2021

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the last ten nights of Ramadan,' on the night when nine or seven or five nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan (i.e., the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights respectively).”.

Commentary : The Night of Al-Qadr is one of the blessed nights of Ramadan; it is a great and blessed night, in which Allah, Exalted is He, states that the Quran was revealed. It has been highly praised and venerated by Allah, Exalted is He, given the fact that it abounds in great bounties and yields abundant rewards, which are described as being equal to those earned by devoting oneself to worship for a thousand months. During that blessed night, many angels descend, and countless bounties and blessings are conferred upon people, and it is free of harm and evil.
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ commanded us to seek the Night of Al-Qadr, and strive in worship. He ﷺ underlined that we should seek it inon the night when nine nights remain out of the last ten nights of the month, i.e., the 21st night; when seven nights remain, i.e., the 23rd night; or when five nights remain, namely, the 25th night. The meaning is to seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the odd-numbered nights among the last ten nights of the month, such as: the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights.

It was called the Night of Al-Qadr because of its abundant virtues and great honor, or because the performance of worshipful acts on it yields greater reward.
The wisdom of Allah entailed that its exact date should be hidden from people so that they should strive and keenly devote themselves to worship throughout the last ten nights, and thus perform more worshipful acts and gain greater benefits (rewards).
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2022

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, “The Night of Al-Qadr is in the last ten nights of the month (Ramadan), either on the first nine or in the last (remaining) seven nights (of Ramadan).” Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with them) added, “Seek it on the twenty-fourth night (of Ramadan).”
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Commentary :
The Night of Al-Qadr is one of the great and blessed nights of Ramadan, in which the Quran was revealed. It has been highly praised and venerated by Allah, Exalted is He, given the fact that it abounds in great bounties and yields abundant rewards, which are described as being equal to those earned by devoting oneself to worship for one thousand months. During that blessed night, many angels descend, and countless bounties and blessings are conferred upon people, and it is free of harm and evil.
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ informed us that the Night of Al-Qadr falls in the last ten days of Ramadan, and that we should seek it when nine nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan, i.e., the 29th night; or when seven nights remain, i.e., the 23rd night; or it is unspecified and could be any night of the last seven nights of Ramadan.
It was called the Night of Al-Qadr because of its abundant virtues and great honor, or because the performance of worshipful acts on it yields greater reward.
The wisdom of Allah entailed that its exact date should be hidden from people so that they should strive and keenly devote themselves to worship throughout the last ten nights, and thus perform more worshipful acts and gain greater benefits (rewards).
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2024

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet ﷺ used to tighten his waist belt and used to devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers..

Commentary :
The last ten days of Ramadan are the best nights of the whole year and they include the Night of Al-Qadr, which is better (and more rewardable) than one thousand months, as Allah, Exalted is He, states in the Quran. This is why the Prophet ﷺ performed worshipful acts very diligently in these nights, and he urged his family to do the same.
In this hadeeth, ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) explained the situation of the Prophet ﷺ during these ten days, in terms of his diligence in worship and urging his family to follow his example. She (may Allah be pleased with her) said: “In the last ten days of Ramadan,” i.e., starting from the 21st night. Her phrase, “tighten his waist belt,” is a metaphor for keeping away from his wives (i.e., abstaining from sexual relations) and occupying himself with worship. He ﷺused to “devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers,” at night, and this is the enjoined encouragement of one’s family to perform voluntary acts of worship, and to exert their utmost in worship at this blessed time.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that maximizing one’s benefit from the blessed times (by devoting oneself to worship) requires resolve, patience, and self-discipline.
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2026

‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet ﷺ, said: “The Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf (i.e., spiritual retreat in the mosque to devote oneself exclusively to worship Allah) in the last ten days of Ramadan till he died and then his wives used to observe I‘tikaaf after him..

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to strive hard in worship to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, all the time, and one such time was the last ten days of Ramadan when he ﷺ used to observe I’tikaaf (i.e., a spiritual retreat in the mosque to devote oneself exclusively to worship), to dedicate himself exclusively to observing fasting, performing prayer, reciting Dhikr (remembrance of Allah), and other worshipful acts, and to seek the Night of Al-Qadr.
In this hadeeth, the Mother of the Believers, ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) used to observe I‘tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadan, starting from the 21st night till the end of the month. I‘tikaaf means a spiritual retreat in the mosque to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, (by devoting oneself exclusively to worship). The Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf during the last ten nights of Ramadan and did not neglect it until he died. After his death, his wives (may Allah be pleased with them) used to observe I‘tikaaf at the mosque in the last ten days of Ramadan. It was narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf along with some of his wives. They used to observe I‘tikaaf during his lifetime and after his death. At first, the Prophet ﷺ used to observe I‘tikaaf in the first ten nights of Ramadan, and later on observed it in the middle ten nights of Ramadan. Near the end of his life, he ﷺ observed I‘tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadan, seeking the Night of the Qadr.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable for women to observe I‘tikaaf at the mosque provided that the due requirements set by the Laws of Islam are met..

2033

‘Amrah narrated:
‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "The Prophet ﷺ used to practice I‘tikaaf in the last ten days of Ramadan and I used to pitch a tent for him, and after offering the morning prayer, he used to enter the tent." Hafsah asked the permission of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) to pitch a tent for her and she allowed her and she pitched her tent. When Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) saw it, she pitched another tent. In the morning the Prophet ﷺ noticed the tents. He said, 'What is this?" He was told of the whole situation. Then the Prophet ﷺ said, "Do you think that they intended to do righteousness by doing this?" He ﷺ therefore abandoned I‘tikaaf in that month and observe I‘tikaaf only for ten days in the month of Shawwaal.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺ used to show diligence in worship to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, and a manifestation of such diligence was observing I‘tikaaf in the last ten days of Ramadan, to devote himself exclusively to worship, observing fasting, performing prayer, reciting Dhikr, and other worshipful acts. In this hadeeth, ‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet ﷺ used to observe I’tikaaf in the last ten days of Ramadan. I‘tikaaf means a spiritual retreat in the mosque to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, (by devoting oneself exclusively to worship) during daytime or night. ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) used to pitch a small woolen tent for the Prophet ﷺ were he ﷺ observed I’tikaaf. He ﷺ would perform Fajr prayer with the people and then go into the tent. Hafsah asked ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) to seek the permission of the Prophet for her to pitch a tent to observe I‘tikaaf and he ﷺ gave her the permission. When Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) saw her tent, she did the same. In the morning, the Prophet ﷺ saw many tents pitched in the mosque: one for him and three for his wives (‘Aa’ishah, Hafsah, and Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with them), as clarified in other narrations cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree). The Prophet ﷺ said, addressing the people who were with him, "Do you think that they intended to do righteousness by doing this?"
It seems that he ﷺ feared that their motive or drive for doing so was rivalry and blameworthy competitiveness triggered by jealousy to be near him, or feared that the rest of women would do the same, overcrowding the mosque so much that it would not accommodate the worshipers, or that their presence in the mosque would be as if he ﷺwas staying in his house rather than the mosque, and that they may preoccupy him from devoting himself exclusively to worship, and thus undermine the very purpose of I‘tikaaf. It is also possible that he ﷺ was jealous over them and disliked their stay in the mosque, given the fact that it accommodated all Muslims, including the Bedouins and hypocrites, and the Prophet’s wives would need to go in and out of their houses, and this would be inconvenient for them. All these reasons would undermine the very essence of I‘tikaaf.
On that occasion, the Prophet ﷺ left his tent and did not observe I‘tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadan, so that they would do the same; he ﷺ used to teach His Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) by example. He ﷺ observed I‘tikaaf that year in Shawwaal, making up for the I‘tikaaf that he ﷺwas going to observe in Ramadan.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is allowable to pitch a tent for a worshipper in the mosque to observe I‘tikaaf therein.
It is also inferred that it is permissible for women to observe I‘tikaaf.
The permissibility of cancelling the I‘tikaaf after commencing it is also deduced from the hadeeth, and also that I‘tikaaf does not become obligatory upon holding the intention to observe it or commencing it.
It is also inferred therefrom that it is allowable to give up what is more favorable and better if it secures a benefit or an interest.
It is also deduced that it is permissible to allocate a specific place in the mosque to observe I‘tikaaf, as long as it does not involve overcrowding the mosque and making it difficult for the other worshippers therein.
It is also inferred that when women observe I‘tikaaf, their places should be covered by some sort of cover, to protect their privacy.
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2042

‘AbdullahNarrated Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him):
‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I vowed in the pre-Islamic period to perform I‘tikaaf in Al-Masjid Al-Haraam for one night." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Fulfill your vow." So, he (may Allah be pleased with him) observed I‘tikaaf there for one night..

Commentary :
A vow is an act of worship and a good deed by means of which one draws closer to Allah, Exalted is He, and it must be devoted exclusively to Him. In the Quran, Allah, Exalted is He, lauded His righteous servants, and promised them reward, making mention of the fulfillment of vows as one of their good qualities. He Says (what means): {They [are those who] fulfill [their] vows.} [Quran 76:7].
In this hadeeth, ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that he once told the Prophet ﷺ that he had vowed before his conversion to Islam to observe I’tikaaf in Al-Masjid Al-Haraam, the Sacred Mosque in Makkah. I‘tikaaf means a spiritual retreat in the mosque to draw closer to Allah, Exalted is He, (by devoting oneself exclusively to worship) during daytime or night. The Prophet ﷺ commanded him to fulfil his vow and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) complied and observed I’tikaaf. The Prophet ﷺ commanded ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) to fulfill a vow that he had made before his conversion to Islam in the pre-Islamic time, because he (may Allah be pleased with him) had vowed to do a righteous and prescribed act that does not conflict with the Laws of Islam. However, if someone vows to do something that contravenes Islam, it is impermissible to fulfill such a vow.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to observe I’tikaaf at night, and it is not conditional upon fasting.
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2047

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
You people say that Aboo Hurayrah relates many narrations from Allah's Messenger ﷺ and you also wonder why the emigrants and Ansaar do not narrate from Allah's Messenger ﷺ as much as Aboo Hurayrah does. My emigrant brothers were busy in the marketplaces while I used to keep the company of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, content with what satisfied my hunger; so, I used to be present when they were absent and I used to remember when they used to forget, and my brothers from the Ansaar used to be busy with their property and I was one of the poor people of Suffah (i.e., homeless men who were sheltered in a place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque). I used to remember the narrations when they used to forget. No doubt, Allah's Messenger ﷺ once said, "Whoever spreads his garment till I have finished my present speech and then gathers it to himself, will remember whatever I will say." So, I spread my colored garment which I was wearing till Allah's Messenger ﷺ had finished his saying, and then I gathered it to my chest. So, I did not forget any of his narrations!.

