that he can be Mahram - like suckling in the age of suckling. ’Umm Salamah, the Prophet's wife, informs that all the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone privately enter their houses by such suckling that is given to a person after the age of weaning, for they were commanded to observe Hijab. An exception was ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who held the view that such suckling makes marriage unlawful like suckling during babyhood. They swore to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "By Allah, we do not see this except as a dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim", the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him), "in particular"; not generally for everyone. Therefore, we will not let anyone enter our houses or see us by such suckling.
The dispensation which the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave to Sālim in particular is mentioned in a Hadīth narrated by Muslim in his Sahīh Collection, in which ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: that Sālim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah, was with Abu Hudhayfah and his family in their house. His wife Sahlah the daughter of Suhayl came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Sālim has reached the age of manhood and understands what men understand. He enters our house, and I think that Abu Hudhayfah is not comfortable with that." Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Suckle him and what Abu Hudhayfah feels will go away." She returned and said: "Indeed, I suckled him, and what Abu Hudhayfah felt went away."
It is reported in a Hadīth narrated by Abu Dāwūd that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) would ask the daughters of her sisters and brothers to suckle whomever she liked to enter her house - even if he was an adult - five times, and then he would enter her house. However, ’Umm Salamah and the other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) refused to let anyone enter their houses by such suckling unless the suckling occurred in the cradle. Hence, the statements and attitudes of other wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) constituted evidence that the suckling of an adult does not count, has no weight, and does not establish the unlawfulness of marriage; and that true suckling happens in babyhood, and what happened in the story of Sālim is an exceptional peculiarity that was limited to him and does not apply to anyone else. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) emphasized that not every suckling makes marriage unlawful. In a Hadīth in the Two Sahīh Collections, he said: "Indeed, suckling is from hunger" i.e., the suckling that counts is the one that occurs at the time when milk is relied upon for food and in the amounts that affect the growth of the baby's body..

1456

Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri reported: that at the battle of Hunayn, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to Awtās. They encountered an enemy, fought, attained victory over them, and took female captives from them. Some of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon them) seemed to have refrained from having intercourse with them, as they had husbands among the polytheists. So, Allah Almighty revealed in this regard: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own} [Surat an-Nisā': 24], i.e., they are lawful for you when their waiting periods come to an end..

Commentary : The Shariah regulated the religious rulings regarding times of peace and war. Since war results in captives from the men of the enemy and their women, the Qur’an and the Sunnah clarified the rulings concerning them. It prohibited copulation with pregnant and married female captives until they gave birth or until non-pregnant captives were verified to be non-pregnant by having menses.
In this Hadīth, Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) informs that during the battle of Hunayn - which took place in the eighth Hijri year, after the Conquest of Makkah, between the Muslims and the people of Tā’if among the two tribes of Hawāzin and Thaqīf, in a valley called Hunayn, which is situated between Makkah and Tā’if; as the disbelievers had gone out with their property, women, and children; and after Hawāzin and Thaqīf were defeated and Allah granted victory to His Prophet and the Muslims, the fleeing disbelievers withdrew to the valley of Awtās, which is close to Hunayn - the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent an army to them, and they encountered an enemy from the disbelievers, whom they fought, overcame, and defeated. Among their spoils were captives from the polytheist women. Some of the Prophet's Companions refrained - out of fear of committing a sin - from having intercourse with them because they were married women, and a married woman is not lawful for anyone other than her husband. So, they thought that their marriage to their husbands was not severed. Therefore, Allah Almighty revealed verses demonstrating the ruling on copulation with those they refrained from: {Also [prohibited are] married women except for female slaves you may own.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 24] i.e., prohibited for you is marrying married women, except for the women you possess by taking them into captivity, as their marriage to their disbelieving husbands is dissolved. They become lawful for you after their wombs are verified to be empty of the semen of the disbelieving husbands, either by childbirth, in case the woman is pregnant, or by one menstrual period, if she is not pregnant.
The Hadīth indicates that the marriage of polytheists is dissolved if their wives are taken captive, as they go into the ownership of their captors.
It shows how a person should pause, search, and ask about any matter when he is not certain of the reason behind it and its ruling. This is the attitude of anyone who fears Allah Almighty..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him and it was the morning, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights; and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." She said: "Stay for three nights.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was both fair and merciful in dealing with his wives. In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān relates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married' Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi' Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after her husband Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) had died, he stayed in her house for three nights, which was his Sunnah in case the woman was previously married; then when he wanted to leave her house and go to the others, he noticed that she considered the three nights to be little. So, he said to her: "You are not humbled in the estimation of your husband" i.e., you will not be underestimated and your right will not be lost at all. Then the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice, saying: If you wish, I will stay with you for seven nights" - and stay with other wives of mine for the same period - "and if you wish, I will stay with you for three nights, and then visit the others in turn." i.e., if you are content with these three nights, I will go to my wives in turn, one night at a time, till I come back to you. She said: "Stay for three nights" i.e., I am content with the three nights, to avoid his long absence from her..

1460

‘Abdul-Malik ibn Abi Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān reported: When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married Umm Salamah, he entered upon her, and when he wanted to leave, she took hold of his garment. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you wish, I can stay longer with you and count it for you; a virgin is entitled to seven, whereas a previously married woman is entitled to three..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) set the greatest example in fulfilling justice between his wives and putting the family relations in order in case of polygamy.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i Abu Bakr ibn ‘Abdur-Rahmān (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that when the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah Hind bint Abi ’Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with her) after the death of her husband, Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he entered upon her and consummated the marriage with her. After spending three days with her, he wanted to leave her house for the house of another one of his wives; however, she took hold of his garment so he would stay with her. He (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) clarified to ’Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) what she was entitled to regarding his overnight stay with her, saying: "If you wish" to have more than three days "I can stay longer with you and count it for you," i.e., calculate for you the total time of my stay with you because of this extra time. In other words: I extend my stay and the rest of my wives become entitled to the same number of days. Then, he informed her that a virgin wife - who had not been previously married - was entitled to seven nights than his other wives if he had sexual intercourse with her; whereas the Thayyib - who had been previously married - was entitled to three days.
In another Hadīth narrated by Muslim, when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) married ’Umm Salamah and she stayed with him (during the night), he said to her: "Indeed, you are not inferior in the sight of your family," i.e., you will not be underestimated, and none of your right will be lost; rather, you will take it in full. He then gave her the choice to stay for three days with her without having to make up for them or to stay for seven days with her and make it up for the rest of his wives. The three have the privilege of not having to make up for them, while the seven have the privilege of being successive and fulfilling perfect intimacy. ' Umm Salamah said: "Stay three," so she chose the three because they were not to be made up for, and he would, thus, return to her sooner since he would spend the night with them in turn then come to her. However, if she had chosen seven, he would not return to her except after making it up (days) for his other wives, and he would, thus, be far from her for a long time.
The virgin is exclusively granted seven days given her shyness, which requires extra time, patience, sensibleness, and gentleness, besides the fact that one feels inclined to stay longer with her so that he can stay with her for up to seven days in a row. On the other hand, the previously married woman had already experienced marriage, and her need for intimacy is lesser, besides the fact that one is less attached to her than to the virgin. However, given that she is not familiar yet with the company, she is honored by extending the stay, which is three. After that, he has to start dividing his time, whether he has one, two, or three wives before her.
The Hadīth indicates the recommendation of showing kindness to one's family, children, and others..

1462

Anas reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. Giving them an equal share of his time meant he would not return to the first woman except on the ninth day. So, they used to gather every night at the house of the one to whom he would come. He was at 'Ā’ishah's house. When Zaynab came, he stretched his hand towards her, thereupon, she said: This is Zaynab. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) withdrew his hand. There was an altercation between the two until their voices became loud. Iqāmah (second call for prayer) was pronounced for prayer and it happened that Abu Bakr was passing by and he heard their voices. He said: O Messenger of Allah, come for prayer and throw dust in their mouths. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah said: Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr came to her and spoke to her in harsh words and said: Is this how you behave?!.