Commentary :
The transmission of the Sunnah and narrating the hadeeths of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ are solemn and serious responsibilities, and the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) were remarkably meticulous regarding narration of the hadeeths and the verification of their authenticity. Some Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) related numerous hadeeths and reports while others narrated only few, according to the time during which they kept the company of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) used to keep the company of the Prophet ﷺ more often and narrated more hadeeths than other Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). When Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) realized the bewilderment of some of them and their questions about his ability to narrate so many hadeeths on the authority of the Prophet ﷺ, he (may Allah be pleased with him) clarified the reasons for them. He (may Allah be pleased with him) highlighted that he was able to narrate more hadeeths compared to the emigrants and Ansaar, meaning all the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them), because his fellow brothers from the emigrants were busy with trade in the marketplaces, while he (may Allah be pleased with him) kept the company of the Prophet ﷺ longer and settled for having enough food to satisfy his hunger and keep him alive! This is why he (may Allah be pleased with him) was present with the Prophet ﷺ most of the time. He (may Allah be pleased with him) used to be present when they were absent and used to remember when they used to forget, because he kept the company of the Prophet ﷺ longer.
On the other hand, the Ansaar were also preoccupied with tending to their property, farms and the like, while he was a poor man, who belonged to the People of Suffah (i.e., homeless men who were sheltered in a place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque) who did not engage in trade nor had any property to keep him busy. The word Suffah means a shaded place annexed to the Prophet’s Mosque which was home to the strangers and poor homeless Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). Therefore, he (may Allah be pleased with him) was always near the Prophet ﷺ and conveniently listened to the discussions of many knowledge-related issues and the hadeeths of the Prophet ﷺ. This is why he (may Allah be pleased with him) used to remember and memorize the hadeeths that they missed out on. Afterward, he (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever spreads his garment till I have finished my present speech and then gathers it to himself, will remember whatever I will say,” meaning that he would be able to memorize whatever he ﷺ said. Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) hastened to spread his garment, which was a striped or colored garment, and kept it spread till Allah's Messenger ﷺ had finished his saying, and then gathered it to his chest. Thus, he (may Allah be pleased with him) did not forget any of his hadeeths or statements in that gathering!
Perhaps one blessing of the Prophet’s ﷺsupplication for him manifested in the fact that he (may Allah be pleased with him) memorized everything he had learned and heard from the Prophet ﷺ during his long stay with him.
The hadeeth highlights an apparent miracle exercised by the Prophet ﷺ.
It also underlines the virtues and merits of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him).
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a Muslim is urged to seek knowledge.
It is also inferred therefrom that it is allowable for a person to proclaim his good qualities and virtues to dismiss suspicions about himself, and not to praise himself.
It is also deduced therefrom that senior Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) engaged in trade and worked to earn their living..

2048

Ibraaheem ibn Sa‘d narrated on the authority of his father narrating on the authority of his grandfather:
‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf said, "When we came to Al-Madeenah as emigrants, Allah's Messenger ﷺ established a bond of brotherhood between me and Sa‘d ibn Al-Rabee‘, who said (to me), 'I am the richest among the Ansaar, so I will give you half of my wealth and you may look at my two wives and whichever of the two you may choose I will divorce her, and when she has completed the prescribed period (before marriage) you may marry her!' ‘Abdul-Rahmaan replied, "I am not in need of all that. Is there any marketplace where trade is practiced?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, "The marketplace of Qaynuqaa‘." ‘Abdul-Rahmaan went to that market on the following day and brought some dried buttermilk (yogurt) and butter, and then continued to go there regularly. Few days later, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan came having traces of yellow (scent) on his body. Allah's Messenger ﷺ asked him whether he had got married. He replied in the affirmative. The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Whom have you married?' He replied, 'A woman from the Ansaar.' Thereupon, the Prophet ﷺ asked, 'How much did you pay her (as dower)?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, '(I gave her) a gold piece equal in weigh to a date stone (or a date stone of gold)! The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Throw a wedding banquet even if with one sheep.'".

Commentary :
The Islamic Laws of Islam urges Muslims to seek self-sufficiency, work to earn their living, and refrain from begging others for money or relying on their charity, because a Muslim is enjoined to preserve his dignity and save face.
In this hadeeth, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that when he migrated to Al-Madeenah, the Prophet ﷺ established a bond of brotherhood between him and Sa‘d ibn Al-Rabee‘ Al-Ansaaree Al-Khazrajee (may Allah be pleased with him), who was one of the leaders chosen during the pledge of Al-‘Aqabah. A bond of brotherhood was a contract between two men (one from the emigrants and the other from the Ansaar) to support and show solidarity to one another just as two blood brothers would do.
Sa‘d offered his brother, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with them), half his wealth and asked him to choose one of his wives, so that he would divorce her, and after her ‘Iddah expired he could marry her. However, ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) rejected the (exceptionally) generous offer and said: “I am not in need of all that. Is there any marketplace where trade is practiced?” He guided him to the marketplace of Qaynuqaa‘, which was named after one of the Jewish tribes in Al-Madeenah.
‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) frequently visited the marketplace and engaged in the trade of dried buttermilk (yogurt) and butter, and continued to work until he earned money. Afterward, he (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet ﷺ having traces of yellow (scent) on his body (i.e., customarily applied to the groom in wedding ceremonies). The Prophet ﷺasked him whether he had got married, and he (may Allah be pleased with him) replied in the affirmative. The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Whom have you married?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, 'A woman from the Ansaar.' He (may Allah be pleased with him) married the daughter of Anas ibn Raafi‘, from Banee ‘Abd Al-Ashhal. The Prophet ﷺ asked, 'How much did you pay her (as dower)?' He (may Allah be pleased with him) replied, '(I gave her) a gold piece equal in weight to a date stone (or a date stone of gold)! This was equivalent to the weight of three Dirhams and one third.
The Prophet ﷺ commanded him to throw a wedding banquet even with one sheep. A wedding banquet is thrown on the occasion of marriage and may be done with one sheep or more, according to one’s financial ability. If someone cannot afford it, there is no harm in that. The Prophet ﷺ threw a wedding banquet with Saweeq (i.e., a liquid meal made of wheat and barley) and dates for some of his wives.
It was said the establishment of brotherhood bonds between the emigrants and the Ansaar (after the migration to Makkah) had two reasons. First, it conformed with the common practice of forming alliances in the pre-Islamic times with which they were familiar. The Arabs even used to establish inheritance rights based on their alliances. However, the Prophet ﷺ said: “There is no alliance in Islam!” Islam cancelled the practice of forming such alliances, but retained the practice of establishing ‘brotherhood bonds’ because human beings tend to develop an aversion when asked to give up the familiar all of a sudden.
Second, the emigrants came to Al-Madeenah while being in dire need of wealth and accommodation (as they left everything behind). They were graciously hosted by their fellow Muslim brothers from the Ansaar, and therefore Islam confirmed this manifestation of (the enjoined) solidarity by establishing brotherhood bonds between them. After the Battle of Badr, the practice of establishing ‘brotherhood bonds’ was no longer needed, because Muslims started gaining spoils of war.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that it is permissible to engage in trade, and that it is one of the noblest means of earning lawful wealth.
The hadeeth highlights the incomparable affection, love, and altruism embodied by the emigrants and the Ansaar during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ.
It is also inferred from the hadeeth that a Muslim is urged to throw a wedding banquet on the occasion of marriage.
It is also deduced that it is allowable for a Muslim man to wear perfume at his wedding ceremony.
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2055

Narrated Anas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ passed by a fallen date and said, "Were it not for my doubt that this might have been given in charity, I would have eaten it." It was narrated on the authority of Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) the Prophet ﷺ said, "I found a date fruit fallen on my bed.".

Commentary :
Allah, Exalted is He, deemed it prohibited for His Prophet ﷺ or his household to avail themselves of charity, even an insignificant amount.
In this hadeeth, Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him) stated that the Prophet ﷺpassed by a fallen date once, and he ﷺ did not know its source or owner. He ﷺ said that he would have eaten it had not he any doubt that it may have been given in charity. Therefore, he ﷺ refrained from eating it to avoid such doubts.
Another version of the hadeeth reads: "I found a date fruit fallen on my bed," meaning he ﷺ refrained from eating a date fruit fallen in his own home lest it was given in charity, because he ﷺ used to distribute the dates offered in charity to the poor; it was possible that some date fruits could have clung to his garment and fallen on his bed or the like, or that he ﷺ was collecting dates given in charity in his house to distribute them and feared that this date belonged to them. Therefore, he ﷺ refrained from eating the it out of his mindfulness of Allah, lest it was given in charity.He would not eat it unless he ﷺ verified that it belonged to the household supply.
The hadeeth highlights the enjoined mindfulness of Allah and abandoning doubtful matters.
It is deduced from it that it is permissible to eat food that is thrown away by the road, because the Prophet ﷺ refrained from eating that date fruit only out of his mindfulness of Allah, lest it was given in charity.
It is also inferred therefrom that a Muslim’s wealth and property that only declared unlawful and inviolable to his fellow Muslims (as per the laws of Islam) is that which has a value.
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2057

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
Some people said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! Meat is brought to us by some people and we are not sure whether the Name of Allah has been mentioned on it or not (at the time of slaughtering the animals)." Allah's Messenger ﷺ said (to them), "Mention the Name of Allah and eat it.".

Commentary :
The Prophet ﷺclarified for us the laws and rulings of religion and made clear the precise divine texts and the broadly indicative ones. He ﷺ detailed the rulings regarding food and beveragesand clarified the situations in which one is urged to avoid obsessiveness and doubts lest people should fall into hardship.
In this hadeeth, ‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that a group of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet ﷺ about the ruling on eating the meat of an animal when they were not sure whether or not the Name of Allah had been mentioned when it was being slaughtered, because the one who slaughtered it was a recent convert, as stated in the version cited in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, reading: “…a recent convert to Islam.” Another version reads: “… recent converts from polytheism.”
The Prophet ﷺ clarified to them that there was no harm in eating such meat and that they should simply presume that the Name of Allah had been mentioned upon it during the slaughter. He ﷺ instructed them to mention the Name of Allah upon eating it, as is prescribed when eating any food.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that a Muslim is urged to have good expectations of his fellow Muslims.
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2059

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "A time will come when one will not care much how he gains his wealth, lawfully or unlawfully!".

Commentary :
Islam urges Muslims to seek lawful provision and ensure that they obtain wealth from lawful sources only. It underlines the reward for that act, and also warns against availing oneself of what is unlawful, in all its forms and in all facets of life.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ foretold that the Muslims’ situation would change and there would come a time when religiosity would be weakened, consciences and inner moral characters would be corrupted, and people would greedily vie with one another to accumulate more wealth, caring less about its sources, whether it was acquired through lawful or unlawful means! They would not bother ensuring that their wealth was acquired from lawful means only, such as permissible sales or working and earning a living. They would not mind gaining wealth from unlawful means such as theft, embezzlement, Ribaa (i.e., interest, usury), gambling, bribery, etc. Their ultimate aim and sole purpose would be acquiring wealth and raising money without verifying the lawfulness of the means of its acquisition.
The hadeeth includes a stern warning against acquiring wealth from unlawful means.
It also highlights the Prophet’s forecast of people’s situation at the end of time, and this falls under the category of disapproval, admonition, and warning. The hadeeth also underlines one of the Prophet’s miracles, foretelling future events..

2060

Aboo Al-Minhaal narrated:
I used to practice money exchange, and I asked Al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib and Zayd ibn Arqam about it, and they said: “We engaged in trade during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ and we asked about practicing money exchange (currency trading). He ﷺ replied, 'If the exchange is hand to hand, there is no harm in it; otherwise, it is not permissible.’".

Commentary :
Islam warns against falling into Ribaa (i.e., interest-based-loans, usury, etc.) in all its forms, because it involves devouring people's money unlawfully, and wipes out the blessing of one’s wealth.
In this hadeeth, the Taabi‘ee Aboo Al-Minhaal ‘Abdul-Rahmaan ibn Mut‘im Al-Bunaanee stated that he asked Al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib and Zayd ibn Arqam about the ruling on money exchange, like exchanging gold or Dinars for silver or Dirhams, and vice versa, or selling gold for gold, or silver for silver. They told him that they had engaged in trade during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ, encountered such transactions, and asked him about the ruling on money exchange or currency trading. He ﷺ clarified that if the exchange is done hand to hand, there is no harm in that, as long as the Taqaabudh requirement (i.e., reciprocal taking possession of the purchased commodity and its monetary equivalent by the buyer and seller respectively in the contracting session) is fulfilled. However, if the exchange or receipt when selling one currency for another currency or gold is delayed, it is prohibited (i.e., the exchange must be hand to hand).
It is deduced from the hadeeth that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) used to work in trade and earn their living.
The hadeeth also urges Muslims to keenly investigate the lawfulness and unlawfulness of work dealings and business transactions.
It is also deduced that Taqaabudh (or immediate hand-to-hand exchange) is required in transactions that involve Ribaa Al-Fadhl (i.e., exchange or sale transactions in trade which effectively result in the charging of ‘interest’ through the exchange of the same commodity, but of a different quality or quantity).
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2062

‘Ubayd ibn ‘Umayr narrated: Aboo Moosaa sought permission to enter ‘Umar’s house, but was not given permission, because ‘Umar was busy, and therefore Aboo Moosaa left. When ‘Umar finished his task he said, "Did not I hear the voice of ‘Abdullah ibn Qays? Let him come in." ‘Umar was told that he had left. So, he sent for him and on his arrival, he (Aboo Moosaa) said, "We were ordered to do so (i.e., to leave if not admitted after seeking permission thrice). ‘Umar told him, "Bring a witness to prove your statement!" Aboo Moosaa went to the Ansaar's meeting places and asked them. They said, "None amongst us will witness to this except the youngest of us, Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree. Aboo Moosaa then took Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree (to ‘Umar) and ‘Umar said, surprisingly, "Has this command of Allah's Messenger ﷺ been hidden from me?" (Then he (may Allah be pleased with him) added), "I was preoccupied with trading in marketplaces!".

Commentary :
The Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) used to comply with the Prophet’s ﷺcommands and adhere to the Islamic etiquettes, and they (may Allah be pleased with them) left the most wonderful legacy attesting that.
In this hadeeth, the Tabi’ee (Follower) ‘Ubayd ibn ‘Umayr stated that Aboo Moosaa, ‘Abdullah ibn Qays Al-Ash’aree (may Allah be pleased with him) sought permission thrice to enter ‘Umar’s house, as recorded in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim. However, the Caliph ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was busy and did not give him permission to enter, and therefore he left. When ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) finished his task, he ordered that Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) should be given permission to enter, but he was told that he had left. ‘Umar summoned Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with them) and inquired about his reason for leaving instead of waiting to be given permission to enter. Aboo Moosaa told him that he was acting upon the command of the Prophet ﷺ in this regard. It has been narrated in Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim that the Prophet ﷺ said: “When one of you seeks permission thrice to enter and it is not granted to him, he should go back.” Upon hearing the hadeeth, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was shocked that such etiquette should have missed him, while he (may Allah be pleased with him) accompanied the Prophet ﷺ in residence and travel! He (may Allah be pleased with him) feared that Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) might have been confused and therefore asked him to bring a witness to testify to the authenticity of this act of Sunnah so that people would not take lightly the attribution of a statement or an act to the Prophet ﷺ. Aboo Moosaa (may Allah be pleased with him) went to the Ansaar’s meeting place and asked them to testify with him that this hadeeth was authentically attributed to the Prophet ﷺ. Since this matter was well-known and quite common among the Ansaar, they sent with Aboo Moosaa a young Companion Aboo Sa’eed Al-Khudree to ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them), and he testified as to the authenticity of the relevant hadeeth. Upon knowing that and learning of the authentic hadeeth on that act of Sunnah, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) attributed the reason for his lack of knowledge of it to his preoccupation with trade and spending a lot of time in the marketplaces. The Arabic word ‘Safq’ used in the hadeeth means handshakes upon concluding sales transactions.
It is deduced from the hadeeth that Muslims are required to investigate the authenticity of any statement before attributing it to the Prophet ﷺ.
It is also inferred that when a Companion (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “We were commanded”, it meant that the Prophet ﷺ commanded them.
The hadeeth also highlights that senior Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) engaged in trade and worked to earn their living.
It is also deduced from the hadeeth that the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) complied with the Prophet’s command and accepted it upon verifying its authenticity.
It is also inferred therefrom that even a knowledgeable scholar (like ‘Umar) may be ignorant of some knowledge issues that may be known to someone else who is less knowledgeable!
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2066

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "If a woman spends something (i.e., in charity) from her husband's earnings without his permission, he will get half the reward.".

Commentary :
In this hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ highly praised spending in charity and emphasized its reward, urging Muslims to spend more in charity. He ﷺ also underlined the reward earned by both the husband and wife when she spends in charity from her husband's earnings without his explicit consent, while knowing his tacit approval of such disposal of his wealth; or in the case that such act of disposal is customarily pardoned and approved. An example is when she offers in charity an insignificant amount of food or money. However, if she spends a significant amount of food or money in charity without his explicit consent and such an act is not customarily pardoned and approved, she earns no reward for her act and rather bears a sin for it.
If she spends in charity seeking to earn the pleasure of Allah, Exalted is He, the husband is credited with half the reward. She would earn the reward for spending in charity, and her husband would be credited with the reward for earning this money. It has also been said that the hadeeth rather means that the husband gets an equal share in the reward of spending charity; each gets half the reward, since whoever guides someone to a good deed receives a reward similar to that of its doer (i.e.,without his reward being diminished in any respect), and this entails having equal shares of the reward.
It is said that the money spent in charity, for which a husband gets half the reward when his wife spends, should be surplus to the enjoined maintenance on one’s household and children, after fulfilling their needs without extravagance or squandering.
It has also been said that the hadeeth refers to the case when a husband gives an allowance to his wife to provide for herself and her household. If she spends from such money without his knowledge, the reward is shared by them both; she gets the reward of spending in charity and he gets the reward for earning this money, and because he is also rewarded for the money he spends on his family in general. The wife gets the reward because this money was taken from the enjoined maintenance for her (and her household).
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2067

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him):
I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "Whoever desires to have his Rizq (i.e., provisions) and life span expanded (i.e., blessed), should uphold ties of kinship.".

Commentary :
Upholding ties of kinship is one of the best acts of worship by means of which a person draws closer to his Lord, who commanded it, and warned against cutting it off. He even deems severing ties of kinship a cause to incur His punishment, and its upholding as a good deed warranting reward.
In this hadeeth, the Prophet ﷺ stated the virtues and merits of upholding ties of kinship in this worldly life. The reference to ties of kinship incorporates all one’s relatives bonded by kinship ties, whether they are heirs or non-heirs, and the obligation of upholding ties of kinship is further emphasized the closer in kinship a relative.
He ﷺ stated that upholding ties of kinship is rewarded with having one’s Rizq (provision) blessed, and whoever wishes to earn such reward should uphold ties of kinship. He ﷺ also stated that such a good deed is rewarded with having one’s lifespan blessed, meaning to guide him to acts of worship and obedience, preoccupying his time with what benefits him in the Hereafter, and guarding him against wasting his life in other futile activities. It could also mean that his good remembrance would live longer after his death. It has also been said that there are two ends to one’s life on earth; one end is unconditional and only known to Allah and the second is conditional. Allah, Exalted is He, commands an angel to write down the lifespan of a given person, and it is said that he also writes: “If he upholds ties of kinship, he shall live until such-and-such time!” The angel does not have knowledge of whether or not this person’s lifespan shall be extended; this is only Known to Allah, Exalted is He.
Muslims are urged to uphold ties of kinship in countless religious texts. Upholding ties of kinship can be done by visiting one’s relatives when they are sick, checking in on them, paying them visits, talking nicely to them, helping them do what is good and righteous, spending in charity for the poor among them, offering gifts to the rich ones, and the like of what is customarily considered a means to uphold ties of kinship. It is noteworthy that ties of kinship are not merely upheld with those who uphold ties of kinship with us. The Prophet ﷺ said: “A person who perfectly upholds ties of kinship is not the one who does it to reciprocate or recompense those relatives (for being kind and good to them), but the one who truly upholds ties of kinship is the one who persistently upholds them even though such relatives have severed ties of kinship with him.” [Al-Bukhaaree].
It is deduced from the hadeeth that some good deeds may have lasting impacts and keep the doer’s good memory alive after his death, and may cause his lifespan to be blessed, beyond his actual lifespan..

1471

Ibn ‘Umar reported that he divorced his wife during her menstruation in the Prophet's lifetime. So, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb asked the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) about that and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Order him to take her back and keep her until she attains purity, then menstruates, then attains purity. Then, if he wishes he may keep her, and if he wishes he may divorce her before having intercourse with her. This is the ‘Iddah (waiting period) that Allah Almighty has ordered for the divorce of women." [Another version reads]: That he divorced his wife during her menstruation, once. So, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded him to take her back and keep her until she attains purity, then menstruates again, while still being with him, then to give her time until she attains purity from her menstruation. After that, if he wanted to divorce her, he could do so when she becomes pure before having sexual intercourse with her, as this is the ‘iddah that Allah commanded for the divorce of women. [Another version reads]: On being asked about this, ‘Abdullah said to someone: "If you divorced your wife once or twice, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded me to do this. However, if you have divorced her thrice, she became forbidden to you until she is married to another man, and you have disobeyed Allah regarding what He commanded you in divorcing your wife.".

Commentary : The legislated divorce is that one divorces his wife one time while being pure (of her menses) without having sexual intercourse with her during this period of purity. It is called Talāq Sunni (Sunnah-compliant divorce). As for the forbidden divorce, it is to divorce one's wife more than once in one utterance, or to divorce her during her menstruation, or during a period of purity in which he had sexual intercourse with her. This is called Talāq Bid‘i (Heretic divorce).
In this Hadīth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) narrates that he divorced his wife - her name was Āminah bint Ghifār, and it was said: Āminah bint ‘Ammār, and there are other opinions as well - during her menstruation before attaining purity, and that was in the Prophet's lifetime. His father, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb, went to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and asked him about the ruling on this divorce that occurred during menstruation, whether it is permissible or not, and whether it counts or not. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded him to order his son, ‘Abdullah, to take her back in marriage and keep her with him "until she attains purity" from the menstruation in which he divorced her, "then menstruates" again, "then attains purity" from the second menstruation. After attaining purity from the second menstruation, he could keep her as his wife if he wished or he could divorce her in the second period of purity before having intercourse with her. This state, namely the state of purity, is the time for starting "the ‘Iddah that Allah Almighty has commanded for the divorce," i.e., during which, "women", as Allah Almighty says: {O Prophet, when you [believers] divorce women, divorce them with concern to their waiting period.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1] That is to say, divorce them while receiving their ‘Iddah, i.e., at the time they could start the ‘Iddah, and the period of menstruation is not counted in the ‘Iddah. So, if one divorces during this time, his divorce does not occur in the state commanded by Allah, which is starting and entering the ‘Iddah, when the divorce occurs during the period of her purity not during the period of her menstruation. This is because, during the purity period, she can keep an accurate count of her ‘Iddah, which is three Qurū’ (menstrual cycles), and "qur’" is purity, and it was said: menstruation.
In another version, Muhammad ibn Rumh - one of the Hadīth narrators - added: Whenever ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar was asked about divorcing a woman during menstruation, he would say to the questioner: If you divorced your wife once or twice then take her back, as the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded me to do so. However, if you divorced her thrice then this is an irrevocable divorce and you cannot take her back and she becomes forbidden for you "until she is married to another man," and he has sexual intercourse with her and then divorces her. After her ‘Iddah is over, she becomes lawful for you again to marry.
And by doing this, you disobeyed Allah and went against Him "regarding what He commanded you in divorcing your wife" during the purity state in which you had intercourse with her, as Allah Almighty says: {O Prophet, when you [believers] divorce women, divorce them with concern to their waiting period.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1]
This clarifies that the divorce counts, whether it is Sunni or Bid‘i. The fact that the Bid‘i divorce is forbidden does not entail that it does not occur. It only means that whoever does this deliberately is considered sinful, yet the divorce still counts.
In a version of Muslim, Anas ibn Sīrīn said to Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father): "Was that divorce that you gave her when she was menstruating counted as such?" and you considered it one of the three divorces. "‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar said: Why would I not count it? (It must be counted) even if I failed and acted foolishly," i.e, failed to fulfill an obligation or acted foolishly and did not fulfill it, or failed to take her back and acted foolishly. Would that be an excuse for him, or would his foolishness make it not count, or would his failure invalidate it?! It is a question of disapproval whose answer is supposed to be: Yes, it is counted, and his failure and foolishness do not prevent it from being counted.
The Hadīth indicates the keenness of Islam to restrict the circumference of divorce as much as possible, and if it happens, it does not cause harm to any of the spouses.
It also indicates that the husband alone has the right to Raj‘ah (taking the wife back) without the guardian..