Commentary : The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were keen on reporting all the Prophet's acts, even what used to happen inside the house of his everyday life affairs. The purpose was to know how the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to deal with various situations in life to follow his example.
In this Hadīth, Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives. When giving each wife her share and turn on her day and night, he would not return to the wife who took the first turn in his overnight stay except after nine nights, given that he used to stay a day and a night with each of them. It was the habit of the Prophet's wives to gather every night at the house of the one with whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would stay to enjoy his company and be close to him, then, each would go to her room.
One time, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was at ‘Ā’ishah's house, on her day and night, and his wives gathered there as usual. When his wife Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) came, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) stretched his hand to her by way of fondling. It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought it was ‘Ā’ishah because it was night and it was her night and turn. So, ‘Ā’ishah said: "This" towards whom you stretched your hand is "Zaynab", as if ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) criticized the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for fondling someone other than her since it was her night and her turn in her share of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not stretch his hand towards Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) and stopped. Thereupon, Zaynab and 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) altercated, disagreed, and argued due to jealousy "until their voices became loud," i.e., they were making immense noise.
Meanwhile, the time for prayer was due, and the Iqāmah was pronounced, and Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed by while they were in such a state of arguing noisily and loudly. So, he heard the voice of ‘Ā’ishah and Zaynab disputing. Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, come out for prayer" and throw dust in their mouths, which is an indirect reference to rebuking and putting an end to their dispute and loud voices. "Hathyah": the amount that fills both hands.
So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went out and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to those who were with her, after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had left with Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him): "Now the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) will finish his prayer, and Abu Bakr will come and do such-and-such to me," i.e. when Abu Bakr finishes his prayer with the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he will come to me and rebuke and scold me severely for what I did, as a father would typically discipline his daughter.
‘Ā’ishah's fears came true, as when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) finished his prayer, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went to her, blamed her, rebuked her, and scolded her severely for raising her voice in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Bakr said to ‘Ā’ishah: "Is this how you behave?!" He was blaming her for her dispute with Zaynab in the Prophet's presence.
The Hadīth clarifies the Prophet's fulfillment of justice between his wives and his kindness and courteousness with them.
It signifies how a husband should give each of his wives an equal share of his time.
It also highlights the virtue of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) for showing compassion towards the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
Moreover, it shows that the less qualified person could call the attention of the more qualified one to what is good for him..

1463

‘Ā’ishah reported: I never saw a woman I would like to be in whose Mislākh (skin) more than Sawdah bint Zam‘ah. She was a woman characterized by sharpness. As she became old, she gave her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I have granted my day with you to ‘Ā’ishah." So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) allocated two days to ‘Ā’ishah; her own day and that of Sawdah..

Commentary : The Mother of the Believers Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, wife of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was one of the ascetic and devout worshippers. The Prophet's wives acknowledged each other's merits and were quite aware of what distinguished each one of them from the others.
In this Hadīth, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that she never wished or liked to be like any of the Prophet's wives or in her place except for Sawdah bint Zam‘ah, as she wished and loved to be like her in worship and obedience, and in her manner and conduct. "Mislākh": skin, and it means: that I become her in terms of the qualities that she admired about her. Her saying: "She was a woman characterized by sharpness" is a way of describing Sawdah, not criticizing her. She meant by that to highlight her strength and solidity in challenging situations. When Sawdah grew old, she granted her day with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ‘Ā’ishah. Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) did this out of her sagacity, as she gave her day to the woman who loved the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most. So, ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) had two days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): her day and Sawdah's day. This does not mean that they were two days in a row; rather, what is meant is clarifying the number of ‘Ā’ishah's days with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in each of his rounds with his wives (may Allah be pleased with them).
The Hadīth points out that Ghibtah (envy free from malice) is in goodness, and it means one's wish to be like another in his praiseworthy qualities.
It also clarifies how the Prophet's wives loved him and sought to please him, and it guides the wives to seek to please her husband by doing what he likes..

1467

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) guided men and youth to choose the righteous woman for marriage because she is one of the greatest blessings bestowed upon man in this world.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) reports that "the world is a Matā‘," and Matā‘ is what one benefits from and enjoys, and the best worldly enjoyment for man is the religious wife, who gladdens him by looking at her and by her obedience. She is chaste, guarding herself in his absence, and she is honest, protecting his wealth. This is the essence of the righteous woman; she is righteous in her religion and herself and a reformer of her husband's conditions.
Here, he mentioned the woman in specific terms, and qualified her with righteousness to make it known that she is deemed the evilest worldly enjoyment if she does not have such a characteristic. This is because if righteousness does not prevent her from evil, she becomes evil itself. In this case, she does not push her husband or urge him except towards evil, and the least she can do is to make him crave this world until he puts himself into destruction therein..