1472

Ibn ‘Abbās reported: The triple divorce during the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and that of Abu Bakr and two years of the caliphate of ‘Umar was counted as one. Then ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb said: "Indeed, people have hastened to a matter regarding which they used to act with deliberation. So, if we would make them count (as three divorces)," and he did that..

Commentary : Allah Almighty has made divorce a kind of respite between the spouses when life between them becomes impossible. In Islam, divorce has certain criteria and results in a number of rights.
In this Hadīth, ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbās (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: During the lifetime of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and that of Abu Bakr and two years of ‘Umar's caliphate, whoever triply divorced his wife in one session or in one time, would count as a single divorce. An example of this is saying: "You are divorced thrice," or saying: "You are divorced. You are divorced. You are divorced." Then the husband can take his wife back during the period of ‘Iddah (waiting period) without a new contract. If the ‘Iddah is over, he can take her back with a new contract. It is not counted as three divorces that would make his wife unlawful for him until she is married to another man. It is deemed to refer to what was most likely meant, which was the intent of confirmation, not for continuing the count. During the lifetime of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), people used this form frequently while most likely intending to continue the count not by way of confirmation. Hence, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) made it count as three divorces. He said: "Indeed, people have hastened to a matter regarding which they used to act with deliberation," i.e., they were entitled to three divorces to give themselves a chance to reconsider their affairs, as it might seem better for them to take their wives back. His saying: "So if we made them count," i.e., He consulted those who were with him from the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) regarding the one who gave three divorces all at once to make such a divorce an irrevocable triple divorce as he uttered, to deter them from rushing into divorce. Thus, he enforced it on people after consulting the senior Companions and their agreement with him.
This is interpreted from him (may Allah be pleased with him) as a form of Ijtihād and laying down rules that would bring benefit to his subjects within the boundaries of Shariah, without making things too difficult or too easy..

1476

‘Ā’ishah reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to seek our permission on the day he had to stay with one of his wives (by turns) after the following verse was revealed: {You [O Prophet] may postpone [the turn of] whoever you wish [of your wives], and you may share your time with whoever of them you wish.} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 51] Mu‘ādhah said to her: What did you use to say to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) when he asked your permission? She said: I used to say: Were it up to me, I would not give anyone preference over myself..

Commentary : The Prophet's wives loved him dearly to the extent that they used to compete to please him and show their love to him.
In this Hadīth, the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to ask permission from his wife, whose turn was due, to go to another one of his wives. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives, and he used to allocate a day for each to stay with her overnight. This act of his seeking permission was after the revelation of the following verse: {You [O Prophet] may postpone [the turn of] whoever you wish [of your wives], and you may share your time with whoever of them you wish, and there is no blame on you if you call back any of those whose turn you have set aside. That is more likely that they will be content and not distressed, and that they will be satisfied with what you give them all. Allah knows what is in your hearts, and Allah is All-Knowing, Most Forbearing.} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 51] This verse means: O Messenger, you have the right to delay the turn of whoever you wish of your wives and not stay overnight with her, and you have the right to share your time with whoever you wish of them and stay overnight with her; and there is no blame on you if you call back any of those whom you have delayed. Giving you the choice and making things flexible for you are more likely to make your wives content and satisfied with what you give them all for knowing that you have not neglected duty and have not withheld a right, and Allah knows what is in your hearts - O men - of inclination to some women apart from others, as Allah is All-Knowing of His slaves' actions and nothing thereof is hidden from Him, and He is Most Forbearing and does not hasten to punish them hoping that they may return to Him in repentance.
The female Tābi‘i Mu‘ādhah al-‘Adawiyyah asked ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "What did you use to say to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) when he asked for your permission?" ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) replied that she used to say to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him): "Were it up to me," i.e., if this act of seeking permission is in my hands, "I would not give anyone preference over myself," i.e., I would not give my day to another wife. This was due to her love to be close to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to serve him, enjoy intimacy with him, and benefit from him.
Such a competition between his wives was not for mere pleasure, intimacy, personal desires, and enjoyment, as is the case with some people. Instead, it was a competition for matters related to the Hereafter and for being close to the master of the first and the last, for expecting the descent of mercy and revelation upon him while being with her and so on.
The Hadīth clarifies one of the Prophet's exclusive rights, namely choosing whomever he wished from his wives whenever he wished.
It also points out some of the etiquettes between spouses and teaches them how a man should seek his wives' permission when sharing his time with them and how the woman should show him love and affection..

1478

Jābir ibn ‘Abdullah reported: Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) came and sought permission to see the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). He found people sitting at his door and none amongst them had been granted permission, but it was granted to Abu Bakr and he went in. Then came ‘Umar and he sought permission and it was granted to him. He found the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sitting sad and silent with his wives around him, and said: He said: I would say something that would make the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) laugh. So, he said: "O Messenger of Allah, I wish you had seen the daughter of Khārijah when she asked me for extra money, and I got up and slapped her on the neck. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) laughed and said: "They are around me as you see, asking for extra money." So, Abu Bakr got up and slapped ‘Ā’ishah on the neck, and ‘Umar got up and slapped Hafsah on the neck. Both of them did this saying: "Are you asking the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) what he does not have?!" They said: "By Allah, we would never ask the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for something that he does not have." Then he retreated from them for a month or for twenty-nine days. Then, the following verse was revealed to him: {O Prophet, tell your wives} until the part that reads {for those who do good among you a great reward.} [Surat al-Azāb: 28-29] He said: So, he started with ‘Ā’ishah, saying: "O ‘Ā’ishah, I want to propound something to you but I wish you not to be hasty concerning it until you consult your parents." She said: "What is that, O Messenger of Allah?" So he recited the verse to her. She said: "Is it concerning you, O Messenger of Allah, that I should consult my parents?! Nay, I choose Allah, His Messenger, and the Final Abode; but I ask you not to tell any of your wives what I have said." He said: "None of them asks me except that I will inform her. Allah did not send me to be harsh, or cause harm, but He sent me to teach and make things easy.".

Commentary : The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was generous with his wives and provided for them from what Allah granted him. However, he used to spend often on the cause of Allah and on what would benefit people, leaving only a little for himself and his family. This led to some harm felt by his wives; however, Allah Almighty gave them the choice to either endure life patiently or get a divorce and be separated from him kindly.
In this Hadīth, Jābir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) narrates: Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) once came and sought permission to see the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and found people sitting at his door and none among them was granted permission to see the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) granted Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) permission and he entered. Then, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet's house and sought permission to enter and he permitted him. On entering, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) found the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sitting with his wives around him and he was intensely sad, so much so that he stopped talking. So, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to himself - and it was said: The speaker was Abu Bakr - (may Allah be pleased with him): "I should say something that would make the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) laugh." So, he said: "O Messenger of Allah, I wish you had seen," i.e., if you knew that my wife, the daughter of Khārijah, asked and requested from me an extra amount of money, more than the usual or more than needed, so I got up and "slapped her on the neck," i.e., hit her neck with my hand. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) laughed out of the resemblance between his condition and that of ‘Umar. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "They", referring to his wives, are sitting "around me as you see, asking for extra money" and requesting more money than the usual amount. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said this, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) got up and went to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) to slap her on the neck by way of discipline. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) also got up to slap his daughter Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) on the neck by way of discipline, and each of them was saying to his daughter: "Are you asking the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) for what he does not have?!" It was an expression of rebuke and reprimand for them because of their asking for an extra amount of money while the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not have it. "They said: By Allah, we would never ask the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)," after this "something that he does not have." The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) got angry because of this and he retreated from his wives for thirty or twenty-nine days without entering their houses or approaching them. Then, the following verses were revealed: {O Prophet, tell your wives, “If you seek the life of this world and its embellishments, then come, I will give you provision and release you graciously. But if you seek Allah and His Messenger and the Final Abode, then Allah has prepared for those who do good among you a great reward.”} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 28-29] The two verses mean: O Prophet, tell your wives when they ask you for an increase in sustenance and you have nothing to give them as an extra amount: If you seek the life of this world and its embellishments, then come I will give you provision that is given to the divorced women and release you in a way that involves no harm or damage. However, if you seek Allah's pleasure and the pleasure of His Messenger, and you seek Paradise in the Final Abode, then endure your conditions patiently, as Allah has prepared for those who do good among you, through patience and good treatment, a great reward.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) started with ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) in giving her the choice. He called her and informed her that he had something to propound to her and that he wished she would not hasten to give him a reply without consulting her parents. Perhaps this was out of fear for her because of her young age which entailed the desire for worldly embellishments and her not choosing the Hereafter. She asked the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) about that matter and he recited the verse to her, so she hastened to accept being with the Messenger of Allah, and she said: "Is it concerning you," i.e., being separated from you, or staying with you, or regarding your right, "O Messenger of Allah, that I should consult my parents?!" And she told him that she chose Allah, His Messenger, and the Final Abode. She also asked him (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) not to tell any of his wives about her reply out of her jealousy and keenness to have the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) all for herself and enjoy a great deal of his company. In response, he (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "None of them asks me except that I will inform her," to help her make her choice. He justified this by saying that Allah did not send him to be harsh, i.e., causing someone to be in a difficult situation and "‘anat", meaning difficulty and sin as well, "or cause harm," i.e., seek others' mistakes. "But He sent me to teach" people goodness and make things easy. Facilitation here lies in the fact that if he informed them, his other wives would follow the example of ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and it would be easy for them to choose Allah Almighty, His Messenger (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), and the Final Abode.
This Hadīth points out that asking permission is from the Prophet's guidance.
It also indicates that one can discipline one's child, even if he grew up.
It shows the ascetic life of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and his abstention from worldly life.
It also demonstrates how the Companions used to console the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) in his sadness.
It denotes the merit of Abu Bakr, ‘Umar, and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them)..

1479

‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb reported: When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) secluded himself from his wives, he ('Umar) said: I entered the mosque and found the people pelting the ground with pebbles and saying: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) divorced his wives, and that was before they were commanded with Hijāb. ‘Umar said: I said: I must find this out today. He said: I entered upon ‘Ā’ishah and said: O daughter of Abu Bakr, have you gone to the extent of giving trouble to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)?! She said: O Ibn al-Khattāb, stay out of my affairs and mind your receptacle. He said: So, I entered upon Hafsah bint ‘Umar and said to her: O Hafsah, have you gone to the extent of giving trouble to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)?! By Allah, you know that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) does not love you, and had it not been for me, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would have divorced you. So, she wept bitterly. I said to her: Where is the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)? She said: He is in his cabinet in the attic room. I went there and found Rabāh, the servant of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), sitting on the attic's doorstep with his legs dangling on carved wood, which is a trunk used by the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ascend and descend. I called out: O Rabāh, seek permission for me from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Rabāh looked at the room then looked at me and said nothing. Then, I said: O Rabāh, seek permission for me from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). Rabāh looked at the room then looked at me and said nothing. Then, I raised my voice and said: O Rabāh, seek permission for me from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). I think the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought I had come for Hafsah's sake. By Allah, if the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commands me to strike her neck, I will undoubtedly strike her neck. I raised my voice, and he signaled to me to ascend. I entered upon the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) while he was lying on a straw mat. I sat down and he drew up his lower garment over him and he had nothing else on him, and the mat had left marks on his side. I looked around in the cabinet of the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and found only a handful of barley around one Sā‘ and an equal quantity of the leaves of mimosa flava placed in one side of the room, and a semi-tanned leather bag hanging. He said: Tears started falling from my eyes. He said: O Ibn al-Khattāb, what makes you weep? I said: O Prophet of Allah, how could I not weep when this straw mat has left marks on your side and I see nothing in your cabinet except what I have seen, while Caesar and Khosrau are enjoying fruits and rivers, whereas you are the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and His chosen one and this is your cabinet?! He said: O Ibn al-Khattāb, does it not please you that the Hereafter is for us and the worldly life is for them? I said: Yes. He said: When I entered upon him, I saw signs of anger on his face, so I said: O Messenger of Allah, what trouble have the women caused you? If you had divorced them, verily, Allah is with you, His angels, Jibrīl (Gabriel), Mikā’īl (Michael), I, Abu Bakr, and the believers are with you. I rarely spoke - thanks to Allah - any words except that I hoped Allah would confirm the words I uttered, and this verse, Āyat at-Takhyīr (the Verse of Choice), was revealed: {Perhaps, if he were to divorce you all, his Lord would replace you with better wives.} [Surat at-Tahrīm: 5] {But if you insist on conspiring against him, then indeed Allah is his Protector, as well as Gabriel and the righteous believers, and moreover, the angels are his supporters.} [Surat at-Tahrīm: 4] ‘Ā’ishah bint Abi Bakr and Hafsah were cooperating against the rest of the Prophet's wives. I said: O Messenger of Allah, did you divorce them? He said: No. I said: O Messenger of Allah, when I entered the mosque, I found the Muslims pelting the ground with pebbles and saying: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) divorced his wives. Should I go down and tell them that you did not divorce them? He said: Yes, if you wish. I kept talking to him until there were no more signs of anger on his face and until he laughed and his teeth showed, and he had the most charming front teeth of all people. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) descended and I descended while catching hold of the trunk, but the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went down as if he was walking on the ground without touching it with his hand. I said: O Messenger of Allah, you remained in your room for twenty-nine days. He said: The month consists of twenty-nine days. I, thus, stood at the door of the mosque and called out at the top of my voice: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not divorce his wives, and this verse was revealed: {Whenever they hear any news of security or fear, they spread it. If they referred it to the Messenger or to those in authority among them, those with sound judgment among them could know it.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 83] And it was I who drew correct conclusions and Allah Almighty revealed the Verse of Choice..

Commentary : Perhaps the Prophet's wives caused him trouble like women usually cause their husbands trouble, resulting from jealousy, vexation, and the like.
In this Hadīth, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) secluded himself from his wives and swore not to enter upon them, for he was angry with them, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) entered the Prophet's mosque "and found the people pelting the ground with pebbles," i.e., moving them around and throwing them on the ground, which is something normally done by someone concerned and absorbed in thought. "And saying: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) divorced his wives," i.e. when they saw how the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) kept himself away from his wives, they thought that he had divorced them, so they said this. "And that was before they were commanded with Hijāb," i.e., women conceal themselves from men. This remark is questionable; rather, it is a clear mistake since Hijāb was enjoined at the time of the Prophet's marriage to Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) in the fourth or fifth year, and Zaynab (may Allah be pleased with her) was among his wives who were given the choice; and the story of his seclusion from his wives and giving them the choice took place in the ninth year of Hijrah. The best thing said with this regard to: "that it was before they were commanded with Hijāb" is from the words of the narrator who, when seeing that 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said he had entered upon 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), thought that this was before Hijāb, so he affirmed it. This could be responded by saying: Entering does not entail removing Hijāb (screen), for he could enter from the door, and she could still talk to him from behind the screen.
Then, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that he said to himself: "I must find this out today," i.e., I must find out the truth about this, did the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) divorce them or not? So, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) entered upon ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), the Prophet's wife and Abu Bakr's daughter, and said to her: "O daughter of Abu Bakr, have you gone to the extent of giving trouble to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him)?!" blaming her for daring to infuriate the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "O Ibn al-Khattāb, stay out of my affairs," i.e., you are not entitled to admonish me "and mind your receptacle," i.e., rather, you should admonish the one who matters to you, referring to Hafsah bint ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with her). "‘Aybah" (receptacle): the container used for keeping clothes and precious belongings. A man's "‘aybah": his family and those close to him. Then, ‘Umar entered upon his daughter Hafsah and said to her what he had said to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with them) and added reprovingly: "By Allah, you know that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) does not love you, and had it not been for me, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would have divorced you," deterring and frightening her with divorce and the fact that if it had not been for ‘Umar's special status with the Prophet, this would have occurred. Thereupon, Hafsah cried bitterly because of her sadness about being separated from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and expecting her father to be severely mad at her. Then, ‘Umar asked his daughter (may Allah be pleased with both of them) where the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was. Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "He is in his cabinet in the attic room." "Mashrubah" (attic room): is an elevated room for storing food and drink. On entering, 'Umar found Rabāh (may Allah be pleased with him), the Prophet's servant, "sitting on the attic's doorstep," i.e., on the doorsill "with his legs dangling," i.e., stretching and hanging them "on carved wood", which is a trunk that had stairs used by the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ascend to the room and descend from that place using it as a stair. ‘Umar, then, called out to Rabāh (may Allah be pleased with both of them) to seek permission for him to enter upon the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, Rabāh looked inside the room, then, looked at ‘Umar and said nothing. This indirectly indicates that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had heard ‘Umar's voice; however, he expressed no approval or disapproval of permitting him. So, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) again sought permission from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), and Rabāh again looked at the room then looked at ‘Umar and said nothing. On the third time, ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) raised his voice so the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would hear him and he called out: "O Rabāh, seek permission for me from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). I think that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) thought I had come for Hafsah's sake," i.e., to apologize for what she did and defend her. "By Allah, if the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commands me to strike her neck, I will certainly strike her neck." This clarified why he sought permission, namely to console the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and bring him out of his sadness and not for anything related to his daughter Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her). Rabāh, thus, signaled with his head to ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) after the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had permitted him to ascend to him in his attic.
On entering upon the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), ‘Umar saw him "lying on a straw mat," i.e., lying on his side on the straw mat. Another version in the two "Sahīh Collections" reads: "And he was on a straw mat with nothing between him and the mat," i.e., he was lying thereon without any bedding. "Hasīr" (straw mat): a mat made of palm leaf stalks or others things. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) sat down, so the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) drew up his lower garment over his body to cover it more. "Izār" (lower garment): it is the garment used to cover the lower part of the body. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was not wearing anything except this lower garment. "and the mat had left marks on his side," i.e., it left marks on his side as a result of sleeping on it. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) looked around, exploring the room where the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was staying and found nothing but a handful - i.e., a pile - of barley equal to one Sā '. Sā‘: it is four Mudds, and one Mudd is equal to an amount that could fill both hands. He found an equal amount of "the leaves of mimosa flava placed in one side of the room," i.e., in one of its sides and at a distance from the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). It is said that "Qarazh" (mimosa flava) means: a kind of tree used in tanning leather. "And a semi-tanned leather bag hanging," which is leather that is not yet tanned. All this indirectly indicates the threadbareness of the place where the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) was staying and the straitened circumstances he was living in.
‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Tears started falling from my eyes," i.e., tears started flowing by way of sympathy for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asked him about the reason for his weeping, so ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) replied: "O Prophet of Allah, how could I not weep when this straw mat has left marks on your side and I see nothing in your cabinet except what I see, while Caesar and Khosrau are enjoying fruits and rivers, whereas you are the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and His chosen one and this is your cabinet?!" All this serves as an indirect reference to the bliss that the disbelievers enjoy compared to the conditions of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). What ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) meant is that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and the Muslims are more entitled to this bliss than the disbelievers. Khosrau: it is the title of the Persians' king. Caesar: it is the title of the Romans' king. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Ibn al-Khattāb, does it not please you that the Hereafter is for us and the worldly life is for them?" In this way, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) explained to him the logic of the worldly pleasures and that of the Hereafter, as part of Allah's immutable rule regarding His slaves is to make the disbelievers enjoy the worldly pleasures. In contrast, His believing slaves will enjoy the enjoyments of the Hereafter, taking into consideration the contradiction between these two types of pleasures and the believers' eternal abidance in the bliss of Paradise and, on the contrary, the disbelievers' eternal abidance in Hellfire. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Yes" it pleases me, O Messenger of Allah. There were signs of anger on the Prophet's face that ‘Umar noticed the moment he entered, so, ‘Umar said to him: "O Messenger of Allah, what trouble have the women caused you?" He was trying to alleviate the Prophet's sadness and anger. In other words, no trouble will befall you, and you should not care about any of their affairs. "If you had divorced them, verily, Allah is with you, His angels, Jibrīl (Gabriel):" the angel entrusted with the revelation, "Mikā’īl (Michael):" the angel entrusted with the rain and plants, "I, Abu Bakr, and the believers are with you" also with our support and assistance in Da‘wah (call to Allah) and the divine message. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that he rarely spoke - thanks be to Allah for this - words except that he hoped Allah would confirm the words he uttered, i.e., he was secretly asking Allah to confirm the soundness of his advice to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) with Qur’an. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was then informed that the Verse of Choice was revealed to confirm his speech with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). It is the verse where the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave his wives the choice either to remain as his wives or to be divorced and released, as Allah Almighty says: {But if you insist on conspiring against him, then indeed Allah is his Protector, as well as Gabriel and the righteous believers, and moreover, the angels are his supporters. Perhaps, if he were to divorce you all, his Lord would replace you with better wives.} [Surat at-Tahrīm: 4-5] It is said: There is no choice in these verses and mentioning it here is a delusion. In Al-Bukhāri's version, it was reported that ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: "The Prophet's wives backed each other against him out of jealousy, so, I said to them: Perhaps, if he were to divorce you all, his Lord would replace you with better wives; and so this verse was revealed." The sound opinion here is what was proven in the two Sahīh Collections and others, namely that the Verse of Choice is the verse where Allah Almighty says: {O Prophet, tell your wives, “If you seek the life of this world and its embellishments, then come, I will give you provision and release you graciously. But if you seek Allah and His Messenger and the Final Abode, then Allah has prepared for those who do good among you a great reward.”} [Surat al-Ahzāb: 28-29] It is said: There is a missing "and" probably in his saying: "The Verse of Choice", and the correct view is: "This verse and the Verse of Choice were revealed".
He reported that 'Ā’ishah and Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) used to cooperate against the rest of the Prophet's wives, forming a team together. The cause behind their excessive jealousy was divulging his secret, which made him upset and angry. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), then, asked the Messenger of Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) if he had divorced his wives, trying to find out the truth about what people were saying in the mosque. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) negated divorcing his wives, and 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) informed him of how the people felt sad for the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) because of what was circulated about him divorcing his wives. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), then asked for the Prophet's permission to go down to the people, inform them of the correct news, and clarify the truth for them to rejoice. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) agreed and said to him: "If you wish," i.e. if you like and want to do so.
‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that he kept talking to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) until there were no more signs of anger on his face and his teeth showed from laughing. "And he had the most charming front teeth of all people." "Thaghr" (front teeth): the mouth and front teeth. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) descended from the attic where he had been staying in seclusion, and ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) descended while catching hold of the trunk and resting on it. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) went down "as if he was walking on the ground without touching it with his hand," i.e., he did not need to rest on the trunk when coming down due to his strength. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Messenger of Allah, you remained in your room for twenty-nine," i.e., there is one day left to complete a month, as the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) swore not to have intercourse with his wives for a month. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The month consists of twenty-nine," i.e., this month was twenty-nine days. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) stood at the door of the mosque and called out at the top of his voice: "The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not divorce his wives", telling and informing the Prophet's Companions that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not divorce his wives contrary to what they had been saying, and this verse was revealed: {Whenever they hear any news of security or fear, they spread it. If they referred it to the Messenger or those in authority among them, those with sound judgment could know it.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 83] When the people said that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had divorced his wives based on no information from anyone and without verifying or checking this out, Allah Almighty blamed them because if they had referred this to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), he would have informed them of the truth about it, or they could have referred it to someone who could ask and find out the truth about it from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "And it was I who drew correct conclusions," i.e., verified this matter and checked it out.
"And Allah Almighty revealed the Verse of Choice," as previously mentioned. In the two Sahīh Collections, it was mentioned that ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: He started with me as the first woman. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I will mention something, but you should only hasten if you consult your parents. She said: Indeed, I know my parents would not order me to leave you." Al-Bukhāri's version reads: "Then, he gave all of his wives the choice, and they said the same as what ‘Ā’ishah had said."
In some narrations in the two Sahīh Collections, the following was reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) kept himself secluded from his wives because of the honey he used to drink in the house of Zaynab bint Jahsh. 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "I agreed with Hafsah that the one upon whom the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would enter should say: I can detect the smell of Maghāfīr in you, did you eat Maghāfīr - Maghāfīr: sweet gum that has a foul odor. When he entered upon one of them, she said that to him, and he said: No, but I drank honey in the house of Zaynab bint Jahsh, and I will not drink it again. Thereupon, this verse was revealed: {O Prophet, why do you prohibit [yourself from] what Allah has made lawful to you} to: {You both had better turn to Allah in repentance.} [Surat at-Tahrīm: 1-4] to ‘Ā’ishah and Hafsah, {And [remember] when the Prophet told one of his wives something in secret} [Surat at-Tahrīm: 3], as he said: No, but I drank honey." It is said: The reason is that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had sexual intercourse with his bondmaid Māriyah in the house of Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) and Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) learned about it. So, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) ordered her not to inform ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her). However, Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) revealed the Prophet's secret to ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her). It is also said: The reason is the things they did as a whole that enraged the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and not a specific incident.
The Hadīth shows the Prophet's good morals and how he would honor whoever smiled at him by smiling back at him.
It also indicates the manifest merit of ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him).
It points out how a man should advise his daughter and fix her manners towards her husband.
It also signifies that putting a lot of pressure on women is something dispraised.
It encourages favoring the Hereafter by performing acts of obedience, avoiding sins, and refraining from being preoccupied with the pursuit of worldly pleasures..