1468

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, if he witnesses something, let him speak good or remain silent. And take care of women, for the woman was created from a rib and the most crooked part of the rib is its top. If you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, take good care of women..

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) advises us to adopt manners and morals that enhance familiarity and love between Muslims.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) informs that "whoever believes in Allah" Who created him perfectly, in terms of belief and acts, by testifying that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, and by adhering to the pillars of faith and its characteristics as a whole including words and deeds;
and believes in "the Last Day," which is the Day of Judgment to which he will return and where he will receive recompense for his deeds, and here, belief in Allah and the Last Day were mentioned in particular, among all other things that one should believe in; in reference to the beginning and the end of all things, i.e., if he believes in Allah Who created him and that He will recompense him on the Day of Judgment for his good and evil deeds, then, let him speak good or remain silent. This wording is meant to encourage and promote adherence to the command or the prohibition mentioned in the Hadīth. "If he witnesses something" in general, whether between two, a group, or the like, and there is a need for him to speak about it, then let him consider it carefully; if there is goodness in his words, then he should speak, or else he should keep silent.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to advise men to treat their wives kindly in compliance with the commands of Islam. Given the fact that women are originally created with crookedness, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew attention to that saying: "Take care of women" with the following addition in Al-Bukhāri version: "good care", i.e., advise each other to treat them kindly. "For the woman was created from a rib," which is one of the chest bones. In other words, there is crookedness in their original creation. "And the most crooked part of the rib is its top", this description is meant as an exaggeration in describing such crookedness and to emphasize the probability of breaking because the difficulty of straightening the top is apparent. It is said: Perhaps this is meant to refer to the woman's upper part that has her head and tongue, from where the crookedness springs. It is also said: That the form of "A‘waj" (crooked) here is meant as a description not to indicate preference, as colors and defects do not have forms indicating preference. If you try to straighten the rib and make it straight, it will break. Similarly, if you want a woman to be perfectly straight in morals, this will lead to breaking her, which is divorcing her. as mentioned in Muslim's version. "And if you leave it, it will remain crooked" as it was originally created, so it is impossible to straighten it. This is set as an example of the crookedness in women's morals; if sought to be upright, this could lead to divorce. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "So, take good care of women," i.e.; there is no way except enduring this crookedness patiently. Hence, this should be tolerated with patience, and women should be treated benevolently and kindly.
Or it could be referring to gentle redress; refraining from exaggeration that leads to breaking and from negligence that leads to persistence in crookedness. To sum up, he should not neglect her crookedness if she exceeds her natural deficiency level by committing sins or abandoning duties; however, what is meant is that he should neglect her crookedness regarding what is permissible.
The Hadīth implies guidance to maintaining one's tongue and protecting it from idle talk.
It also sheds light on the importance of appeasement in attracting souls and winning hearts.
Moreover, it shows how women could be handled through pardon and patience with their crookedness..

1469

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Commentary : Faith calls to noble morals. Thus, no believing man or woman is free from good manners, as faith requires the existence of praiseworthy qualities in them.
In this Hadīth, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: "Let not a believing man Yafrak a believing woman," and "fark" means hatred and dislike. The "believing man" and the "believing woman" here refer to the husband and wife. It was said: This is a form of negation that denotes prohibition, i.e., she must not be totally hated. It was also said: It is a prohibition, i.e., the husband must not absolutely hate his wife in such a way that leads to oppressing, abandoning, and turning away from her. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained this by saying that if the husband hates a bad quality in her, he will find another quality that pleases him. She could be rude but at the same time religious, pretty, chaste, or kind to him, or the like. So, he approves of this good quality that suits him and, thus, faces what he dislikes about her with what he likes about her. In this way, what he likes of her good qualities will help him patiently endure what he dislikes of her bad qualities. So, he forgives the bad for the sake of the good and overlooks what he dislikes for the sake of what he likes. And in this way, he will not absolutely hate her to the extent that he breaks up with her.
The Hadīth encourages good treatment and companionship..