1480

Abu Is-hāq reported: I was with Al-Aswad ibn Yazīd sitting in the grand mosque, and Ash-Sha‘bi was with us, and he narrated the Hadīth of Fātimah bint Qays: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) entitled her to no housing or financial maintenance. Then, Al-Aswad took a handful of pebbles and threw it at him and said: Woe to you! How could you narrate this?! ‘Umar said: We must not abandon the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of our Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) on account of a woman's statement. We do not know whether she memorized or forgot. She is entitled to housing and financial maintenance. Allah Almighty says: {Do not force them out of their houses, nor should they leave unless they commit a clear shameful act.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1].

Commentary : Allah has prescribed divorce after sparing no effort in reconciliation between the spouses. He has clarified its rulings and consequences, and He has made it three incidents of divorce so that each of the spouses would reconsider his stance; otherwise, they should be separated after the third incident of divorce, and the woman becomes unlawful for him after that until she is married to another man.
This Hadīth is related to a story mentioned in the two Sahīh Collections and others about the female Companion Fātimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) who was triply divorced by her husband. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded her to move to the house of Ibn' Umm Maktūm - who was her cousin and was blind - and spend her 'Iddah (waiting period) there. He made her not entitled to financial maintenance for her particular case, as she used to offend her husband's family verbally or because she was in a desolate area and it was feared that someone might assault her; hence, he moved her to the house of Ibn' Umm Maktūm, as he was blind and would not see her. Fātimah bint Qays kept on narrating this Hadīth of hers after the Prophet's death; however, a group of the Companions disapproved of it. The Tābi‘i Abu Is-hāq as-Sabī‘i narrates that he was with Al-Aswad ibn Yazīd an-Nakha‘i - one of the Tābi‘is - in the great mosque, i.e., the grand mosque, which refers to the mosque of Kūfah, while Ash-Sha‘bi - ‘Āmir ibn Sharāhīl one of the Tābi‘is - was narrating the Hadīth of Fātimah bint Qays in this mosque, i.e., giving a legal fatwa based on this Hadīth. In this Hadīth, it is stated that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not make Fātimah entitled to housing or financial maintenance after being triply divorced. So, Al-Aswad took a handful of pebbles and threw them at him and said: "Woe to you!", i.e., may Allah afflict you with ruin and destruction. It was a common saying among the Arabs that was not intended as a supplication. "How could you narrate this?!" All this was meant to express Al-Aswad's disapproval of Ash-Sha‘bi's narration of this Hadīth. Then, he informed him that ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "We must not abandon the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of our Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) on account of a woman's statement," i.e., we do not rely on issuing a Fatwa (legal opinion) like this on the Hadīth of Fātimah, given the importance of such a Fatwa, because she might have memorized it in the wrong way or she might have forgotten. Perhaps what ‘Umar meant by the Prophet's Sunnah was what his rulings indicated of adhering to the Book of Allah not a specific Sunnah in this regard. ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), then, supported his saying that the triply divorced woman is entitled to housing and financial maintenance in her ‘Iddah by the verse in which Allah Almighty says: {O Prophet, when you [believers] divorce women, divorce them with consideration to their waiting period and keep a precise count of the waiting period, and fear Allah, your Lord. Do not force them out of their houses, nor should they leave unless they commit a clear shameful act.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1] In other words: O people, fear Allah your Lord and beware of disobeying Him by transgressing His limit; do not force your divorced wives out of their houses, where you made them live before divorce, until their ‘Iddah is over. "Shameful act" here refers to recalcitrance and bad morals. It is said: It means indecency towards her husband's family. It is also said that it means: Unless they commit adultery.
The Hadīth of Fātimah bint Qays was refuted by a group of the Companions, including ‘Umar, ‘Ā’ishah, and others who knew the Sunnah better than Fātimah bint Qays. Some considered the apparent meaning of the Hadīth and, thus, made the triply divorced woman entitled to spend her 'Iddah wherever she chooses without being obliged to spend the night at her ex-husband's house.
The Hadīth shows how a scholar should be corrected, even in his gatherings of knowledge, if he is mistaken.
It also highlights the Companions' keenness on adhering to the Qur’an and the authentic Sunnah..

1480

‘Ubaydullah ibn ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Utbah reported: Abu ‘Amr ibn Hafs ibn al-Mughīrah set out along with ‘Ali ibn Abi Tālib to Yemen. He sent to his wife, Fātimah bint Qays, one pronouncement of divorce that was still left from her divorce. He commanded Al-Hārith ibn Hishām and ‘Ayyāsh ibn Abi Rabī‘ah to give her alimony. They said to her: By Allah, there is no alimony for you unless you are pregnant. Thereupon, she went to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and informed him of what they had said. He said: There is no alimony for you. She, then, asked his permission to move, and he permitted her. She said: O Messenger of Allah, where? He said: To the house of Ibn ’Umm Maktūm, as he was blind and she could take off her clothes in his presence and he would not see her. When her ‘Iddah (waiting period) was over, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her in marriage to Usāmah ibn Zayd. Marwān sent Qabīsah ibn Dhu’ayb to ask her about the Hadīth, and she narrated it to him, whereupon Marwān said: We have not heard this Hadīth except from a woman. We shall adopt a safe path that we have found people upon. On hearing what Marwān said, Fātimah said: The Qur’an is between me and you. Allah Almighty says: {Do not force them out of their houses.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1] She said: This is regarding revocable divorce. What happens after the three? Why do you say there is no alimony for her if she is not pregnant? Then, on what grounds do you restrain her?.

Commentary : Allah has prescribed divorce and clarified its rulings and consequences after sparing no effort in reconciliation between the spouses. He has made it three incidents of divorce so that each of the spouses would reconsider their stance; otherwise, they should be separated after the third incident of divorce, and the woman becomes unlawful for him after that until she is married to another man.
In this Hadīth, the Tābi‘i ‘Ubaydullah ibn ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Utbah reports that the Companion Abu ‘Amr ibn Hafs ibn al-Mughīrah (may Allah be pleased with him) set out on a journey along with ‘Ali ibn Abi Tālib (may Allah be pleased with him) to Yemen when the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent him there. Abu ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) sent to his wife Fātimah bint Qays a pronouncement of divorce while traveling. He had previously divorced her twice and had taken her back, and this was the third incident that made the divorce irrevocable. Abu ‘Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) commanded Al-Hārith ibn Hishām and ‘Ayyāsh ibn Abi Rabī‘ah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) to give her alimony. Another version narrated by Muslim reads: "He sent his deputy to her with barley, " but Fātimah declined it because she found it inadequate and did not accept it. They said to her: "By Allah, there is no alimony for you" because you are irrevocably divorced, and alimony is not for someone in your case "unless you are pregnant". In the version of An-Nasā’i: "So, she sent to Al-Hārith and 'Ayyāsh asking them for the alimony that was appointed for her by her husband, and they said: By Allah, no alimony is due on us for her unless she is pregnant, and she is not entitled to live in our house except with our permission." Thereupon, Fātimah went to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and informed him of what they had said, namely that she was not entitled to alimony unless she was pregnant. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) approved of what they had said and said to her: "There is no alimony for you." She then sought the Prophet's permission to move from her house, where she was divorced, as she was afraid for herself. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) permitted her to move to the house of her cousin Ibn' Umm Maktūm as he was blind and would not see her when taking off her clothes. His permission for her to go out is justified by the fact that he permitted her to move for an excuse, namely her indecency towards her husband's relatives or her fear that she might be assaulted, as mentioned in the narrations. However, if there is no need, then it is impermissible for her to go out or move, and it is forbidden to move her. Allah Almighty says: {Do not force them out of their houses, nor should they leave unless they commit a clear shameful act.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1] "Shameful act" here refers to recalcitrance and bad morals. It is said: It means indecency towards her husband's family. It is also said that it means: Unless they commit adultery.
When her 'Iddah was over, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave her in marriage to Usāmah ibn Zayd (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) for knowing that he was religious, virtuous, had good morals and noble traits.
At that time, Marwān ibn al-Hakam was the ruler of Madīnah. He sent Qabīsah ibn Dhu’ayb to Fātimah (may Allah be pleased with her) to ask about this Hadīth, and she narrated it to him. The reason why Marwān asked her was mentioned in the version of An-Nasā’i: "'Abdullah ibn' Amr ibn' Uthmān, being a young man in the emirate of Marwān, divorced the daughter of Sa‘īd ibn Zayd and her mother was Bint Qays al-Battah. So, her maternal aunt, Fātimah bint Qays, sent to her commanding her to move from the house of 'Abdullah ibn' Amr. When Marwān heard about that, he sent to the daughter of Sa‘īd, commanding her to return to her house and asking her why she moved from her house before completing her 'Iddah." She informed him of the Hadīth of Fātimah, thereupon, Marwān was sent to Fātimah to verify this Hadīth. After hearing her Hadīth, Marwān said: "We have not heard this Hadīth except from a woman," by way of disapproval, and before Marwān, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb and ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with both of them) expressed their disapproval of Fātimah's Hadīth. Marwān said: "We shall adopt a safe path that we found people upon," i.e., what is reliable, strong, and authentic and what people held fast upon and adhered to and acted upon. In other words, we shall adopt the opinion that a woman must not leave her house except after her ‘Iddah is over and that there is no alimony for her. On hearing what Marwān said and how he prevented the irrevocably divorced woman from leaving her house under all circumstances, Fātimah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: The Qur’an is between me and you, Allah Almighty says: {Do not force them out of their houses.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1] Taking this as supporting evidence, she said: This prohibition, which is understood from the first part of the verse, addresses the husband who can take back his wife, i.e., the housing is for the divorced woman whose divorce is revocable, which accords with what Allah Almighty says: {Then when they have approached the end of their waiting period, either retain them honorably or part with them honorably.} [Surat at-Talāq: 2] She said: So, what happens after the three incidents of divorce? How do you prevent her from going out, then, you say: There is no alimony for her unless she is pregnant? Then, on what grounds do you restrain her? She said this as an objection to Marwān, who made the irrevocably divorced woman entitled to housing and prevented her from going out without giving her financial maintenance. To sum up, her objection was: If you do not make the alimony obligatory, how could you prevent her from going out if the alimony is the recompense of being restrained?!.

1481

‘Ā’ishah reported: It is no good for Fātimah to mention this. He said: She was referring to her statement: No housing or financial maintenance..

Commentary : Allah has prescribed divorce for spouses who choose separation after exerting their utmost in reconciliation between them. He has made it three incidents of divorce so that each of the two spouses would reconsider their stance. Otherwise, they would be separated after the third incident of divorce, and she becomes unlawful for him after this until she gets married to another man. Islam has also regulated the rights and duties between spouses after divorce.
In this Hadīth, Muhammad ibn al-Qāsim narrates that when the Mother of the Believers ‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) was informed of what Fātimah bint Qays had said, namely that her husband had divorced her thrice and the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not make her entitled to housing or financial maintenance during her ‘Iddah (waiting period), she said disapprovingly: "It is no good for Fātimah" bint Qays "to mention" and narrate "this" Hadīth to people because it contradicts the explicit texts of the Book of Allah Almighty and the Sunnah of His Messenger (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).
A group of the Companions, including ‘Umar, ‘Ā’ishah and others, rejected the Hadīth of Fātimah bint Qays because it contradicts, in their opinion, the verse in which Allah Almighty says: {O Prophet, when you [believers] divorce women, divorce them with concern to their waiting period and keep an accurate count of the waiting period, and fear Allah, your Lord. Do not force them out of their houses, nor should they leave unless they commit a clear shameful act. Such are the limits ordained by Allah.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1] It is said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded her to leave her house and spend her 'Iddah in the house of Ibn' Umm Maktūm and did not make her entitled to financial maintenance only because of her special case, as she used to verbally offend her husband's family, or because she was in a desolate place and it was feared that her husband or anyone else might assault her. 'Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) censured her narration..

1482

Fātimah bint Qays reported that she said: "O Messenger of Allah, my husband divorced me thrice, and I am afraid that my house will be broken into." So, he commanded her, and she moved (to another house)..

Commentary : Allah has prescribed divorce for spouses who choose separation after exerting their utmost in attempting reconciliation between them. He has made it three divorces; so that each of the two spouses would reconsider their stance. Otherwise, they would be separated after the third divorce, and she becomes unlawful for him after this until she gets married to another man. Islam has also regulated the rights and duties between spouses after divorce. Allah Almighty has commanded the divorced woman - whether the divorce is revocable or irrevocable - to spend the ‘Iddah (waiting period) in her house. Allah Almighty says: {O Prophet, when you [believers] divorce women, divorce them with concern to their waiting period and keep an accurate count of the waiting period, and fear Allah, your Lord. Do not force them out of their houses, nor should they leave unless they commit a clear shameful act. Such are the limits ordained by Allah.} [Surat at-Talāq: 1]
In this Hadīth, Fātimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she came to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, my husband divorced me thrice," so the divorce was irrevocable and final. "And I am afraid that my house will be broken into" during her stay in his house for her ‘Iddah. "Iqtihām" (breaking into): entering quickly. This means: She was afraid that someone would enter upon her and harm her because she was in a desolate place. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded her to leave that place and she went to the house of her paternal cousin, Ibn ’Umm Maktūm, because he was blind, and she could take off her clothes without him seeing her. Since she did not spend her ‘Iddah in her husband's house, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) did not make her entitled to habitation or financial sustenance during her ‘Iddah..

1483

Jābir ibn ‘Abdullah reported: My maternal aunt was divorced, and she wanted to harvest her date palm trees. A man rebuked her for going out, so she went to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) who said: "Yes, go out and harvest your date palm trees, for you may give (some of it) in charity or do a good deed.".

Commentary : The Islamic Shariah has brought facilitation and goodness to people. It takes into consideration their conditions when carrying out the Shariah rulings to prevent them from falling into difficulty or distress.
In this Hadīth, Jābir ibn ‘Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) narrates that his maternal aunt - it was said: her name is Asmā’ - was irrevocably divorced, as mentioned in the version of Abu Dāwūd: "My maternal aunt was divorced thrice." She wanted to go out, during her ‘Iddah (waiting period), to collect the fruits from her date palm trees; however, a man rebuked her and forbade her from going out until her ‘Iddah was over. She went to the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) to ask him. She informed him of what had happened and of her condition and her need for harvesting her date palm trees and asked him if it was permissible for her to go out of her house during her ‘Iddah due to this necessity. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessing be upon him) replied saying: "Yes," and the version of Abu Dāwūd reads: "Go out," and collect your fruits, for perhaps after collecting the fruit of your date palm trees you may give part of it in charity to the poor and the needy "or do a good deed." "Ma‘rūf" (good deed): a comprehensive name including every known act of obeying Allah and doing good to people. This is an explanation of permitting the act of going out, even though it came in the form of notifying and urging her to do good. Moreover, he permitted her to go out due to her need to look after her interests, her date palm trees, and her properties as understood from the apparent indication of the beginning of the Hadīth.
Perhaps the difference between charity and a good deed is that the former refers to obligatory charity, while the latter refers to voluntary charity. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said this to her only because he knew that she was a charitable person, who used to do good deeds frequently, or he answered her with what would guide her to charity and voluntary charity, and this denotes obvious kindness and wisdom.
The Hadīth implies guiding the questioner to what is good for him in his religion and worldly matters and adding to the response what the questioner needs.
It also indicates the permissibility of going out for the divorced woman during her ‘Iddah for a necessity and for fulfilling her interests that she cannot dispense with.
It denotes the permissibility of being keen on preserving wealth and acquiring it to do good and use it in consoling others.
It also indicates that charity in dates is to be given at the time of their harvest, and gifting others therefrom.
It also includes giving an indirect reference to the dates' owner to give charity and reminding him of good deeds and beneficence..

1493

Sa‘īd ibn Jubayr reported: I was asked about the two who swore the oath of condemnation during the governance of Mus‘ab; should they be separated? I did not know what to say, so I went to Ibn ‘Umar's house in Makkah. I said to the servant: Seek permission for me. He said: He is taking a nap; but he heard my voice and said: Is this Ibn Jubayr? I said: Yes. He said: Come in. By Allah, you have not come at this time except for a need. I entered and found him lying on a saddlecloth and resting his head on a fibre-filled pillow. I said: O Abu ‘Abdur-Rahmān, should the two involved in a case of Li‘ān (oath of condemnation) be separated? He said: Glory be to Allah! Yes. The first one who asked about this was so-and-so, the son of so-and-so. He said: O Messenger of Allah, what if any of us found his wife committing adultery? What should he do? If he were to say anything, his statement would be a horrible matter, and if he were to remain silent, his silence about the matter would also be terrible. He said: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) kept silent and did not answer him. Later on, he came to him and said: I have been afflicted with what I asked you about. Thereupon, Allah Almighty revealed these verses of Surat an-Nūr: {As for those who accuse their wives [of adultery]} [Surat an-Nūr: 6] So, he recited them to him, admonished and reminded him, and informed him that the worldly punishment is less severe than the punishment of the Hereafter. He said: No, by the One Who sent you with the truth I did not lie about her. Then, he called her, admonished and reminded her and informed her that the worldly punishment is less severe than the punishment of the Hereafter. She said: No, by the One Who sent you with the truth, he is a liar. So, he started with the man who testified four times by Allah that he was truthful and the fifth time that the curse of Allah would be upon him if he were a liar. Then, the woman came next, and she testified four times by Allah that he was a liar and the fifth time that Allah's wrath would be upon her if he were truthful. Then, he separated the two of them..

Commentary : The noble Shariah has clarified the rulings of marriage between the man and the woman and has explained the rulings of the husband's accusation of his wife for committing adultery without evidence and the consequent practice of Li‘ān, besides other rulings of separation, to protect lineages, repel shame from the spouses, and ward off the legally prescribed punishment of Qadhf (false accusation of adultery).
In this Hadīth, the great Tābi‘i Sa‘īd ibn Jubayr tells us that he was asked about the ruling of the two involved in Li‘ān - when a husband accuses his wife of adultery and denies the attribution of her child to himself and the woman negates this, they are required to practice Li‘ān (oath of condemnation) - should they be separated? He did not know what to say and was not aware of the ruling in this regard, and this was during the governance of Mus‘ab ibn az-Zubayr, who was the ruler of Iraq. Mus‘ab did not separate the spouses who practiced Li‘ān, as clarified in another version of Muslim.
Sa‘īd said: "So, I went to the house of Ibn ‘Umar in Makkah" showing that it was a different house than that in Madīnah. It seems that it was the house of Ibn ‘Umar where he stayed when going to Makkah for Hajj or ‘Umrah, and it seems also that Sa‘īd traveled from Kūfah to Makkah. On reaching the house of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father), he asked the boy, Ibn ‘Umar's servant, to seek permission for him to enter. The servant informed him that Ibn ‘Umar was taking a nap, it was noontime and midday. Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) heard the voice of Ibn Jubayr and recognized him and asked: Is this Ibn Jubayr who is asking for permission? Ibn Jubayr replied: Yes, I am Sa‘īd ibn Jubayr. So, he permitted him to enter and said: "By Allah, you have not come at this time except for a need." This signifies the understanding and modesty of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) and how he did not make things difficult for whoever needed him during his rest, knowing that the one who would come to him during his rest had only come for a necessity; hence, he should not be upset with him; rather, he should receive him with a cheerful face. Ibn Jubayr entered upon Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) and found him lying on a "saddlecloth," a cloth laid on an animal's back under the saddle, and he was resting his head on a pillow, which is a cushion, and it was filled with fiber, i.e., tree or palm cortex.
Then, Sa‘īd ibn Jubayr said: "O Abu ‘Abdur-Rahmān," which is the nickname of ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar, and he asked him: Should the two involved in a case of Li‘ān be separated? Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) said: "Glory be to Allah! Yes." Ibn ‘Umar glorified Allah to express his surprise that Sa‘īd ibn Jubayr was unaware of this famous ruling. Ibn ‘Umar then said: "The first one who asked about this," i.e., the first one who asked the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) about what you asked me about "was so-and-so the son of so-and-so," who was ‘Uwaymir al-‘Ajlāni as mentioned in another version in Sahīh Muslim Collection: "The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) separated between the two members of Banu al-‘Ajlān." He asked: O Messenger of Allah, tell me about the ruling of one who found his wife committing adultery; what should he do in such a situation? If he spoke about what he had seen, "his statement would be a horrible matter" that people would find disgusting. It would be Qadhf (false accusation of adultery) that entails flogging as a legally prescribed punishment in case he brought no evidence. "And if he were to remain silent" and did not speak about what he had seen, his silence about the matter would also be horrible and an unbearable feeling of anger. Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) remained silent and did not answer the man's question, waiting for the revelation and considering this a serious issue. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) would hate questions about things that did not occur. This man who asked the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) came back after some time and said: O Messenger of Allah, "I have been afflicted by" the matter I had asked you about, i.e., I have been afflicted and tested in this regard, as I saw my wife committing adultery. Thereupon, Allah Almighty revealed verses of Surat an-Nūr: {As for those who accuse their wives [of adultery] but have no witnesses except themselves, then the evidence of one of them is to testify four times by Allah that he is telling the truth, and the fifth [oath] is that may Allah curse him if he is telling a lie. But she will be spared the punishment if she testifies four times by Allah that he is telling a lie, and the fifth [oath] is that may Allah’s wrath be upon her if he is telling the truth.} [Surat an-Nūr: 6-9] This means: That Men who accuse their wives without having witnesses besides their own selves to testify to the truthfulness of their accusation, each of them should testify four times by Allah: that he is telling the truth about accusing his wife of adultery, then, in the fifth testimony, he should add the supplication against himself of being worthy of curse if he was lying about his accusation, which makes her subject to the legal prescribed punishment of adultery. What spares her this punishment is to testify four times by Allah that he is lying about accusing her, then, in her fifth testimony, she should add the supplication against herself of being liable to Allah's wrath if he was telling the truth about what he accuses her of.
The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) recited these verses to the man and admonished him in the hope that he might take back his accusation "and reminded him" to repent, telling him that the worldly punishment - which is the legally prescribed punishment of Qadhf - is less severe and much easier than the punishment of the Hereafter. However, the man said: "No" I shall not take back what I said because it is true, and he swore, saying: By the One Who sent you with the truth, I did not lie about her by accusing her of adultery and immorality. Then, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) called the woman and admonished her to repent in case she had sinned. He reminded and informed her that the worldly punishment - which is the prescribed punishment of adultery, i.e., being stoned - is less severe and much easier than the punishment of the Hereafter. However, the woman swore that her husband was lying in his claim against her. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) commanded both of them to swear the oath of condemnation. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) started with the man since Allah Almighty started with him in the verse. The man swore four times by Allah that he was telling the truth about what he accused her of, and in the fifth testimony, he invoked the curse upon himself if he was a liar. Then, it was the woman's turn. So, she swore four times by Allah that her husband was lying about his claim against her by accusing her of adultery and immorality, and in the fifth, she supplicated against herself invoking Allah's wrath upon her if her husband was truthful in what he said. So, none of them admitted the truthfulness of the other. Hence, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) separated between them. One of the rulings of Li‘ān is that if each of the spouses insists on what he said, then, they should not be united after Li‘ān and their marriage is invalidated.
The Hadīth clarifies the ruling of Li‘ān and its manner.
It points out how the sinner should be admonished and reminded of repentance..