Book of Hadith

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Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophetﷺ said, on the day of the Conquest of Makkah, "There is no migration (after the Conquest of Makkah), but Jihaad and good intentions, and whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call.”
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‘Ataa’ narrated:
I and ‘Ubaydullaah ibn ‘Umayrwent to ‘Aa’ishah while she was staying near Thabeer (i.e., a mountain). She (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "There is no migration after Allah, Exalted is He, gave His Prophet ﷺ victory and conquest of Makkah.”
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As-Saa’ib ibn Yazeed(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
I along with some boys went out to receive Allah's Messenger ﷺ at Thaniyat Al-Wadaa‘.
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Ka‘b(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Whenever the Prophetﷺreturned from a journey in the forenoon, he ﷺ would enter the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs before sitting.
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Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him):
Allah's Messenger ﷺsaid, "My heirs should not take even a single Dinar (i.e., anything from my private property), and whatever I leave, excluding the expenditure of my wives and my laborers, will be Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity)."'
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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
Allah's Messenger ﷺ died, and there was nothing in my house that a living being could eat, except some barley lying on a shelf. So, I ate of it for a long period and measured it, and (after a short period) it was consumed.
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’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Prophetﷺ said, on the day of the Conquest of Makkah, "There is no migration (after the Conquest of Makkah), but Jihaad and good intentions, and whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call.” .

‘Ataa’ narrated: I and ‘Ubaydullaah ibn ‘Umayrwent to ‘Aa’ishah while she was staying near Thabeer (i.e., a mountain). She (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "There is no migration after Allah, Exalted is He, gave His Prophet ﷺ victory and conquest of Makkah.” .

As-Saa’ib ibn Yazeed(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: I along with some boys went out to receive Allah's Messenger ﷺ at Thaniyat Al-Wadaa‘. .

Ka‘b(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: Whenever the Prophetﷺreturned from a journey in the forenoon, he ﷺ would enter the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs before sitting. .

Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him): Allah's Messenger ﷺsaid, "My heirs should not take even a single Dinar (i.e., anything from my private property), and whatever I leave, excluding the expenditure of my wives and my laborers, will be Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity)."' .

‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: Allah's Messenger ﷺ died, and there was nothing in my house that a living being could eat, except some barley lying on a shelf. So, I ate of it for a long period and measured it, and (after a short period) it was consumed. .

’Umm al-Fadl reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One suckling or two or one sucking or two does not make marriage unlawful." [In a version]: (and) instead of (or)..

Abdullah ibn ‘Amr reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This world is an enjoyment, and the best of its enjoyments is a righteous woman.".

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let not a believing man hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another - Or he said: another one.".

Ibn ‘Abbaas(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophetﷺ said, on the day of the Conquest of Makkah, "There is no migration (after the Conquest of Makkah), but Jihaad and good intentions, and whenever you are called for Jihaad, you should hasten to respond to the call.”
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‘Ataa’ narrated:
I and ‘Ubaydullaah ibn ‘Umayrwent to ‘Aa’ishah while she was staying near Thabeer (i.e., a mountain). She (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "There is no migration after Allah, Exalted is He, gave His Prophet ﷺ victory and conquest of Makkah.”
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As-Saa’ib ibn Yazeed(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
I along with some boys went out to receive Allah's Messenger ﷺ at Thaniyat Al-Wadaa‘.
.

Ka‘b(may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:
Whenever the Prophetﷺreturned from a journey in the forenoon, he ﷺ would enter the mosque and offer two Rak‘ahs before sitting.
.

Narrated AbooHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him):
Allah's Messenger ﷺsaid, "My heirs should not take even a single Dinar (i.e., anything from my private property), and whatever I leave, excluding the expenditure of my wives and my laborers, will be Sadaqah (i.e., to be spent in charity)."'
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‘Aa’ishah(may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
Allah's Messenger ﷺ died, and there was nothing in my house that a living being could eat, except some barley lying on a shelf. So, I ate of it for a long period and measured it, and (after a short period) it was consumed.
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