1495

‘Abdullah reported: It was Friday night, and we were in the mosque when a man from the Ansār (supporters) came and said: If a man found another man with his wife and he speaks about it, you will flog him; or if he kills, you will kill him; and if he remains silent, he will remain silent in anger. By Allah, I will surely ask the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) about it. On the next day, he came to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and asked him saying: If a man found another man with his wife and he speaks about it, you will flog him; or if he kills, you will kill him; or if he remains silent, he will remain silent in anger. He said: O Allah, judge; and he kept supplicating, so the verse of Li‘ān (oath of condemnation) was revealed: {As for those who accuse their wives [of adultery] but have no witnesses except themselves} [Surat an-Nūr: 6], these verses. This man, of all people, was afflicted with this. So, he came with his wife to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and swore the oath of condemnation. The man testified four times by Allah that he was from the truthful, then, the fifth time he invoked a curse that Allah's curse be upon him if he was from the liars. She went to invoke a curse, but the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: Stop. However, she refused and invoked a curse. After they had both left, he said: Perhaps she will give birth to a curly-haired black child, and she gave birth to a curly-haired black child..

Commentary : The Shariah has clarified the rulings of marriage between the man and the woman and has explained the rulings of the husband's accusation of his wife for committing adultery without evidence and the consequent practice of Li‘ān, besides other rulings of separation, to protect lineages, repel shame from the spouses, and ward off the legally prescribed punishment of Qadhf (false accusation of adultery).
In this Hadīth, ‘Abdullah ibn Mas‘ūd (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that they were in the Prophet's mosque on Friday night when a man from the Ansār - the people of Madīnah - came. It was Hilāl ibn ’Umayyah, and it is said: ‘Uwaymir al-‘Ajlāni. He said: "If a man found another man with his wife," i.e., he saw her committing adultery with him. If "he speaks" about it, "you will flog him" inflicting on him the legally prescribed punishment of Qadhf for having no witnesses, and if "he kills" the adulterer, "you will kill him" by way of legal retribution. "And if he remains silent" and does nothing, "he will remain silent in anger," i.e., anger and hatred for her. It seems that the man's speech was before the revelation of the verses of Li‘ān and it also seems that it was a mere question posed by that man at that time, not a real incident that had already occurred. The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) used to hate such questions as mentioned in the Hadīth of Sahl ibn Sa‘d in the two Sahīh Collections.
Then, this man swore to ask the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) about this matter. On the next day - the next morning - the man went to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) asking about what was previously mentioned. Thereupon, the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) supplicated: "O Allah, judge," i.e., clarify to us the ruling in this regard, and he continued supplicating Allah Almighty to clarify this incident, so, the verses of Li‘ān were revealed. These are the verses in which Allah Almighty says: {As for those who accuse their wives [of adultery] but have no witnesses except themselves, then the evidence of one of them is to testify four times by Allah that he is telling the truth, and the fifth [oath] is that may Allah curse him if he is telling a lie. But she will be spared the punishment if she testifies four times by Allah that he is telling a lie, and the fifth [oath] is that may Allah’s wrath be upon her if he is telling the truth.} [Surat an-Nūr: 6-9] This means: Men who accuse their wives without having witnesses besides their own selves to testify to the truthfulness of their accusation, each of them should swear four times by Allah that he is telling the truth about accusing his wife of adultery. Then, in the fifth testimony, he should add the supplication against himself of being worthy of condemnation if he is lying about his accusation, which makes her subject to the legally prescribed punishment of adultery. What spares her of this punishment is to testify four times by Allah that he is lying about accusing her. Then, in her fifth testimony, she should add the supplication against herself of being liable for Allah's wrath if he is telling the truth about what he accuses her of.
Among all people, this man was afflicted by the occurrence of what he asked about to his wife. So, he accompanied his wife to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). They both swore the oath of condemnation, i.e., the man testified four times by Allah that he was telling the truth, and then, the fifth time, he invoked the curse of Allah upon himself if he was lying. This is because testimony in an adultery case is not complete except with four witnesses, but this case was witnessed by none except the husband; hence, he was assigned four testimonies so that each oath would replace a witness, as an oath could sometimes replace a witness like when someone is entitled to some right but has one witness only. In this case, the Shariah considers his oath in place of the witness. After completing the four testimonies that replace the four witnesses, nothing is left after the testimony of the four witnesses in adultery against the married person, as in this case, except stoning, which is death. There is nothing left after taking the oath of condemnation four times except the curse of Allah Almighty or His wrath, which also indicates death (ruin). The woman, then, went to swear the oath of condemnation, but the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Stop," a word meant here to deter her, i.e., refrain and take your time. However, she refused to stop or be dissuaded from completing Li‘ān. Hence, she took her part in Li‘ān. When the two parties swore the oath of condemnation and went away after finishing their testimonies, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Perhaps she will give birth to" the baby in her womb, and he will be "a curly-haired black child," i.e., not straight-haired, which was the description of the one she was accused of committing adultery with. It is as if the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) most likely believed that she was lying, and the child she gave birth to was just as the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) had described.
The Hadīth clarifies that the ruling of Li‘ān, in principle, is to take place between the man and his wife if he accuses her of adultery and has no witness but himself.
It also points out that things must be judged according to what is apparent, whereas Allah Almighty is the One Who judges the intentions.
It explains how Li‘an must take place in the presence of the Imam or the judge and in the presence of an assembly of people.
It shows the condition that makes Li‘ān obligatory, which is the woman's denial of committing adultery because if she admits it, Li‘ān becomes impermissible and she becomes subject to the legally prescribed punishment.
It also signifies that it is Sunnah for the ruler to admonish the two persons involved in Li‘ān when intending to swear the oath of condemnation, which becomes confirmed after the fifth time..

1496

Muhammad ibn Sīrīn reported: I asked Anas ibn Mālik, knowing that he had knowledge of that, and he said: Hilāl ibn ’Umayyah accused his wife of committing adultery with Sharīk ibn Sahmā’, the brother of Al-Barā’ ibn Mālik from his mother's side. He was the first man who practiced Li‘ān (oath of condemnation) in Islam. He swore oaths of Li‘ān against his wife, so the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Watch her, if she gives birth to a white-complexioned child having straight hair and sore eyes, he is the son of Hilāl ibn ’Umayyah, but if she gives birth to a child with dark eyelids, curly hair, and thin shanks, then he is the son of Sharīk ibn Sahmā’." He (the narrator) said: I was informed that she gave birth to a child with dark eyelids, curly hair, and thin shanks..

1498

Abu Hurayrah reported: Sa‘d ibn ‘Ubādah al-Ansāri said: O Messenger of Allah, what if a man finds his wife with another man? Should he kill him? The Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: No. Sa‘d said: Yes, by the One Who honored you with the truth. Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Listen to what your master is saying!.

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Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said about the slave whose ownership is shared between two men and one of them emancipates him, he said: He should guarantee..

Commentary : The Shariah has protected all rights including the partners' rights. It has forbidden any kind of offense practiced by one partner against the other. This Hadīth clarifies that when two people own a slave jointly and one of them emancipates his share of that slave, this entails emancipating the rest of the slave. When the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He should guarantee," it meant that the emancipator should guarantee his partner's share of the slave whom he emancipated, i.e., he is financially responsible for securing the complete freedom of that slave. In the Two Sahīh Collections: "But if he has no money, the slave will be required to work to pay for his freedom, but must not be overburdened." So, it made it clear that if the emancipator is poor and has no money to free the rest of the slave, he remains in slavery and is required to work for his freedom and to pay for the share of the partner who did not emancipate him. However, he should not be assigned tasks that are hard for him or beyond his ability..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the last ten nights of Ramadan,' on the night when nine or seven or five nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan (i.e., the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights respectively).”.

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet ﷺ used to tighten his waist belt and used to devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers..

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "A time will come when one will not care much how he gains his wealth, lawfully or unlawfully!".

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "If a woman spends something (i.e., in charity) from her husband's earnings without his permission, he will get half the reward.".

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him):
I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "Whoever desires to have his Rizq (i.e., provisions) and life span expanded (i.e., blessed), should uphold ties of kinship.".

‘Ā’ishah reported: It is no good for Fātimah to mention this. He said: She was referring to her statement: No housing or financial maintenance..

Fātimah bint Qays reported that she said: "O Messenger of Allah, my husband divorced me thrice, and I am afraid that my house will be broken into." So, he commanded her, and she moved (to another house)..

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said about the slave whose ownership is shared between two men and one of them emancipates him, he said: He should guarantee..

Book of Hadith

| Hadiths

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the last ten nights of Ramadan,' on the night when nine or seven or five nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan (i.e., the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights respectively).”.

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her): With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet ﷺ used to tighten his waist belt and used to devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers..

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Prophet ﷺ said, "A time will come when one will not care much how he gains his wealth, lawfully or unlawfully!".

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Prophet ﷺ said, "If a woman spends something (i.e., in charity) from her husband's earnings without his permission, he will get half the reward.".

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him): I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "Whoever desires to have his Rizq (i.e., provisions) and life span expanded (i.e., blessed), should uphold ties of kinship.".

‘Ā’ishah reported: It is no good for Fātimah to mention this. He said: She was referring to her statement: No housing or financial maintenance..

Fātimah bint Qays reported that she said: "O Messenger of Allah, my husband divorced me thrice, and I am afraid that my house will be broken into." So, he commanded her, and she moved (to another house)..

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said about the slave whose ownership is shared between two men and one of them emancipates him, he said: He should guarantee..

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek the Night of Al-Qadr in the last ten nights of Ramadan,' on the night when nine or seven or five nights remain out of the last ten nights of Ramadan (i.e., the 21st, the 23rd, and the 25th nights respectively).”.

‘Narrated Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her):
With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet ﷺ used to tighten his waist belt and used to devote his whole night to worship, and used to wake up his family for the prayers..

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "A time will come when one will not care much how he gains his wealth, lawfully or unlawfully!".

Narrated Aboo Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Prophet ﷺ said, "If a woman spends something (i.e., in charity) from her husband's earnings without his permission, he will get half the reward.".

Narrated Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him):
I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ saying, "Whoever desires to have his Rizq (i.e., provisions) and life span expanded (i.e., blessed), should uphold ties of kinship.".